If Tuesday’s episode on addiction and codependency stirred something inside you, this one is here to help you actually shift it.
Some episodes are for learning, and some are for recovering. This is your chance to drop in, breathe deeper, and reconnect with the part of you that’s been carrying so much.
Inside this guided somatic + IFS meditation, you’ll:
This is about more than insight—it’s about embodiment. So if you’re ready to let your body lead the way back to safety and healing, press play and join me.
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A podcast exploring the journey of life after divorce, delving into topics like divorce grief, loneliness, anxiety, the impact of different attachment styles and codependency, setting healthy boundaries, energy healing with homeopathy, managing the nervous system during divorce depression, understanding the stages of divorce grief, and using the Law of Attraction and EMDR therapy in the process of forgiveness and letting go.
Ever sworn you wouldn’t check his Instagram at 1 a.m. … and still did? Or did you tell yourself, “just one glass,” and finish the bottle? That loop isn’t just bad habits—it’s codependency as addiction.
In this episode of Dear Divorce Diary, dawn, Producer Joy, and Coach Tiffini unpack how post-divorce codependency functions like a hidden addiction—hooking you on approval, fixing, and being chosen. We’ll explore:
✨ Why shame (not loneliness) is the engine that keeps you stuck
✨ The breadcrumb → boundary cycle every divorced woman knows too well
✨ How “good girl” conditioning rewires your nervous system for addiction
✨ Practical ways to interrupt the dopamine-drama loop
You don’t need another glass, another scroll, or another half-love. You need a nervous system that feels safe—and that’s what we help women build every day.
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A podcast exploring the journey of life after divorce, delving into topics like divorce grief, loneliness, anxiety, manifesting, the impact of different attachment styles and codependency, setting healthy boundaries, energy healing with homeopathy, managing the nervous system during divorce depression, understanding the stages of divorce grief, and using the Law of Attraction and EMDR therapy in the process of building your confidence, forgiveness and letting go.
When you’re in crisis, your nervous system isn’t neutral—it’s running survival programs. Fight, flight, freeze, repeat. And when you tell yourself “not now”, that’s not laziness or failure—it’s a protective pattern your body believes is keeping you safe.
But here’s the thing: survival mode isn’t meant to be permanent. It quietly drains your energy, feeds old beliefs like “I can’t do this,” and keeps you circling the same pain.
In this episode of Dear Divorce Diary, we explore:
✨ Why the nervous system convinces us to wait until things feel calmer before healing
✨ How beliefs like “not now” or “what if it doesn’t work” keep you locked in survival loops
✨ The energetic cost of staying in crisis—and what shifts when you allow safety to be restored
✨ What happens in the very first month of our program that helps women feel grounded, resourced, and ready for lasting change
Healing isn’t about pushing harder. It’s about creating safety, updating beliefs, and letting your body remember how to release what it’s been carrying.
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A podcast exploring the journey of life after divorce, delving into topics like divorce grief, loneliness, anxiety, manifesting, the impact of different attachment styles and codependency, setting healthy boundaries, energy healing with homeopathy, managing the nervous system during divorce depression, understanding the stages of divorce grief, and using the Law of Attraction and EMDR therapy in the process of building your confidence, forgiveness and letting go.
Trust and money go hand in hand after divorce—yet both feel broken. When the person who swore forever betrayed you, even opening your wallet can feel unsafe.
You’ll Learn
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and build nervous-system safety alongside financial confidence.
When trust is broken in marriage, it doesn’t just live in your memories—it shows up in how you relate to money. Bills, budgets, even dreams of independence can trigger the same body-wide fear you felt in betrayal.
In this episode, I share how to understand the trust-money connection, and what your nervous system needs to feel grounded again. When money feels safe, you stop shrinking and start creating a future you actually trust.
Money after divorce doesn’t have to feel unsafe—healing starts in your nervous system.
