Episode 13: How to Master Manifestation

The host, Femi the Divine, shares her personal tips and tricks on how to become a master manifestor and create the life you desire. Speak it, Believe it,  Release it! 

Topics Discussed - manifestation, elemental magic, mindset shifting, visualization, spiritual baths, grounding, prayer, meditation, universe, speaking things into existence, love magic, money magic, manifesting money, manifesting love, healing, personal development, etc.

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Transcript

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Welcome to the divine healing podcast. I'm your host, Femi, the divine. And thank you for tuning into today's show. You are a new listener. Thank you for pushing the play button. If you're a returning listener, welcome back. So I'm going to be straight up with y'all. I am having technical difficulties today. This is the third time I'm trying to record this episode. The first time I recorded, the whole thing came back. There was no sound. Second time it cut out in the middle. There's something going on with the microphone in the adapter. So I'm just winging it. I wanted to get this out today. As I explained me, four episodes are going to be live on Mondays. So I want it to hold myself accountable to that promise. Thank you so much for tuning in. Thank you for every two, everyone who has reached out to me with feedback about past episodes. If you reached out to me personally, on social media, where have you. Thank you. Thank you. Thank you. If you have questions or comments, topics you would like to hear about, please feel free to reach out to me. Or if you just want to say, Hey girl, Hey. My contact information is in the show notes. Just as an FYI episode, 15 is going to be a Q and a episode. If you have anything you want to ask me about anything on this show, please feel free to submit your questions again. You can contact me on social media, Instagram, Facebook. If you know me personally, you can message me personally. You can email me. So on and so forth. So before we get into today's topic, just as a reminder, if you are enjoying the show, share it with a friend, like comment, subscribe, follow, whatever it is that you need to do. Based on the platform that you are receiving your podcasts. Keep in mind that if you're listening on iTunes or Spotify or any of those places, reviews, help the show to become more visible so that we receive more listeners who can tune into all of the wonderful things that we're talking about here. And they may find that helpful. Today's topic is going to be manifesting how to manifest. Your best life really? Cause that's what this whole podcast is about. It's about doing the inner healing work and the personal development work to put yourself in a position to be able to manifest your best life. Right. So first let's talk about what exactly does that mean? I know that manifest or manifesting or manifestation is a buzz word. It's a buzz word. Just like self-care and narcissist. We hear these words all of the time and you may be wondering what exactly does that mean? By definition to manifest really just means to make something appear, to make it happen, to make it become evident, to become a reality, basically, to bring something to fruition. A lot of people are familiar with manifestation. If you've read the secret, I personally have not read that book, but I know what people are talking about. Also, I think it's Abraham and Esther Hicks, law of attraction LOA. Those books are pretty popular. I believe I have one of those. But we're hearing it on television. We're reading it online, social media books, et cetera, et cetera. It just seems to be a buzzword right now. So in gathering. Information for this podcast episode, I stumbled across a definition that really resonated with me as far as manifesting from the spiritual perspective. And it's by Gabrielle Bernstein. She has a book called super attractor. I know I have one of her decks. I think it's an affirmation card deck. I think it's called super attractor, but anyway, here's what the definition says. The definition. Manifesting is the creative process of aligning with the energy of the universe to co-create an experience that elevates your spirit and the spirit of the world. So let's pause and digest that for a minute. So what jumps out at me here is creative process. Meaning it's a process that you are. Creating on your own, you were determining the steps you are putting in the work. You're making the decision and it's a process, right? The next part, aligning with the energy. Of the universe. Okay. So you can sub the universe with whomever. It is that you pray to, that you seek guidance and counsel from in your world. Maybe that's God, maybe it's the universe. Maybe it's Allah, maybe it's spirit, whomever. It is that you follow and stuff. But think about aligning. So that means to basically get on track, put yourself in the position. So you're actively doing that. The next part to co-create and experience again, you are working collectively and together with spirit or whomever. It is that you pray to, this is an active process. You all are working to. To create an act to co-create an experience that elevates your spirit