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Unveiled
Welcome to UNVEILED, the podcast designed for women ready to break free from the confines of societal expectations and rediscover their authentic selves.
I’m your host, Angela Marie Christian, Silicon Valley CFO turned intuitive, clinical hypnotherapist, and conscious mother.
If you've ever felt trapped by the roles imposed upon you—whether as a mother, a professional, or simply as a woman navigating life—this podcast offers a space to explore, heal, and transform. I was once deeply entrenched in the corporate world, checking all the boxes society told me to. But after realizing that true fulfillment comes from within, not from external achievements, I embarked on a journey of self-discovery that changed my life. Now, I’m here to guide you on your own path to empowerment.
We dive deep into conversations that strip away the layers of limiting beliefs and societal programming that have kept you from living a life of true sovereignty. Using neuroprogramming techniques such as ____, we explore how to rewire your mind, break old patterns, and embrace your innate power from within. These intimate conversations are more than just talks—they’re a catalyst for change, designed to energize and inspire you to take actionable steps toward your desires, goals, and dreams. Whether you’re a mother feeling unfulfilled, a single woman seeking more, or anyone looking to ignite that inner spark, UNVEILED is here to remind you of the incredible power you hold within. Join me weekly for conversations that feel like connecting with a close friend—conversations that will leave you inspired, empowered, and ready to unveil your true self.
Unveiled is a transformative space where women embark on a journey of self-discovery, mental wellness, and empowerment. If you’re struggling with anxiety, burnout, or feelings of overwhelm, this podcast is your guide to reclaiming your inner strength and breaking free from societal conditioning. As a mother, especially if you’re navigating life as a single mom, the pressure to meet every expectation can feel insurmountable. Here, we understand the weight of that burden, and we’re here to help you lift it.
Through intimate, connected conversations, we explore practical tools for managing anxiety, stress, and the exhaustion of burnout. You'll learn to challenge negative thoughts, dissolve limiting beliefs, and build unwavering self-confidence. We dive deep into mindfulness practices, cultivating self-love, and the power of neuroprogramming techniques to rewire your mindset. Each episode empowers you to embrace your true self, reclaim your sovereignty, and reignite the spark within that leads to a more fulfilled, purpose-driven life.
Whether you’re struggling to balance the demands of motherhood, work, and personal growth, or you’re on a path to healing and self-discovery, Unveiled offers a compassionate and supportive community. Here, we validate your experiences, nurture your resilience, and inspire you to take action toward your desires, goals, and dreams. Join us weekly to unveil your true self, transform your life, and step into your power.
Unveiled
Freeing Yourself from Dark Energy & Toxic Relationships - My Interview with Manouk Vink
Your toxic relationships, stubborn cravings, and intrusive thoughts might not even be your own.
This is a unique podcast episode because it's an excerpt from a podcast where I was the one being interviewed (by fellow intuitive / healer Manouk Vink).
I share my journey into the world of intuitive healing – a path that began when my young daughter started seeing "shadow people" in her bedroom.
I also talk about my childhood encounters with dark energies, from being physically pulled from my bed by unseen forces to witnessing Ouija boards moving independently. These experiences ultimately led her to develop powerful modalities for helping others disconnect from energetic attachments that keep them stuck in cycles of pain and limitation.
The conversation demystifies how energetic cords and hooks work in our relationships, explaining how we unconsciously exchange emotions, thoughts, and even soul pieces with others.
I also reveal that even seemingly innocent actions like complaining about an ex on social media create energetic rituals with real consequences. When we remain connected to past relationships, we're literally carrying fragments of other people within our energy fields – making it impossible to fully heal and move forward.
I also share my perspective on difficult relationships as soul contracts. I explain that those who hurt us most in this lifetime may have been souls who deeply loved us in past lives, volunteering to play challenging roles that catalyze our growth. This reframing transforms our understanding of pain and trauma, revealing the perfect design behind our most difficult experiences.
For mothers especially, I offer game-changing wisdom on prioritizing self-care without guilt. My "37 minutes" technique for giving undivided attention while maintaining strong personal boundaries demonstrates how self-prioritization ultimately creates happier, healthier families.
This conversation isn't just theoretical – it's filled with practical techniques for distinguishing between your thoughts and external influences, cutting energetic cords, and reclaiming your authentic power. If you've ever felt inexplicably drawn to unhealthy relationships or situations, this episode illuminates the invisible forces that might be at play and offers a pathway to true energetic sovereignty.
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Welcome to Unveiled the podcast. I'm your host, angela Christian, and I help you with unveiling your true self by peeling away the layers that society placed on you. I do this with a combination of neuroscience, energetics and ancient spiritual wisdom. I went from underpaid and overworked in corporate America to launching a six-figure company that continues to grow. I went from toxic relationships to being happy and single for over a year as I worked and continue to work on becoming the best version of myself, and so much more. My greatest passion is to help women and mothers heal, transform and become the highest versions of themselves. Heal, transform and become the highest versions of themselves. As I continue to grow and expand my intuitive knowledge and unique wisdom, I'll be including you on my journey to millions, so let's get into it.
Speaker 2:Hello and welcome back to Unveiled. Today I'm excited to share a different type of podcast episode for you. So this is actually a recording of a podcast from last week that I was on, where my friend and fellow intuitive, manuk, interviewed me. So she interviewed me about like my first dark energy, dark force moments as a child, some things I haven't shared before, and then also about the work I do in relationships, and then she also had her, some of her members on live and they asked me questions as well. So it was a really fun episode and I wanted to share it here with you as well. So I will just leave it at that, because it's a long one, so enjoy.
Speaker 3:Bye. Yay, we have a full house today, super, super exciting. So this is also going to be uploaded on the podcast. So for everybody listening on the podcast, welcome to the you Can Call Me Goddess podcast. Today we have a very special podcast slash Q&A. I'm going to be interviewing Angela.
Speaker 3:Angela is a fellow intuitive. Some of you may already know her I think a lot of you already know her a little bit and I'm going to be interviewing her and asking her a little bit about how she got into this world, the intuitive energy healer world. A little bit of her backstory, if I'm right.
