8 Lessons to Live Boldly for Jesus (Before It’s Too Late)

Are you holding back your light for Jesus? Are you feeling hesitant to share your faith or speak the truth because of what others might think? 

Inspired by Charlie Kirk’s faith and courage, in this episode, Hanaya shares 8 lessons that challenge Christians—especially young believers—to rise above fear, embrace their mission, and boldly live for Jesus in every conversation, community, and calling. If you’re seeking courage, clarity, and guidance to make your life count for God’s purpose and shine bright for Jesus, this episode is a must-hear.

What you’ll hear:

1. Don’t Waste Your Life
2. Endure Hardships and Conflicts
3. Weakness Is Strength
4. Trust the Process
5. Think Outside the Box
6. It’s Time to Stop Hiding
7. Find Your Focus
8. Your Voice Changes History

This clip honors the memory of Charlie Kirk—a man who recognized his calling to youth, education, and politics, and stayed faithful to it. He intertwined his faith in Jesus with his cultural and political engagement, believing that truth belongs in every arena of life. On college campuses, he challenged conformity and inspired students to think critically and live courageously for truth. An unconventional evangelist, Charlie didn’t preach from pulpits but reasoned, debated, and engaged the questions of young people on university grounds. A reformer at heart, he saw the church not just as an institution, but as Christ’s ecclesia—called to bring biblical clarity and moral courage to every sphere of society.

I want to be remembered for courage for my faith.
— Charlie Kirk (1993-2025)

We are called to live out our faith in everyday life—not just within church walls. Wherever we study, work, live, or spend time, those places are our mission fields. Yet too often, we’ve become convinced that as Christ followers we can be passive, keeping our faith private to avoid offense. We file into our churches and hide, as if our responsibility ends at the sanctuary doors. The greatest threat we face isn’t the depravity of the wicked, but the indifference of the faithful.
— Allen Jackson

Where are the people who are willing to be brave for King Jesus? Everybody likes to be liked. Everybody likes to be loved. But don't think for one second that you're ever going to get along with the world as long as you've signed up for King Jesus. You're not going to get along. So, find joy in it.
— Troy Brewer

