Ep 99: Money Creation from Energy

In this episode, I am sharing one of my recent breakthroughs with Money Creation. And if you have been wanting to make more money, this episode is long and it is juicy— so buckle up. You ready? Let's do it.

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Transcript

In this episode, I am sharing one of my recent breakthroughs with Money Creation, and if you have been wanting to make more money, this episode is long and it is juicy. So buckle up. You ready? Let's do it.

Hello, you are listening to The Love Your Life as a Performer podcast. I'm Kelli Youngman and I am The Life Coach for Performers. I help actors, singers, and dancers love themselves and their lives way more so keep listening to learn how you can love your life, both on and off the stage.

Hello and welcome back to episode 99 of the podcast. I realized that we have not spoken since I was recording from the magical land of LA. We were right on the beach in Playa del Rey. We got to drive up the coast to Santa Barbara and eat uni right off the pier. And I guess technically we didn't drive on the coast, but we got to go up to Santa Barbara. That was a vision board dream come true and we made the most friends, had so many inspired experiences, and that vacation mini moon trip has been a portal to so many important breakthroughs.

And I don't know. I feel ready to let this go, but I'll just say it out loud. It is my intention to share with you guys on the podcast weekly. That is the interval that I would love to commit to, and I am just in a space where I am not going to infer any wrongness on the past. Because clearly, I opted into being fully present while I was on my trip and I also needed time to process and come out the other side of the portal. And the learning, the Layered Learning, my own Layered Learning has been so exponential.

I know I say this all the time, but I really, truly feel like a different person, and I wanna be sharing that when it feels so juicy. And yeah, sometimes there might be some gaps in delivery, and I'm also just in the essence of choosing that right now, that's also okay. So take and borrow whatever feels good for you from that.

And I'm so excited to jump in to today's podcast, which is going to be about money. Because I've really had a significant breakthrough in my own understanding of what it means to let your energy lead, and I wanna talk about this so transparently because I feel like, again, my own breakthrough of shame, embarrassment, really feeling every single thing to the depths of my being, which gets to be something that I really celebrate. That's another podcast coming soon. But my breakthrough with money began prior to going on this trip and prior to going through a wedding, so we're gonna talk about that and.

There's a couple of different points that I'm gonna make in this podcast. What I really want to invite you to hear is that, again, as I'm being open and real and vulnerable about where I'm at, I also wanna just invite you to opt in to seeing how this is for you and how it applies to you. And again, my intention for this podcast is to share and be truthful, but also to share the breakthroughs so that you can come to the other side. And it's so much easier to receive information when you really believe that it is for you, and that there's not some other hidden agenda.

And I guess I'm saying with this, with the understanding and the knowing that I'm coming out of a launch for my mastermind, Anything and Everything. And again, I feel like this ties into the next podcast I'm gonna do, but I'll share briefly is that I'm really celebrating the way that I showed up and the ways that I moved through discomfort and the ways that I tried new things, and you know, played full out in a way that was different than ever before. And you know, as I was having more conversations with people, also facilitated by this breakthrough that I'm gonna share with you on this podcast, I think it's easy to, I don't know, and I'm only sharing this because I've experienced it as a coach, but also as a client, when you're having a conversation that involves money, right?

It's really easy to think that the wisdom that's being shared or the Truth Mirror moments or that what I'm saying is coming from, I don't know, an energy of getting something. And believe me, I have witnessed every stage of growth or discomfort or getting it wrong, evaluating, trying something new. So again, I'm not saying that in the past or in the future that I might not be in energy that doesn't feel great to be on the receiving end of, but what I also know is that I'm learning how to communicate better, so that the value of what's being offered is received and that the breakthrough can be received. And if any part of your brain starts thinking. Yeah, Kelli's just saying that to get me to opt into coaching, or Kelli's mentioning this because she wants me to invest or you know, she's trying to get my money. Again, I've had these thoughts about my coaches before, so I know it's super uncomfortable, but what I want you to just try on and hear through that is that this breakthrough could be for you too. That there's no hidden agenda in me sharing this, except for you to see the breakthrough that's available. And if that does involve or facilitate you investing in yourself more, whether it's with me or someone else, whether it's for transformation or for a new kitchen, I don't know. Whatever, it's right.

