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Ep. 21 - Archery and Faith: A Journey of Consistency

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Embark on an insightful journey into the heart of hunting and archery, where we promise you'll gain a deeper understanding of the role that consistency and experience play in honing these timeless skills. Ever wondered how to truly listen to the woods or find that perfect hunting spot? Our latest episode, "Archery and Faith: A Journey of Consistency ," promises to guide you through these questions and more. We underscore the irreplaceable value of firsthand experiences in nature, over technology reliance, with engaging discussions on trail cameras and e-scouting.

As we transition into the world of archery, prepare to be enlightened on everything from bow grip techniques to budget-friendly equipment choices. Sharing personal stories and real-life experiences, we tackle common archery challenges and explore solutions that can elevate your performance without breaking the bank. Whether you're a seasoned archer or a newcomer to the sport, our practical advice on maintaining and selecting equipment will resonate with anyone looking to improve their skills. 

Finally, our conversation takes a reflective turn as we draw parallels between the consistency required in archery and the journey of faith. Through thoughtful dialogue, we explore our beliefs and respect for people with differing viewpoints, emphasizing the power of authenticity and empathy. We share compelling testimonies of transformation and redemption, offering hope and inspiration for navigating life's challenges with faith as a guiding force. Join us for an episode filled with wisdom, practical tips, and heartfelt reflections.

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Hunting Consistency

Speaker 1

all right man, I feel more important now you know I try to mix it up, try to mix it up, that's good, there you go, all right. So, um, yeah, should be a good time. I see we're going to talk about arrows at some point and, uh, dub seems to be extremely opinionated on that, so I feel like we're gonna get him to talk today he seems fired up tonight.

Speaker 2

Yeah, I don't know.

Speaker 1

Yeah he saw that on the, on the sheet there and, uh, I don't, don't start clicking the pen and everything. We get in trouble for that. Well, we get in trouble for clicking pens and tapping tables and vibrating phones and stuff like that so all right.

Speaker 1

So so we got Brandon over here. He is running the show today, and by running the show, I mean he's pushing the buttons. One button, one button. We don't have our headsets on, so we have no idea if anybody's going to hear us or not, but we're going to talk to each other. And then we got Dub sitting across the way right here. Hello, that's all you're going to give people Is hello, yeah.

Speaker 2

And you got that big old energy drink and that's all you got is hello Liquid death. Why would you drink something called liquid death?

Speaker 4

It's just water. It's water with some agave and lime.

Speaker 2

Oh okay, all right, it's really good, I'm not going to try liquid death. Oh okay, all right, that's really good, I'm not going to try liquid death, I'm good, I'm good. I did get hit in the ear with a baseball today at my son's baseball practice.

Speaker 1

That's why we don't have headsets on.

Speaker 2

I might be a little bit more cuckoo than normal.

Speaker 4

That's scary, I know. I told Dub I didn't even know that was possible.

Speaker 2

I know I told I told I didn't even know that was possible.

Speaker 1

I know I told Dub I was like I don't have many more brain cells to lose. I don't have extras at all.

Speaker 1

So no extras at all, all right, so we're going to be talking about how you can be consistent with your hunting, be consistent with your hunting, and really what we're talking about is putting in the time. You know we talk we've talked before about putting in the time with practice and everything and what that looks like and why it's important. You know we spent a lot of time on that last last episode but we didn't really go into much detail talking about you know what practice actually looks like and then really go into much detail talking about you know what practice actually looks like. And then really, the other aspect of that is you know something that you're a big proponent of is just spending time in the woods, um, you know, so that was something that you were talking about before. Kind of we got started. So tell me a little bit about that what you encourage people to do, what you've learned by getting out there, what it looks like, what's the point, all that kind of stuff.

Speaker 2

To me it's just like with anything there's no replacement for experience and there's so much that you learn by just being in the woods, and so you know it's hunting um game other than deer, uh, turkeys, squirrels, whatever it is.

Speaker 2

But just being in the woods, learning the sounds, um, learning what the difference and a lot of people listening will have already done this but learning the sound, uh, the difference in the sound of a squirrel and a deer, you know something that's probably simple to a lot of people, but what's, what is that? And I know people who spend a lot of time in the woods could close their eyes and be able to pick out the different sounds that they're hearing. And I think that goes a long way just to being, you know, sharp, to learning the woods, to having good woodsmanship and really honing that aspect of your hunting. One example would be where I hunt there's a lot of planted pine trees, and I know turkey hunting especially, but also deer hunting. You have to start looking under the limbs of those planted pines before you ever round a curve, and the way I learned that was by getting busted you know right, yeah, and so you know, it's just some things like that I think are really important.

Speaker 2

I encourage my 14 year old a lot. Just go squirrel hunting, just go get in the woods and learn to be. Still learn to hide, you know at 14.

Speaker 2

That's pretty tough yeah, especially for him, like he's, uh, he's, he's, he's a little uh, rambunctious, so but yeah, I think I think those are the kind of things I'm thinking about is just there's nothing that is going to replace that experience you have being in the woods. The best hunters I know are usually people who have spent more time in the woods than anybody else, and it's the people I think of that are really really good at it, and it's because they've been there they put in time. It's not just time scouting, it's just time learning the woods.

Speaker 1

It's just you know, I think that. I think is that better. I think trail cameras have ruined people. You know now we sell trail cameras, we use trail cameras and basically everything we use is a cell camera.

Speaker 4

They're such a useful tool, but people get lazy from yeah, I mean no doubt, man, and it's.

Speaker 1

I mean I think they're awesome. There's some States that they're illegal. You can't even you can't use trail cameras anymore. I don't think we need to go to that extreme. Um, what are some where you can't use trail cameras period.

Speaker 4

Really. Yeah, I didn't know that.

Speaker 1

But I mean I don't think we need to go to that extreme, like I don't like government getting involved in stuff, and you know. So that's just my take on that. But I mean I really I think that and I say that because I've seen it with myself, you know, I've seen it where I'll put trail cameras out and you, and if I'm getting pictures, that's kind of what I'll base what I'm going to do stuff off of, whereas in the past, when I was younger, we didn't have trail cameras.

Speaker 1

When trail cameras first came out, there were some of them that had a freaking trip wire. The animal would trip the wire and that would cause it to take a picture you'd get one picture and it would. It wouldn't. It would be a horrible picture. Yeah, I mean, and um, I think there was some yeah, there were some where you had to take them in.

Speaker 2

We'd take them to walmart and get, get them developed yeah, I never used that type uh, I just didn't have them back then. But I've heard a lot of people talk about having to take them in and get the pictures developed and then you've got like 30 pictures of squirrels.

Speaker 1

Yeah, I mean, it'd be, it'd be terrible. They'd be terrible pictures, you know, because the trigger speed and everything was just, was just different. But you know, that's that's one thing that I've noticed, that I think that it's a great tool, but it's something that we lean on a little bit too hard.

Speaker 1

It makes it where you don't really get to learn your woods, you don't get to learn the property that you're hunting on. I think one of the most fun experiences that I've had hunting in the past five years was when we went uh, we traveled and went up to Illinois and we hunted on some public land and we did a ton of e-scouting before we got there we were on.

Speaker 1

Onyx and the whole group, we were all looking at stuff and we were dropping pins and looking at these different areas and looking at, you know, different topo lines and all this kind of stuff. And then we're on the way up there and one of the guys pulls it up because we're talking about where everybody's going to go the next morning, and one of the guys pulls it up and he's like he said, why is it red? And got these red lines through it. I said man, I don't know. I said that doesn't look good. And sure enough, the weekend when we were traveling up there, there was a special youth shotgun hunt okay all right.

Speaker 1

So everywhere on this public piece of property where that was going on, they closed it. Yeah, that sunday afternoon yeah, dark yeah, so virtually everywhere that we had scouted was now a closed area.

Speaker 4

All of our pens, absolutely irrelevant, every single one of them.

Speaker 1

So we got up there and also the campsite we were going to, which I was told was open. We pull up to it and the gates closed and it says we'll reopen in spring, gosh, wow. So we're up there. You know 9 o'clock at night, or something like that.

Speaker 2

And this is Illinois, right yeah, so it's not that far right, right, yeah, for sure.

Speaker 1

Well, we went there a roundabout way. We went to Arkansas first and did some waterfowl hunting and then went from there to illinois gotcha, and so we get there, you know, after dark, I don't remember what time it was, but it was after dark it was pretty late yeah, because we went to walmart like the first walmart we came to and went and bought our tags it was I mean, yes, it was.

Speaker 4

It was pretty late when we got out there yeah, when we got to our campsite it was probably like to our final camping site.

Speaker 1

It was probably 11 o'clock yeah 11 12 yeah, but anyway, um, so then we had to basically start from scratch. We went to the office of the, the property that we were at, and, you know, got them to show us on the map okay, these, these are the areas where you can hunt. And then we just went and figured it out.

Scouting for Ideal Hunting Spots

Speaker 2

Yeah Well, and that brings up another place where you really have to or have an opportunity to spend time is what you were talking about is like scouting off of the internet or off of an app like Onyx or you know something, and like when you're doing that, what are you looking for? Like when you're spending the time to prepare to go somewhere that maybe you've not hunted before or not hunted you know a lot? What are the kind of things you're looking for that would make you drop a pin?

Speaker 1

man, I'll tell you what. If there's one thing I can know about, specifically about whitetail hunting, I I don't know about anything else. You know big like elk or something like that. I just haven't done it, but as far as whitetail hunting goes, if I could only know one thing, I want to know where they're bedding.

Speaker 3

Yeah.

Speaker 1

That's what I want to know.

Speaker 3

Yeah.

Speaker 1

Especially in November. You know, that's just to me's that's what's more important than anything else, because that's, you know, you think about that first week or two in november. Yeah, the last thing on a buck's mind is eating right, they're just not going to that's why they look so bad in december you know, because they've gone for two or three or four weeks basically without eating and running and fighting and all this kind of stuff and um.

Speaker 1

So that's what I'm looking for. I'm looking for spots that are either really thick or um, like there was a spot that I found up there in one of the areas where we could actually hunt that looked like it was a clear cut several years before and I mean, you know what that looks like yeah clear cut.

Speaker 1

A few years later, you can barely walk through it's so thick, it's it's perfect bedding and, um, it was just on kind of like a little shelf, um, and it had a creek bottom on one side, then it had this big um ridge on the top side of it and then on the on the on the back side of it was just this, you know, just this valley, that, um, we went and set up in there and it was a beautiful spot, man, I just I thought, I thought that was going to be the spot where we got it done. Unfortunately we didn't right there, but that that was. Once we got in there, we started seeing a ton of sign, you know. So I mean, they were there. We just we just didn't hit it.

Speaker 1

And we we ended that hunt that morning a little bit earlier than I would have wanted to because one of the guys in our group he shot a buck that morning.

