Women's Dating And Confidence Podcast

How To Not Freak Him Out With Your Strong Feelings For Him

September 10, 2019 Episode 82
Women's Dating And Confidence Podcast
How To Not Freak Him Out With Your Strong Feelings For Him
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Women's Dating And Confidence Podcast
How To Not Freak Him Out With Your Strong Feelings For Him
Sep 10, 2019 Episode 82
Amber Grubenmann
Today I get REAL with you about freaking men out with your strong feelings for them.
Show Notes

Today I get REAL with you about freaking men out with your strong feelings for them. And by real I mean I share more of my story with you as well :) This episode is based on the following listener question:

"Honestly I catch feelings with someone who I am seeing, too fast - that goes for friendships and dating. I don't know what else to do unless I just embrace it. The only other option I can think of is to just put walls up but that doesn't feel good. And yes, there is an element of neediness to it. It sucks to type this, but I am being honest.

So here's the question. When being transparent and really being honest in the moment, what if I reveal feelings of insecurity about where I stand with that person or the unhealthy quick attachment I have got to them or compliments about their beauty I want to give. Because that is real to me in the moment. And yes, unfortunately, it shows a lot of neediness and an element of feminine energy.

I understand that the long term answer would be to be on my purpose, have an abundance mindset and not get attached too easily, raise my self worth so I don't think this is the only person who will like me. But it's happened all my life, I just get attached too easily. And I go on dates with these women and the first date when I literally know nothing about them is fine. But then once I get an idea that I like them, I want to share all the neediness baggage BS and when I can't let that out, I heavily filter what I have to say, the conversation dies, and no connection gets made. I know this is similar to the podcast Dr. Aziz and yourself recorded. However this one particular block I have about being honest and transparent really trips me up."

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