I just want to pass on the wisdom that I've gained from my coaches, which is that it's safe to make investments. It's safe to bet on yourself. It's safe to believe that someone out there genuinely has information that could transform your life. Because if you lean towards skepticism or doubt, or fear, or like even just believing, this is a tactic, air quote, tactic. Like again, you're not gonna be fully available to hear what I'm saying and especially when it's a subject such as money, I want you to just be willing to hear it as if this really is for you and coming from so much love. Because it is. And I do think this is one of my biggest breakthroughs to date. So let's jump in.

Okay. I just wanna share that, you know, earlier in the year, to give you some context, I went into planning a wedding without any money being saved up. Okay? And this is where, again, if I'm being really honest and vulnerable like this is or has been something that I've kind of been letting fester as something that is like not good. Air quote, not good. Because again, most people would think, Kelli, you're running a business. Kelli, you're doing this. Like, how do you not have money saved? Or why don't you have these systems in place? Believe me, my brain has asked me all of these questions before as well. And what I do know is that when I look back, I have chosen actively to invest heavily in myself and my own brain, even when it's uncomfortable, even when I didn't have the money.

I chose to keep my apartment uptown even when I ended my long-term relationship, which meant that I was paying $3,400 in rent by myself on top of all of my debt payments on top of hiring coaches at that time, and again. I've kind of given myself permission to live without as much air quote safety net as one might hope or should or would or could. Okay. And again, I've done that so intentionally on top of being in a phase of my business where I gifted, donated, offered scholarships for my programs over $40,000 worth in the last three years. Okay? So again, I am also looking at myself and my actions with so much love and non-judgment, and only because I've finally gotten to a place where it is no longer causing me shame.

Okay. But for reference, I went into planning my wedding without the money in the bank, and I talked about how, again, if I was doing things a very traditional way, I would've waited. I would've said, well, let me save up for what I think a wedding is gonna cost, and then we'll start looking at it. But I didn't wanna do that. I wanted to be married now. And what I know to be true, in every other area of my life and what I'm now finally really carrying over into my money in a solid way because I've seen breakthroughs and results and things before. I've had 25K months. I've, you know, watched my income skyrocket and I've also watched it plummet and I've watched it go up and down and up and down bank account, up, down in the negatives, thousands of dollars and again, my nervous system has really been conditioned to hold all of this.

What's been so freaking cool is to watch myself really witness the ways that I was still using some of my results against me and you know, treating it as this thing that I didn't want anyone to know about me. Which is really interesting because again, I facilitate people doing this work on their own. I've watched my clients bring in hundreds of thousands of dollars. I've watched and facilitated women doubling their income, retiring their husbands, growing their businesses to multiple six figures and more. Like I have really been a vessel for other people's increase. And at times, my income was not where I wanted it to be.

And so when I really slowed down, what I understood so deeply and what's been part of my biggest money breakthrough, and again, if this applies to you in money or it applies to you in something else, always find the parallels. Because again, how we do one thing is how we do everything, but find the ways that you're currently holding on to judgment and shame and wrongness. Okay.

Because what's been fascinating is to remind myself of a few things. One, we want money. For what we think we will have on the other side of it. Like no one actually just wants a big pile of money sitting in their bank account, right? I mean, maybe that'll feel good or maybe that'll provide safety. But what I know to be true is that I felt safe even at times when there was negative thousands of dollars in my bank account. Okay? And I also know millionaires that have had a fuck ton of money, and they've also felt unsafe with the amount of money they've had.

