You Sold Me But God Sent Me

What if the moment you call betrayal is also the moment God calls assignment? We start with a plan to preach from Romans, then we pivot as the room and our hearts pull us into Genesis 45. Joseph finally stands face to face with the brothers who sold him, and instead of revenge he offers a sentence that can change how you interpret your whole life: “You sold me, but God sent me.” 

We walk through Joseph’s story from the pit to Potiphar’s house, from prison to Pharaoh’s palace, and we name how confusing it feels when your days look like a pile of disconnected losses. To make it plain, we lean on a simple image: a tapestry looks like tangled yarn from the back, but it becomes a masterpiece from the front. That is what faith looks like in real time, asking God for a new vantage point when all we can see is pain. 

Then we zoom out to an unexpected thread, Judah and Tamar, and connect it to the bigger biblical theme of the seed line and God’s promise from Genesis to Ruth to David. The point is not that everything that happens is good, but that God’s providence can turn what others meant for evil into redemption and life, even in a hard season. 

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Transcript

Opening Worship And Prayerful Mood

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Switching From Romans To Genesis

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I had every intention to tell you meet me in the book of Romans, chapter number twelve, first number one and two. Uh, we were going to look at that passage, and I was going to tell you about the mercy-made life. However, we had a moment in Bible class, and then I heard the announcements. Jimmy, Dana, my mind has been on several of you. I wouldn't call names because then I'll get in trouble. But my heart and my spirit no longer feels settled to take you to Romans chapter number 12. I'm now feeling Genesis chapter 45. So could you meet me in Genesis? As Judy just took off the projector. I worked so hard on those slides. Work so hard. Spent hours designing the graphics. Judy just put up the title so they could see. I spent hours working on that. Just so you could see it. You may not see it again, but you know, that Judy put it up. But not that one fast forward past the text. There it is. You know, that's what that's where I was going. But but just in case you don't know, you have a preacher, you have a minister that believes in the movement of God and the movement of the spirit. And I don't believe right now that this text is what the spirit would have me to preach, given the things that have occurred and have been in my spirit now during the day.

Genesis 45 And The Big Idea

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So Genesis 45. I think I want to start at verse number four, and we'll end at verse number eight. Genesis 45. Beginning in verse number four, culminating in verse number eight. Scripture says, Then Joseph said to his brothers, Please come closer to me. And they came closer. And he said, I am your brother Joseph, whom you sold into Egypt. Now, do not be grieved or angry with yourselves because you sold me here. For God sent me before you to preserve life. For the famine has been in the land these two years, and there are still five years in which there will be neither ploughing nor harvesting. God sent me before you to preserve for you a remnant in the earth and to keep you alive by a great deliverance. Now, therefore, it was not you who sent me here, but God. And he has made me a father to Pharaoh, and Lord of all his house, and ruler over all the land of Egypt. If you read that with me, say amen. I'll take a title straight out of the tags. You sold me, but God sent me. You sold me, but God sent me.

The Tapestry Metaphor For Life

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My father in the gospel recently went on vacation, and he went to this remote cabin that was a tourist spot. And on his way to the cabin, he stopped at the center where they would give maps and sell various trinkets. And as he walked into the center, the information center, he saw this woman who was making something. He could not tell what it was that she was making because her back was to him, and what she was weaving or making was in front of her. While looking at her back, all he saw were several balls of yarn of different colors, and they were behind her, but because she has been pulling on them, they are no longer ordered, they're scattered, they're jumbled, they even look like they're intertwined one with another. What he saw from the back was a mess. But he decided to walk around, and as he walked around, he recognized that she was weaving a tapestry, and as he sees it from the front, what looked like a mess from the back now was a beautifully ordained picture in the front. Oh, I'm preaching and you don't know it. What changed was his perspective. And if he only left, seeing it from the back, he would have only seen a mess, he would have only seen something that didn't look good. It would not have made sense. But because he changed his vantage point, because he changed his perspective, he was able now to see it from the front and see how all the colors came together to make one nice tapestry and one nice picture. I believe that that incident that happened to him is a metaphor for our lives. Where, depending on your perspective and your vantage point, how you see what is happening to you, how you see what has happened to you, depending on where you're looking at it, it could just look like an uncoordinated, jumbled mess. It could look like something that makes no sense. You could be baffled as to why God allowed this to happen with this, to happen with this, and it seems not connected, it seems jumbled, it seems like mess. But just if you were to glance it from God's perspective, what looks like a mess to you is actually a masterpiece in the making. That's actually the message of Joseph in this text. Joseph

