EP # 204 - The 3-Step Process to Identify and Manage High-Maintenance Clients

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EP # 204 - The 3-Step Process to Identify and Manage High-Maintenance Clients
Jun 06, 2025 Episode 204
Maggie Perotin

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How to spot red flags early, set boundaries, and turn challenging clients into growth opportunities


Episode Summary:

Do you dread working with certain clients but can’t tell if they’re demanding (good for growth) or difficult (bad for business)? 

In this episode, Maggie breaks down the critical differences between the two and shares her proven 3-step process to identify, manage, and—when necessary—part ways with high-maintenance clients. Learn how to protect your boundaries, improve your services, and focus on clients who respect your work.


Key Takeaways:

  1. Demanding vs. Difficult Clients
    • Demanding clients push you to improve, pay on time, and respect agreements—they’re worth keeping!
    • Difficult clients drain your energy, break boundaries, and are impossible to please.
  2. The 3-Step Process to Manage Them
    • Step 1: Spot the Red Flags Early
      • Unreasonable expectations, chronic indecision, or refusal to follow processes.
    • Step 2: Set Boundaries (and Stick to Them)
      • Communicate clearly, document agreements, and don’t over-accommodate.
    • Step 3: Decide—Fix or Fire the Relationship
      • Salvage relationships with fair clients; gracefully exit toxic ones.
  3. Pro Tips for Service Providers
    • Turn demanding clients into growth opportunities by refining your processes.
    • Never let difficult clients dictate your business model—prioritize your well-being and other clients.


Quotable Moments:

  • “Demanding clients make you better; difficult clients make you bitter.”
  • “Your boundaries teach clients how to treat you.”
  • “Fire clients who cost you more than they pay you—in time, energy, or sanity.”


Call to Action:

  • Apply the 3-step process to your most challenging client this week.
  • Share your stories! Have a client dilemma? Email Maggie at maggie@stairwaytoleadership.com
  • Subscribe & Review if this episode helped you—it means the world!

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