Speaker 3:Angela is very much specialized in disconnecting and decoding people from darker, heavier energies that include correct me if I'm wrong hard relationships, hard situations, circumstances. Sometimes we keep like a remnants of those situations and we can't fully disconnect from that. I know for a fact that I sometimes had that too where I had like a tough friendship that didn't go as I wanted it to go and that person kept sticking in my mind because I hadn't fully decoded from that person. And once you do like, it literally changes. And I literally had a thought about her today and I was like, oh, that's so. I didn't even think about her in such a long time because I had disconnected from this friend. So, having said that, I'd like to welcome Angela on this Q&A and I'm going to start just by asking for her to introduce herself a little bit and tell a little bit about her story and how she got into all of this.
Speaker 2:Yeah. So I'm so excited to be here and I got into this whole world about in 2016. My oldest daughter was seeing what she called shadow people in her bedroom at night and I had no idea like what she was talking about. It kind of creeped me out. And then she started seeing angels and all these different entities and that kind of just led me on this whole path because I was like I need to know what's going on. And so shortly after that experience with her, I started.
Speaker 2:I studied all different types of spiritual programs. I studied mysticism, shamanism. I went to a different intuitive slash energy healing school where they actually had a child's program as well, and so she was in the children's program, I was in the adult program, but no one that I went to actually talked about like dark energy, like how to protect yourself from that. So as she and I were increasing our frequency, our consciousness, we were also getting energetically attacked and we had no idea what was going on. So I am so grateful I found this world of owl and GLH and all of that which I had originally started with Ali, as a lot of us have. So I took Ali's first three levels of intuition. Then I found Al over a year ago and I've just been with him ever since.
Speaker 3:Yeah, so just to clarify for the people that don't know much about this world, me and Angela are in the same intuitive school, I guess spiritual school, energy healer schools and we all know people through that school and that's how we got into this line of work and I feel like the same as Angela. Well, for me at least, I was always searching for something. I've always felt very spiritual and wanted answers to certain things. So this is just like intuition is literally the greatest thing in energy healing. I've always been very much interested in it, but I never thought that we would be able to be trained to do things like that. So that's very cool.
Speaker 3:But, angela, what I'd really like to hear a little more about because it's a bit of a touchy subject, right, talking about shadow people and things like that and heavier energies, I know I'm sometimes a little hesitant still to talk about it with certain people, while other people are still open to it. What did you like? How did you know you were being attacked? Did you yourself have any experiences with heavier energies before your daughter started saying this stuff? Like, was there anything else that already got you to start, like, thinking about this kind of things? Like, did you experience things like that, did you think like, maybe there's like and also like, what did you think? Like? Did you think about ghosts? Did you think about like just people sending you dark energy? Like, how did you look at it?
Speaker 2:Yeah, I mean, as a child I was really into scary movies, like I would. I was seven and watching all of the horror films and like I just always had a fascination with it, which I'm sure my parents thought was odd. But and then I remember playing with a Ouija board as a child and had some weird things happen. Yeah, yeah, it's not a good idea. No, not a good idea. No, and I had a lot of weird things, like growing up I would wake up and like I would basically like look at my sister and I'd be like she's not my sister, she's my sister. I would be in this weird world and my parents were like what is happening? Then I would do seances and like you know, I didn't know what I was doing, but I was definitely playing around with energy I should not have.
Speaker 2:And then in college there was like a group of us and we were all playing with a Ouija board, drinking, and it was just me and another girl like on the actual board, and we were like we are not moving this thing, it's moving by itself. And then when we asked it yeah, yeah, I've had that too we asked it like what do you want? The little token like flew off the board at me and I was like, okay, I'm done. Like everybody was done. We were just like what was that? It was terrifying. Done. Like everybody was done. We were just like what was that it?
Speaker 3:was terrifying. That is crazy. That is crazy. So, and when you were younger, did you have anything? So for example, me, I know when I was younger I couldn't quite put my finger on it, but I remember at like age seven, eight, I started really like becoming very aware of death and things like that and I started really asking a lot of questions about life and death and what would happen, and I would have panic attacks in certain areas because I could probably feel a presence or something there.
Speaker 3:So I think we spoke about this, that's the rice field discussion that I spoke to you about. So I think I had a memory or something happened there. I used to live abroad, in the Philippines, and as a field trip we went to rice fields and I will never forget that because when that happened, I just full on, full blown, had a complete panic attack there and I was panicking, asking about death and things like that. I could never quite put my finger on it, and I know that I had friends that, for example, have seen auras when they were kids or, like your daughter would see shadow figures, and even my partner would see stuff when he was younger. I never had that, but I could feel energies in places. I could never quite put my finger on it. So do you have any memories of that?
Speaker 3:When you were younger, like things like that other than the Ouija board and other than being interested in, because I was also interested in scary things, but I would never want to mess with it, like it freaked me out too much. I already had certain intuitive hits as a child that you know. For example, I didn't like mirrors in the dark. I didn't like like I wanted to. I was very affected by the story of the ring, so I put like a blanket over my TV screen. Yeah, yeah, did you have anything like that? Did you see anything?
Speaker 2:Yeah, I actually had some pretty crazy things happen as a child. I one time got completely pulled out of my bed by something and hit the ground a lot of dark stuff. And then one night I didn't want to go to the bathroom because there were like little I called them little elves on the floor. I don't know what. They're, probably aliens or something, I don't know all kinds of weird stuff like that like my dolls. I was convinced my dolls were alive and like I had that too. Yeah, so a lot of creepy stuff like that. Not so much I don't think I really dealt with ghosts so much More just like creepy things, like dark. And then I also my friend and I created this entity named Vane when we were a kid, and we would talk to it and we would ask like can we have a sleepover tonight? We help us have a sleepover, and like obviously we're probably talking to some dark entity, and we didn't know what we were doing, though.
