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Young Athletes & Celebrity Relationships: The Hidden Side Of Fame Exposed Ep. 35 | Big Dog Talk Podcast

February 27, 2024 Charles Hawkins III
Young Athletes & Celebrity Relationships: The Hidden Side Of Fame Exposed Ep. 35 | Big Dog Talk Podcast
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Young Athletes & Celebrity Relationships: The Hidden Side Of Fame Exposed Ep. 35 | Big Dog Talk Podcast
Feb 27, 2024
Charles Hawkins III

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Have you ever considered the weight of choices and their long-lasting ripples in the lives of young athletes? Join us for a heartfelt exploration into the world of professional sports beyond the bright lights and roaring crowds. We delve into the real pressures faced by these young talents, especially in navigating mental health challenges and high-profile relationships. Our candid conversation unpacks the discipline required to reach the top and the pivotal choices that can steer futures, including the often-overlooked impact of therapy and emotional availability.

Pregnancy at 40? Talk about a curveball. We get up close and personal on the topic, sharing stories of unexpected twists in life's journey, and the accompanying emotional rollercoasters. The chat unfolds into the delicate dance of long-term partnerships, where empathy meets hormonal hurricanes, and the balance between support and maintaining personal boundaries becomes a daily negotiation. These intimate life moments often go undiscussed, but we're laying it all out on the table, engaging in the nuances of evolving relationships and the importance of understanding each other's stages in life.

Finally, we shine a spotlight on the intriguing dynamic of significant age gaps in relationships, with a focus on older women and younger men in the glare of media scrutiny. Scrutinizing the motivations, societal double standards, and psychological impacts, we question what's at the heart of these connections: love or material gain? This episode isn't just about pointing out issues; it's a platform for reflection on making wise life choices that can shield or shatter one's emotional and financial well-being. To our dedicated listeners, we wrap up with a warm thank you, reminding you that the conversations we share here are inspired by and dedicated to you.

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Have you ever considered the weight of choices and their long-lasting ripples in the lives of young athletes? Join us for a heartfelt exploration into the world of professional sports beyond the bright lights and roaring crowds. We delve into the real pressures faced by these young talents, especially in navigating mental health challenges and high-profile relationships. Our candid conversation unpacks the discipline required to reach the top and the pivotal choices that can steer futures, including the often-overlooked impact of therapy and emotional availability.

Pregnancy at 40? Talk about a curveball. We get up close and personal on the topic, sharing stories of unexpected twists in life's journey, and the accompanying emotional rollercoasters. The chat unfolds into the delicate dance of long-term partnerships, where empathy meets hormonal hurricanes, and the balance between support and maintaining personal boundaries becomes a daily negotiation. These intimate life moments often go undiscussed, but we're laying it all out on the table, engaging in the nuances of evolving relationships and the importance of understanding each other's stages in life.

Finally, we shine a spotlight on the intriguing dynamic of significant age gaps in relationships, with a focus on older women and younger men in the glare of media scrutiny. Scrutinizing the motivations, societal double standards, and psychological impacts, we question what's at the heart of these connections: love or material gain? This episode isn't just about pointing out issues; it's a platform for reflection on making wise life choices that can shield or shatter one's emotional and financial well-being. To our dedicated listeners, we wrap up with a warm thank you, reminding you that the conversations we share here are inspired by and dedicated to you.

Support the Show.

Speaker 1:

He's getting grown woman for JJ. Of course in his mind he's gonna be doing big things. Of course we gonna stay right here. We gonna stay right here. Of course he feels like he's doing I'm up, man. I got Amber Rose, I got Dre. I got these big names. Hey Star's already out there. I got these celebrities. I'm knocking that down, I'm putting pressure to it.

Speaker 2:

Yeah, yeah, they feeling good.