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Transcript

SPEAKER_00 0:01

I have eight thoughts I want to share that I hope will both inspire and challenge you to rethink how you're living today. The first is this don't waste your life. Ferris Bueller said it best in a classic 80s film. Life moves pretty fast. If you don't stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it. Simple words, yet timeless. Life has a way of rushing past us, often faster than we realize. When you're young, it feels like you have all the time in the world, like there's always tomorrow. But blink, and suddenly, it's five years later. Blink again and you're 50 asking, where did it all go? What did I do with my one life? If I had it to do over again, what would I do differently? Right now, too many in our generation aren't thinking deeply. Scroll through YouTube, TikTok, Instagram, endless noise but little meaning. Eat, travel, buy, have fun, repeat. Style without substance, shallow living, shallow interest, no depth, noise without message, action without heart. And yet, deep down we know there has to be more. I'm 17, and whether I make it to 20, 60, or 80, it'll feel like it all flew by in five minutes. If I don't make the right choices now, I'll look back wishing I had. The last thing I want is to reach the end of my one-shot, never-to-be-repeated life, and say, that was a waste. Leonard Ravenhill once said, It's not the length of life that matters, but the depth. It's not how long we live, but how we live. We don't realize the opportunities we get, and when we finally do, they're gone. That's why the scripture says, remember your creator in the days of your youth. Most of us just want a normal, happy life, and honestly, I want that too. We expect things to be safe, easy, and comfortable. Jesus becomes little more than a means to an end. But the truth is, when you choose to follow Jesus, you are drafted into a war. He places a sword in your hand and commands you to fight. Your life is no longer your own. Your body is no longer your own. It is the temple of the Holy Spirit. You've been given a race to run, a battle to wage, a faith to keep, and a God who calls you to live boldly. God has a greater plan for us, beyond the small world of me, myself, and I. Don't wait until you're old and worn out. Start now while you've got strength, energy, and passion. We're seeds that God sows on earth. When we breathe our last, our books close. There's nothing more that we can say or do for Jesus. That's it. No more second chances, no more someday, just the legacy we leave. When we stand before Jesus, his eyes like fire, his voice like many waters, in that moment, nothing else will matter, but this. Did we know him? Did we love him? Did we do his will? Will eternity reveal the risks we took for him, or the comfort we chose instead? So ask yourself, what am I going to leave behind? What fruit will my life produce? Eternal impact, or just fading memories of wasted time? The second thing I want to say is, endure hardships and conflicts. Scripture makes it plain, all who desire to live a godly life in Christ Jesus will be persecuted. Jesus flat out said it, in this world you will have trouble. But he also said, Take heart, I have overcome the world. So don't be surprised when hardships and conflicts come. Instead, learn to carry the weight, learn to absorb the pressure. Faith isn't about escaping hardship. God's will may be for you to go through something, not around it. Sometimes your faith can't override persecution or difficulty. Christian persecution has surged around the world. Some believers risk their very lives for their faith. You might not face that level of danger, but you will face challenges, mockery from classmates, hostility in your schools, or resistance in your communities. Then there's the news media that thrives on fear. The news isn't mainly about keeping you informed, it's about making money. So even small stories are blown up and made dramatic, so you'll keep coming back. The daily reminders of rising prices, health scares, crime, and violence. It feels like everywhere you turn, there's another reason to worry. Don't let the headlines steal your hope. If you're not careful, all that constant noise can start to wear you down. It can harden your heart, make you cynical, and leave you drained. And you start to wonder, how can anybody actually deal with this world? Here's what usually happens when we get stuck in that mindset. We hesitate to attempt anything for God. We think, what's the point? People's hearts are too hard, the world is too messed up, and discouragement takes over. But regardless of what's going on in the world around you, remember, you're still accountable for numbering your days and accomplishing what God called you to do. It is here, in this valley of pressure, conflict, and fear, that we don't lose heart and fade from the race. Personal challenges remain, the world around us may not get any better, but through the Holy Spirit, we gain new strength. There are things beyond your control, and that's okay. Don't live scared, don't shrink back. This is your moment for courage. That's why Psalm 46 is so powerful. It declares, God is our refuge and strength, a very present help in trouble. Therefore, we will not fear, even if the earth is falling apart around us. Later in the Psalm, we read, Be still, and know that I am God. I will be exalted among the nations, I will be exalted in the earth. The Lord of hosts is with us. Think about your favorite movie or book. The characters don't always see what's happening behind the scenes. They don't know the ending like the author does. Sometimes they panic, doubt, or want to quit. Isn't that us? Like Frodo in The Lord of the Rings, our hope often fades because we fail to see God as the sovereign storyteller. God's the author, and we're the characters in his story. We forget that the author is in control. We live as timid and terrified characters like the story is up to us, when really it's not. God sees the whole plot, every twist, every page. The enemies are there by design, written long ago in God's book. They serve the story. Even the struggles in the story aren't random. David in the Psalms said it this way: You've kept track of my wanderings. You've put my tears in your bottle. Aren't they written in your book? This I know. God is for me. In God