When your hormones and your heartbreak start tag-teaming your sanity, it can feel like your body and your emotions are working against you. You’re exhausted, irritable, sleepless, and half the time you can’t tell if you’re healing or falling apart.

In this episode, Dawn, Tiffini, and Joy unpack the missing link that brings your body and emotions back onto the same team. Together, they break down:

✨ Why somatics matter — and how real healing starts when you stop trying to “think” your way better and start working through the body.
🔥 The hormone connection — what perimenopause does to your nervous system, mood, and energy, and how to gently support balance again.
💧 The homeopathic solutions we swear by — including the Hot Flash Support blend that changed Joy’s life in under a week and the exclusive Divorce Recovery Blend designed just for Premium listeners.
💗 How to ground your grief — and move through divorce without staying stuck in survival mode.

If you’ve ever wondered why you can be doing “all the right things” and still feel off—this is the conversation that finally connects the dots.

Mentioned in this episode:
– The Divorce Recovery Nervous System Quiz
– Destined Homeopathics Hot Flash Support Blend
– Premium Divorce Recovery Blend (available only to Premium members)

**To order either Hot Flash Support or Divorce Recovery Blend, email hello@mycoachdawn.com and tell us your order!**

💫 Take the next step: Discover your unique nervous system type and how it’s shaping your hormones, emotions, and healing journey after divorce.
👉 Take the Divorce Recovery Nervous System Quiz
— it only takes a few minutes and can change how you understand your body forever.

✨ Subscribe to Dear Divorce Diary Premium for $5/month to access the EFT session, monthly live workshops, and exclusive product launches.

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A podcast exploring the journey of life after divorce, delving into topics like divorce grief, loneliness, anxiety, manifesting, the impact of different attachment styles and codependency, setting healthy boundaries, energy healing with homeopathy, managing the nervous system during divorce depression, understanding the stages of divorce grief, and using the Law of Attraction and EMDR therapy in the process of building your confidence, forgiveness and letting go.

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What happens when the biggest emotional transition of your life — divorce — collides with the biggest physical one — menopause?

It’s not just about hot flashes or sleep loss.
 It’s your identity, libido, mood, memory, confidence, and worth all shifting at once.

And when menopause arrives during or after divorce, it can feel like:

💔 Am I still desirable?
🤯 Why can’t I think straight?
🔥 Is this rage normal or am I losing it?
😔 Will I ever feel like myself again?

You’re not crazy — you’re evolving.

Today, the women of Menopause Love Lounge join us for a raw, grounding conversation about:

✨ Mood swings no one warned us about
 ✨ Menopause amplifying divorce grief
 ✨ Nervous system truth when your body feels foreign
 ✨ Identity + confidence during midlife transitions
 ✨ Desire, pleasure, and reclaiming your power again

If you feel like your body betrayed you, your emotions don’t match your life, or your confidence is rebuilding from the ground up — this episode will feel like exhale + sisterhood.

You’re not falling apart.
 You’re becoming someone stronger.

In today's episode you’ll:

✔️ Understand the emotional + hormonal overlap
 ✔️ Laugh until you cry
 ✔️ Feel inspired to rebuild confidence + identity after divorce
 ✔️ Navigate libido + desire changes with humor
 ✔️ See this season as better with other women in your corner

If You Loved This Episode

Follow the Menopause Love Lounge for honest, hilarious, science-meets-soul support through the midlife evolution.

Midlife isn’t the end — it’s the awakening.

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There’s a kind of loneliness that doesn’t just live in your thoughts — it lives in your body...It’s the ache in your chest when you see another couple holding hands.
The quiet in the house that feels too loud.
The impulse to pour a glass of wine or take something to help you not feel so much.

In this episode of Dear Divorce Diary, Dawn, Joy, and Tiff guide you through a custom EFT (Emotional Freedom Technique) tapping practice designed to help you release the nervous system pain of being single in a couple’s world — and remember that belonging starts within.

Before the guided sequence, you’ll learn how EFT actually works:
Why we tap on certain meridian points, what each one helps release (grief, shame, resentment, fear), and how those points help regulate your nervous system when loneliness hits hard.

