Naughty For a Purpose: Giving Back & Getting Dirty at Club Trapeze

Naughty For a Purpose: Giving Back & Getting Dirty at Club Trapeze | Episode 223

In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, hosted by Dan and Lacy, your favorite top-rated lifestyle podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, the duo recap an unforgettable weekend in Atlanta, Georgia.

Dan and Lacy team up with Swinger Society and Club Trapeze ATL for a Toys for Tots toy drive that raised over $5,000 in toys for kids in need, proving the lifestyle community can party hard and give back. But before the big night, the weekend kicks off with a Friday sleepover at their besties’ place—starting with drinks and dinner and quickly turning into a playful, chemistry-filled night that was all captured on camera.

Saturday brings more adventures, including a daytime meetup with a special friend for some fun content creation, before heading to Club Trapeze for the main event. Surrounded by old friends, new connections, and nonstop energy, the night escalates into an unforgettable scene that had plenty of eyes watching.

From charity to chaos, connection to confidence, this episode is a perfect mix of heart, heat, and real lifestyle vibes—you won’t want to miss it.

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SPEAKER_05 0:00

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SPEAKER_00 0:22

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SPEAKER_01 0:33

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SPEAKER_00 1:00

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SPEAKER_01 1:17

Hey there, pineapple people, and welcome to the Swing Nation podcast. We are your host, Northern Guy and Southern Girl. And we are back with another full-length episode of the Swing Nation Podcast. We are we just got back from a trip to Trapeze.

SPEAKER_05 1:34

We did.

SPEAKER_01 1:34

Uh first trip to Trapeze. I think it's been almost, I think last time we went was January.

SPEAKER_05 1:38

Yeah, it was January of last year.

SPEAKER_01 1:40

This year.

SPEAKER_05 1:40

Oh, yeah, that's what I meant.

SPEAKER_01 1:42

But that would be almost a year ago. Um so it's been a while.

SPEAKER_05 1:45

Yeah, it's been quite a while.

SPEAKER_01 1:47

Um, so a little backstory. Um, every year around Christmas time, we do a toy drive.

SPEAKER_04 1:53

Yeah.

SPEAKER_01 1:53

Uh, and we donate, we've actually donated the toys to various um toy groups over the years, but the last two or three years we've kind of stuck with toys for tots. One, they're the easiest to deal with, yeah, the most professional.

SPEAKER_05 2:04

And you don't have to worry about where it's going.

SPEAKER_01 2:06

Yeah, and it seems to get distributed. You know, we it's hard to for us to vet some of the smaller groups that you know.

SPEAKER_05 2:13

Yeah. I would like to do the angel tree. That's one that I think it's big. Uh, but the problem is that we do our we turn our stuff in too late. If we would have to be better prepared, but that's something I'd like to do in the future, maybe. Yeah.

SPEAKER_01 2:28

That is the nice thing about Toys for Tots. Even if we don't get the toys until like now, whatever they don't get distributed this year, they they have it for next year.

SPEAKER_05 2:35

But we did actually, even this year, they were just collecting uh the boxes and stuff around at the stores and stuff um this week. So I don't think they they distribute them later in the week. So yeah.

SPEAKER_01 2:47

This time when we dropped off, it was actually like one of their, I guess, central drop-off facilities. So, like you said, they had the trucks coming in from like all the the businesses in in the in the the greater southeastern region area where we're in. Um, and they had a whole warehouse.

SPEAKER_05 3:01

Yeah, and they did. So again to kind of just piggyback on what Dan said, if you follow, if you go back to probably the first Christmas, we did this podcast. So we started in August, so that would have been that just I don't know what year that was. You'll have to go back.

SPEAKER_07 3:16

2021.

SPEAKER_05 3:17

We went one would be like this. Yeah, we went to a lifestyle connections hotel takeover, which is in North Carolina. And uh so you can go find that podcast. We actually do a podcast with the owners, and then we do a podcast just talking about our time. Uh, but they actually do a toy drive every year. They had something that they had started years ago, and I think they donated to some local group. Yeah, it's not Toys for Tots, but they do donate it. And that that place counts on their toys like every year, and so um just on a whim one night, Dan was like, we should take donations and we could go buy them, buy the gifts and bring them.

SPEAKER_01 3:56

Basically, use our platform, get people on TikTok and Instagram, and I think we're probably just on TikTok I don't think we're on Instagram at that time, but get people on TikTok to donate, and then we essentially will go do the toy shopping. And I think we even said at that time we'll match up to a certain dollar mark. Probably not back then it was probably a little less.

SPEAKER_05 4:11

Yeah, we so yeah, that's what we did. And and I think we've I don't know how much we raised, we'd have to go back and look, but uh we we've always done fairly well. Yeah, I think that one was one we just did like a couple of days before, so it probably wasn't as much as they are now, but um so yeah, so we did that. We we match up to it. We've always we always have done a GoFundMe because it's just the easiest way to get the money to get you know, when you start doing Venmos and it just personal information, yeah. So and we just pay the service fees out of our pocket. Um, well, from Swinger Society, and then Swinger Society now matches up to a thousand dollars. So it started with last hour connections. We've kind of continued. I think we've done Tempted, we've done Eros, and now this year we did um Trapeze.

SPEAKER_01 5:00

Yeah, I think we did one. Did we do a Red Room one time? Or that was a four? Yeah, okay. Uh yeah, so it's been great. So yeah, huge shout out.

SPEAKER_05 5:07

So this year we raised okay, sorry.

SPEAKER_01 5:08

No, I was gonna say huge shout out to LSC for implanting that idea, and then huge shout out to um everybody that donated. And then uh I also I've seen, you know, we've I posted a couple things about our donations on like Facebook and Instagram and stuff, and there were several other people that said, Oh, our club or our group is doing a toy drive for the kids this year. Yeah. Um, and so I think that's great. I think I'd like to see.

SPEAKER_05 5:30

Yeah, and the reason we do it is to show that swingers are more than like sex parties and getting drunk and dancing and Secrets did one this year.

SPEAKER_01 5:38

Yeah. I think they did one last year too. It's awesome.

SPEAKER_05 5:40

Yeah, uh, so yeah. So this year we raised $2,000 and we cut it off right when it hit $2,000. So honestly, we probably could have gone more, but well, we actually physically go and buy the toys, so we could only do something. We gotta cut it off. Yeah, we gotta cut it off. And then we uh we matched a thousand, so we we purchased ourselves three thousand dollars worth of toys, and then Trapeze took donations. Um, you got a discount if you brought a toy. Which thank you to Trapeze for doing that, which they had a decent amount of toys there, and so we uh loaded, we brought all the ones back from Trapeze, we loaded them all up, and then Monday we went and donated them all. So thank you very much to everyone that donated.

SPEAKER_01 6:19

Yeah, and if I had to guesstimate from like the size of our pile that we knew the price of and the size of the Trapeze pile, I'd say we're probably somewhere around five thousand dollars in toys that got donated. So that's you know it's pretty good. There's gonna be a lot of happy kids thanks to um the swinger community in this area. So thank you, uh Trapeze, thank you, Swinger Society. Uh thank you, everybody that uh follows us and donated to that. Um definitely, and then go check out we we posted some pictures and stuff and some videos if you want to see the big piles of toys and us going shopping and loading it up and all that.

SPEAKER_05 6:50

But thank you if you donated.

SPEAKER_01 6:51

It feels nice to do that.

SPEAKER_05 6:52

It does, and I feel like we do a small part in it, and I'm very grateful to the community to kind of allow us to be a part of that. So thank you.

SPEAKER_01 7:00

I like the toy shopping.

SPEAKER_05 7:01

Yeah, it is fun. We actually like he buys the boy stuff, I buy the girl stuff or pick out the girl stuff, he picks out the boy stuff, and we could tell our age because like we always do like a lot of care bears, light bright, etchetches.

SPEAKER_01 7:13

If it was a toy that was around when we were children, we're probably going to buy it.

SPEAKER_05 7:17

Yeah, issue they had Furbies, yeah.

SPEAKER_01 7:19

I hope this generation um still likes those toys.

SPEAKER_05 7:23

Um, okay, so you want to get into it?

SPEAKER_01 7:25

All right, so now that we talked about the toy drive and Christmas, um, let's talk about our our trip to Trapeze.

SPEAKER_05 7:31

Yeah. So basically we reached out to Trap and was like, hey, we do this every year. Can we come and and do this? And they were like, absolutely, which we always love a good excuse to go to Trapeze. I wish we could go more.

SPEAKER_01 7:44

Yeah, I will say, so Liz, who is the former manager of Trappease, has retired. Uh and so they have a new manager. I'm not gonna say her name because I don't know if she wants me to do that. Um, but that was that's a little sad to see Liz go.

SPEAKER_05 7:59

If you've been a trap like a loyal Trapeze person, you probably know they even have like they would have birthday parties, like it was like the theme for the very staple part of a huge part of the Trapeze Atlanta experience. It's different without her, so it was a little different. Um, but thank you to the new manager for allowing us to come in. Who's a she uh was very gracious in allowing us to kind of you know what's funny is I'm gonna say this on here, which some people are they um somebody had told me when we got in there that they had been having trouble with Diamond Club and influencers and stuff like that. And I was I thought it was so funny because I was like, it's not us. I haven't been here for years. We have not been here since January, so because we always get blamed for like anything like that, and I was like, it's not us this time. Yeah, we have not been there since January. Well, I think so. Let me clear our name if you've heard any rumors about there being like I don't know, issues there.

SPEAKER_01 8:52

Pictures or videos, pictures are there, yeah. Now I will say, um, specifically, I think this is a thing the entire lifestyle community is going to go for sure. Yeah. Because I do think you know, social media and and even like influencers or or swinger influencers um is a new thing. We were kind of at the the is uh you to use an army term, the tip of the spear, I think, on that. Um, but I think every club is gonna have to kind of develop policies or best practices.

SPEAKER_05 9:17

It's like what is the like a good word? It's like you need them to grow, but it's also like you don't want them there because you don't want the cameras, you have to do it in a respectful way.

SPEAKER_06 9:27

Exactly.

SPEAKER_05 9:27

So we'll talk about how we did that in a respectful way here, but I just wanted to throw that out there.

SPEAKER_01 9:33

Yeah, I think it is mutually beneficial to both the influencers and to the clubs and you know, hotel takeover groups and uh cruise lines and all that to have influencers to show the amazing uh places and and safe places they have and that what they can offer the community. And I think you know having people put that out on social media is beneficial for them. It's beneficial for the influencers to get the you know, the to get the traffic from that. Um but I think yeah, I think you need the the right policy so that you're not accidentally outing somebody or something like that.

SPEAKER_05 10:02

Yeah. So don't let anybody tell you that it was us.

SPEAKER_01 10:04

We didn't do it.

SPEAKER_05 10:05

Okay, so anyway, we um we left home around lunchtime on Friday. My goal was to kind of get there. Uh we went, okay, so we decided to kind of make a content weekend sort of out of this. One because if you don't know, we released one new video a week on our OnlyFans. We were coming up on like having no content. So we we really needed to work. And the fact that we weren't really, yes, we were hosting it, but that didn't require a whole lot of work on our behalf for this weekend.