I trust. I will not be afraid. He said God wrote the days of his life before he was even born. That means the scary, messy, or boring parts aren't wasted. They all fit the story. All the seeming chaos has a plan and purpose, so start reading your life as part of God's story, not your own. He has traced out all your wanderings, gathered all your tears, and plotted all your scenes. He has a chapter in his cosmic book with your name on it. You're cast perfectly for your role. Only God knows the full glory of the tale he is telling. And he's already told us the ending: victory, joy, and life with him forever. When life feels like chaos, God is whispering, I've written this chapter too in my book. Trust me and play your part well. Now the third one is this weakness is strength. Jesus said, My Father is working, and I am working, and I do what the Father shows me to do. In the church, we often elevate leaders and expect them to hear God on our behalf. Instead of cultivating intimacy and trust with God ourselves, we lean on pastors, mentors, or friends to do the listening for us. But that's not their role. It's ours. Each one of us is called to walk with God personally, to develop our own unique relationship with Him. Yes, we can glean wisdom from others, but ultimately, we must take responsibility for hearing God and following His lead in our lives. We must own our calling, our assignment. God will place an envelope in your hand, an invitation to join him in what he is doing. Your heart may respond, Here am I, Lord, send me. But you may still feel weak and unqualified. And that's okay. God's strength is made perfect in our weakness. I think Jesus believes in us more than we believe in ourselves. He's trusting us because we've been given so much. But we don't always recognize what he has placed within us. The more of yourself you surrender to him, the more others will see him shining through you. Consider this profound truth. God has chosen the foolish things of the world to shame the wise, the weak to shame the strong, and the insignificant, to nullify the things that are. This isn't meant as an insult, but rather as a liberating revelation. It means that no matter how inadequate you feel, you are exactly the kind of person God delights to use for his glory. Why does he work this way, so that no one can boast before him? He wants to make it abundantly clear that our worth and effectiveness come not from our own merits, but from his spirit and grace working through us. This understanding frees us from the exhausting grind of performance and self-promotion. It allows us to rest in God's unconditional love and his purpose for our lives. You don't have to compare yourself and your assignment with others. You don't have to be hyper-focused on chasing validation. You don't need to audition for your worth. You don't need to hustle for God's approval. You already have it. Now you are free to live and do things for God, from love, not for it. The fourth thing I want to say is, trust the process. God can give you a dream. You may carry a vision, perhaps even a big one. But beware the temptation to run ahead of him and prematurely exalt yourself. Even if you're spiritually and naturally gifted, there's always more room for growth. In God's kingdom, there are no shortcuts. He refines and matures our character through the process he lets us go through. Tests and trials prove our faith and character. Like a gardener, God prunes us, not to harm us, but so that we can bear more fruit. As God stretches and expands you, you'll hit challenges that expose your limits. Mistakes, missteps, and blind spots will surface. But the key is to keep your heart grounded before God, walking in peace through the pressure. So endure the process. Cast your cares on him and let him transform your pain into strength. Hand it all over to God, and he will hold it. In return, he'll give you wisdom. Look at how David lived. Twice, he had the chance to kill Saul and seize the throne. Yet twice he said no, David didn't push. He didn't force it. He didn't obsess over the throne or scheme about how to take it. Instead, he humbled himself, stayed faithful in the small things, and let God be the director. God wrote the script. David's job was simply to play his role well. And because he trusted God to move the story forward at the right time, David didn't miss his destiny. He stepped into it. Here's number five. Think outside the box. Be open to new and creative ways of ministering, serving, and communicating God's truth. Expand your perspective. Think outside the box. God's vision is bigger than what happens inside the church building. See the world as your mission field. Jesus calls us to be salt and light in the real world. And that means going into all the world, into every system, into every place where people are hearing lies. Why? So they can see who we really are, break the stereotypes, and hear a clear reason for the hope inside us. Because the gospel isn't just about getting to heaven one day. It's about bringing God's kingdom into every area of life right now. A biblical worldview isn't limited to the church. It applies to everything, to how we think, how we treat people, how we create, how we live. The church isn't just a Sunday service or a religious club. It's Jesus' governing body on earth, chosen to bring God's truth and clarity into every part of life: school, friendships, sports, social media, music, even the conversations people are having about identity, justice, and purpose. John the Baptist wasn't killed for calling Jesus the Lamb of God. His enemies didn't care what he believed about Jesus. He was executed because his faith collided with culture and his bold voice was offensive. So don't be silent on issues just because they aren't overtly the gospel. Avoiding cultural issues under the banner of just talking about Jesus won't always invite opposition, but boldly applying God's truth, common sense, and wisdom to the moral challenges of our day often will. Still, silence simply concedes ground. The truths most under attack are the very ones we're called to defend. We must speak to the real issues people face. Find a way for your faith to intercept culture in a creative way, through art, music, science, politics, business, activism, debates, commentary, kindness, and the way we live both online and offline. Let your faith guide