Speaker 1:

Not knowing that they're being. I'm creating a story again, but I'm gonna go with my story in my mind, not knowing that they're being set up. That's disrespectful, that's nasty. I don't agree with it. I just feel sorry for the young man's future. That's the only thing that I feel sorry for, because I'm thinking about to get to the NFL and to get to the NBA. It takes a massive amount of discipline and focus, hard work, consistency, effort, willpower. Over and over and, over and over and over. You've been focused like this your entire life to get here to this monumental moment and make one decision that can change your life forever. Because one thing for sure, one thing is clear those two women that you named, they gonna get that bag.

Speaker 2:

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Speaker 1:

Can I call you Rose? That is not my name.

Speaker 2:

That is not my name. It's saying I mess all day. No, you cannot call me Rose. No, thanks here.

Speaker 1:

Okay, rose, welcome back to another episode of the Big Dog Talk podcast. It's me, the one and only Big Charles in the building.

Speaker 2:

Hey, what's up y'all? It's your girl, big Shay, and I'm back, back, back back in the building, let's go Energy.

Speaker 1:

Good baby, can I call you Rose?

Speaker 2:

That song, oh my God, is overplay, overused and just no.

Speaker 1:

You tired of it.

Speaker 2:

I'm sick of it. I'm sick of it.

Speaker 1:

You looking like a nostalgic. This is how your hair was back in the day when I first met you, though.

Speaker 2:

It definitely was. How does it feel to have a wife with edges and lashes, though? How does that feel? That's still under that. I got Hs and I got lashes.

Speaker 1:

You do, you do.

Speaker 2:

It's something. Here was when we first met years ago. I got to get this joint straight in at least once a year. So I get that good trim up.

Speaker 1:

I just found it disrespectful when your kids say mom still look the same and dad, you aging. That's what happened when you get married. That's what happened when you get married, son. They stress you out, you start aging.

Speaker 2:

Life is just whew, that's what you tell those kids, those kids don't know nothing about getting older, so I paint them, absolutely no mind.

Speaker 1:

Oh man.

Speaker 2:

Absolutely.

Speaker 1:

But it looks nice though.

Speaker 2:

Thank you, I appreciate that. I like the look, I appreciate that, thank you.

Speaker 1:

I like the look. How do you feel?

Speaker 2:

A little throwback.

Speaker 1:

How do you feel?

Speaker 2:

I feel, good no. Got a little pampering done. You know, that's always good.

Speaker 1:

Can I share something with you, sure?

Speaker 2:

On the mic.

Speaker 1:

I mean hey, Go, I mean listen.

Speaker 2:

That's it.

Speaker 1:

This is our community, we family. I may be sharing too much news, so I had a scare this week, y'all. I thought Big Shae was pregnant. I thought she was pregnant. I sent her a text.

Speaker 2:

No, we thought.

Speaker 1:

I sent her a text asking how she was feeling. She had been having a headache for three days in a row, a bad migraine, and she said that it was late Child. I was stressed out. I said ain't no way. I'm damn near 40 years old, about to have a newborn baby. I'm going to explain this to my kids and to my mom and daddy what I look like being 40 and a newborn.

Speaker 2:

You didn't even express that.

Speaker 1:

That was a stress factor?

Speaker 2:

I wasn't, you said absolutely nothing about it to me, I'm just learning about it right now.

Speaker 1:

Well, once you told me that your monthly came, I was able to talk about it freely.

Speaker 2:

We show our close to the community.

Speaker 1:

I was nervous. I ain't going to lie. I was nervous because I was nervous because I got a 22 year old daughter. I got a 13 year old son. I have an 11 year old son. What do I look like with a newborn baby?

Speaker 2:

No lie so, no lie so. And you know, I'm just not interested in revisiting that life. I'm not interested in revisiting that.

Speaker 1:

You didn't tell me, though, that you thought about it as well, though you kept it a secret. You didn't tell me that you thought I did text you that. Oh, I didn't know. You texted me that Not that part.

Speaker 2:

I just was like, yeah, and I'm late. That's like that does not mean what I see your behind ready between the dang on lines.