and the spirit of the world. So think about elevate. That's what we're doing on this podcast, right? We're bringing ourselves up into a better position. We are raising our vibration. We are coming out of negativity, trauma past hurts, guilt, all of those things that we want to leave behind that we want to work through, that we want to. From we're elevating ourselves and leaving those things behind. I thought that was a great definition. I'm thinking about manifestation like this three parts, speak it, believe it, everything. So let's talk about speaking at first. So we talked about this, I think it was in episode four about the power of words and how to speak things into existence. But before we can even really get to the speak it part, when it comes to manifestation speak, it is going to be you declaring whatever it is that you are trying to accomplish, manifest, bring to fruition up here, whatever. Right. You can't do that if you don't know what it is that you really want. So the first thing is going to be really sit down and think about what it is that you want. What are you trying to achieve? Attract, draw into your life. Few episodes to go at the top of the year, there was an episode where we talked about setting intentions and goals, right? This is some. But I think of goal setting is more, you are setting a goal for something that is tangible. We talked about, maybe I am trying to reach a savings goal. I'm saving a certain amount of money in my savings account, or I'm trying to. Achieve a particular position at work or whatever it is that something tangible. What remember we talked about with intention setting, it may be something more broad. So you're going to set an intention here for something that you are trying to attract or bring into your life, but you also want to be specific. So we don't want to throw out there. Okay. I want to manifest money. Okay. How much money? What kind of money from. You can say, oh, I want to manifest a lot of money and you get a bag full of a thousand paintings. That's not a lot of money when you think about it, but physically pennies are small and there's a whole lot of them in that bag. Ain't it. And another example I want to manifest abundance. Okay. And abundance of what abundance. Just again, literally means a lot. You could manifest an abundance of function. You can manifest the abundance of. I don't know, bananas, like what be specific also thinking about the fact that, okay, I'm going to manifest money. You don't want it to come from a car accident, right? You don't want to go on Walmart, slip and fall on the floor. Now you have a slip and fall case. You got the money, but that wasn't what you were thinking. You say, I want to manifest some extra money and then you drop, scheduled you to work all double shifts next week. Wait a minute. That's not what I was asking for. That's why you want to be specific. So. In the last couple of instances, something that I always added. Especially if I'm asking for money for it to manifest from a sweet place or with no harm to myself or my loved ones. Really, you can add that in there so that, there's no harm to you directly, but just keep in mind that sometimes when we're trying to achieve something, while it may be a gang for you, it could be a loss for somebody else. Say you went on a job interview and you're trying to manifest the position, you're landing the position. If you get the position. Unless you were the only applicant. There is somebody else who didn't get it. Right. So it was a game for you, but it was a loss for them. That's just balanced. So don't think about that as necessarily being a negative thing, but just understand that when you make the request, when you're a manifest exempting, you are literally manipulating the energy around the situation. And don't let people make you feel like that's a bad thing. There are wins and losses in life for all of us. And sometimes a loss can really be your gain in the long run. If you really think about it, because maybe you didn't get that job because it wasn't the right job for you. Just something to think. If you need to set a timeframe on it, maybe it's an urgent request or you want to accomplish something by a certain time, you can set a timeframe on something and also be realistic. Are we willing to do the work that is required? To obtain whatever it is. And are we asking for something that is within reason, understand that within reason may be relative depending on the situation. Am I going to pray and ask the universe to drive a Lamborghini in my driveway? No. Is it possible that could happen? Maybe? I don't believe anything is impossible, but we want to be realistic. Could you go out here and hit the lottery and become a multimillionaire? Yes. But how likely is that? So just be realistic and also understand that a lot of people think that manifesting is like some microwave popcorn, magic thing. Like you wave a magic wand and you say bippity boppity, boo. And you blink your eyes and something magically appears. That's not how it works. There's still work that goes on behind the scenes. There are still things that you need to do. So let's think about it like this. Okay. So now I know what I want to manifest and I'm ready to speak my requests and put