In this new episode of Spank U, Next, Gregor gives Anna the lowdown on all things fetish in Japan! Gregor recently travelled to Japan and can't wait to share all the kinky knowledge he picked up on the way. 

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Smokers this way! Anna & Gregor are joined by fetish porn submissive Eyemblacksheep, a UK-based performer with many strings to his BDSM bow, including a penchant for Dominatrices using his mouth as their personal ashtray.

This episode is a repeat. 

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It's time to talk about a historic sexual scene: cruising! Gregor gives Anna the lowdown on the gay subculture of having sex with strangers, often in public spaces. Listen now... then find your local cruising spot. 

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This episode's topic has had such an impact on our show that we couldn't ignore it any longer: We're gonna talk about spanking and why so many people enjoy having their booty beaten. Join Anna and Gregor as they explore a kink that's found its way into many people's bedrooms, and get inspired to spice up your own sex life.

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"The butt is the new pussy", says co-host and anal aficionado Gregor. In this new episode of BDSM Basics, he gives Anna the lowdown on all things anal, prostate stimulation, and the gateway to new forms of pleasure. Expect expert anal-ysis on preparation and practice, how to try butt play for the first time, and why everyone should be using lube. Straight, gay, bi or anything in between, the bum is for everyone. Welcome to anal 101.  

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In this episode, get all the juicy details of one woman's first date with her Sir after starting a D/s dynamic online. It kicks off with her going out in public pantyless and plugged and ends with spank marks, anal play, and multiple orgasms. Safe to say, this one is very NSFW—definitely not for family listening. Enjoy responsibly!

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Have you ever found yourself in a relationship where sex goes from hot to hardly ever? It's a tale as old as the orgasm gap, but there's a lot you can do about it. The UK’s leading psychosexual therapist Kate Moyle is in the studio with Anna and Gregor to talk about desire, sex, and the therapist's couch. 

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Channel your inner animal with Anna & Gregor as they sit down with trauma-informed BDSM instructor Divine Theratrix. In this episode, you'll learn about the playful side of human sexuality and behaviour and how to free yourself from the shackles of society through pet play. If you want to embrace the puppy in you, listen now… woof! 

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We wanted to hear from you, the listeners, about your first-time kink experiences, and boy, did you deliver. In today’s episode, you'll learn about one man’s first-ever spanking. 

FYI: You will get turned on by some of the stuff you hear, so save these episodes for that all-important ‘me’ time. Listener discretion is advised. 

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It's over to you, dear listeners! In this new mailbag episode, Anna and Gregor answer your kinky questions and concerns. 

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Curious about exploring BDSM or introducing your kinks to a partner? In this revamped episode of "BDSM Basics," Anna and Gregor share practical advice on navigating these conversations with confidence and care. Whether you're single and seeking a new play partner or in a relationship and unsure how to bring up your desires, this episode covers the dos and don’ts of discussing fetishes for the first time. Tune in to learn how to break the ice and build trust in your intimate connections.

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Once upon a time, there lived a sex worker named Martyra Peng who resided in a castle far, far away in quaint southern England. She lived alone, high up in the tallest tower. Eligible gentlemen visited her opulent quarters to satisfy their wanton desires, in exchange for gold and riches adorned unto her. 

Join podcast jesters Anna & Gregor for a goblet with Martyra as she tells tales of brothels and swinger parties, swapping academia for the erotic underground, and subverting capitalism and the patriarchy through sex work. 

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'Tis the season for festive cheer. And multiple orgasms. Carve out some time for yourself over Christmas and settle down by the fire with a special audio porn confession from one of our listeners. It's Christmas Eve. She should be stuffing her turkey, but instead, she's getting stuffed by three hot guys. This episode is NSFW. Please listen with discretion. 

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It's the hot kink of the digital world! As an expression of Macrophilia, a sexual fascination with giants or giant objects, the giantess fetish is kicking off on the internet, with TikTok flooded with videos and porn sites seeing a huge increase in demand for hot dominant giantesses. So what's this kink all about? And how can you get a piece of it? Anna and Gregor find out! 

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Where does BDSM end and abuse begin? This is the question Anna and Gregor delve into with a listener who details their experience of being in an abusive Dom/sub dynamic. Sarah* (whose name has been changed to protect their anonymity) details the insidious ways that a Dominant can blur the lines between life and play, and how nonconsensual power exchange outside of the dungeon can cause psychological and physical harm.

Trigger warning: discussions about psychological abuse and controlling behavior. Discretion is advised. 

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Anna & Gregor are in the clinic with medical Dominatrix Madame Li Ying to get a consultation on the men seeking cock and ball torture (CBT), catheterisation and the agony (and ecstasy!) of mock castration. In this episode we examine the eroticism of pain in medical fetish, one of BDSM’s most risky practices. The syringes are sterilised. The stretcher is prepared. The doctor will see you now. 

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We’ve all heard about the female orgasm—but do we really get it? Why has women’s pleasure been sidelined for so long? Is penetration the MVP of climaxing, or is there more to the story? In this episode, Anna and Gregor break down the myths, the mechanics, and the magic of the big O.

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Anna and Gregor have joined forces with electrastim.com to explore the buzz around e-stim and electro sex. Dive into the pleasure some electric tingling can give you and find out how electro sex can give people the erection of a lifetime.

Spank U, Next listeners get 10% off any purchases on electrastim.com with code ELECTROSPANK.

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Anna and Gregor sit down with no-frills sex educator Lola Jean to talk first-time pegging, anal communication & squirting like a pro. Get the low-down on straight men embracing prostate stimulation as they dive deep into the greatest tool for self-exploration: the bum. 

This is an old fan favorite and by far the most popular episode of Spank U, Next ever. Enjoy!

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It's spooky season and that means all things blood, so what better way to see in Halloween than an episode about period sex in all its gory details? Hear how women and people who menstruate indulge their pleasures when "the curse" arrives, and why a bit of hanky-panky can help alleviate all sorts of period complaints. 

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It's #Locktober! And that means Anna and Gregor are talking all things chastity in this week's episode. What is chastity all about? How can you explore this kink? And why have straight gym bros become very, very confused about what Locktober means? 

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In this episode, meet Vicky of Bondatrix, a kink all-rounder who immersed herself in the BDSM world over 20 years ago. Vicky runs a fetish clothing and equipment store and teaches kink in many different settings. She also works as a female ProDomme with a specialism in mummification and total enclosure bondage if that's your thing!

Find out more about Bondatrix at her website here.

You can also take Vicky's courses at the BDSM Training School online. 

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Talking to kids about sex can be awkward. That's a fact. Sexologist and BDSM brat Dr. Celina Criss is in the studio with Gregor and Anna to chat about sex-positive parenting, consensual non-monogamy, and outmaneuvering your Dominant as a mischievous sub.

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Anna and Gregor sit down to discuss their experiences with kinky online dating during their time working for Fetish.com. Get all the insights and tips on how to navigate any fetish or BDSM dating website.

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All about ropes in this episode of Spank U, Next! Anna and Gregor talk to Marcos Mangani, a social media shibari star, about bondage and the different – and sometimes surprising – reasons people choose to explore this practice.

You can follow Marcos on Instagram here and book a session with him here. 

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