Quarter Life Crisis, Yarn?

Quarter life, ba ka mo? With how old the Chikadoras are, It seems like we still belong in the age group of Quarter life. With that said, this episode tackles a very relevant topic today, called Quarter Life Crisis. Charooot! Meron Ba? Join us as we discuss about trying to figure out life and it's mysteries. 

Transcript

Jobelle (Boba)  0:07  
Hi, Chikadora! after two weeks of M.I.A., we are back again. 

Junel (Nel)  0:12  
Yes, yes, yes! in today's episode we will talk about a very interesting topic and should I say a very heavy topic and it's all about quarter life crisis. 

Karlo  0:25  
Yes! this is a very timely and relevant topic for us today! Since the Chikadora hosts are within the age range. So let's start this shenanigans.

Jobelle (Boba)  0:39  
This is B-O-B-A, Boba at your service! 

Junel (Nel)  0:43  
Hello world. It is me again Nel. 

Karlo  0:46  
In behalf of Erik, who is absent, this is Karlo and together we are

All  0:52  
Chikarodras!

Junel (Nel)  0:57  
welcome back, Chikadoras

Junel (Nel)  0:59  
to our... In which

Junel (Nel)  1:02  
Episode are we in now?

Karlo  1:05  
10.

Junel (Nel)  1:09  
Who would have thought? Think? Kidding.

Junel (Nel)  1:15  
Our topic now is relevant to something Or to someone who are listening now which is all about quarter life-quarter life crisis, right?

Junel (Nel)  1:27  
Sit back and relax because we will be tackling quarter life crisis. So what is a quarter life crisis for us? So base on our research (Chaaar!), 

Jobelle (Boba)  1:38  
according to Wikipedia...

Junel (Nel)  1:42  
The non-ending-

Junel (Nel)  1:43  
Wikipedia. It is a period of uncertainty and questioning, right? like when you

Junel (Nel)  1:52  
feel that in your life like while you are working, you question yourself, "Why am i doing this?".

Junel (Nel)  1:57  
or like

Jobelle (Boba)  2:00  
I have asked that myself too!

Junel (Nel)  2:02  
Oh! You did also relate! That is the

Junel (Nel)  2:04  
first definition that pops up from our mind when we say quarter-life crisis or also known as midlife crisis for others. 

Junel (Nel)  2:12  
So like The questions to our Chikadoras, So for the two of you since i am the moderator: "Have you experienced quarterlife crisis in your life? Yes, no. Or maybe" 

Jobelle (Boba)  2:26  
of course

Jobelle (Boba)  2:29  
If questioning, especially, about career or job. I'm happy with nursing. I mean, i know nothing else about anything i can do if i am not a nurse. but at the same time, that thing that you realise when your colleagues ask me:  

Jobelle (Boba)  2:48  
"Oh, Jobelle, Why didn't you apply for manager? You should apply for manager or something, or do you want to upgrade, or something like that or you should already change hospital? Or Like that!" 

Jobelle (Boba)  2:59  
I realise that hmmmm... No! It can for sure, but I don't really want to. Number one, because, I have told them always that "I probably just do nursing in the next 10 years" maybe and then I just really want to be just a cashier.

Jobelle (Boba)  3:18  
To be just a sales clerk.

Jobelle (Boba)  3:19  
I dont know why I really want to be a cashier. or, in a coffee shop like: 

Jobelle (Boba)  3:24  
Hi! Good morning! What do you like for today. I will take your order. I Feel like i will enjoy those. If i shift carreer. 

Junel (Nel)  3:30  
Was there question when you where working? 

Jobelle (Boba)  3:32  
Nothin, While working, nothing. I'm so busy. I dont have to question while i am working. 

Jobelle (Boba)  3:39  
But when i am just sitting back at home and i am thinking like "What if I have kids in the future, should i still be working?" like that. Like it is tiring. 

Jobelle (Boba)  3:50  
Like. I would like to have more time. One thing i have noticed when we're Philippines, right, for most of life, it should be that half of our lives, we're working. like really seriously? Why? Like we did not even enjoy because, well, there are people who love to always work and that's their life. 