SPEAKER_01 10:37

We were like host couple, like we were just there. Yeah, we were just we weren't DJing, we weren't running tickets, we didn't, we're not doing the we didn't have to decorate.

SPEAKER_05 10:45

No, we got there one hour early. That was it. So because of that, we were like, well, let's just kind of make it like a working weekend. Um, Daphne and Mike, who are BFFs, live about an hour-ish outside of Atlanta. Depending on traffic, obviously. You'll hear about that. Um and so we were like, what if we come stay with you Friday night? And then Saturday night, we'll get a hotel close to the club. We have like we always say at the Marriott Lithia Springs right there, close to Trapeze. That way we're not driving really, you know, we're not out trying to drive across Atlanta at 2 a.m. So that's so that was kind of the plan. We didn't know what we were gonna do. We were gonna figure out how to make content, but we that was our plan going into the weekend.

SPEAKER_02 11:29

Right.

SPEAKER_05 11:30

So uh I wanted to get to Atlanta a little bit before Daphne and Mike got off work. She was working from home. So I we got there probably about like 4:30, would you think?

SPEAKER_01 11:40

Yeah.

SPEAKER_05 11:41

And about the time we got there, well, she texted us on the way, she's like, I've got to go get my nails done.

SPEAKER_01 11:45

Yeah, what the fuck is that?

SPEAKER_05 11:47

I'm like, why didn't you do that?

SPEAKER_01 11:48

You had all week to get your nails done. You wait until we show up.

SPEAKER_05 11:51

So we got there and literally we were there for like 20 minutes, and she left, which they just recently moved. They moved like within two weeks of us moving, so back late winter, early spring.

SPEAKER_06 12:06

Yeah.

SPEAKER_05 12:06

Um, we both moved at the same time, and so we got to see their new house. They had some been doing some improvements. We got to see that. It was nice.

SPEAKER_01 12:17

It was nice.

SPEAKER_05 12:18

Um, and then Daphne left shortly after, and we lit around literally sat around and like just talked for two hours. It took her like two and a half hours to get our nails done. So us and Daddy Mike just sat around and just talked about nothing for two hours, two and a half hours. It was nice.

SPEAKER_01 12:33

That is nice. And we don't get the funny thing is we usually only see our friends mostly at our events, and because of that, we don't get a lot of time to just hang out. We're always talked about that before. We don't often we skip meals and dinners, and we're just kind of door-dashing, and we're kind of always on the run um when we do these events. So going to their house and being able to just sit there and just talk about whatever, yeah, you know, uh, was nice. Not an experience we get in the lifestyle very often.

SPEAKER_05 13:01

No, I loved it. Um, and then once she got back, we quickly threw our shoes on and we went to their little their local Mexican joint. Yes, which we ended up being there for like ever. Forever, two, two, three hours. It's a really good Mexican place. But we just it was fun. We just sat around, we talked, we drank, we had cheese dip, you know, we just it was really it was a nice, nice night.

SPEAKER_01 13:26

Now I will say, um, I'm gonna give you a little credit here.

SPEAKER_05 13:29

Me.

SPEAKER_01 13:30

You've been vlogging consistently on your TikTok. Um, and so you vlogged, I guess, I guess I don't know, what is that what you call TikToking?

SPEAKER_05 13:39

Yeah, let me pull it up for you people that are like I know y'all are gonna say, what is it? So the account uh is um at Miss Mrs underscore swing underscore nation. So if you want to follow along, I literally take you on your everyday. So going into the weekend, people were right, they were pretty excited to see what we were up to. Right.

SPEAKER_01 14:02

So you vlogged this whole weekend, yeah, and um you you've got some of your video, you're crushing me on TikTok, which I take a little bit personal.

SPEAKER_07 14:10

Good.

SPEAKER_01 14:10

I'm glad I also am very like I would love to hand you over the social that part of it and be able to do more, you know, focus on some of the other stuff. So um maybe I'll quit TikTok if if you keep blowing up.

SPEAKER_05 14:22

Listen, what don't don't get don't get ahead of yourself. I've only been doing this for like I don't know, maybe well that's your problem.

SPEAKER_01 14:30

In a month from now, you could quit.

SPEAKER_05 14:31

Yeah, I don't know how long I've been doing it, but anyway, if you follow it, I mean I've been doing it since before Thanksgiving.

SPEAKER_01 14:36

You get several videos with hundreds, a hundred, a hundred thousand, ten thousand, twenty thousand.

SPEAKER_05 14:39

Yeah, but I literally do at least you know two to three videos a day, depending on what we're doing.

SPEAKER_01 14:43

Yeah, if you are another influencer, I really feel like, especially TikTok, but social media in general is kind of changing from this uh trending audio silly dance stuff to more of like content like behind the scenes, the day in the life. Well, I really wanted educational stuff, yeah, like long form, almost YouTube-like content.

SPEAKER_05 15:06

Yeah, I really wanted to do it because I think people think that we live a very different life than we do. Uh and the truth is we almost have like two different lives. Like at home, we're just a regular couple. Now, like for instance, I have my son this week, we did have to leave and go podcast. That's most normal couples don't do that. And I and I realize that.

SPEAKER_01 15:28

But otherwise, we really but you might have to leave and go do a night shift at the fire station or something. You know what I mean?

SPEAKER_05 15:33

So but for the most part at home, we cook dinner six nights a week at home. We I get up and get a kit pack lunches, you know. I mean, we we very much live a very normal life. And I think people when they see when they see our trending videos and stuff on TikTok, I think they think I'm like fucking a different guy every night.

SPEAKER_01 15:53

Which I think they're think we're out partying.

SPEAKER_05 15:55

Which to credit to you, you have created this world where they feel like that's what I'm doing, which which is what we want them to do, right? We want them to see that, we want them to come to the parties, we want them to subscribe to the OnlyFans. I mean, like, so you did your job, right? Too well, because they think that I'm just out banging different dudes every single night. Or partying it or drinking or why and the truth is is we do that like one weekend a month. And if when in the summer, when things are crazy, we might be gone two weekends a month or two weeks a month, you know. But for the most part, our life is pretty chill when we're home. And so I really wanted to show that aspect of our lives. Now, the it is very fun when we leave and go out of town and get to show you behind the scenes, but it's also I wanted them to see what it's like normal.

SPEAKER_01 16:44

Yeah. Well, I think, you know, again, I've I've been kind of trying to educate myself on the new trending ways of doing stuff. And I did see, you know, some people talk about the day in the life stuff only works once you have a following. Like so building a following on whatever the, you know, you have to provide value to somebody, so whatever their thing that is that they care about. So for us, it's kind of introducing people to the lifestyle and showing them parties and you know, what are the top three things you should bring to a club? You know, all those kind of trendy TikTok y kind of things that we've been doing for the last four years now. But then I think once you get an established platform, people then are more curious what your life is actually like.

SPEAKER_05 17:20

I think that was a complete tangent.

SPEAKER_01 17:23

Yeah, but I said all that to say that you blogged this weekend and it did very well.

SPEAKER_05 17:27

Yeah, so you can literally see us at the Mexican restaurant. Um, so yeah, we it was fun. We had a great time. We went home, and this is where we were like, okay, we've got to make some content.

SPEAKER_01 17:39

You so we're gonna go on off another side tangent, but you just got pellets. Yes, you were before we even left the damn Mexican restaurant, you were like, We're fucking tonight, right? Yes. And I'm thinking, you know, there's been several times where we've hung out with Daphne and Mike to go to a few or whatever, and that Friday night, I'm like, We fucking and you're like, no, we're we're fucking tomorrow.

SPEAKER_05 17:57

Okay, so yeah, we have to go on another tangent. So y'all have listened to me talk about my journey with my testosterone and like my hormones and not feeling like myself. I finally just I think after the cruise, maybe I was like, fuck it, I'm just gonna do it because so many people have said just do it. I know Dr. Shore is pretty against it, and obviously I take what she says very seriously, but even like my hairdresser who is a vanilla was like it changed my life getting pellets. And I was using, I'm you know, I'm using the same doctor that she's using. So I think after the cruise, I was just like, you know what? I'm just ready to feel good. I'm ready to feel good. I want to, I wanna be excited about fucking again. You know, I feel like I've lost a little bit of the lifestyle in the last year. I think it's more than my testosterone. I think it's my parents being sick, I think it's medicine changes, I think it is testosterone, but I just hormones slash mental health, right? Yeah, I just think that I at least needed to give myself a fighting chance, you know. Let's figure, let's see if this is it. So I made an appointment very shortly after we got home from the cruise, and this was when they could get me in was that Monday. Um, and I ended up, you went to Atlanta for business meetings. I ended up staying home because I was like, I'm getting these pellets because if I canceled, they couldn't get me in to like the end of the month.

SPEAKER_01 19:18

Yeah, another couple of months, yeah. So I so my understanding, just so I'm clear, the the pellets, and maybe this should be on a doctor store podcast, but the problem with you were taking this under the tongue stuff, and sometimes you'd forget to take it, and it it it didn't. It just doesn't get in your system where these pellets is you put them, it's in your system, and it's like a slow burn. Yeah, they're there all the time, right? Yeah, and I've actually somebody since we've been talking about this, there was somebody that said that so I do HRT or TRT replacement uh hormone therapy, and uh I do injections, and it's every I do it once a week. Usually I do it on Sundays, and I am bad at sometimes I'll forget and not take it till Monday or Tuesday. And but um somebody told me that there's male pellets, yeah.

SPEAKER_05 19:57

There is, I told you that.

SPEAKER_01 19:58

Yeah, and that uh same thing, as then you don't have to be a good thing.

SPEAKER_05 20:00

Yeah, I saw it at the doctor.

SPEAKER_01 20:01

So I might I might look into that.

SPEAKER_05 20:03

So anyway, I got him. So today is Wednesday. I got him a week ago, Monday. So yes, Friday, so Friday night, I was ready to fuck. I was honestly ready to fuck all weekend.

SPEAKER_01 20:14

Yeah. Uh so I You were trying to fuck before, like, we're in the you're like, where is the check? We let's go back to the house. I'm ready.

SPEAKER_05 20:21

Um, well, I think we had just been sitting there forever. Um, I was kind of over it. But no, I definitely so one week and two days in, I'm I'm pretty sold on the pellets.

SPEAKER_01 20:32

Yeah.

SPEAKER_05 20:33

I mean, we'll see what the I don't I get you probably haven't got even like the full effect yet. No, I go in a couple weeks after the first year and have my blood work done, so I'll get an updated what my levels are and everything, so I can report back on that. Um, but yeah, so we'll see. We'll see how this goes.

SPEAKER_01 20:50

Right. So we left the Mexican restaurant. Tangent number two ended up back at their their house and then basically went straight into having sex.

SPEAKER_05 20:57

So yeah, we were like, what are we gonna do? Um, so Dan's fucked Daphne just about every way. You can fuck him.