Speaker 1:

That's. That's a simple math that has nothing to do with you thinking the same thing that I thought.

Speaker 2:

I bet Then yeah, maybe we didn't like directly talk about it, but we was definitely on the same wavelength.

Speaker 1:

I was stressed out.

Speaker 2:

It was on the same wavelength. I was stressed out you might have been more stressed out than me. I was.

Speaker 1:

I was really stressed out because you know that 40 year old is that strange age, that 40 year phase is that strange phase because I know I got friends that are that's my age, 40. I made 40 in August. I got friends that are grandparents right now, yeah, and I also have friends that have newborn babies.

Speaker 2:

Yeah, we're trying to get pregnant, yeah.

Speaker 1:

I ain't trying to be neither one of them. Neither one. Shout out to everybody that's close to their 40s and they's wanting to start their baby journey right now. But big Charles was scared.

Speaker 2:

Shout out. 40s are interesting. A lot of things can happen in that 40 window, but that was one thing that in my 40s I wasn't interested in. That.

Speaker 1:

Yeah, I was nervous. I wish they would be quiet.

Speaker 2:

Same.

Speaker 1:

Shucks, but I was nervous man, but anyway, yeah, that was a huge scare, clear, thank God, thank God, clear. I mean you're still very. I got another question, since we're talking about this. You know, every month, your monthly comes on, women cycle comes on and you go through hormonal changes. You get irritable, you get grumpy, hungry, hungry, you just seem like everything annoyed you. But I don't want to make this about you, although it's about you. But what about the people that have to endure the agony that? What about the people that you women leash out on Lash?

Speaker 2:

out.

Speaker 1:

I'm sorry, lash out on when y'all having y'all monthly, do we automatically have to deal with that?

Speaker 2:

I mean, here is the whole truth and nothing but the truth. So help me Bye. It's a lot, you know, and honestly, if in that time of the month, if I could do better, I would do better. In all honesty it is, and you don't even get to make commentary or take deep breaths around it, because it's something that you'll never get to experience. First of all, I don't want to experience, you're not.

Speaker 1:

But anyway, go ahead. I don't want to hear all of that though. Because that's not what I want to hear. We're going to not answer the question.

Speaker 2:

I just answered the question, but you're not allowed. No.

Speaker 1:

I said does that mean that we have to deal with it? Does that mean that we can't correct you? Does that mean that we can't say anything to you? Does that mean we just have to accept everything that you? Man? That's some BS, absolutely.

Speaker 2:

That is some BS. Trying to correct a woman that might be going through that time of the month. You never know what could happen.

Speaker 1:

It's not about correcting. It's not about correcting. No, I did not. I said do we have to just automatically deal with everything that you put on us? You said, or something like we can't Do we have to deal with you being rude to us.

Speaker 2:

I mean yeah.

Speaker 1:

I don't agree with that. I don't agree with it because this episode, what you're going through right now, has been annoying. You've been very grumpy, you've been very irritable.

Speaker 2:

Very irritable. I've been in a lot of pain.

Speaker 1:

And I do have sympathy for you when it comes to that.

Speaker 2:

I've had a very hard physical week.

Speaker 1:

But, fellas, it's looking like we got to take it.

Speaker 2:

It's looking like there's no way out of it.

Speaker 1:

It's looking like we just got to take it.

Speaker 2:

Yeah.

Speaker 1:

Shout out to the women. Shout out to the fellas too. Shout out, that's going through all of that. This was just a jokey moment.

Speaker 2:

Yeah, but anyway. Yeah, it's not easy, but in other news, in other news.

Speaker 1:

Da, da, da da.

Speaker 2:

Hot topic. The funny thing is that I was just talking about this on Friday because it came across my social media and I had a lot to say about it from a specific perspective. So Amber Rose, who is about 40 years old, is allegedly dating CJ Round, an NFL star, who's about 22 years old. And then you have Dreah Michelle, who got introduced to us some basketball wives who's 39 years old and she's allegedly dating and allegedly expecting a child with NBA basketball player Jalen Green that plays for the Houston Rockets.