Sold Or Sent Depends On Perspective

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is meeting with his brothers, he's meeting with his brothers because currently there is a farming in the land, and when there's a farming in the land, Egypt still is able to produce grain because Egypt is uh flanked by the river Nile, and the river Nile never runs out of water. So when everyone else has no water and no agriculture, Egypt is still able to produce grain. Joseph is in Egypt, and he um is second to Pharaoh, and his brothers come to get grain, and in this moment where he sees his brother, brothers, after 17 years, see, he has this moment of transparency where he cries and then said to them, I am your brother Joseph, whom you sold into Egypt. Now I want you to understand that if you were the brothers, this selling took place 17 years ago. You are not expecting to find Joseph as the second most important person in Pharaoh when you know you sold him to be a slave 17 years ago. Not only would they not have expected to see Joseph as the second most important man in all of Egypt, they probably did not expect to see him at all. And now that Joseph has revealed himself, their first thought would have been something of fear, because now the brother that you sold is the second most important person in all of the known world, he could get some revenge. I was petty enough to take some revenge. But thankfully, this is not a story about me, it's a story about Joseph. And Joseph tells his brothers, do not be afraid, and then he says, You sold me, but God sent me, and that messed me up thinking about it on this morning. Because the question is, did they sell him or did God send him? Yes, it just matters from which vantage point you're looking at. Their selling was part of God's sending, and if all you could see is the selling, you could miss what God is doing and never see the sending. Or you're looking at me funny. All right, let's let's walk through this.

From The Pit To The Palace

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Joseph is introduced to us in Genesis chapter number 36. In Genesis 36, he has uh a vision, a vision of uh his brothers and him, and it's one that allows him to tell his brothers that you you would bow to me, I would be greater than you. And then God gives him a second vision where the sun, the moon, and the stars all bow to him, and the sun and the moon this time was his dad and his mother, and he tells them that the family would bow to him. This was a dream saying that Moses, not Moses, Joseph, would be elevated to some great status, and that's weird because he's the youngest brother, but the youngest becomes the most important. He's disliked by his brothers because he's a dreamer, he's also a tattletale, don't have time. When his brothers did it's in the text. The reason why his brothers hated him was not just because his daddy liked him more, it's also because he used to tell all details on his brothers. And so at one point he's tattling on them, he finds the favor of his father. His father sends him with food for his brothers, and they say, Look, the dreamer is coming. What shall we do with it? One of the brothers said, Let's kill him. A brother said, Let's kill him. I don't have time. But thankfully, Judah had enough sense to say, Let's not kill him, let's put him in a pit and pretend like he's dead. And then another brother said, That makes no sense. Let's make money from him, let's sell him. At least we could profit from it. So they sell him into slavery, Midianite slavery. Joseph now ends up in Potiphar's house. Potiphar allows Joseph, because God is with him, to be in charge of everything except his wife. And then his wife accuses him of doing something indecent, and because he's a slave, there's no trial. He goes immediately to jail. He doesn't pass goal, he does not collect $200, he just goes to jail. That was a monopoly reference. And he spends two years in jail, and again, God gives him a dream, but this time not give him a dream, but rather allows him to interpret the dream of the cupbearer and the baker, and he interprets the dream and he tells the cupbearer, you're going to visit the king again, you're going to be restored, and when you are restored, remember me. The cupbearer does not remember him, but God puts a dream in the mind of Pharaoh that no one could interpret except Joseph. When Joseph interprets the dream, the dream is that a farming is coming and they need to prepare for that farming. When Joseph interprets Pharaoh's dream, Pharaoh allows Joseph to be the one who plans for the farming. That's how his brothers meet him. But while all of this is happening, I want you to understand that if you look at this from the back, what you see is the jealousy of the brothers. What you see is the envy of the brothers that cause him to be sold as a slave. You see him being envied and jealous and being uh envied and disliked by his brothers, that leads him to being a slave. From a slave, he goes to prison. He's in prison two years for a crime he did not commit. If all you see is the back, it looks like a mess. If all you see is the drama, the incidents, the problems, the vicissitudes, it leaves you wondering why does bad things happen to good people. If all you see are these things, then you can't understand why it is that a God who is holy and just could could see someone who loves him but allows him to experience all these negative things. It looks like a mess. But there's another side. There's another side. What's

