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The How to ABA Podcast
We are Shira and Shayna and we are so excited to bring you our first podcast episode of How to ABA! We are both BCBAs with over twenty years of experience, and as you can imagine, we have created and gathered so many resources in that time. We want to share them with you! That’s why we are here, and that’s why we created this podcast. If you are new to the world of ABA, are looking for new resources, or just looking for a fresh perspective, you’re in the right place!
The How to ABA Podcast
Giving Constructive Feedback in ABA Without Creating Defensiveness
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Giving feedback can feel uncomfortable, especially when we worry about how it will be received. We explore how to approach constructive feedback in a way that builds trust instead of triggering defensiveness. By focusing on observable behavior rather than the individual, we can shift conversations away from blame and toward growth. We also highlight how emotions, past experiences, and even small forms of trauma can influence how feedback is interpreted.
We discuss practical strategies like choosing the right time and setting, using collaborative language, and asking thoughtful questions instead of giving directives. Small adjustments in tone, body language, and pacing can make a meaningful difference in how feedback lands. We also emphasize the importance of keeping feedback manageable and creating space for dialogue so others feel heard and supported.
When feedback is delivered with empathy and clarity, it strengthens relationships with staff and caregivers while improving outcomes for learners. Creating a culture where feedback feels safe and constructive allows everyone to grow together and stay aligned on shared goals.
What’s Inside:
- How to give feedback without triggering defensiveness
- Practical strategies for staff and caregiver conversations
- Common mistakes to avoid when delivering feedback
Mentioned in This Episode:
Episode 217: Hard Conversations, Soft Skills: Navigating Difficult Parent & Staff Interactions
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