Speaker 1:

How do you know she's expecting a child?

Speaker 2:

It's all up in there. It's all up in the news. Oh man, it's all up in there, and he's also 22 years old.

Speaker 1:

Oh, my God, and.

Speaker 2:

I think she has a son that's close to around that age, and so I'm not even going to hold you and this is what I'm calling it. It might not go over well, but I feel like women in their 30s and 40s dating 21, 22, 23 year olds they doing the Jada Pinkett.

Speaker 1:

They're late 30s.

Speaker 2:

Late 39, late 30s 40. That's 40 years old, dating and having children by 22 year old athletes.

Speaker 1:

Check Literally.

Speaker 2:

Basically it's a check.

Speaker 1:

I feel you know I really don't like talking about these low vibrational. It's not low vibrational Okay.

Speaker 2:

I look at it as low vibrational, because you're talking about women that are in their 40s.

Speaker 1:

Mature women.

Speaker 2:

Seized. Seized women 39, 40, 41, 42 years old.

Speaker 1:

That's an experienced woman 22 year old boy is a kid.

Speaker 2:

A 22 year old man.

Speaker 1:

It's still a kid.

Speaker 2:

Athlete is a kid New to you know, playing sports. Life experiences Fresh to whatever professional sport that they're playing, making some money with absolutely no real life experience.

Speaker 1:

I just what kind of communication will they have? Like he's young.

Speaker 2:

Very young.

Speaker 1:

So 22 year old young man's mind is not even fully developed until we are not with 30, 27, 30.

Speaker 2:

The front of the brain is not even developed.

Speaker 1:

They're front to low 26.

Speaker 2:

The prefront to low is not fully developed until about 26 years old.

Speaker 1:

That's robbery. That's robbery.

Speaker 2:

And it's easy robbery. It's easy to knit.

Speaker 1:

They say he have a max out contract or something like that. Which one Dress?

Speaker 2:

Oh, Jalen Green.

Speaker 1:

Of like 300 mil.

Speaker 2:

Yes.

Speaker 1:

That is insane to me. I feel sorry for him.

Speaker 2:

Yes, because of absolutely, a 40 year old can absolutely manipulate and a lot of ways mentally, physically, can manipulate a 22 year old young man.

Speaker 1:

You just got to think about the way that they're going to communicate. You got to think about a long term relationship. Yep, you know. You got to think about health issues. You have to think about how they're going to resolve problems. You have to think about different phases of life that is crazy to me.

Speaker 2:

But is this like the new agenda, like these young, you know new athletes making money, like women in their 40s going after them?

Speaker 1:

Or are they really?

Speaker 2:

falling in love. Oh, based off of what, though? Fall in love? Based off of what? It's a question.

Speaker 1:

So this brings my energy down? Oh no, it should. No, this brings my spiritual energy down. Your vibration is the lower. So, because it's making me talk about something, that it is a serious situation when you look at it. He's a young man, a young boy. He hasn't even experienced life yet. These women are like if it was vice versa. You call the man sick.

Speaker 2:

That's what I'm saying. That is the next point that I wanted to make. Why is it?

Speaker 1:

Okay.

Speaker 2:

Okay or no?

Speaker 1:

I know they whipping that thing on the young line.

Speaker 2:

This is what I'm saying. You talk about a 40 year old woman with a lot of it.

Speaker 1:

You know I'm talking about, you know she's putting, you know she's messing up his mind.

Speaker 2:

This is what I'm saying.

Speaker 1:

I think they both were video victims at one time.

Speaker 2:

They're experienced.

Speaker 1:

And I know once those young men.

Speaker 2:

Absolutely.

Speaker 1:

Get them an experienced woman. Absolutely, they are gonna be whooped. Yep, you're not even thinking clear at 22.