it out into the universe. Okay. So will I be using tools to aid me in achieving this request? Maybe. Let's think about that. Something we comment. See our vision boards. You take, and you cut your little pictures out of the magazine and you put them together on your board. This is a, this is something that people do a lot of times. At first of the year, I've been to vision board parties before. You can make an electronic vision board, save it to your computer, desktop, your phone lock, screen, whatever that is a form of visualization. Will you be manifesting using the element? You got earth fire, water air, technically spirit is considered the fifth one. Right? So if you got a manifest using the elements. Okay. Prayer spoken, word affirmations, incense, all of those are air magic. And since it could be both, or if an air, depending on the type of instance that you're using earth magic can be Christian. It can be plants and can be grounding. Maybe you're going outside and, putting your feet in the grass so that you can ground to help clear your head and, bring you back to a good space in order to make the request. Are you working with essential oils? Are you working with herbs? Are you working with conditioning oils for those who are magical practitioners? You know what those are even just in church, they have holy water and anointed oil. The oil came from olives. Okay. What about water magic? Are you doing cleansing baths? Are you taking spiritual or ritual baths to attract things or to remove? Are you using different types of misses and sprays? Those may contain water or alcohol. Are you praying over your bottle of water before you ingested and water can be programmed and it will hold intention. Are you speaking over every bottle of water be for you? These are just some ideas. These are just some ideas. Fire magic, obviously candles, some people practice candle magic. If you are writing something and burning it, sometimes people write declarations or they have journals and things that they burn and they release, whatever was in those pages, out into the air, into the universe. Maybe you have a fire pit and you throw things. And then we talk about spirit as the fifth element. Again, prayer meditation. Are you attending religious services? Are you just talking to spirit out loud again? That's prayer. What other ways are you inviting spirit into your life? Keeping in mind that you're doing all of these things are tools to Adrial along the process. And while me saying a prayer or taking a bath may not necessarily make the car up here. All of these things are putting you in energetic alignment to help you be in a space to receive what it is that you're asking. So if we want to manifest, let's think about the census. So we talked about vision boards, that's a visual thing. Maybe you're sitting and meditating and actually visualizing what it is that you are. Bringing in maybe you are reading books, you're watching YouTube sound, you're listening to music. You're listening to frequencies. You are listening to podcasts. You're listening to YouTube touch, maybe you're journaling, you're writing things down. You're drawing, you're painting. You're outside, in nature. Smell and taste. Again, we talked about maybe adjusting the water, maybe you're drinking tea, praying over the tea. Maybe you're stirring your teeth with the cinnamon stick to bring in money. Maybe you're again, you're working with different. That are in alignment with what it is that you are trying to achieve. Are you taking a ritual bath thing? You're putting roses and rose pedals in the bathtub. That's something common that we do well, you can use that to help attract things into your life. If you speak that intention over the water and over the roses, as you drop them. So I'm just trying to give you guys some ideas of different things that you can do. Something else outside of journaling, you can practice scripting. Scripting is basically the idea that you are writing, whatever it is that you are manifesting as if it has already happened. Maybe. You have some physical manifestations of things? I don't know if I talked about this in a past episode, but I have things on the altars at my house. I'm trying to manifest something in particular. So say you want to go on a trip, maybe put your passport up there. You want to manifest the house? Maybe get a little baby house, put it up there. Maybe put a toy car up there. There were some books that I stumbled upon on Amazon. If you think about the secret, they talk about writing those manifestation checks, where you take a blank check and you write a dollar amount on it. You write the check to yourself, maybe you're folding that up and putting that in your wallet. Maybe it's going on your altar. There was some books that I got that had blink checks. There was like a black card. There were airline tickets. They were passports. Like they were all paying. And these little books and you could cut them out, but you could put that on your vision board, put it on your altar, put it in your wallet, whatever it is that you need it, but they read tangible representations of things that someone yeah. Was working on manifesting and attracting. I will link all of the books and the things that I'm talking about