Then, together, they lead you through a real-time tapping meditation to help your body feel safe again — safe to feel, safe to rest, and safe to belong to yourself.

✨ In this episode

• What EFT really does to calm the post-divorce nervous system
• The nine meridian points and the emotions they help release
• A step-by-step guided tapping sequence for the ache of being single in a couple’s world
• A nervous system reframe that turns “alone” into “at home in myself”

🧘‍♀️ Try it now

Find a quiet space.
Take a deep breath.
Tap along as Dawn leads the practice and notice your body start to soften — the exhale that says, I’m okay. I belong here.

💡 Want more?

Premium subscribers get monthly live workshops with Coach Tiffini (including replays), somatic healing tools that deepen each Tuesday episode, and access to every guided practice inside the Dear Divorce Diary library.

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Have you ever noticed the world is built for couples?
 Dinner for two, “plus-one” invites, family discounts — even the way people glance at you when you’re alone after divorce. It can feel like every billboard is whispering: you don’t belong.

In this episode of Dear Divorce Diary, Dawn, Coach Tiffini, and Producer Joy get brutally honest about what it means to be single in a couple’s world. They unpack:

💔 Why loneliness after divorce isn’t weakness — it’s your nervous system’s signal for connection.
 🧠 How your attachment style (anxious, avoidant, or disorganized) shows up when you’re alone.
 💸 The “silent tax” of singleness — and how to shift from scarcity to self-trust and abundance.
 💡 Why healing your attachment style requires more than talk therapy — and how tools like EFT, IFS, and homeopathy can rewire safety from the inside out.

Plus, in this week’s premium episode, the ladies guide you through a custom EFT tapping sequence for loneliness — a real-time way to calm your body, feel safe again, and start reprogramming attachment patterns.

If you’ve ever felt invisible, resentful, or just plain tired of a world made for pairs, this one’s for you.

✨ Subscribe to Dear Divorce Diary Premium for $5/month to access the EFT session, monthly live workshops, and exclusive product launches.

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You could be a therapist, a coach, or the friend who swears she knows better—and still fall for an avoidant man’s games after divorce.

In this Dear Divorce Diary Premium episode, Dawn, Joy, and Tiffini get brutally honest (and hilariously real) about the ridiculous ways smart women stay hooked—the late-night texts, the lies we half-believed, the crumbs we treated like connection.

Then they flip the script with five raw, transformative questions that help you break the trauma bond for good and reclaim your nervous system.

This conversation blends cringe, comedy, and clarity—and by the end, you’ll never look at that buzz of his name lighting up your phone the same way again.

In this episode:
• Why even strong, self-aware women ignore red flags after divorce (hint: it’s not stupidity—it’s nervous-system survival)
• How avoidant partners keep you emotionally addicted and how to spot the pattern in real time
• A simple somatic tool (ankle rolls + humming) to calm your body when you’re tempted to text back
• Five journal-ready questions that change everything about how you respond to those “Hey stranger” messages

Listen for:

•  The Confession: Real stories that make you say, “Oh my God, me too.”
•  The Reveal: Why your body mistakes anxiety for attraction—and how to break that cycle.
•  The Breakthrough: What it takes to stop letting him control your nervous system.

Ready to heal for real?
Subscribe to Dear Divorce Diary Premium for just $5/month.
You’ll get access to:
✨ Monthly live workshops with Coach Tiffini
✨ Exclusive healing sessions and somatic tools
✨ Every uncensored episode that goes where the public feed can’t

👉 Join now—where healing after divorce gets real, one brave conversation at a time.

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He disappears, then drops a “just checking in” text.
He remembers the good old days, then ghosts again.
That push–pull dance isn’t love — it’s control.

In this episode of Dear Divorce Diary, Dawn, Tiffini, and Joy unpack the hidden cost of divorcing an avoidant man — the paranoia, the false connection, the endless emotional labor — and teach you how to finally flip the script.