Jobelle (Boba)  4:11  
Working is their life. But you know, I think it is most important for me is time for my husband, time for my family, for my personal life. 

Jobelle (Boba)  4:22  
Everytime when there are schedule shifts my manager, my manager said before, "Jobelle! why we don't see you. We see you less often around here?"

Jobelle (Boba)  4:36  
 I told her that "oh my shift are not plenty." 

Jobelle (Boba)  4:40  
She Said:

Jobelle (Boba)  4:40  
"Oh why? There are plenty of shift. Don't you want to get more shift?" 

Jobelle (Boba)  4:44  
I replied that "No, not really." I Said. "I am busy enough." 

Jobelle (Boba)  4:48  
So they always asked "How many Children do you have? Told them, I don't have.

Karlo  4:52  
 You Parents in Philippines, Daie.

Junel (Nel)  4:56  
We can relate it to quarter-life crisis. In essence, the by like an unfettered negative emotions or like an opportunities or like growth or change within the income moral force that opportunity conceived the base

Jobelle (Boba)  5:14  
of priorities working or not No no, no question at all.

Junel (Nel)  5:19  
So before we dig deeper on another Sukarno Have you experienced like quarterlife crisis in what way as they say 25 to 30 years old,

Karlo  5:30  
that age is a confusing age during that age divide by having graduated, then we don't know what to do with them back among the big talk on career our friends are getting smaller like our parents are getting older before it's the latter defined part of my parents. House honestly investment, guitar canon current 25 time is different like Canon 35 de rhodiola tabula rasa tabula rasa tabula Marbella what they like it's more difficult this time around leaving because of like the expenses puts out on society is like getting bigger, so eco 25 there are genuine Miko Ania you need to be independent and when you become independent, and when you get out of your comfort zone, which is your parents house or environment, then you start questioning your abilities you start questioning like, Oh, it's your decision correct? Or those kind of stuff so Manasa I'm one of the reasons why you have quarterlife crisis care okay, because we go out in the monka comfort zone we vote

Junel (Nel)  6:41  
Oh yeah. experience many more in person feeling yes indeed more long term question that yes. But the elaborate what is for you have you experienced what way yes that's all done in

Junel (Nel)  7:08  
what we hope to explain in a intensive focus of questioning personal now or social identity can learn. So like naming people DOMA philomela naskila in a crisis, the same the age group now question on purpose, like normal donor, like is becoming or like experiencing quarterlife crisis normal or normal self I thought oh man come experience material. So like let's dig deeper so yamaga mentioned the the amount of stress worse normally experiences at our home my quarter life crisis shot first if I share Oh, it go. So I'll call the ICS and it's ongoing like si guru at some point like never know who's out in Naga travail. Go we're gonna go Rickman, kohana gravitas Naga II for the BA as I as I always share a new kind of I want to build financial literacy and financial freedom first, that was a really bad go see glaucoma move out of the advocate. I can see myself working here something the peanuts are leaving here. So like, I want to move somewhere in no judgement, new environment and enjoy you know, the

Karlo  8:40  
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Junel (Nel)  8:42  
de caballo I don't I am at a point in my life now when I was so young like you know, in a way now experience that we're not shy like questioning like Seabourn and travel to the Soccer World Koba seguro de Molina questioning federal Napoli at some point number of message of my friends are gonna Hello my pecan nail masala Camille again I mean, we're all like Well, let me time at some point a trade off now. Okay, something terrible Okay, something in return for just quarterlife crisis federal, like, ongoing for them. So like, going along, to get any help becoming aware of the common stressors that could lead to quarterlife crisis Sato manaka. Chica Doris, filling in your nephila uniprot avelumab, quarter life crisis that they need, so can now either na na, na na or can McGladrey type alarm Okay, I'm gonna uncertainty Ala Moana trabaho currents are like common stressors but need to quieter life prices. So firstly is job searching or career planning. So like click on the beside Baca Carlo now Mahima it says Sweden now based on fusion Wella Golem cool what is something fear?

