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Nantucket After Dark
Nantucket After Dark
Ep 11 - Q&A with Breanne Blades on her experience with the Sacred Sexual Women's Circle
The Sacred Sexual Women’s Circle is for empath women that want to combine pleasure and Spirit for deeper love, healing, and expansion.
Find out what surprised Breanne Blades the most about the Sacred Sexual Women’s Circle and what she has to say for those on the fence about joining the circle. The answers may surprise you too!
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for all of those versions of yourself, so you can show up, anyway, any you know, even if you show up.
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And you just say, Hey, i'm just here to listen there's space for that.
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There's space for you to pop in and out there's space for everything, really.
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And I feel that if people want to uncover and understand themselves more, starting with sexual and desire in general just desire even removing the sex from it, it really is the most important way to treat yourself in your life, it really is and
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So you you're paving the path, for that for that understanding you know it's beautiful.
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I'm excited. I hope your friend or friends join that'd be me So so, too, I talk, and especially when I was going through it.
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I the the 7 week. Course I was like, hey? guys, like I gotta go do stuff. but it's amazing.
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And you should definitely do it, too. Yeah. So fun. I know.
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I want. I want everyone to be like right. use pleasure to heal and know with their bodies. cause when you go, my body can do this like what?
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Yes, yeah, yeah. that's true that's that's it, too, Right?
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It's it's moving beyond the surface into the deeper part of the wave.
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Yeah. Yeah. So much more confidence and understanding and trust in moving into the deeper layers of yourself than staying honest surface understanding.
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And just, you know, maybe you have a lot of information that you were fed from when you were younger about sex, or about desire about how you should experience the world.
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And I feel like there's a lot of releasing that can happen.
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Yeah, it's true, and that visualization of the wave I mean even with your are riding waves.
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If you're on top of the wave you can yeah it's gliding, and it can be a lot of fun if you're right in the wave at that surface that's when you get pulled like that's where you get beat
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up. But if you go underneath like deep as you said that's actually where there's ease and safety Yes, and it's just it's a reliable rhythm.
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Oh, yeah, yeah, Definitely: Thank you. Cool:
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What are what are maybe 3 benefits? that you've experienced as a result of the sacred sexual woman circle releasing tension in my hips.
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I notice i'm clenching all the time and the reminder to let go, and not hold your pelvis so tight has been really valuable for me, and I catch myself doing it frequently and the reminder
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is is consistent. so i'm able to just let it go right away so much more quickly.
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And not have guilt behind that, because I feel like part of the clunching came from like meeting to make myself smaller in some degree right, and so just constantly reminding myself that this space and me take you up spaces more than
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encouraged. The second thing I would definitely say, is, I loved learning the massage techniques and the connection with yourself, and setting up being reminded to romance myself like, set up the room in the way that feels best for me and
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probably prioritizing my pleasure. I know in your one post you said, you know, like any time that you're a little bit chilly, and you deny yourself a blanket, or you know if you're thirsty and you
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deny yourself a drink. you're just getting yourself a drink you're just really being able to focus in on That's exactly what's happening.
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It isn't just i'll do it later. it's a denying of something that I deserve. and i'm you know. and I would say the third thing was hmm it's a toss up I feel like for
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me the it's it's the community it's the it's the commute.
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It's always it always comes back to community. for me in groups, and being able to be heard, and I really loved near the end of the group when we said kind things to each other.
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And we held each other in a loving space and I feel like women.
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Are We're awakening, to How our love and our gentleness and our understanding for each other really paves the way for more of that, not competition, not strife, not you know nothing negative towards it and the more that we feed
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each other. The more that we are fed back in that way and I feel like being in a woman's circle.
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What, specifically with other women that understand that, understand how sex has been sold to us, that understand how you know being the partner that carries everything, and also has the most expectations, is also sold to us.
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So being in a group where we're all completely seen and we're all on the same side of the bridge is it's definitely the greatest sensation.
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Perfect. yes, agreed it's like it raises everything up Yeah, yes, beautiful, and it's .
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It's seeing myself in them and them, seeing them in me, and us being able to say, I still love you like I.
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I love you, you know, and I think that that's where a lot of times.
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Our arguments come from, because we see things in each other that remind us of ourselves that we haven't healed that we haven't been come to terms with, and I don't know I feel like in that group everyone was just willing
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to to be there. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. yeah, definitely. What was life like before you started the sacred sexual woman circle?
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What does that look like, even just day to day? Honestly, I feel like I was really impatient with myself and with my family, and and with the things that I had to do in a day like I was always living in the space waiting for
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the next moment to come versus like syncing down into myself, and sitting and experiencing what is in the now right.