Speaker 4

So we went over to help him, I gotcha and. Cause those Illinois deer are not small. Yeah, yeah.

Speaker 1

Yeah, that's for sure. They are a lot bigger up there. So that deer was he was.

Speaker 4

Four and a half years old, I mean.

Speaker 1

I guarantee you, he weighed 250 pounds.

Speaker 4

He probably weighed more than that.

Speaker 1

But I mean, it was like we were not dragging him.

Speaker 4

Especially through the stuff that he had gone through man.

Speaker 1

So there was these trees up there. They were about as big around as this mic stand right here.

Speaker 4

Yeah, and they had like the biggest one was like this big and smallest one was like this big yeah.

Speaker 1

But they had spikes, they had thorns all the way around and they look dead. So I was like well, they look dead. So I was like well, we'll just knock them over and walk right through it Nah.

Speaker 2

No, they weren't dead.

Speaker 4

They're very much alive.

Speaker 1

I've heard of people calling stuff devil's walking stick. That might have been what that was.

Speaker 3

I got you.

Speaker 1

Because, dude, it was nasty.

Speaker 2

It was rough.

Speaker 1

I tried to push one over and I pushed it over and took my foot off of it and it shot back up and stabbed me right in the which I had long sleeves on.

Speaker 1

But yeah yeah, it was, it was, uh, it was insane, but um, but yeah, those are the things that I look for. I look for, you know, I look for um changes in topography. I look for roads and try to get as far away from them as I can. You know, if I'm going to be hunting on public land which is you know really probably where you're going to be doing your most e-scouting is when you're going to be hunting on public land yeah and I just I try to get away from where people are, because people equals pressure right um so, and then you know from there.

Speaker 1

You just, I mean, really it's a shot in the dark until you get boots on the ground yeah, so when you're e-scouting, do you use an app?

Speaker 2

or using google maps, or like what are you?

Speaker 1

I use onyx, okay um, I've used that for years and I I think it's the best tool yeah um, for you know, for that job, uh, I just it's easy to use, use. It seems like they're adding new little features to the toolkit there every time you turn around.

Speaker 2

Weather and different things like that.

Bow Grip and Accuracy in Archery

Speaker 1

Yeah, I mean and being able to pop into a 3D map and really look at what the tree cover looks like. Now, sometimes I will go, so, like on that spot in Illinois I did use Google Earth because you can go back and see what something looked like three years ago or six years ago or whatever, and confirm that it was a spot where they harvested a bunch of timber. It was a clear cut. So I mean, yeah, I think using a couple different tools, onx is my number one go-to.

Speaker 4

I use OnX probably twice or three times a week. I mean, I random stuff yeah, I'll use it.

Speaker 1

I mean, I used it today, I used it yesterday, yeah, you know, it's just something that I use all the time um so yeah, I was driving down the bypass.

Speaker 2

Um, that was yesterday and I started looking. I'm not gonna tell y'all where it was because I don't want anybody to go ask them before I do somebody's probably already hunting it. If you got five acres in Bullitt County, there's corn in a camera, so somebody's probably already hunting it, but uh, one of the things I like about Onyx is, with Apple CarPlay, you can actually hit Onyx and it'll pop it up right there on your your uh truck screen or whatever and so I did that just to see, like, who owns this property.

Speaker 2

It was two development companies, so I don't know how far I'll get with that, but I figure I try to.

Speaker 1

You know, run them down and might as well at least ask hey, you get a knock on that door yeah so, but I think that's such a valuable thing and I'm like you guys.

Speaker 2

The to me on x has been the um, the best one I've found here's some other ones that I've used and they're not.

Speaker 1

They're not bad, but I just I started using onyx a lot and I've just gotten so used to it that I'm just I know what to do to to find what I'm looking for, so that's just the one that I go with.

Speaker 2

And just to show you that I don't have brain cells to spare, I always heard of this app, onyx right, and I started using it. I was like Onyx why do they call it Onyx? And finally, I went to Kansas duck hunting and we got in there one day.

Speaker 3

I mean, there's just hundreds and hundreds of mallards coming in and everybody's like we were on the x today and I was like that's why it's on, there you go, and so, um, yeah, not, not the I've used an app called hunt wise before yeah, I used to use that too for the deer cast yes, actually works.

Speaker 1

Yeah, I don't like it.

Speaker 4

I haven't used it. I haven't had success with bucks with it in my personal experience, but with does it actually worked really well.

Speaker 2

Yeah, some of that I think you know it's all weighted Like the different, the barometric pressure, the temperature change, all of those things and some of that. I felt like they weighted too much, like it carried too much weight in the forecast of what the deer were going to do. But I mean, I know these are people who've been studying it way more than I have, but it just seemed like sometimes like a little bit of temperature variation would completely change the entire deal. And so I don't know, I kind of look at it like you know you can't kill them sitting on the couch.

Speaker 1

That's what I was about to say. You know where I've never killed a deer from.

Speaker 2

Yeah, my living room.

Speaker 1

That's right, we could, we could, but I haven't. As of right now, I have never killed a deer from my living room.

Speaker 2

I've never shot any out my back door either.

Speaker 1

Yeah.

Speaker 3

Just a few times, right either?

Speaker 1

yeah, yeah, just a few times right, but yeah, yeah, it's um, but I, I mean, I I think that you know, use the tools that are available to you, but nothing, absolutely nothing, takes the place of being in the woods yeah you know, because if you're not, if it's hunting season.

Speaker 1

You're not hunting you're definitely not going to kill anything yeah you know, and if it's not hunting season and you're not out there, you know learning the, learning the woods, looking at you know stuff that's going on, like you said, hearing, hearing what a squirrel sounds like running through the woods, because they can fool you. Yeah, and I'll tell you, what'll trick me more than anything is turkeys yeah, because that's tough to man. They'll just they, I guess they just I don't know why it sounds the same. They only got two feet, but it will sound so similar to a deer.

Speaker 2

And they're usually like you'll see them by themselves some, but there's usually more than one.

Speaker 1

So as they're walking.

Speaker 2

They're just making a ton of noise.

Speaker 1

Yep, that's right, that's right, but let's, let's look at that, that that practicing aspect of it. You know, I tell people all the time. I work with people every day on shooting their bow and so often, so often, I will see issues in the way people hold their bow.

Speaker 3

Yeah.

Speaker 1

I would say that is the number one issue with somebody being accurate or not is how they're holding the bow. And people will ask me all the time why do I shoot the bow? That I shoot, you know, and it's always. My first response is because of the grip right. Always, and that's that's what I'm looking at every time I pick up a bow. If I'm going to shoot a bow like I'll grab this, I'll grab this bow right here, maybe.

Speaker 3

Can you Maybe.

Speaker 1

Oh, there we go. So that bow right there, that is a Hoyt, that's an Alpha X 33. Yeah, alpha X, 33. So if you're not, when you go to grab that bow, like if you're over here, like I was working with a guy this week, yeah, and he really just like hooked his thumb so he's putting more wet, more of the pressure on his thumb than on the meat of his hand. No, so what's happening when you do that?

Speaker 1

is you've still got that muscle right there below your thumb right, that's one of the biggest muscles in your hand and you really want that on the back of that grip.

Speaker 1

The way he was shooting he had that muscle on the side of the grip so it was putting a bunch of you know, lateral pressure on that bow, essentially causing him to torque it. And, um man, we were struggling getting that bow tuned and he shot a bow for a long time. This was a new bow that he was getting this week and the bow that he had been shooting. I think he was trying to get that same feeling in his hand.

Speaker 2

Right.

Speaker 1

And when he moved to this grip with trying to get that same feeling. It's a bow that he has been shooting for several years. The grip has a really big bulge right there on it.

Speaker 3

Right.

Speaker 1

So he can probably get away with shooting that way. It's probably perfectly fine with that other bow, but with this particular bow if you're not, so most bows, most grips are going to have a good flat back right there okay so you see that big flat right section right there not rounded, it's not

Speaker 1

rounded. Now. It'll be rounded on the edges, just so it feels good to your hand, but it'll be flat right there on the back if you don't get that big muscle right there on your hand, on that flat part. Now some people get up in the dovetail of the bow almost like they're shooting a pistol or something some people will be down lower it.

Speaker 1

Really that is a personal preference kind of thing. But if if you're not on that large muscle in your hand, on that flat part of that bow, you're going to struggle with downrange accuracy.

Speaker 4

That's what I do, is I jam my hand as far as I can up into the grip.

Speaker 2

Gotcha.

Speaker 4

And then I try to put my crease of my hand right here.

Speaker 2

Yeah, so between your, just for people who aren't watching. Um, between your thumb and and forefinger.

Speaker 1

Yes, yeah yeah, yeah, so we are videoing the podcast because y'all been asking us to video, so we videoed. I don't know how it's going to turn out or not. We don't have somebody in here running the camera, we just got it set up and it's it's taking a video, so it'll be better than nothing one thing I want to add real quick this grip will never be as accurate as shooting off a bear riser never, never it just won't.

Speaker 1

So you seem really confident in that. I do. I'm very confident, all All right, tell us why.

Speaker 4

Target. People refer to it as feedback. Okay, hunting people refer to it as vibration. Yeah, you can feel what the bow is doing a lot better if you're shooting off the riser period.

Speaker 2

That makes sense I mean because there's nothing to take away the vibration or the feedback, whatever you want to call it, because you're just right on the bow and it responds to your hand better.

Speaker 1

Gotcha.

Speaker 2

That makes sense.

Speaker 1

So you're saying with no cushion there, you can be more accurate? Yes, a lot of target bows don't have a grip at all.

Speaker 4

And the white target bow, the Stratos, and now the Concept X. It's a grip, but it's like a plastic molded grip, but you're still touching the riser.

Speaker 3

Yeah.

Speaker 2

No, I mean that makes sense. It'd be like hitting a baseball with a bat that's got heavy wrap or something on it. You can't feel the vibration. I mean that makes sense to me, that you could feel what you're doing better without something in between your hand and the bow.

Speaker 1

Yeah, and I'd say one of the things that you need to look at when you're practicing is, you know, making sure your equipment is set up right first, that it's at the right draw length, that the sight, if it can be leveled, that it is leveled and then paying attention to your level when you're practicing. And then paying attention to your level when you're practicing and if you get the full draw and you see that your bubble is way over to the right or way over to the left, you know just when you naturally get the full draw if you see yourself having to do something to manipulate that bow to make it sit level then you need to look at, you know, possibly putting a back bar or a side bar, whatever you want to call it, sit level.

Speaker 1

Yeah, then you need to look at, you know, possibly putting a back bar or sidebar, whatever you want to call it on the bow. And so often you know guys that are hunting. You know they'll come in and they'll see that we have back bars available and they're just like I'm just going to be hunting with the bow, it doesn't matter. And sometimes you know, I'll go into the conversation with them about it. Yeah, I never want to make somebody feel like I'm trying to upsell them.

