

      <h2 id="reflections-on-lust-and-suspenders"><a class="no-underline" href="#reflections-on-lust-and-suspenders">Reflections on Lust and Suspenders</a></h2>


        <cite>Ray Comfort</cite>
      <time>1:05</time>
      <p>
          So   let   me   share   the   quality   that   quotes   so   people   don&#39;t   miss   it   with   my   interruption .   You   can&#39;t   stop   birds   from   flying   over   your   head ,   but   you   can   stop   them   from   making   a   nest   in   your   hair .  
      </p>

        <cite>Mark Spence</cite>
      <time>1:14</time>
      <p>
          And   what   does   that   mean   Draw   that   out ?  
      </p>

        <cite>Ray Comfort</cite>
      <time>1:17</time>
      <p>
          So   you   get   a   lust   for   thought .   You   just   don&#39;t   own   it .   You   don&#39;t   grab   it   and   chew   it   over   and   let   it   become   part   of   you .   I&#39;ve   dealt   with   lust   in   a   wonderful   way .   Many   years   ago .   I   had   surgery   on   my   eyes   laser   surgery   and   they   give   you   an   option   get   both   eyes   done   and   you   can&#39;t   see   in   the   distance ,   but   you   can   see   up   closely .   Or   get   one   eye   done   and   you   can   see   in   the   distance   and   you   can   read   it .   So   I   got   one   eye   done ,   which   means   when   I   look   at   the   distance   with   my   right   eye   it   goes   blurry .   So   when   I   see   a   lust   woman   I   just   close   an   eye   like   that   and   she   tends   in   an   instant   blur .   But   I   do   get   slapped   a   lot .  
      </p>

        <cite>Emeal Zwayne</cite>
      <time>1:50</time>
      <p>
          Because   you&#39;re   a   wanker .   You&#39;re   a   wanker .  
      </p>

        <cite>Mark Spence</cite>
      <time>1:53</time>
      <p>
          I ,   Ray ,   was   it   you   the   one   that   told   me   that   every   time   you   feel   that   temptation ,   you   pray   for   wisdom ?  
      </p>

        <cite>Ray Comfort</cite>
      <time>1:59</time>
      <p>
          Yeah ,   you   pray   a   negative ,   a   positive ,   I&#39;m   sorry .   Or   I   look   at   the   sky   and   just   say ,   yeah ,   cool ,   that   sky   is   that   God   has   made .   Distract   myself ,   because   once   they&#39;re   out   of   sight ,   they&#39;re   out   of   mind .   Yeah ,   it   really   does   help   to   just   look   away ,   but   it&#39;s   very   hard   for   women   to   understand ,   like   Easey   was   saying ,   the   nuclear   power   thing .   It   really   is   true .   You&#39;re   driving   your   car   and   I   can   see   a   lusty   woman   from   15   miles   away   and   I   just   got   to   be   so   careful .  
      </p>

        <cite>Oscar Navarro</cite>
      <time>2:25</time>
      <p>
          That   was   a   mountain .   Your   eyes   were   blurry .  
      </p>

        <cite>Ray Comfort</cite>
      <time>2:29</time>
      <p>
          So ,   and   even   at   my   age   and   guys ,   it   does   not .   The   fire   does   not   go   out ,   it   gets   worse   as   you   get   older .   I&#39;m   coming   up   74   and   I&#39;m   talking   about ,   I&#39;m   fighting   lust   daily .   It&#39;s   crazy .  
      </p>

        <cite>Emeal Zwayne</cite>
      <time>2:43</time>
      <p>
          I   have   an   idea   let&#39;s   take   here   this   big   rubber   band   thing   and   put   one   over   each   of   our   shoulders   and   then   connect   it   to   our   pants ,   and   this   will   hold   our   pants   up .  
      </p>

        <cite>Ray Comfort</cite>
      <time>2:53</time>
      <p>
          We   do   apologize   to   people   from ,   yeah ,   all   of   our   southern   friends .   Sorry   we   were   going   to   meet .   We   do   love   you .  
      </p>

        <cite>Emeal Zwayne</cite>
      <time>2:59</time>
      <p>
          And   then   let&#39;s   do   something   similar   for   each   one   of   our   little   cute   suckies .  
      </p>

        <cite>Ray Comfort</cite>
      <time>3:06</time>
      <p>
          Okay ,   guys ,   suspenders   and   garters   they   call   braces   in   New   Zealand   and   Australian   and   England   braces .   What   the   suspenders ?  
      </p>

        <cite>Emeal Zwayne</cite>
      <time>3:15</time>
      <p>
          Yeah ,   I&#39;m   not   going   to   lie   Suspenders   are   coming   back   and   I   kind   of   want   a   guy   like   that .   As   I   was   thinking   through   all   this ,   immediately   you   came   to   my   mind .   I&#39;m   like   Oscar   would   totally   wear   suspenders .  
      </p>

        <cite>Oscar Navarro</cite>
      <time>3:24</time>
      <p>
          I   wear   suspenders   under   suits ,   but   I   would   totally   wear   casual   pairs   of   suspenders   Would   you   wear   them   shorts   Like   leader   house .  
      </p>

        <cite>Emeal Zwayne</cite>
      <time>3:33</time>
      <p>
          I   had   to   put   them   on   when   we   did   this   Like   a .  
      </p>

        <cite>Ray Comfort</cite>
      <time>3:35</time>
      <p>
          USPS   guy .   We   did   this   episode   in   Switzerland .   You   guys   had   me   standing   on   the   Matterhorn   on   those   little   shorts .  
      </p>

        <cite>Emeal Zwayne</cite>
      <time>3:42</time>
      <p>
          Quoting   John   316 .   The   only   thing   that   was   missing   were   like   clogs .   I   would   have   never   seen   you   in   clogs .   Who   invented   clogs ?   They   would   have   made   you   taller   too .   I   know ,   really ,   did   they   seriously   walk   around   in   these   wooden ?  
      </p>

        <cite>Oscar Navarro</cite>
      <time>3:53</time>
      <p>
          shoes   no ,   knock   it   till   you   try   it .   Knock   it ,   Tell   you   try   it .  
      </p>

        <cite>Ray Comfort</cite>
      <time>3:59</time>
      <p>
          I   wonder   if   they   had   racing   in   clogs   100   meters   Clogs ?  
      </p>

        <cite>Emeal Zwayne</cite>
      <time>4:03</time>
      <p>
          Oh ,   it   surprised   me .   But   seriously ,   who   came   up   with   who ,   who ,   who ,   who ,   who ,   who ,   who ?  
      </p>

        <cite>Mark Spence</cite>
      <time>4:08</time>
      <p>
          Who ,   who ,   who ,   who ,   who   who .  
      </p>

        <cite>Ray Comfort</cite>
      <time>4:11</time>
      <p>
          Who ,   who ,   who ,   who ,   who ,   who .  
      </p>

      <h2 id="historical-fashion-and-cultural-practices"><a class="no-underline" href="#historical-fashion-and-cultural-practices">Historical Fashion and Cultural Practices</a></h2>


        <cite>Ray Comfort</cite>
      <time>4:26</time>
      <p>
          Bigwarop   shot ,   meagan ,   did   you   see   all ?  
      </p>

        <cite>Emeal Zwayne</cite>
      <time>4:27</time>
      <p>
          this   stuff   happen .   Bigwarop   shot   those   little   girls   wearing   big   pants ?   Oh   yeah ,   they   sounded   alright .   Do   you   see   any ?   pom   franks .   No ,   they   didn&#39;t .   Bigwarop   shot ,   so   I&#39;m   sure   one   of   your   alumni   members   said ,   though   you   didn&#39;t .   Did   you   see   this   episode ?   Idos   loudly ,   loosen   me   up   Asked   us   to   police .   The   conversation   about   how   to   get   a   badge   was   interesting .   The   this   situation   is   so   compelling .   It&#39;s   such   a   weird   story .   The   this   is   slower   running   my   resume ,   sprinkle   me   you .   This   is   a   deep   brief   scene   when   they   were   like   they   didn&#39;t   have   enough   food ,   and   suddenly   all   we   have   is   an   old   manny   bread   Maggots ,   anyway   who   came   out   with   suspenders ,   and   why ,   I   don&#39;t   know ,   but   I   like   them .   They&#39;re   stupid ,   oscar   no   way .   These   rubber   bands   around   your   shoulders   holding   up   your   pants ?   Who   thought   of   those ?   Okay ,   but   Ray ,   you&#39;re   from   that   era .   Help   me   understand   sock   garters   please .  
      </p>

        <cite>Oscar Navarro</cite>
      <time>5:09</time>
      <p>
          Okay ,   that&#39;s   different .   Okay ,   actually   I&#39;d   wear   them ,   what&#39;s ?  
      </p>

        <cite>Emeal Zwayne</cite>
      <time>5:12</time>
      <p>
          that   Ray   who   grew   up .   Ray&#39;s   gone   on .   The   who   grew   up .  
      </p>

        <cite>Oscar Navarro</cite>
      <time>5:20</time>
      <p>
          That&#39;s   disgusting ,   oh ,   that&#39;s   real .  
      </p>

        <cite>Ray Comfort</cite>
      <time>5:23</time>
      <p>
          Ray ,   please   don&#39;t   ever   show   us   a   picture   of   somebody   eating   a   maggot ,   so   that   your   socks   don&#39;t   come   down   when   you&#39;re   sitting   up   on   a   stage   and   people   see   your   bare   leg ,   which   looks   horrible .   So   what   era ?  
      </p>

        <cite>Emeal Zwayne</cite>
      <time>5:32</time>
      <p>
          I   mean   we   living   in   the   1200s ?   Well ,   we   still .   We   don&#39;t   socks   have   elastic   around   them .  
      </p>

        <cite>Ray Comfort</cite>
      <time>5:38</time>
      <p>
          Everything   goes   around   in   circles .   Suddenly   they&#39;ll   become   in   and   everyone   will   want   them .  
      </p>

        <cite>Emeal Zwayne</cite>
      <time>5:42</time>
      <p>
          They&#39;re   so   stupid .   I   looked   them   up   yesterday   and   the   most   uncomfortable   things   things   are   wrapped   around   your   ankle .  
      </p>