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A podcast exploring the journey of life after divorce, delving into topics like divorce grief, loneliness, anxiety, manifesting, the impact of different attachment styles and codependency, setting healthy boundaries, energy healing with homeopathy, managing the nervous system during divorce depression, understanding the stages of divorce grief, and using the Law of Attraction and EMDR therapy in the process of building your confidence, forgiveness and letting go.
Most women know long before the papers are signed that their marriage is crumbling. But why do we ignore that inner knowing?
You’ll Learn
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and learn to hear and honor your inner voice.
Deep down, most divorced women admit they knew. They felt it in their body, in their gut, in the quiet moments of doubt—but stayed anyway. In this episode, I unpack why we override our intuition, how trauma and codependency keep us in cycles of denial, and what it takes to reclaim the wisdom you already have. Your body has always known the truth. It’s time to finally listen.
After divorce, your body’s intuition is the compass that leads you forward.
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A podcast exploring the journey of life after divorce, delving into topics like divorce grief, loneliness, anxiety, the impact of different attachment styles and codependency, setting healthy boundaries, energy healing with homeopathy, managing the nervous system during divorce depression, understanding the stages of divorce grief, and using the Law of Attraction and EMDR therapy in the process of forgiveness and letting go.
Divorce closes one chapter—but it can also open a hidden door. On the other side: freedom, confidence, and a life you never thought possible.
You’ll Learn
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and create the confidence and freedom your future deserves.
For many women, divorce feels like an ending. But what if it’s also the beginning of the life you were meant to live? In this episode, I reveal the surprising ways divorce can reset your relationship with money, confidence, and purpose. When your nervous system feels safe again, you’re free to make choices that align with who you really are—not who you were trying to be for someone else.
Divorce can unlock financial freedom and confidence when you heal at the nervous-system level.
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A podcast exploring the journey of life after divorce, delving into topics like divorce grief, loneliness, anxiety, manifesting, the impact of different attachment styles and codependency, setting healthy boundaries, energy healing with homeopathy, managing the nervous system during divorce depression, understanding the stages of divorce grief, and using the Law of Attraction and EMDR therapy in the process of building your confidence, forgiveness and letting go.
If your divorce healing feels stuck, the block may be hiding in your sexual self-acceptance. It’s not about sex—it’s about shame.
You’ll Learn
💎 Healing isn’t about pushing past shame—it’s about learning safety in your body. Join A Different D Word
Many divorced women feel stuck in their healing, not realizing the real block is sexual self-acceptance. This isn’t about performance—it’s about permission. Permission to feel, to be whole, to stop carrying the shame you never chose. In this episode, we walk you through why this layer of healing matters and how to begin giving yourself the grace you’ve always deserved.
Sexual self-acceptance is the missing piece in many women’s divorce recovery journeys.
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A podcast exploring the journey of life after divorce, delving into topics like divorce grief, loneliness, anxiety, manifesting, the impact of different attachment styles and codependency, setting healthy boundaries, energy healing with homeopathy, managing the nervous system during divorce depression, understanding the stages of divorce grief, and using the Law of Attraction and EMDR therapy in the process of building your confidence, forgiveness and letting go.
Success hides pain well—until divorce rips the mask away. What happens when achievement no longer protects you?
You’ll Learn
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and heal without needing to perform strength.
High-achieving women often wear success like armor. But when divorce cracks the surface, all the grief, shame, and exhaustion underneath finally spill out. This episode explores why high-achievers struggle so deeply after divorce, what the nervous system reveals about burnout, and how to release the mask once and for all. Freedom isn’t about pretending—you’re allowed to be seen.
Divorce recovery for high-achieving women means dropping the mask and finding safety in being real.
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A podcast exploring the journey of life after divorce, delving into topics like divorce grief, loneliness, anxiety, manifesting, the impact of different attachment styles and codependency, setting healthy boundaries, energy healing with homeopathy, managing the nervous system during divorce depression, understanding the stages of divorce grief, and using the Law of Attraction and EMDR therapy in the process of building your confidence, forgiveness and letting go.