SPEAKER_01 21:04

Yeah.

SPEAKER_05 21:04

So we had kind of chatted while we were driving over. What if I sit in like a chair and masturbate?

SPEAKER_01 21:11

And we brought up this idea because we actually did this. It was you fucked um Southern Swaps, whatever they keep changing their name. Yeah, what's her his name now?

SPEAKER_05 21:19

He's got a Mike Longshaft something.

SPEAKER_01 21:21

No, Mike, it is Mike Long or Mike something. I think it's Mike Long. And she's Tiffany Bell. Tiffany Bell, yeah.

SPEAKER_05 21:27

So that couple, but they're Southern Southern Swap, if you know them for the couple formerly known as Southern Swap.

SPEAKER_01 21:32

We did a shoot with them where he fucked you while she sat in the corner, and that was actually a pretty hot video, and I think it sold pretty pretty well. So we're like, well, let's just flip that. Yeah. Uh because the problem is we have lots of videos of me and Daphne fucking, you're not in most of them. So like when we go to sell them on OnlyFans, if you're not in it, people are kind of like, meh, you know, like they're subscribed to your channel because they want to see you. So this was like kind of a different way to show you, yeah, even though me, I was fucking Daphne.

SPEAKER_05 21:55

Yeah, and it's just so happened in their room, they have this like couch thing of a cuch couch.

SPEAKER_01 21:59

Yeah.

SPEAKER_05 22:00

Yes.

SPEAKER_01 22:00

But they are in the hot wifeing, so that kind of makes sense.

SPEAKER_05 22:02

Yeah. And um she had a w happened to have her wand. And so I borrowed it. And so basically, I just made myself come several times while you and her fucked on the bed. Was very so again, chainless plug, if you want to go see that, you can see all these videos on our OnlyFans.

SPEAKER_01 22:20

80% off through Christmas. Oh wow. 80%, which means you get the whole thing for like $10. And we have over 150 videos at this point. Wow. And you get instant access to all 150 of them for $10.

SPEAKER_05 22:32

That's pretty good. It's crazy, right? Yeah. Um, after that, after you and her kind of wrapped up, we just ended up like doing like wait, is it a full swap?

SPEAKER_01 22:42

Well, can we highlight one thing while I was fucking her? Do you remember what I did? I made out with her.

SPEAKER_05 22:50

Oh. Yeah.

SPEAKER_01 22:53

What did you do?

SPEAKER_05 22:54

I didn't get jealous because I knew what you were doing.

SPEAKER_01 22:56

It made you come though.

SPEAKER_05 22:57

Oh. So if you've been like around for a while, you know that I, for some reason, Dan can fuck the shit out of somebody, like lay her down, like take her to Poundtown, do all the things. But if he like romantically kisses another woman, it does something to me. And it's to kind of become a thing where he knows it does it, and occasionally will like lock eyes in a sexual experience. And he thinks it's funny to like make out with a girl and like stare at me down. So basically he's making out with her and we're staring at each other, and I'm masturbating while he's fucking her.

SPEAKER_01 23:36

And you were coming.

SPEAKER_05 23:37

And I was coming.

SPEAKER_01 23:38

Which Lacey had you know, we talked about we had just a recent podcast about like hot husbanding where Lacey has this kink. Oh, for sure. I love that. It's we walk this fine line of obviously if I make her too jealous, she's gonna get upset and it's gonna ruin the whole thing, right? But if I make her just enough playing with thy right, it turns her on. Like it makes her horny, it makes her insatiable. So it's it and I know because it's it's um Daphne that it's it's a much more safe than if I did it with some random hot girl we just met or something. Yeah, I would be giving you the eyes, like you would be having a different reaction, but uh it was pretty much it was a risky move in this situation, but I think it it it worked out.

SPEAKER_05 24:21

You fed off of my horniness, it worked out pretty well. Yeah, I forgot about that. Yeah, that was really hot. I wonder if that's if you can catch that on camera.

SPEAKER_01 24:28

I bet you can, yeah. Really? I bet I mean I don't know, but I bet you can.

SPEAKER_05 24:31

Um, so after that, we kind of all four jumped in. I don't think I didn't have sex with Daddy Mike, but he went down on me and I sucked his dick. So, but but essentially it was basically a full swap.

SPEAKER_01 24:48

You swap swapped the rest of us full swap. Yeah, yeah.

SPEAKER_05 24:51

Yeah, because Daddy Mike and Daphne, they're like a hot wife couple that sometimes swaps.

SPEAKER_01 24:57

Yeah, and really when he jumps in for like a full swap, he mostly wants to fuck her. Yeah, like or he wants to like reclaim her.

SPEAKER_05 25:04

I'll just kind of let him do what he wants to do, and I'm okay with whatever that is. If he wants to get down and fuck, I'm usually like, let's do it. If he doesn't, that's fine too. You know, I'm just kind of like I sort of let him lead in that in whatever he feels like he really likes eating pussy and buttholes. And he is very good at it. He eats like it's cake, like like a fat kid.

SPEAKER_01 25:25

You always see those memes that are like if you find a man that genuinely enjoys giving giving you head, you know, or going down on you, um, like marry that man. Like daddy is that man.

SPEAKER_05 25:36

He is that man.

SPEAKER_01 25:37

And I'd say it always you and just eat your pussy in your ass. And I would be fine. That would that that would do it for him.

SPEAKER_05 25:43

I would be just fine. Yeah, and I always tell Dan, I'm like, Daddy might eats the best pussy.

SPEAKER_01 25:47

I'm okay with it.

SPEAKER_05 25:48

Let him have his thing.

SPEAKER_01 25:50

I'm not bad at it. No, you're not.

SPEAKER_05 25:51

But you don't eat it like that's all like it's the last food.

SPEAKER_01 25:54

Like it's the last supper?

SPEAKER_05 25:55

Yeah, you don't do that.

SPEAKER_01 25:56

He does reference that. Is that inappropriate to reference?

SPEAKER_05 25:58

I probably who knows. But towards the end of the content, we which I mean that really wasn't content, we were just doing our thing and the camera was the classic case of these are our friends that we fuck anyway and thoroughly enjoy it, and we just put cameras up to capture it. So towards the end, we could tell uh Mike wanted to come. Well, wait, hold on. Before he came, you came.

SPEAKER_01 26:22

Did I remember?

SPEAKER_05 26:23

Oh, yes, yes, and I'm trying so hard. Daphne is like slopping it up, and I if he Oh yeah, that's gonna come across in the content. I'm trying so hard. So I'm like, I don't know if you can see me on YouTube, but I'm like, got my face like turned away. Yeah, like trying to just like not not acknowledge it, not because I get really freaked out by cum. And she's over there and she's like and I like she was like gagged on camera. Oh, I gagged on camera multiple times. I was trying so hard to I had my eyes closed, I was looking away.

SPEAKER_01 27:02

We'll have to see how Tara edits that one out.

SPEAKER_05 27:04

Oh, it was so bad. I was like, this fucking bitch, and so then we we ended up hanging out for a minute, but we could tell Mike needed like he was having trouble coming. So we finally we left and left and finished.

SPEAKER_01 27:17

It took me, I mean I I think I jerked off to come because I took Viagra, yeah. But yeah, he he with us in the room, I think. So we we went into the living room and they they fucked for another probably 20 minutes, yeah.

SPEAKER_05 27:27

But then after that, we just it it wasn't super late, and because we hadn't seen them in so long, we ended up sitting up on the couch and chit-chatting for another couple hours. Yeah, Mike ended up falling asleep on the couch, he was snoring while we were we just laughed.

SPEAKER_01 27:44

I know one of your blog posts, you caught me and like me and Daphne are cuddling, which really we did that for the vlog. We weren't doing that the whole time. But um and you took a little video.

SPEAKER_05 27:54

I did a bunch of them. So so yeah, that was pretty much our Friday night after that. We went to bed. Oh, we went to bed and then we had sex again. Me and you fucked, and then you came again. I did, which we forget to comp we forget to talk about a lot of times on the podcast when we talk about sex. We talk about like what we did in the swing ring. So I'm trying to do a better job of like remind like telling people like so we went back and fucked more.

SPEAKER_01 28:20

Yeah, well, it had been probably three three hours or more at this point since we I was still shocked you came again.

SPEAKER_05 28:25

You're not a big like multiple comer, and from penetration, I think. No, I stopped fucking you and then you finished jerking off, remember? No, I don't remember, but yeah, because I was we had had sex the night before, too, so I was already a little sore, and I had big plans for the next day.

SPEAKER_01 28:42

Yeah, that's true. Big plans, yeah. All right, well, I think now's the perfect time to take a little break and hear from the partners and sponsors of the Twin Nation podcast. And then when we get back, we'll talk all about Lacey's big, big plans. Yeah, we'll be right back, guys.

SPEAKER_05 29:07

Dan, so when we're doing the podcast, a lot of times we'll tell the listeners we are filming our content for OnlyFans, right? So how do they find that content if they want to see like the videos that go along with the stories?

SPEAKER_01 29:25

Yeah, so that's a that's a great question. So you are correct. We do film for OnlyFans. We you know, when we're uh going to clubs and events, we talk about sometimes, oh, we we did OnlyFans with So and So. Uh so if they're interested in that, they can go to theswing nation.info uh and they'll they'll see right there on the front page uh a link to your OnlyFans. We are running promos, we are, uh, and it could be anywhere from 50 to 80 percent off uh right now.

SPEAKER_07 29:52

Yeah.

SPEAKER_01 29:52

Um so I think right now it's 80% off. So you'd have to you know go grab that right away. But if you like watching Orgies, if you like watching threesomes, if they want to see you uh take DVP, they want to see how big of a dirty slut you actually are, they can see all that right on your OnlyFans page. Uh, we kind of call it it's like another tier of education.

SPEAKER_05 30:13

No, I was about to say that because I think like if you go to some of these major porn sites and you type in like swinging, you're going to find some things, and it it's usually not very good, let's be real. We actually will get and we try to get as many orgies on camera as we can because a lot of people that are joining the lifestyle they want to see us do a full swap with a couple or they want to see us engage in an orgy. And these are the same people that we will have orgies with at the swinger club. With obviously without the cameras, we just kind of recreate it, you know, at opportunities that we can film. So if you're thinking about joining the lifestyle and you're like, man, I need to know, I need to see like how they're navigating this. Our OnlyFans can be kind of educational, if you ask me.

SPEAKER_01 31:01

I agree. So go over to theswingnation.info, click that blue and white button, and uh go sign up today. Yeah. Check it out. We appreciate you guys. Lacey, one thing I don't leave home without when going to a swinger event is my ED medication.

SPEAKER_05 31:18

That is correct.

SPEAKER_01 31:19

Performance anxiety is 100% a real thing. Um, having sex in an orgy room with um a hundred people in there is way different than having sex at home in your bedroom.

SPEAKER_05 31:29

It is.

