The Habit That Made the Monkey Mind

Have you ever wondered why your mind refuses to sit still—why thoughts surge, swirl, and rehearse themselves as if on an endless loop? The answer isn’t mysterious or psychological jargon. It comes down to one simple, ancient habit: the mind’s impulse to grab hold of fleeting appearances and turn them into solid realities. In the very moment the mind turns nothing into something, the monkey mind is born. But once we see this mechanism clearly—truly catch it in the act—we hold the key to dissolving restlessness at its source and opening into the spacious, luminous awareness that has always been our true nature.

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                          The Habit that Made the Monkey Mind

How did we ever end up with a “monkey mind,” a seemingly ceaseless flow of mental activity? If we can identify the source of the problem – truly see it – we hold the key to loosening its grip point. Here it is. At the heart of this restless mind lies a single, deeply ingrained habit: human consciousness has learned to grasp onto and solidify the momentary arising and dissolving of natural mental activity. 

Think of a mirror. Does the mirror surface grasp onto the images displayed on it? Does it preference one image over another? Does it hold onto the appearances that touch its surface? Do the surface images in any way change the surface of the mirror. A mirror, of course, doesn’t have consciousness so we can just go so far with that metaphor. But I am sure you get the idea. Now let’s look at how consciousness relates to its mental appearances.

Our mind begins by distinguish differences among mental appearances, Mental activity – thoughts, feelings, mental images, and sensations – can be grouped into three broad categories: pleasant, neutral, and unpleasant. Neutral experiences – like the sensations coming from your buttocks if you’re sitting, or your feet if you’re standing – appear and dissolve quickly, unnoticed and as effortlessly as clouds drifting across a clear sky

But when something pleasant or unpleasant arises, attention locks in. This habitual mental pattern “logs” in. We name and label appearances in consciousness – personalizing them and embedding them in stories drawn from memory. What was once a transparent, passing movement becomes a fixed and solid “thing.” You can verify this by watching your own mind.

This single faulty habit – making real what is in essence insubstantial, as empty as a night dream or a mirage ­– is the root of the restless monkey mind and the emotional turbulence that follows. Recognizing this conditioned habit is a powerful beginning. It’s lie turning on the light switch in a room that has been dark for millenia. 

But such intellectual understanding alone cannot free us. It points us toward the truth, but it cannot deliver the liberating experience itself. That comes only through direct seeing – through those “aha” moments when we catch the process in real time: the very instant the mind turns nothing into something, setting off desire, grasping, attachment, aversion, and all their companions.

Fortunately, wise beings through the ages have left us a path of meditation – a way to transform conceptual knowledge into lived wisdom. Through direct observation and gentle repeated practice, we can soften and then break this mental habit of making real what is unreal, progressively returning the mind to its natural state: open, fluid, still, and free.

When attachment to random mental activity quiets down, we can look directly at the nature of the mind. Observing and witnessing our foundational natural mind, we find that it is spacious and open, without fixed content. Like a mirror, it reflects whatever appears on its surface but is never influenced, altered, taken over, or possessed by those reflections. Similarly, thoughts, feelings, sensations arise and dissolve, but the mind’s natural and spacious awareness remains untouched. That is the nature of our mind – most often obscured by ceaseless mental activity – but nevertheless the foundational unchanging essence of our mind - aware, radiant, knowing, and awake to itself.

Even the familiar “I,” the personal ego, is just one passing appearance within this vast expanse. The ego “I,” initially a fleeting mental appearance itself, becomes the source of the pernicious habit of grasping at mental appearances, turning them into fixed realities. In meditation we observe the personal “I” as one more mental appearance and let it go, over and over. With a growing awareness we realize its fleeting and insubstantial nature. We cease identifying with this small “I” as if it were who we truly are. 

We discover that beneath this restless sense of “I” lies something infinitely more fundamental: our natural, uncontrived awareness. When egoic appearances dissolve, even for a moment, we touch the serene, balanced state that remains unmoved by the swirling currents of inner and outer experience. That is the good news.

Meditation quiets the ego’s turbulence and clarifies its insubstantiality, opening the way to a direct experience of our true nature. Even the briefest glimpse can awaken a deep remembrance of who we are. Over time, these glimpses lengthen and deepen until the monkey mind no longer rules the stage, as we have uncovered and disempowered the faulty and key mental habit of reification. 

We then find ourselves resting in the spacious, luminous ground of being. Mental appearances continue as natural, but we let them come and go and they no longer disturb or distract us. Meditation becomes our guide. It shows us the way home to who we truly are.