Messy Can't Stop Her

When Love Has Cost You Much

Judith Kambia Obatusa (JKO) Season 9 Episode 12

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In this Christmas Day episode of Messy Can’t Stop Her, JKO explores the meaning of love for women who have loved deeply and paid a personal cost. Drawing from lived experience, science and scripture, this episode unpacks God’s unconditional love, the impact of disappointment on the heart, and how love can be restored.

Nuggets of wisdom in this episode

Christmas as the ultimate declaration of love.

The connection between self-blame, burnout, and difficulty practicing self-love

Reframing love for 2026

A Christmas benediction for women in the trenches

Key scriptures: John 3:16, Romans 5:8, Romans 8:1, 1 John 4:19 


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