You’ll learn:
 💔 How avoidant behavior actually works (and why it’s not your fault)
 🧠 The nervous-system science behind intermittent affection
 🔥 The one boundary that ends post-divorce hooks for good
 💬 The single question that changes how you respond to him — forever

Write this down:

Am I about to respond as the woman he trained me to be — or as the woman I’m becoming?

If that line hits you in the gut, that’s the point. It’s time to stop being who he conditioned you to be and start becoming who you really are.

💫 Grab your free 21-day Post-Divorce Roadmap using code MAGIC DROP — you’ll automatically join Cocoon, our private community with weekly Magic Drops, giveaways, and real-time healing support.

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A podcast exploring the journey of life after divorce, delving into topics like divorce grief, loneliness, anxiety, manifesting, the impact of different attachment styles and codependency, setting healthy boundaries, energy healing with homeopathy, managing the nervous system during divorce depression, understanding the stages of divorce grief, and using the Law of Attraction and EMDR therapy in the process of building your confidence, forgiveness and letting go.

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You’ve read the books, gone to therapy, tried to make the “right” choice… and still feel like you’re second-guessing everything. After divorce, even simple decisions can feel like emotional quicksand.

In this episode, Dawn introduces Human Design—a quantum-meets-psychology framework that reveals how you were built to make decisions, manifest, and recharge your energy. Whether you’re wired for logic, emotion, gut instinct, or reflection, understanding your design can transform the way you trust yourself again.

Dawn shares stories from pulling her own chart—and Tiffini’s and Joy’s—to show how this system validates what women already know deep down: you’re not broken, you’ve just been trying to live by someone else’s rules.

You’ll learn:
 ✨ Why traditional therapy can keep you second-guessing your own wisdom
 ✨ How your Human Design type influences burnout, boundaries, and intuition
 ✨ The surprising reason decision fatigue skyrockets after divorce
 ✨ How alignment (not hustle) creates real healing and coherence

If you’re ready to stop asking, “What’s wrong with me?” and start remembering who you are—this episode is your permission slip.

🔗 Resources Mentioned

• Human Design App by Jenna Zoe
• Follow @healthy.madeline for breathwork + Human Design insights
• Take the Divorce Recovery Nervous System Quiz
   to discover your post-divorce healing type

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You say you’re ready for more — but your energy still whispers “not enough.”
 In this powerful rebroadcast from the Immersive Manifestation Series, Dawn exposes the hidden belief systems that keep women under-earning, under-receiving, and over-giving. You’ll unpack the roots of scarcity — from ancestral conditioning to quiet fears of losing love if you have more — and experience a live quantum healing sequence to rewire your nervous system for abundance.

Stay to the end — that’s where your energy shifts.

💰 Inside:

The real reason “money mindset” work hasn’t clicked

• How faith (not fear) fuels true manifestation
• A healing process to release shame, scarcity, and ineligibility
• Why your current life is evidence of your energetic alignment — and how to change it

💛 Ready to learn how your nervous system type impacts your healing and manifestation after divorce?
Take the Divorce Recovery Nervous System Quiz to discover your unique healing blueprint and get personalized tools to help you feel safe receiving more.

👉 Take the quiz now

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Denial isn’t just pretending things are fine — it’s the story your nervous system tells so you don’t have to feel the full truth yet. 

In this episode, we talk about how denial shows up in subtle ways: 

...staying busy so you don’t feel, 

...justifying behavior that hurts you, 

...and, convincing yourself “it’s not that bad.” 

And why breaking through it isn’t about shame — it’s about safety. 

This is one of those episodes that’s worth hearing again, because the moment denial cracks, real healing begins.

💛 Join our Cocoon community using the link at the very bottom and code MAGICDROP to download your Post-Divorce Roadmap and enter our weekly Magic Drop giveaway — we’ve already had two winners! 

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Some relationships end, but their patterns keep living in your body long after the divorce papers are signed.

In this rerelease, we talk about the hidden patterns that you thought were love — but were really fear. The ways you chased safety, approval, and control when what you actually craved was connection. The push-pull of attachment styles, codependency, and nervous system survival strategies that kept you looping in anxiety and longing.