Karlo  10:03  
Of course there is like fear now financer like pero you have to be smart about it also like didn't come up with that it's so over la automatic action. So I don't get that for me before cannot quit like search for so I take action like sometimes like people feel like aimless like Oh no What happened to them? They find reasons no didn't really work for example like pro vaquita have worked so long for I'm Willa Amanpour Nikita nilang opportunities Did you take actions that you find Did you search the bar so once you start searching you take action then you start feeling a less demand even though it's like the first step of everything because sometimes get past people we look at the bigger picture like agostinho Annie like for example Apple was abroad and Anna seems cool home goal is more abroad more work as it soften first aim is to search it over when when the moon decision and now I'm a mock Australian along with coma nurse and

Junel (Nel)  11:06  
of course Australia Come with me and alumna Obama you know no elective

Jobelle (Boba)  11:09  
again under Kosovo mama when I go and komak school credit to Australia the market shock no longer like you have decided not to decide deciding on

Junel (Nel)  11:26  
something confusion or uncertainty. 4k camera with a pata graduate Manila aka me Luca de Manila we found just era to reboot the data was like I know you probably could ECM business and I would like to know Mr. Romani like well I'm gonna read the shopping lifestyle guru Miranda home quite a life crisis up

Karlo  11:57  
with that nail like we have this mindset now I'll do things when I'm ready pero you will never ready oh just go like for me like the bunny with Abra prokinetics with them like after Connor approves o se on the fly they encode the next three days so okay like let's face the consequences we'll get there like the you will never be ready boom we always coming over the app when time comes when ready nakulan because he because you never know what will happen like two hours from now which is through

Jobelle (Boba)  12:31  
the time you die correct the union he jumped comexi Sica you have a lesson to learn or whatever important lesson

Junel (Nel)  12:40  
to learn can lead into something like permanent actual like what if the decision you have made guide and revoke a bar chart or

Karlo  12:48  
it's either you decide or not like for example if you think you're not ready then it's up to you to decide but

Jobelle (Boba)  12:57  
besides that you have

Junel (Nel)  12:59  
to like nah bro bravery Nicola kilo Adam play whenever we got you so sweet then pero la la mina como hi filling out much better opportunity to do so very much to say boo. To friend like me gonna be Shama Hello guys Mila Hanako de pakula for like just a shock malami Hello.

Karlo  13:28  
Thing is like I wasn't ready that time but like you know opportunity comes once in a lifetime so it's like you wait rabbit yeah it way nimasa like okay, I'm not ready but this is too big to throw away so jump

Jobelle (Boba)  13:43  
Yeah, and I think print at the same time at Obama that Napa like Bakula gonna graduate a year two years after graduation. We don't really have something to lose we have nothing to lose at that time. I think it is a battle royale single man co la familia hola como Berlin you know a convenient Margarita mobilink la go like in three years time so what in other language but I think of course dependent friend going support seguro mo Hong situation at the time. You know when the opportunity comes skate champion Katana and demon Dakar la mirada Nana ma my life for the Lohan situation the bus, la ma it inbound,

Junel (Nel)  14:27  
which is almost the same adult situation K. Manila no uncertain comparable Kumasi. I am a beginner who I mean I am capacity also ability on the bus or on scales chart Leggett I'm gonna realise Na Na Kadam lseg Bala de la whoa related some work. Now I'm angry at some when I first ratio southward. I don't know. workman is a new home he would like the stove quarterlife crisis none a builder another one. Hello, Molina camote mina lampredotto Nikita Nicola opportunity now I can move nakada yanapuma work flexible home time masking carnosa frico conventional wisdom we're gonna go now enjoying OSHA parallel cataloguing uncertainty which is leading to the second stress or living alone for the first time Nagas Bashar okay now once i know i mean how what mandritto Sato mama who guides Otto marbleize to Quran