Speaker 2

Yeah, so, like for me, I'm not as familiar with bows as you guys are, so explain more like what a back bar is, what's it do?

Speaker 1

All right, so he's got one on his bow. Pick your bow up right there. So you've got that bar that comes off the side and you can adjust the angle of it.

Speaker 1

You can adjust the angle of it, okay. You can adjust, obviously, the weight that's on the stabilizer, just like you can with a front bar or front stabilizer, and it's really to, um, get that bow to sit level without you having to manipulate it at all with your hand. Cause if you're manipulating the bow, you're I would say, with 90% certainty, you're putting torque into the riser.

Speaker 3

Yeah.

Speaker 1

And anytime you torque the riser, anytime you torque the bow, it's going to show up downrange. You're going to see your arrow do something weird as it releases from your bow, or right before it gets to the target or something, and that's because you're putting torque into the bow, into the riser, as you're going to shoot. So that's really what a back bar or what a sidebar is intended for. Now, sometimes guys will do it like target guys. They'll do it because they just want their bow to be heavier.

Speaker 1

Yeah, because it helps them balance a little bit better or whatever.

Speaker 4

Um, I mean like your bow holds steadier, yeah, you'll see some guys on the target circuit that you know.

Speaker 1

There's one guy, individual and particularly. I'm not going to drop his name or anything, but anybody that's into archery knows about this guy. What does he call himself? The Hammer, the Hammer.

Speaker 3

Oh.

Speaker 1

There you go. He will run some of the absolute.

Speaker 2

You've got to have a lot of confidence to call yourself the Hammer.

Speaker 1

Oh he's good he's good.

Speaker 4

This year he had four bars Wow.

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Speaker 1

But I've seen him before Like he'll do YouTube videos when he's, you know, playing with his setup, trying to figure out what's going to be the best, and it'll look like this ridiculous contraption, like how are you even going to shoot that thing?

Speaker 3

Yeah.

Speaker 1

You know just all the stuff that's hanging off of it and he'll put blinders on his, on his, on his hat and stuff like that, which a lot of archers do, that, a lot of target guys do that. But um, it's just, it's comical to look at I mean it works because he I mean like I said he's, he won, he's really good he won um the tournament he was at, yeah, most recently, yeah, he's he is. He is definitely a pro shooter, there's no question about that For years.

Speaker 4

He's been a pro shooter for years.

Speaker 1

Yeah, he's like 7'1". I don't know how tall he is, he's big huh.

Speaker 3

Yeah, he's a big guy.

Speaker 2

Yeah, so the level aspect of it. So I would think that if you've got any torque and it's not level, it's going to be hard to even sight it in.

Speaker 1

It is. If all you're doing is going and shooting at 20 yards, you're never going to notice it. Any bow can shoot great at 20 yards. Sorry bow manufacturers, that's just the truth. Anybody can set up a bow and sight it in to make one pin work good. It might take you a little while right but you can get one pin to hit accurately, and I mean even let's say you torque a little bit, you know it might be off by an inch or so yeah at 20 yards.

Speaker 1

Well, you know, most people are going to be like, okay, I'm good, and then they'll go out there and they'll be in a hunting situation and they'll take a 30 yard shot or a 35 yard shot. And they'll go out there and they'll be in a hunting situation and they'll take a 30 yard shot or a 35 yard shot and they'll completely miss the deer and they're like what the heck right, you know, and the part that that is unfortunate to me is that they'll do that and then they'll gun.

Speaker 1

Season will come in and they'll put their bow away yeah because they're like you know, I just don't have enough range.

Speaker 1

You know I need to put some meat in the freezer, I'm just going to pull the rifle out and they'll give up on bow hunting because you know, really because they've never been taught how to go through and set their equipment up, how to shoot properly and everything. And you know, I think part of it is, I think, pride gets in the way, and I know that sounds like a negative connotation. I don't want it to sound that way, but it's hard for a grown man to come in somewhere and just say you know.

Speaker 3

I don't know what I'm doing.

Speaker 1

I mean, because that's essentially what you're doing when you ask for help is saying I don't know what I'm doing yeah. And what I would encourage people to do come in and see us, especially this time of year, or go into your local bow shop, if you're not here, and just say, hey, listen, can you?

Speaker 3

help me with this.

Speaker 1

You know any any bow shop worth their salt, whether they've got a range or not, they ought to be able to take time with you, especially in february and march and april, and may just take some time. Would you pay them for their time, you know? I mean, don't go in there and say, hey, can you do this? Well, I didn't buy anything, so I'm not going to pay you anything.

Speaker 3

Pay them for their time.

Speaker 1

If they don't have a rate for that offer them Say can I pay you $50? To spend 20 minutes with me and show me how to do this.

Speaker 1

Show me what I'm doing wrong, because I really want to figure this out. I'm doing wrong because I really want to figure this out. I would say nine times out of 10, they're going to do that Right. At least I hope they will. I know we will and we do it pretty often honestly. You know, because when somebody like we we don't paper tune bows for people, I don't believe in doing that, because I hold the bow differently than you hold the bow. Dub holds his bow differently than I do. So I may be able to pick up his bow right now and go shoot it through paper and get a perfect bullet hole, but I might pick it up and go shoot it and not get a perfect bullet hole and then him do it and it'd be perfect.

Speaker 1

And the whole point of doing a paper test is to make sure that that knock is, to make sure that that string is directly behind that knock right, to make sure it's not pushing it to the left or to the right and to make sure that that rest is where it needs to be, or that that d-loop is where it needs to be, that it's not pushing that arrow down or pushing that arrow up right. So that that's what we talk about when doing paper testing or doing paper tuning. The whole point of it is to make sure that that we've got that piece of equipment set up the way that it was designed to function and then from there start working on siding in and putting, putting the human aspect into it right. I mean, when you look at a bow, it's a really simple machine. I mean they look super advanced and, yes, they are hard to build and the things that they put into them.

Bow Selection Based on Budget

Speaker 1

It's not like anybody can go and do it Right, but at the end of the day it is a very simple machine. So start by making sure the machine is performing the way that it should. Unfortunately it doesn't have a check engine light, but if it did, there's a lot of people whose light would be on right right, because it's just not right, yeah, so and I think that's I mean whether you're 16 or 60 if, if something's not right, whether it's your equipment or your technique, it's not going to be enjoyable right, so it's going to be frustrating.

Speaker 1

So, just at best it's going to be frustrating, yeah.

Speaker 2

At worst you're going to put it down, yeah, and so regardless of age, like if you need help, just ask for help yeah, and and let somebody who knows and and I do that all the time, I come here and ask you questions a lot All the time, all the time yeah. I'm surprised you asked me to do the podcast.

Speaker 3

I'm surprised you wanted to see me anymore.

Speaker 2

But uh, but yeah, but that's been very helpful for me. Um, to admit like, and I told you guys before we started recording, like I know you guys know more than I do. This is the world you live in, so being willing to say what I need to do, you know and um I think about the elk hunt. If I had not asked for help, I don't know what I would have gone out there with. Yeah, you know, and so it's um, just to be able to enjoy hunting more you know, being willing to just say hey, what do you think about this?

Speaker 2

yeah, or how could this be better or what am I doing?

Speaker 1

you know, I think another misconception that people have is that to get into archery or to, or to, to have fun with it, or they need to spend thousands of dollars on their equipment Now listen, you can definitely spend thousands of dollars on archery equipment. There's no question about it. And are you going to be getting a better product if you spend more money on it Sometimes, yeah.

Speaker 4

Yeah, I think yes.

Speaker 1

But does that mean that you can't still go have fun doing it? You know we've got guys that are still shooting. You know a 15 year old hoyt right, yeah, and won't give it up. Yeah, they come in, you know, every year and they want us to go through it, make sure everything shooting like it's supposed to. Or we've got some guys like um, I've got a customer that has a switch back and you know, and he knows, he knows that people would give him anything.

Speaker 1

He asked for that bow right because it was just one of those bows that people fell in love with, you know. So it's a matthew switchback and he'll come in. You know, every couple years we'll put a new set of strings on it. We'll go through it, make sure everything's working like it's supposed to. You know, if we need something, we can always go to matthews and get parts for it.

Speaker 1

Um, that's one of the cool things about matthews is that if they ever made it, you can still get a part for it yeah um, so that that's pretty cool, that that you can still get parts for for anything that they've ever made, and um, you know just, I love seeing them shoot them. Yeah, I love seeing guys shoot those older bows.

Speaker 3

I don't I mean I don't think there's anything wrong with it, definitely not there.

Speaker 1

There comes a point in time where you've got an older bow and let's say, let's say you just picked up an older bow from a buddy or from your uncle or something like that. Well, if it needs something number one, can we get parts for it. Number two let's say it needs a string set. Well, I mean, you might be a couple hundred bucks in with putting a new set of strings on something and getting it retuned and all that kind of stuff.

Speaker 4

And a lot of older bows required a new cam. Right, yeah, and a cam is most or cams most of the time.

Speaker 1

Bucks, yeah, 100 bucks, you know it'll it'll vary a little bit, but let's say, let's say that there's nothing going on with the bow except you know it needs just some regular maintenance, a string and stuff like that. And we put all that stuff on there and then they go and shoot it for a month and a limb breaks and then we can't get a limb. Yeah you know, and it's like man, you have to ask the question. All right, when does it make sense to go ahead and buy a new bow?

Speaker 2

right you know, because if you, even if you don't want to spend, if you've got a 15 year old bow, yeah you can buy a brand new bow today for under a thousand bucks it's going to be better than that 15 year old bow yeah there's like there's a point where, maybe not year after year, after year after year I know people who buy new bows every single year, oh for sure, but the technology might not just go, oh wow from one year to the next, it might, but it may not. It's rare. But you get five, 10, 15 years in and there's going to be a big gap in technology.

Speaker 1

Yeah, it's pretty rare that you pick up a bow you know two years in a row and you're just like mind blown.

Speaker 3

Yeah.

Speaker 1

You know like if there's anything I could get the bow manufacturers to do, it'd be to stop making a new bow every single year you know, because it would. It would help bow shops from an inventory standpoint, it would help them from a retooling standpoint, would help them to be more efficient and maybe, maybe, drive some costs out of, you know, building a bow, because a lot of what, a lot of what goes into the cost of a bow, is their development of it.

Speaker 1

right, you know, I mean, man, they've spent millions of dollars yeah in every case up here on this wall yeah, to develop these things and, um, you know, the reality is bows are probably not going to go down in cost, right, you know?

Speaker 1

I mean it's like once you, once you, if you give a mouse a cookie right, yeah yeah, so um, but yeah, I mean I I think that there are a lot of options in the market right now. You know, for bows that are in the 700 800 range that are fantastic bows that if you're looking to get into it, you can grab one of those bows and go to town with it. You know, like I'm shooting a bow right now. That retails 750 yeah, and I love that little bow.