        <cite>Ray Comfort</cite>
      <time>5:49</time>
      <p>
          I&#39;ve   never   worn   them ,   but   I   think   it&#39;s   more   English   Jolly   Good   Shell   Chad .  
      </p>

        <cite>Emeal Zwayne</cite>
      <time>5:52</time>
      <p>
          Truly   good .   How   about   girdles ,   Ray ?   Would   you   ever   wear   a   girdle ?   What&#39;s   a   girdle ?  
      </p>

        <cite>Ray Comfort</cite>
      <time>5:57</time>
      <p>
          There&#39;s   men   girdles .  
      </p>

        <cite>Emeal Zwayne</cite>
      <time>5:59</time>
      <p>
          A   myrtle ,   it&#39;s   a   myrtle ,   you&#39;ve   got   a   great   physique   when   you&#39;ve   got   a   you   know   a   T-shirt   on ,   did   I   make   them   for   men .  
      </p>

        <cite>Ray Comfort</cite>
      <time>6:04</time>
      <p>
          Yes ,   at   least   say   what   a   girdle   is .   It   sounds   like   you&#39;re   gargling   or   something ,   but   it&#39;s   a   thing   that   pulls   all   the   fat   and   ran   your   waist   Really   tight ,   so   it   looks   like   you   have   a   great   physique ,   a   myrtle .  
      </p>

        <cite>Emeal Zwayne</cite>
      <time>6:14</time>
      <p>
          How   vain   are   we   as   people .   Seriously ,   you   know   it&#39;s   funny   when   Rachel   and   I   were   newly   married .   I   have   no   idea   why ,   don&#39;t   ask   me   why ,   but   I   just   came   up   with   this   random   song   one   day   that   I   sang   to   her .   Here   we   go .  
      </p>

        <cite>Mark Spence</cite>
      <time>6:25</time>
      <p>
          No ,   no ,   it&#39;s   okay ,   no ,   please ,   please ,   One   day   you&#39;ll   wear   a   girdle   baby .  
      </p>

        <cite>Oscar Navarro</cite>
      <time>6:34</time>
      <p>
          She   probably   loved   it .   I   am   so   impressed   with .  
      </p>

        <cite>Ray Comfort</cite>
      <time>6:39</time>
      <p>
          Rachel .   Yeah ,   Rachel ,   let&#39;s   put   together   and   send   her   a   great   big   gold   watch   or   something .  
      </p>

        <cite>Emeal Zwayne</cite>
      <time>6:43</time>
      <p>
          I&#39;m   just   saying   Easy ,   rachel&#39;s   amazing .   Well ,   she   grew   up   with   Ray .   Copper   Is   her   dad ,   that&#39;s   fair .   What   does   that   mean ?   Well ,   that   means   that   you   conditioned   her .   For   a   lunatic   like   me .  
      </p>

        <cite>Ray Comfort</cite>
      <time>6:53</time>
      <p>
          Yeah ,   I   guess   you&#39;re   right .  
      </p>

        <cite>Mark Spence</cite>
      <time>6:54</time>
      <p>
          Yeah ,   I&#39;m   always   surprised   I   guess   I   shouldn&#39;t   be   how   clean   your   house   is .   I   mean ,   rachel   keeps   the   house   extremely   clean   and   what   I&#39;ll   do   is   I&#39;ll   go   over   to   the   top   of   the   refrigerator   in   the   very ,   very   back ,   where   she   can&#39;t   reach ,   and   I&#39;ll   drag   my   finger   across   the   top   and   I&#39;ll   let   the   dust   go   inside   the   air   and   I   go .   Rachel ,   this   is   unacceptable ,   yeah   now   Ease   is   going   to   go   home .  
      </p>

        <cite>Ray Comfort</cite>
      <time>7:15</time>
      <p>
          She&#39;s   not   going   to   talk   after   that   much   Ease   is   going   to   go   home   and   wipe   the   fingerprints   off   the   top   of   that   refrigerator   Exactly   Mark&#39;s   filthy   fingerprints .  
      </p>

        <cite>Emeal Zwayne</cite>
      <time>7:24</time>
      <p>
          But   here   guys ,   look   of   all   the   crazy   things   that   have   been   invented   over   time ,   right   Garders   and   girdles   and   corsets .   That   the   one   thing   I   cannot   understand   Breath   mints   we   got   it ,   we   know .   Helitosis .   Bustles   Explain   what .   Wait   what&#39;s   a   bustle ?   I   knew   you   too   wouldn&#39;t   know .  
      </p>

        <cite>Ray Comfort</cite>
      <time>7:48</time>
      <p>
          A   bustle   is   when   you   want   to   carry   a   tray   of .  
      </p>

        <cite>Emeal Zwayne</cite>
      <time>7:53</time>
      <p>
          How   do   I   say   this ?  
      </p>

        <cite>Ray Comfort</cite>
      <time>7:54</time>
      <p>
          A   tray   of   keef   around   the   back .   It&#39;s   a   woman .   They   accentuated   their   rear   end   so   it   stuck   out   back .   Yeah ,   you   guys   don&#39;t   remember   they   look   like   a   chicken ,   it&#39;s   like   a   chicken   I&#39;ve   seen   a   lot   of   ladies   today   wear   bustles .   They&#39;re   natural .  
      </p>

        <cite>Emeal Zwayne</cite>
      <time>8:07</time>
      <p>
          No ,   natural   bustles   no .   But   seriously ,   what   was   behind   bustles ?   Sorry ,   I   did   not   try   to   google   it .  
      </p>

        <cite>Mark Spence</cite>
      <time>8:12</time>
      <p>
          Was   that   a   joke ?  
      </p>

        <cite>Emeal Zwayne</cite>
      <time>8:13</time>
      <p>
          No ,   it&#39;s   fine ,   that&#39;s   Victorian   looking .  
      </p>

        <cite>Ray Comfort</cite>
      <time>8:15</time>
      <p>
          What&#39;s   behind   bustles ?   The   bustle   is   behind ,   but   it   is   the   stupidest   thing   I&#39;ve   ever   seen .   Seriously ,   it&#39;s   like   Fashion .   That&#39;s   all   it   was .   But ,   ray ,   it&#39;s   Memoring   white   wigs ,   and   that   was   the   Ray ,   it   is   100%   illogical .  
      </p>

        <cite>Emeal Zwayne</cite>
      <time>8:33</time>
      <p>
          Oh   yeah ,   I&#39;d   wear   that .   You   would   Oscar .   You   totally   would .  
      </p>

        <cite>Ray Comfort</cite>
      <time>8:39</time>
      <p>
          Scott   Oscar   just   saw   a   picture   of   the   bustle   With   your   waiter   pants   that   go   up   to   your   calves ?  
      </p>

        <cite>Emeal Zwayne</cite>
      <time>8:44</time>
      <p>
          Yeah ,   anyhow .   And   those   things   they   would   do   back   then .   The   Japanese   would   bind   feet .  
      </p>

        <cite>Ray Comfort</cite>
      <time>8:49</time>
      <p>
          Oh ,   I   think   they   just   stopped   doing   that .   That&#39;s   illegal .  
      </p>

        <cite>Emeal Zwayne</cite>
      <time>8:51</time>
      <p>
          I   think   over   the   near   what   in   the   world   From   the   time   their   little   kids   put   their   feet   in   these   tight   shoes   and   they   had ,   so   it&#39;s   a   bind   them   up .   But   why   do   they   do   that ?   What .  
      </p>

        <cite>Ray Comfort</cite>
      <time>9:03</time>
      <p>
          No ,   no .   So   whatever   is   bound   on   Earth .  
      </p>

        <cite>Emeal Zwayne</cite>
      <time>9:06</time>
      <p>
          Ray   was   about   to   make   something   up .  
      </p>

        <cite>Oscar Navarro</cite>
      <time>9:07</time>
      <p>
          I   want   to   know   what   they&#39;re   going   to   say   about   us   in   100   years ?   I   don&#39;t   know .  
      </p>

        <cite>Ray Comfort</cite>
      <time>9:11</time>
      <p>
          They   used   to   have   these   stupid   podcasts .  
      </p>

        <cite>Emeal Zwayne</cite>
      <time>9:13</time>
      <p>
          They   begin   with   welcome   to   Living   Waters   podcast .  
      </p>

        <cite>Ray Comfort</cite>
      <time>9:16</time>
      <p>
          Was   that   your   easy ?   That&#39;s   the   best   I   can   do   In   100   years ,   with   the   exception   of   Ray .  
      </p>

        <cite>Emeal Zwayne</cite>
      <time>9:22</time>
      <p>
          They&#39;re   going   to   say   about   the   three   of   us ,   who ?   That&#39;s   true ,   that&#39;s   right ,   and   then   you   know ,   and   then   oh ,   but   the   Africans   with   the   rings   on   the   neck .  
      </p>

        <cite>Ray Comfort</cite>
      <time>9:31</time>
      <p>
          It&#39;s   to   extend   the   neck   and   it&#39;s   fashionable .   Okay ,   but   tell   me   the   plate   on   the   front   of   the   lift .   That&#39;s   so   you   can   eat .  
      </p>

        <cite>Mark Spence</cite>
      <time>9:37</time>
      <p>
          So ,   you   don&#39;t   have   to   hold   your   plate .   That&#39;s   it .  
      </p>

        <cite>Ray Comfort</cite>
      <time>9:40</time>
      <p>
          The   mother   goes   around   with   a   big   spoon   and   just   drops   it   in   the   kid&#39;s   plate .  
      </p>

        <cite>Emeal Zwayne</cite>
      <time>9:44</time>
      <p>
          That   has   to   be   the   most   perplexing   thing   I&#39;ve   ever   seen .   It&#39;s   the   plate ,   and   they   keep   enlarging .   I&#39;m   talking   like   literally   the   size   of   a   small   plate .  
      </p>

        <cite>Ray Comfort</cite>
      <time>9:51</time>
      <p>
          So   why   don&#39;t   we   start   that   in   universities ?   It   would   take   on .  
      </p>

        <cite>Emeal Zwayne</cite>
      <time>9:54</time>
      <p>
          It   would ,   but   they&#39;ve   done   everything   else .   Yeah ,   and   obviously   that   probably   comes   from   some   of   those   cultures ,   the   plugs   and   the   ears   that   keep   expanding ,   expanding   plugs .  
      </p>