So. Again, this is where you get to really hear that your thoughts are always creating your experience, not the circumstance. But what I know to be true is that again, we don't want the pile of money. We want the pile of money for what we can do with it. The places we can go, the things we can do, the love, we can experience getting to share that love with our family and friends. We want it for the experience. And what's been so trippy about even the last two years of my life where I've had the feeling that my income isn't where I want it to be. Which again, notice that's a thought we all think. That thought has been creating a net negative in my energy and my perspective of myself.

But what's wild is that I have not been at a loss for experience. I've taken multiple vacations, I've been gifted travel, I've gotten to stay at luxury resorts. I've gone to galas at The Plaza. I've gone all over the city, been gifted experience after experience, which is also why I think I've had a little bit of wobble in my desire to change my circumstance around money. Because I've seen and witnessed that even without the tangible resource of money, my life is amazing. And so again, notice if there's a place in your life where you're like, yeah, there's this part of my life that isn't exactly what I want, but the rest of my life is amazing. So I'm gonna keep my attention on what's working. And again, in so many ways, I support that and I totally teach that. Where we give our energy, it flows. But what happens when we are avoiding, is that we're not giving our positive attention to the thing we desire. So it's so easy to unintentionally bypass or unintentionally deprioritize actually solving for the piece of your life that's not working.

Okay. And so what was fascinating. Is that one night Terry and I were in bed and we were talking about the, just the energy and the frequency of knowing that your mind is really creating your results. And maybe this was partially because there was a few things that happened that led up to this breakthrough, but one, like I said, we went on this vacation and said yes to this travel without, again, air quote, having as much money as we should. We even got to a place on the trip where we were like, oops, we're like almost outta cash flow, only because again, we said yes to this trip without any other prerequisites. Our friend gifted us the travel. Our friend gifted us a place to stay and really, they're like one of our family members. But we had all of this experience gifted and there still was the tangible 3D money that was not in our experience at the time. And so by channeling the sufficiency, by really looking at what we did have, the only thing that was lacking was that we hadn't had this breakthrough of really deciding to be in abundance financially.

And I know that might sound so obvious, but when I was driving in Santa Barbara, I spent like two hours listening to a Joe Dispenza tape, because Terry was really tired. He was taking a nap and just reminding myself of the power of visualization, not as a tool, but as a reality, combined with really understanding that we are not these physical dense bodies that we can see and feel and touch. That there is so much more available to us than we realize. Coming back to like the scientific data that shows that our reality is created by our awareness, our perception.

Again, Terry and I were in bed just chatting, and I finally realized that I had been suppressing some emotions, so I gave myself space to feel it. I cried. I really looked at, oh my gosh, I'm thinking that you know, right now I can't make more money because I didn't invest in myself recently. Like I had some kind of unwritten timeframe for the amount of investments I was making. Even though I've invested literally over $120,000 in my brain. I was thinking that, you know, if people found out that I'm not air quote financially in a better place that they wouldn't wanna hire me. I was so afraid of what I was making my financial circumstance mean, that I was completely detaching from the feeling. I was speaking with one of my clients and they were in their mind trying to solve everything without really seeing that our thoughts are a tool.

And now I'm getting ahead of myself, 'cause there's a couple things, but our thoughts are a tool. We're not meant to be in our thoughts. Thinking, thinking, thinking, thinking, thinking, thinking, thinking all day every day. If we're thinking and trying to solve for something, again, it's not good, bad, right or wrong. We want to be resourceful, proactive, taking action. But the thinking and the thought and the constant strategizing is actually pulling us out of being the version of us that has the circumstance we want, whether that's money or something else.

And so maybe it was even a week ago, two weeks ago, I really sat with what happens when I make the decision to be a millionaire? What is different about me when I have actively decided that these are my circumstances. What thoughts would I be thinking and what thoughts would I literally not even be having? And that's different from like, I don't know, in the past I was like, well, if I was a millionaire, I wouldn't be thinking about money. I wouldn't be looking at money. And that couldn't be further from the truth, right? Like myself as a millionaire is managing my funds really well. Myself as a multimillionaire feels safe holding and receiving money and knows exactly what to do with it, right? So it's not that we wouldn't be doing those things, but I wouldn't be, for instance, like checking my bank account like 20 times a day, right? I would trust that the money was there. Okay.

