YeHoVaH desires for every last one of us to be successful in our faith walk. When you begin to walk with the Master, it puts space between you and people who are not willing to walk with the Master the way that He desires.
John is trying to communicate to us that the condemnation is because light has come into the world and men love darkness rather than light because their deeds are evil. Those who refuse to receive Yeshua as the Son of Elohim will die in their sins.
Yeshua, the Word of Elohim, obeyed the Word, spoke the Word, taught the Word, and lived the Word.