      <h2 id="destructiveness-of-adultery"><a class="no-underline" href="#destructiveness-of-adultery">Destructiveness of Adultery</a></h2>


        <cite>Ray Comfort</cite>
      <time>10:03</time>
      <p>
          I&#39;ve   seen   guys   with   big   holes   in   their   ears .  
      </p>

        <cite>Oscar Navarro</cite>
      <time>10:05</time>
      <p>
          Yeah ,   I   have   two   holes   in   my   ears .  
      </p>

        <cite>Ray Comfort</cite>
      <time>10:07</time>
      <p>
          And   actually ,   when   you   want   to   witness   to   someone   the   holes   in   their   ears ,   just   put   your   finger   out   into   the   hole   and   pull   it   down ,   all   right ,   here&#39;s   a   comment   from   TNBS   Kaneese   K   Nizzle ,   10   bisknees   whatever .  
      </p>

        <cite>Emeal Zwayne</cite>
      <time>10:22</time>
      <p>
          I   have   no   idea   what   that   name   is .   A   joy   to   listen   to   in   every   sense .   These   men   make   me   laugh   and   make   me   think   they&#39;re   so   enjoyable   to   be   with .   I   feel   like   I   know   them .   I   especially   appreciate   and   need   the   constant   keeping   on   the   track   of   where   my   joy   comes   from .   I   especially   appreciate   and   need   I   just   read   that   salvation   man   what   is   wrong   with   me   today   and   how   to   live   to   honor   God   in   light   of   all   Christ   has   done   for   me .   If   only   every   Christ   follower   has   a   group   like   yours   to   hold   each   other   accountable ,   and   a   man   like   Ray   Comfort ,   who   follows   Christ   so   closely   that   he&#39;s   a   modern   day   Paul .   His   ways   of   explaining   the   things   of   God   have   helped   me   clarify   so   many   aspects   that   confused   me   and   kept   me   from   important   truths   that   lead   me   to   share   the   gospel .  
      </p>

        <cite>Mark Spence</cite>
      <time>11:08</time>
      <p>
          All   right .   What&#39;s   funny   about   that ?  
      </p>

        <cite>Emeal Zwayne</cite>
      <time>11:10</time>
      <p>
          Ray   just   showed   a   picture   of   that   plate   how   in   the   world .   Do   you   live   like   that ?  
      </p>

        <cite>Ray Comfort</cite>
      <time>11:16</time>
      <p>
          I   don&#39;t   know .   It   took   me   20   minutes   to   kiss   my   wife   goodbye .  
      </p>

        <cite>Emeal Zwayne</cite>
      <time>11:20</time>
      <p>
          That&#39;s   crazy .   Anyway ,   sorry ,   friend ,   for   the   distraction ,   tnbs   and   ease   You&#39;ve   blessed   us   today .   Thank   you   for   that   encouragement   and   pray   for   us   and   Ray   Comfort   especially .   Ray ,   why   are   you   looking   at   stuff ?   Because   there&#39;s   even   bigger   plates .   You   should   look   up   the   biggest   one .  
      </p>

        <cite>Ray Comfort</cite>
      <time>11:40</time>
      <p>
          Well ,   this   takes   the   cake .   What ?   Look   at   that   one   Looks   like   a   big   pizza .   Whoops ,   oh ,   it   was   the   ultimate .  
      </p>

        <cite>Emeal Zwayne</cite>
      <time>11:50</time>
      <p>
          That&#39;s   insanity .  
      </p>

        <cite>Ray Comfort</cite>
      <time>11:54</time>
      <p>
          It   looks   like   a   pizza .   What   happens   when   they   take   it   out   though ?   Medium   sized ?  
      </p>

        <cite>Emeal Zwayne</cite>
      <time>11:57</time>
      <p>
          pizza   their   bottom   lip   would   be   in   the   ground .  
      </p>

        <cite>Ray Comfort</cite>
      <time>11:59</time>
      <p>
          How   do   you   eat ?   Well ,   you   just   tie   the   knot   and   carry   on .  
      </p>

        <cite>Emeal Zwayne</cite>
      <time>12:01</time>
      <p>
          Yeah ,   how   do   you   eat ?   All   right ,   friends ,   this   podcast   is   brought   to   you   by   the   Basic   Training   Course .   Thousands   upon   thousands   have   gone   out   around   the   world .   This   is   that   eight   lesson ,   four   DVDs   set ,   but   you   can   also   get   it   in   MP4   digital   format ,   and   it   comes   with   a   study   guide ,   300   gospel   tracts   and   all   kinds   of   good   stuff   to   teach   you   how   to   share   the   gospel   with   others .   We&#39;re   going   to   make   a   new   one   one   day .   Yes ,   we   are   One   day .   One   day .   Don&#39;t   forget   the   Living   Waters   mug   so   that   you   can   think   while   you   drink   and   wink ,   but   don&#39;t   blink   and   don&#39;t   forget   the   evidence .   Study   Bible ,   oh   cheap   All   at   Living   Waters   Dot   com .   Sorry ,   where ?  
      </p>

        <cite>Oscar Navarro</cite>
      <time>12:48</time>
      <p>
          were   you   in ?  
      </p>

        <cite>Emeal Zwayne</cite>
      <time>12:48</time>
      <p>
          your   head ,   oscar ,   I   fell   asleep .   All   right ,   friends ,   today   we   are   talking   actually   about   a   serious   subject .   We&#39;re   continuing   our   trek   through   the   commandments   we   have   not   yet   covered   thus   far   in   the   Living   Waters   podcast ,   and   today   we&#39;re   talking   about   adultery ,   exploring   the   destructiveness   of   adultery .   Boy   Mark ,   you   keep   a   list   and   I   do   one   as   well   of   especially   Christian   leaders   that   have   destroyed   their   lives   through   adultery .   The   destruction   is   incalculable .   You   guys   really   keep   a   list .   Yeah ,   is   it   getting   big ?   You   got   it   written   down   somewhere .   Yeah ,   I&#39;ve   got   mine ,   and   I&#39;ve   got   mine   as   a   mental   list ,   I   think ,   mark   actually .  
      </p>

        <cite>Mark Spence</cite>
      <time>13:32</time>
      <p>
          I   have   one   right   now ,   have   a   physical   list   of   you   know   we&#39;ve   had   the   opportunity   to   interact   with   a   couple   of   these   people   before   they   were   found   out   and   the   thing   that   kind   of   surprises   me   is   how   natural   and   normal   they   acted   in   front   of   us   before   they   were   even   found   out .   And   that&#39;s   a   scary   thing   to   hide   from   fornicating   and   committing   adultery .   I   shudder ,   you   know   I ,   before   I ,   I   was   working   at   a   restaurant   before   I ,   right   when   I   became   a   Christian ,   I   guess   right   after   Bible   College ,   and   I   would   read   Proverbs   five ,   six   and   seven   every   day   before   I   went   into   work .   Every   single   day .   Today   I   read   Proverbs   chapter   seven   to   six   and   seven .   Today   it   just   scares   me   to   fall   into   it .  
      </p>

        <cite>Ray Comfort</cite>
      <time>14:19</time>
      <p>
          So   that&#39;s   just   a   young   man   and   just   gives   straight   advice   to   young   man   about   the   harsh   woman ,   loose   women ,   right   yeah .  
      </p>

        <cite>Emeal Zwayne</cite>
      <time>14:26</time>
      <p>
          Yeah ,   mark ,   it&#39;s   so   good   to   be   in   that   place   as   men ,   to   recognize   that   we   are   capable .   I   think   honestly   I&#39;ve   said   it   before   those   who   end   up   falling .   I   believe   in   the   sexual   sin   are   those   that   in   part   I   mean   they&#39;re   different   reasons ,   but   those   in   part   who   deceive   themselves   into   thinking   now ,   that   can   never   happen   to   me .  
      </p>

        <cite>Ray Comfort</cite>
      <time>14:48</time>
      <p>
          You   gotta   see   yourself   as   a   stick   of   dynamite   and   you   don&#39;t   need   to   be   lit ,   yeah .  
      </p>

        <cite>Mark Spence</cite>
      <time>14:52</time>
      <p>
          Yeah ,   in   fact ,   that&#39;s   what   Scripture   says   there   in   Proverbs .   It   says   all   that   fell   her   way   were   strong   men .   Wow ,   Well ,   yeah .  
      </p>

        <cite>Emeal Zwayne</cite>
      <time>14:59</time>
      <p>
          Yeah ,   and   it   continues   on .   You   know ,   back   in   the   day   it   was   going   on   with   top   political   leaders ,   presidents ,   obviously   all   over   the   place ,   but   what   I   mean   by   that   is   but   it   was   hidden .   Hmm .   You   know   it   was   almost .   I   mean ,   back   in   certain   generations   it   was   almost   a   given   like   oh ,   that&#39;s   just ,   you   know ,   that&#39;s   how   it   is ,   and .   But   with   our   modern   technology   today ,   I   mean   even   like   I   won&#39;t   get   graphic ,   but   when   we&#39;re   their   DNA   evidences   that   people   have   committed   adultery ,   I   mean   we   all   remember   the   whole   thing   with   Bill   Clinton .  
      </p>

        <cite>Ray Comfort</cite>
      <time>15:35</time>
      <p>
          The   blue   skirt .  
      </p>

        <cite>Emeal Zwayne</cite>
      <time>15:36</time>
      <p>
          Yeah ,   and   we   had   looked   up   that   video   the   other   day   because   it   came   up   about   how   he   got   technical ,   remember .   You   know   they   said   you   said   there   is   no   sexual   this   and   that   is   that   true   and   he   goes .   Well ,   it   depends   on   what   the   meaning   of   is   Is .  
      </p>

        <cite>Mark Spence</cite>
      <time>15:52</time>
      <p>
          Oh ,   for   that   question .   Is   that   true ?  
      </p>

        <cite>Emeal Zwayne</cite>
      <time>15:54</time>
      <p>
          Yeah   Well ,   because   he   said   there ,   because   Clinton   had   said   there   is   no   physical   intimacy .   And   then   they   said   was   that   statement   true ?   And   he   said   it   depends   on   what   the   meaning   of   is .   Is   yeah   Right ,   like   meaning ?   Like   back   when   I   said   it   it   wasn&#39;t   happening .   I   mean ,   these   guys   craft   things   and   you   know .   But ,   ray ,   the   Proverbs   talk   about   a   man   who   gets   caught   in   adultery   becoming   like   a   crust   of   bread .   Elaborate   on   that .  
      </p>

