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How to Get Laid Fast (3 Easy Things You Can Do to Get Laid Tonight!)
Many men struggle with getting laid.
Some men have it so bad that they can barely get laid at all, let alone fast.
There are some strategies you can use, however, to get yourself laid.
These strategies are great, and they really can help you.
It is all a matter of actually applying them correctly and practising.
You would be surprised how well and how quickly many of these strategies work!
Off we go...
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Many men struggle with getting laid.
Some men have it so bad that they can barely get laid at all, let alone fast.
There are some strategies you can use, however, to get yourself laid.
These strategies are great, and they really can help you.
It is all a matter of actually applying them correctly and practising.
You would be surprised how well and how quickly many of these strategies work!
Off we go...
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Part 1 - Strategies to Use to Get Laid Quickly
1 - Look for IOI’s
Rather than trying to seduce just anyone, try to seduce a girl that is showing you IOI’s.
Warm approaches are easier than cold ones.
To clarify the terms:
- Cold approach: talking to a girl you’ve never met before
- Warm approach: talking to a girl you’ve never met before, but she’s showing you IOI’s
Look around the venue you’re in for a girl showing you any of these signs:
- When you look at her, she starts to play with her hair
- When you look at her, she smiles big
- She quickly darts her look away from you when she notices you looking at her
Approach her from the front, and mention something about the venue you’re in to start the conversation.
Once you’re talking to her, here are some IOI’s:
- She giggles at everything you say
- She touches you
- She’s constantly playing with her hair
- She’s crossing and uncrossing her legs
- She crosses her legs towards you
All of these are great signs.
If you want to get laid immediately, you should talk for about 30 minutes, and then you can try and bounce her to your place.
Say something plausibly deniable like: “I’d like to play some guitar for you.” or “I have an awesome TV at my place, you wanna watch something?”
If she agrees, you’re good to go!
If she doesn’t agree, you could ask for her number, and meet up later!
2 - Tease Her Playfully
During the conversation you’re having with the girl you’re interested in, you should try and fit in some playful teasing.
The stuff that worked in grade 6 works great here!
You could, in response to something she says, talk about how girls have cooties and so you don’t like what she was talking about.
You could also call her a weirdo if she talks about something weird.
Say this stuff with a smile or a smirk.
If she starts to laugh in response to what you’re saying, you know you’re doing a good job!
Basically, you’re trying to create the warm feelings of rapport.
A girl will only sleep with a guy she’s comfortable with.
If she’s too comfortable, however, you’re in for the friend zone!
3 - When It’s Clear She’s Interested, Isolate!
When you think a girl might be into you (the conversation is going well, she’s laughing, giving you IOI’s, etc.), it’s time to get 1 on 1!
Just ask her to do one of these things:
- Dance with you
- Go outside for air
- Come to your place to watch a movie/play music, etc.
If she complies, it’s a great sign!
Ideally, since you’re trying to get laid tonight, you would ask her to come to your place.
Just make sure you give her some plausibly deniable excuse!
If she doesn’t agree to these things, you could ask for her number anyway, and leave!
The problem is that if she doesn’t comply with the things you’re asking it implies that she’s not interested. That number will likely go nowhere.
You’re better off pursuing a different girl than going on a wild goose chase!
Part 2 - How to Increase Your Chances of Getting Laid
There are several ways to increase your chances of getting laid in one night.
Here’s a list:
- Improve your looks
- Improve your logistics
- Use online dating
- Get better at sex
Let’s explain a bit about each one!
1 - Improving Your Looks
Women want to sleep with attractive men, especially if we’re talking about an ONS.
This means that you have to maximize your looks!
You can do this by the following:
- Becoming more muscular (work out at the gym/train a martial art 3-4 times a week minimum)
- Having a well developed sense of style (dressing with an athletic look, or a preppy look, or a hipster look, whatever works for you and being congruent in that)
- Smelling good (use a cologne that works well with your natural odor)
- Being well groomed (having hair, including facial hair, that looks good with your face)
Improving your looks helps you to get your foot in the door. It makes everything in the seduction process easier.
Looking good also makes the people around you respond more favourably. People will literally like you more because of how you look. It is called the halo effect.
2 - Improve Your Logistics
It is much easier to get laid when you have the logistics handled.
Big cities are much easier to get laid in than small towns.
If you have an apartment close to the place you’re talking to women, it helps a lot, for example.
Having an apartment close by means you can easily bounce the girl to your place.
It is easier if you don’t live with your parents and also if you don’t have roommates.
Logistics are extremely important to getting laid!
Think not only about where you’re going to meet women, but how easy it is to go from there to your place!
3 - Use Online Dating
Online dating gives you access to a lot of girls.
This is especially true if you have great pictures!
See my guide on how to get a FWB off of online dating!
It is quite possible to get the first night lay off of online dating, you just have to invite the girl to your place or be invited to hers.
Keep in mind that first date lays and ONSs are unlikely to lead to FWBs.
It is awesome if you like sexual variety though!
Obviously online dating requires a different skillset than regular dating and requires quite a bit of practice.
I recommend practising getting laid both in person and online, though if you’re a beginner, it is probably better if you start off with only one.
You also have to put in the numbers to succeed online! Don’t expect to swipe three times and get instantly laid!
4 - Get Better At Sex
You goal every time you have sex should be to make your girl come.
She will keep coming back for more if you’re the best sex she’s ever had.
Take all the time you need and make sure she cums!
Most women cum through clitoral stimulation.
Use whatever you need to use in order to accomplish this task.
Some women like it when you use your tongue, other women like your fingers. Some will even come just by penetration.
It’s always fun figuring out which kind of girl you’re dealing with, but whatever you do, make sure you do discover what makes her cum!
Women will definitely keep coming back to you if you’re giving them the best sex of their lives.
Ask me how I know.
Conclusion
Getting laid fast is the goal of many seducers.
In this article, we talked about what it takes to get laid the first night you go out!
Here is the list of helpful things once again:
- Look for IOI’s
- Tease her playfully
- When you’re sure she’s interested, isolate
These are all proven strategies that are going to help you to get laid on the first night you do out.
If you want to improve your chances even further, do the following:
- Improve your looks
- Improve your logistics
- Use online dating
- Get better at sex
Obviously maximizing the above is going to make your life way easier!
The most important thing however is to go out and actually practise!
You’re never going to have success without work!
Good luck.