Speaker 1

You know, um, I I don't know that that's the bow that I will continue shooting, but I wanted to shoot one because we sell a lot of them, so I wanted to shoot one and what's that about it's?

Speaker 2

So I wanted to shoot one and see what it was all about.

Speaker 1

It's the Darton Consequence and man, they knocked it out of the park with that bow. I mean it is a blast to shoot and it's easy to shoot. I like the grip on it. It's just a metal grip, shooting off the riser, shooting off the riser. Essentially it's got little side plates on it, that's just a metal grip shooting off the riser shooting off the riser. Essentially it's got little side plates on it that say darton on it.

Speaker 3

But yeah, you don't touch them.

Speaker 1

Yeah, you don't. If you, if you're touching, if you got side plates on your bow and you're touching them when you're shooting, you ain't doing it right right, yeah, come, come see y'all.

Speaker 2

Yeah, um so, uh, from my experience with it, you know, I came in and I had a bow that was probably 10 years old. It was a Matthews. I liked it, but I knew the technology had kind of passed it.

Speaker 2

And so I came in and you guys set me up with a Hoyt. It was kind of a mid-level bow, I think it was maybe $800 or $900. Of a mid, mid-level bow, I think is maybe eight or nine hundred dollars. And man, when I started shooting that bow, compared to the one I had absolutely loved, it right, made the biggest difference in the world. Um, I passed that bow on to one of my sons who was getting more involved into it and I came in and you got me.

Speaker 2

Well, I had the rx7 which got confiscated by my one of my other sons and so then you helped me with that, uh, that rx8, and so that's what I'm shooting now. And you know, I remember coming in here and you handed me three bows, and I think one was a matthews, one was a hoyt. I don't even remember what the other one was. That day we were putting all that together.

Speaker 4

Probably would have been like a Bowtech yeah, Bowtech. Or.

Speaker 2

Prime, but I remember you saying you know, shoot these and for me that Hoyt the RX-8, just felt more comfortable. You know, when it was at the point where it would break, it just felt smoother to me and other people, I never have a different opinion, but for me I tried to go back and shoot the um, I guess, mid-level Hoyt that I had and for me there was a really big difference. Yeah, and so well.

Speaker 1

So, like I said earlier, I never, I never want anybody to feel like I'm up selling them or something yeah so one of the first questions we ask somebody when they come in and they're looking at new equipment, one of the first questions we ask is is what's your budget? What do you? Want right you know, because I don't want to. I don't want to put a flagship bow in somebody's hands and then they, they don't have the budget. Yeah, if what they're wanting to do is just get into it or they're wanting to.

Speaker 1

They're wanting to get an extra month out of hunting season, so they want to. They want to get a bow yeah, you know and it's like, okay, well, if that's what you want to do, that's that's what we're going to set up right because if I put a flagship bow in their hands and then they shoot, they shoot it yeah and then they. You know I really didn't want to spend that much money and anything they shoot after.

Speaker 2

That point is not going to feel right, it's not going to feel right. It's kind of like, if the car dealer can ever get you to drive the vehicle, yeah right, it's harder to say no. Yeah, absolutely, like you said, you can be successful with anything and I've got friends who shoot bows that are, you know, like you said, 10, 15 years old, right, um, but it's really all in what you, what you like and what you're comfortable with. But I just know, when I came in and you guys helped me transition from two or three different bows, I could really tell the difference when we once we got to like a um, I guess, a higher level bow for me yeah, there's, there's, there's definitely a difference. Once we got to like a I guess, a higher level bow for me.

Speaker 1

Yeah, there's definitely a difference, you know. I mean, it's like I said, you can get into a really great bow for, you know, under a thousand bucks and really be fine with it.

Speaker 3

Yeah.

Speaker 1

You know, and as long as you don't shoot that other bow, you don't know what you're missing Exactly.

Speaker 2

Right yeah.

Speaker 1

But if you ever shoot that other bow, it's like you. You want to do whatever you got to do to buy it. And I never want to put somebody in that position, and the reason I do that is because I want people to be good stewards to their resources.

Speaker 2

No, I good stewards to their resources now I think that's very respectable that you try to give them something that's within their range and that they can be happy with and still be successful with yeah, listen from a from a business standpoint.

Speaker 1

I would love to only sell flagship bows yeah that's it. But in reality, I want to see archery grow. You know, I want to see the pie of archery grow, and whatever we've got to do to do that that's what I want to be doing. You know, I want to see this industry continue to do well. I want it to get to a point where it's really thriving.

Speaker 1

Yeah, it to a point where it's really thriving, yeah and um. I think the only way that that's going to happen is when bow shops help it along right because there's only so much a manufacturer can do, because they're really not touching the consumer yeah right. So I think it's. I think it's really important that the way we interact with the consumer, as an extension of all those brands that that we represent is is a big deal so I think that's great.

Speaker 2

Um I'm asking a lot of questions because again I like to pick your brains on these things, but, um, which doesn't take, that I'm kidding, be gentle. So, um, when you think about, I think about, and I go back to sports a lot, it's just where I spend a lot of time. Um, but I think about with a baseball swing. You know you start with a good foundation you start.

Speaker 2

You know we're going to build this thing from the bottom up with a baseball swing, so we're going to start with where's your weight? You know how are you loading your hands or your hip or whatever it is. So the very first thing then you would look at is grip.

Speaker 1

Yeah, and you know how? How? How somebody is holding the bow is everything.

Speaker 3

Yeah.

Understanding Bow Accessories and Techniques

Speaker 1

And, and I tell people all the time, and, dub, I've, I've heard you doing this. I don't know if it's because you're doing what dad's doing or what, but I tell people all the time get your, get your hand, excuse me, get your hand where it needs to be before you draw the bow right you know, don't draw the bow and then try to start moving your hand around, because I mean you can do that, but to me you just need to.

Speaker 1

You need to get your hand where it needs to be and then draw the bow. You know, because to me, I just think if you wait until you got pressure on there, you're not going to get it where it needs to be, you're not going to do the same thing every time, and it is about repetition, it's about being able to do the same thing over and over and over again, so it's same thing over and over and over again.

Speaker 2

Yeah, um, so it's, it's, it's like. You know again. Another analogy I think of is if you lay the foundation of a house out of square, you can make it look good and make it work, but you're going to be fighting it the rest of the time you're building.

Speaker 2

Yeah, that house and so like. That's what it makes me think about when you say that is, if you don't get that part right, then the rest of what you're doing you're going to be fighting through it to try to get a good result yeah, go, go, build a good bit of, build a shed in your backyard, without a square and without a level yeah, yeah, not gonna be good and don't don't come talk to me while you're in the process yeah, that's right, that's right, right.

Speaker 2

so what would you guys say is next, after that, the most important thing?

Speaker 1

Man, I would say, next, after that is having a good release. Okay, what were you going to say? Dub Rest? Yeah, the rest is important.

Speaker 4

Because it's touching your arrow. Anything that touches your arrow is so important.

Speaker 1

But I would say this I would say that a whisker biscuit is fine.

Speaker 4

Yes, a true whisker biscuit is fine.

Speaker 1

Yes, A true whisker biscuit is fine yeah, you know I don't like the ones that are the little brushes. That's like the most impossible rest to tune in the world. It's very bad. But I mean a whisker biscuit is fine, like if you're going to buy a cheaper bow, like if you're going to come in here and you're not going to buy a package. Put as much of your budget as you possibly can into the bow Right, because that's kind of like that foundation. Put as much as you possibly can into the bow and then next year come back and get a new rest.

Speaker 1

Sure, or you know, at christmas, you know, or for your birthday, ask for a gift card to a bow trader or to your local bow shop and go in and get you a new, a new site or something. You can always change your accessories out yeah there's always going to be new accessories coming out that you want to.

Speaker 1

you know that you're curious about what is this, you know, should I, should I put this on there, you know? So always put as much as you can into your bow so I get what you're saying about. The rest is really important, but I think, even more important than that is your release.

Speaker 3

Yeah.

Speaker 1

Because if you have a release that's inconsistent, I don't care what you're doing.

Speaker 3

Yeah.

Speaker 1

You know if you're shooting with a little like listen. There are tons of releases on Amazon right now that you can go and you can. You can, you can buy that release and prime will get it to you and, you know, next day or maybe next month at this point, yeah.

Speaker 1

They're kind of weird right now, not not what they once were, but um, that $12 or $19 release is going to give you problems. You know now I'm not saying that you need to spend $400 on your release. You don't have to do that, you know. Just because we do. You know, don't do what we do when it comes down to stuff like that.

Speaker 4

There's a $400 release. I didn't know that. Yeah, sure there is. It's just for certain people that come

Speaker 2

in yeah everybody else is 200 like brandon it's just people like me those extra grace required, people that's right egr yeah egr, that's so uh no, I mean but.

Archery Release Techniques and Practice

Speaker 1

But I mean I. I think that I think that having a good, high quality release is a big deal, um, and then knowing how to actually use it. You know, so often we'll see people they'll just slap the trigger Like I mean they'll. They'll be a full draw, they'll be doing everything sufficient. I'm not gonna say perfect, but they'll be doing everything really good. And then they'll reach up and they'll just pop that trigger and it's like what are? You doing? I mean, I've literally asked people that before.

Speaker 4

What are you doing? Yeah, I mean, I've literally asked people that before. What, what are you? What did that thing say something?

Speaker 1

about your mama or something? Why are you punching it like yeah, every time? My brain is just yeah, yeah, but I can't do that you know, but it's, I mean, that's, that's one of the things, that that's pretty important and if if you hadn't realized already, this is something we can talk about for a very long time.

Speaker 2

Yeah, but it. But it's good, like if we're going to spend the time, and we talked about this last week, I think, which last week seems like it was a year ago, I don't know about that for y'all, but like for me it seems like did we record this month.

Speaker 3

It was a month ago.

Speaker 2

Yeah, it really was, it was last month.

Speaker 3

Yeah.

Speaker 2

But it feels like it has literally been a month and but, um. But it's really good because, again, if practice doesn't make perfect perfect, practice makes perfect right. So if something's off, then again you're not gonna get better, you're just gonna get frustrated right yeah, so I think all of this is great. I know we don't have so much time, but, um, and I'm guessing, difference between, uh, uh, like a wrist release and a thumb release preference.

Speaker 1

You know it's preference is a big part of it. Um, I think you well, I think you can be accurate with both of them. Yeah absolutely, um, I think that I think that what, what I've shoot the most now is a, is a thumb release, or a handheld release and it's just because I've gotten really accustomed to it.

Speaker 1

I fought it for years. I didn't want to shoot one, but with working in the bow shop and being here and just needing to draw a bow, it's pretty aggravating to have to strap a watch on your hand every time you need to do that.

Speaker 4

Yeah, I just reach in my pocket, yeah, so I just keep one in my pocket.