        <cite>Ray Comfort</cite>
      <time>16:20</time>
      <p>
          Oh ,   that   brings   back   a   terrible   memory ,   really .  
      </p>

        <cite>Emeal Zwayne</cite>
      <time>16:23</time>
      <p>
          Share   it .  
      </p>

        <cite>Ray Comfort</cite>
      <time>16:24</time>
      <p>
          Yeah ,   it&#39;s   very   intimate   Really .   Yeah ,   I   was   teaching   a   group   of   men   and   I   just   said   and   I   had   a   small   loaf   of   bread   on   the   pulpit ,   and   I   just   said   it   was   a   notch   brie   farm .   You   know ,   indoors   in   the ,   in   the   one   of   the   rooms ,   and   I   said   a   man ,   what&#39;s   the   scripture ?   Again ,   it&#39;s   bought   to   a   piece   of   bread   by   a   loose   woman   or   something   like   that .   Yeah ,   I   said .   What   does   that   mean ?   It   means   if   she   just   wants   to   pick   him   up   and   eat   him   and   spit   him   out ,   that&#39;s   what   happens .   And   I   picked   up   the   crust   of   bread   while   I   was   talking ,   took   a   bite   of   it   and   then   we   had   to   keep   speaking   and   I   couldn&#39;t ,   are   you ?   serious ,   I&#39;m   serious ,   it   took   like   eternity   for   the ,   because   my   mouth   went   dry   with   nervousness .   It   got   soaked   up   by   the   bread .   Everything   was   going   oh   no   so ,   but   it   really   is .   That&#39;s   what   happens .   So   the   thing   that   I   brought   out   is   a   piece   of   bread ,   has   got   no   resistance .   You   look   at   a   piece   of   bread .   I&#39;m   going   to   eat   you   right   now ,   chew   you   up ,   and   that&#39;s   what   a   man   is   like   to   a   harsh   woman   Going   to   eat   you   up .   Buddy ,   and   beware   of   the   flattery   of   a   woman   like   that .   And   you   hear   a   woman   go   up   to   me   and   I   you&#39;re   a   nice   looking   guy   and   he   just   melts .  
      </p>

        <cite>Mark Spence</cite>
      <time>17:33</time>
      <p>
          You   know   it&#39;s   demonic   if   they   say   it   to   you .  
      </p>

        <cite>Emeal Zwayne</cite>
      <time>17:36</time>
      <p>
          Listen   Proverbs   22 ,   14 .  
      </p>

        <cite>Mark Spence</cite>
      <time>17:39</time>
      <p>
          The   interesting   scripture ,   Proverbs   22 ,   14 ,   is   the   mouth   of   an   adulterous   woman   as   a   deep   pit .   Here&#39;s   the   catcher .   Here   A   man   who   is   under   the   Lord&#39;s   wrath   falls   into   it .   Wow .  
      </p>

        <cite>Emeal Zwayne</cite>
      <time>17:50</time>
      <p>
          Yeah ,   that&#39;s   heavy ,   it&#39;s   sobering .   And ,   friends ,   we   trace   this   all   the   way   back   again   to   God&#39;s   commandments ,   exodus   2014, .   You   shall   not   commit   adultery .   God   is   not   an   adulter .   God   is   faithful .   There&#39;s   no   wiggle   room .  
      </p>

        <cite>Ray Comfort</cite>
      <time>18:06</time>
      <p>
          There   is   there   no ,   just   four   words .   You   shall   yes   Five .  
      </p>

        <cite>Oscar Navarro</cite>
      <time>18:11</time>
      <p>
          And   it&#39;s   great   that   you   bring   that   up .   It&#39;s   a   forward   command .   There&#39;s   no   wiggle   room   and   unfortunately   I   mean   so   many   people ,   including   Christians ,   seemingly   tend   to   want   to   compromise   and   move   the   line   a   little   bit .   A   recent   survey   was   done ,   and   listen   to   these   results .   Here&#39;s   the   question   they   asked ,   and   this   was   only   asked   of   self-proclaimed   evangelicals   how   often ,   if   ever ,   would   you   say   the   following   activities   would   be   cheating   on   a   spouse   or   partner ?   What   would   you   say   to   these ?   Watching   pornography   without   your   partner   31% .   Going   to   a   strip   club   without   your   partner   37% .   Ps   without   your   partner .   Why   does   that ?  
      </p>

        <cite>Emeal Zwayne</cite>
      <time>18:50</time>
      <p>
          matter   Right ?   Hey ,   honey ,   you   want   to   go   to   the   strip   club   tonight ?   I   don&#39;t   understand .  
      </p>

        <cite>Oscar Navarro</cite>
      <time>18:55</time>
      <p>
          That&#39;s   a   whole   other   conversation .  
      </p>

      <h2 id="exploring-sexual-temptation-and-infidelity"><a class="no-underline" href="#exploring-sexual-temptation-and-infidelity">Exploring Sexual Temptation and Infidelity</a></h2>


        <cite>Oscar Navarro</cite>
      <time>18:56</time>
      <p>
          Going   out   to   dinner   with   someone   that   you&#39;re   attracted   to   53% ,   only   53% .   Sending   a   flirtatious   message   to   someone   besides   your   partner ,   58%   being   emotional   Are   these   people   that   say   it&#39;s   wrong .   The   percentage   the   percentage   58% .   Say   that   would   be   wrong .   Being   emotionally   involved   with   someone   besides   your   partner   67% .   How   about   100% ?   Actively   maintaining   an   online   dating   profile   while   married ?   68% .   Sending   sexually   explicit   messages   to   someone   other   than   your   partner   75% .   How   is   that   not   100% ?   Romantically   kissing   someone   other   than   your   partner ?   78% .   Having   a   one   night   stand   with   someone   other   than   your   partner   77% .   Having   a   regular   sexual   relations   with   someone   other   than   your   partner   82% .   The   last   one   is   would   you   be   more   likely   or   less   likely   to   support   a   presidential   candidate   who   has ,   in   the   past ,   committed   extramarital   affairs ?   Only   43% .   So   we   are   moving   this   line .   This   line   is   being   moved   that   we   just   don&#39;t   care .  
      </p>

        <cite>Emeal Zwayne</cite>
      <time>20:02</time>
      <p>
          Well ,   and   look   at   what&#39;s   happening   in   culture   with   polyamory .  
      </p>

        <cite>Ray Comfort</cite>
      <time>20:07</time>
      <p>
          Who&#39;s   she   who ?  
      </p>

        <cite>Emeal Zwayne</cite>
      <time>20:10</time>
      <p>
          The   whole   thing   of   polyamory .   Do   you   know   what   polyamory   is ?  
      </p>

        <cite>Ray Comfort</cite>
      <time>20:13</time>
      <p>
          It&#39;s   multiple   sexual   partners   with   the   consent   of   your   spouse .  
      </p>

        <cite>Emeal Zwayne</cite>
      <time>20:17</time>
      <p>
          Yeah ,   it&#39;s   all   of   them   living   together .   Sometimes   You&#39;ll   have   three   men   and   two   women ,   or   a   man   and   three   women ,   or   two .   It&#39;s   just   as   crazy .  
      </p>

        <cite>Ray Comfort</cite>
      <time>20:24</time>
      <p>
          There&#39;s   nothing   new   under   the   sun ,   though ,   is   there   this ?  
      </p>

        <cite>Emeal Zwayne</cite>
      <time>20:26</time>
      <p>
          is   true .   And   yet ,   you   see ,   with   even   people   like   Will   Smith ,   right ,   they   talk   about   he   and   his   wife   having   an   open   relationship .   That&#39;s   become   a   common   term   now ,   an   open   relationship ,   which   means   we&#39;re   still   married ,   we   still   love   each   other ,   but   we&#39;re   going   to   do   that .   I   mean ,   there   was   a   guy   that   used   to   be   a   pastor   that   Mark   and   I   know ,   and   he   was   doing   this   podcast   or   something   he   talked   about .   He   and   his   wife   were   committed   to   each   other ,   but   if   they   end   up   being   really   attracted   to   someone   once   in   a   while ,   they&#39;ll   give   each   other   a   hall   pass .   He   called   it .  
      </p>

        <cite>Mark Spence</cite>
      <time>20:58</time>
      <p>
          What   is   that   he   was   a   senior   pastor .  
      </p>

        <cite>Emeal Zwayne</cite>
      <time>21:01</time>
      <p>
          Absolutely   heartbreaking   and   tragic ,   yeah ,   so   Like   a   hell   pass .   But   that&#39;s   what&#39;s   happening   in   our   culture   and   in   our   society .   It&#39;s   becoming   this   thing   where   marriage   doesn&#39;t   mean   anything   anymore .   And   who   could   be   so   twisted   in   their   mind   to   share   their   wife   with   other   men ,   wives   sharing   their   husbands   with   other   women ?   I   don&#39;t   know .   It&#39;s   just .   God   help   us .   There&#39;s   nothing   new ,   but   it   seems   like   it&#39;s   getting   worse ,   worse   than   ever .   A   desensitization   of   heart   and   mind .   Listen   to   this .   This   is   by   Ken   Hughes ,   he   said   recently ,   leadership   Magazine   commissioned   a   poll   of   a   thousand   pastors .   The   pastors   indicated   that   12%   of   them   had   committed   adultery ,   while   in   ministry ,   one   out   of   eight   12%   One   out   of   eight   pastors   and   23%   had   done   something   they   considered   sexually   inappropriate .   Christianity   Today   surveyed   a   thousand   of   its   subscribers   who   were   not   pastors   and   found   the   figure   to   be   nearly   double ,   with   23%   saying   they   had   had   extramarital   intercourse   and   45%   indicating   they   had   done   something   they   themselves   deemed   sexually   inappropriate .   One   in   four   Christian   men   are   unfaithful   and   nearly   one   half   have   behaved   unbecomingly   Shocking   statistics ,   especially   when   we   remember   that   Christianity   Today   readers   tend   to   be   college   educated   church   leaders ,   elders ,   deacons ,   sunday   school   superintendents   and   teachers .   If   this   is   so   for   the   church&#39;s   leadership ,   how   much   more   for   the   average   member   of   the   congregation ?  
      </p>

