Zen at the Sharp End

Suddenly a lifetime of resentment shows up - with Wendy Shinyo Haylett

July 14, 2022 Mark Westmoquette Season 1 Episode 12
Suddenly a lifetime of resentment shows up - with Wendy Shinyo Haylett
Zen at the Sharp End
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Zen at the Sharp End
Suddenly a lifetime of resentment shows up - with Wendy Shinyo Haylett
Jul 14, 2022 Season 1 Episode 12
Mark Westmoquette

Wendy Shinyo is a long-time Buddhist practitioner and lay minister with The Bright Dawn Center of Oneness. She is also the host of the podcast, "Everyday Buddhism: Making Everyday Better", and works as a life coach, meditation teacher, and spiritual companion.

In this episode Wendy talks very honestly about how her practice was turned upside down during the pandemic after she started to feel anger and act irrationally with people close to her. She experienced these people as very ‘other’ despite years of Buddhist practice and ‘knowing’ no one is really separate. This led her to seek a talking therapist who helped her to recognise she had become very good at pushing away the trauma that arose from the after-effects of coming out as gay in the 1960s. As a result her body had accumulated years of unresolved resentment. She very openly and affably discusses the confluence of psychotherapy and Buddhist practice and the importance of somatic-based meditation when coming to terms with your troublesome buddhas.

Support the Show.

This podcast is sponsored by Zen Minded – an online lifestyle store offering you the very best of Japanese craft, incense & other Zen-inspired home-goods. Check it out at www.zenminded.uk
We’re also sponsored by BetterHelp. BetterHelp offers convenient and affordable therapy online, helping match you with the right therapist from their network. They’ve extended an offer of 10% off your first month of therapy if you sign up via https://betterhelp.com/zenatthesharpend

If you liked this podcast, consider:

www.markwestmoquette.co.uk

Show Notes

Wendy Shinyo is a long-time Buddhist practitioner and lay minister with The Bright Dawn Center of Oneness. She is also the host of the podcast, "Everyday Buddhism: Making Everyday Better", and works as a life coach, meditation teacher, and spiritual companion.

In this episode Wendy talks very honestly about how her practice was turned upside down during the pandemic after she started to feel anger and act irrationally with people close to her. She experienced these people as very ‘other’ despite years of Buddhist practice and ‘knowing’ no one is really separate. This led her to seek a talking therapist who helped her to recognise she had become very good at pushing away the trauma that arose from the after-effects of coming out as gay in the 1960s. As a result her body had accumulated years of unresolved resentment. She very openly and affably discusses the confluence of psychotherapy and Buddhist practice and the importance of somatic-based meditation when coming to terms with your troublesome buddhas.

Support the Show.

This podcast is sponsored by Zen Minded – an online lifestyle store offering you the very best of Japanese craft, incense & other Zen-inspired home-goods. Check it out at www.zenminded.uk
We’re also sponsored by BetterHelp. BetterHelp offers convenient and affordable therapy online, helping match you with the right therapist from their network. They’ve extended an offer of 10% off your first month of therapy if you sign up via https://betterhelp.com/zenatthesharpend

If you liked this podcast, consider:

www.markwestmoquette.co.uk