SPEAKER_01 31:30

Um, so I like to have what we call a little insurance policy and have some of that ED medication in my pocket. Um, shameless care is who I use for that. And they actually just came out with a new product called the Shameless Duo, yeah, which is a combination medicine that has Viagra and Cialis in it, so that one, you can be ready whenever, but also it's got that dose that you can take when you're, you know, as you're getting ready to go to the playroom and you need that to kick in. Yeah. So I love it. I mean, I used it at HEDO for the first time, and that that combination.

SPEAKER_05 32:02

You're kind of pretty much switched to that, haven't you?

SPEAKER_01 32:05

That's basically what I use all the time now. Yeah. So if you're looking for ED medication, if you're new to the lifestyle uh and you're going to an event, you might want to get some and have it just handy in case you need it, kind of thing.

SPEAKER_05 32:16

And the really cool thing about shameless care is they don't set you up on a recurring plan. So you're not going to get all of this ED medication that you have in your nightstand built up. When it's time that you need more, you'll get an email from them and they'll ask you, hey, are you ready for another round? And you can respond back, yes, please refill it, or no, I'm good right now. Thank you. So it's really cool because you don't end up with all these extra pills and spend a bunch of money that you're not, you know, you don't need to spend.

SPEAKER_01 32:46

Yeah. And my favorite part is you don't actually have to go into an office and talk to your family doctor or a military doctor. Um, you can do it all right online from the privacy of your home. Uh, you just go to their website, you fill out some forms, the doctor reviews it, approves you, disapproves you, and you move on from there. So if you would like to get some medication, you can go to theswing nation.info, click on the little recommended apps and products, uh, scroll down to the shameless care icon, click on that, and that's gonna take you over there. Uh, there's some discount codes there for you, so you can get a discount off your first order. But uh, I highly recommend if you're going to some events or parties, go get you some lifestyle insurance. All right, guys, check it out. Lacey, if you're gonna be a swinger, yeah, you need to be a responsible swinger.

SPEAKER_02 33:35

I agree.

SPEAKER_01 33:36

Uh, and part of being a responsible swinger is getting tested on a regular basis.

SPEAKER_02 33:41

Yeah.

SPEAKER_01 33:41

Now, something I didn't know is not all STI STD testing is the same.

SPEAKER_05 33:47

That is correct.

SPEAKER_01 33:48

Not every family doctor fully understands how you should be getting tested.

SPEAKER_05 33:52

That is correct. What one doctor thinks is a full panel, another doctor may have a completely different version of that.

SPEAKER_01 33:59

And being somebody in the lifestyle and engaging with multiple partners, um, what you should be getting tested for is probably if you're not telling your doctor that, what you should be getting tested for is probably different than what they're thinking in their head.

SPEAKER_05 34:15

Yeah, because they don't know your lifestyle, or or even if they do know your lifestyle, there's a like, for instance, there is a new one called MGen, and we just recently met a doctor at a lifestyle party and said that she had never even heard about it. And so she was awesome that we had educated her on that. So a lot of these doctors don't they don't know it all.

SPEAKER_01 34:34

Right. So if you are going to participate in the lifestyle, you probably need to get tested from people that are meant to do this. Yes. Um, so we use I know my status. It's the same people behind talent testing who are the it's a company that tests all the porn stars. So they're used to testing people that um engage with multiple partners, they know all the latest on what STIs are you know coming up and and spreading, and they they track all the stats. I mean, they they know how to test people for STIs, they're the experts.

SPEAKER_05 35:07

They are, and if someone that you engage with, you know, if they have used I know my status, they can actually give you a QR code and you can scan it and you can see their results right on your phone so you can confirm everything that they're telling you.

SPEAKER_01 35:21

Yeah, 100%. So please, if you're getting tested, get tested the right way. We recommend using I Know My Status. You can go to theswing nation.info, recommended apps and products, scroll down to the I Know My Status icon and you can get a discount off your first test. Um, but please, if you're being uh if you're swinging, if you're engaging with people in the community, please be safe about it. Go get tested.

SPEAKER_05 35:43

Yeah, because we want you to fuck like a porn star for sure.

SPEAKER_01 35:52

All right, guys. Welcome back, welcome back. Thank you for listening to our sponsors. Lacey loves our sponsors. I do, especially I know my status.

SPEAKER_05 36:01

I do.

SPEAKER_01 36:02

You really, really love them.

SPEAKER_05 36:04

I do, I do.

SPEAKER_01 36:06

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SPEAKER_06 36:14

Yes.

SPEAKER_01 36:14

All right, so when we left you, we had just had some hot sex with some of our good friends. Uh, and then even what reclamation sex after that? Reclamation. Yeah, reclamation, I think, is the term.

SPEAKER_05 36:27

Yeah.

SPEAKER_01 36:28

Uh before we went to bed.

SPEAKER_05 36:31

Yeah. Are you second guessing how you said that?

SPEAKER_01 36:33

No, I don't think so. I think I said it right. Okay. They'll definitely say something in the comments if I didn't. All right, and that brings us to Saturday.

SPEAKER_06 36:40

Yeah.

SPEAKER_01 36:40

So this is club night.

unknown 36:42

It is.

SPEAKER_01 36:43

But before club night, you and and uh Dirty Daphne had made some plans.

SPEAKER_05 36:50

Well, actually, Mike had made the plans. So a couple of weeks ago, we had done a Christmas shoot in my hometown, like where I'm from. And we basically we rented out like a photographer studio, and we used it for TikToks and pictures and stuff. Anyway, Daphne and Mike had come and we were kind of planning this weekend. And um Mike was like, so I was like, hey, I you know, I really need content we gotta make. He's like, what if I invite over one of this guy that had come and fucked Daphne several times? He's like, what if I invite him over? I was like, okay. I I guess I was feeling froggy that day. So he texted, and the guy was like, sure. I think he texted him back like while we were sitting there eating because we ate lunch after we took the pictures. So um Daphne and Mike had scheduled him to come basically Saturday at noon. So um do you know his username?

SPEAKER_01 37:50

The the horse. Something horse. It's literally horse man. His um his OnlyFans is Horseman underscore uh PPV.

SPEAKER_05 38:00

Which I had never met him. So if you know anything about, like we've talked on this podcast, we usually when we when we make videos with couples, we like to meet them, we like to get to know them, all this stuff. But we always say that occasionally that's not true. We've never been like we don't ever do that. We always pretty much say, but occasionally we'll throw in a wild card. Well, this was a wild card for sure. So I didn't know him, um, but he did provide me with his S T D test. We did send a couple of texts back and forth. Daphne Daphne Daphne had vetted him, had made content with him multiple times. Uh Tara that kind of helps with our OnlyFans had knew it, you knew him. So it wasn't like nobody knew this guy.

SPEAKER_01 38:49

You know, I felt it also happens to be, just happens to be, that he's a younger, attractive He had a six-fag black man with a giant penis.

SPEAKER_05 38:59

Well, that's where the horse man comes in.

SPEAKER_01 39:01

Probably a I don't know, 10, 11-inch dick.

SPEAKER_05 39:04

Yeah.

SPEAKER_01 39:04

Um, did that play a factor in your decision making process?

SPEAKER_03 39:07

Oh, for sure.

unknown 39:08

Yeah.

SPEAKER_01 39:09

I was gonna say, so Lacey normally doesn't make content with people she doesn't know. And if somebody asked to make content, well, let's hang out at the party this weekend, and if you know, if we feel a connection, we'll do something. Um, but for some reason, this young, attractive black man with this giant penis who she had never met before, she was more than willing to break to.

SPEAKER_05 39:30

I don't even remember his real name. No, I do, I do, I do. Never mind. I just remembered. Yeah, I just remembered. Um, yeah, so uh so anyway, so Daphne and Mike had scheduled him to come at noon. When we when I woke up, like because I had set my alarm, I rolled over and she had asked him to come at one. She was like, we stayed up way too late, we got stuff going on. Um, so so anyway, I got up and went ahead and came downstairs and um started to hang out because I knew she was up because she had text me. And Mike was cooking us breakfast. Oh, yeah. He always does. And she helped. She made the eggs, I think.

SPEAKER_01 40:10

He went and gotten done, he went and got Dunkin' Donuts month Demunchins or Munch. And he made that uh breakfast.

SPEAKER_05 40:18

Mm-hmm.

SPEAKER_01 40:19

Right.

SPEAKER_05 40:19

Yeah. So we he made breakfast. We sat around again and just chit-chatted, not much or nothing, until we had me and her had to get ready. So um I brought all my stuff downstairs and got ready in the bathroom with her, which was fun. I always loved doing that. Um and I think part of this part is were you nervous? No.

SPEAKER_01 40:41

You weren't?

SPEAKER_05 40:41

No, I just wanted to get ready. I was nervous, I was nervous, but I wasn't getting ready with her because I was nervous. I made her go first. No, no, no.

SPEAKER_01 40:48

Well, that's what my thing. I guess my point was that one of the things I like about the lifestyle, or even making content and stuff like this, is seeing you kind of like get giddy and excited.

SPEAKER_05 40:58

Yeah, I was nervous, but but I made her go first to kind of help me not get nervous. But yeah, so we got ready. He came, he was such a nice gentleman, so nice, um, professional, like clean cut, uh, just real nice.

SPEAKER_01 41:15

Well spoken, educated, the good, good, good guy.

SPEAKER_05 41:18

Good guy. Like, honestly, like in the expectations I had, he blew them out of the water.

SPEAKER_01 41:24

You know, we we've made content with people we don't know before, and and usually we fall into this trap of they're really, really hot and they reach out and we're like, well, fuck.

SPEAKER_02 41:31

Yeah.

SPEAKER_01 41:31

You know, I can think of other couples that were, you know, with the abs and perfect bodies and yeah, we get you want to make content with us.

SPEAKER_05 41:38

We will do whatever you want. You know, we fall into that.

SPEAKER_01 41:41

We sometimes that has gone not so good. Yeah, yes. In this case, and I think the the fact that you know he had made content with um Daphne a few times and they knew him very well. Um, you know, obviously they they were able to speak for his character and they were 100% correct. Super good dude. So hats off the horseman.

SPEAKER_05 41:59

Yeah. Okay, so um then it was time to start. And Daphne was like all business, and I loved it because I was nervous at this point.

SPEAKER_01 42:09

Okay, so you're gonna fuck me here and at this angle, and we're gonna put the camera here. And okay, you ready? Getting your underwear, are you good to go? Do you need any water or you got lube, you got condoms?

SPEAKER_05 42:18

Yeah, and then she before I knew it, she's up on the the kitchen counter getting fucked, you know. I mean, I was like, oh my god. And we're like hiding in the bedroom, right? Because we're trying not to be like in the background of any of the cameras and my kids.

SPEAKER_01 42:32

Three scenes with horsemen.

SPEAKER_05 42:34

I did not do three.

SPEAKER_01 42:35

Well, there were three scenes done with him. Daphne and him did a scene where they fucked on the kitchen counter. Yeah. Very that it was sexy. I think she he picked her up at one point and didn't.

SPEAKER_05 42:44

He rubbed it in my face, little skinny bitch.