        <cite>Ray Comfort</cite>
      <time>22:32</time>
      <p>
          Couldn&#39;t   you   double   those   statistics ,   realizing   that   these   were   the   ones   that   had   committed   adultery   but   suddenly   became   honest   about   it ?   Yeah ,   that&#39;s   true .   I   mean   how   many ?  
      </p>

        <cite>Emeal Zwayne</cite>
      <time>22:42</time>
      <p>
          are   really   being   upright   about   it   and   telling   the   truth .   So   it&#39;s   a   massive   problem   and   this   is   in   part   why   I   wrote   my   book   Fight   Like   a   man   I&#39;m   about   to   say .  
      </p>

        <cite>Oscar Navarro</cite>
      <time>22:53</time>
      <p>
          what   we   need   is   some   sort   of   like   bold   biblical   battle   plan   for   personal   purity .  
      </p>

        <cite>Emeal Zwayne</cite>
      <time>23:03</time>
      <p>
          That&#39;s   what   we   need .   Yes ,   friends ,   it   will   be   coming   out .   Publisher   has   it .   They&#39;re   working   on   it ,   so   keep   a   lookout .   But   that&#39;s   one   of   the   reasons   why   I   wrote   the   book ,   because   we   have   a   massive   problem   and   it   we   don&#39;t .  
      </p>

        <cite>Oscar Navarro</cite>
      <time>23:17</time>
      <p>
          Well ,   I&#39;d   love   to   hear   your   thoughts   on   this   EZ ,   because   I   have   to   imagine   that   for   most   people   it   doesn&#39;t   start   with   adultery .   It   starts   way   beforehand   with   the   compromising   of   lust ,   pornography .   Talk   about   that   space   Before   the   adultery .   What   is   happening ?   How   are   we   conditioning   our   hearts   to   get   there ?  
      </p>

        <cite>Emeal Zwayne</cite>
      <time>23:40</time>
      <p>
          Yeah ,   well ,   there&#39;s   a   famous   saying   Marcus   quoted   it .   Often ,   before   a   person   sins   in   public ,   he   sinned   a   long   time   before   that   in   private .   I   think   it   is   this   strong   pull   of   sexual   desire   which   is   very   strong .   In   my   book   I   talk   about   how   it   gives   nuclear   power   a   run   for   its   money .   It   destroys   kingdoms ,   it   ruins   families ,   it   destroys   careers .   It&#39;s   like   for   most   men ,   it&#39;s   like   the   urge   to   eat .   You&#39;re   starving   and   you&#39;re   famished .   So   there&#39;s   so   much   that   happens   leading   up   to   it   and ,   as   Ray   often   says ,   ultimately   it   comes   down   to   the   fear   of   God .   It   comes   down   to   that   decision   of   saying ,   no ,   I&#39;m   going   to   fear   and   honor   the   Lord .   Yes ,   I   have   this   urge ,   I   have   this   drive ,   but   my   God   is   worthy   of   my   life .   And   you   develop   this   healthy ,   godly   habit ,   ray .   You   often   go   to   the   spiritual   aspect   of   the   law   Matthew   5 ,   27   to   28 .   You   have   heard   that   it   was   said   to   those   of   old   you   shall   not   commit   adultery .   But   I   say   to   you   that   whoever   looks   at   a   woman   to   lust   for   her   has   already   committed   adultery   with   her   in   his   heart .   Ray ,   the   danger   is   that   we   carry   with   us   wherever   we   go   this   instinct ,   capacity   to   give   in   to   adultery ,   to   sexual   sin ,   because   of   our   minds   and   our   hearts .  
      </p>

        <cite>Ray Comfort</cite>
      <time>25:05</time>
      <p>
          For   us   a   Christian .   I   was   so   consumed   by   sexual   lust   as   a   teenager   a   late   teenager   that   I   thought   I   had   some   sort   of   gift .   Really ,   I   thought   it   was   like   maybe   a   gift   from   God   or   something   like   that   I   could   instantly   have   pleasure   with   any   female   in   my   mind ,   which   every   guy   can   do ,   and   that   was   the   power   of   lust .   And   when   I   became   a   Christian   that&#39;s   the   verse   that   brought   me   to   the   foot   of   the   cross   I   realized ,   man ,   my   mind   is   full   of   adultery .   No   one   knew   about   me   and   the   Lord   I   get   so   many   people   reproved   me   of   quoting   that   verse   and   saying   you   idiot ,   that   doesn&#39;t   mean   looking   with   lust ,   it&#39;s   to   do   with   adultery .   If   you   look   at   a   married   woman   with   lust ,   that&#39;s   committing   adultery   in   your   heart .   You   don&#39;t   even   understand   this   and   I   have   to   write   back   in   a   very   cynical   way   and   say   okay ,   I   see   what   you&#39;re   saying .   What   you&#39;ve   got   to   do   is   figure   out   the   woman   that   you&#39;re   going   to   lust   after   are   married .   So   what   do   you   do ?   You   look   at   a   woman   and   go   up   to   her   and   say   excuse   me ,   ma&#39;am ,   I   was   thinking   of   lusting   after   you ,   but   I   want   to   know   if   you&#39;re   married ,   because   if   you&#39;re   married ,   I   won&#39;t   lust   after   you .   If   you&#39;re   not   married ,   I   can   lust   after   you .   So   are   you   married   or   not ?   And   you   have   to   do   the   same   thing   with   pornography .   You&#39;ve   got   to   make   sure   all   the   women   you&#39;re   looking   at   are   single   women   and   not   married   women ,   and   that&#39;s   to   get   away   from   the   words   of   Jesus .   Whoever   looks   upon   a   woman   to   lust   for   her ,   whoever   has   committed   adultery   already   with   her   in   his   heart .  
      </p>

        <cite>Emeal Zwayne</cite>
      <time>26:24</time>
      <p>
          Yeah ,   and   oftentimes   I&#39;ll   be   in   a   public   place   and   I&#39;ll   see   a   pretty   woman   walk   by   and   I&#39;ll   start   looking   at   the   men   that   are   around   and   it&#39;s   just   so   ubiquitous .   It&#39;s   almost   like   metal   being   drawn   to   a   magnet   and   you   just   see   almost   every   man&#39;s   eyes   just   begin   to   follow   this   woman   and   man .   There&#39;s   stuff   happening   there   in   the   imagination   that   is   an   abomination   on   the   side   of   the   Lord .   And .   Mark .   A   lot   of   people   again   excuse   it   because   they   say ,   hey ,   what   is   a   thought   going   to   do   to   harm   anything ?   Leave   me   alone .   This   is   what   I   want   to   do   in   my   own   mind .  
      </p>

        <cite>Mark Spence</cite>
      <time>27:02</time>
      <p>
          Yeah ,   We&#39;ve   said   before .   Chuck   Swindall   was   famous   for   saying   you   know ,   you&#39;re   so   a   thought ,   you   reap   an   action .   So   an   action ,   reap   a   habit .   So   a   habit ,   reap   a   character ,   so   a   character ,   you   reap   a   destiny .   It   all   starts   within   that   mind .   You   entertain   that   thought .   Somebody   once   said   you   can&#39;t   prevent   a   bird   from   flying   over   your   head ,   Spurgeon .  
      </p>

        <cite>Emeal Zwayne</cite>
      <time>27:21</time>
      <p>
          So   you   can   prevent   them   from   building   a   nest  
      </p>

        <cite>Mark Spence</cite>
      <time>27:24</time>
      <p>
          in   your   head ,   martin   Luther   or   Spurgeon .  
      </p>

        <cite>Ray Comfort</cite>
      <time>27:26</time>
      <p>
          Spurgeon   quoted   it   he   might   have   quoted   Luther   yeah .   But   it&#39;s   really   powerful .   Start   again ,   Mark ,   because   someone   interrupted .  
      </p>

        <cite>Mark Spence</cite>
      <time>27:32</time>
      <p>
          I   don&#39;t   remember   it .   Heath   Lambert ,   though .   He   said   this   is   the   vicious   cycle   of   lust ,   because   lust   never   has   what   it   wants ,   because   it   never   has   enough .   Lust   steals   joy   by   creating   an   endless   state   of   discontentment   in   the   constant   search   for   that   one   next   thing   that   you   don&#39;t   have   yet .   Lust   is   never   happy   because   lust   is   never   full .   There&#39;s   a   hole   at   the   bottom   of   the   cup .  
      </p>

        <cite>Ray Comfort</cite>
      <time>27:58</time>
      <p>
          So   let   me   share   the   quality   of   that   quote   so   people   don&#39;t   miss   it   with   my   interruption .   You   can&#39;t   stop   birds   from   flying   over   your   head ,   but   you   can   stop   them   from   making   a   nest   in   your   hair .  
      </p>

        <cite>Mark Spence</cite>
      <time>28:07</time>
      <p>
          And   what   does   that   mean ?   Draw   that   out .  
      </p>

        <cite>Ray Comfort</cite>
      <time>28:09</time>
      <p>
          So   you   get   a   lustful   thought ,   you   just   don&#39;t   own   it .   You   don&#39;t   grab   it   and   chew   it   over   and   let   it   become   part   of   you .   I&#39;ve   dealt   with   lust   in   a   wonderful   way .   Many   years   ago .   I   had   surgery   on   my   eyes   laser   surgery   and   they   give   you   an   option   get   both   eyes   done   and   you   can&#39;t   see   in   the   distance ,   but   you   can   see   up   closely .   Or   get   one   eye   done   and   you   can   see   in   the   distance   and   you   can   read   it .   So   I   got   one   eye   done ,   which   means   when   I   look   at   the   distance   with   my   right   eye   it   goes   blurry .   So   when   I   see   a   lust   woman   I   just   close   an   eye   like   that   and   she   tends   in   an   instant   blur .   But   I   do   get   slapped   a   lot .  
      </p>

        <cite>Mark Spence</cite>
      <time>28:43</time>
      <p>
          Because   you&#39;re   a   venging
      </p>

      <h2 id="understanding-lust-and-pursuing-true-fulfillment"><a class="no-underline" href="#understanding-lust-and-pursuing-true-fulfillment">Understanding Lust and Pursuing True Fulfillment</a></h2>