Judah And Tamar The Strange Interruption

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interesting to me is that Joseph's story starts in Genesis 36, but immediately after, in Genesis 37, there is a story about Judah. Judah's story is in the middle of Joseph's. And it's not just any story about Judah, it's a wedge story. Let me tell you what the story is. Judah had sons. They were married to a woman called Tamar. The first son, scripture says he was evil and he died. By Jewish law, if you died before having a child, your brother marries your wife. And the first child that they conceive is named after your deceased brother. I didn't ask you how you feel about it, I'm just telling you what the law is. So the second son marries Tamar, but he does not want to name his son after his dead brother. So scripture says he spilled his seed on the ground and he dies. If you're Judah, you would start thinking something is wrong with this girl. Because every son that you had that married her ends up dead. He has one more son who's not of age yet to marry, and he tells Tima, give me a few years, then I'll allow you to marry him. Tama says, Yes, but then a few years pass, a few more years pass, and then some more, and she realizes Judah has no intention of marrying his last son to her. So she does something. She knows that Judah likes to visit temple prostitutes. She knows that, and so she decides she is going to dress up like a temple prostitute. She also knew that when Judah takes the sheep out to pasture and he's gone for a long time, it's on those journeys that he would normally visit the temple prostitute. You're looking uncomfortable. This isn't the Bible. I'm just telling you what the text says. Unless you prefer King James harlot, I'll use harlot. See if you're Feel better. So that Judah says he's going on a trip with the sheep. He's not going to be back in a while. And Tamar knows this is her opportunity because Judah is going and visit the temple harlot. Y'all look the same. So she pretends to be this temple harlot. Judah has relations with her. She gets pregnant. Judah finds out and says that she must die because he knows she's not married until he finds out he's the daddy. He finds out he's the daddy. He can't kill her anymore. And then she gives birth to two boys. One of them is named Pharaz. And then the story ends. And it's back to Joseph. That's a weird story to put in the Bible. But it's even weirder that's it. It is in the middle of Joseph's story. This is not Judah's story, it's Joseph's story. So it made me think, why is Judah's story in the middle of Joseph's story? And then I read Joseph tell his brothers. Come here, come here, come here. Joseph's

Why Joseph Saves Judah’s Line

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story is not necessarily about his elevation, but God using him to protect the seed, because the seed is going to come from Judah. The Christ is going to come from Judah. Therefore, the seed line needs to be preserved. God raises up Joseph so that Joseph could save Judah. Joseph recognizes this and then talks to his brothers and he tells them, You sold me, but God sent me. What looks like selling in one season could also be God's sending in the same. Joseph is able to look at it and recognize that even though his brothers meant evil for him, Potiphar's wife imprisoned him, and all of these things happened to him. God was still with him, working out all things so that Joseph could be where he is right now. Here's why that's good news. Joseph then tells his brothers in Genesis 50, verse number 20, he tells them, You meant evil to me, but God meant it for good. To save much people alive. Y'all didn't say amen. So that's five more minutes right there. Watch this. You meant evil, but God meant it for good. Here's how that comforts me, and I hope it comforts you in this moment. It means that we don't control what happens to us. We can stop evil from happening, we can stop the negative news from the doctor, we can stop the negative news that happens in our lives, we can control the weather, we can control what occurs in our lives, but we should be confident in knowing that even when evil reports are around, even when others mean evil for us, God knows how to take an evil thing and make it work for good. That was about five of you. Let me try that again. Because if you get that, you get this sermon and we can go home. So it doesn't matter what situation you're in, if God is the one ordering, if God is the one working out his will in your life, then he knows how to take what is not good and make good from it. Joseph had a different disposition because he was able to see it from a different perspective. My father in the gospel had a different disposition when he changed his perspective. From the back, it looks like chaos. From the back, it could look messy. From the back, it may not make sense. But if you could only see it the way God sees it, what may be a mess now, what may be a season of loss now, what may be grief now, what may be family difficulty now, what may be a bad medical report now, what may be sleepless nights now, could be woven into a tapestry of something beautiful, you just can't see it yet.