SPEAKER_01 42:47

And then you did a scene with him in the in the bedroom. And then you and Daphne and him did like a FMF.

SPEAKER_05 42:54

Like a threesome, yeah. It was hot. All of all of it was hot. At one point, he did like push-ups with his dick in my mouth.

SPEAKER_01 43:01

He throat fucked you in the push-up position. Yeah. And I could tell your eyes were like Lacey's not one to get throat fucked. You're definitely not one to get throat fucked by like a 10-inch dick.

SPEAKER_03 43:12

No.

SPEAKER_01 43:12

But you took it like a champ. I did. You were gagging, drooling, your eyes were watering.

SPEAKER_05 43:18

Yeah.

SPEAKER_01 43:18

And I can remember, because I'm filming this the whole time, and I can remember thinking she would never put up with that from me. I would not.

SPEAKER_05 43:24

I even told you that when I got up.

SPEAKER_01 43:26

It was one thing I was thinking. The second thing I was thinking is like, look at her little pro here. A little pro.

SPEAKER_05 43:33

I can tell you no, but you know, like when you not that I couldn't have told him no. If I felt uncomfortable, I would have. But you know, I was a little bit shyer about it, you know. Um, but what was funny is I had my pellets done that Monday. So this was Saturday, and I still had my bandages on and I didn't take them off until that the following Monday. So like he was having to like kind of work around it, but he couldn't. It was kind of funny because it didn't really hurt, so it was okay. We were just trying to get it.

SPEAKER_01 44:00

Like your ass jiggling on somebody on a giant dick would be like the first camera angle I would go for. He had to shoot around it. But I was trying not to get your I mean, it wasn't it's just a little ex-band-aid, it's not like a big deal, but you know, I just you were self-conscious about it.

SPEAKER_05 44:15

So I was trying to I squirted all over him. It went over his head. I think it went over my head. Um it was it it was fun, and then me and Daphne and his was uh fun too. At some point, she was like sitting on his face, and I just like reverse cowgirl and just had my way with him for a while. I just was slow and took my time and just I didn't want to get off.

SPEAKER_01 44:43

And you you took the whole thing. So what you know, the 10, 11, 12, I don't know how big it was. I would guess 10-ish, maybe a little over 10. Um you you took that whole thing in your mouth and in your vagina.

SPEAKER_05 44:56

I need to see the video to see if I really took it in my mouth all the way.

SPEAKER_01 45:01

Look close. Look close. I mean, it might have been the angle, but yeah.

SPEAKER_05 45:05

Listen, we like angles, it's fine. Yeah, y'all believe I took it all.

SPEAKER_01 45:08

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SPEAKER_03 45:17

Yeah.

SPEAKER_01 45:18

Uh and you get a lot, you know, we can talk about this a little bit. You get a lot of criticism for not doing a lot of interracial content. And for whatever reason, I don't pretend to understand it. Um, but interracial content is very, very popular. Um, but you don't do a lot of it, but you don't do a lot of it because we just don't have relationships with a lot of male.

SPEAKER_05 45:39

We just don't know a lot of male content creators that are people of color.

SPEAKER_01 45:44

Yeah. Yeah. And so it's not that you're against it, it's not that you don't want to do it. We just don't have lots of opportunities.

SPEAKER_05 45:49

To be honest with you, and we've talked about this when we left. I really uh enjoy black guys, they love the shape of my body, yeah, and they make me feel very sexy and very seen and very uh like I they look at me like I'm a snack. And I personally really enjoy that. Um, so yeah, it's definitely not uh we we don't seek it out, we don't like message every black guy on the internet and say, hey, come fuck me. But when it when it happens, it's great, you know? So yeah, I'm I enjoyed myself.

SPEAKER_01 46:22

You might I feel like you might be seeking it out more and more. The more experiences you have with that, it seems like the more you like it, the more you might be seeking it out. Is that accurate?

SPEAKER_05 46:31

And I think this is like a good like lesson for me. And women really like feeling wanted, and I think they do a very good job of like a curvier girl of like really appreciating their own. Oh my god, you're gonna be able to do that. Yeah, like appreciating just like you know, how you talked about like Mike eating pussy, you know, that's kind of how I feel like my whole body, you know, like you wanted your whole body, yeah. I mean, and that feels really good, yeah, as a person. I mean, and I'm sure women could do that for males too, right? Yeah, uh, so yeah, um, if if that's what yeah, I like feeling that's at like that's what every experience like that is.

SPEAKER_01 47:08

Yeah, I'll take it. I'll take it. You'll do you're you're into more interracial? Oh, for sure. All right, so message us guys, is that what you're saying? Yeah, reach out to us, yeah.

SPEAKER_05 47:16

Uh um, okay. So then what was funny is after he got done, and you know, he's like rinsing off and getting stuff. Me and Daphne was like, hey, let's go. I was like, hey, let's take some New Year's pictures because we have a party for New Year's, but we're gonna be running around like crazies. Let's take a couple, let's take five minutes and take a couple of new year's pictures so that way that's done. So as he's like, you know, showering, getting the stuff, all that, we're putting on our lingerie, and Daphne was like, You can go.

SPEAKER_01 47:48

You can go now. And the way she said it was almost like she was like dismissing him. Um, but really what she what she genuinely meant is you don't have to, we're gonna do we're gonna keep doing pictures and more work. You don't have to feel all right.

SPEAKER_05 48:00

But as soon as she said it, she was like, Oh my god, oh my god. Of course, we gave her shit, you know, we were giving her shit about it.

SPEAKER_01 48:06

But we're done with you. We we used your dick, you can leave now. Thanks for fucking us. But he was so nice, he was so such a great experience. Um you never know, you know, when you when you don't have a uh relationship with somebody what those type of content shoots are gonna be like, and we generally, genuinely, generally try to avoid those because we've just gotten ourselves in a couple of bad experiences, but man, if they were all like that, I would do much more of that for sure.

SPEAKER_05 48:32

Yeah, okay. So all of that, we hadn't even got to Trapeze yet. Um so we so after he left, we take our New Year's, or as he's leaving, we're taking our New Year's pictures real quick. And then we literally, it's like 2 30, 3 o'clock. So we were like, okay, let's get to the hotel. So we packed up everything, loaded up, and head in to the hotel.

SPEAKER_01 48:57

Yes. Now, the problem with heading to the hotel, it was it was during it was like four o'clock, five o'clock traffic.

SPEAKER_05 49:05

Well, we left at like 3 15.

SPEAKER_01 49:07

It took us two hours. What would normally be a 45-minute drive? It took us two hours.

SPEAKER_05 49:11

It was like two recs, and it was also like and it rerouted us.

SPEAKER_01 49:14

You had to stop and go pee at one point. We added like another 20 minutes. It was a nightmare getting from their house to the to the hotel.

SPEAKER_05 49:23

Yeah. Um, so by the time we got to the hotel, it was like five o'clock. Yeah. Maybe a little after. We were all a little bit like not pissed off, but like we wanted to sit and chill for a minute. So we were kind of like frustrated, but you know, it is what it is.

SPEAKER_01 49:41

We had a ranch with the new Trapeze owners to go for managers. Managers, yeah. Same owner, different manager, uh, to go in uh before the club opens and to make some TikToks and to film some content. Um, we've we've had a good relationship with Trapeze for years now. Um, if you go on their website, Lacey is has done their tour video for them. Um we always when we go there, we try to make TikToks and help promote. They always share the content, um, but we always do it when the club is not open, correct? Right? So there's no risk of getting people in the background or there's no except for the workers.

SPEAKER_05 50:15

That is hard.

SPEAKER_01 50:15

Yeah, yeah.

SPEAKER_05 50:16

I struggled, which we'll talk about that uh in a minute.

SPEAKER_01 50:19

But we're very careful not to get anybody in the background. Yeah, and it's you know it doesn't make any of their you know, because some people get times when you see people with cameras and stuff, the members can get uncomfortable. As they should, then they get complained. So anyway, we went ahead an hour before the club opened um and made some content.

SPEAKER_05 50:33

Yeah, so we had to be there at seven, it's like 5 15. So me and her, so we needed to leave, like you had originally told us we needed to leave at like 6 30. So we were like, shit, we have like an hour essentially. By the time we got checked in, got to our room, everything, we had like an hour. So me and Daphne went straight in to getting ready. And now, okay, so the theme the theme was babes in toyland.

SPEAKER_07 51:01

Right.

SPEAKER_05 51:01

So I'm like, okay, first of all, I thought the theme was the Grinch. I don't I looked at Travis's website. For some reason, I thought I saw the Grinch. So I was like, I'm gonna be Cindy Living.

SPEAKER_01 51:12

They did a Grinch giveaway on Friday, but even that was like at their ugly Christmas sweater party.

SPEAKER_05 51:19

Okay, I don't know. I saw Grinch. Yeah, okay, and I went with. I'm real bad about not reading if if you've heard from this like the messed up themes a few days. We've messed up the crews a few days. Yeah, we messed up a few things. So I saw the Grinch, and so I was gonna be Cindy Lou's. I've seen this really cute costume. I wanted to kind of like use it as inspiration. So I'd ordered this pink dress. Well, then I pulled it back up and saw that no, it's babes in Toyland.

SPEAKER_01 51:43

Right. And you've already got the pink dress. I've already got the pink dress. It's almost too late to really order anything super specific. So maybe could get Amazon in.

SPEAKER_05 51:50

Yeah, and it's also like trapeze, and it wasn't like if it was secrets or something big, I would have definitely figured something else out. But because this was just an art at Trapeze, it wasn't a whole thing. So it's like, let me just figure a way to wear this pink dress. So I'm like trying to come up with it. And I was like, I can be like a doll. Like I'll I guess I I ordered these like pink heels and I wore um right.

SPEAKER_01 52:13

So for babes in Toy Land, you decided to be the toy, to be the toy.

SPEAKER_05 52:17

Okay, because that's what like talking to Daphne, that's kind of how we took it is toys.

SPEAKER_01 52:23

That you dress up like a toy, which is kind of a cool theme.

SPEAKER_05 52:26

Yeah, so she was gonna be Little Bo Peep from Toy Story. And I was like, Well, I'm thinking about being like a doll, like wearing my hair in pigtails and putting like blue bows and wearing like little ruffle socks, and maybe I'll get like a baby doll. And in my mind, that worked, you know.

SPEAKER_01 52:44

Right, you're gonna look like a baby doll.

SPEAKER_05 52:46

Yeah, or a toy of some, you know, like a toy, like a toddler type doll. Yeah, yeah. Okay.

SPEAKER_01 52:53

You pulled it off.

SPEAKER_05 52:54

Shut up. I'm gonna punch you. Okay, so two nights before this was Wednesday, we left on Friday. I tried the dress on and Dan was like, I'm just not a fan of that dress.

SPEAKER_01 53:06

It wasn't it was not a bad dress, it just didn't, it it screamed, um uh I don't even know what it screamed. It screamed like uh beauty pageant, not not sex club. Yeah, yeah.

