SUMMARY KEYWORDS
Mindful, Expectations, Flex Don't Break, Resilience, LSAT, Mindfulness practices, Clarity, Determination, Flexibility, Skepticism
TRANSCRIPT
0:00 Hello and welcome to Mindful in 5, helping you discover your peaceful path. I'm your host Spiwe Jefferson, author of the Mindful in 5 book series.
0:15 In a world teeming with expectations, carving out one's unique path can sometimes feel like a delicate balancing act. Today our topic is Flex Don’t Break. Meet Singita, a character from the Mindful in 5 books, and a beacon of determination and resilience.
0:40 Singita works as a physician payment and practice management specialist. She intentionally emphasized the word physician when she told her parents what she did, and they immediately told all their friends back home in Chenai, India, that their daughter is a rich doctor (punchline sound effect). While Singita’s four sisters disapprove of the deception, they’ve kept her secret.
But now Singita has been inspired to go to law school. Growing up in a family that held engineers and doctors in high esteem, the path of a lawyer is not just undervalued; but looked down upon.
The weight of family expectations can feel overpowering. For Singita, it’s like an ever-present shadow. But Singita had a clear vision, and she chose to flex amidst the pressure rather than break under it.
01:46 Her first big move? The LSAT. Preparing for this rigorous test wasn’t just about studying; it was a profound act of rebellion and self-trust. Singita devised a meticulous plan to balance her daily routine, integrating LSAT prep into her life. She would rise an hour earlier, squeeze in flashcards during lunch breaks, and devote weekends to practice tests. All this while maintaining her current job and familial responsibilities.
02:29 Aware of the skepticism within her family, Singita became mindful of her confidantes. She initially only told her favorite sibling, Sameena. By selectively sharing her aspirations, she shielded her dream from potential naysayers, ensuring it remained untainted by doubt or discouragement.
However, the journey wasn't always smooth. There were moments of self-questioning, and days when the weight of others' expectations felt almost unbearable. But every time Singita felt the shadow of doubt creeping in, she leaned into her mindfulness practices. She'd take five minutes, close her eyes, and visualize her goal – walking through the hallowed halls of a law school, holding her degree high, advocating for justice. That was her mental vision that kept her going.
03:37 Whether you are facing a new project or a new chapter in your career, flexibility can be a critical factor in navigating the changing seasons of your career and your days. Like Singita, you can embrace the art of resilience, understanding that it wasn't about resisting or confronting external pressures, but about adapting, flowing, and moving forward with unwavering determination. By remaining clear about our goals and finding ways to work around obstacles rather than against them, we can navigate life's challenges with grace and determination.
04:33 Singita’s story is a testament to the power of clarity, resilience, and mindful action. For all of us chasing a dream amidst skepticism and doubt, let’s remember: It’s about learning to flex so that we won’t break under the pressure. God Lovers, sit for five minutes at least with God and allow Him to buoy you along the way, and hold you up and sing to your heart the words of affirmation and love and encouragement.
05:24 Thank you for listening today. Join us next week as we continue to discover our peaceful path. Until then this is Spiwe saying be mindful and be well.
James@DiscovertheVoice
05:37 Thank you for listening to Mindful in 5. If you enjoyed it, share it with a friend. Follow and rate it on your favorite podcast platform. Pick up your signed copy of the book in journal from SpiweJefferson.com or unsigned copies from Amazon, Barnes and Noble or wherever you get your books. Visit SpiweJefferson.com to download sample chapters of the book, watch videos and become a mindful ninja. Join us on the LinkedIn Mindful in 5 group and share your thoughts. Until next time, be mindful and be well.