Speaker 1

I mean, I keep it in my pocket all the time I'll catch myself at church with my release in my pocket. I'm like what is wrong with me? Why do I have this in my pocket right now? But anyway, yeah, I think it boils down to personal preference. But if you're going to do something like that, making sure that that that you really learn how to use it the right way and that, however you're doing it, you're able to to repeat it.

Speaker 1

You know, I mean, I say that so often. I get sick of hearing myself say it you know, but if you can't repeat something you know it's, it's, it's going to be bad, absolutely. It's going to be inconsistent if you can't repeat what you need to do.

Speaker 2

That goes back to another sports analogy I use a lot when I'm trying to help kids with baseball. Feel what you're doing, right now. Feel it and then repeat it, feel it and then repeat it, feel it and then repeat it, and I think I guess that's that's the same thing with shooting a bow is, you know when you, when you get it right, feel what you're doing so that it can become repeatable.

Speaker 1

And that's why that grip on the bow is so important to me, because I the last thing I want to be thinking about when I'm in a hunting situation is is how I'm holding my bow yeah.

Speaker 2

And if I see myself having to do something to manipulate my hand or something to make sure I'm holding the bow right, that thing's out yeah, I'm not shooting it, I will not one of the things at practice today before I got earholed by the baseball um I was working with several kids on was I'll tell them no thinking in the box, like once you step in the batter's box. No thinking Like at that point you've done all the work, now it's time for your body to just respond. At that point, look for a good pitch to hit and hit it yeah.

Speaker 2

Because if you get in there and you can see some of them, like they're literally, their lips are moving where they're trying to think about what they're doing, and it's hard to hit that way and same thing if you're in a hunting situation like you need to have done the prep so that your muscle memory takes over at that point and um yeah, if you're a dude you can just go into your nothing box real quick yeah, exactly, yeah we're good at that that exists women don't believe that it exists, but it exists.

Speaker 1

I've been in there like a couple times while we've been talking.

Speaker 2

I've seen you kind of just drift off, kind of your head just turn away from everything. But anyway, I think all of that is super helpful. At what point does where you anchor come in?

Speaker 1

as soon as you draw the boat yeah, yeah I mean that's very very important, it's everything. And I I'll tell people I don't care where you anchor, it doesn't matter to me. I mean and truly it doesn't I don't I don't care if you're sticking your thumb behind your neck or right or your finger up. You know, I really don't care, I just want you to be able to do the exact same thing. So the finger up your nose.

Speaker 2

I really don't care, I just want you to be able to do the exact same thing. So the finger up your nose is okay.

Speaker 1

I've seen it before. I don't think it was intentional, but I've seen it before and we kind of had a little laugh about it.

Speaker 4

The one thing that is very I don't want to say very bad, but is inconsistent. When you anchor is some people use their fletching as a kisser button.

Speaker 3

Don't do that, which I don't like kisser buttons.

Speaker 4

I don't like kisser buttons either.

Speaker 1

If you're going to use something, use a nose button. I've set up a bow for somebody before and they wanted a peep and they wanted a nose button and they wanted a kisser button. I'm like dude. Is there something else we can put on this string?

Speaker 1

I don't like anything on my string. I want to peep and that's it. But yeah, it's, and kisser buttons had a place at one point in time right, and I'm making thousands of people angry right now but I mean, it's like once you got a peep, there was no reason to have a kisser button anymore. Yeah, you know, that was part of the reason that you had. That was for when you were shooting without a peep yeah but that's just my opinion.

Speaker 1

Some people they are so used to it, yeah, that they want it. And you know what. We have them, we install them, we sell them, you know whatever, that's fine.

Speaker 2

I think, if it makes you more confident then, use it, but, like you said too, it's going to be different for everybody. I guess I think too. Going back to just keeping it simple, the more simple you can make it probably in anything, I would say the better.

Speaker 1

Yeah, I don't like weight on my string, so if I can do something to take weight off my string, I'm doing it. Yeah, so that's just. That's my take.

Speaker 4

If you didn't know, kiss your button actually slows your bow down boom tremendously per second, and is it really that much?

Speaker 1

and oh yeah, I tested it it's.

Speaker 4

it's a pretty substantial amount and metal D loops.

Speaker 1

Slow your boat down too, yeah, yeah. Those stupid things are heavy. There's actually several manufacturers in the industry that make those and I don't know why, you know how that got started or whatever, but it's weird, yeah. But yeah, they're heavy.

Speaker 4

Trying to get you really sawn when your target bug's in front of you. Ting Ting, ting, ting ting.

Speaker 1

Yeah, yeah, weird yeah but yeah, they're heavy trying to get you really song when your target bucks in front of you yeah, yeah it's.

Speaker 2

It's weird, but yeah um, anyway, well, that's good. I mean, I think all of that's helpful. I mean it's helpful for me, uh, to hear a lot of that, and I've been bow hunting for a good while, you know, and. But I think there's always room to learn, um, and usually I forget more than I learn.

Speaker 1

So it's good to do it again, so you got to keep learning.

Speaker 2

Yeah, because you're going to keep forgetting. So no, I think you know, talking and looking at that, that there's really no replacement or substitute for putting in time.

Speaker 1

You know, with all of that, yeah, you can't get away from it. But making sure you can't get away from it, I mean you. You can't get away from it and like, like you said a while ago, if you're practicing, but if you're practicing wrong, you need to get away from that.

Speaker 2

Yeah, it's just ingraining, I mean.

Speaker 1

I'll have times where I'll go out and I'll shoot, and I'm having a bad day and I'll just stop shooting, Absolutely. And I really want to shoot.

Speaker 3

Yeah.

Speaker 1

You know, there'll be times where I just really want to go shoot my bow for an hour.

Speaker 3

Right.

Speaker 1

And I'll go out and I'll start shooting and I'm shooting bad, yeah, I'll just stop.

Speaker 1

Yeah, because I know I'm going to develop a bad habit if I do it, because I'm going to be trying to fix whatever's happening and I know my bow is like it's supposed to be so I know I'm the problem you know, and I'll sit there and fight it for a little bit and then I'll just be like, nope, I'm not shooting today yeah, so yeah, I've done that with with my youngest son hitting like all right, we'll come back tomorrow yeah, you know yeah, just just forget.

Speaker 2

Forget what you just did and we'll come back tomorrow. It is frustrating.

Speaker 1

You know I'll be coaching kids and they'll be having because they had a rough day at school or something yeah, I just get where they can't shoot and I'm just like let's go back here and look at why. Timing on your bows and perfect important right, yeah and I'll show them how to put their bow in a bow press and and we'll.

Speaker 1

We'll work on timing, the bow and how to look at that and how to use the draw board and stuff like that. Because if you, if you sit there and practice and you're doing something wrong, that your first, your first kind of knee-jerk reaction is to start moving stuff on your bow. Yeah, and that is not a good place to be. Now, if you go out and you're shooting and you know everything is fine in your head and then you're shooting and something's not right and you want to start making some adjustments, then that's fine.

Speaker 3

Yeah.

Speaker 1

But if you put two or three arrows or two or three groups together and everything looks good and then you start shooting, bad, just stop yeah just quit.

Speaker 1

You know that's good, that's, that's what. That's what I would tell people, because, man, I've seen, I've seen and I have done myself where I will. You'll be out shooting and something doesn't feel right. Or you're not hitting where you want to be hitting and man you't feel right, or you're not hitting where you want to be hitting and man, you'll start tearing your arrows apart, not breaking them, but ripping the fletching off of them and rebuilding them, putting new knocks in and all this kind of stuff, and and in all reality, there was nothing wrong to start with yeah, you know

Speaker 2

but no, that's really good. So ready to transition this thing.

Speaker 1

Let's do it, let's do it. You know, I'll say one more thing from a woodsmanship standpoint. I've spent a pretty good bit of time in the woods with Mr Charles, and he turned 87 in January. He is so particular about how he does things when he is in the woods and it is so cool to watch like he'll. He knows that deer will walk down, fire breaks yeah all right.

Speaker 1

So when he crosses a fire break he has a board, like he has a spot on our place where he crosses a fire break every time he goes hunting yeah so he's got this board. It's like a. It's a piece of decking board, five-quarter board, it's like 10 or 12 feet long or whatever. He put wheels on both ends of it, okay, and he will pick it up and roll it across the fire break and then walk across the fire break on the board and then pull it back across the fire break.

Speaker 3

Yeah.

Speaker 1

I mean, he is so particular about how he does everything and he's like that because he's been hunting for so long. It's something he learned, yeah I mean that caused him to do that and he, he's, he's watched deer go to wherever he walked and put their nose down to the ground.

Speaker 2

Yeah, turn and walk the other way.

Speaker 1

That's right right I mean, that's how that happened and just spending time out there with him and watching him do some stuff, you know, watching the way he responds when, when he, when he kills a doe, and watching him praise the Lord when he does it. I mean, man, it's so cool, I mean it's just thinking about it right now is like man, how do you get there? You know you've killed your umpteen hundredth deer with a bow and you still are undone and praising God when you're going to pick that thing up.

Speaker 2

That's just really cool and it's kind of like if you lose that, then what's? It's not what's the point, but I mean, I mean a little bit like you don't ever want to lose that excitement, you know, and just that I've got a mentor.

Speaker 2

He mentors me, as in the church, you know, and he's like that. He's in his late 70s and he is just as excited about the Lord right now as he was 30, 40 ago, if not more so. And to see someone who is at that age, who still has that fire and passion, um, for god and to do the work of god to me, I'm like that's how I want to finish so what do you think causes people to be like that?

Purpose, Perseverance, and Diversity in Belief

Speaker 1

because we've seen. We've seen both extremes right where somebody will just get worn out basically and it'll show itself in all kind of aspects of life. But from a relationship with God standpoint, I've heard people say I served when I was younger. I'm just not going to serve anymore.

Speaker 2

Yeah, I think a lot of it's perspective um it's perspective on kind of purpose. Honestly, you know, a lot of people feel like you know they're in their mid-60s or whatever and I've done my time and now it's time for me to kind of sit back and rest and let other people do it.

Speaker 2

But to me that's like. That makes me question like well, why were you doing it to start with? Because we don't want to do it? Because we're doing our time? It makes me think about the older brother in the parable of the prodigal son who was so upset when his younger brother was welcomed back home. And the father is like you, you've been with me the whole time, everything I've had is yours. Why do you? Yeah, but he the.

Speaker 2

The older son's comment was I've been slaving for you all these years yeah you know, and I think a lot of people look at their relationship with God and even serving God and serving in church or serving in the community or just serving the Lord every day as they go through life. Sometimes I think that's what happens, is it's more of I'm slaving versus I get to serve, and I think that really affects you know, the perspective.

