Your Desires Point Toward The Stars - When You Get Quiet

Coffee With Hilary and Les from State of Mind Hypnosis and Training Centre

Coffee With Hilary and Les from State of Mind Hypnosis and Training Centre
Your Desires Point Toward The Stars - When You Get Quiet
Apr 29, 2026 Season 4 Episode 54
Hilary & Les

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Desire stops being a guilty want and starts looking like a navigation tool, the inner “stars” we search for when life feels cloudy. We work out how to separate fear-based programming from inspired curiosity so the next step becomes clear even when the big plan is not. 

• the origin of desire as “asking for stars” to find direction 
• desire reframed as guidance rather than selfishness 
• ego as the story of being a body and being alone 
• survival needs and Maslow’s hierarchy as drivers of motivation 
• socially constructed wants and the pressure of “should” 
• boredom defined as a message that we’re meant for more 
• a personal wake-up call around work, debt, and maintaining stuff 
• learning to listen through silence, meditation, and self-hypnosis 
• a 30-minute daily practice with no phone and no distractions 
• where ideas come from and why inspiration arrives when the mind slows 
• sorting worry thoughts from exciting thoughts that feel alive 
• shifting from five-year plans to the next inspired action 

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