If you’ve ever wondered why you keep attracting the same type of partner or why you can’t stop missing someone who hurt you, this episode will help you see what was really happening beneath the surface.

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Divorced moms carry secrets no one talks about.
The things their ex did behind closed doors.
The moments with their kids they can’t admit out loud — not because they’re weak, but because protecting their children comes first.

In this premium episode of Dear Divorce Diary, we crack open the hidden stories that weigh the heaviest:

• His secrets you’ve protected — and the resentment that builds from carrying them.
• Your own secrets — the rage, the shame, the things you fear make you a “bad mom.”
• The deeper secret about secrets — why it’s rarely the story itself that keeps you stuck, but the shame welded to it.

What if true freedom isn’t about being believed… but about finding peace without anyone else’s validation?
 Let’s dig in.

If you’ve felt secretly bound to your grief, know this: you’re not broken, you’re caught in a pattern that can shift. Take the Divorce Recovery Nervous System Quiz to discover how your nervous system type feeds the loop — and get tailored practices, resources, and episodes that help you move forward with confidence.

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A podcast exploring the journey of life after divorce, delving into topics like divorce grief, loneliness, anxiety, manifesting, the impact of different attachment styles and codependency, setting healthy boundaries, energy healing with homeopathy, managing the nervous system during divorce depression, understanding the stages of divorce grief, and using the Law of Attraction and EMDR therapy in the process of building your confidence, forgiveness and letting go.

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You didn’t plan on single-mom life at 40. You didn’t plan on working full-time while juggling sick kids, homework, and Tylenol runs at 2 a.m. You didn’t plan on losing the “white picket fence” identity you once posted on social media.

This week on Dear Divorce Diary, we’re getting real about what happens when your stay-at-home-mom world collapses and you have to become everything—breadwinner, nurturer, disciplinarian—overnight.

Inside this honest conversation, you’ll hear:

• Why the transition from stay-at-home to single working mom is such a shock to your nervous system
• How overcompensating for your kids (or trying to be “both parents”) leaks your energy
• Simple, free grounding tools that help you become a true safe space for your kids—and for yourself

You’ll also learn why presence—not perfection—is the thing your children (and your body) crave most, and how nervous-system regulation after divorce can completely shift the way you parent.

💛 Your first “Magic Drop” is free.
Grab our 21-day immersive Post-Divorce Roadmap journaling program at the link below, step inside our Cocoon community, and you’ll automatically be entered into our weekly Magic Drop giveaways—self-care items, homeopathy goodies, and even private sessions.

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For many women, divorce grief doesn’t just fade with time — it loops. You revisit the what-ifs, you cling to the ache, you replay the story until it feels less like healing and more like obsession. In this subscriber-only episode, we dive into why grief after divorce can feel like something you’re “married” to and what it really takes to break free.

Inside this episode:

• Why grief sometimes becomes an identity you can’t shake.
• How the looping “obsession” keeps you tethered to the pain.
• What it takes — from nervous system support to trauma-informed tools — to finally loosen grief’s grip.

If you’ve felt secretly bound to your grief, know this: you’re not broken, you’re caught in a pattern that can shift. Take the Divorce Recovery Nervous System Quiz to discover how your nervous system type feeds the loop — and get tailored practices, resources, and episodes that help you move forward with confidence.

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A podcast exploring the journey of life after divorce, delving into topics like divorce grief, loneliness, anxiety, manifesting, the impact of different attachment styles and codependency, setting healthy boundaries, energy healing with homeopathy, managing the nervous system during divorce depression, understanding the stages of divorce grief, and using the Law of Attraction and EMDR therapy in the process of building your confidence, forgiveness and letting go.

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If you’ve been swiping after divorce and it feels like all the good ones are gone—or worse, you’ll just pick another version of your ex—pause. That’s not a dating problem. It’s a healing problem.

In this episode, we’re unpacking:

• The lies we tell ourselves about “no good men”
• Lori Gerber’s 3H Method (head, heart, hoo-ha) for clarity in dating
• How breadcrumbing + settling are really nervous-system issues
• Why your body flashes red lights during dates (and what it’s really about)

Because if love still feels unsafe, your body will tell you—loud and clear.

