SPEAKERS
LILY, JENNY
LILY 00:04
I don't think I've had a crush since maybe like, Year 10. I miss crushes.
JENNY 00:10
Who was that? Was that Leo? Or was that Jace?
LILY 00:13
Okay, so Jace was Year 7 or Year 8. And for the rest of my life,
JENNY 00:17
Let's talk real people,
LILY 00:19
Real people, Year 10: ____________. Remember, he came to school in Year 10 and he was [inaudible] gorgeous
JENNY 00:24
Oh he was a boy.
LILY 00:25
Yeah. So yeah, he was a real boy.
JENNY 00:29
I was talking real celebrities, not real real. Not people that you actually know and see in real life
LILY 00:37
Sure but talking about people you actually know and see in real life. Yeah, that was like the last crush.
JENNY 00:43
But they wouldn't have the kind of fodder out in the world necessarily for you to be able to really get
LILY 00:49
No but you interact with them every single day. And that's very-
JENNY 00:51
I'ts compelling
LILY 00:54
And it's realistic, and you're in English class discussing Shakespeare and you kind of like look at each other. And you're like, Oh, my God, I'm gonna die. Yeah.
JENNY 01:04
Have you looked him up?
LILY 01:05
Yet? He lives in Berlin and has a baby.
JENNY 01:08
Oh, he's that one.
LILY 01:09
Yeah, he moved to Berlin. Like shacked up with this 30 something year old. I think she might be German. And they now have like a one or two year old son.
JENNY 01:19
That's crazy to me. So let me... I'm stalking on Facebook
LILY 01:25
I see stuff from time to time. And I think he does art he was always quite good at art
JENNY 01:29
Lives in Berlin. Mutual friend Lily Ackland. Right. And the girlfriend is very short hair. Kind of... very Berlin.
LILY 01:41
Very Berlin.
JENNY 01:43
Oh, yeah. She's attractive. Oh look at him with his little mullet. Kind of no, that's a skinhead, not a mullet. What a couple! But having a kid. Wow.
LILY 01:53
Well, she obviously was older and like, I feel like that happens a lot. But it's just like, I don't know why you would ever... I don't know. I don't know about you know, maybe some people will just... it's fine for them. Maybe it's just like not. I don't know, I think maybe some people -- and this is the whole life planning thing -- are just like, better at accepting kind of what just happens, you know, that just happens in life. They just take it in their stride. I'm also gonna stalk him. I don't think he's as cute as he used to be.
JENNY 02:26
He looks pretty cute to me.
LILY 02:28
Well, he's got more of that, maybe Adam Ant thing going on now, which isn't really my vibe.
JENNY 02:32
Adam never had a skinhead cut.
LILY 02:35
Okay but you know what I mean
JENNY 02:36
A sharpie. Sharpie cut not a skinhead, a Sharpie
LILY 02:39
but like, you know, earrings and such. But he was cute. Look at that baby, that baby looks happy.
JENNY 02:45
Well in this, in the show notes, I'll put a link I'll put links to- I'll find proper- the haircuts. So the mullet, the Sharpie and the skinhead from the '70s.
LILY 02:59
Anyway, so it's just like, like, so wild when you just I think I'm at that age where like high school people, everyone's off on their own path. And you start to hear things like that about people just just like, oh my god, everyone's lives are just like taking shape. Like we were all in such a shared environment. It's such a shared life for so long, all doing the same thing. And now, you know, you look at people like that. I'm like, that couldn't be farther from what I'm doing.
JENNY 03:27
Yeah, there's a scattershot, like people just gone out into the world
LILY 03:30
And it's just like: fuck. Where does everyone end up? And wha's it gonna be like in even ten more years?
JENNY 03:35
Exactly. Have has anybody else had a baby? Like, have any of the girls had a baby?
LILY 03:39
Um, not in my, from my campus, but a few of the Glen Waverley girls have
JENNY 03:46
Right Yeah.
LILY 03:48
I've seen and it's also just like, Oh, my God, Jesus.
JENNY 03:51
Yeah, but not ridiculous at 24, 25. I mean, it's not ridiculous, it's unusual for...
LILY 03:58
I personally think it's ridiculous.
JENNY 04:00
Right
LILY 04:00
That's just me. I don't know if that's, like, I'm, you know, and it's probably a generational thing. But again, it's just like, I guess,
JENNY 04:09
you know, ridiculous for my generation as well. But I'm just saying when Yeah, yeah, no, when I was my generation, people were not married until the other side of 25.
LILY 04:20
But I think that's- and I think with all of this, it's very much class thing as a married 21, 22.
JENNY 04:26
Yeah, yeah. It is a class thing, I think.
LILY 04:30
Anyway, anyway,