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The How to ABA Podcast
We are Shira and Shayna and we are so excited to bring you our first podcast episode of How to ABA! We are both BCBAs with over twenty years of experience, and as you can imagine, we have created and gathered so many resources in that time. We want to share them with you! That’s why we are here, and that’s why we created this podcast. If you are new to the world of ABA, are looking for new resources, or just looking for a fresh perspective, you’re in the right place!
The How to ABA Podcast
Mastering Difficult Conversations in ABA - What Actually Works
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Difficult conversations are a core part of our work as BCBAs, yet many of us were never formally taught how to handle them. We explore why these moments feel so high stakes, from fear of conflict to protecting relationships, and how avoidance or vague communication can make things worse. Instead, we share practical strategies that help us approach these conversations with more confidence and clarity.
We focus on leading with curiosity, using open body language, and grounding conversations in shared goals. We also highlight the importance of balancing empathy with accountability and why clarity is a form of kindness. By applying behavioral principles to communication, we can better prepare for these interactions and create more productive outcomes.
Preparation plays a key role, including practicing ahead of time and identifying desired outcomes. When handled well, these conversations can strengthen relationships, improve team collaboration, and ultimately lead to better outcomes for our learners.
What’s Inside:
- Why difficult conversations feel so challenging in ABA
- Common mistakes like avoidance and vague feedback
- Practical strategies for clearer, more compassionate communication
- How to apply behavioral principles to conversations
Mentioned in This Episode:
The Next Conversation by Jefferson Fisher
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