Exploring Identity & Spirit Self - Part 1 - SOUL

Coffee With Hilary and Les from State of Mind Hypnosis and Training Centre

Coffee With Hilary and Les from State of Mind Hypnosis and Training Centre
Exploring Identity & Spirit Self - Part 1 - SOUL
Aug 20, 2026 Season 4 Episode 74
Hilary & Les

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You can be grateful for your life and still feel trapped inside the version of yourself you learned to be. That tension is where we start: identity as a role, a costume, a coat you might not even realize you are wearing until something inside you says, “This is heavy.”

We explain why we’ve started splitting our weekly conversations into two lanes, one focused on practical mind work like identity change, habits, and how the brain and body shape daily experience, and another focused on soul work like spiritual hypnosis, past life regression, and life between lives. The surprising part is how often these lanes merge in real sessions. People come in wanting help with anxiety or sleep and then touch something bigger, a higher mind, a deeper subconscious, a sense of guides, or an experience that feels like another lifetime. Whether you label that spirituality, symbolism, or the mind opening itself, it can shake loose the belief that you are only your job, your history, or your thoughts.

We also get personal about how identity forms through childhood programming, family approval, and the need to belong. We talk about how even “good” identities can become limiting, and why the point is not to obsess over how you got here but to recognize choice. When the grip on identity softens, life can feel more like an adventure again. We close with a powerful reminder about authentic self and the idea of shedding layers to find what is actually yours underneath all the expectations.

If you’ve been asking “Who am I without my roles?” you’ll feel at home here. Subscribe, share this with a friend who’s stuck in a label, and leave a review with the identity you’re ready to question next.

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