in this episode, in the show notes, if you are interested in seeing or purchasing any of those, I know if you go to the secret website, you can print out some of them blank checks, or even if you have an old. He was one of your own checks, but these are just things that you want to do to help get you into alignment, to be consistent, to let the universe know that you are actively working on your end to bring in whatever it is that you've requested to fruition. Some other things we want to think about as far as the next part, the believing it part. Are we an energetic alignment? Do you believe that what it is that you are requesting? Welcome. Do you actually believe. Do you believe that you are deserving worthy of it? A lot of times, this is where we hymn ourselves up because we want something and we ask for it. But we deep down inside, we don't believe we deserve it, or we don't believe that we're worthy. A lot of times we see this with money. We see it with love. If you come from a lack mindset or you have that sort of perspective on things, or you'll hear people talk about poverty consciousness, think about. What you were taught about money or about love or what you saw when you were growing up? A lot of times we carry those things with us as adults and they shape how we see money, how we see love, how we see the things that maybe we're deserving of what we want to do with our life, different careers, different jobs where we can Liz. A lot of times those things that were instilled into us as children before we understood, and we knew better, they hold us back and they limit. Are there things that you need to release? Do you think money is the root of all evil? Maybe that's something you need to unpack. Did you grow up in a house where money was scarce? And so now you're a hoarder, something to think about. Did you grow up in a household where money was spent like water, something to think about? Do you desperately want to be married, but nobody in your family was married. You never saw a healthy related. Maybe that's something you need to unpack and think about the, why think about. What things and experiences happened in your life to bring you to that sort of mindset? Is it just a matter of not knowing that something existed, not knowing that something was possible, maybe you just need to broaden your horizons because maybe it's just something that wasn't normal in your realm, but these are things that we need to think about. If you need to write them down on a piece of paper and release them and burn them, do what you need to do, but understand that there is some mental and mindset shifting and work that needs to. Into manifesting, because if you don't truly believe that you can achieve or receive whatever it is that you're asking for, you already shot that wish dead in the water. The next thing are your actions in alignment with what it is that you're requesting. You want to be in a relationship, but you don't go out anywhere to meet anybody. You sit in your house. Is Mr. Wright going to come knock on the door? Maybe he the FedEx man But are you putting yourself in positions to meet people? And that could just be going to the grocery store, going to the coffee shop. I go out, I am intentional about going out of my house almost every single day. Even if it's just to go sit at Panera to go to Dunkin donuts, to go to the grocery store, to go to the park. I kid you not. I have met people. I've met men at the red light just by putting yourself out there. You open yourself up to a whole world of opportunities. Same with money. Money is one of those things where everything in life is energy and there has to be balanced. Understand money is something that needs to circulate. So you want to manifest money. You got to make a channel for it to come through, right? If you work a particular drive and your salary and your check is the same thing every two weeks. And that's the only way that you have money to come to. Then you probably won't manifest money through your job unless you get a promotion or maybe a bonus or something like that. If you're in a job where you can pick up extra shifts or overtime, maybe it'll come that way. But just remember the universe is going to take the path of least resistance, especially if you're not being specific. So where's the money going to come from? Are you going to buy a lottery ticket and become a millionaire? It's possible. But we also want to be doing everything in our power, on our end to help the universe enter, create new opportunities for whatever it is that we are seeking. So specifically as it relates to money for me, we want to keep that money circulating. You feel like you're blocked or you're in a space where things aren't moving, give a homeless person some money and see how things shift for you. Buy somebody a gift, treat somebody to a call. I know a lot of my girlfriends. We have businesses and things like that. My business has been on hiatus since before COVID, I'm not sure what I want to do with it, but we support each other's businesses. Sometimes I pick up the check, they pick up the check, somebody may buy around a drinks, you're putting money out into the universe. And if you set the intention, that money is going to come back to you. You got to