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Talking Tuesday with Dan and Lacey. How about that high note?

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That was perfect. Hey there, pineapple people, and welcome to the Swing Nation Podcast. We are your host, Northern Guy and Southern Girl. And we are back with another rendition of Tuesday Talks.

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We are with Dan and Wacy. I've got to come up with a name for you. Wacey! Like Danny. Or something.

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Yeah, that's that's hilarious.

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Your Nana. Shut up. Your Nana calls you Danny. Doesn't she? Yeah.

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Yeah. There's actually an I'm not gonna say it here because you'll use it, but there is a nickname that I don't like that my family uses. So anyway. Uh all right. So we're back. We are back with another rendition of Tuesday Talks.

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Yes.

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Alright, are you ready for this week's question?

SPEAKER_00 1:51

It's different.

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Let's go to the phone lines.

SPEAKER_01 1:55

I did in my team. I wonder if we're more into the media and team, but we love your podcast and your advice is always helpful helpful for us. So maybe this is because we're more into media time where blood and other fluids are more common. But at a lot of the parties we attend, either Twinger parties or media, they're food bread. And my wife and I are always kind of weirded out by the productivity of the food food attack. But I feel like we're alone in that. Do you eat the food at sex parties?

SPEAKER_02 2:24

Do you eat the food at sex parties? Okay, so if you are listening and you don't know what he's talking about, um, it actually is semi-common for there to be finger food type things at swinger parties. Yeah. Specifically, um some of the more uh I don't know, some of these parties where it's like grassroots, like kind of like yeah, it's at a house, somebody's house party or even some clubs, but it's like more not like a corporate club. It's like this couple started a club and it's you know it's a little smaller.

SPEAKER_00 2:59

I can think of like Trapeze, they do a dinner, which I don't really consider that like finger food to me.

SPEAKER_02 3:03

That's so Trapeze in Atlanta literally has a buffet at and and at Fort Lauderdale. Yeah, they have buffets, and if you're in the Diamond Club, they'll actually serve you food.

SPEAKER_00 3:13

Tempted has uh finger foods. Uh they either make it.

SPEAKER_02 3:17

They have a little buffet thing with finger foods by the bar at Club Tempted. Uh, I can even think I've been to a lot of hotel parties where they order pizza at like midnight.

SPEAKER_00 3:27

Um you gotta fuel the people up if they want them to fuck on that, they gotta have food in their bellies.

SPEAKER_02 3:32

Food is not unusual at swinger parties and events. So what he's saying is he has some concerns about where people's hands have been and then them going and eating said food. And they want he wants to know our thoughts. And he wants to know one, do you eat the food? And then two, what are your thoughts on that decision making?

SPEAKER_00 3:54

Um, I would say I eat the food sometimes. There have been some that I went to that there was like no way I was touching that, that it looked like something somebody had made at their house and brought it in, like almost like a potluck style. I don't particularly want to eat at that, but I also don't want to eat it that in take the sex off. You know, I'm not like a big potluck person just in general. Um, I totally eat the food at Treppies. I've ate the food at Tempted. Um you've had pizza several times. You know, where you of course that's like dominoes or Pubajans, they bring in, you know, the whole piles of pizza.

SPEAKER_02 4:28

So I But you still gotta reach in there, maybe pull a piece off of another piece.

SPEAKER_00 4:31

Yeah. Um, but so yeah, I do partake. Do you partake in the food?

SPEAKER_02 4:35

Uh I I think I agree with you. I actually probably partake more than you would partake. I think I'm a little less picky with food than you are, but I would say my I make a similar judgment call. If there are food where people are clearly repetitively putting their hands into the said food to get it out, uh, I will probably not participate. If it's food, you know, like you think about like tempted or uh I'm not I'm sorry, trapeze, they they serve you food. Like you're at a restaurant and then they clear your plates. So like nobody has touched that food but you and the the restaurants. They're also like even the buffet, they're very particular. They have to put the food on your plate. Yeah. You don't reach for the spoon. If you do that, they will yell at you.

SPEAKER_00 5:15

Yeah.

SPEAKER_02 5:15

Um, so it's they serve you the food.

SPEAKER_00 5:17

And the food there is not, I mean, yes, in the diamond club, it is sort of close to playrooms, but there is a definite division between them. But like in the main dining, it's very separate from, you know, it seems like almost two different things. Um, so yeah, you do we both partake. I'm not weirded out by it. I'm gonna be honest. Um, and I don't know if like I've never been to a BDSM party, so I don't know if they have a different, if it's a different situation. I can only base it on what we go to. Um, I'm not I'm not weirded out by people eating the food and then coming and playing with me. If I'm worried about your hands being clean, I'm probably not gonna fuck you. Right. That's just the truth. Like, I'm gonna fuck people that I know if they eat, they're gonna wash their hands and they're gonna.

SPEAKER_02 6:00

Well, I think the concern is actually the opposite way that you've had sex and now you're putting your hands back on the food.

