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The benefits of being Assertive-Tshidi M Wyllie &Thabiso Tshwenyana 🇧🇼

• Tshidi M Wyllie • Season 2 • Episode 10

Let’s start this session by briefly highlighting the characteristics of an assertive person. 

An assertive person:  
1.Relates meaningfully with other people  

2.Has a sense of worth and believes in his/her right to enjoy life whilst according the same to the next person.   

3.Freely, firmly & empathetically express themselves without trampling on others & therefore does not harbour resentment, bitterness, desire to revenge or gossip. 

  4.Respects his/her own personal space, is also mindful of the fact that the same is necessary for other people.

5.  Aims for a win-win situation in relations with others whether at work/business, home and other walks of life.                                           

BENEFITS OF BEING ASSERTIVE 

 Helps you to GROW as a person because of self-understanding and self-acceptance you have the ability to set own goals and be able to pursue them.  
You do not have to explain yourself to people all the time. 
 Helps others to understand who you really are kagore ga o iphitlhe ka monwana: nyaa ke nyaa, ee ke ee (No is no and your yes is yes yo o sa patlelediweng). 
You don’t hide your feelings for the sake of people to make them feel better; mme wena oswa senku moteng “don’t make yourself small so others could feel more comfortable”. 

 Being assertive removes stereotypes, assumptions and confusion (what people see/hear is what they get, no hidden agendas, ga o noga ya ntlha-pedi (Saying Yes/No).  

It helps you to appreciate yourself   Responsibility for your actions ; Ability to resist peer pressure  

 Do these apply to you?  
Do you see yourself anywhere in these ?

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