put it out there first for it to boomerang back around. Does that make sense? So keep in mind that we circulate our money. We don't spend it spend, it means to wear it down. We don't go around saying that we're broke. Maybe we just don't have the funds for that. Right now. Be mindful of the words that you use. Be mindful of the things that you are thinking. Are you trying to save money, but you blow your paycheck in 24 hours. Are you trying to eat healthy, but you eat out fast food every single day. These are things that we want to think about. Are we letting the universe know that we're serious about this request that we have made? Because you're saying that you want to manifest money, but you're staying home doing nothing. You want to manifest a new job, but have you updated your resume? Have you applied for any jobs? Have you gone and filled out an application? If you asked anybody if their job is. Remember, you have to mix the magical or the spiritual with the mundane as well. So the mundane thing is the update, the resume, right? Looking for a job you want to buy a car? Have you gone and looked at any cars? Have you decided what make and model you want? Have you checked your car? You want to buy a house? Do you know how much you qualify for these are all small things and steps that we're taking toward achieving the goal or the manifestation. But these let the universe know that we are working on it. And we are in alignment with what it is that we're requesting, because we're making the steps that we need. We're taking the steps that we need to take on our end to move toward the final outcome. So again, are you in a good space? Are you open to receiving your request? Are you taking good care of yourself? Are you sleeping at night? Are you eating healthy depending upon what it is that you're trying to manifest? These things are important. Are you drinking all the time? Are you howled? Huh? Those things can lower your vibration. One thing specifically about money that gives me. If you are somebody that don't believe in tipping, it's not your culture. You w I'm not talking about you. If you are somebody who you were never taught how to tip, or you don't know you, you don't know what you don't know, not talking about you either. I'm talking about the people who deliberately are stingy, who are cheap tippers. And I've talked about this before. I've moved that as a bartender for many. It's always the people that are rude and nasty that want to run you all over the place and ask for 85 things and run you back and forth to the kitchen and overwork you. That don't want to leave you the 10 or leave you a crappy tip. I understand that this is how people meet their needs. And this is my thing. Usually when I go about active, the recommended percentage may be more if the person did something really stellar, but understand that it's not going to make or break me to leave somebody a few extra dollars, that money is going to come back around to me. But I put out into the universe is going to come back around to me, but to that person on the receiving end of that tip, keep in mind that I have been the person on the receiving end of the tip. All of those extra dollars from each person that you wait or for that person they add up. And that makes their day. So when they, if they've provided great service to. And they, at the end of the night, they go to count their money or they look at their sales and how much they need. That is a direct representation of the quality of service that they have provided. And that is something to be proud of. That is a direct result of the effort and the work that you have put in. So as far as I'm concerned, When I tip well, and I put money out into the universe, or I treat somebody to a coffee or I buy them a gift. And I'm not saying that I do those things with the specific intention for it to be returned to me, understand that as I give out good Juju, good, you will be returned. And that's something that you have to think about. A lot of times you'll find that people who grip their money tight and the death grip in their head, things are blocked up for them. Other people. You can hold onto that money tight, if you want to, but remember where your fist is, balled up, nothing can get out, but nothing can get any either. That's that whole concept of paying it forward. How people pay for the person behind them in the drive through, and all that kind of stuff. I believe, whatever energy I put out into the universe will return back to me and keep in mind that can work both ways positive. Or negatively, you're trying to manifest money. You're overspending. We talked about that. So are you energetically in a good place to receive what it is that you're requesting? Have you raised your vibration to the point to meet your ask so that you can receive it? Are you ready to receive it? So say for instance, you have a business and you want to make. You want to increase your sales, right? Maybe you want to make a hundred thousand dollars gross sales in your business this year. Are you physically ready to fulfill all those orders? Do you have the time, the manpower, the staff in place? That's something you want to think about before you shoot that request out into the air, right? You're asking