Speaker 3:So that's crazy, yeah, you don't know. Like I also think back of like childhood stories where I had a friend who, like this, was also in the Philippines. I remember she, she would tell me like I don't know, like I would love to dive in and kind of figure out, like so maybe we can do that one day, figure out what was going on there. She told me that like, see, I have this, like I think I had a beauty spot on my hand and she would tell me that by clicking that beauty spot I could speak to my cats and she would speak to her cats. But she would tell me things like that she, like the night before had gone through a portal and had slept with anacondas and things like that. Yeah, and she would tell me like, and she, even when we were playing on the playground, she would say like okay, now we're entering like a new and I couldn't see it. Maybe we were, I don't know, like I don't know, but I was like like kind of going along with it, like part of me like believed it, part of me didn't. So it's so funny how, like when you're younger right you're you're a lot more like open to these things and these energies and less influenced and blocked. Yeah, but I've, I have a lot of crazy stories like that. Even my cousin that walked down Amsterdam and he was a little kid and he was like and he said to his mom hey, mom, wasn't there a button story before? Like way back, and they looked and there was a button store like years and years ago, like like something like that. So it's really, really, really crazy. So I know. So my audience is not that like I, my friends and my family already know a little bit about what I do, but my audience is still getting to know like the darker energy side of things and I think I touched upon how, when we're talking about darker energies, it could even be like really subliminal things that are reprogramming our minds and belief systems and stuff like that.
Speaker 3:So if you were to speak to someone that doesn't know much about heavier, darker energies, first of all, how would you explain it to someone who's like, okay, what are they talking about? And, second of all, how does that work? Because I know you have a couple of programs. You coach people how to be able to clear themselves of heavier, darker energies and you also help people disconnect from toxic relationships and situations. I know you have the what is it the DBE, dbe, what is it the clean BDE? Baby, daddy, energy, right that one. And then you have the party girl detox, I believe, and I just would love to know. And also then your your uh, negative energy clearing.
Speaker 3:What's it called? What's it called the reclamation? Yeah, so reclamation, but also how to clear, like heavier energies right, oh right Light it up.
Speaker 3:Yeah, light it up. So those are the programs that you have. So when you get someone who is like unsure about this world or hasn't heard much about this, how do you go about explaining it to them? Because I know, for example, I spoke to my neighbor. She is religious and believes in source God, however you'd like to name it. But when I kind of touched upon there being potentially heavier energies, a lot of people believe it doesn't exist if you don't pay any attention to it or if you don't do anything with it. And then, obviously, how do you go about it? When people are like this girl's crazy, like what is she talking about? How do you go about that? And especially if you get like new people coming into your programs or booking like soul reclamations with you, like how do you explain, how do you go about that?
Speaker 2:Yeah. So I always kind of assess who I'm talking to first. If I even want to bring it up, I can just kind of tell like where they're at on a consciousness scale if they're going to understand or accept what I'm going to say either now or later. So that's the first thing I do, and if typically people come to me, they've already heard me kind of talking about it on my podcast. So I don't really get too many people who are like I've never heard of this before.
Speaker 2:But what I, what I would say is you know, just like there's light in the world, there's dark. You know, just like there's light in the world, there's dark. And I compare the dark energies of the world like mosquitoes. They're just like annoying little things that want to suck your light and they have disconnected from the light so they need to get light from something which is us, you know. So that's kind of like what I would say on a very basic level. I don't know that I've had anyone tell me like that. They don't believe again, I think, because I'm only speaking usually to people who have already listened to me talk on my podcast or like in a program of mine. I don't share a ton of it on Instagram, for example.
Speaker 3:So yes, but it is a bit difficult, right To touch upon things like that. But then when you think about it, if you go to like the basic way of explaining it so, for example, in your clean BDE program, there are some people that, without knowing it, you know, when you're like really upset with someone and without you knowing it, you're like saying things like oh, I wish they just blank, like something negative. Right, I'm going to do that right now, but I wish I just did this. And even if it's just like a subconscious thought, our words have power, right, so they hold energy. So, without you knowing it, the, the, you're actually like putting that energy on that person. So how does that work? So, walk like explain a little bit with the clean BDE energy. Like what do you, what do you do, for example, in those situation? Or the party girl detox, like what was the thought process behind those, those programs and how could that help people like step into their power more?
Speaker 2:Yeah, so clean BDE I created because I have three children from three different fathers. I've experienced a lot of like abuse in the past, which now I know was all just part of my soul plan, my reflections, all of that. So I created it for other moms to heal from that desire to put all the blame on the father, create this toxic relationship which doesn't benefit them, doesn't benefit the children, to really just become neutral. So that was my whole plan with Clean BDE is become so neutral about him so that you can be the best parent, so your energy isn't getting drained. So it starts with a lot of nervous system regulation. Then it goes to unconscious reprogramming, so like healing childhood beliefs, all of that through rapid resolution therapy, which is like a form of conversational hypnosis. Yeah, then, after I get them regulated and like, uh, a lot of the unconscious reprogramming, then I introduced the energy component. So by this time they trust me, they're feeling better.
Speaker 2:So I wouldn't just jump in with, like, with the dark force stuff. I usually build a relationship first so they understand, like I'm not just crazy or something. But then I do explain, like by posting about your ex on Facebook, for example oh, my ex is doing this xyz, you're actually creating a ritual. It's actually like when you're just saying it to someone else and you're complaining. It's kind of like an unconscious ritual. But once you put it into writing and other people can see it, that is a conscious ritual and there's repercussions for you and you're sending negative energy to them, right? So it's like even at that level that would be.
Speaker 2:You know what we're talking about, with like the darker, heavier energies. A lot of times, women will come to me from groups where they were encouraged to just label him as a narcissist it's all his fault and like that does feel empowering, maybe for a short amount of time. I call it like a sugar rush feeling of like empowerment. And then you're like, well, I don't feel any better, you know, and it's because you're just like directing so much negative energy towards him and you're not just embodying your own power. So like that was the whole process behind clean BDE and yeah, I had like amazing results with the women in there and it was just beautiful, developed friendships with people in there, and just it was the program I wanted when I was going through this stuff.
Speaker 3:Yeah, that's what we all design right at the end of the day, because it's it's what we wish we had and we knew we know how to walk through all of that now. And so now, as by design, we get to help people with the things that we struggled with so much. But like I love how you said that as well, cause I was going to ask about that as well Like with this, because we're very quick to kind of like release emotions almost onto someone else, right, and kind of think like that's going to fix the problem somehow or give us that satisfaction. I know that as well when I had an argument with my partner like all you want to do is just scream and get that emotion out, but it's not. It's.
