inbetweenish ⢠bridges across cultures
If you're generally confused about where you belong, you may have just stumbled into the right place! â The inbetweenish is exactly what it sounds like:â â it's about the space in-between,â where it's neither here nor there, â where you don't fit neatly into a box.â
Through open conversations with people from all walks of life, we will share personal stories about growing up in numerous countries, amongst different faiths, speaking multiple languages, and integrating into new and diverse cultures. Join me, your host, Beatriz Nour, as I navigate the delicate dynamics of growing up inbetweenish.
inbetweenish ⢠bridges across cultures
đ reflections on: Third Culture Kids and Cross-Cultural Kids explained
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In this minisode weâre going back to the origin story of in-betweenish, explaining why and how it came to be. It all started with a few simple questions about a decade ago:
Where is home?
What is a home?
This lead me on a journey to discover the term Third Culture Kid (TCK). Researchers John and Ruth Useem, an American sociologist and anthropologist couple, first coined the term Third Culture Kids when they were living abroad in India with their family. According to Dr. Ruth Useem, being a Third Culture Kid explained âChildren who accompany their parents into another culture [usually for a parentâs career choice.]â Sometimes the term Adult Third Culture Kid, ATCK, is used to describe adults who had a TCK upbringing.
Simple formula used to understand Third Culture Kids:
A [parentsâ culture] + B [host country/countries culture(s)] = C [your own third culture]
Years later, when doing research for the inception of the in-betweenish pod, I came across the more inclusive term Cross-Cultural Kids (CCK). This new model was researched and developed by Ruth E. Van Reken and encompasses more diverse experiences of people who exist across different cultures for any reason. In her research, Van Reken outlines 7 Cross-Cultural Kid categories and they are:
- Bi-racial/ bi-cultural children
- Children of Immigrants
- Children of Refugees
- Children of Minorities
(Privileged or Marginalized) - International Adoptions
- Traditional Third Culture Kids
(Foreign Service Kids, Corporate Brats, Missionary Kids, Military Brats) - Domestic Third Culture Kids
If you recognize yourself in this CCK upbringing and you want to share your story, reach out to me directly. Iâd love to hear from you! You can reach me through our website or send me a message through our Instagram.
âď¸ TCK and CCK Resources: Learn More Here
- Mo â Netflix series developed by Mohammed Amer and Ramy Youssef
The life of a Palestinian family as they navigate the convoluted US immigration system - Cross Cultural Kids
Research developed by Ruth E. Van Reken - Third Culture Kids: Growing Up Among Worlds
Book by David C. Pollock and Ruth E. Van Reken - Arrivals, Departures and the Adventures In-Between
Book by Christopher O'Shaughnessy - Letters Never Sent: A Global Nomadâs Journey from Hurt to Healing
Book by Ruth E. Van Reken - The Danger of a Single Story
Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie | TED
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The in-betweenish pod is produced by Beatriz Nour
Music is composed and produced by Malik Elmessiry