So when you think about yourself and money, are you really allowing yourself to sit with the having of it. The decision that you do have, and again. What's fascinating is I work with clients from all different walks of life, and even people with the financial circumstance of thousands of dollars in the bank account can tell themselves that they don't have enough. Right, and we could still experience lack financial stress, like budgeting 20 times a day. I used to do that in college, write out and reaffirm to myself how much debt I owed. And again, I'm not saying keep your head in the sand and not look at it, but I'm saying when we're obsessing about it, when we're crunching the numbers, we are really being the version of us that does not have money. Not because of the action, but because of the energy. Okay.

So when we got back from travel, I really sat with, holy fuck, these are the emotions, these are the truths that I've been burying down. These are the thoughts I've been thinking that I haven't really wanted to acknowledge or give energy to. But by trying to avoid them, I just prolonged the feeling. So there was a day that I literally got coaching and I sat with it, I held it, and instead of trying to turn away from it, I leaned in. And I cried in my husband's arms and it was messy, and I just let it out. But what happened was that I realized everything I was crying about was a story.

Everything is a story. It's what I'm making it mean. It's the affirmation I'm giving myself about my current financial position. And so in that moment when I actually felt my feelings, I created space for a new reality. And I said to my husband, and we've been reaffirming it to ourselves every day. We are multimillionaires, we are people of value. When we make a budget, we can trust our numbers we can hold it and feel safe in our finances because that's who we are. And like every iteration of that sort of mantra, we've been living and breathing into.

What is so freaking wild is that we went out to drinks with a friend, and again, we weren't expecting them to pick up the tab, but they did. On the way home, I found $11 on the street and you know that my ass was celebrating that $11 as if it was a million. Okay? We had my mother-in-law sent us some money just as a gift. She also offered us tickets to go see a show that I've been dying to see. On top of all of that, the next day I received a client payment of $2,000, and then within the span of days, I created another client for $6,000.

So my financial circumstance, literally in one week went from, maybe if I'm being conservative a hundred dollars in the bank to $8,000 in the bank. This is what's possible when we are in the energy of having. And this is the same, if you're calling in love, you're calling in a Broadway show, you're calling in an agent. No matter what it is. We cannot be in the fear of what we're making it mean about ourselves while trying to take action. And I mean, we can, but the action's not gonna create the result because our alignment is what creates the result. Okay. And again, I have like such a high risk tolerance, like I literally have lived my whole life like this. So I'm comfortable having any amount of cash flow, even if that means negative cash flow. And I'm like, eh, whatever. Like I'm supported, I'm taken care of. I'm alive, I'm living like. This is air quote okay. And now my next quantum leap is to say, actually that's not okay. That's not who I am anymore. I'm not the kind of person that has a fluctuating bank account in a way that feels drained.

So all of this to say is that we have to be looking at what are the assumptions I'm making about myself? What are the assumptions that I forgot? Because again, like I said, I'm not unaccustomed to making money. I've had 20K days. I've made 25K in a month. I've made money multiple times over and over and over again. But when my identity is slipping, I forget that I know how to make money. I forget that money is my friend. That money wants to be near me, that wants to support me. It's so easy to slip out of that frequency and wait for the circumstances to come.

And there's nothing wrong with doing it in an air quote linear way. Of like, well, I'm gonna go trade my time for money and I'm gonna get this paycheck on Friday, and then I'll save 30% of the, again, I'm not anti-system, but if you're in a place right now where you wanna 10x your money, what you have to change is your assumptions and your beliefs about yourself. And you have to start looking at who am I when I expect to make $40,000 a month? How do I treat myself when I expect to make $20,000 tomorrow? And that energy, that identity, is what creates the space to receive it. Okay. 