Speaker 3:I mean, there's there's a benefit to getting the emotion out, but not when you're directing it, maybe to someone else and you're not feeling empowered in yourself. So how, how would you explain to someone with, like, putting that negativity out there, how that could actually negatively impact the person themselves? You know, when you're saying, like he's just a narcissist, he's this, he's that, he's that like, how would that negatively impact yourself instead of the person that you're directing it towards?
Speaker 2:Yeah, so when you are so, there's several things. One, it's just like law of focus. You're really focused on they did this to me like whatever it is, you're going to start just calling in more of those people. You're not going to get to the root of the issue, the root of the reflection, so you're going to just keep seeing it, and this is what happened to me. I would be in a really toxic relationship. I would leave, I wouldn't heal what actually happened, and then the next relationship would be even worse. So it's just going to keep escalating and you are actually also sending what's called like can think of it like an energetic arrow. When you're feeling angry towards someone, when you're like feeling jealous or whatever it is, you are sending an energetic arrow into their energy and that does affect their energy. So we don't want to be directing dark energy at other people, right? So that's like part of it as well.
Speaker 3:Yeah.
Speaker 2:Yeah.
Speaker 3:So. So, with the law of focus, that's like basically the like I think a lot of people like also when I mentioned it, like compared to the law of attraction, a little bit like when you focus on something, the more you focus on it, the bigger it becomes. So if you're constantly focusing on how someone is terrible and bad and not doing what you want them to do, then what's going to happen? You're going to get more of that. When you can start seeing the good in the bad, then you start getting more of the good instead of the bad, right? So what is it that? There was one more thing that you said that I really liked as well. Yeah, so, if you can, if you keep exactly the reflection area of that we touched upon that a little bit in some of my podcasts as well, mainly with the body and a little bit now in your body's magic.
Speaker 3:I'm also diving into, like how the rest of the universe is doing the same thing, where, if you don't work through what the person is triggering you with, because there's a trigger happening and the reason you're triggered right is because there is an imbalance, so, and if you don't work through that trigger fully, then what the universe is going to send you more triggers because it wants you to fix that.
Speaker 3:So, basically, if you keep doing that, sending that negative energy that way, and you don't actually work through the root cause, you're going to get more of that negative energy, and that's what you don't want. Right, when you, when you are already, when you've been through difficult relationships already, you want to up level and get to a better relationship and get to a better life and the only way to do that is to stop spreading the negativity, basically, and disconnecting from that negative energy. So can you explain a little bit with, like people, how would you say that, like, we all know that the energy vampires, right, know that the energy vampires right, the friends, the people, family, that we know that like, literally like hook and latch into you and as soon as you try to get away from them, they come back. Like, how does that work? Because I know that's a little bit of what you do with the soul reclamation, right, you make sure that people are completely disconnected from one another.
Speaker 2:Yeah, yeah. So in the soul reclamation sessions I clear all the energetic arrows from the person, from my client, so that they're free and clear of all of that. I also clear them of hooks that are in them. So a lot of times, like even parents will hook into you, like I know I hook my kids and I have to clear it because it's like you just want to control them, you just want you know, but I did have an ex who had hooks in me and I didn't realize it at the time and I kept going back to him and I was like, why do I keep going back to him? Like he wasn't healthy for me. I would like get rashes every time I was around him. It was just like, but there was a hook now. Now I know that I didn't know that at the time.
Speaker 2:There's also negative emotional cords and so those are like the cords, that they're like a big umbilical cord basically.
Speaker 2:And you create these cords with your parents, oftentimes with romantic relationships, especially highly emotional, even friendships, children, clients, emotional, even friendships, children, clients, yeah, clients, and we don't want these cords with anyone. So you actually give them pieces of your soul and then you take pieces of their soul. So in my soul reclamation I'm basically disconnecting them but also retrieving the soul pieces back, sending them to them and then taking my clients soul pieces back, because you cannot fully heal on a physical level until you have all of your soul pieces back. So it's a really key thing, especially if you're trying to heal, you have some kind of you know issue you're working on physically. You really need all of your soul pieces back to actually get a full healing. So my clients have had like amazing results from disconnecting and they usually feel like quite a bit of energy because you're literally getting pieces of your soul back. You start to feel more like yourself, you start to make more higher self-aligned choices all of that.
Speaker 3:Yeah, I love that and I actually. There's one question that came up for me with someone I was working with, which was a really good question, if you think about it, and I'm going to let you explain that one. When someone cords in, right, we think sometimes, when we are empathetic beings which most people that I think we work with because they would be attracted to us anyways we're all like very empathetic and we want to help and we need to change lives, right. So I got this question recently but isn't it good, when you're being empathetic and you're helping someone, to tap in and cord into that person's energy? We've been told, and I used to think that too, it was good to connect to that energy, to feel the feelings of the other person. So why is that actually a bad thing? Yeah, yeah.
Speaker 2:so that is one of the first things I do in a client session is I put up a gold wall and I set the intent that I will not court into them, because we need to be completely neutral for many reasons. But if we're tapping into their emotions, their thoughts, we're not good. First of all, we're not going to be able to give them a proper reading because we're going to be influenced by their emotions and thoughts. I like that. And then, yeah, you can form a cord and then, if you keep that cord, you're not doing each other any bit of service. So I always put up that gold wall. I check throughout the session that it's up, because we can still feel for them and be like, oh, I'm sorry, that sounds really tough, without getting emotional. Like I get emotional. I stay very neutral, also because I see the perfection in everything, but not everybody, you know, is at that place.
Speaker 3:No, no, no, no, yeah, I know for sure, 100%. Yeah, I think that's such a valuable one because I like what you said there that you couldn't even get a clear read, because I didn't even think of it like that, because when I was explaining it I was just like you just don't want to be giving away any of your energy to someone else, even if you think that it's good. And when you clear the cord you actually only clear the negative energy, right, you don't take away any of the positivities. And it's difficult to think that because I know that also with my mom I have the same thing. It's not coming from a negative place that you're courting, in that you're both courting into each other, or that she's hooking into you. It's more from like a place of you know wanting to keep you close or protection, or you know it's always like that can come from a good place, but that doesn't mean you want that energy in you basically. So that's the crazy thing.