Peace-keeping wives keep everyone happy—except themselves. Divorce forces the silence to break, and that’s when real healing begins.
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and learn to rebuild with safety, boundaries, and freedom.
So many women spend years smoothing things over, avoiding conflict, and carrying the weight of everyone else’s comfort. But in divorce, silence doesn’t protect—it suffocates. In this episode, I uncover the silent epidemic of peace-keeping wives, why it feels safer to appease than to speak, and how to finally let your truth breathe. Real recovery isn’t about keeping the peace—it’s about finding your peace.
Breaking free from people-pleasing is essential to post-divorce healing.
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A podcast exploring the journey of life after divorce, delving into topics like divorce grief, loneliness, anxiety, manifesting, the impact of different attachment styles and codependency, setting healthy boundaries, energy healing with homeopathy, managing the nervous system during divorce depression, understanding the stages of divorce grief, and using the Law of Attraction and EMDR therapy in the process of building your confidence, forgiveness and letting go.
If asking for help feels impossible, you’re not broken—you’re overloaded. Divorce isn’t just grief; it’s carrying more than one nervous system can hold.
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After divorce, many women insist, “I’ve got it.” But inside, they’re drowning. This episode explains why asking for help feels like failure when in reality, it’s survival. I’ll share how overload keeps your nervous system on high alert, and how small steps toward receiving support can bring relief, connection, and trust back into your life.
Divorce recovery means learning to receive support—not just give it.
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A podcast exploring the journey of life after divorce, delving into topics like divorce grief, loneliness, anxiety, manifesting, the impact of different attachment styles and codependency, setting healthy boundaries, energy healing with homeopathy, managing the nervous system during divorce depression, understanding the stages of divorce grief, and using the Law of Attraction and EMDR therapy in the process of building your confidence, forgiveness and letting go.
When divorce shatters your world, your nervous system doesn’t forget—it waits. And when it finally feels safe, the real healing begins.
You’ll Learn
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Divorce may be behind you, but your body still remembers the shock, the grief, and the fear. In this episode, I explore how the nervous system stores trauma, why it waits until safety is present, and what happens when your body finally exhales. Healing isn’t about rushing forward—it’s about allowing your system to release what it’s been holding since everything changed.
Your nervous system holds the key to deep healing after divorce.
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A podcast exploring the journey of life after divorce, delving into topics like divorce grief, loneliness, anxiety, manifesting, the impact of different attachment styles and codependency, setting healthy boundaries, energy healing with homeopathy, managing the nervous system during divorce depression, understanding the stages of divorce grief, and using the Law of Attraction and EMDR therapy in the process of building your confidence, forgiveness and letting go.
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Dating after divorce can bring unexpected deal breakers—like herpes. But the real question isn’t the diagnosis, it’s the meaning we give it.
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Conversations about herpes, sexual health, and deal breakers are uncomfortable—but they matter. Divorce offers a chance to reset how you approach love, honesty, and self-worth. In this episode, I share why sexual shame holds women back, how to navigate hard conversations with potential partners, and what truly determines whether a relationship thrives.
Dating after divorce requires confidence, honesty, and self-acceptance.
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A podcast exploring the journey of life after divorce, delving into topics like divorce grief, loneliness, anxiety, manifesting, the impact of different attachment styles and codependency, setting healthy boundaries, energy healing with homeopathy, managing the nervous system during divorce depression, understanding the stages of divorce grief, and using the Law of Attraction and EMDR therapy in the process of building your confidence, forgiveness and letting go.
For some women, faith communities feel like sacred spaces. For others, they become shackles. Divorce makes the cracks impossible to ignore.
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💎 Healing means reclaiming faith on your terms. Join A Different D Word
and find freedom beyond shame.