And now the reason I know this episode is a little bit long, but the reason why I wanna share this in real time in context is because I've had people tell me they wanna do the mastermind and then say, well, I don't know. I'm gonna pay my rent. I'm looking at expenses, this, that, the other, and again, believe me, I get it. I just went through like a real, real experience of that over the last couple months of thinking about, oh my gosh, where's the money gonna come from? How am I gonna pay my rent? How am I gonna, I have these bills and they're falling behind. Believe me, I have had that circumstance. I've lived it over and over to the point where I've desensitized myself to that condition. Now, I'm not saying that you should do that too.

But what I want you to hear. Is that when you're saying, well, I have these future goals that I wanna do and I don't know if I can afford this right now. It's not so much air quote wrong in the terms of like, you're allowed to do whatever you want with your money when you want. I'm not here to tell you what to do. But what I can tell you from the energetic piece is that when you are thinking about money in a way that you do not expect money to show up tomorrow. Or if you don't have a container to receive money tomorrow. Or if you aren't sure that you will double your income over the next six months, or you don't know how that could happen or why that could happen, that's where you actually wanna be solving, right?

Because that's where the identity needs to be upgraded. And your assumptions about yourself and your beliefs about yourself and your beliefs about money, and also in actually being facilitated or learning how to process your emotions so that they are not lingering, right? Because even as a life coach, even as someone with a trained mind with these tools, I still had lingering thoughts that I was unintentionally detached from, right? And so if someone who is an expert in their field in facilitating this can still have blind spots. This is just part of having a human brain. It's why I still pay coaches thousands and thousands of dollars. Because they are always going to show me something that I have not seen yet. And I'm gonna intentionally opt into seeing it so that I can move forward. Right.

But if your brain is thinking, well, I'm gonna save money and I'm in a season of saving, again, you're still unintentionally choosing between saving and earning. Right? You're still unintentionally thinking, this is all that I'm gonna have coming in, based on my current commitments, based on my current job and/ or considering factors or uncertainty in a way that is not decided that it's going to grow. Are you seeing what I'm saying? Are you picking up what I'm putting down? We have to actually change our belief system and our expectations to the core of our being. So that it's not hoping, wishing, waiting, fingers crossed. Like again, I've done that too. That money will come and then it doesn't, and then you're like, oh fuck. I guess I'll just try again. And like, I don't know. To me that is part of the process, being willing to opt in and try new strategies, try new things. And another future podcast coming, is that your intuition is the best strategy, Ps.

But if you are not getting clear or being facilitated in regulating your nervous system, in understanding that in order to get somewhere new, you have to do something different. Right? And again, everyone is allowed to have their own, um, what's the word? Risk tolerance or, you know, where you feel safe operating, all of those things. But I'll tell you something that has really supported me in. Again, just looking at my money circumstances as totally neutral, is that I once heard that Mother Teresa when she was running her facilities and bringing money in and sending money out as donations or food or resources for people who needed it, she never operated with overhead. She just trusted that she had what she needed, like there was sufficiency in like, I always have what I need. And it comes and it goes and it comes in and it goes and there's this beautiful flow. And so I do remember adopting that belief at some time. And maybe I am, um, abbreviating the story or the anecdote a little bit, but I do remember saying like, if Mother Theresa can operate without overhead or without like a big safety net, so can I. I was like, I am divinely guided just as much as Mother Teresa. And so again, there's just like this beautiful space to be a non-judgment of whatever your circumstances are and when you're wanting to attract and create more money, it comes from really deciding you are the kind of person that makes money, that has money, that is a millionaire, and how would you walk down the street knowing it was already yours?

The last thing I wanna say is, again, when that is true, when your assumption is, I am gonna double my investment, I'm gonna pay Kelli $6,000 and I'm gonna get way more than that in return. When you really know like, Ooh, it's not saving for this or investing in that, but it can be this and this, we start expanding the container of how we're holding our wealth. Right, like we're expanding the container of how we treat ourselves in the frequency of wealth and abundance. And again, even if you don't have the tangible resource in your account right now, what I do know to be true is it's available to you. And what I do know to be true is that we have to be willing to feel that way first.