Speaker 3:And I actually had someone I think that was a client I sent your way. He was saying that he had his mom, was like hooking into him a lot and like out of a place of love, but of like, but I want to keep you close. You know I don't want you to go to do your own thing and, without them knowing it, they're actually like doing something that is negatively impacting the person. So, yeah, yeah, so it's really good to be able to clear yourself of that energy. So how would you say for people who want to be like so my audience right, I work to give you the ultimate glow up, uh, to step into your goddess energy and not only physically transform, but as a result of physically transforming and vice versa, transforming energetically and really stepping into your power? How could clearing these energies and disconnecting from negativity other than the obvious, like how would that help you truly step into your power and be the woman that you're meant to be in this life?
Speaker 2:Yeah, great question. So by disconnecting from all of these energies which we also I don't think I shared this when we have a cord with someone, we are actually sharing emotions, we're sharing thoughts. So all of their emotions and thoughts and I've corded into. Actually, by being curious about someone, I've corded into them, into a dark person which I wouldn't have consciously corded into but because I was curious about them. Then you start sharing emotions, thoughts that can quickly get you off your soul pull. So for me, everything comes back to am I in alignment with my soul pull? Because that's what I'm here to do? And if you're courted into a bunch of people, that's going to really confuse you both from, like, a thought and an emotional standpoint. It could take you off path, it could make you more influenced by darker energies, all of that.
Speaker 3:So I basically just like when I'm working with someone, I feel like I'm just doing an energetic cleanse, like an energetic detox of other people's energy, so they can just be fully in their own energy and see their path ahead without the negative influence, without being how to say like, yeah, negative influence I was like their judgment being clouded or other because we're taking on other people's thoughts and, especially if we're courted in someone else, they could potentially hold us back from doing what we should be doing, which is essentially your soul path.
Speaker 3:Is what you're meant to be doing here in this life, is the power you're meant to be stepping into, which we all are, and I think that that's a very important thing to say that, without us knowing it, these heavier energies could be holding us back from tapping into our full power and our full potential. Right, and we can blame it on other external factors, when, in fact, we have complete and full control of making sure that that stuff doesn't influence us anymore, and so that's really cool. It's also puts a lot of like, it can put a lot of pressure on yourself that you have the full power. But when you look at it from the other perspective, of being like, hey, I literally have the power to shift everything and change everything, which just changes your life in so many more ways than just one, and I wanted to ask you, angela, what have you experienced after getting into this work and being able to disconnect from these energies and help others do that. How has that impacted your life and changed your life?
Speaker 2:Oh my gosh, so much. There's so many things I could say, I mean. But I just have clear thoughts and I can tell when I if I'm on social media and there's tons of contagions on there. So if I start thinking about something, I can immediately tell when I'm starting to go off track and then just like disconnect myself. So just having that feeling and repetition of like staying on path with my true self, my true path, is really empowering. Just you know, I decided to take a break from dating two years ago and just focus on myself and my kids and my business. I've never done that before. I wouldn't have been able to make that decision without a clear, you know head. So there's just been so many amazing things, yeah.
Speaker 3:I really I that's that's really really cool and yeah, I think it's very important that people are aware of this stuff, at least that you know. Sometimes it's a lot of the time, it's not even your own thoughts, it's not even your own beliefs that you're carrying around, and yet it's influencing your decisions. So, being able to differentiate between what is yours and what isn't yours and being able to clear that energy makes such a big difference, even when it comes to, for example, what I coach on as well, and your body transforming like limiting belief systems that have been brought down to you and they keep getting reinforced. If you keep connecting to that person right, that's giving you those limiting belief systems. So, for example, your parents, a lot of the time, are giving you limited belief systems and you're making them your own.
Speaker 3:And when you can differentiate between what's yours and what's not, that really changes so many things. And that is like the crazy thing is we're talking about like ghosts and darker energies, aliens, demons, things like that. To some people it sounds absolutely insane, but when you kind of like, it sounds absolutely insane. But when you kind of like like narrow it down to just someone sending you negative energy and things like that. It becomes a little more palatable, and then you can start seeing, like how it can be in so many other areas, right and yeah, and then it becomes a little bit more like oh, maybe that is possible, because you can't see everything, you can't see all energy, unless you're fully clairvoyant, which I'm on a mission to become. I know that you see things right, angela. Yeah, yeah, that's cool, or also a little bit scary.
Speaker 2:Yeah, I don't see things as clearly as my oldest daughter. She sees Really as if they're just standing there, as your oldest daughter does. Like shut it off. Yeah, sometimes she'll see it, but she used to when she was really into studying and like growing her intuition and all of that. She would just say like, oh, mom, there's a ghost here and she would like explain exactly what the woman was wearing. She would say like oh, she doesn't see us. She's in like a different dimension. She would just like explain the whole thing to me. So what did you?
Speaker 3:do. What did you do?
Speaker 2:I was just like in awe because I couldn't see her, you know, and yeah, so it was pretty wild.
Speaker 3:well, I had my first. I think well, maybe I've had it before, but I had, because I was on a trip my first experience opening my eyes. I was I was fully awake. I know that I was fully awake and I saw someone at the foot end of my bed, so that was fun, yay. I don't like this, like I'm doing all my tricks to get rid of it. I'm like I don't even know what it is right now Because I'm half asleep.
Speaker 2:Yeah, but yeah, I know I'm like, why do they always come at night, like that's what bothers me why does it have to be scary?
Speaker 3:yeah, and I even think about like back when my, when my grandfather passed away, I was 10 years old. The thing is, I've always believed in this stuff and I remember and I'm pretty sure I could probably go back now and intuitively maybe read what was going on there but I went to his office and I remember like the lights really like flickering and there was wind and everything, and I was like, oh my God, I think he's here. You know what I mean Like, and it's very possible that he was. Oh yeah, yeah, for sure.
Speaker 2:Yeah, I actually. I forgot actually until you just said that I had a similar thing with when my grandmother passed away. We and I was sitting one night out in the dining room crying. I was missing her, I was 12. And then all of a sudden I smelled her perfume and this curtain just like flew up and I was the only one out there. But I was like I just knew it was like her. It was very like within days of her, like passing or something.