SPEAKER_05 53:21

Yeah. Which nothing really screamed that I wore sex love, unless we real. So this is Wednesday night at like midnight. So I panicked ordered an Amazon dress and shipped it to Daphne and Mike's house. I also went to Target that Thursday and I was like, well, because you know, I don't know how that dress will fit. Let me see if they have anything here at Target. And they actually had it.

SPEAKER_01 53:43

Now we have four pink dresses.

SPEAKER_05 53:45

We have three.

SPEAKER_01 53:45

Three pink dresses.

SPEAKER_05 53:46

Three dresses, three pink dresses. So I was like, let me see if they have one. So basically, when I got there, I had two dress options. Because I left the one you didn't like at home. There was no point.

SPEAKER_01 53:57

So you're returning that and getting your money back, right?

SPEAKER_05 53:59

I took the tags off of it.

SPEAKER_01 54:01

Oh my goodness.

SPEAKER_05 54:02

Um, I'll wear it for something, don't worry.

SPEAKER_01 54:04

I don't believe you.

SPEAKER_05 54:07

So, anyway, so as we're getting dressed, I'm going back and forth and back and forth. And Daphne is putting on her outfit, and she looks freaking adorable. One of the best costumes I've ever seen her wear.

SPEAKER_01 54:18

It was cute.

SPEAKER_05 54:18

It was very cute.

SPEAKER_01 54:19

Little bow peep, yeah.

SPEAKER_05 54:20

And she had a corset on and like little ruffle.

SPEAKER_01 54:23

Well, she had the little sheep hook. I don't want to what do you call that?

SPEAKER_05 54:26

I don't know.

SPEAKER_01 54:27

You know, the cane thing, the walking cane. She had a little sheep, she had a little stuffed animal sheep, she had the blue ruffle short thing.

SPEAKER_05 54:33

Yeah, she was adorable. I what so it just so happened, I happened to be in pink and blue as well. Right.

SPEAKER_01 54:38

Same colors, same colors.

SPEAKER_05 54:40

We didn't plan it. I look like her assistant or something. But then at one point, I'm getting dressed, and I was like, I just look like a child.

SPEAKER_01 54:49

Well, what you said a minute ago is you wanted to look like a a little girl. That's what you were thinking. A baby girl, a little girl. Like a that's what you looked like. You looked like a child, a toddler, which is fine, but not at a sex club. Right. You didn't, I don't think you thought that out fully. I I thought it was like a-cause a baby girl, a baby doll looks like a little girl. So you're basically dressing up like a little girl.

SPEAKER_05 55:13

In my mind, I was a toy, not a human. So it made sense to be like a toy, you know. So uh so I we're standing there and we have to leave in 30 minutes. And I look at y'all and I say, I feel like I look like a little kid. And nobody nobody says anything.

SPEAKER_01 55:28

Nobody said no, you don't. Everybody You look cute.

SPEAKER_05 55:31

Nobody said anything. They're like, uh, and I was like, I know.

SPEAKER_01 55:36

But here's why I think we reacted to that way is because we're so used to getting torn apart on the internet.

SPEAKER_02 55:42

Yeah.

SPEAKER_01 55:42

So not nobody was thinking you look cute because you did look cute. You're clearly not a little girl, you're a 40-year-old woman, right? You just were dressed up like a cute girl, right? Nothing inappropriate, nothing, you know, yeah, but we have so much shock from putting things on the internet and then getting tore apart about that. I think we all at the same time were thinking, oh fuck. Yeah, like oh shit. Yeah, we're about to get and to be fair, we've posted pictures of that night because we we actually talked about like maybe we just don't post these because we just don't want to deal with this. Yeah, we're like, no, fuck it. Like, we're we're adults, we're doing it. Well, I said it in my vlog, we're not being inappropriate, and so you posted it, and I haven't seen anybody say anything nasty to us. No, and each actually surprises me.

SPEAKER_05 56:25

Even in the vlog, I say it, and it that video got a decent amount of views, and nobody even negative. Like, I've gotten caught fat. I got told I look like the mask.

SPEAKER_01 56:35

And listen, I get like people that maybe are a little bit offended by when you dress like that. You know, you know, we've heard the same thing about like school girl outfits or Disney, you know, sexualizing, you know, minors or something like that. That that's not the point of it. Like, that's not what you're trying to do. No, honestly, we would never try to do that. We're you're just trying to look at it.

SPEAKER_05 56:53

I was just the girl that was trying to wear the pink dress that she bought, you know, was really so anyway.

SPEAKER_01 56:57

So I also that's you know, to be fair, there are people that are into the whole age play king. Yeah, they wear diapers, they wear pacifiers. I don't yuck anybody's young. Yeah, as long as who you're engaging with is actually a consenting adult, I'm not gonna yuck or you know, even if it's not for me. Yeah, but the point of this is we were terrified that you were gonna get um.

SPEAKER_05 57:19

Well, I think y'all were also freaked out thinking I was about to have a breakdown.

SPEAKER_01 57:23

You would seem like you were on the fence of um maybe it was the pellets.

SPEAKER_05 57:26

I was like, it's I'm not gonna, I'm not gonna be okay. I'm gonna be okay. I did change my dress back and forth like two or three times, and I ended up deciding on the one I went with strictly because I Well, you were worried about your your dress.

SPEAKER_01 57:37

You kept changing your hair. You're worried about the back of your hair, you're worried about your pigtails, yeah. You were having a little, I think even at one point looked at me and said, I'm not okay.

SPEAKER_05 57:45

Yeah, but it but I pulled it together.

SPEAKER_01 57:47

You did.

SPEAKER_05 57:47

I ended up, which was smart, wearing the dress that was the most comfortable. Right. Like, wasn't I wasn't messing with it, you know? So I knew that once I got there, I'd probably feel okay about everything else, but like at least I was actually comfortable.

SPEAKER_01 58:03

Once you get somewhere and you start drinking and dancing and having fun with your phone, nobody guarantees you forget what the fuck you're wearing. It doesn't matter at that point.

SPEAKER_05 58:11

So, anyway, we get in the car and we go. Again, there's another fucking wreck, and we end up being late to trap each other.

SPEAKER_01 58:18

Yeah, we GPS'd it before we left because I wanted to leave 30 minutes, and you got you and Daphne GPS it, and you're like, Dan, it's three miles.

SPEAKER_05 58:26

It's set it was seven minutes away.

SPEAKER_01 58:27

It's seven minutes, and I was like, okay, we'll leave a quarter of instead of 30 minutes of, and then we left a quarter of, and we just end up being 15 minutes late.

SPEAKER_05 58:36

Yeah, so we uh get there, um, and you know, we get checked in and drop our stuff off. And so basically, I have 30-ish minutes to get as many TikToks as I can, you know, and I want to highlight the club, I want to, you know, show and because it was right, and we've done this before and we've gotten there even earlier than seven. Um, but because it was like right as they were opening, there were so many employees around that I felt like I was dodging the employees. I felt like I was a little bit in their way, they they would needed to walk by. So I I started to get pretty anxious because of that. And then we went into the playroom and we were trying to get some stuff, and then you had some people that came to meet us, so you had to go to the front desk and get it.

SPEAKER_01 59:29

So it was uh Bella, who is the flirty pineapples on um on social media. She's on SDC, she's everywhere, she's another pretty big influencer. Um, she actually happened to be driving up from an event in Florida back home, and she has friends in Atlanta that she stopped and spent the night with. And so I had we had been in, you know, she was like, Oh, you guys are doing a party in Atlanta, it just so happens I'm here. So I was like, Oh, yeah, yeah, bring your friends, come out, yeah, we'll meet you. And then so we had said, Hey, if you want to show up early, we're making TikTok.

SPEAKER_05 59:57

Which they were late too because of the wreck.

SPEAKER_01 59:58

So they got there like 10 minutes before the club opened.

SPEAKER_05 1:00:00

So you were like leaving to go get them, and so I was very frazzled. So right before they unlock the doors, me and Daphne realized that we have not taken any pictures at all. So we set the ring light up and I just put it on like video. And me and her do individual pictures, group pictures, and then I go to turn the phone off, like turn the camera off. The whole fucking thing wasn't recording. So then we had to redo it, and literally the employees are like running back and forth and back and forth. So by the time they unlocked the doors and you got back in there, I was about to.

SPEAKER_01 1:00:35

You're like yelling at me, like where the fuck were you?

SPEAKER_05 1:00:37

I did not say that.

SPEAKER_01 1:00:38

But you were like upset.

SPEAKER_05 1:00:39

You're like I was like, I was very frazzled because I needed help. I needed somebody to take my picture.

SPEAKER_01 1:00:44

I was like, I'm trying to get them in. Yeah. So this is the thing, right? This is the behind the scenes. Every time we have an event, that like hour or two before, hour really 30 minutes before the doors open, it is high stress.

SPEAKER_05 1:00:55

And I just wanted the ring light to be away. I didn't want anybody to see it. I didn't want, you know, I wanted it to be like that didn't exist. So anyway, it and then not to mention when you're making TikToks and videos and stuff in the swingers club, there's porn and video and pictures everywhere. So you have to be extremely careful where you shoot and what you show. And it was just, it was a little bit of a shit show, I'm not gonna lie. But we managed. Um we got some cool TikToks. Yeah.

SPEAKER_01 1:01:23

Um, pictures didn't come out so great, but we got some pictures. Luckily, it was you dressed up as a little girl, and we didn't really want to post them anyway. So we didn't get that many. It's perfectly all right.

SPEAKER_05 1:01:32

Yeah.

SPEAKER_01 1:01:33

Yeah. So you can see Lacey dressed up as a baby doll on our so on Instagram.

SPEAKER_05 1:01:39

Yeah, but I will say all night, everybody I was obviously self-conscious about it because everybody I would be like, I'm my outfit's supposed to be a baby doll, which is funny because nobody dressed like babes in Toy Land.

SPEAKER_01 1:01:52

What was everybody else wearing?

SPEAKER_05 1:01:53

Christmas fucking sweaters and Christmas dresses and green and red.

SPEAKER_01 1:01:57

Yeah.

SPEAKER_05 1:01:58

Except for me and Daphne.

SPEAKER_01 1:01:59

It was basically a Christmas party. Me and Daphne. You and Daphne were dressed like dolls.

SPEAKER_05 1:02:02

We look like we were going to a gender reveal party. We're in our pink and blue, and everybody else is in Christmas. So every time I would meet somebody, I felt like the explain what you're like, I'm like, this outfit is supposed to be a baby doll, but I kind of look a small child, and I know that's weird, but I'm sorry. You know, it was like word vomit because I didn't know what to say. And then people were like, then that made it weird because people were like, huh? What? Um, so yeah, it was it was a little weird.

SPEAKER_01 1:02:29

You did change in the lingerie towards the end. Towards the end, yeah.

SPEAKER_05 1:02:33

But it was pink lingerie, it didn't really.

SPEAKER_01 1:02:34

I ended up taking my hair out of the it looked like a baby doll in lingerie.

SPEAKER_05 1:02:39

Yeah.