Religion is supposed to comfort, but for many divorced women, it amplified shame and silence. In this episode, I highlight real women’s stories of religious trauma, how spiritual spaces can become controlling, and the process of separating your soul from dogma. Healing doesn’t mean abandoning faith—it means reclaiming it in a way that nurtures, not controls.
Religious trauma after divorce can transform into spiritual freedom.
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A podcast exploring the journey of life after divorce, delving into topics like divorce grief, loneliness, anxiety, manifesting, the impact of different attachment styles and codependency, setting healthy boundaries, energy healing with homeopathy, managing the nervous system during divorce depression, understanding the stages of divorce grief, and using the Law of Attraction and EMDR therapy in the process of building your confidence, forgiveness and letting go.
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Is It Still Faith If I Don’t Feel Safe?
Have you ever walked out of a church meeting feeling more broken, ashamed, or dismissed than before you went in—wondering if it’s even possible to honor your faith and protect your safety at the same time?
For women facing divorce, church is often positioned as a lifeline—but what happens when the lifeline turns into a source of confusion, shame, or spiritual wounding? If you’ve found yourself battling self-doubt, wrestling with religious trauma, or feeling frozen by judgment instead of comfort, this episode gets right to the heart of why so many people lose their sense of spiritual safety during marital distress and divorce.
In this conversation, you’ll gain insights into how to rebuild spiritual trust and belonging after religious trauma, discover why shame and “spiritual bypassing” can derail your healing journey, and explore practical ways to reconnect with faith and community without sacrificing your boundaries or well-being.
Press play now to hear real women’s stories, expert perspectives, and tangible steps for honoring both your faith and your safety as you reclaim your voice and your healing.
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A podcast exploring the journey of life after divorce, delving into topics like divorce grief, loneliness, anxiety, manifesting, the impact of different attachment styles and codependency, setting healthy boundaries, energy healing with homeopathy, managing the nervous system during divorce depression, understanding the stages of divorce grief, and using the Law of Attraction and EMDR therapy in the process of building your confidence, forgiveness and letting go.
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Have you ever done something in a moment of anger—something you can’t stop replaying—and wondered if it means you’re no longer allowed to be “the hurt one”?
We all want to walk away from conflict with our dignity and sense of self intact, but when emotions boil over and our reactions cross lines, the guilt and shame can feel paralyzing. If you’re struggling with regret after snapping and are searching for a way to understand, heal, and move forward, you’re not alone, and this conversation is for you.
In this episode, you’ll discover why everyone—and especially women—can reach their breaking point in toxic dynamics, how suppressed emotions and past trauma contribute to sudden outbursts, and practical ways to reframe your mistakes as calls for healing rather than proof you’re beyond forgiveness.
Press play now to hear real talk and real hope on moving through shame, so you can finally build a healthier relationship with yourself and those you love.
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A podcast exploring the journey of life after divorce, delving into topics like divorce grief, loneliness, anxiety, the impact of different attachment styles and codependency, setting healthy boundaries, energy healing with homeopathy, managing the nervous system during divorce depression, understanding the stages of divorce grief, and using the Law of Attraction and EMDR therapy in the process of forgiveness and letting go.
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What if the real reason you stayed in your marriage wasn't what everyone assumes—and what if unraveling wasn't the worst thing that could happen?
If you've ever felt trapped by fear, exhaustion, or shame about leaving—or not leaving—a marriage, you aren't alone. The truth is, "staying for the kids" is rarely the whole story, and the collapse you fear may already be with you. But what if there’s another way to find your footing and rebuild, even in your rawest, most depleted moments?
In this episode, you’ll discover:
Press play now for a deeply honest, hope-filled conversation that just might give you the clarity (and relief) you’ve been waiting for.
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A podcast exploring the journey of life after divorce, delving into topics like divorce grief, loneliness, anxiety, manifesting, the impact of different attachment styles and codependency, setting healthy boundaries, energy healing with homeopathy, managing the nervous system during divorce depression, understanding the stages of divorce grief, and using the Law of Attraction and EMDR therapy in the process of building your confidence, forgiveness and letting go.