Speaker 3:Yeah, that's crazy. That's crazy. Yeah, I've always been intrigued by all of this and I just love diving into all of this information. So is there anything else? Angela, before I ask everybody if they have any questions that they want to ask you, is there anything else you want to share about your story and what you do?
Speaker 2:right now I'm. I have focused a lot in the past on just helping moms. I have broadened that out to you know, like you sent a mail my way, so it is broader now.
Speaker 3:I sent a mail your way. Here you go. Oh my God.
Speaker 2:I love how you said that. Yeah, al told me he's like you need to open up your base, like so that sounded so funny. But yeah, so I help mothers, women, anybody who's having issues with. I do a lot of work around people who find themselves in relationship patterns they don't want to be in anymore themselves in relationship patterns they don't want to be in anymore. I do a lot of the soul reclamation sessions for people on anything from like parents, exes, even situations I've done it on like near death experiences. I do have longer reads to where I incorporate the timeline healings of like the past and the future, which I do on myself. Often those are really fun. So I've been doing a lot of those sessions. But yeah, I mean I basically do anything, but obviously I have like a specialty around relationships.
Speaker 3:Yeah, and that's the interesting thing, because I do a lot of the same things that Angela does in certain areas, but mine is focused on specific areas and hers are focused on and we all design it in our own way with our own tools. So it's very cool to see how we're all targeting different issues and things that we've obviously experienced. Like I've experienced these things and you've experienced. I haven't experienced what you've experienced. So, yeah, so like I I also I don't have kids yet I haven't, thankfully, had abusive relationships or difficult. I've had difficult relationships, but not in that way. So it's that will give you like a different way of approaching these things and connecting with people and obviously also all of the other courses and expertise that you have in those areas. So that's that's really cool, and also it's really good for people to understand that you have in those areas. So that's really cool. And also it's really good for people to understand that you can also disconnect. That's why the Party Girl Detox I really like that, because we think, okay, that's something that's happened in the past, but maybe you've still got some energies from that past that you can't let go of, like even people that struggle, like if you're trying to achieve something in your life. If that is a dream body, dream life, more success and you've struggled with addiction, for example, in the past and I have some people in my circle that have that struggle that could be due to darker energies that are still latching onto you, and if you can get rid of those energies, that will make it a lot easier for you to step into your power. So that's really cool and I really like what you're doing there.
Speaker 3:So, if it's all right with you, angela, let's see if anybody has any questions. Feel free to turn on your camera if you want, you can do it in the chat, whatever you're comfortable with, and if anybody's ready or has any questions, you can start now. Let's see if anybody comes up. No one so far. Oh, there's one. I love the party. This is Leanne. I love the name. Party Girl Detox. How do you begin to differentiate between thoughts and energy that are yours and those that are not?
Speaker 2:Yeah, thank you. I love that name too. It just like came to me in a funny way. But how to begin to differentiate between thoughts and energy. So there are a lot of energetic techniques that I can do for my clients and some of my clients. I'll actually teach them how to do there's very simple ones with the thought and energy, to make sure that they're your thoughts and they're your energy. So the in the party girl detox, I actually do a cord cutting from someone like like, let's say, you had a traumatic experience or just an experience you regretted, like you went home with someone you wish you wouldn't have, or like something like that. I do that. But then I also do a past timeline healing on that.
Speaker 3:I love that as well, yeah, so it's like I didn't even think of that. I love that yeah.
Speaker 2:I like I attack it from all angles and so when you start getting your energy pieces back, you start to notice it's hard to explain like how to, how I noticed, but like you just feel more aligned and there's certain questions that you can ask intuitively, like if they're your thoughts, or you could simply just say, like these thoughts are mine, you know, and like you might get a yes or a no, but it just is almost like, as you get your energy pieces back, you just start to notice, like what are your thoughts, what are not? If that makes sense, Let me know if I didn't answer that.
Speaker 3:I do remember a technique to do it quickly. It's where you tap on the heart three times right and you say these thoughts are my own. These thoughts are my own. These thoughts are my own, and if they disappear?
Speaker 2:they are not yours yeah. Yeah, yeah, that's one of the. I think we learned that in level.
Speaker 3:Level one, I'm pretty sure. Yeah, yeah, that's a great one. If you can't let go of a way, of a way overdue, toxic relationship, is it always because of cords and hooks and dark energies? I like that. That's a good question, kit.
Speaker 2:Yes, good question, dark energy but it's not like a dark energy being, it's just, yes, there's cords and hooks that need to be disconnected. That is a big sign for me is if someone still thinks about a relationship from 15 years ago, even if it wasn't, like they don't want to be with that person, but it's still very much on their mind, they keep having like flashes of memories. That's a big sign that there's just a cord there and that you need to have that disconnected.
Speaker 3:So yeah, and that can be misconstrued as we're meant to be, or something like that right. Yes, yes, I just thought of that. I was like I know when you think I've had that very much like this toxic connection to someone where I was like I think this is my soulmate when in fact it was just like being hooked into someone or accorded into someone and then misconstruing that, or them doing that to you even, which makes you feel like you're meant to be together energetically. That's not the case.
Speaker 2:Yeah, and then you'll notice, like if you get the cord cut and the hooks taken out, and then you're like I also in a final step where I make it so that they can't cord back into you and you won't cord back into them, so, yeah, the difference, you'll be like oh, like I don't even want to think about that Exactly.
Speaker 3:But we know that feeling right when you're like why was I so into this person? Like for what reason? But when you're in the thick of it, like you don't, you don't know, or you're just so hip, like almost like hypnotized right by by the situation. Yeah, sorry, anyone else have any questions, guys, about this? About anything else? Oh, no more questions, maybe they're coming in. Is there anything you want to add anymore, angela? Anything that you think would be helpful for people to know about any of this? Like, what is your favorite part of this, the work that you do?
Speaker 2:My favorite part is definitely like the energy work, whether it's helping someone clear dark energy. So a lot of times, dark energies can make you think dark thoughts, they can make you crave certain things like. And then when you find out that's not actually you, it's not like you don't have an issue. It's this dark entity. And when it's gone you're like, oh my gosh, I feel so clear now. So those are my favorite things. And then all the you know unhooking the timeline, healings, all of that.