God Keeps Promises Through Generations

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I know that's right, because I told you it's about seed. In Genesis chapter number three, verse number 15. God speaks to the serpent and he says, I'll put enmity between you and between the woman, between your seed and her seed. He shall bruise you on the head, and you shall bruise him on the heel. The next time this word seed shows up is in Genesis chapter number 12, where he talks to Abraham and he tells Abraham in verse number 3 of Genesis 12. And in you and your seed shall all families of the earth be blessed. And then God gives us a genealogy several times, but the one that I want to make mention of is in Ruth chapter number four, verse number 10 to 12. If I had time, I would tell you that Ruth has nothing to do with finding your boaz. Ruth is in the Bible not to tell women what kind of man they should be looking for. Ruth is in the Bible to tell you that God knows how to keep his promises and to work all things out, regardless of who you are and whose you are. Ruth wasn't a Jew, but God puts Ruth in the seed line. Tamar pretended to be a prostitute with Judah, but she is also in the generational seed line and lineage of the Christ. It doesn't matter where you are now or what's happening, God knows how to produce good from it. And so I just need to believe that regardless of where I am now, what I'm facing now, what it feels like now, God is working out a masterpiece. But let me finish this. I know that this is right because in Ruth chapter number four, from verse number 12, it says, Abraham begot Isaac, Isaac begot Jacob, Jacob begot Judah, and the rest of his brethren, Judah begot Rez. That was the name of the baby he had with Timah. If you keep reading it, then it says for Rez got Hezron. Hezron begot Ram, Ram begat Aminidab, Aminodab begot Naesha, Naesha begot Salmon, Salmon begot Boaz, Boaz begot Boaz, married to Ruth, Boaz begot Obed, Obed begat Jesse, and Jesse begot David, who became the king. Joseph went through all that he went through because God sent him to save his brother. I don't know where God is sending you. I don't, but I know if God is sending it to something good. But not because God is sending means that

Trusting God In A Bad Season

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it will always be good. So it may very well be that this week was not a good week for you because you got some bad news. Could very well be that this month hasn't been your month. Or it could be like me, I hate summer. I just recognize summer is the worst season. The only thing I like about summer is that it comes before my favorite season, fall. That's the only good thing I could find about summer. It sets up the fall. So you could be in a bad season. You could be in a bad day, a bad week, a bad month, a bad season. You could be having a bad year. You could be saying that the way 2026 has started and the way it's currently going, it's not your year. It does not matter where you are and what you're experiencing. If you are walking with God, you have the confidence that while it does not make sense now, it will make sense then. You have the confidence that while it's not good now, it will be good then. You have the confidence that all things work together for good to those that love God. You have that confidence so that even in the midst of a bad season, you could still smile and say, God, I don't know what you're up to, but I trust you. God, I don't know what you're doing. I know what it feels like from my perspective, but I trust you that this will work out to something good. Help me to see it from your perspective. Help me to glimpse it from the other side because the side I'm on now, all I see is calamity, all I see is the chaos, all I see is the hurt, all I see is the pain and the confusion. Lord, help me make sense of this and see it the way you see it. If you could do that, it will change how you act even in this season. And as I said at the beginning, I I don't know what God is doing. I don't. I don't know why He bothered my spirit enough to tell me the sermon you worked on for three weeks. The sermon you worked on for three weeks, the one that you made sure that you sent to Judy, you worked on all the slides and title and pictures. So that sermon, yeah, don't preach that today. And a sermon you didn't think of before, a sermon you were not planning to preach, a sermon that wasn't in your heart or your spirit, that's the sermon I need you to preach now. I have no idea why he said do that. But I know he's God, and because I believe he's God, I know that he's working out some beautiful tapestry, even from telling me, switch the sermon. So, in the same vein, I don't know where you are, I don't know what you're necessarily going through in this moment. I do know that sometimes life could feel so heavy that when you look at it, it could be like my father in the gospel. It looks like a mess, it looks like confusion and chaos. Life could make no sense that you're wondering why this happened, why did it have to happen? Why am I where I am? And if that's you, all I'm telling you is ask God to help you see it from his perspective. Because if you could just get a glimpse, you would realize that God is not out to kill you, and whatever he's doing is not meant for your destruction, it's actually meant for your salvation. So if you could just get a glimpse of what he's doing, what feels like a mess and chaos now is actually a beautiful tapestry and masterpiece in the making. Let's all stand, let's all stand.

Invitation To Prayer At The Front

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Ah, this is prayer time. This is your moment where if you just feel cloudy, if you feel foggy because of where you are and the circumstances of your life, I want to pray with you and for you that God clears up that fog, that God gives you clarity and he gives you peace in the midst of your circumstances. Whatever your circumstances are, you don't have to tell me because God already knows. We just want to pray because we believe that the effective prayer of the righteous works greatly. And so we're going to sing, and I'm going to use my preacher's prerogative. I don't know the song Drew had in his mind, but we're going to sing, Pass Me Not. I'm going to give Judy time to find it. And now is your moment. Don't think about the person next to you. Don't think about the other people in this room. If you need prayer, that's enough. You come. Don't worry about them. They need prayer just as much as you. But if you need it, you come. If you just feel like this is your moment, I want you to meet me in the front row. I want to pray with you and for you while we sing.