“You can’t fake safety. If you don’t believe love is possible, your nervous system will keep proving you right.”

Your body isn’t just reacting to texts, swipes, or dates—it’s showing you the deeper nervous system + hormone patterns that still need healing. If you want to understand your patterns, take the free Divorce Recovery Nervous System Type Quiz. You’ll discover the type of wiring that’s quietly running your love life, plus the hormonal layer underneath—and what to do about it.

👉 [Take the quiz here]

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If Tuesday’s episode on addiction and codependency stirred something inside you, this one is here to help you actually shift it.

Some episodes are for learning, and some are for recovering. This is your chance to drop in, breathe deeper, and reconnect with the part of you that’s been carrying so much.

Inside this guided somatic + IFS meditation, you’ll:

• Regulate your nervous system through breath and body release
• Meet the part of you that aches for approval or love
• Feel safer giving yourself permission to actually feel
• Start loosening the grip of codependency, one moment at a time

This is about more than insight—it’s about embodiment. So if you’re ready to let your body lead the way back to safety and healing, press play and join me.

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Ever sworn you wouldn’t check his Instagram at 1 a.m. … and still did? Or did you tell yourself, “just one glass,” and finish the bottle? That loop isn’t just bad habits—it’s codependency as addiction.

In this episode of Dear Divorce Diary, dawn, Producer Joy, and Coach Tiffini unpack how post-divorce codependency functions like a hidden addiction—hooking you on approval, fixing, and being chosen. We’ll explore:

✨ Why shame (not loneliness) is the engine that keeps you stuck
 ✨ The breadcrumb → boundary cycle every divorced woman knows too well
 ✨ How “good girl” conditioning rewires your nervous system for addiction
 ✨ Practical ways to interrupt the dopamine-drama loop

You don’t need another glass, another scroll, or another half-love. You need a nervous system that feels safe—and that’s what we help women build every day.

👉 Ready to break the cycle? Apply now for A Different D Word, our 12-month divorce recovery program, and book your inquiry call here: Click to Apply

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When you’re in crisis, your nervous system isn’t neutral—it’s running survival programs. Fight, flight, freeze, repeat. And when you tell yourself “not now”, that’s not laziness or failure—it’s a protective pattern your body believes is keeping you safe.

But here’s the thing: survival mode isn’t meant to be permanent. It quietly drains your energy, feeds old beliefs like “I can’t do this,” and keeps you circling the same pain.

In this episode of Dear Divorce Diary, we explore:

✨ Why the nervous system convinces us to wait until things feel calmer before healing
 ✨ How beliefs like “not now” or “what if it doesn’t work” keep you locked in survival loops
✨ The energetic cost of staying in crisis—and what shifts when you allow safety to be restored
✨ What happens in the very first month of our program that helps women feel grounded, resourced, and ready for lasting change

Healing isn’t about pushing harder. It’s about creating safety, updating beliefs, and letting your body remember how to release what it’s been carrying.

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Trust and money go hand in hand after divorce—yet both feel broken. When the person who swore forever betrayed you, even opening your wallet can feel unsafe.

You’ll Learn

• Why money feels emotionally risky after betrayal.
• How your nervous system links financial fear to past trust wounds.
• The first step to rebuilding safety with money in your body—not just your bank account.

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and build nervous-system safety alongside financial confidence.

When trust is broken in marriage, it doesn’t just live in your memories—it shows up in how you relate to money. Bills, budgets, even dreams of independence can trigger the same body-wide fear you felt in betrayal. 

In this episode, I share how to understand the trust-money connection, and what your nervous system needs to feel grounded again. When money feels safe, you stop shrinking and start creating a future you actually trust.

Money after divorce doesn’t have to feel unsafe—healing starts in your nervous system.

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A podcast exploring the journey of life after divorce, delving into topics like divorce grief, loneliness, anxiety, manifesting, the impact of different attachment styles and codependency, setting healthy boundaries, energy healing with homeopathy, managing the nervous system during divorce depression, understanding the stages of divorce grief, and using the Law of Attraction and EMDR therapy in the process of building your confidence, forgiveness and letting go.