Because I could have really checked out. I could have really said, Ooh, my launch isn't going as planned. Like this is embarrassing. Nevermind. I could have put my foot on the break and said, I've gotta go get a job. And again, I could totally do that. I'm not shaming that decision. I've done it before. But, and, when the decision is to really upgrade your identity to receive money, you go first with your energy so that you can create the result. And right now I'm in the energy of knowing I have $50,000 months. So whether it's this month or the next, I'm calling it in now.

But if we're already looking to budgeting money. Later down the road, what we're not doing is thinking about how we're generating wealth today. That's money management, not money creation. Right. And when you wanna be changing your money circumstance, we can't only look at the management of the money we have, we have to be looking at how am I creating more? And if we're only doing that from action, like, oh my gosh, I gotta do this. I gotta make more offers, I gotta do, and again, we're not anti action here. But if you're not changing your energy, your results will not change. And it will take longer because you're not being a magnet, the version of you that has the results you want, right? Like if my brain was still saying, oh my gosh, this is so embarrassing. I should be making more money. This launch isn't going well, I could have really opted out and set myself into an energy where I wasn't available to show up for what I was creating.

And in this moment it was money. And like I said, within a week I created almost $8,000 and more in terms of gifts and receiving, and I put myself back in the stream of abundance. That is available to you too. I want you to know that you could make money today, right? You could join the mastermind, whether it's this round or the next, and decide. I am the kind of person that can make $6,000 in a day. I'm the kind of person that makes a hundred thousand dollars in a day. Like I've been consciously stretching my beliefs too, as I watch my coaches and other women walk ahead of me. And I use that as my inspiration to say if it's possible for them, it exists for me.

And so if I can go from having like a hundred dollars in my account to having over $8,000 come in, so can you. And it's like, are you actually counting yourself into that kind of growth? Are you thinking it's some kind of ploy to, you know, get something? Are you being skeptical about the possibility? Are you thinking that this works for other people, but not for you? And that's where you really wanna put your energy. Okay.

And I know this episode is long, but the last thing I really wanna say is because again, you might have heard this analogy before, but it's been landing for me so freaking hard, is that if I gave you a $20 million check today and it was legit and you went to the bank to deposit it, they might say to you, okay. Thank you for this deposit because it is sizable, it's gonna take 10 to 14 business days to process. Would you be thinking that the money was not yours? How would you be feeling knowing that the $20 million was on its way, even though it hadn't hit your account yet? Notice how you'd be feeling if you did have $20 million in the bank.

And again, I know your brain is gonna wanna say, well, that's nice and all, but I don't have the money yet. This is where I wanna invite you back to quantum physics. If you decide it is so, it exists. And there's a version of you that you can connect to that has the $20 million, and your job is to give yourself permission to experience the $20 million frequency today. Like genuinely sit down and this is the work that most people are bypassing, is actually giving their mind and body clear command in what you're calling in. By taking the time to slow down and actually experience it. Not just thinking, oh, it'll be nice. I'm a millionaire. I'm a millionaire, I'm a millionaire. Saying it without feeling it, or, you know, hoping for it without actually engaging with it. Because again, the result is not created through action. It's created through alignment. Time is non-linear.

When you really do accept this is mine and I have it, your next job is just to be in the present today, experiencing life as you would as that version of you. And when you do that money, your husband, your wife, whatever you're calling in, can arrive if you energetically align to that result. That is the work that needs to be done, not only action, action, action, action, action. Because again, if you're doing action with an underlying frequency that doesn't believe in anything that you're doing, that's the equivalent of going to auditions, not expecting to book the job. Okay.

So I know this is a long one. I have a lot of wisdom that is pouring through me from all of my experiences, my lived experiences, my coaching experiences, my recent travel, and it is, like I said, overflowing. So get ready for some magic and I'll meet you back here for our next episode. Bye.

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