        <cite>Mark Spence</cite>
      <time>28:46</time>
      <p>
            and   weak   Ray .   Was   it   you   the   one   that   told   me   that   every   time   you   feel   that   temptation ,   you   pray   for   wisdom ?  
      </p>

        <cite>Ray Comfort</cite>
      <time>28:52</time>
      <p>
          Yeah ,   you   pray   a   negative ,   a   positive ,   sorry .   I   look   at   the   sky   and   just   say   cool ,   that   sky   is   that   God   has   made .   Distract   myself ,   because   once   they&#39;re   out   of   sight ,   they&#39;re   out   of   mind .   It   really   does   help   to   just   look   away ,   but   it&#39;s   very   hard   for   women   to   understand ,   like   Ezy   was   saying ,   the   nuclear   power   thing .   It   really   is   true .   You&#39;re   driving   your   car   and   I   can   see   a   lusty   woman   from   15   miles   away   and   I   just   got   to   be   so   careful .  
      </p>

        <cite>Oscar Navarro</cite>
      <time>29:18</time>
      <p>
          That   was   a   mountain .   Your   eyes   were   blue .  
      </p>

        <cite>Ray Comfort</cite>
      <time>29:22</time>
      <p>
          So   even   at   my   age   and   guys ,   the   fire   does   not   go   out .   It   gets   worse   as   you   get   older .   I&#39;m   coming   up   74   and   I&#39;m   talking   about ,   I&#39;m   fighting   lust   daily .   It&#39;s   crazy .  
      </p>

        <cite>Emeal Zwayne</cite>
      <time>29:32</time>
      <p>
          Yeah ,   it&#39;s   a   reality .   And   yet   we   grow   in   the   Lord ,   we   grow   in   His   grace .   He   strengthens   us ,   he   empowers   us ,   he   enables   us   and   we   can   find   victory   through   Christ .   I   mean ,   that&#39;s   the   good   news .   I   know   there   are   guys   listening   to   us   right   now   and   thinking ,   man ,   is   there   really   hope   for   me ?  
      </p>

        <cite>Ray Comfort</cite>
      <time>29:50</time>
      <p>
          Well ,   you   don&#39;t   feed   it .   Yeah ,   that&#39;s   the   thing .  
      </p>

        <cite>Emeal Zwayne</cite>
      <time>29:52</time>
      <p>
          They&#39;re   ensnared   in   pornography   and   that&#39;s   a   tragedy .   Today ,   with   a   click   of   a   button   I   mean   it   used   to   be   guys   had   to   go   to   their   computer   and   you   know ?  
      </p>

        <cite>Ray Comfort</cite>
      <time>30:02</time>
      <p>
          no ,   no ,   no ,   no ,   no ,   no ,   no .   You&#39;re   talking   your   generation ,   I&#39;m   talking   pregeneration .   You   had   to   go   to   a   magazine ,   you   had   to   get   it .   It   wasn&#39;t   even   legal .  
      </p>

        <cite>Emeal Zwayne</cite>
      <time>30:11</time>
      <p>
          Well ,   that   was   my   generation .   You   had   to   get   it   from   under   the   counter .   That&#39;s   what   you   get   pornography   called   under   the   counter ,   and   so   you   had   to   go   to   a   lot   of   you   know   to   get   something   in   your   hands   that   people   can   get   within   a   second ,   I   mean   as   a   teenager ,   you   had   to   steal   it   because   you   had   to   be   18   to   buy   it ,   or   your   friend&#39;s   dad   had   a   stash   somewhere   videos   or   magazines   or   but   now   these   young   people ,   with   the   click   of   a   button   in   their   hand ,   wherever   they   are ,   at   any   time ,   an   unlimited   supply   of   this   pornography .  
      </p>

        <cite>Oscar Navarro</cite>
      <time>30:41</time>
      <p>
          Here&#39;s .   Another   reality ,   too ,   though ,   is   that ,   as   it   pertains   to   adultery ,   it&#39;s   not   always   the   physical   that   draws   people ,   sometimes ,   especially   for   women ,   because   actually ,   I   was   surprised   to   read   that   women   are   the   leaders   of   divorce   and   adultery   right   now .   So   it&#39;s   not   men   that   are   committing   adultery   more ,   it&#39;s   women   committing   adultery   more ,   and   they   say   that   more   often   than   not ,   with   what   starts   the   adultery   is   an   emotional   affair .   In   other   words ,   you   feel   the   emotional   detachment   from   your   spouse .   You   feel   unseen ,   unheard ,   unknown ,   unloved ,   and   it   begins   with   companionship .   This   person   understands   me ,   this   person   listens   to   me ,   this   person   knows   me   the   way   my   spouse   does   not .   In   either   scenario ,   whether   it&#39;s   physical   lust   or   it&#39;s   the   lust   because   lust   ultimately ,   the   original   word   lust   simply   means   desire .   It&#39;s   a   wrongfully   placed   desire   for   the   physical ,   for   the   emotional ,   for   the   attention .   Here&#39;s   the   thing   We&#39;ve   already   alluded   to   this   that   our   desires   are   so   often   misplaced .   What   we   need   is   not   always   what   we   think   we   need .   In   other   words ,   sometimes   we   want   the   thing   that   we   actually   don&#39;t   need .   The   problem   is   that ,   as   we   pursue   wrongful   desires ,   as   we   pursue   lust ,   they   will   leave   us   thirsty ,   wanting   more   and   more   and   more ,   more   and   more ,   constantly   unsatisfied .   I   love   how   the   New   Testament   uses   the   phrase   living   water .   If   you   think   about   the   meaning   of   that   phrase   for   us   to   really   grasp   it .   We   can&#39;t   do   that   where   we   live   now   because   we   have   water   in   abundance .   These   are   people   that   lived   in   the   desert   who   were   always   thinking   about   where   their   next   drink   was   going   to   be ,   or   they   would   die .   Much   of   the   water   they   drank   was   still   water .   It   wasn&#39;t   good   water .   The   idea   of   living   water   was   fresh ,   flowing ,   cold ,   in   abundance .   What   Jesus   is   saying   is   that   if   you   pursue   these   lusts ,   if   you   pursue   this   desires ,   you   will   be   left   thirsty .   But   only   I ,   jesus ,   can   fulfill   those   desires .   Only   I ,   jesus ,   is   the   living   water .   Whether   you   are   feeling   lonely   or   wanting ,   the   only   fulfillment   you   will   ever   find   for   yourself   is   in   Christ .  
      </p>

        <cite>Emeal Zwayne</cite>
      <time>33:11</time>
      <p>
          Yeah ,   it&#39;s   a   whole   issue   of   spiritual   starvation   I&#39;ve   talked   about   before   In   the   natural .   You   deprive   yourself   of   your   normal   diet ,   your   hunger   pains   will   intensify ,   your   cravings   will   increase .   You   must   satisfy   that   craving .   We   substitute ,   we   go   to   things   that   we   would   never   normally   eat .   That&#39;s   why   people   starving   will   eat   bark   off   of   trees   or   eat   leaves ,   or   eat   rats ,   roaches .   They&#39;ll   eat   human   beings ,   right ,   the   whole   story   alive ,   with   that   rugby   team ,   the   plane   crash .   They   were   stuck ,   they   were   hungry .   They   ended   up   eating   the   people   that   died .   I   mean ,   no   one   does   that   in   their   right   mind .   But   it&#39;s   that   process   of   starvation ,   it&#39;s   first   deprivation   that   leads   to   desperation ,   that   leads   to   deviation ,   which   is   substitution ,   that   leads   to   deterioration .   We   must   satisfy   ourselves   in   Christ   because   we   have   spiritual   cravings   meant   to   be   satisfied   by   him .   If   we   don&#39;t   like ,   the   proverb   says   right ,   To   the   satisfied   soul   even   the   honeycomb   is   loathsome ,   but   to   the   hungry   soul   every   bitter   thing   is   sweet .  
      </p>

        <cite>Mark Spence</cite>
      <time>34:13</time>
      <p>
          You   know   what   will   a   hungry   man   eat ?   Anything .   If   he&#39;s   hungry   enough ,   he&#39;ll   eat   anything .   Who   grew   up   in   sharing   with   my   kids   trying   to   get   into   their   lives   when   they&#39;re   really   little   and   young ,   trying   to   figure   out   as   they&#39;re   trying   to   figure   out   the   opposite   sex   and   they   feel   this   attraction   going   on   and   say ,   hey ,   it&#39;s   okay   to   feel   that   pull .   It&#39;s   just   what   do   you   do   with   that   pull ?   How   do   you   respond ?   How   do   you   interpret   all   of   that ?   And   then ,   as   they   got   on   into   their   teenage   years   and   started   getting   interested   in   different   people   and   they&#39;re   hanging   out   more   and   they&#39;re   just   kind   of   figuring   things   out .   I   have   my   daughter .   Ella   is   in   a   relationship   with   a   guy   named   Ryan   and   absolutely   love   Ryan   to   death .   How   about   Ella ?   You   love   her ,   I   kind   of   love   my   daughter .   But   in   just   simply   saying ,   what   is   your   view   on   kissing ,   what   is   your   view   on   you   know ,   in   just   going   down   the   whole   realm   there   and   just   explaining   to   him ,   I   go ,   listen ,   you&#39;ve   been   designed   to   go   all   the   way   to   have   sex .   You&#39;ve   been   designed   like   a .   Sex   is   a   beautiful ,   beautiful   thing ,   designed   by   God .   When   you   get   married ,   people   bring   you   gifts .   God   is   bringing   you   a   gift   when   you   get   married   and   that   gift   is   sex   and   unfortunately ,   people   open   up   that   gift   before   it&#39;s   time   and   it   spoils   the   gift .   So   avoid   that   gift ,   opening   that   gift   early .   And   how   you   can   avoid   that   is   just   avoid   all   the   things   that   lead   up   to   that .   There&#39;s   nothing   you   need   to   do   If   you&#39;re   watching   a   movie .   You   don&#39;t   need   to   be   sharing   a   blanket ,   you   don&#39;t   need   to   be   kissing   on   the   lips .   You   don&#39;t   just   wait .   Just   wait ,   because   all   of   these   things   have   been   progressed   inside   of   you   to   lead   towards   sex   and   if   you   have   these   feelings   begin   to   stir   up   inside   of   you ,   you   will   not   be   able   to   be   strong   enough   to   resist   those   temptations ,   that&#39;s   true .   So   you   just   need   to   run ,   run   from   it   all .   Set   the   boundary   right   from   the   beginning .   If   you   go ,   well ,   how   far   is   too   far ?   If   you&#39;re   asking   that   question ,   how   far   is   too   far ?   You&#39;ve   already   gone   too   far   in   your   mind .   Because   it&#39;s   not   how   much   can   I   do   and   still   be   a   Christian ?   It&#39;s   how   much   can   I   abstain   from   all   of   these   things   that   are   just   worldly   in   appearance   and   walk   with   God ?   That&#39;s   what   I   want .   It&#39;s   not   thinking   through   these   things .   How   much   can   I   do ?   But   it&#39;s   man ,   how   fast   can   I   run   and   just   keep   my   eyes   on   the   Lord .   I   heard   one   Christian   singer   once   say   look ,   I&#39;m   not   going   to   be   caught   up   with   women   and   the   people   of   this   nature .   What   I&#39;m   going   to   do   is   I&#39;m   going   to   run   so   hard   after   God   and   when   I&#39;m   ready   to   get   married ,   I&#39;m   going   to   look   to   the   left   and   look   to   the   right   and   see   if   there&#39;s   somebody   that   kept   up   with   me   in   my   pursuit   of   Christ ,   and   I&#39;m   going   to   marry   that   person ,   and   marry   them   as   quickly   as   I   possibly   can .  
      </p>