Speaker 2:

No, no, I mean athlete or not, at 22, you thinking with one part of your body, mostly anyway, at 22 years old, the majority of 22 year old.

Speaker 1:

I mean, but at the same time that older woman know how to probably is making him feel like he's a man.

Speaker 2:

She know how to do that.

Speaker 1:

She know how to do that. She's been around long enough.

Speaker 2:

She know how to do that yeah, and feel like a king Manipulation.

Speaker 1:

We don't know if that's the case, but I don't agree with it.

Speaker 2:

I mean, I said allegedly. I was pretty clear on saying allegedly. This has just been floating around.

Speaker 1:

However, if it was my 22 year old, Can you not speak on my kids about this regardless? I don't even want to put that in the air.

Speaker 2:

I'm with a 40 year old woman. I'd have some concerns. I don't even want to put that in the air, it's not about putting it in the air, it's just about making it like, basing it off of my perspective how I would feel.

Speaker 1:

That is something. How are they gonna handle problems?

Speaker 2:

You mean like conflicts and disagreements, because at 22 years old, your tools and your toolbox are very low as it relates to handling conflicts.

Speaker 1:

You haven't really been through anything, you haven't experienced enough, you don't have enough wisdom under your belt.

Speaker 2:

It's absolutely true man, absolutely true, and these are athletes, so the majority of their life.

Speaker 1:

Big paycheck. Has been spent on Big child support.

Speaker 2:

Playing sports? That's another thing. That's another thing, because that is set up for failure.

Speaker 1:

That is set up for failure.

Speaker 2:

Yep, yep.

Speaker 1:

The math is not mathin'.

Speaker 2:

That is a set up for failure, and they've been focused on sports Probably the majority of their lives. One area of their life has been the main focus Developmentally.

Speaker 1:

That's disrespect when a man or a woman does it. This is just my true perspective. That needs to be said, too, when a man or a woman dates someone that's 20 years younger than them, if the other partners like in their 20s, I would say like 40 and 60, is that's okay with me, I think so too. Why? Because everyone is fully developed and mature.

Speaker 2:

The maturation of the brain is very different.

Speaker 1:

So you're making a solid decision, absolutely. But when you 22 and you 40. 22 and 39. To me that's child molestation I mean.

Speaker 2:

and some would negate that and argument you and say they're both too consenting adults. That's the basic level of what's happening? They're both adults.

Speaker 1:

What is it about a person that can I'm talking about this situation and men that do the same thing in this situation. It's like in their 40s and they're 20 year old. What is it about them and their brain that's underdeveloped that makes them feel like they are compatible to a 20 year old? What is it about a 40 year old 40 year old person that makes them feel like they are compatible to a 22 year old? To me, that says somewhere in the mind is underdeveloped. Now, if you want me to get on that energy.

Speaker 2:

Yeah, absolutely, I mean.

Speaker 1:

But Something is stuck there. They are immature, a child and a certain part of their brain.

Speaker 2:

Yeah, but like you said, the flip side is that we have women doing it and it's, like you know, kind of sort of socially acceptable. But not to bring him up, but to bring him up when R Kelly was dating girls in their 20s and he was well into his 40s. You see, I mean honestly it was, it was the perception. I'm not trying to get all into it, but the perception of it was very different.

Speaker 1:

Sickly.

Speaker 2:

Sick.

Speaker 1:

Monster.

Speaker 2:

Exactly.

Speaker 1:

Monster.

Speaker 2:

And to me this is equally inappropriate. In my opinion, it's inappropriate.

Speaker 1:

So are they really in love? Or is it about the paycheck? Is it even right to be like that? I don't know. Anyway, I'm putting too much energy on that. I don't want to think about that man. That is crazy to me, I don't know.

Speaker 2:

To be dating someone the same age as her son is crazy, I mean it ain't even like to me.