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Most women know long before the papers are signed that their marriage is crumbling. But why do we ignore that inner knowing?

You’ll Learn

• The psychological and nervous system cues women overlook.
• How denial protects us—until it keeps us stuck.
• What reclaiming your intuition looks like after divorce.

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and learn to hear and honor your inner voice.

Deep down, most divorced women admit they knew. They felt it in their body, in their gut, in the quiet moments of doubt—but stayed anyway. In this episode, I unpack why we override our intuition, how trauma and codependency keep us in cycles of denial, and what it takes to reclaim the wisdom you already have. Your body has always known the truth. It’s time to finally listen.

After divorce, your body’s intuition is the compass that leads you forward.

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A podcast exploring the journey of life after divorce, delving into topics like divorce grief, loneliness, anxiety, the impact of different attachment styles and codependency, setting healthy boundaries, energy healing with homeopathy, managing the nervous system during divorce depression, understanding the stages of divorce grief, and using the Law of Attraction and EMDR therapy in the process of forgiveness and letting go.

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Post Divorce Road Map : 21 Days of Journaling

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Divorce closes one chapter—but it can also open a hidden door. On the other side: freedom, confidence, and a life you never thought possible.

You’ll Learn

• Why divorce can be the unlikely reset for financial empowerment.
• The link between nervous-system safety and taking bold new steps.
• How women rebuild lives that finally fit after loss.

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and create the confidence and freedom your future deserves.

For many women, divorce feels like an ending. But what if it’s also the beginning of the life you were meant to live? In this episode, I reveal the surprising ways divorce can reset your relationship with money, confidence, and purpose. When your nervous system feels safe again, you’re free to make choices that align with who you really are—not who you were trying to be for someone else.

Divorce can unlock financial freedom and confidence when you heal at the nervous-system level.

FIND AMBER HERE AND HERE

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A podcast exploring the journey of life after divorce, delving into topics like divorce grief, loneliness, anxiety, manifesting, the impact of different attachment styles and codependency, setting healthy boundaries, energy healing with homeopathy, managing the nervous system during divorce depression, understanding the stages of divorce grief, and using the Law of Attraction and EMDR therapy in the process of building your confidence, forgiveness and letting go.

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If your divorce healing feels stuck, the block may be hiding in your sexual self-acceptance. It’s not about sex—it’s about shame.

You’ll Learn

• How sexual shame sneaks into divorce recovery.
• Why ignoring this block keeps women frozen in grief.
• The path to reclaiming wholeness through self-acceptance.

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Many divorced women feel stuck in their healing, not realizing the real block is sexual self-acceptance. This isn’t about performance—it’s about permission. Permission to feel, to be whole, to stop carrying the shame you never chose. In this episode, we walk you through why this layer of healing matters and how to begin giving yourself the grace you’ve always deserved.

 Sexual self-acceptance is the missing piece in many women’s divorce recovery journeys.

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A podcast exploring the journey of life after divorce, delving into topics like divorce grief, loneliness, anxiety, manifesting, the impact of different attachment styles and codependency, setting healthy boundaries, energy healing with homeopathy, managing the nervous system during divorce depression, understanding the stages of divorce grief, and using the Law of Attraction and EMDR therapy in the process of building your confidence, forgiveness and letting go.

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Success hides pain well—until divorce rips the mask away. What happens when achievement no longer protects you?

You’ll Learn

• The hidden cost of performing strength during marriage.
• Why high-achievers feel the crash harder in divorce.
• How to rebuild identity without the mask.

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and heal without needing to perform strength.

High-achieving women often wear success like armor. But when divorce cracks the surface, all the grief, shame, and exhaustion underneath finally spill out. This episode explores why high-achievers struggle so deeply after divorce, what the nervous system reveals about burnout, and how to release the mask once and for all. Freedom isn’t about pretending—you’re allowed to be seen.

Divorce recovery for high-achieving women means dropping the mask and finding safety in being real.