        <cite>Emeal Zwayne</cite>
      <time>36:53</time>
      <p>
          Oh ,   so   good .   Hey   Ray ,   I&#39;d   love   you   to   elaborate   on  
      </p>

      <h2 id="value-and-beauty-of-marital-sex"><a class="no-underline" href="#value-and-beauty-of-marital-sex">Value and Beauty of Marital Sex</a></h2>


        <cite>Emeal Zwayne</cite>
      <time>36:57</time>
      <p>
          this .   Proverbs   6 ,   beginning   of   verse   32 ,   whoever   commits   adultery   with   a   woman   lacks   understanding .   He   who   does   so   destroys   his   own   soul ,   wounds   and   dishonor   he   will   get ,   and   his   reproach   will   not   be   wiped   away .  
      </p>

        <cite>Ray Comfort</cite>
      <time>37:11</time>
      <p>
          Yeah ,   Well ,   I   was   hearing   your   thought   while   Mark   was   speaking .   We&#39;ll   go   further   on   to   that   in   a   minute ,   but   it&#39;s   hard   to   put   these   appropriately .   But   if   you   stir   up   sexual   desire ,   especially   in   teenage   years ,   that   fire   will   consume   your   conscience .   You   think   you&#39;ve   got   a   tender   conscience   that   would   never   steal ,   you&#39;d   never   lie   to   Sonya   parents .   But   when   that   fire ,   that   sexual   desire   is   there ,   conscience   just   takes   a   backseat .   So   true ,   and   you&#39;ll   do   things   that   you   look   back   and   say   was   I   out   of   my   mind ?   And   really   you&#39;re   out   of   your   mind .   That&#39;s   what .   That&#39;s   what   sexual   desire   does .   It&#39;s   meant   for   the   joys   of   marriage   and   it&#39;s   meant   to   consume   you   and   it&#39;s   meant   for   love   and   yeah ,   I   mean .  
      </p>

        <cite>Emeal Zwayne</cite>
      <time>37:52</time>
      <p>
          I   mean .   The   proverb   says   be   always   enraptured   with   her   love .   It   gets   more   graphic   than   that .  
      </p>

        <cite>Ray Comfort</cite>
      <time>37:57</time>
      <p>
          No ,   I&#39;ll   let   it   be   graphic ,   because   I   remember   doing   that   reading   with   my   family .   Do   you   remember   that   story ?   Yeah ,   yeah ,   we&#39;re   going   through .   Probably   probably   Well .  
      </p>

        <cite>Emeal Zwayne</cite>
      <time>38:05</time>
      <p>
          I   guess   parents   will   see   the   topic   as   some   young ,   a   lot   of   young   people   listen   to   this   podcast .   But   yeah ,   I   mean .   It   says   let   her   breath   satisfy   you   at   all   times .  
      </p>

        <cite>Ray Comfort</cite>
      <time>38:12</time>
      <p>
          Yeah ,   but   when   we&#39;re   having   a   reading   in   Proverbs ,   proverbs   6 ,   I   think   it   is .   Yeah ,   I   just   said   to   Jacob ,   who&#39;s   my   oldest ,   no .   I   said   to   Sue   do   you   want   to   read   the   next   verse ?   Because   that&#39;s   right .   She   says   no .   So   I   should   have   just   said   read   it .   So   I   said   to   Jacob ,   who&#39;s   my   oldest ,   would   you   want   to   read   the   next   verse ?   And   he   said   no .   And   then   I   said   to   Rachel   and   Daniel   was   no   one   wanted   to   read   it ?   We   just   had   to   let   them .   Well ,   I   said   I   think   that ,   yeah ,   it&#39;s   actually   a   great   thing   to   read   to   a   non-Christian .   So   you   know ,   the   Bible   says   the   best   place   for   sex   is   in   bed .   Bed   is   under   filed   and   it   says   enjoy   the   breast   of   your   wife .   The   Bible   is   unashamedly   an   instruction   book   and   it   tells   you   just   stay   with   them ,   the   confines   of   marriage .   If   your ,   if   your   dad   gives   you   a   Lamborghini   and   says   son ,   you   just   stay   on   the   right   side   of   the   road ,   that&#39;s   all   I   ask .   And   you   go   on   the   wrong   side   of   the   road ,   he&#39;s   got   the   right ,   take   the   keys   back   and   God   gives   us   sex   as   a   wonderful   gift   of   pleasure   and   procreation   and   just   says   stay   on   the   right   side   of   the   road .   Well ,   marriage .  
      </p>

        <cite>Oscar Navarro</cite>
      <time>39:06</time>
      <p>
          Yeah ,   I   think   that&#39;s   an   important   verse .   And   if   you   think   about ,   like ,   how ,   how   can   we   apply   that   to   ourselves ?   And   speaking   specifically   to   men   who   are   married ,   and   one   of   the   ways   that   we   don&#39;t   do   a   good   job   of   that   is   when   we   start   comparing   and   you   cannot   look   at   pornography ,   you   cannot   look   at   other   women   walking   on   the   street   that   are   not   your   wife   and   not   help   but   compare .   When   you   do   that ,   inevitably   what&#39;s   going   to   happen   is   you&#39;re   going   to   be   unsatisfied   with   what   God   has   given   to   you   to   be   your   portion .   And   I   remember   specifically   after   Kelly   had   a   camera ,   what   baby ,   baby   two   or   baby   three .   I   remember   at   one   point   shortly   after   that   she   was   like ,   oh ,   you   know ,   my   body   isn&#39;t   what   it   used   to   be .   And   I   was   like ,   hey ,   I&#39;m   not   comparing   you   to   other   women   and   I&#39;m   not   comparing   you   to   who   you   were   when   I   married   you .   What   I   have   in   front   of   me   is   what   the   Lord   has   given   me ,   and   that&#39;s   like   to   be   able   to   say   that   to   your   wife ,   because   you&#39;re   not   comparing   them   to   anybody   else ,   is   a   gift   to   her   and   it&#39;s   a   satisfying   gift   to   yourself .   Well   put .  
      </p>

        <cite>Ray Comfort</cite>
      <time>40:09</time>
      <p>
          I   heard   a   preacher   once   talking   about   the   fifth   commandment   on   your   father   and   mother   and   he   said   young   man ,   you   despise   your   mother   when   she   gave   up   a   figure   to   bear   you   Wow .  
      </p>

        <cite>Emeal Zwayne</cite>
      <time>40:19</time>
      <p>
          That&#39;s   powerful .   Yeah ,   and   you   know ,   let   me   just   say   we&#39;re   so   hesitant   oftentimes ,   as   Christians ,   to   talk   about   sex ,   and   it&#39;s   because   of   how   Satan   has   twisted   it ,   how   our   carnal   nature   has   really   tarnished   it .   Sex   is   beautiful .   It   was   God&#39;s   idea ,   it&#39;s   his   design .   I   mean ,   you   think   about   it ?   Yeah ,   human   life   that   bears   the   holy   image   of   God   is   created   through   it .   Those   children   that   we   would   give   our   lives   for   were   produced   through   that   beautiful   act .   So   there   should   be   no   shame .   And   when   we   talked   to   our   kids   about   sex   when   they   were   young   and   we   taught   them   about   it ,   we   purposed ,   as   I&#39;ve   shared   before ,   to   give   them   the   right   perception   of   it   from   the   very   beginning .   When   we   even   told   them   we   were   going   to   talk   to   them   about   it ,   we   said   hey ,   kids ,   tonight   we   have   something   amazing   to   talk   to   you   about .   You   know ,   most   parents   like ,   oh ,   you   know   that   talk ,   they&#39;re   like   getting   all   nervous   and   oh ,   you   know ,   no ,   no ,   we   determined   proactively .   We   said   we&#39;re   going   to   say   we&#39;re   going   to   talk   about   something   so   beautiful ,   so   exciting .   Because   the   analogy   I&#39;ve   shared ,   that   others   have   shared ,   that   right   our   children&#39;s   minds   they&#39;re   like   an   empty   warehouse   with   empty   shelves ,   and   whoever   gets   there   and   stocks   those   shelves   first   is   going   to   make   it   harder   for   the   other   person   to   unstock   and   restock .   So   we   wanted   their   first   impressions   to   be   beautiful   and   positive ,   and   so   we   sat   down   with   them ,   we   took   them   through   these   little   books   and   just ,   oh ,   it&#39;s   beautiful ,   it&#39;s   God&#39;s   gift ,   but   within   the   confines   of   marriage .  
      </p>

        <cite>Ray Comfort</cite>
      <time>41:53</time>
      <p>
          Is   he ?   I&#39;ve   heard   you   talk   about   how   everybody   sends   off   a   couple   on   their   honeymoon ,   rejoicing   knowing   exactly   what   they&#39;re   going   to   do .   Can   you   address   that   from   it ?  
      </p>

