How To Use Intuition For Dating & Relationship Clarity

That post-date silence can feel louder than any red flag. One great night turns into spiraling thoughts, body tension, and the urge to grasp for certainty. I’m talking to you like you’re my bestie in the dating world and walking you through what I did when I didn’t hear back from a guy I really liked, how I used my intuitive gifts to neutralize the story I was building, and why that inner shift matters more than trying to “figure him out.” 

From there, I zoom out into the bigger relationship questions I’ve been seeing lately: people getting guidance from intuitives who are not fully dialed in, and making major choices without the full picture. I share what I would look for before trusting anyone with spiritual relationship advice, including experience with timelines, future outcomes, and soul contracts. We talk about soul lessons, why “Should I leave?” often signals unfinished growth, and how compatibility can show up across physical, mental, emotional, and spiritual match, plus what “potential” can look like over time. 

We also go into the nuanced truth about soulmates and soul compliments. Not everyone is meant to be with one in this life, and even when you are, timing and readiness matter. If you’re feeling incomplete, frantic, or disconnected from your soul pull, chasing a soulmate can backfire. I also name a harder topic: dark forces and energetic interference that can sabotage relationships by distorting perception, and why going to multiple intuitives for the same answer can create confusion and doubt. 

Email me your biggest dark force questions for the next episode: angela@angelamariechristian.com

