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And just knowing"},{"speaker":"Cory Montfort","startTime":1520.52,"endTime":1523.79,"body":"that another person has felt"},{"speaker":"Cory Montfort","startTime":1523.79,"endTime":1527.9,"body":"that when you're feeling is"},{"speaker":"Cory Montfort","startTime":1523.79,"endTime":1527.9,"body":"reassuring, and feels like"},{"speaker":"Cory Montfort","startTime":1527.9,"endTime":1528.56,"body":"connection."},{"speaker":"Laurie Poole","startTime":1528.59,"endTime":1531.32,"body":"Yeah, very"},{"speaker":"Laurie Poole","startTime":1528.59,"endTime":1531.32,"body":"comforting. Yeah, absolutely."},{"speaker":"Laurie Poole","startTime":1531.41,"endTime":1535.19,"body":"Oh, this is fun. This was fun."},{"speaker":"Laurie Poole","startTime":1531.41,"endTime":1535.19,"body":"Thank you, Cory. And I will look"},{"speaker":"Laurie Poole","startTime":1535.19,"endTime":1538.1,"body":"forward to having you come back"},{"speaker":"Laurie Poole","startTime":1535.19,"endTime":1538.1,"body":"down the road. Yeah."},{"speaker":"Cory Montfort","startTime":1538.13,"endTime":1540.47,"body":"Well probably see"},{"speaker":"Cory Montfort","startTime":1538.13,"endTime":1540.47,"body":"around the office. Yeah."},{"speaker":"Cory Montfort","startTime":1540.5,"endTime":1549.29,"body":"Tomorrow. No, Monday. Yeah."},{"speaker":"Cory Montfort","startTime":1540.5,"endTime":1549.29,"body":"Okay. All right. Thank you. 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