SPEAKER_00 6:06

Well, most of the food that we get from places is gonna be like a piece of pizza where you just grab the one. Um, or like sometimes they'll have the staff putting it on plates, or even like at tempted, none of the stuff is really that you put your fingers in. It's there, there's tongs, there's things like that.

SPEAKER_03 6:22

Stencils, yeah.

SPEAKER_00 6:23

Yeah, so I mean, I'm obviously gonna use my judgment. Like if it looks gramy, I'm not gonna eat it. But if it's if it seems okay, I I am. I I've never seen somebody like walk in and just stick their hands, like their gross hands. I've never, I've heard does that happen? I'm sure, you know. I'm also not a super huge germaphobe, and I maybe they these people are. Um, but yeah, the honestly, like we're swapping bodily fluids, you know. We're I'm squirting on you, in you, around you, your fingering, like there's a lot going on. Like to me, that seems like a minor detail. That's like kind of having like a kissing rule when you fuck someone. It's sort of like to me, kissing is not a big deal. So, like I it's not something that I'm overly worried about.

SPEAKER_02 7:16

I do understand- You're saying you realize when you go to a swinger's party and you're engaging in sex, but you know, specifically like group sex and stuff like that, that there is a germ exchange that's already happening. Yeah. So at the odd chance that somebody maybe touches your food that has had some type of bodily fluid on their body, well, you're already engaging with multiple like you're it's kind of an assumed risk.

SPEAKER_00 7:40

Yeah, yeah, I kind of know that. But obviously, if I walk up to the food and it looks like somebody's had their grummy hands in it and it looks gross, I'm probably not gonna eat. And honestly, most of the time that I'm eating at a swinger club is going to be like prior to prior to the sex. Yeah.

SPEAKER_02 7:55

Yeah, that's what I was gonna say. So I think a few things. One, most of the swinger parties and things that we go to, the food is before the sex, right?

SPEAKER_00 8:03

So um I the exception to that is like a breakfast or like pizza. And I trust the pizza that I'm describing it by the slice. Yeah, right, right.

SPEAKER_02 8:12

So that would be the the the two exceptions would be at Trapeze, they bring out breakfast, and that's what usually we go eat breakfast after. But again, they are serving you that breakfast. Yeah, you're not co-touching. Yeah. The only, I guess the probably the most questionable thing would be pizza, is if you're reaching into a box of pizza that somebody else has reached into and potentially touched other pieces. Pizza usually is post-sex, but at that point in time, and honestly, there's usually you want that pizza so bad.

SPEAKER_00 8:38

And there's usually like 10 or 20 pizzas, depending on the party. Just get a new box.

SPEAKER_02 8:42

Right, go find a new fresh one.

SPEAKER_00 8:43

Yeah, yeah. Um, I guess I'm more worried about like STDs and like inconsent. I guess those are probably the things that are to my forefront, but I don't want to dismiss what they're they're thinking because I do realize that there are people that are more like germ focused. I don't want to even say germaphobe because that's not really that's just being cost having good manners, you know.

SPEAKER_02 9:06

Well, I think that goes back to good etiquette, right? So if you are eating food, one, do it before you go fuck, which most most places that's what you do. You eat the food, then you go fuck. So there's no real issues with there. Now, if you're getting pizza or you're getting breakfast or something after you fuck, go wash your hands.

SPEAKER_00 9:22

Yeah, but I do want to go rinse off.

SPEAKER_02 9:24

Go, go make be a real, like be a human, be an adult, right? And make sure before you touch food that you are clean to do that.

SPEAKER_00 9:31

But I do think that if you're somebody that kind of gets weirded out by it, it's totally okay just to go to like You don't have to partake. Yeah, you just go to Waffle House, which honestly, who the fuck knows where their hands have been, you know? Like true. I mean, or you can, you know, hit a drive-thru on the way home.

SPEAKER_02 9:44

But like, so But again, Taco Bell, where of their hands back.

SPEAKER_00 9:47

Yeah, so I think I think it's okay. Right. I think it's okay if you don't want to eat the food. I don't think that makes you a girl, like a weird person. I think it's okay if you eat it. I think it's all about personal preference. And I think just do whatever makes you.

SPEAKER_02 10:00

Yeah, but there is nothing better than post fuck pizza.

SPEAKER_00 10:03

Yeah.

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Like that is the best kind of pizza that they make.

SPEAKER_00 10:06

Pre-fuck pizza is pretty damn good too.

SPEAKER_02 10:08

No, no, listen to me. Do not give Lacey pizza before we fuck. Whatever you do, if you're gonna if if you're if it's midnight, it's one o'clock, and everybody's hungry, get the fucking done before you get the food, right? Listen to me. Do not fuck that up. If if Lacey gets pizza or probably other people, before they fuck, the fucking is not gonna happen. She's gonna eat that pizza and she's gonna go to bed.

SPEAKER_00 10:34

You're not wrong, but I still love some good pizza. But yeah, I mean, I just but yeah, I mean, I definitely think that there probably are grimy hands in there. And it is probably a little weird, but I also do understand why there is food there. People are drinking, people are like doing a lot of work. They need to be.