Transcript

Welcome And Host Backstory

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Welcome to Unveil, the podcast. I'm your host, Angela Christian, and I help you with unveiling your true self by peeling away the layers that society placed on you. I do this with a combination of neuroscience, energetics, and ancient spiritual wisdom. I went from underpaid and overworked in corporate America to launching a six-figure company that continues to grow. I went from toxic relationships to being happy and single for over a year, as I worked and continue to work on becoming the best version of myself and so much more. My greatest passion is to help women and mothers feel, transform, and become the highest versions of themselves. As I continue to grow and expand my intuitive knowledge and unique wisdom, I'll be including you on my journey to millions. So let's get into it. Chatting with you as if you are just my bestie in this dating world here. As many of you know, I have not dated much in the last three years and only recently started dating. Went on a great date with a guy a few weeks ago. And just as I was starting to spin out, well, I did spin out for a little while when I didn't hear anything back right away. I used my intuitive gifts. I tapped into, and it might sound a little creepy, but when you have these gifts dialed in, it's actually super helpful to not spin out, which can then affect all areas of life, right? So I looked in at his thoughts, I looked in at his reflections, I looked in at his creator field, all of these things, what made me a match for this. And then the day, I am not joking with you, the day that I finally neutralized it all, got into a place of, you know what, it's not me, it's actually him. Cool if he reaches out, if not, great. Then he then he texted me that night and asked to see me again. So of course, like, yes, that was exciting on many, on many levels. But what I've realized is like dating, or even if you're in a relationship, these are the best ways to work on your reflections, your communication, all of that, right? So my mentor, Alessandro, as many of you know, told me last week, or actually that was this week. He told me for well, one of the things is for a manifestation that I can't talk about yet, because in case you don't know, manifestations you are not supposed to talk about until they've actually happened. And then there's this whole like rule of three thing, uh, which was really hard for me to do for a while because I was so used to telling my best friend everything. And I found that when I couldn't share an exciting business milestone with her, it was building all this pressure. And at first it felt really uncomfortable. But then after a while, I was like, oh, I get it, because it's building up this pressure and it's making it happen again and again. And then once you reach a pattern of three, so for example, if you were to hit a certain level in your business three months in a row or at least three times, then at that point it's okay to share because it's become a pattern. But what could happen if is if I had shared an exciting business milestone with her right after it happened, it kind of like you can imagine a balloon, all the air goes out of the balloon, right? So there's nothing to like keep building up. Long story short, one of the things I can't mention right now is because it's a manifestation thing, but my mentor told me to do something specific with a dating app. And like, I've done dating apps in the past. I don't particularly love them. However, what he told me to do with the dating apps at this point, I'm like, okay, I get it. Like it makes a lot of sense, and I will share it with you guys when I can. But it has opened up this whole new world of intuitive gifts for me. I'll share a little bit. And the reason why I wanted to talk about this today is because I've actually been seeing a lot of people dealing with relationship issues getting information from people who, you know, have gifts, but maybe they're not super dialed in or they're not seeing the full picture. So it's causing some issues. I've just had a lot of people have been helping with this. Also, dark forces are involved, all of that, right? So before you work with an intuitive on a relationship topic, if it were me, I would only be asking someone if their intuition is super dialed in, of course. Two if they have experience with timelines, being able to see future timelines, being able to see how you know staying with this person will lead you to this, leaving this person right now or in six months, well, this will create this. That is key. And then also being able to read soul contracts, because there's a lot of talk and understandably desire to be with your soulmate or soul compliment. However, uh, if you're not if you're not highly trained in this area to be able to read the soul contracts, to be able to see like what happens if someone dates this person or leaves this person, then it can actually affect people's soul path. And that's why I'm really careful when I pull relationship information, because it's not just about right now, it's about what's what's this going to cause in terms of a ripple effect. So for me, when a client asks, you know, should I leave this relationship? The fact that they're asking that tells me there's still lessons they need to learn. So I immediately typically know the answer is already no. But then I pull their soul contracts. I look at how many lessons they have left to learn. I look at how matched up they are, because you can be, there's four different areas that you can match up with physical, mental, emotional, and spiritual. Now you can make a relationship work with anyone. You don't have to just like, for some reason, I think, and I understand like people want to be with their soulmate or soul compliment. And I'll get to that in a second. But if you're with a two out of four match or a three out of four match, you can make that work, right? Then there's also looking at how are you matched up right now? Like you might be matched up physically and emotionally right now. And then I can look in and be like, okay, what's the potential? Oh, the potential is they're actually going to be able to line up mentally or spiritually, right? So there's this whole timeline to consider. Now I will pull for my clients how many lessons they have left, what those lessons are, how to start working through those. And I tell them, like, get your relationship to the best possible place before you even think about leaving, right? Then there's also this whole ideal attributes in a partner list exercise that they have them do as well. Knowing what I know now, it's like if you rush out of a relationship or you leave a relationship because you're unhappy, it's just gonna follow you. Those soul lessons are just gonna follow you to the next relationship. So you might as well stay in the relationship you're in if it's safe, and then work through those. And that way your next relationship is gonna be an upgrade, right? So what I've been seeing happening though is these things aren't being considered and people are leaving relationships or or they're half in their relationship, but like really wanting to be with a soulmate or a soul compliment. Now, not everybody's meant to be with a soulmate or a soul compliment in this life. For example, I do have a soul compliment in this life, but if I were trying to try to be with him, it would put me off my soul path by three years. Now, my soul path is the most important thing to me. So I'm not going to risk that. I am meant to be with my soulmate, but not until I learn very specific things and I'm closer towards the high point of my soul path. So I have two people I'll be in relationships with who are going to help me get closer to that soulmate connection. This is the other thing, is if you are in a state where you're feeling like someone, you need someone to make you whole, or you're just feeling like frantic in your financial area of life, or you don't know what to do with your soul pull. If it were me, I would spend more time focusing on your soul pull, making yourself feel complete before trying to then find your soulmate or soul compliment. Because what would be worse is if you found them right now and you weren't ready, and then that relationship got destroyed, right? That could cause a lot of negative ripple effects, which we wouldn't want. So that's another thing I look at for people. First of all, are they meant to be with their soulmate in this life? Are they meant to be with their soul compliment? How ready are they for a soulmate? How ready are they for their soul compliment? These are really important intuitive questions. This is much beyond just like using a yes or a no. It's pulling percentages, it's pulling future timelines, all of that, right? And being able to see it from a higher perspective. So one of the other issues that can happen with relationships is dark forces get involved. There's one particular dark force uh entity who loves sabotaging relationships, and that dark force entity can cause a lot of issues in your relationships. It can make you think the person you're with is evil, or it can make you think um you're supposed to be someone else when you're not, right? So there's all kinds of issues that if you're too open and you're too wanting that person to come in and complete you, it can sometimes open you up to dark forces, right? So I'm only sharing this today because I care about you guys. I care about people being on their soul path. And I feel like when I see things happen in patterns, that's a sign for me to talk about it because clearly my higher self is showing me, hey, this issue's happening. So let's talk about it, right? Because I do have a mastery skill set in dark forces and in relationships. So this is something I not just learned in this life, but I carried soul wisdom from other lives, just like you have a mastery in this life because you've carried soul wisdom from other lives, right? So if you have intuition, what I would recommend is intuiting the best person to help you with your relationship questions. Intuit the best person, or if you don't have intuition, ask someone else to intuit who has intuition, to intuit the best possible person and only go to one person because this is another issue I'm seeing right now is people are going to multiple intuitives asking the same question. Now, our higher selves do not like that, and they will mess with you. You'll start getting different answers, it will breed confusion, doubt, frustration. It's a big no-no. I've seen actually a lot of issues blow up in a bad way from going to too many intuitives asking the same question. So intuit the best person, then go to them, right? And if if they feel like, oh, I think actually so-and-so could help you more, like listen to them, right? If they have their intuition dialed in. So I have to make this a short and sweet episode. The next episode I'm really excited about because it's all around dark forces, my favorite topic, and a lot of the uh similar in to this topic, how I'm looking at patterns, what's happening, how we can fix it. There's a lot of dark force stuff happening right now, like patterns I'm seeing, where people are kind of missing things. I'll talk about that in the next episode. But please feel free to send in uh your comments, questions. If you want me to expand on something I talked about today in a future episode, let me know. I love hearing from you guys. And actually, for the next episode on Dark Forces, I'm going to open it up for you guys to email me your biggest dark force questions. I'll answer some and we'll go from there. So sending you guys so much love. Bye. Thank you for listening to Unveiled. I always love hearing your takeaways. So please connect with me on Instagram at AngelaMurieChristian and feel free to tag me and share it with your friends. Every single review matters, and it helps me reach more people who want to improve this world. If you leave a review, let me know and I'll send you a little thank you gift. Any resources mentioned in the show will be linked in the show notes, sending you all love.