Jobelle (Boba)  15:34  
protecting unknown paying bills alone

Karlo  15:45  
so living alone will not pay for my pair of pay alone

Jobelle (Boba)  15:50  
with the social media or on our low paying bills alone no

Junel (Nel)  15:59  
bones oh my god like a moustache I don't know I'm singing my belly

Jobelle (Boba)  16:09  
dancer Monica movie and a mama nanyuki Padilla como de mother,

Junel (Nel)  16:16  
centre Novus Amani then much much much, much much them put on spending So bottom line Baba ha de la de facto, leaving alone anymore as a software quarterlife crisis stomach Oh, so Mr. carne sassy boo or Sweden

Karlo  16:34  
such a broken arm with the open closed a group of friends Tito's like we live together the house

Junel (Nel)  16:40  
Sweden Island can appeal friendship now Filipinos Filipino community like Philippa commands or wonder what are you remember, a Filipino da da da ba on

Karlo  16:53  
apparel like Godwin de Lange Shapiro. However, like they are bssc then gain insights a year like three months long, nice and you say everyday some kind of winter in Ireland for Iceland and so my effect to the model level of like vitamin D. So, every winter by the press and by the parents, so sometimes I can carry four by four by Napa relevancy during winter buitoni or something like that, but currently recently because you know, like, you know, a tsunami warning system or depression or Sweden, Swedish system or seasonal depression in Slovenia. So but exactly my question gullibility coda is somebody

Junel (Nel)  17:42  
who actually they actually did a course about quarter phrases like harmonically related Isa wallop I get a phone like I normally put to some beach or surrounding like mount Laguna follow up with the next five years the next 10 years I'm ugly now Madonna Taka if you were not you who you are today so on dealing in how they do when they get sick or I see myself as like the current winner and so most likely there are power like and usually the press corps sup and they became almost like a pyramid was a shallow garden usually the CO good like an I'm most likely gonna go Sakuma and another environment but I didn't have shahana and like I was trying to go away from loneliness so like mostly the

Jobelle (Boba)  18:50  
people experience a midlife crisis or a quarter life crisis. They though hi Neela Geena feel manita SIL aguaje they keep busy k Dylan raguso facing reality and I know my issues are Nuffield doubt or fear or they are not good uncertainties a long life which is through the mind's eye.

Junel (Nel)  19:14  
Now I'm a gay man that are in denial divided denial so COVID Hello. quarterlife crisis by the VA personnel.

Karlo  19:23  
Nowadays, we have a lot of things to get us DC so sometimes we don't like to be alone with our own thought good enough to tell us when we can look into VR so kinematic panics alone time number Kahuna my internalised mo my feelings and those kind of stuff. Now adays we don't have look luxury No, because they're gonna get destroyed destructions where the Wii computer and cell phone so we when that time comes like we don't know how to process our emotions. So sometimes we Have those feeling of aimlessness because we need to also like connect with our self which is

Junel (Nel)  20:06  
through so like, um, we kind of resort to another stress or no like navigating relationship or making long term personal decision or professional decision. So have you ever experienced like canasa Honda explorer seven relationship or how about Naga Guinness seize the moment say more relationship Baba I call him a noun in relationship chart or like say mobile personnel and professional decisions in life following an auto login question my manager on what Amanda plan Omar Yes,

Jobelle (Boba)  20:50  
her own career better personally. Okay, I think that's true. calls at home first before you even get a multimeter I'm gonna boring the tow couple like after a moment Cohen mug, mug squilla normal normal stuff Southern arm long life floating you mean

Junel (Nel)  21:18  
or the outcome of society for you but I'm not the guru I'm

Junel (Nel)  21:26  
the person in your die. expect that expect. Anyhow so Santa Monica Chica Dora scomo. Now check when Otto Samana mentioned number of my checklist from first to fourth? Like Have you experienced this probably Nana fi quarterlife crisis for the next few years. And so like, the question now is how is how will you overcome or is it just something that will argue lamb obala long without any cure? What do you think MOBA? The answer? Like is there? Like a question is a cop or not? What's your input? Well, no, pasa pasa LA. Una No. Boy. mystica So again, they'll be