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Would you ever confess to sleeping with your ex’s best friend before your divorce was finalized—or would you keep that secret buried forever?
Divorce is messy enough, but what happens when real human needs for comfort, connection, and validation push us toward choices we never pictured ourselves making?
If you’ve ever worried that your own healing process might be "too messy" or that your search for pleasure and being seen makes you less deserving of compassion, you’re not alone. This episode dives deep into the shame, loneliness, and judgment women so often face after divorce, especially when it comes to reclaiming their pleasure and self-worth in ways society doesn’t always approve of.
In this honest, no-holds-barred listen, you’ll discover:
Ready to feel seen, supported, and inspired to embrace your own messy, honest healing after divorce? Hit play and join the conversation with women who get it.
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A podcast exploring the journey of life after divorce, delving into topics like divorce grief, loneliness, anxiety, the impact of different attachment styles and codependency, setting healthy boundaries, energy healing with homeopathy, managing the nervous system during divorce depression, understanding the stages of divorce grief, and using the Law of Attraction and EMDR therapy in the process of forgiveness and letting go.
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Have you ever heard your child use your ex’s hurtful words—and felt a wave of dread because it sounds just like them all over again?
As a divorced parent, nothing stings quite like realizing your child is picking up the same language, tones, or behaviors that once caused you pain. If you’re triggered when your kid starts echoing your ex—or even acting out patterns you’re desperate to leave behind—you’re not alone, and you don’t have to stay stuck in shame, guilt, or confusion.
In this episode, you’ll discover why this emotional gut-punch is so common for co-parents and single moms, how your own triggers say more about your unhealed wounds than your child’s choices, and what to do in the moment to avoid projecting old pain onto your kid—while still holding healthy boundaries and compassion. You’ll also learn how to reframe these moments as powerful invitations to break the cycle, model emotional honesty, and create a more secure, attuned bond with your child.
Listen now for real talk, practical healing tools, and some much-needed permission to feel it all—because navigating this pain can become one of the bravest, most transforming steps on your divorce recovery journey.
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A podcast exploring the journey of life after divorce, delving into topics like divorce grief, loneliness, anxiety, manifesting, the impact of different attachment styles and codependency, setting healthy boundaries, energy healing with homeopathy, managing the nervous system during divorce depression, understanding the stages of divorce grief, and using the Law of Attraction and EMDR therapy in the process of building your confidence, forgiveness and letting go.
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Have you ever wondered what happens to all the rage, fear, and heartbreak you push down when you don’t feel safe to leave—but know you can’t keep staying?
If you’re walking on eggshells in your relationship, disconnecting from your truth just to keep the peace, you’re not alone.
Dawn guides beyond “leave or stay” by showing how emotional pain, when suppressed, gets trapped in your body—especially your hips—and keeps you feeling frozen and powerless.
This episode will help you unlock:
Press play now and discover how to gently, safely, and physically move the pain out of your body—so you can finally stop leaving yourself behind.
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A podcast exploring the journey of life after divorce, delving into topics like divorce grief, loneliness, anxiety, the impact of different attachment styles and codependency, setting healthy boundaries, energy healing with homeopathy, managing the nervous system during divorce depression, understanding the stages of divorce grief, and using the Law of Attraction and EMDR therapy in the process of forgiveness and letting go.
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Have you ever felt sure your relationship is over, but just can’t seem to leave, and then wondered what’s wrong with you for staying?
If you’re quietly battling the should-I-stay-or-should-I-go debate or feeling trapped by the complex realities of divorce, you’re not alone. All those well-meaning voices telling you to “just leave” or “do what’s right for the kids” rarely acknowledge the real safety fears, financial worries, or emotional roadblocks that keep you frozen in place.
In this episode, you’ll learn why “Should I stay or should I go?” is the wrong question for people in your shoes, discover how to recognize and support the protector parts of you that are keeping you stuck (without self-blame), and get practical strategies for caring for yourself—body and mind—until you really are ready to take action.