your actions so that your biblical worldview shapes society for the good. Most of us won't step into a debate arena and be like, hey, hit me with a thousand questions and I'll just be Solomon. Some people excel at handling a wide range of questions, and that's great. But it's okay if that's not you. In your conversations, you simply need to know how to hold your convictions and concepts sufficiently and be able to explain them when someone asks. So the challenge for you? Be bold, be thoughtful, be creative, and most of all, be faithful to shine his light in every space God places you. Number six is this it's time to stop hiding. Following Jesus means sometimes we have to challenge conformity. It means resisting the pressure to just fit in. It means saying no to the expectations of institutions, authority, or culture when they contradict God's truth. Sometimes breaking the rules is necessary for growth. For too long, many of us have kept our true beliefs hidden. We worry, if they find out I'm a Christian, if they find out I really believe what the Bible says, will they reject me? Will they laugh? Will I lose friends, the grade, the job, the approval? We don't want to be the weird ones or the outcasts, and so we play along. We compromise just enough, especially on cultural issues, so people will accept us. We act like we agree, laugh at the jokes, not at the opinions, even when deep down we don't. We stay quiet, we blend in. The short-term compromise often feels worth the long-term gain. We think, once I'm older, once I'm stronger, then I'll really stand for God. But here's the truth. If you wait, you'll never do it. The game never ends. You graduate high school, you go to college, you start working, and it's the same thing. The longer you hide, the harder it gets to stop. Silence becomes a habit. I decided. I'm not playing that game. Even if people don't agree with me, at least they'll know I'm honest, at least they'll know where I stand. So why are we so afraid? Because culture and institutions train us to either adopt the dominant view or remain silent. We're told to just go along, to maintain harmony, to not stir the waters, but that's not courage, that's conformity. And God calls us to something higher. Ask yourself, when your life is almost over, do you want to look back and say, At least I never offended anyone? Or do you want to know that your faith mattered, more than being liked, that your courage made a difference, that you lived for Jesus? Jesus said, If anyone is ashamed of me and my words, in this adulterous and sinful generation, the Son of Man will be ashamed of them, when he comes in his Father's glory. When Carrie Bowler, a 21-year-old Christian, stood on the Miss USA stage in 2009, she had already beaten incredible odds to make it into the top five. She was poised, polished, and just one question away from possibly winning the crown she had dreamed of her whole life. Then came the question: should same-sex marriage be legalized throughout the country? Carrie later admitted she knew what was at stake. She knew her answer could cost her everything she'd worked for. In that moment, she felt the weight of the world pressing her to compromise. But she also felt God speak to her heart. Who are you? What do you believe? Don't you dare lie right now. So instead of giving the safe answer, she gave the truthful one. I believe that a marriage should be between a man and a woman. No offense to anybody out there, but that's how I was raised, and that's how I think it should be, between a man and a woman. Thank you. The fallout was immediate. She lost the crown. She faced criticism and backlash. And later, when she asked God, why? Why did you make me go through this? She sensed him answer, because I knew you would be the one to tell the truth. Get ready, this is going to be a war, and you are my soldier. From that moment, Carrie resolved to stand firm, no matter what she lost, no matter what people said. In an interview, she said she would rather one day hear Jesus say, Well done, good and faithful servant, than, depart from me, I never knew you. We're called to be salt and light. You might not be on a national stage like Carrie was. But every day, in your school, on your social media, in your friendships, you face moments where you're asked, Who are you? What do you believe? And your answer matters. Don't compromise for applause. The goal isn't to be nice, the goal is to be good, and good people stand. Jesus himself wasn't always liked, but he was always good. Being good sometimes means disagreeing when necessary. And that's okay. Do it with respect. But don't apologize for the truth. You're not here to please the crowd, you're here to please Jesus. Of course, fear is real, but don't let fear dictate your voice. Courage is not the absence of fear, it's choosing faith in the face of fear. Paul reminded Timothy: God has not given us a spirit of fear, but of power, love, and self-control. It's time to stop hiding. Speak up, stand firm. If you're being punished for your beliefs, take legal action if necessary. You have rights, use them. Don't let anyone intimidate you into silence. Find your courage. Show up for yourself. It may cost you popularity, but you'll have to lead when you would rather stay in the back and watch. It may even bring betrayal. But if your purpose is bigger, you can handle it. The seventh thing I want to say is find your focus. Pursue single-mindedness. Find your focus in this distracted world. Cut out what's wasting your energy, whether that's certain habits, toxic people, or endless scrolling. By removing junk, you'll finally have space for what actually matters. Increase your knowledge, because knowledge strengthens courage. Don't defend your beliefs blindly. Study them. Take time to learn. Get into apologetics. Chase hard questions. Study what others believe. Be ready for their arguments. Don't just scroll TikTok and hope a meme educates you. Arm yourself with real knowledge and facts. Be ready, as Peter says, to give a reason for the hope that is in you, with gentleness and respect. Paul writes No soldier gets entangled in civilian pursuits, since his aim is to please the one who enlisted him. A good soldier isn't distracted by trivial pursuits, neither should we be. I think one reason we spend so much time on social media is that it fills a certain emptiness in our