Junel (Nel)  22:32  
perfect. Some question is do you think nice specific answers mismo quarterlife crisis or you think that we figure out Rania as a person

Karlo  22:43  
wants a solution it depends on the person's situation it always depends on the person of course without mantova like one singular thing can fix everybody's situation Yeah. So it always depend on their current situation. So for me first is like if I had those like doubt is firstly is to accept that emotion that you are having doubts and questions guys that have been like in denial and like before like because no, it doesn't go away. It's you just have to learn how to accept the situation sometimes like I feel Cantona anxiety or I'm sure we can in five years after Mako put it on me I'm not good. So first is accept and then like do something like for example Once you accept it yourself that you have some doubts then you have to talk to yourself like what do I really want? And what what brings me satisfaction and like long term happiness and like can I summon karma my feeling safe and then once you do that, take the very first step like for example like you always see the bigger picture I always see the bigger picture pedal I started like compact mentalizing it like okay first step is this so I'm not talking first weapon tycoon among among goals the rich okay Tom big one you don't see the progress if you don't see the progress like for me, I feel like ah will aqui Prague feeling mobile app progress phillimore will unlock aim. So I want to like break down your bigger like bigger plans with your dreams or plans. Like for example, if your plan is MIMO citizen, so what is the smallest first step for that? So okay, first is to move their goal through which sometimes like

Jobelle (Boba)  24:49  
tamala

Karlo  24:50  
with him on goal is like to be happy. So first step is that is figure out what makes you happy just to know so Manasa

Junel (Nel)  25:00  
Toba, boba is a Mohan. I am inside at the like, do you believe MFI your outlands eSATA Oh, Shaka problem or you think Go ahead.

Jobelle (Boba)  25:11  
Oh personally devar at the beginning do not oma Yeah, it's really just come on are normal to experience quarterlife crisis. And I think for me, it's important. Now, if you feel like you're stuck somewhere Well, maybe that's just part of the process of knowing you know where you should be. Not my favourite quote quotes owner. Okay, it's called An Na na sala Tito is if you don't step down, or move forward, you will always be in the same place. So maybe if even if you don't move forward, or even if you think no luck, I'm not gonna go make any progress in your life. Even if you just step back a little bit. Maybe you just need to be in another direction. You see, that's why you're stuck. Maybe not all on the mo honkala maybe you just need to step back a little bit and it's always important that you take baby steps for support everyone goes through a and I do a that everyone will overcome it. You know, it's just part and parcel of life. But just just do baby steps for now and it will help you as I've said either move forward step up, or move backwards topic or anila no

Karlo  26:39  
matter where you go away it starts from where you are.

Jobelle (Boba)  26:43  
Yeah on our mortgage chart on us Mr. Molloy you are here Well my name is Ahmed. But anyway, I think you'd like my name is Tama Guiana and then into my overcome just part and parcel of you know growing up, but don't ever let anyone know like magnifying glass Asan and make them question yourself it's always better to echo mismo on the questions enhancer really rather than khadem II compared with only movement

Junel (Nel)  27:21  
of Omaha which is much more pressure Erica dibba Oregon masters concert cancer more

Jobelle (Boba)  27:26  
yeah Be your own competition it's not helping at all you know I Oh delay um life so bad among define successful Nabokov and under because right age para in our knee and a good molana who are no

Junel (Nel)  27:41  
Aqua Aqua idea with a feeling of some bone at some point and process Sha Sha or worship death margay good Sha Sakina movie the bar like that is part of life and quarterlife crisis is death that not found apartments and I mean, as

