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Desire Or Programming?

Coffee With Hilary and Les from State of Mind Hypnosis and Training Centre

Coffee With Hilary and Les from State of Mind Hypnosis and Training Centre
Desire Or Programming?
Apr 27, 2026 Season 4 Episode 53
Hilary & Les

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We follow one question all the way down: what do we truly want when we strip away fear, approval-seeking, and the quiet pressure to fit in. We unpack how culture turns ordinary things into status symbols, then show a simple way to spot when “desire” is really just programming. 
• the gap between authentic desires and socially constructed desires 
• body mind dominance through survival needs fear and exhaustion 
• belonging and fitting in as a powerful driver of choice 
• how culture assigns meaning using wine as an example 
• ego class signals and the need to be seen as good 
• childhood conditioning and worth tied to others’ judgment 
• money as a survival tool versus money as a scorecard 
• symbols connotation and why status objects feel compelling 
• questions to ask to find the feeling behind a desire 
• choosing consciously instead of living by “should” 


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