SPEAKER_01 1:02:40

Yeah. Yeah. Didn't get any better.

SPEAKER_05 1:02:42

Listen, you don't always win them all, you know? You don't always not, y'all always tell me you love my theme outfits and stuff.

SPEAKER_01 1:02:48

You don't always doesn't always hit the mark.

SPEAKER_05 1:02:52

Doesn't always hit the mark. Um, but it was a great night at Treadpeas, uh, drinks were great. The food.

SPEAKER_01 1:02:59

Oh my gosh. We get there, we so we as soon as they opened the doors and they opened officially, we went and sat down and ordered food.

SPEAKER_05 1:03:04

Well, wait, we tried to do we tried to order food, and Lenny was like, Of course, somehow we ended up being like the last ones to order, which was fine.

SPEAKER_01 1:03:13

We sat in the back.

SPEAKER_05 1:03:13

We sat in the back, and she was like, We're doing a hold on food right now until the kitchen gets caught up.

SPEAKER_01 1:03:18

And we were like, We were here an hour before it opened.

SPEAKER_05 1:03:20

I thought it, I didn't say it because I wasn't gonna be that girl. Um, and she was like, But I will come back as soon as the kitchen opened. And honestly, it was like 20 minutes, and she came back. There was eight of us, she took all of our orders, the food came out in like 10 minutes.

SPEAKER_01 1:03:34

Do you think they prioritized our food? Like, do you think they bumped the line for it?

SPEAKER_05 1:03:38

Well, I didn't think that.

SPEAKER_01 1:03:39

No, I didn't I didn't either. I didn't know, but because when she said the kitchen is backed up, we're pausing food, and then like 10 minutes later she came over and took our order. Well, maybe they had gotten the floor. And then the food almost instantly came out.

SPEAKER_05 1:03:49

I was like, Maybe they had gotten well, I think what a lot what they brought out first was steaks and mashed potatoes. I'm sure they already had the mashed potatoes made up and the steaks.

SPEAKER_06 1:04:02

We're probably just making them as fast as we could too.

SPEAKER_05 1:04:04

Um, so I I didn't think that she didn't seem to know who I was or even care, to be honest with you. So I don't I didn't get that vibe. Um, but uh the food. I just wondered it.

SPEAKER_01 1:04:13

I didn't I I don't know if they did or not.

SPEAKER_05 1:04:14

Mine mine was wrong, if you want me to be. But I mean, it was okay. I still ate it. I didn't complain. I I mean I ate I got chicken tacos, but they had everything on it, and I don't yeah, I just kind of picked the chicken out and I got it, it was really good. I had the macaroni and cheese, but everybody loved the food.

SPEAKER_01 1:04:31

The food was so good. So I got the steak, and I'm telling you, I've had worse steak at steak restaurants than what that I can't remember their steak before, you know. Like I'm trying to think of like the last couple times, and it kind of was like meh, it was okay. It was like buffet kind of steak. This time it was like steakhouse steak.

SPEAKER_05 1:04:47

Now I'll say we I had their breakfast later and I thought it was terrible. So uh but we had it up front, we had it up front, so I think it's kind of hit or miss depending on what you know.

SPEAKER_01 1:04:56

So if you don't know, in the Diamond Club, you can order food made to order and they bring it out to your table in the front of the club, in the normal um part, they have buffet food. Yeah, and so what we're talking about is what we had for dinner was the made to order food, and that that was excellent. Yes. Later in the night we did have the buffet food and it was kind of meh.

SPEAKER_05 1:05:14

Yeah. I also brought the Panak, which we talk about Panak quite often here. They came out with a green flavor, so good. It was margarita. So I brought the bottle and we opened it. I you could we had pre-ordered it back when it first came out, but we just hadn't we because we don't really drink when we're not home, so we got it. Everybody got to try it. It was good.

SPEAKER_01 1:05:34

Very good. Uh we danced, we danced, we came back, we danced, we fucked.

SPEAKER_05 1:05:40

Well, we came back in four, so we ate, we hung out, then we danced, and then we came back to the diamond club again, and then we went back out and danced some more, and then we came back.

SPEAKER_01 1:05:48

It was hot in there.

SPEAKER_05 1:05:50

Yeah, it was very hot. I there must have been something going on because we were real close to the air conditioning thing, and it said 70. There's no way it was 70 in there.

SPEAKER_01 1:05:58

Well, I I think maybe. Maybe what it might have been is that we had this here in the south, we had this cold snap where it was like 30, 40 degrees every day. The day we went to trapeze, it was 70 degrees that day. So I almost wonder if they didn't adjust, like if it was on heat and they hadn't turned the AC, and so it took it.

SPEAKER_05 1:06:15

It was very warm in there. It was warm in there. Very warm than usual. It was warm in there when I was making the TikToks. So you know, normally it's warm once. Usually it's cold when nobody's there. Then once it fills it again. Because they cut it so far down because it will when you put so many people in it.

SPEAKER_01 1:06:28

But they try to get ahead of the crowd, yeah.

SPEAKER_05 1:06:31

So at some point, we so just a couple of people to mention that were there. Uh the cranberries were there, Hot Georgia couple was there, Daphne and Mike, Bella and them.

SPEAKER_01 1:06:43

Um she's the what the flirty pineapples on Instagram. Yeah, uh and then they're friends.

SPEAKER_05 1:06:48

Yeah, they're friends. So there was there was quite a few. We actually sat at the table, because like when we came back one of the time, we sat at a table. We met a couple that was from like the town over from us. We met several couples that were new. Um, so at some point we decided that we were oh in the pad, the pad people from the city. Pad people.

SPEAKER_01 1:07:08

There's quite a few people from pad, which if you don't know what that is, pineapples after dark, which is uh it's like an Atlanta-based group, very similar vibes to like Swaner Society, younger kind of you know, 30, 40 group.

SPEAKER_05 1:07:18

Yeah, but primarily based in Atlanta, where we travel.

SPEAKER_01 1:07:21

Meet and greets and things in Atlanta, yeah.

SPEAKER_05 1:07:24

So um, at some point, like us, Daphne Mike, and the cranberries, we had decided that we wanted to play.

SPEAKER_01 1:07:32

You were all about it.

SPEAKER_05 1:07:34

To be honest with you.

SPEAKER_01 1:07:34

I think I said, Lacey, are you do you want to play tonight? And in my head, I'm thinking we fucked Friday night. We fucked Saturday day. And I even said this going into We also fucked Thursday too.

SPEAKER_05 1:07:46

Don't forget about that.

SPEAKER_01 1:07:47

Me and you did, yeah. Uh and then I can remember saying going into Trapeze, I know it's gonna happen. Lacey's gonna end up fucking this hot guy with this giant dick. And then by the time we get to the club, she's gonna be fucked out and not really but you were all about it.

SPEAKER_05 1:08:02

To be honest with you, I was kind of take it or leave it about the fucking. I just like fucking at Trapeze, you know. Like I genuinely enjoy like the diamond, the playrooms in the diamond club. So I knew that we were gonna fuck. So I'm like, let's just do it here, basically. I don't really like fucking in our rooms, like at hotels and like on the crews and stuff.

SPEAKER_01 1:08:24

I would pref much prefer right if you're gonna fuck, especially if you're gonna fuck and squirt and do all the dirty stuff.

SPEAKER_05 1:08:29

I want to go to bed, I want to like leave when I want to leave. You know, I wanna like so anyway. So we the beds were pretty full.

SPEAKER_01 1:08:37

Um we went back. There was when we went back, there were two couples in there. And we said and they were kind of off to one side. And we said, Hey, do you mind if we you know use this side of the bed? And they're oh yeah, sure, no problem. Um, and so all of basically ever almost everybody you just mentioned came back with us, minus um the flirty pineapple. Bella didn't come back and her friends didn't come back.

SPEAKER_05 1:08:57

They were watching though, yeah.

SPEAKER_01 1:08:58

They were watching. Well, I guess they did come back, but they weren't in the orgy. Um so we all come back. So it was us, Daphne, uh Hot Georgia couple, uh the crazy cranberries. Cranberries? Oh I always want to say crayon apple. I don't know why. Uh which is that's a good name.

SPEAKER_05 1:09:11

Crayon apples. It is the crayon apples. Is it I think it's the crayon apples, it's one or the other.

SPEAKER_01 1:09:16

Uh so anyway.

SPEAKER_05 1:09:17

It's one or the other. It's crayon something. Yeah.

SPEAKER_01 1:09:19

Uh was that and that was that was it? Yeah. Four of us? Yeah. Yeah. So we all get in the bed and we start, we start fucking. Very quickly. And when I say very quickly, I don't even know if we had our clothes off yet.

SPEAKER_05 1:09:30

Honestly, I didn't even know that there was that many people in Diamond Club. I think everybody that was in Diamond Club came back to watch.

SPEAKER_01 1:09:38

The room filled up. The so we if you know Club Trap Peas, if not, go watch Lacey's tour video. But in the back, there's actually two big orgy areas. Um, there's one that's by the couches, and then there's another one. You go around the corner to like where the smoking um new cigar lounge, there's another big playroom back there. This was the one we used. Um, so there's the playroom, but then there's curtains, and right outside the curtains, there's kind of these the seating area.

SPEAKER_02 1:10:03

Yeah.

SPEAKER_01 1:10:03

So that whole seating area was standing room only. Basically, in front of the curtains was standing room only.

SPEAKER_05 1:10:09

That was the largest crowd that we have attracted in quite a while. I can't think of Dallas. Dallas was pretty similar. I think uh iCandy, uh their Halloween takeover last year. We had a pretty big crowd. Um I don't know why, but it I guess because at Swinger Sidey stuff, maybe some of you people have seen us fuck. It's not where it but it felt very much like we were circus animals and like in a zoo. Does that make sense?

SPEAKER_01 1:10:36

Yeah.

SPEAKER_05 1:10:36

For lack of a better way to explain it.

SPEAKER_01 1:10:38

There's a fine line between I like that and it's too much. And I don't know where that line is.

SPEAKER_05 1:10:44

It does give me like a like a little bit of like of a big head to know that like people want to watch us fuck and like I get some joy out of that. I'm not gonna lie, I'm not gonna sit here and sugarcoat it and pretend like I don't get I'm a little bit of a voyeur too. So you add that on top of it, it like kind of makes me proud. But there is a like a very fine line between people casually walking and people gawking and people like following us into it, and that it was a lot. Like, I'm gonna be honest with you, all the guys were struggling to stay hard in the group.

SPEAKER_01 1:11:15

Including me, yeah.

SPEAKER_05 1:11:16

Um, because it just at some point became too much. Uh, it was just I think it kind of ruined it. For I mean, I don't and I don't I don't want to like make anybody feel bad that ever stands around and watches, or if you were in that group and were watching, I'm not I'm not saying it to make you feel bad.

SPEAKER_01 1:11:31

Because that's what that area is for. Like to be honest, if you were standing watching, that's what the point of that is.