        <cite>Emeal Zwayne</cite>
      <time>42:04</time>
      <p>
          Well ,   yeah ,   I   mean ,   it&#39;s   just   crazy   to   think   you   know   that   are   going   off   to   the   honeymoon   and   everyone   is   like ,   yep ,   that&#39;s   where   they&#39;re   going .   It&#39;s   like   everyone   knows .   I   remember   talking   about   their   honeymoon .   It&#39;s   like ,   ah ,   you   know ,   it&#39;s   like   you   know ,   what   are   you   guys   going   to   do   on   your   honeymoon ?  
      </p>

        <cite>Ray Comfort</cite>
      <time>42:19</time>
      <p>
          Duh   right ,   but   you   compare   that   to   someone   who&#39;s   shaking   up   and   it&#39;s   a   shameful   thing .   But   it&#39;s   just   an   unashamed   rejoicing   this   couple&#39;s   going   to   enjoy   the   marital   bed .   Yeah ,   it&#39;s   beautiful .  
      </p>

        <cite>Emeal Zwayne</cite>
      <time>42:30</time>
      <p>
          God   designed   it ,   he   made   it ,   and   I   think   honestly ,   as   Christians   and   this   is   as   an   encouragement   to   those   of   you   listening   who   you   know   are   thinking   what   can   I   do   to   guard   my   marriage   against   adultery ?   Be   together ,   as   1   Corinthians   7   talks   about ,   regularly ,   and   pursue   excellence   in   your   intimacy .   Why   is   that   we ,   as   Christians ,   you   know ,   think   about   and   talk   about   pursuing   excellence   and   everything ,   but   we   kind   of   segregate   intimacy   and   don&#39;t   think   that   way   or   talk .   Are   you   kidding   me ?   This   is   a   gift   God   has   given   you   as   a   couple   for   a   lifetime .   You   need   to   learn   to   enhance   it ,   to   discuss   it ,   to   improve   it ,   to   pursue   it   with   excellence   and   to   glorify   God   in   it ,   because   you   can .  
      </p>

        <cite>Oscar Navarro</cite>
      <time>43:09</time>
      <p>
          You&#39;re   reminding   me   of   it ,   which   is   Rebecca   McLaughlin   in   her   book   Confronting   Christianity .   It&#39;s   like   chapter   three   or   four .   From   remembering   correctly ,   it&#39;s   called   the   miracle   drug .   Is   the   chapter .   And   essentially   what   she   does ,   she   goes   through   and   she   says   like   people   think   like ,   oh   you   know ,   christianity   sounds   so   dull ,   sounds   so   boring ,   it   takes   away   all   the   joys .   And   she   quotes   this   secular   survey   in   which   goes   around   surveying   all   sorts   of   people ,   groups ,   about   who   is   satisfied   in   their   sexual   lives .   They   ask   polyamorous ,   they   ask   single   people   who   are   sexually   active ,   married   couples .   The   number   one   group   that   showed   the   highest   rate   of   sexual   satisfaction   was   married   Christians   who   regularly   attend   church .   In   other   words ,   christianity   is   not   a   buzzkill ,   is   what   she   says   in   the   book ,   but   instead   an   invitation   to   ultimate   joy .   And   then   she   goes   on   to   quote   see   this   Lewis   I   know   I&#39;ve   used   this   before   in   the   past .   See   it&#39;s .   Lewis   says   it   like   this   it   would   seem   that   our   Lord   finds   our   desires   not   too   strong   but   too   weak .   We   are   half   hearted   creatures   fooling   about   with   drink   and   sex   and   ambition   when   infinite   joy   is   offered   us ,   like   an   ignorant   child   who   wants   to   go   on   making   mud   pies   in   a   slum   because   he   cannot   imagine   what   is   meant   by   the   offer   of   a   holiday   at   sea .   We   are   far   too   easily   pleased .   Do   you   see   that   God   is   not   trying   to   hold   back   joy .   Rather ,   he&#39;s   inviting   us   into   joy ,   and   we   can   trust   him   that   he&#39;ll   deliver   Right   man .  
      </p>

        <cite>Mark Spence</cite>
      <time>44:54</time>
      <p>
          Sam   Storms .   He   said   don&#39;t   believe   the   propaganda   the   world   is   peddling .   This   is   not   God&#39;s   way   of   robbing   you   of   fun   and   pleasure .   It   is   his   passionate   desire   to   intensify   it .   This   prohibition   exists   in   order   to   protect   and   preserve   the   beauty   and   the   joy   of   marital   sex .   Our   laws   against   theft   and   murder   exist   because   of   the   high   value   we   place   on   personal   property   and   human   life .   So   too ,   with   this   prohibition   against   illicit   sex ,   the   purpose   is   to   guard   and   to   preserve   and   to   enhance   something   far   more   exciting   and   full   and   fun   pleasure ,   namely   marital   love .  
      </p>

        <cite>Emeal Zwayne</cite>
      <time>45:36</time>
      <p>
          Amen .   Wow ,   that&#39;s   beautiful .   In   connection   with   what   Oscar   shared .   The   reason   why   sexual   intimacy   is   so   enjoyable   in   a   Christian   marriage   is   because   you   have   a   couple   that   have   a   common   bond   and   his   name   is   Christ .   They   both   love   him   and   as   they   draw   closer   to   him ,   they   draw   closer   to   each   other .   In   addition   to   that ,   there&#39;s   the   foundation   of   trust ,   because   they   both   fear   God .   There&#39;s   a   commonality   of   their   faith   and   their   love   for   the   Lord   and   their   unity   in   the   community   of   God&#39;s   people .   So   there   was   an   analogy   given   of   a   couple   who   are   just   fighting   and   have   acrimony   between   them .   Each   time   they   do   that ,   it&#39;s   like   they&#39;re   dumping   a   big   bag   of   garbage   in   their   bed   Like   all   day ,   and   it&#39;s   piling ,   piling .   Then   they   expect   to   come   and   be   intimate   in   that   bed   at   the   end   of   the   day .   No   way .   There&#39;s   that   foundation   of   loving   the   Lord   that   creates   that   closeness ,   and   I   know   we   didn&#39;t   end   up   expounding   on   it .   But   that   verse   in   Proverbs   6   about   he   who   commits   adultery   with   a   woman   lacks   understanding .   That&#39;s   what   it   is .   There&#39;s   a   lack   of   understanding   about   how   this   dishonors   God ,   about   how   this   marrs   the   testimony   of   the   gospel ,   about   how   this   destroys   your   children   and   your   grandchildren   and   generations   to   come .   And   it   takes   something   beautiful   and   desecrates   it .   And   those   who   commit   adultery ,   yeah ,   their   reproach   will   not   be   wiped   away .   But   but   there   is   hope   and   there   is   grace   in   the   Lord .   John   8 ,   the   woman   caught   in   the   act   of   adultery ,   in   the   very   act ,   and   they   came   to   stone   her ,   and   Jesus   has   mercy   on   her .   He   does   the   whole   writing   in   the   sand   thing   and   then   he   says   to   her   where   are   your   accusers ?   Does   no   one   condemn   you ?   No   one ,   lord ,   neither   do   I   condemn   you .   Go   and   sin   no   more .   I   mean ,   can   you   imagine   that   the   freedom   that   woman   fell   when   Jesus   told   her   something   you   just   did   that   was   worthy   of   death ,   is   fully   forgiven ,   fully   gone ?   And   that&#39;s   what   he   does   by   his   grace .  
      </p>

        <cite>Ray Comfort</cite>
      <time>47:34</time>
      <p>
          I   like   the   thought   that   the   law   was   written   in   stone .   It&#39;s   a   movable ,   it&#39;s   merciless ,   but   Jesus   wrote   in   sand   and   the   sea   of   gods   forget .   We&#39;re   going   to   wash   us   that   sin   away   the   moment   we   come   to .  
      </p>

        <cite>Emeal Zwayne</cite>
      <time>47:44</time>
      <p>
          Christ ,   amen .   Yeah ,   and   so ,   friends ,   if   you&#39;re   out   there ,   my   encouragement   to   you .   If   you&#39;re   thinking ,   man ,   I&#39;m   tempted   to   commit   adultery ,   I&#39;m   struggling   with   it ,   whether   it&#39;s   physical   or   whether   it&#39;s   through   pornography ,   I   want   to   urge   you   to   flee   from   it .   Wake   up   and   recognize   the   devastating   effects .   It   is   not   worth   it .   And   you   have   the   name   of   Christ   upon   you .   You   drag   that   name   through   the   mud ,   you   take   the   cross ,   you   spit   on   it ,   you   trample   it   beneath   your   feet ,   you   say ,   through   your   actions   and   essence   it   means   nothing .   And   I   pray   God   convicts   you   today   to   wake   up ,   to   snap   out   of   it ,   to   remember   that   God&#39;s   given   you   all   things   that   pertain   to   life   and   godliness .   And   if   you   have   committed   adultery   and   you&#39;re   convicted ,   now   you   see   your   sin ,   there   is   forgiveness   for   you   and   the   Lord .   There   is   hope ,   there   is   restoration .   We&#39;ve   seen   guys   who   committed   adultery   against   their   wives ,   wives   against   their   husbands ,   and   God   took   them ,   restored   their   marriage ,   made   it   stronger   than   ever   before .   That&#39;s   what   our   God   does ,   so   let   them   do   that   in   you ,   amen .  
      </p>

        <cite>Ray Comfort</cite>
      <time>48:42</time>
      <p>
          No ,   funny   at   the   end   of   this   one .  
      </p>

        <cite>Emeal Zwayne</cite>
      <time>48:44</time>
      <p>
          Yeah   Well ,   maybe   not   for   this   one .   So   check   it   all   out ,   friends .   I   know   they&#39;re   people   that   are   heavy-hearted   now .   No   time   for   fun   in   this   LivingWaterscom .   Don&#39;t   forget   podcastlivingwaterscom .   Check   out   all   the   stuff   I   talked   about   at   the   beginning .   Thank   you   for   joining   us .   We&#39;ll   see   you   here   next   time   on   the   LivingWaters   podcast .   It   still   is   the   ultimate   cure   for   insomnia .  
      </p>