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A podcast exploring the journey of life after divorce, delving into topics like divorce grief, loneliness, anxiety, manifesting, the impact of different attachment styles and codependency, setting healthy boundaries, energy healing with homeopathy, managing the nervous system during divorce depression, understanding the stages of divorce grief, and using the Law of Attraction and EMDR therapy in the process of building your confidence, forgiveness and letting go.

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Post Divorce Road Map : 21 Days of Journaling

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Peace-keeping wives keep everyone happy—except themselves. Divorce forces the silence to break, and that’s when real healing begins.

You’ll Learn

• The hidden cost of people-pleasing in marriage.
• Why peace-keeping creates burnout and quiet resentment.
• How to reclaim your voice and your boundaries after divorce.

💎 Tired of peace at your own expense? Join A Different D Word
and learn to rebuild with safety, boundaries, and freedom.

So many women spend years smoothing things over, avoiding conflict, and carrying the weight of everyone else’s comfort. But in divorce, silence doesn’t protect—it suffocates. In this episode, I uncover the silent epidemic of peace-keeping wives, why it feels safer to appease than to speak, and how to finally let your truth breathe. Real recovery isn’t about keeping the peace—it’s about finding your peace.

Breaking free from people-pleasing is essential to post-divorce healing.

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A podcast exploring the journey of life after divorce, delving into topics like divorce grief, loneliness, anxiety, manifesting, the impact of different attachment styles and codependency, setting healthy boundaries, energy healing with homeopathy, managing the nervous system during divorce depression, understanding the stages of divorce grief, and using the Law of Attraction and EMDR therapy in the process of building your confidence, forgiveness and letting go.

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Post Divorce Road Map : 21 Days of Journaling

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If asking for help feels impossible, you’re not broken—you’re overloaded. Divorce isn’t just grief; it’s carrying more than one nervous system can hold.

You’ll Learn

• Why independence can feel safer than leaning on others.
• How overload—not weakness—explains your struggle.
• The first steps to receiving support without shame.

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and find women who won’t look away when your truth gets messy.

After divorce, many women insist, “I’ve got it.” But inside, they’re drowning. This episode explains why asking for help feels like failure when in reality, it’s survival. I’ll share how overload keeps your nervous system on high alert, and how small steps toward receiving support can bring relief, connection, and trust back into your life.

Divorce recovery means learning to receive support—not just give it.

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On the Web: https://www.mycoachdawn.com

A podcast exploring the journey of life after divorce, delving into topics like divorce grief, loneliness, anxiety, manifesting, the impact of different attachment styles and codependency, setting healthy boundaries, energy healing with homeopathy, managing the nervous system during divorce depression, understanding the stages of divorce grief, and using the Law of Attraction and EMDR therapy in the process of building your confidence, forgiveness and letting go.

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Post Divorce Road Map : 21 Days of Journaling

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When divorce shatters your world, your nervous system doesn’t forget—it waits. And when it finally feels safe, the real healing begins.

You’ll Learn

• Why your body holds onto trauma long after divorce papers are signed.
• The signs your nervous system is ready to release.
• Tools to help your body feel safe enough to heal.

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and discover tools that help your body remember its power to heal.

Divorce may be behind you, but your body still remembers the shock, the grief, and the fear. In this episode, I explore how the nervous system stores trauma, why it waits until safety is present, and what happens when your body finally exhales. Healing isn’t about rushing forward—it’s about allowing your system to release what it’s been holding since everything changed.

 Your nervous system holds the key to deep healing after divorce.

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/MyCoachDawn

Instagram: (@dawnwiggins)

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On the Web: https://www.mycoachdawn.com

A podcast exploring the journey of life after divorce, delving into topics like divorce grief, loneliness, anxiety, manifesting, the impact of different attachment styles and codependency, setting healthy boundaries, energy healing with homeopathy, managing the nervous system during divorce depression, understanding the stages of divorce grief, and using the Law of Attraction and EMDR therapy in the process of building your confidence, forgiveness and letting go.

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Post Divorce Road Map : 21 Days of Journaling

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