Let this episode be your permission slip to stop beating yourself up and finally start building the clarity, self-belief, and inner safety you need—press play now to learn how to navigate the messy middle of the divorce process with self-compassion and renewed strength.
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A podcast exploring the journey of life after divorce, delving into topics like divorce grief, loneliness, anxiety, manifesting, the impact of different attachment styles and codependency, setting healthy boundaries, energy healing with homeopathy, managing the nervous system during divorce depression, understanding the stages of divorce grief, and using the Law of Attraction and EMDR therapy in the process of building your confidence, forgiveness and letting go.
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Ever feel like there’s a part of you that’s been neglected or unseen since your divorce, no matter how much you try to move forward?
Navigating the fallout from divorce can leave you carrying old wounds—like loneliness, abandonment, or a sense of being unheard. What if you could actually meet those hurting parts of yourself with compassion, rather than pushing them away or just “powering through”?
In this episode, listeners will discover a gentle meditation guided by Dawn using Internal Family Systems (IFS) principles to help you finally tend to those abandoned or unseen parts of yourself. You'll learn to reconnect with your body and breath as an anchor for healing, develop self-compassion as you sit with the parts of you carrying pain, and discover practical ways to release emotional burdens so you can reclaim a sense of belonging and wholeness.
Press play now to experience a deeply restorative IFS meditation that will leave you feeling lighter, safer, and more rooted in self-love.
Post Divorce Roadmap - 21 Days of Guided Journaling
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A podcast exploring the journey of life after divorce, delving into topics like divorce grief, loneliness, anxiety, the impact of different attachment styles and codependency, setting healthy boundaries, energy healing with homeopathy, managing the nervous system during divorce depression, understanding the stages of divorce grief, and using the Law of Attraction and EMDR therapy in the process of forgiveness and letting go.
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Ever wonder why people-pleasing feels so impossible to break—and what it would take to finally let yourself be seen and heard?
If you’re stuck in cycles of making yourself small to keep the peace—whether at work, with your ex, or even around your kids—this episode is for you. We were taught early on that our value depended on how well we cared for everyone else, and those old stories keep running the show long after childhood.
Producer Joy gets real about the roots of her own people-pleasing patterns, and Coach Tiffini walks her through a powerful IFS (Internal Family Systems) session—live and unscripted—that helps link past experiences, somatic sensations, and the beliefs still holding you hostage.
By tuning in, you’ll discover how to recognize the exact moment your people-pleaser takes over, what it means to use somatic tools and EMDR to free yourself from old memory loops, and why integrating body-focused healing (not just talk therapy!) can rewire your responses for good.
You’ll walk away with compassion for your old survival strategies, real-life techniques to set boundaries and speak up, and brand-new ways to actually embody your authentic self instead of just talking about it.
Ready to experience your own breakthrough? Press play now to witness this transformative session—and start giving your inner child permission to run wild.
Post Divorce Roadmap - 21 Days of Guided Journaling
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A podcast exploring the journey of life after divorce, delving into topics like divorce grief, loneliness, anxiety, manifesting, the impact of different attachment styles and codependency, setting healthy boundaries, energy healing with homeopathy, managing the nervous system during divorce depression, understanding the stages of divorce grief, and using the Law of Attraction and EMDR therapy in the process of building your confidence, forgiveness and letting go.
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If you've been strong for everyone else and crave a space where your truth isn't too much - come exhale with us in our exclusive online community and receive the Loneliness Roadmap for free. Join here ✨
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Why does it feel so impossible to let go, even when you know your relationship is built on broken promises and “almosts”?
If you find yourself stuck replaying old messages, hoping for another sign, or endlessly waiting for your ex to finally change, you’re not alone—so many of us are trapped in the addictive cycle of “maybe,” clinging to hope rather than facing the deep fear of being alone.