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I feel like I really struggled with allowing myself the presence, because when I and the way i'm being shown this right now, too, is is almost like there was like a hot spot in my root, Chakra and I was just
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jumping out of my body constantly, like I wasn't willing to sit in it and work through what was coming up.
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I was just like I would start to get into myself and relax in a moment, and then I would get into that crunchy area in my lower shockers, and I would just bail and then I would be like okay Now we have to hurry up and do all
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of these other things, because i'm uncomfortable yeah that's a big one.
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Yeah. And so, how is that shifted now after the sacred sexual woman circle?
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I feel like I always have permission to just be like to just sit in a minute and breathe, and really like be aware of how the temperature is on my skin, and how the air is that i'm breathing in and I just especially in the last
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couple of weeks. I just feel really languid. that is like my favorite favorite word lately is because it's the truth.
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I just feel like i've arrive to my own experiences i'm not trying to leave them.
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Oh, my gosh, that's so beautiful what a gift to yourself!
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Wow, cool Oh, and i'm also not willing to do things that I don't like anywhere, as I used to.
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No aren't here as much as I used to i'm not gonna entertain that phone call that makes me feel weird when I see that person's name I'm not going to i'm just really listening to the queues
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that my body is giving me yeah so good yeah i've heard from so many people that like my boundaries are off the charts. And so that's the best right that that actually helps to break up.
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The ego. Yeah, you need ego, but it helps to break up the teenage self Right?
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That the resistance Yes, exactly so. Yeah. cause it gives it the gives the ego, the teenage self, some space to be themselves and keeping them safe and keeping everyone safe.
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So yeah, so cool. And then one last question: What surprised you the most, or made you the happiest about the sacred sexual woman?
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Circle. hmm! surprise me the most, or made me the happiest.
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Honestly, I feel like what surprised me the most is and I know I had heard this before, but it really like clicked into under understanding.
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Is that our yoni has a memory and that it makes sense that we are holding on to certain patterns and reactions because we haven't necessarily gone through the conscious work of saying, this happened we're gonna release it and love And light
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you know, and the deep inner work with the the wand that you recommended.
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I feel like it really surprised me to know that there are areas in myself that are experiencing pain and numbness because they're so deep within that we forget that that's something that also is holding holding energy and experience for us so being
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able to start the process of letting deep internal things go in in a calm, loving, understanding way.
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I think it was it was it was unexpected I didn't know we were gonna do that kind of like in our work, and I really loved it. Yes, it's not it's not necessarily needed but in the sense.
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Of like some people aren't ready for to go there right you can still do so much healing.
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But when you are ready to go that deep can change a lot. Yeah, and I love that you even put like, if you're feeling called to this work, then you can purchase this.
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It's it is totally like this is available for you but only if you feel like it is align with where you're ready to to dig into with yourself.
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Yeah, Yeah. and it's going to get more intense So the next.
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This so coming circle the 20 seventh it feels good there's some good energy with it.
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The circle that's we'll start in October is starting on an eclipse and Scorpio and there's a whole lot of intense healing energy that is definitely you know
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each one is is that circle where you're like you really have to be like, I want to do this because otherwise yeah, and that Scorpio energy.
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It it's the deep dive absolutely it is and and again, like those that are part of the first circle.
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Are able to come for the circles so if you're like Oh, I want to come back or I missed a week, or I missed this week, or i'd like to come just be with the group you are more than
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welcome to come in and and be part of it like me be there.
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Yeah, cause there's still love the accountability too like that ability to show up and check in with everybody. and you know like it.
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I I find I work really well with accountability because especially being a reflector, and not having my own energy when i'm trying to keep consistency up by myself.
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Is it's I I I try to not be meeting like our when I cannot be consistent, because it is just that struggle sometimes, but being able to show up in a group, really helps me take on that energy, and remind myself that these steps are
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really valuable. Yeah, definitely the accountability. is huge and yeah, And then someone else brings up something you're like I didn't even think about that like, So it's so great in that sense, too, of like the group
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dynamic you we bring in all these energies and someone can bring something up, or maybe something that I didn't think of.
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So I someone else didn't think of it helps everybody it does.
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Then, if it's just this it could be something that's in your orbit that you've been thinking about.
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But it's worded in such a way that it. lands and you just get another piece of the puzzle, Right?
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Yeah, yes, that's true. Is there anything else you want to add, before we we head out
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No, I think that feels complete. Thank you so much, Bree.
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I appreciate it. Thank you Thank you. thank you so excited. You'll be part of the next circle or any circles that you are feeling called to.
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Right? Yeah, definitely, i'll be showing up for sure on Thursdays.
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So awesome. cool. Well, thank you again. Enjoy your day with your babes.