Speaker 1:

it's just how are you going to handle life?

Speaker 2:

Have a healthy relationship. How, yeah, how.

Speaker 1:

How long do you think that's going to work Right?

Speaker 2:

Right.

Speaker 1:

What were you thinking? Right, and I know that young man don't have the power to think with his like brain on. That son is head right now.

Speaker 2:

I mean, you got to think about their whole picture too. They're really young, that's what I was saying. They're really young. One is in the NFL, one is in the NBA. They have not been playing their professional sports there long, so for them, they living out their dreams. You know what I'm saying. You got to be messing with somebody like Kanye West. X is like that's a big deal.

Speaker 1:

And then you do. You know the what's the other girl name?

Speaker 2:

Jermia.

Speaker 1:

Schell, no, the other one, amber Rose. She was on a show before saying that she'll always be like in love with what's the other rapper she used to date, wiz Khalifa. She said that's a special relationship and I heard Wiz Khalifa say listen, we have a special kind of friendship or relationship, like we call each other up when we going through things. We have a special connection. She's going to always be a part of my life. I mean, granted, they do have kids together, right?

Speaker 2:

right right.

Speaker 1:

But in this particular statement that he was making, he was like that's my dog, Like we going to always have a special love for each other. What yeah. And that little boy, 22 year old, got to deal with that.

Speaker 2:

Oh yeah.

Speaker 1:

And that woman is going to manipulate him with words and make him feel like he's wrong. I'm already creating a story in my mind.

Speaker 2:

You did. You just created a whole scenario. But she definitely going to bust up on him. But he probably feel like he doing big things. They and Wiz Khalifa X, kanye West X like he doing big things.

Speaker 1:

Like I said, he's warped. He's getting grown woman for JJ. Of course in his mind he's going to be doing big things. Of course we going to stay right here. We going to stay right here. Of course he feels like he's doing. I'm a man. I got Amber Rose, I got Drea, I got these big names. They stars already out there. Women too. I got these celebrities. I'm knocking that down, I'm putting pressure to it.

Speaker 2:

Yeah, yeah, they feeling good.

Speaker 1:

Not knowing that they're being. I'm creating a story again, but I'm going to go with my story in my mind, right, not knowing that they are being set up. That's disrespectful, that's nasty. I don't agree with it. I just feel sorry for the young man's future. That's the only thing that I feel sorry for, because I'm thinking about to get to the inner field and to get to the NBA, it takes a massive amount of discipline and focus, hard work, consistency, effort, willpower. Over and over and over and over and over. You've been focused like this your entire life to get here to this monumental moment and make a one decision that can change your life forever. Because one thing for sure, one thing is clear those two women that you named, they going to get that bag.

Speaker 2:

It's no ifs and buts about that.

Speaker 1:

There's no ifs and buts about that. They are going to get that bag, get that bag.

Speaker 2:

They're getting that bag.

Speaker 1:

They got it with the past relationship. They're getting the bag.

Speaker 2:

Yeah, man, yeah, that's a true story. That's a true story. These young men, that's a free check. They don't know. They don't know because they're caught up in the here and the now. I feel like that's about how far their brain can go. I'm living my dream. I'm playing professional sports NFL, NBA. I got these older, established women in the industry rocking with me. Life is good.

Speaker 1:

What kind of long term relationship could that be? Different phases of life, not just a few years, no, no, two decades.

Speaker 2:

Yes, dang near.

Speaker 1:

Oh, my God.

Speaker 2:

Dang near, I mean close enough 40, 22, 39, 22. Dang near, oh my God. Because a decade is already a lot. But, like you said earlier, dependent on what age bracket you're talking about, it's very acceptable. You know what I mean. You're talking about 40, 50. 45, 55. That's acceptable.

Speaker 1:

Yeah, it's like no. If a man or a woman is in there 40s and they're 20 years apart, then to me, in my mind, that's acceptable because, like I said, the brain maturation is there.