SPEAKER_05 1:11:38

Yeah, but it was just it was it was a lot, and so at some point we just kind of wrapped it up because it was just it was a lot. I don't I don't know how else to describe it, but I mean again when you when you play a tripieze, you kind of know that that it but it it was way more than a normal watching, it wasn't like we were doing anything that entertaining, yeah. It wasn't even like it was that great of an orgy. I mean, and I I don't mean that to like to discredit anybody that was in the world.

SPEAKER_01 1:12:06

Well, it wasn't that great because they were watching we were all overwhelmed, yeah.

SPEAKER_05 1:12:10

Yeah, I mean, everybody in there was nice and wonderful and stuff. It wasn't them, it was just like there was so much pressure from the outside that it we couldn't really get very far.

SPEAKER_01 1:12:21

Yeah, so I will you know, me and you started off together and I fucked you, and I was that was all good, and you know, I was hard for that, and then I fucked somebody else, and then I went to fuck a third person. I'm not gonna say which person that was, um, but I couldn't because I'd fucked you, stopped, fucked somebody else, then stopped, and went to fuck the third girl, and you know, because I cleaned up and stuff in between and swapped condoms and all that, I was struggling. You know, now it's like I've we've been fucking for 30 minutes now, and there's a lot going on. And I think at that point there was even you know, more people were in there than when we started.

SPEAKER_05 1:12:53

Well, now people are like standing and talking because it's kind of wrapping up.

SPEAKER_01 1:12:57

And I felt bad because I feel like she took it a little bit personal.

SPEAKER_05 1:13:00

Well, I think she thought that me and her husband were really fucking, and he was also struggling too.

SPEAKER_01 1:13:08

Because like you thought because like after we got back she had said some kind of comment like this happens to me all the time, which it happens to you all the time. So I think that's but I get how that I felt I genuinely felt bad because I felt like she thought it was unfortunate. Yeah, and we never I wasn't into her, or it was a it was a her thing when it really a hundred percent was a situational thing.

SPEAKER_05 1:13:28

Yeah, well, and I think she thought that me and her husband, which he I mean, we honestly he made me squirt. I mean, he was doing all the things, so I had a great time. I don't want to take away from our time together, but I think she thought that me and him were like going to town, but but that really wasn't we were having fun, but with doing other things. Um, and they actually invited us to come back and go to their hotel room. Several people wanted it, it was kind of a talk, and honestly, by that point, I was done.

SPEAKER_01 1:13:55

Yeah, like I had fucked all those times I think she had something to me like, oh, we should just go back and fuck. And honestly, that would have been better as far as the yeah, the performance anxiety part of it. It would have. Um, but like I just know you you fuck, you eat, you go, you know, especially you know, 30 minutes back to the hotel, you're done.

SPEAKER_05 1:14:12

Yeah, because by the time I put my clothes on and get back, I just didn't honestly. I ended up fucking you when we got back to the room. I didn't even really want to do that. I was like, I'm done, I'm done. You know, it's just I was exhausted. Uh I was just kind of over it. Um, and we ended up getting dressed.

SPEAKER_01 1:14:27

Well, Daphne got mad at me because I didn't even get to her in the orgy. I never got the fuck her. I know but she gave me shit the whole way.

SPEAKER_05 1:14:33

There was so much going on. She ended up taking Mike over to like one of those.

SPEAKER_01 1:14:36

Yeah, they kind of needed a corner to go higher.

SPEAKER_05 1:14:38

But he ended up was like, he came.

SPEAKER_01 1:14:39

Mike, yeah. So that's the funny thing. There's four guys, three of us were struggling. Mike came. In the play right. Mike is the shyest out of all of the four guys. I mean, I don't know one of them very well, but of the other of the rest of us, Mike is shyer than any of us. And the fact that he was hard as a rock, and and he was probably turned on from the days, you know, seeing her get dicked down good you know, for two days in a row.

SPEAKER_05 1:15:02

I'm sure. Yeah.

SPEAKER_01 1:15:03

But so uh Mike won the show as far as guys go.

SPEAKER_05 1:15:06

He did. It was pretty funny. So yeah, I mean, after that.

SPEAKER_01 1:15:09

I will say so last thing on the orgy. There were some girls, um, at least one particular girl, who was moaning about how great swinger society events were and how she missed them. Um, I think we might have sold some tickets just from the noises and the squirting she was doing while saying how much she enjoyed swinger society events. We're not gonna say who, but there was somebody there that that thoroughly um was having a good time and was accrediting in that to Swinger Society. So I think I just wanted to note that.

SPEAKER_04 1:15:36

Um yeah, you did a good job.

SPEAKER_01 1:15:37

And I think because there was such an audience there, there's a probably a few people that were listening that went and booked our next secrets event or something.

SPEAKER_04 1:15:44

Yeah, she did us a favor.

SPEAKER_01 1:15:45

So I appreciate the vocal um support.

SPEAKER_05 1:15:50

Yeah, the words of affirmation.

SPEAKER_01 1:15:52

And it made me feel good too. Because I was the one fucking her when she was saying it.

SPEAKER_05 1:15:55

Yeah, um, oh that would make me feel so good. If I was fucking some guy and he was, oh god, I'd feel like I need to get to Morseweyer society of you wouldn't be able to tell me shit.

SPEAKER_01 1:16:04

I miss these orgies. Yeah.

SPEAKER_05 1:16:06

So after that, we got dressed and we went and had breakfast out front. Um, and then it was pretty much time to like go. I got the alcohol, got changed, and everything. You and Mike loaded up all the toys in the truck, and me and Daphne uh were hilarious in the back of the car. If you want to see what it's like coming home from a swinger party, me and her, which is funny because we hadn't had a drink in hours at that point.

SPEAKER_01 1:16:37

But we're like I'm gonna be honest, you almost seem like you're hot. We do, but we're laughing so much, but neither one of you had any no, there was no shivers, no gummies.

SPEAKER_05 1:16:47

That was but like I was laughing so hard. Like in the video, you can see like I'm crying, and we laughed for like an hour once we got back to the hotel, like at it. We were just cracking up at ourselves. We thought we were the funniest people ever. Um, but no, I mean, that was I think I had two drinks at Trapeze. So that was that's me, two drinks. So when people say Lacey is shit based, that if you want to see what they're talking about, that's basically it.

SPEAKER_01 1:17:14

Yeah, I really enjoyed it. It kind of I I had a great weekend all together. Yeah, and I really enjoyed Trapeze that night. And you know, I think we even talked about this a little bit. You know, the DJ was good, it was okay, wasn't like blow you away DJ. There was no lasers, there was no lights, there was no light show, there was no LED one.

SPEAKER_05 1:17:31

It wasn't completely packed out.

SPEAKER_01 1:17:32

It was people weren't even dancing that much. The dance floor wasn't even packed all night. Um but it reminded me of like how it used to be kind of. You know what I mean? Yeah, like an average party with an average crowd, yeah, but just a fucking blast.

SPEAKER_05 1:17:49

Yeah, like I think you can have fun, you have to make your own party.

SPEAKER_01 1:17:53

I just think we're so used to all we want sold-out events and big name DJs and packed dance floors and lasers and lasers.

SPEAKER_03 1:18:00

That would be you.

SPEAKER_01 1:18:01

Well, and I genuinely do want all of that, but I think I don't say any of those things you do, but I do think sometimes you can go to a you know a normal and Nihito is kind of like that for us, and it sometimes blitz crews, but uh even then those they're stepping up their game, you know, especially at least the weeks that we go. And uh, but to just go to a normal, a normal club on a normal night and have genuinely agree.

SPEAKER_05 1:18:25

Well, I think like the thing to take away is everybody just lifestyle differently, and for some people that's how they do the lifestyle. You know, they don't go on creases, they don't go on these you know crazy things that we are very fortunate to get to go to.

SPEAKER_01 1:18:37

You don't have to have a sold-out club, yeah.

SPEAKER_05 1:18:38

Yeah, but you can have just as much fun and make just as cool of connections as something like that.

SPEAKER_01 1:18:43

Honestly, maybe even more so because on a thing on a sold-out night in that club when it's shoulder to shoulder, it's harder to talk, it's harder to connect, there's no room in the playroom.

SPEAKER_05 1:18:53

Like, we'll go back and probably listen to the January um from last year. It was insane. It was we it was so busy. I don't even know if we played to be honest with you. Probably couldn't get a playroom.

SPEAKER_01 1:19:04

Yeah, if we did, we probably fucked on the couches in the VIP or something.

SPEAKER_05 1:19:08

Yeah, so I think it's all good.

SPEAKER_01 1:19:11

I think it's all no, we did fuck because I remember I remember I ended up playing DJing in my underwear and my socks at the end of that night. Uh there's a bug crawling over. You might be able to see that on YouTube. As you can see it on YouTube, there's a bug right there. It's a stink bug.

SPEAKER_03 1:19:28

I was trying not to scream. I just pointed at it.

SPEAKER_01 1:19:31

Yeah. Uh okay.

SPEAKER_03 1:19:32

And that's it.

SPEAKER_01 1:19:33

Anything else for the swing nation listeners? That's it. Well, that wraps up Trapeze. Um, huge show again, huge shout out to everybody that donated to the Toy Drive. Thank you, Trapeze, for for facilitating that for us last minute. You guys are the are the best. Um, if you're in the Atlanta area, go club tra go check out Club Trapeze. Um, they truly are like a staple, I think, in the in the lifestyle community. Uh a really good uh example of what a club can be. So go check them out.

SPEAKER_05 1:19:58

Yeah, and just a quick note we will be at Open Instincts Hotel Takeover for New Year's Eve. Electric Pleasures, which is our new hotel takeover group, is doing the or is sponsoring it. What are we doing? We are sponsoring.

SPEAKER_01 1:20:14

So we are doing the production. Okay, the production and why I mean we, I mean basically me.

SPEAKER_05 1:20:19

Yeah.

SPEAKER_01 1:20:19

Um you're gonna have an LED wall, you're gonna have laser lights, you're gonna have a light show.

SPEAKER_05 1:20:25

All the things that Dan was just talking about, not meeting, you will have that there.

SPEAKER_01 1:20:29

Right. But it enhances your experience. And I'm gonna be DJing.

SPEAKER_05 1:20:33

Yeah.

SPEAKER_01 1:20:33

So I'm gonna be DJing uh DJ Sunshine will be DJing, um, and uh um Reverberate is their normal DJ, he'll be there as well. So it's gonna be um, if you're looking for something fun to do for New Year's, definitely go check it out. Uh you search Open Instinct Atlanta. You can also find links to it on swingersciety.net. You can find a click-through link there. Uh so go get signed up for that party. Um, that party sells out every year. So uh I think last time I saw they said we only had like six rooms left or something. So go book the New Year's party. We'll see you in Atlanta in Atlanta for New Year's.

SPEAKER_02 1:21:05

Yep.

SPEAKER_01 1:21:05

All right, anything else for the Swing Nation listeners? That's it. All right, guys. I think with that, in a world full of apples, be the pineapple. Be the pineapple, guys.

SPEAKER_05 1:21:13

Bye.

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SPEAKER_00 1:21:46

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