Australian Family and Fertility Law

Is Your Ex Turning Your Child Against You? Understanding Parental Alienation

Bruce Provan

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Parental alienation is a complex and often insidious dynamic that can have a profound impact on a child's psychological wellbeing and their relationship with a parent. In this episode of the Australian Family & Fertility Law Podcast, Bruce Provan, Managing Director of Page Provan, clarifies what parental alienation means within the context of the Australian legal system. Although it is not a term specifically defined in the Family Law Act, the courts recognise it as a serious issue that can sometimes border on family violence or child abuse.


Bruce discusses how the court distinguishes between legitimate protective concerns—such as instances of alleged abuse—and deliberate attempts to alienate a parent. He provides insight into the evidentiary requirements for the court, including the critical role of Family Reports and the appointment of an Independent Children’s Lawyer (ICL) to advocate for the child’s best interests. Listeners will also learn about the range of court interventions available, from mandated professional counselling to the rare but significant step of reversing residency orders when one parent remains uncooperative.


In This Episode:

  • Understanding the "syndrome" of parental alienation and how it manifests.
  • The difference between safety-based gatekeeping and malicious alienation.
  • How the court views repeated breaches of parenting orders.
  • The evidentiary weight of text messages, emails, and professional interviews.
  • The role of the Independent Children’s Lawyer (ICL) in high-conflict parenting matters.
  • Case outcomes: From counselling orders to changes in residence.
  • How Family Reports capture the nuances of a child's wishes versus alienation.


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