SPEAKER_02 10:51

Right, you gotta you gotta re- uh you gotta feed that body.

SPEAKER_00 10:54

You gotta And personally, I love a good food.

SPEAKER_02 10:57

I love you know, I like when like hotel takeovers and stuff do the pizza, or you know, I obviously would prefer something like we talking to somebody was just saying that they used to bring the pizza into the playroom at Naughty in New Orleans and they just they stopped doing that because of this concern or this type of concern.

SPEAKER_00 11:13

Oh, I didn't know that.

SPEAKER_02 11:14

Right. But I mean, pizza in the playroom at 2 a.m. is actually the best spot for it, but I do agree that maybe maybe putting it down in the lobby. So once you're done fucking, you're go and you're getting ready to go to your room.

SPEAKER_00 11:24

Listen, if we just got done with an orgy and somebody sends a box of pizza down in the middle of that orgy bed, I'm not washing my hands and I mean that shit. Maybe I'm a dirty girl. I don't know. Whatever it is, call me that. Yeah, I but I think it's okay if that weirds you out.

SPEAKER_01 11:38

Yeah.

SPEAKER_00 11:38

I mean, like that's kind of what like each their own, you know?

SPEAKER_01 11:42

Yeah.

SPEAKER_00 11:42

Just like if good doing oral or or doing somebody squirting on you freaks you out, or like somebody coming in your face freaks you out. Just don't do the things that freak you out, you know?

SPEAKER_02 11:51

Right. I do agree with you. Um sucking somebody's dick or licking a vagina from somebody you don't know, and you know, is probably more dangerous germ-wise than touching a piece of pizza that potentially somebody else had their hands on that they didn't wash their hands.

SPEAKER_00 12:08

Yeah, I've got bigger things to worry about.

SPEAKER_02 12:10

Yeah. I I I think the risk um is probably more on the sex acts than it is on the getting getting receiving food acts.

SPEAKER_00 12:18

I'll do some naughty shit for some pizza, babe.

SPEAKER_02 12:22

Yeah. But make sure she does it before, again, before you give her the pizza, make sure she does the naughty shit. Lacey's also known for promising you all kinds of stuff uh before to get something, and then once she gets the thing, uh, not delivering. So if she if she's saying she'll do naughty things for pizza, have her do the naughty things and then get her the pizza.

SPEAKER_00 12:42

That's funny. We just went to Tahoe and they made pizza. They were like, nobody cannot cook this pizza until every fuck.

SPEAKER_02 12:49

Right. We came back from like the strip club or something, and somebody's like, Anyone want some pizza? And I'm like, do not put pizza.

SPEAKER_00 12:56

No, it wasn't even you, somebody else said it.

SPEAKER_02 12:58

Yeah, fuck first. Yeah, pizza second.

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I've got a refutation now.

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Right.

SPEAKER_00 13:02

Anyway, so I hope that answers you. I don't know if we um gave a lot of insight, but that's our opinion, and hopefully it helps. And right.

SPEAKER_02 13:10

One, I I would say food needs to stay at swinger parties, that the carbs are essential. Yeah. Two, if you are engaging in food at said swinger party, be an adult, wash your hands, do not, you know, do the right thing. Right. Um, and then three, if you're really that concerned, don't partake. And uh then four, the germs you're getting from the orgy are probably a more of a risk to you than the germs you might be getting from shared food items.

SPEAKER_00 13:40

Yeah, just saying.

SPEAKER_02 13:41

Um so, but again, make your own decision.

SPEAKER_00 13:44

Yeah.

SPEAKER_02 13:45

You're an adult, you're free, a free to make your own decisions. If if you think the food, the germs exposure via food is too high of a risk for you, you don't have to eat the food.

SPEAKER_00 13:56

He's just said it kind of freaks him out. Like it kind of weirds him out.

SPEAKER_02 13:58

I get it.

SPEAKER_00 13:59

It kind of weirds me out.

SPEAKER_02 14:00

Yeah, I feel the same way about food at strip clubs. Like it's kind of like, uh, but then I've also had some really good food at strip clubs.

SPEAKER_00 14:06

So it's like, yeah, it's a little sketch, but you know, I've done worse things.

SPEAKER_02 14:11

Right.

SPEAKER_00 14:12

So okay.

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All right. Well, if you have a Tuesday talk question, this one was good. It was a good, different one. Uh, we'd love to hear from you. So a few different ways you can get it to us. You can email us at theswing nation at gmail.com. Uh, or you can also call or text, and that phone number is 972-302-7716. One more time.

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972-302-7716.

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Okay, and you can also, if you record your voice, you can text it or you can email it as well. If you don't want us to have your phone number, uh, you can email it if uh you just don't feel you know, if you want to do a couple takes and you know, record it a few times to make sure uh you got it just right, you can also uh text it over to us and we'll get it that way.

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Yeah.

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Um we look forward to hearing from you. We could use some more questions.

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Yeah.

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All right, anything else?

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That's it.

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Bye.

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