Speaker 2

And so a lot of people, I think, don't just retire from work, they retire from living, not just living for God. They might still live a moral life and that kind of thing, but maybe not serving God the way they. They have opportunity. So and and yeah, just not, yeah, so, and you know, just not. And bible, you know it talks about um in galatians. You know, don't grow weary in doing good. In due season you will reap a harvest right. And keeping that perspective, that, as long as there's breath in my body, god has a purpose for me here on earth wasn't it joshua?

Speaker 1

that was like he was one of the spies that went in and he saw this, this land filled with giants, part of it and and um that he was part of the group of spies dozen spies or whatever it was and and they all went back and there was two of them that said hey, we got this, lord yeah the lord said this is ours, we know where to go. Now, let's, let's go get it. And you know, the short version is they didn't, yeah, that liquid death got him.

Speaker 2

So uh dub just had to go to the restroom, or either he got mad and left. Yeah, one of the two, but yeah, so I had a squirrel moment, yeah, and then, and then 40 years later.

Speaker 1

So I so presumably he was in his forties you know when they went, went in and did that recon mission. Right 40 years later, they've taken the promised land uh, or at least no, it was Caleb.

Speaker 2

It was Caleb. It's one of the most awesome parts of the Bible.

Speaker 1

So then Caleb goes to Joshua and says hey, remember, god said this would be mine where I went. I'm going to go and take it.

Speaker 3

He wanted it.

Speaker 1

He was 80 years old he wanted to go and drive those giants out. I mean he said I'm just as vigorous and strong. I'm just as strong. I'm just as vigorous and strong. I'm just as strong. My eyes have not grown dim. I want to go and do this because God said and man.

Speaker 2

That's one of the coolest stories. It's one of my favorite passages because it gives me goosebumps thinking about it, because Caleb's in his 80s and he's like give me my mountain, he's ready to go. He's like give me my daggum land, man. I've been waiting for this for 40 years and I love that. That's such an awesome picture.

Speaker 1

Yeah, for sure Now. So we talk about archery and we've been talking about all these different things and me saying I don't care where people anchor, as long as they do the same thing every single time.

Speaker 1

Man, I don't care where people anchor as long as they do the same thing every single time. Yeah, you know which? There are some things that are going to be, that are going to lend themselves more to being repeatable and being easier to do over and over again, you know. But then we look at, we look at our relationship with God, and Jesus said that he was the way, yeah, the truth and the life right.

Speaker 3

Yep, he was the way, not one of the ways or a way.

Faith, Authenticity, and Imperfection

Speaker 1

Now, why do we as Christians, why do we believe that and how do we interact with people that don't believe that? You know, I think that that's something that is important for us to do. You know we live in this culture where things can become extremely polarized. You know where all my friends look the same, all my friends talk the same. You know all my friends are bow hunters or whatever, and you know that's not the way God intended the church to be right. We're not all supposed to just look the same. You know there's going to be a day where all of God's people who have believed in him believed that Jesus was who he said he was and accepted the free gift that he offered of salvation, that there's going to be people from every tongue and tribe and nation in heaven.

Speaker 1

And they're all going to look different. That's right. And that's cool, I'm ready. But when we look at our friend groups, do all of our friends look different? Are we only going to be friends with people that believe the same things we believe?

Speaker 3

Yeah.

Speaker 1

You know, and one of the places that I've seen, that you know show up, is in political beliefs.

Speaker 2

Right.

Speaker 1

You know it's like Democrats and Republicans can't be friends with each other.

Speaker 3

Yeah.

Speaker 1

And that drives me crazy yeah, it is.

Speaker 2

It's so polarizing in the political world right now where you can't have an opinion that differs. If you're not all in this one like basket of belief, then you don't have a place. You know, and I look at that, and I saw a video clip of ronald reagan in a debate. I think it was against maybe walter mondale, maybe I could be getting that wrong, but in that they were questioning reagan's age and his comment was I, you know something to this effect. I promise that I will not use his lack of inexperience against him.

Speaker 1

Yeah, yeah, yeah, or I won't use his youth against him. And lack of experience.

Speaker 2

Yeah and so, but, and then you know, I think it was Walter Mondale. He's over there laughing at what Reagan says, and so it wasn't this thing where you see today, where people are at each other's throat all the time, they were actually able to sit up there and laugh, even in this huge moment. Yeah, even though their, their thoughts and their beliefs were a little different. Um, I think, when it comes to faith, you know the the challenge with that is there is one way, and so being able to convey that in a way that someone can hear, and certainly the gospel, at times is going to be offensive, but if it's offensive, I don't think we have to make it that way.

Speaker 1

Yeah, it doesn't have to be offensive 100% of the time.

Speaker 2

Yeah if it's offensive, it's because it calls us to, like we talked about earlier, admit that we need help.

Speaker 1

Yeah and yeah yeah, I think that's a good point. You know, our, our, our speech is supposed to be seasoned with salt. Yes, to cause people to want to know. Yeah, well, you know why we are the way we are right, um, you know, and, and, just like I said, I'm, I'm, I'm ambassadors for all these brands that are represented on this wall.

Speaker 1

Back, here, I need to do things that put their products in the best light all the time, and they all have their pros and they all have their cons, but, you know, my responsibility is to share what their pros are and why it would be a good decision to use, to, to use any of those or choose to to have one or the other. And, um, you know, I think that the same holds true with how, how I interact with people, about sharing my faith. You know, it's something that we do every day. As often as we get the opportunity, we're sharing our faith with people, and that does not mean we're beating people over the head with a Bible Right? You know, you can share your faith with somebody without ever mentioning the Bible.

Speaker 3

Yeah.

Speaker 1

You know, I would say it's easier if you talk about scripture, it's easier if you talk about a story that's in the Bible, and I would also say that you know that opportunity is going to present itself. But if you walk around being a jerk all the time, you're never going to have a chance.

Speaker 1

Part of that, yeah you're never going to have that chance, wouldn't you say that wes? I mean, and you know, most of the time in here we're dealing with people that are happy, they're excited, they're getting, they're getting, uh, they're doing something that is a hobby that they enjoy doing, you know. So it gives us an opportunity just to talk with them and, um, you know, I I think that there's something to be said about that. And then you know how, how we share stuff with people. I think it matters. How you treat people matters. And listen, I'm not going to do the right thing 100 of the time.

Speaker 2

Yeah, I mess up every single day, for sure right and um.

Speaker 1

Thankfully, that's not what christianity is right it's not saying, hey, I'm perfect, you're not. That's not what church is. You know, it's not a building full of perfect people, because if that's what it was, I ruin it every time.

Speaker 3

I go.

The Truth and Offense of Scripture

Speaker 2

Yeah, I think about Jesus even telling the disciples to beware of the yeast of the Pharisees, and in that he's talking about the hypocrisy Pharisees were the religious rulers amongst the Jewish people and he tells them you know, do what they say, not as they do. Now, think about how much the word hypocrite gets thrown around in church. But I think to me and this is just my thought, I think a lot of times that word is misused because a hypocrite is not someone who's imperfect.

Speaker 1

A hypocrite is someone who's imperfect but claims perfection, and so, literally taken from a word that, in greek, was used originally for actors in a play right that would play more than one part right and they would have a mask over their face and they would play more than one part right, and so ask over the face, and they would play more than one part.

Speaker 2

And so they played the hypocrite. Well, what were they doing? They were some one person, but they're pretending to be someone else, and I think to me it's important to make that distinction that you're not a hypocrite because you're imperfect. You're a hypocrite when you're imperfect but you have an air of perfection, or you actually claim like I've got this figured out Right, yeah, yeah.

Speaker 2

And so I think that's important for us to understand is like God doesn't call us. He calls us to be perfect, as he is perfect, but the realization is that is, I need help, right, because I'm not that, and I think that Jesus, when he said that, is trying to get people to realize all right, there's something more. I do need a way to guide that I can't provide myself.

Speaker 1

Right, because if we could have done it, we would have done it a long time ago. Yeah.

Speaker 2

And again it goes back to that Galatians chapter two, where it talks about you know. If we could be saved without you know, in our own righteousness, then Jesus died for nothing, died in vain.

Speaker 3

Yeah, right, and that's.

Speaker 2

that's tough to think of, but I think you know, and the passage that we're looking at is John 14, 6,. You know where Jesus answered Thomas, who said Lord, we don't know where you're going, so how can we know the way? And Jesus said I am the way, the truth and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me. Most offensive passages for people in our world right now, because nobody wants an absolute truth that doesn't line up with their truth yeah, wes.

Speaker 1

Why do you think that people are offended by that in your eyes? Um this is the part where I'm forcing the talk there you go probably because they oh sorry, I fidget when I get nervous.

Speaker 4

There's nothing to be nervous about.

Speaker 1

You're just talking to me and old Brandon over here.

Speaker 2

And not the millions that listen to this podcast. One or two, that's it.

Speaker 1

One or two Million, just one or two.

Speaker 3

Just one or two.

Speaker 2

Not millions, just literally one or two Right mama and you know, daddy no, well, yeah, maybe my daddy.

Speaker 1

Yeah, okay, all right, there you go. That's the two um probably because they're lazy they want an easier way they want to be able to come up with their own way yeah or just say you know what? God created me, I'm, I'm his yeah I'm his child and and everything's gonna be good.

Speaker 2

Yeah okay yeah, I think that's good. You know, I see a lot of it as too, where you know, you hear this a lot now, well, your truth is your truth and my truth is my truth and like that doesn't even make sense, like there's been families and friendships shattered over that crap right there.

Speaker 1

Yeah, you know, I mean it's it, it's it's absurd yeah it is absolutely absurd that somebody would would think that, well, that's your, your truth. No, it's not my truth, it's the truth.

Speaker 3

Yeah, that's right.

Speaker 2

Well, and you look at it today and there's so many. It's such a pluralistic society and what I mean by that is it's like there's so many different types of thought. I think about where Paul was, where he went into Athens and he's like I see you're very religious. I even saw, basically, a shrine set up to an unknown God. He said well, let me tell you who this unknown God is, they had altars to everything.

Speaker 2

But we're kind of that way today is that everybody kind of builds the God that they want him to be, because they don't want to look at scripture and say this is an absolute and um. So it's just easier to kind of go with the flow of you, you have your truth, I'll have my truth, and kind of like what I was saying, it's like we'll just let that work for us. But reality is it doesn't work and the reason it doesn't is because nobody's done, nobody else has done for us what jesus did. And I think that's the hard thing is for people to realize that there is one way that there is no other option, that there is absolute truth.

Speaker 2

you can't say there isn't absolute truth, because if you say there isn't absolute truth, you're establishing an absolute truth, so you're contradicting yourself. And so you look at that and there has to be a standard. And people say, well, all roads lead to heaven, or all roads will lead to the same place. And I'm like, how can they, when they go different directions, if they contradict themselves, how can both be true?

Speaker 1

Well, why is it easier to accept an untruth or a half-truth versus something that's proven to be true?