Listen in to discover why your brain keeps chasing breadcrumbs of hope, how your nervous system gets hooked on the cycle of waiting and disappointment, and why holding on to fantasy actually blocks you from future happiness.
Become a premium subscriber to finally understand and break free from the addiction of “almost,” and find the peace and self-worth you deserve.
Post Divorce Roadmap - 21 Days of Guided Journaling
Join The list for A Different D Word, our personalized healing program.
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/MyCoachDawn
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On the Web: https://www.mycoachdawn.com
A podcast exploring the journey of life after divorce, delving into topics like divorce grief, loneliness, anxiety, the impact of different attachment styles and codependency, setting healthy boundaries, energy healing with homeopathy, managing the nervous system during divorce depression, understanding the stages of divorce grief, and using the Law of Attraction and EMDR therapy in the process of forgiveness and letting go.
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If you've been strong for everyone else and crave a space where your truth isn't too much - come exhale with us in our exclusive online community and receive the Loneliness Roadmap for free. Join here ✨
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Have you ever caught yourself chasing after someone who keeps pulling away, or saying “yes” when every fiber of your being wants to say “no,” just to keep the peace?
If you’re tired of putting everyone else first because deep down you’re scared of being left behind—especially during or after a divorce—you’re not alone.
That habit of self-abandonment isn’t a personal flaw. It’s a survival strategy wired deep into your nervous system, often from early family dynamics, and it can keep you trapped in cycles of unhappiness and disconnection long after the breakup is final.
In this episode, you’ll discover why your nervous system clings to unhealthy patterns even when it hurts, how to finally unburden those old abandonment wounds using Internal Family Systems, EMDR, and homeopathy, and practical steps for dating again without losing yourself or repeating the same mistakes.
Listen now to learn how to break the cycle and finally choose yourself—because you deserve a deep, lasting connection that starts from within.
Post Divorce Roadmap - 21 Days of Guided Journaling
Join The list for A Different D Word, our personalized healing program.
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/MyCoachDawn
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dawnwiggins/
On the Web: https://www.mycoachdawn.com
A podcast exploring the journey of life after divorce, delving into topics like divorce grief, loneliness, anxiety, manifesting, the impact of different attachment styles and codependency, setting healthy boundaries, energy healing with homeopathy, managing the nervous system during divorce depression, understanding the stages of divorce grief, and using the Law of Attraction and EMDR therapy in the process of building your confidence, forgiveness and letting go.
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If you've been strong for everyone else and crave a space where your truth isn't too much - come exhale with us in our exclusive online community and receive the Loneliness Roadmap for free. Join here ✨
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In today's episode we dive deep into why women fresh out of divorce struggle to choose what supports their healing, even when they know what to do.
We're going to unpack the sneaky emotional loops that make short-term relief like numbing, people-pleasing, getting into a fight with your ex feel safer than long-term healing, and how your nervous system is often still in survival mode, prioritizing comfort over growth.
We're also going to talk about why you're more afraid of being rejected by others than you are aware of how often you're rejecting yourself. This episode isn't about shaming yourself for not doing enough. It's about understanding why it feels so hard and what to do differently.
I'm going to give you a very specific calendar task plus a three-question prompt to guide you in that exact moment when you feel the urge to avoid the thing you know would help you heal. You can access the full episode by becoming a premium subscriber, which is just $5 a month.
Post Divorce Roadmap - 21 Days of Guided Journaling
Join The list for A Different D Word, our personalized healing program.
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/MyCoachDawn
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dawnwiggins/
On the Web: https://www.mycoachdawn.com
A podcast exploring the journey of life after divorce, delving into topics like divorce grief, loneliness, anxiety, the impact of different attachment styles and codependency, setting healthy boundaries, energy healing with homeopathy, managing the nervous system during divorce depression, understanding the stages of divorce grief, and using the Law of Attraction and EMDR therapy in the process of forgiveness and letting go.