Speaker 3:So Okay, we're getting some, some questions in, as you're you're saying, but I want to just touch upon that as well. Yeah, it's really cool because even if you're like trying to get into fitness and things like that right, like that's why it also intrigues me very much Like if you're craving sweets all the time and that's not even your own energy that's craving it, but yes, there's obviously a reflective part of why that's happening. But then that darker entity or darker energy will make that worse. So when you remove that darker energy, it will make it easier for you to disconnect from that craving or things like that. Yeah, okay, so we got another one from Kit. Could it also has something to do with soul contracts? Are the hooks and the cords part of that?
Speaker 2:Yeah, good question. So we have something called like soul connection cords. Those are somewhere else. We keep those, we do not touch those. We clear up. We should never have any hooks or cords the emotional cords with anyone soul contracts, that would be something different. So if you feel like you're being called to someone from the past and you're not sure if it's a soul contract, I would definitely recommend like clearing the cords and hooks from that person and then you know, we can always look in intuitively and see is it a soul contract, is it something else?
Speaker 2:But there are soul contracts. Maybe you mean this. Like I had a soul contract to be with my ex who was abusive that was very much part of my soul contract. To have a son with him, to experience these things and then to move on, to finally stand up for myself, which is like the law of opposing forces. You finally stand up for yourself. Then you kind of like shut down that old pattern. So there are soul contracts like that where it's very much part of who you were supposed to be with at that time.
Speaker 3:So I love what you're saying there, cause that just made something come up for me as well, which I think is very important for people to understand, and it's something that I some people can grasp and others can't. These difficult situations, the things that you've been through, angela, are not easy. They're difficult. Most people wish they didn't have to go through all of that. Right, but when you start looking at it from how this has allowed you to grow and become a stronger person, like it's a hard question to ask, but even I had this with my partner, because he had a very difficult childhood, and a friend of mine also. And if you can look at it and see how it's actually perfect that all of that stuff has happened to you. And in fact, if you want to go and take it to past life situations, the people that are your worst enemies in this life could have actually been like the greatest love of your life or the people that you loved most in a previous life. And I can let you explain, angela, like why would that be?
Speaker 2:Yeah, because only someone who loves you so much would actually sign up to hurt you, to have to live with themselves for treating you a certain way. So you know one of my exes. He has to live forever knowing he physically hurt me several times and like he would only do that. I know we were in past, I know some of our past lives so like I can see, I can just see it on a soul level, how much he loves me. But I would never like. That doesn't mean I want to go be friends with him in this life. It's just we're neutral, we're totally fine, like if I see him I give him a hug, I've totally neutralized it amazing that you can do that after all of that by the way.
Speaker 3:Yeah, and that's very empowering, I think. And also, but why would someone that?
Speaker 2:loves you so much in a past life, want to do that to you yeah, because they know you need that lesson. So before you come into this life, you sit and you say, okay, I need to learn this. Will you play this role for me? Basically? And only someone that loves you is going to sacrifice themselves Like he's going to have to. He doesn't have to suffer, but he signed up to suffer with that, knowing he did those things. And only someone that really loves you would sign up for that.
Speaker 3:Which is very hard for some people to grasp and understand. Okay, so we have a question from Cassie. Uh, so, as a clean BDE alum, oh, I completely, yes, yeah, see, completely shifted my relationship with my ex to one that is very positive I know this cause Cassie's in my membership and it's incredible Uh to one that is very positive for co-parenting, which is a huge miracle. Thanks, angela. Lately we are having an issue with a big disagreement over how he chose to bring his new girlfriend into my kids' lives. Oh fun, how can I get to the feeling, to feeling good with other, with our sorry co parenting, when I disagree with his approach and how it's affecting our kids?
Speaker 2:Hmm, okay, good question. So I would start with neutralizing, which I know is always hard to do, especially when there's kids involved, and I've been there before where my ex would bring all these girls around my child. So you could start looking at like, let's say, there's like five negative reasons why he should not be bringing her around your kids. If it were me, I would sit down and I would come up with you know kids. If it were me, I would sit down and I would come up with you know like seven reasons why it's a positive thing. And that can take some like creativity, because it's not a super easy thing to do.
Speaker 2:I would also look at, let me just see, I would also look at how this will, how this could actually help your relationship. So if you guys were, if you were able to see it as perfect to neutralize it, maybe this is just a reflection that you could help clear once you become neutral to it. So it might be like you know, a high level reflection for you to neutralize and then you'll have growth from it, your kids will have growth from it, your guys' relationship will have growth from it. So I would say like the first thing to do is just to see it as perfect, even though I know that's hard, I know it's really hard to do and list out, like, even if you can just list out like three reasons why it's a positive thing for you or him. Like maybe it'll make him happier, maybe that means he'll make more money, maybe that means he'll give you more money, maybe you know, and it just it takes some creativity but that's what I would do.
Speaker 2:To get back to a neutral. You don't have to feel good about the situation that he's bringing, like the girl around, but you could try to. I mean, you might, you might be like oh yeah, that's going to make him happier. He's going to maybe let you have the kids more. He's going to go on trips, you're going to get the kids more. Like just trying to think of positive ways to neutralize it.
Speaker 3:Yeah.
Speaker 3:I hope that helps, yeah, and sometimes the thing is with these things like it's like sometimes annoying advice, you know it's going to get you know. It's like sometimes annoying advice, you know it's gonna get, you know it's gonna get you where. Because I know that feeling like, oh, yeah, I know I need to do that, but I don't feel like doing that right now, you know. And then you're like, Okay, cool, I get it, I need to do that, I love that.
Speaker 3:So one question actually, because you know I work with people, with women, who want to achieve their dream bodies and also achieve their dream life. Like, from the perspective of a parent, what would you tell women with kids? Like to start prioritizing themselves and stepping into their power themselves. And stepping into their power, Like what has been a major game changer for you to be able to grow your business and and and do what you want to do and take care of your body, take care of yourself. Um, how, like, how have you been able to do that and be the best mom or, as a result, be the best mom that you can be?