Speaker 2

I think it's because it's comfortable. It's comfortable, it's not polarizing. If I just normalize someone else's truth, then I don't have to take the chance of offending them. I don't have to take the chance of being criticized so is it that we're so scared of offending somebody?

Speaker 2

I think that's part of it, yeah, and then I think, honestly, the church and believers we haven't done ourselves any favors and really representing jesus in a positive light in many cases. Okay, so what people have seen of christianity you know has been more of. I'm just going to throw it out. There is what so many people have seen of christianity I mean there's places where they're two, three generations removed from a Judeo-Christian background, so they haven't heard the things we've heard.

Speaker 2

They didn't grow up in the Bible Belt and so what they know of Christianity is, you know, this pastor of this church, megachurch and whatever was caught embezzling money, or he was caught having an affair, or he was you know those different things, and so that becomes well, that's those christians again, you know, or, um, it's the, the christians who do have that mindset of self-righteousness, and so they do this off-putting to people.

Speaker 2

And a lot of it, I think, is people don't want to hear the truth of the gospel because we haven't represented it very well the, the, the culture has known so much more of what we're against than really what we're for, and I think that is a huge problem in the church. Is man, like God is for us, right? He sent his son because he loves us. He sent his son even while we were enemies of him, when we had set ourselves against him. He made a way for us through Jesus, and that's the thing that I think is really important is to be able to convey that in a way that is honest and forthright. But also the good news and so. But you can't have good news without bad news, and the bad news is none of us deserve to spend eternity with the father, none of us deserve to spend eternity with the Father.

Speaker 1

None of us, and so, but the good news is, he made a way for us to you know, I think back to another time, another generation, and all they talked about was the bad news.

Speaker 2

Yeah, and I mean even thinking back, like into the 1700s. I mean, one of the most famous sermons ever written was Sinners in the Hands of an Angry God by Jonathan Edwards. And so there is the reality that God's wrath fell upon sin and there will be a judgment one day.

Speaker 2

But the great news, the best news that human ears have ever heard, is that God made a way for us to be saved from that. And, um, you know, it's one of those things where, gosh, I look at the cross and I look at what Jesus did for us, and why is he the only way? Again, no one else has done for us what he did and what you think. Well, what did he do? Well, he lived a life we couldn't live. He went to the cross, which was even in the Old Testament. It talks about anyone who hangs on the tree, which means cross, whatever, as you look forward, is cursed.

Speaker 2

So he became cursed, so we could become blessed in the presence and the purpose and the power of God, and so what's incredible, though, is that to think about this and this is mind-blowing, it's mind-boggling Jesus didn't just die for my sin or your sin. He died for all of the sin that has ever been committed, is being committed and will ever be committed, and so and all of God's wrath towards that evil which is what it is, if you really call it what it is fell upon him in that moment, Right, and I think about him in the Garden of gethsemane and him asking god if there's a plan b, could we do that?

Speaker 2

and he specifically says take this cup from me right and that's referring to the cup of god's wrath that bitter cup that he is and he he was. He knew that, as bad as the crucifixion was physically, he knew that what he was about to endure, as far as the wrath of God falling upon him for every sin that was ever committed and would ever be committed, and the separation from the Father that happened in that moment, was going to be so much worse.

Speaker 1

Well, he knew that he was about to experience complete separation from.

Speaker 2

God.

Speaker 1

Right.

Speaker 2

Which he never had Ever.

Speaker 1

Yeah, you know, and that's what he wanted to. Yeah, I mean, jesus the man wanted, didn't want to go through the pain and the agony of it, but Jesus the God didn't want to go through the separation from God, and I mean God literally turned his back on him when that wrath was poured out on him because he can't look on. He can't even look on sin. That's how holy God is.

Speaker 2

And what's crazy and so cool to me to see this and makes me so grateful for what Jesus did, is that there was so much wrath and judgment poured out upon him that even creation responded Right Like there was the earthquake. The sky went dark, um, and you think about those types of things that the earth literally split open and because of the wrath of god falling upon him in that moment and this moment that had been, you know, prophesied, forecast, foreshadowed throughout all of history, and in that moment, all of it fell upon him so that it wouldn't fall upon us, who would just believe and call upon his name and receive, like you said, that free gift.

Speaker 2

So incredible to think about that. And you know to see, he did that. And even those who were made righteous you can go back and read this in Genesis but like Abraham, and it was just because he believed God Right and he trusted so it's always been by faith but for them their sin still had to be paid for ultimately. And Jesus took that sin, and it wasn't like the little sins we think about, like oh, I told a little white lie, it was like the grossest sin you can imagine All of it. And he died for it and took the wrath.

Speaker 1

Hey, he died for that little white lie too, absolutely, you know.

Speaker 2

they would have sent us to hell just as much as anything else.

Speaker 1

I'm talking about busted the gates.

Speaker 2

Yes, yes, as much as anything else I'm talking about busted the gates off of hell, yes, yes.

Speaker 1

So I think that it's important that we don't get into a trap of weighing sin, because sin is sin in God's eyes and some of it is more offensive to us. And who are we to say, man, that person is so much worse than I am, we're all worse, it's all ridiculous. So you said earlier that the church, meaning us, is bad about saying what we're not for.

Speaker 1

That being the message of what we're not for, and we should be a little bit better about what we are for. What are some of those things that we should be better about communicating to the world about what we are for?

Building Strong Families and Priorities

Speaker 2

I think that the message of love grace that you're never too far gone to be for God to save you, forgive you, restore you, mend you and it all what's required of you is to receive and just to turn to him. I mean, that's literally what he wants is for us to turn and come to him versus running from him, and to be able to get that message to people that it doesn't matter where you've been, what you've done, who you've done it with, god's arm's not too short to save and Christ paid the price for those sins. And I think you know God, through his intervention into our life, through the power of the Holy Spirit, opens our eyes to see that. And that's the message, I think, the whole message. If you don't get the whole message of the darkness and the light, then something's missing the gospel without sin isn't good news.

Speaker 2

But the gospel without hope is just a partial gospel. Yeah. It's not even the gospel. It's because there's no good news.

Speaker 1

Yeah, you know, I think it's important. The practical things too, right? I mean, like I am for families.

Speaker 3

Yes.

Speaker 1

I am for family. I think family is the building block of any society. I think I could go anywhere in the world right now and if I could find a way to communicate with anybody anywhere in the world, I could talk about how they could do things to make their family stronger, to make their family relationships more healthy, and they would be happy to listen to that. Yeah, and that's what God is about. God is about the family, that's the first thing he ever, the first institution that he ever put in place, was the family.

Speaker 3

That's right.

Speaker 1

You know, and so I think the church should be about making strong families, making strong dads and making strong mothers and making it that that relationship is is extremely important. Yeah, like you, can't, I can't, I'm not going to say it should be the priority. Our priority should be our relationship with God.

Speaker 3

Right.

Speaker 1

And this weird idea that you can have more than one priority is is is ridiculous A priority. You can have one priority and that's it. You can't have 10 priorities. If you have 10 priorities, you're just running through life not knowing what you're living for.

Speaker 2

Yeah, you know if everything's important.

Speaker 1

Yeah, a priority means it comes before everything else, right, right, I mean that's literally. If you break the word down, it means you're putting this before anything else yeah so you can't like as a company. You'll see a company say one of our, one of our priorities or our core priorities are this, and they'll have 10 bullet points on a PowerPoint or something it's like what are you?

Speaker 1

talking about. So what you're saying is you really don't know what you believe. That's what I take away from it. So our priority has to be our relationship with God, but one of our big things that we need to be about is the family, about marriage. It has to be a big deal and I think if I'm going to look at how we behave as the church talking about us, I'm not talking about a building with a name on the front of it.

Speaker 1

I'm talking about the church, the big C, the people. Then how we treat marriage is a big deal. Absolutely and everybody's looking at that.

Speaker 2

Yeah.

Speaker 1

If all the marriages of believers look the same as the marriages of unbelievers, what are we representing?

Speaker 2

Yeah, and going back to the foundation, I think the challenge for for Christian marriages that was a diet Coke, by the way, but the challenge for Christian marriages is oftentimes they're built on the same foundation as a non-Christian marriage, and oftentimes are even built upon a foundation that, uh, you know is incorrect, and so, again, you end up with something that is hard to sustain or built on, built on their kids. It can be built on a lot of things, yeah.

Speaker 1

We'll see that a lot of times where, where a relationship is built around the kids and then when, when the kids fly the coop.

Speaker 3

It's like you know what do we do now you?

Speaker 1

look around. You don't even like the person that's in the room anymore.

Speaker 3

It's like man. How did that even happen?

Speaker 1

yeah, you know how, just like we go back to that, that archery thing, or to the hunting thing, we're we're saying get in the woods and be intentional, or get out there and shoot your bow and be intentional and if you see something's not right, well, figure it out.

Speaker 1

Don't rock on for 20 years and not address a problem, you know, because you don't want to offend your wife, or you don't want to offend your husband, or you don't want to pick a fight or something. Well, if you don't want to pick a fight, do it in a way that doesn't pick a fight. You don't want to pick a fight or something. Well, if you don't want to pick a fight, do it in a way that doesn't pick a fight. Sure, you know, I mean you got to be able to talk about things.

Speaker 1

Yeah, I mean, sometimes my wife will bring up stuff to me that I don't want to hear, you know, and sometimes I react instead of respond. Yeah, you know, I mean, I am guilty of that and I hate it when that happens, and it usually results in an apology at some point. You know where I go to her. Or I go to my family and look and say, look, I really screwed this up I shouldn't have said what I said, or I shouldn't have done what I did, or whatever you know whoops yeah whoops, um, but.

Speaker 1

But I think that when we're looking at those things that we should be communicating, that we're about, you know, it should be evident in the way that we live. It should be evident in how we, how we, respond to things. It should it should be evident in the way we respond to loss. We don't know how to respond to loss, whether it's loss of life, loss of a job, loss of a child, of a spouse, a spouse that graduates to glory sooner than we thought she was going to. We don't know how to respond to it. And we don't know how to respond to it because we never talk about it. That should be something that we celebrate. Mourn, yes, we should absolutely mourn, because when that person leaves, there is a void in our lives. There is a. There's a void in our lives that we have to learn how to, you know, not cope with it, or, or, or, or, you know, make it go away, as fast as we possibly can, right you shouldn't just oh, move on and business as usual, Everything's fine.

Speaker 1

Well, no, dad's not here anymore.

Speaker 3

Yeah.

Speaker 1

You know we we have to life's going to be it's never going to be the same again. Life's going to be different now. But how do we, how do we do that? You know, and it's going to be different. It's going to be different. It's going to be different for everybody in the family. It's going to be different a week after and it's going to look different five years after.

Speaker 3

Right.