Junel (Nel)  28:05  
far as I know, by just I mean the VA process are not 63 in a barrel no more like nephila who purchase a process dealing immobile Amanda if you go out now and I mean pay legitimate resolve like for us Aqua pylon Lambie mo on on our own on priorities personal Munich I know that was like drive through to an auto site from achieving smaller steps the Barbie girl to a smaller one. So I feel like I'm in like in lieu of that. I would say now try to ask yourself first like what makes you happy first like the bar and then start from there by the worker support worker and like an unhappy co photographer co so like I'm not happy to become an accountant so like kind of co worker unhappy because I chose for her because a photographer so like what makes you happy and demanded met decide como se Sasha go by because I love the life here more than the life of a city or like a hometown so it's your decision in life anyway, they buy like Parasurama Chica Dora Sato on June like my biggest takeaway data ask yourself what makes you happy first and then second. Like try to make fearless decision personally. I mean, you're the buyer like I commend or I applaud. Finance on Go. Go just go to Smith and K basta bahala na Second, like I know like IBM monogame last year's like trust that this come forth nevermind that. What if I didn't like to overthink? Nimmo mo Serena What if my even only like, those are just what if it never it will never happen on the demo was done on the bar like it's it's your own life it's your own game plan woman once a woman was achieved typical Bella Bella mama Mussolini a Nana and they For example, I know it I'm biological forever already but I'm biological for Africa modelling for them. Luca Dara. They were like, at some point, Megan Masako happy Oh, my goal was a movie, but more so like siguro in general now ingleside canon quarterlife crisis to end this I know to end this topic today. Oh Gemini mom biggest take away namaha thanks so much Chica Doris Now, I know like kind of undergoing this I know this quarter life crisis ultimately my emotions are in a statement in one statement in one sentence. So I should start for me if you are going through this kind of crisis feel it and trust the process

Jobelle (Boba)  31:29  
them in more

Junel (Nel)  31:31  
glamorous breakthrough anyhow, so eat cow Baba when so many mama in one in a statement without explanation

Jobelle (Boba)  31:45  
Did you suggest to that also not to are all the Chica Doris Amman lease nama listeners that relate or you know, currently on permanently having quarterlife crisis? If you are stuck somewhere, look how far you've come. You know, it's just look back on your accomplishments as well. Not just on your failures. Maybe you're just a denial. Explain. No, remind Berryman. Oh, look back on your accomplishments, not your failures. because by then Makita nimona past Nobutaka, good day to go long ago,

Karlo  32:31  
on founder and pastor argue daily. They go home good not a quarter life crisis. Bahasa boy. No, in all seriousness, now we are like laggy and nothing has happened. You are not alone. So if you feel like you need help, then reach out for help. It's also a step for why not reach out for help. So sometimes, like we have those questions about our life and stuff, so if you talk about it with your friends, and like your parents, and like somebody else you trust, then you can make sense of it. And then once you do, you make sure that that's your choice. Take your action goes like the main driving force of like quarterlife crisis is feeling aim less with no. So you feel like you have no directions to go. So in order to do that, you have to take action. So you don't feel like you are at loss or you are stuck or you are like no way to go. That's all thank you.

Junel (Nel)  33:42  
So, so so I want one Chica Doris, I hope not a lesson or insight about quarterlife crisis sakara podcast Yes, hopefully in amino mahina amino permobil and I'm gonna follow Eric number one in your chart. All the Chikara Doris including airy Yes. Lucky Kimmy sunshine domains. So the next week the next few weeks. Oh, dear Chica Doris through

Karlo  34:31  
Yes, of course. Guys, like next few episodes, we will like have this segment at the H cadore. So if you have some questions, stories in Malibu, look second abou Hey, just visit our Instagram and message us on Facebook Like our friends and families. Yeah, don't forget to share. Yes and Gustavo a shout out Sadie, Chica Dorothy shout out.

Junel (Nel)  34:57  
Just dm us in our Instagram account. And that's all for this week and what will be the topic next week? Will it be revealed?

Karlo  35:06  
Yes today, next week will be the eggnog melon day.

Jobelle (Boba)  35:12  
And we will have a special guest Yes, we will have a special guest now confirmed also on maganda or Milan de la.

Junel (Nel)  35:23  
Judge guy, right a judge of the Lundy, and yeah. Anyhow, I and I hope you like this episode this week. And see you guys next week. And that's all this has been now and it's me, Baba. Lastly Skyla and together we were