Speaker 2:

And they're able to make sound decisions. Sound decisions yes.

Speaker 1:

Yes, but there's no way that these two young men, especially the one that got whoever pregnant. I hope that's not true. I hope that's just a rumor. I don't believe that that's true. He just got that.

Speaker 2:

I mean they made allegations because she showed up to you know practice or a game or something. She had oversized clothes on and she don't really wear oversized clothes like that, she wears like fitted clothes.

Speaker 1:

I hope she not pregnant though. No, now, if he just having fun and he don't, i'ma mind my business. If he just having fun, i'ma mind my big toes gonna mind his business. I'ma just mind my business and let him enjoy his life. You know what I mean, but I'ma just they getting locked in. They getting locked in bro.

Speaker 2:

They gonna need some advice.

Speaker 1:

Bro, hit Big Charles up. I'll coach you through it. I'll coach you through it. Don't let him get you, i'ma just shoot.

Speaker 2:

When you think about conflicts and disagreements and relationships, shoot. 40-year-old people will have a hard time navigating through that. 30-year-old people will have a hard time navigating through that.

Speaker 1:

This is crazy to me.

Speaker 2:

You have a hard time navigating through conflicts and disagreements. They're gonna arise in any relationship. It's gonna happen. It's the inevitable right.

Speaker 1:

It's the inevitable.

Speaker 2:

So what sort of strategies are they gonna have when conflict arises? A 22-year-old does not have the ability to have that level of communication.

Speaker 1:

I mean, you just think about the intellect. Yes, the intelligence.

Speaker 2:

Yes, the emotional intelligence, the tools. It's just because, at 22, you have to live longer and you gotta imagine.

Speaker 1:

Hold on, I'm gonna end this right here. I want the listeners to hit us up in the DMs and I want y'all to give us, y'all, sound opinion. Do you think it's okay for a 22 year old man or woman to be dating a 39, 40 year old man or woman? Drop your opinion. We wanna know.

Speaker 2:

We do.

Speaker 1:

But we honestly wanna know, and if you don't agree with Big Charles, let me know Right, cause I don't agree with it Right. We gonna end this right here. I don't wanna talk, no more. I don't wanna talk, no more. This one just threw me off. I don't even get into the topic.

Speaker 2:

We did not. We did not what we did not.

Speaker 1:

Website coming soon.

Speaker 2:

That's exciting.

Speaker 1:

It should be up in two or three weeks.

Speaker 2:

We definitely got a sneak peek and it is fire.

Speaker 1:

It's fire, it's fire, fire. Y'all Listen, y'all. Go to Big Dog Talk underscore podcast on Instagram. Follow us on Big Dog Talk podcast TikTok Facebook Like, subscribe, share, tell a friend and tell a friend. This is one of those topics that we, oh my God, and I'll let you reel me into this. It is serious though.

Speaker 2:

It's a serious topic. You not even let us get into it.

Speaker 1:

But we gonna stop right here.

Speaker 2:

We gonna let the people speak to us.

Speaker 1:

Yeah, let them speak to us.

Speaker 2:

You know what I'm saying. We will continue your conversation on the BDT page Right, but this is real life.

Speaker 1:

This is crazy.

Speaker 2:

This is real life.

Speaker 1:

Get that bag, get that bag.

Speaker 2:

Don't have that bag, don't have no baby. One decision One move.

Speaker 1:

Oh, she workin' in, she workin' in, she workin' in. They workin' on me. They season that young man is goin' back to the locker room. I'm like man, I'm doin' that. That was a dead.

Speaker 2:

Get us outta here now you are, I'm goin'.

Speaker 1:

Look, look, until next time, Next episode. We love y'all. Man, I don't even know why I let Big Shae even get. I don't do this, but when you bring it.

Speaker 2:

I gotta mix it up sometime, whatever, but I love y'all man.

Speaker 1:

Thank you guys for all of your support and until next time, peace.

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