Speaker 1

Right, but how do we do that? In a way that we're saying, I believe, that when she took her last breath here, she took her first breath in heaven.

Speaker 2

Right and.

Speaker 1

I'm going to celebrate that and I'm going to be okay with the fact that it was God's plan that she's no longer here with me. You know, but it's also his plan that I'm still here.

Speaker 3

Yeah.

Speaker 1

So what am I supposed to be doing? How am I still supposed to be growing, how am I still supposed to be a functioning person and not just cordial with people? But, still loving my neighbor.

Speaker 3

How do I do that?

Speaker 1

And I think it's just something that we don't do.

Speaker 2

We don't talk about yeah, and those things are so painful and hurt so much, but ultimately our hope is in heaven. Our hope is in Christ. Our hope is in something that is unchangeable.

Speaker 1

I just think we have to remind ourselves of that often I think we do too, and I think we need to remind ourselves of it before it ever yes, it's our door. Yes, if we're not living in that way. That's like if I if I were to go pick up one of these bows right now.

Speaker 1

Let's say it was still hunting season and I went and picked up one of these bows and I went over there and I picked up a site and I got my release and I got my arrows and I went to the woods. You know what? I'm probably not going to do very good.

Speaker 3

Yeah.

Speaker 1

I mean I might, I might do, okay, you know, let's say I take a shot or two and make sure I can at least hit something, but reality is that I'm probably not going to be successful. Right, because I wasn't ready. I wasn't prepared for it, and lack of preparation causes panic.

Speaker 3

Yeah.

Speaker 1

So if we're not prepared to do these things, like we go to church every week and we talk about how we believe all these things, like we go to church every week and we talk about how we're, you know, we believe all these things, we talk about these things that we believe and we talk about, okay, we don't want to behave in this way because that doesn't reflect what we believe. Or you don't want to do this because, man, you could experience the wrath of God if you do this right.

Speaker 1

I mean, that's what we were talking about a few minutes ago the sinners in the hands of an angry God. If you do this right, I mean, that's what we were talking about a few minutes ago the sinners in the hands of an angry God, or whatever the name of the sermon was. But how do I? How do I prepare for every part of life the way God wants me to do it? That's what I want to try to communicate to people. You know what? We're getting ready to go into our eighth hunting season.

Speaker 1

And I am. I am preparing to go into that eighth hunting season with this bow shop and I'm so, I'm so thankful that we get to do it. I am, I'm excited about it. Um, you know, I look forward to it I look forward to coming to work every day.

Speaker 1

I enjoy what I do. God could take this away tomorrow. Sure, you know. I mean, he could literally take this away tomorrow, or I could make a bad choice or something, and it it be gone. It could go away. And then what do I do? Do I stop praising God because I don't feel like it went the way that I wanted it to go?

Speaker 1

No, I can't just praise Him. I can't be like man. God showed up. Look at this, we got a new building and it's this brand new stuff. And he showed up and showed out. Well, I better be ready to say the same doggone thing if this place burns down tonight. And I better be able to really say the same thing if it burns down tonight and then my insurance company comes and says hey, you know, your alarm system didn't work the way it was supposed to, so we're not covering this you know what I mean.

Speaker 1

That would really suck.

Speaker 3

Yeah.

Speaker 1

I'm just going to tell you that would really suck, because there's a lot of stuff in here, that would just be gone, Right, but I'd still. I still got to praise God in that. Yeah, I got to because I said I have trusted him with my eternity. How in the world am I going to be in a place where I'm not going to trust him with today and tomorrow?

Speaker 3

Yeah.

Speaker 1

And that's what I'm saying when I get mad at him or when I say things that I shouldn't say, or by, or I behave in ways that I shouldn't behave. That's what I'm saying is, I don't trust him.

Speaker 3

Yeah.

Speaker 1

That's what it really boils down to and that that'll drive people away from God faster than anything. Yeah, you know, if I say by my actions or my words that I don't trust him, they're going to be like I'm out out. Right, john, don't trust him. You know, after all these years he's been saying how much he trusts and all this kind of stuff. And then you know, the crap hit the fan and this is what happened. I mean, that's a big deal, right? Um, sorry, I'll calm back down.

Discovering Truth and God's Grace

Speaker 1

That coat kicked in really quick, um, but I mean I just think that when we talk about that, we should be talking, we should be communicating the things that we're for. I think that it really causes us to do a serious evaluation about what are we for. You know, what are those things that we're for? Yep, and okay, are the things that I'm for? Do those line up with God, line up with god if I'm going to be a man after god's heart, what does that mean?

Speaker 1

yeah you know, because who he said that about was david and david boy he had a lot of he made he made some mistakes, but I mean he made.

Speaker 1

he made some big mistakes and there were consequences for it. Yeah, you know, and there were a lot of consequences for it. I mean, he didn't get to build the temple that he wanted to build because of the blood on his hands. You know, he lost a child because of his behavior and the things that he did, you know. So I just look at all of those stories that we have in scripture to see you know. So I just look at all those stories that we have in Scripture to see you know, if we don't do things God's way, what it's going to look like my salvation is going to be intact. I never have to pray like David prayed where he said God, don't take your spirit from me.

Speaker 1

I never have to do that because Jesus settled that and that's done. That part's done right. Amen, praise the Lord, we can turn it off right there.

Speaker 2

Yeah, yeah, absolutely.

Speaker 1

But how do we get into that place where we evaluate what we're for and make sure it lines up with what God's for, and then we know that we're being his ambassador, not just by going around telling everybody what they shouldn't do, right? So that's what Dub would have said, but I was stepping over him.

Speaker 2

You're reading his mind. I turned my mic up and he just didn't get to put that out there. No, I think that's good, because, you know, if our beliefs don't line up with our actions, then there's something, there's something's off you know and we're we're being guilty of coming up with our own truth.

Speaker 3

Yeah.

Speaker 1

Right.

Speaker 2

Right, and you know, and, and I think that comes back to really realizing that our view of God has to be shaped by scripture, not by what we want God to be.

Speaker 3

because if not, we don't really have anything to stand on.

Speaker 2

If he's the God of our creation and not the God of the Bible, then it's kind of like a cosmic Santa Claus. We just kind of made him up and made him what we want him to be, and it's certainly not what he is. And I just think about that man, because a lot of what you said, like, is so true. But it is challenging at times, you know, and I think that's why we have to consistently do what we're instructed is to set our minds on things above, you know, to live in that mindset and really to realize that our hope is in heaven, our hope is in Christ, our hope is that our names are written in heaven, you know, and that we are. We have that confidence as children of God. And again, we have that confidence because of what Jesus did for us. Otherwise there'd be no reason for confidence you know, so I think that that's that's so important.

Speaker 2

You know, and you know, know as as abrasive as sometimes it can seem, you know, and as narrow minded as people can say it is, there is one way to heaven and it's through jesus. But I tell people a lot of times it may seem narrow-minded, but it's a lot broader path than there was before.

Speaker 1

Oh yeah, you know it's broad enough for the whole world to fit through it.

Speaker 2

Yeah, and I think that it's described as the narrow path, not because it's so hard to get down, because Jesus says that his burden is light, but because not very many people choose to go down.

Speaker 1

Yeah, yeah, and um very few believe.

Speaker 2

Yeah.

Speaker 1

I mean, that's just the reality of it.

Speaker 4

So I was at a Bible study a couple of weeks ago and the guy who was leading it pulled up the statistics of what it was, and it was like Christians, or claim to be Christians, had gone from like 70 something percent down to like 50 something percent and then atheists went up from like 15 percent to I think it was like 37 percent crazy well and in the US and what's cool, though, is that god is still saving people, though right and like I think that's something that we have to have confidence in is that the gospel still answers the greatest need that humans have absolutely, and so the greatest, the the biggest problem we have is sin.

Speaker 1

Yes, that is, that is it. It's not financial issues, it's not economic problems, it's not geopolitical unrest or anything like that, it is sin.

Speaker 3

Yeah.

Speaker 2

And when you look at it and realize that that problem's been solved through Jesus and that he is still saving people. I had a guy come up to me after church this past Sunday and he said man, can you help me understand what's going on with me? And I said I mean I'll do my best. And so he was like three days ago I was an atheist, didn't believe in God. And he said I was in my shower and he said I just had my phone playing on youtube and so it was just kind of throwing up different random videos and stuff like that. And he said a video of phil robertson came on and he was talking about the importance of family and he was talking about how poorly he had led his family early on but how, when he came to know Christ, it changed all of that and he began to be the leader God wanted him to be.

Encountering Faith and Redemption

Speaker 2

And this man told me he said in that moment, in my shower, by myself, there was a presence that came over me, that was like it was tangible, and he said it was something I've never experienced before. And he said but all I could do is sob. And he said I'm literally in my shower crying my eyes out and he's like had been to church a little bit as a child, but he's like, okay, is this what I've heard people talk about? He's almost like an atheist going is that you god? And so it just kind of opens him up to this place of going.

Speaker 2

I haven't believed in god, but something just happened yeah and so he said he called his brother-in-law, who was a believer, and his brother-in-law, who was a believer, and his brother-in-law was trying to walk him through like the Lord's just kind of pursuing you, I mean the only explanation is the Holy Spirit.

Speaker 2

And so he shared three different passages of Scripture with him. Well, his brother-in-law asked him what's your next step? Like what are you going to do now? And he goes, I don't know. And so he hung up with his brother-in-law and he calls someone else I can't remember Someone else in his family and he said where do you go to church? And they happened to come to our church. So he walked in that morning and he said, from the moment he walked in the doors, he started bawling like god's just all over this guy right. And so he comes in, he says he cries through this like worship time. And then, when we opened the scripture, the three passages of scripture I went to were the same three that his brother-in-law shared from at the same.

Speaker 2

And so he's like three days ago I would have told you this was coincidence, but he's like there's too many things happening in my life they're telling me otherwise and it wasn't the moment of salvation for him, but it was just this moment where I was able to say whatever questions you have, we'll do our best to answer and we want to help you. You know, just walk this journey out. And for him it was just that realization that God is real.

Speaker 4

Oh yeah.

Speaker 2

And I told him this. I said look, today might not be the day that you say yes to Christ, but he's not going to stop pursuing you. He's after you and it's because he loves you and my hope is that you'll say yes to what he's drawing you to. And so it was a really cool moment to be able to help him kind of understand what was happening. But I guess I say that just to say, with all the statistics that point to the wrong direction, god's still turning lives around and that's encouraging, even when man it can look pretty dismal, you know. But our hope is in Christ, who made a way.

Speaker 3

That's it. That's it.

Speaker 1

It seems too simple.

Speaker 2

Yeah, and we like to complicate it. That's right, that's right so well, Dub looks like he needs another liquid death.

Speaker 1

All right, we're going to call it right there. Thanks, dub, you did good.

Speaker 2

Appreciate you, man.

Speaker 1

Led the way, or we should hit the button.

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