for a partner, but your closets are busting at the seam of your house. When the man come, where he gonna put his clothes, decluttering is a big one. I bet. If you look around your house and your house is cluttered, things are blocked somewhere in your life. This is something I am guilty of that I have slowly been working on since separating from. It has been, I went through my house and decluttered, literally every room. Is it room by room is a where I want it to be. Is it perfect? No, but I definitely felt the shift because once you start moving that stuff around energy is going to shift. You're getting rid of things that you no longer want. You no longer need. Maybe things that are old and worn down and re. You're organizing things. Clutter can be indicative of your mental state. If the room is cluttered, your thoughts probably are too. You're probably anxious. You're probably stressed. Just think about going in a room that is cluttered, that alone can make you anxious and you may need to get up and leave the room. I encourage those of you who are listening today. Go home and declutter one drawer while shelf in your closet. One case. And see how it makes you feel. I promise you'll feel better, but we need to declutter so that we can make room for the things that are coming in. That is a very big one. That brings me to the third piece, release it. So now that you've figured out what it is that you want, you've done all of the energetic work, the mundane work, all of the things that you have been doing ongoing. Maybe you say your affirmations or you're meditating and you posted your vision board up where you can see it every day. As a reminder, you are staying on track with the things that you need to do to put you in the position to receive your request. Now you have to release it in. Wait, don't be desperate. Don't be worried yourself to death about it. When you order something from Amazon. You go online, you place the order and you just wait for the box to come right now. Don't get me wrong. Sometimes things happen and it's delayed or it don't come, or they deliver it to the neighbor's house by accident. But theoretically, if you order something online, you expect it to come, right? You don't go on there checking every day to see where it is. Every five minutes in my package, come get the package, come through my package, come. Most of us don't so the same thing applies to. You put your requests out into the universe with the expectation that it is going to come, it is going to show up, right? We're getting ready. We're preparing for it to get here. We're making space for it. We're putting, making sure we're in the right mindset to receive it. Also keep in mind that divine timing may be at play. You may or may not have set a timeframe. And then sometimes he just takes longer than we anticipate, because there are other things going on behind the scenes that the university is working out or spirit is working out, or God is working out for you so that this can work out in your favor. Sometimes you just have to be patient. I'll be honest. I suck with. I patients is something that I am working on every single day, but understand that sometimes, it's a matter of divine timing is God's time. His Spirit's time is the universe is time, not ours. And just remember to be consistent and stay the course. If this is something that you really want, keep doing the things that are in alignment. Where it is that you're going be consistent. I know that's a hard one. That was an intention that I set for myself at the beginning of the year to be more consistent in my practices and things just even being consistent with this podcast, so be consistent. So there's your speak it, believe it and release it. Now, some of you are probably sitting here wondering okay what if I asked for something and I wanted to manifest something and it doesn't. That can happen too. First thing, I would say, take a step back and reassess what it is that you requested deep down inside. Was it something that you really wanted? Maybe not. Maybe that's why I didn't manifest maybe that opportunity or thing or whatever it wasn't for you. Was it the best. In hindsight is always 2020. Maybe looking back at it, you may be able to figure that part out. Maybe it happened. It didn't happen for a reason. Remember divine timing and patient. Maybe it just hasn't happened yet. And also was your request. And where are you consistent again? Where you doing the things in alignment with your request, or were you sending the universe mixed signals? Maybe you need to reel that in a little bit. Where are you realistic about the request? Again, we talked about that realistic, maybe relative also, if there's something bigger, it may take longer for it to manifest. So I hope that all made sense to you. This was just a high level. Brief overview of manifesting from my perspective, I hope you find this information helpful and you're able to use it as you travel on your journey to manifesting your best life. Like I said, I had some technical difficulties trying to record this, so I hope this quick and dirty version is helpful before I go. I'm going to leave you all with an affirmation as always. I affirmed. I am a master manifester. Thanks for listening. Bye. Bye