lives. It feels like a connection, but it's mostly a quick fix. It papers over the void in our lives. Just enough likes, just enough comments, just enough dopamine to keep going, but it doesn't really fill the void. Because you have these unmet needs, unmet potential, unmet interest. But we shouldn't avoid these platforms. There's a war of voices happening here. I would much rather see more Christians filling the space. So if you feel led by God to create something meaningful, go for it. Don't just consume, create. Let your motives stay pure and fill the emptiness with God's purpose, not with endless scrolling. Even if your channel focuses on other topics, weave your faith and values into some of your content, regardless of losing subscribers or facing negative comments. Take the hits. Don't make your channel all about yourself. Don't use it merely to showcase your talent or knowledge in other areas. That said, many of you may be caught up in it in unhealthy ways. When you stop relying on it, you'll start to feel the gaps in your life. But that's actually good. It means you now have space to fill them the right way. God made you for more. He made you to create, to build, to serve. You have more inside you than you realize. You certainly have untapped creativity, untapped resources within you that you don't yet know about, because you're essentially using that energy elsewhere. So build a meaningful life beyond the screen. Invest in what grows you, pursue alternatives, take up new skills, exercise, go learn new hobbies, join things right away, serve your community, get like really structured about your day, simplify your mission. Every day ask, how can I make Jesus famous today? This singular focus cuts through distractions and brings clarity to your purpose. And to be effective, start by putting your own life in order. Clean your house spiritually, because you cannot give what you do not have. If you want to bring Jesus's love and truth to the world, it has to start with you, living in his truth and his love first. That means repairing broken relationships, forgiving people who've hurt you, laying down addictions or habits that keep you chained, building a life of prayer, and letting go of the people or influences that drag you into sin. And finally, the eighth one. Your voice changes history. None of us is promised tomorrow. That's why the best way to live is to be spent in service to Jesus. Now, some Christians may criticize you for being too zealous, they may tell you to tone it down, but don't let that dim your fire. You know what the weakest way to live is? Hiding behind sarcasm and cynicism. It's easy to criticize from the shadows, but listen, in the end, it's not the critic who counts. It's not the person on the sidelines pointing fingers. The ones who count are the ones who step into the arena with Jesus. The ones who dare. The ones who speak the truth in classrooms, on college campuses, in workplaces, and online. Will it be hard? Yes. Will we make mistakes? Yes. But I'd rather stumble while speaking the truth than stay silent and safe. I would rather be remembered as someone who dared to live boldly for Jesus than as someone who blended in and wasted the chance to shine. We're not here to complain about how dark the world is. We're here to be the light. In your classroom, be the light. On your team, be the light. At your job, be the light. On TikTok, YouTube, Insta, wherever you post, be the light. What changes history is your voice. If your voice is taken away, you become ineffective because your words are never born. Think of Sophie Scholl, a 21-year-old student standing up against Nazi Germany and being executed for speaking the truth. In the courtroom, she said to the judge, somebody, after all, had to make a start. What we wrote and said is also believed by many others. They just don't dare express themselves as we did. On the morning of her execution, she said to her cellmate, How can we expect righteousness to prevail when there is hardly anyone willing to give himself up individually to a righteous cause? It is such a fine sunny day, and I have to go. But how many have to die on the battlefield these days? How many young, promising lives? What does my death matter if by our acts, thousands will be stirred and awakened? Among the student body, there will certainly be a revolt. With her legs shattered by interrogators, Sophie hobbled on crutches to the guillotine, the towering blade that awaited her execution. She died alongside her brother, both beheaded for daring to speak. Her last words were, the sun still shines. Sophie Scholl knew her death mattered because her voice was shaking people awake. History shows again and again that young people have sparked change because they weren't yet bound by fear, comfort, or cynicism. Their voices mattered because they brought urgency, moral clarity, and refused to accept this is just how things are. Even if they didn't always see immediate results, their courage often shifted the moral center of society. And that's what later made larger change possible. So don't waste your voice. Ask yourself, what can I do today that can change tomorrow? You might be walking a calling that no one understands, following a path that goes unnoticed, the purity that no one respects, the obedience that costs popularity. You don't need the world's approval when you are on God's assignment. The world fades, but your godliness endures. If you stand for Jesus, stand boldly, even when you stand alone. Let your life preach louder than your words. Don't trade eternal rewards for temporary applause. Don't exchange truth for what's trending, it's never worth it. Culture's opinions won't outlive you, but your faithfulness will echo into eternity. Choose loyalty, build a life of holy defiance, lead in truth, confuse the culture if you must. Your life is short, but it is not small. Make it count, for the only one whose approval truly matters. No matter what others think or say, every choice you make to honor God is seen by Him.

SPEAKER_01 27:03

How do you want to be remembered? If I die? Everything just goes away. How would you, if you could be associated with one thing, how would you want to be remembered?

SPEAKER_02 27:11

I want to be I want to be remembered for for courage for my faith. That that would be the most important thing. Most important thing is my faith.