Speaker 2:Yeah, great question. Oh, I like one of the first things I say when I wake up is like I come first and I just say that all day and I already connect it to by putting myself first. My kids will benefit. So I get up, I do my own thing If they bother me. Oh, mommy's doing her stuff right now, so I'll be with you in a minute and I just stick with the boundaries. I also my son knows he's five, but I give him 37 minutes every day of undivided attention. So he'll ask me mom, when can we do 37 minutes? And I'll just say, oh, that's so cute, yeah. And then I always say, like you know, mommy's going to the gym and it's like kids learn by watching us, not by what we tell them to do.
Speaker 2:And I've managed to maintain a really great relationship with my 20 year old, who can literally call me and tell me anything, and I do not judge her. Sometimes I'm tempted to say something motherly, but I, I asked myself, I just kind of pause before I say anything like negative to my children when I can't. Obviously I'm not perfect, but she called out sick the other day because she'd been up late with her boyfriend and the mother in me wanted to say like well, you shouldn't call out sick, you know. But I just said, okay, well, I hope you feel better. And then she ended up her work, told her that if she ever calls out sick, she can't come back for like two days because it's a food service place. So now.
Speaker 2:I'm never calling out sick again because she likes having the money. So she like learned her own lesson. So it's it's just finding that balance between we don't have to like tell them what to do all the time. It's better for us to put ourselves first and then they can watch what we're doing. I have a very set kind of like schedule. They know, in the mornings I do energy work, I do client calls. They do test my boundaries sometimes, but then I know it's a reflection for me.
Speaker 3:So yeah, but what I think is so cool, angela as well, like you're just so, so confident in that, like you've literally like almost trained them to know, like this is now mommy time and then I have the 37 minutes for you. Do you ever feel like also I just want to add on for the people who are either re-watching this or listening to this you would never be able to guess that Angela has a 20-year-old daughter? Like it's actually insane. So I mean, yes, I feel like it should, it should be said and what else I would say with that is because I know that, I know that I can. I have my dogs. I mean, I even feel it with my dogs.
Speaker 3:I can only imagine you feeling it with your kids, and I know that for a fact with my members and clients that I work with that a lot of the time they feel like they don't have time because of their kids. How have you shifted that? How do you feel like you're not neglecting them and you're actually being there for them more? And then I have one more last question from Jade so that we won't keep you too long. I just wanted to ask that one question so that we won't keep you too long.
Speaker 2:I just wanted to ask that one question. Yeah, so I like in the mornings, after my energy work or when they first wake up, I'll like devote some cuddle time to them. So we usually like all cuddle and tickle and like say good morning, and I'm always really happy. When they wake up I'm like, oh my gosh, good morning, like I'm super excited to see them and that kind of like I feel like shows them how important they are to me. And then I'll be like okay, mommy has to go do her stuff. And. And then they know like once I get my stuff done in the morning, then in the afternoon, evening, they have my attention, you know, and usually they're in school, so it's not as difficult. But during the summer they're all here at home with me. So yeah, but did you ever?
Speaker 3:do you ever feel like they feel neglected when you're putting yourself first?
Speaker 2:Sometimes they might say my son reflects me. So if he says like Mommy, why do you, why do you not like me, why do you not want to spend time with me? I just say you know, you know I love you and I can't wait to spend time with you during 37 minutes in, you know an hour or something. And I know also it's a reflection for me that I'm, you know, being hard on myself.
Speaker 3:So yeah, yeah, okay, we have two more questions. Yeah, so Jade is asking Angela regarding putting self first and balancing motherhood, business and all other areas of life self first and balancing motherhood, business and all other areas of life how would you implement this with a baby?
Speaker 2:Yeah, so I would say, you know, obviously, because babies aren't going to understand like, oh, we're going to do 37 minutes later.
Speaker 3:Maybe on a subconscious level.
Speaker 2:So I would say, like trying to figure out a schedule around, like if it were me, I would like try to figure a schedule around nap time, really maximize the time that they're sleeping. But then also you could even like, if they're needing you, you could even say, like mommy needs five seconds, like even just doing it for five seconds, we'll put that in your creator field, that you come first, yeah, and then opportunities could come in to where that five seconds grows and then you'll have more time. So I would say, even if you can only do it for five seconds, like take five seconds, take a drink of water, mommy needs some water, mommy needs this, and then I'll be right with you. That's how I would do it.
Speaker 3:So yeah, here again, also because babies need your attention every moment of the day. I've been doing the me first I drink some tea and then pick, pick you up, etc. But yeah, so yeah, how would you say? How would you say that applies, because, I mean, I can't speak because I haven't had a baby yet. But I do wonder, like, how much of the time does the baby need your attention at every moment, and how much of the time is it you're feeling like they need your attention every moment?
Speaker 2:Yeah, yeah, that's a good thing to to intuit, like how much could your baby like? I don't know how old your baby is, but you know mine sometimes I would put in the little play pen and just kind of let them play, or I'd put them in their walker, like trying to intuit a few things that they could do. That would give you a little bit of time. I would try to just like, yeah, just get creative with that, if that makes sense, Because, yeah, you definitely still need like your time too, but I know it's, I know it's more challenging with a baby, for sure.
Speaker 3:Yeah, yeah, I can only imagine. I think what Kit had asked was a 37 minutes. I think it's answered, kit. Is that clear for you? I think the 37 minutes is the undivided attention, so so that they okay. Awesome, so that's clear, okay, guys. Is there any more last minute questions? Because I know angela has to get to another call as well. If not, then we're going to finish it off.
Speaker 3:Do you have any last remarks? You want to add angela? I'm going to add all her links in the show notes on the podcast because I'm going to be uploading this. I'm just wondering if I might. I'm going to see if I'm going to upload the entire thing with the entire Q&A. I might be doing that and then I'll be adding in all of your links so that people can find you to work with you. And this is going to be the exception, because normally the Q&A for people that are not in the membership will not be available after one week. But I think this might be the exception because it's going to be a podcast and I don't know if Angela might be also sharing it on her podcast as well, so you can find it there with all the links. So with that, thank you, angela. So much for joining us. Is there anything last thing that you want to add before we close off? Thank you, so much.
Speaker 2:This was really fun and I loved the live component of it too, and yeah, thank you so much.
Speaker 3:I think it adds really a lot of like, good questions that people, that people may have that I might not come up with or and it's just great because it helps people in the moment understand everything that you're doing. And you can find Angela also on social media on Instagram and reach out to her there. So thank you so much everyone.
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