Scared to Look: Face Your Financial Fears This Fall

Halloween season has a way of stirring up fears, and for many people, money is one of them. In this episode of JC Today, Judy Copenbarger talks about why so many people avoid looking at their finances and how fear, shame, and past experiences keep us stuck. 

You will learn how to face your financial reality without judgment, understand where money fear really comes from, and take simple, practical steps to bring clarity, confidence, and control back into your financial life. 

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Transcript

Hello, this is Judy Copenbarger, bestselling author, international speaker, money whisperer, financial expert, and creator of Money, Truth, and Life. Welcome to the Money, Truth, and Life podcast. 

Halloween is around the corner, and in the spirit of the season, I want to talk with you about something important.  

Are you scared to look?  

Let’s face your financial fears this fall. And yes, we can do it together. With a little structure, it becomes much easier. 

Many people are afraid to look at their finances, even when they know it matters. Why is that? Where does that fear come from? 

In my experience working with people for many decades, fear around money usually comes from emotional history. Maybe money conversations growing up were stressful or filled with conflict. Maybe there was blame. You don’t make enough. You spend too much. Maybe there is shame from past mistakes. Investments that did not work out. Not saving as much as you hoped. Comparing yourself to friends and neighbors who seem to be doing better. 

All of that emotional weight creates anxiety. And when people avoid money issues, it does not make things better. It makes everything worse.  

When any area of life has hiding, pretending, shame, or blame, it affects everything else. Financial fear does not stay isolated. It shows up in relationships, intimacy, health, confidence, and how you show up for your family and community.  

For example, hiding credit card debt or tax issues from a spouse creates distance. Anxiety builds. That stress leaks into every area of life. 

The answer is honesty.  

If you feel fear around money, say it out loud. “I don’t want to look at this, but I’m going to.” Facing it may not feel easy, but the process itself is simple. 

If you have debt, spending habits that are not serving you, or savings that are not where you want them to be, look anyway. Write it down. Have the conversation. Bring it into the open. 

I worked with a couple a few years ago who were approaching retirement. When we uncovered everything, we discovered they were both hiding separate credit cards from each other. Each thought they were protecting the relationship, but the hiding was hurting it.  

Once everything was out in the open, we realized what they really wanted was autonomy. They wanted personal spending money they did not have to justify. So we built that into their plan intentionally and transparently. 

The result was powerful. Stress dropped. Communication improved. Their relationship strengthened. They had fun again. Today, they are doing very well because they chose honesty over avoidance. 

Fear loses its power when light is brought to it. 

You will face fear many times in life. Courage is not the absence of fear. Courage is doing the right thing anyway.  

The most common financial fears I see involve debt, spending habits, and savings. People worry about market crashes or not having enough later in life. Much of that fear is fueled by constant negative messaging. Most of it is not helpful.  

Money works best when it is grown, protected, and managed with intention. When those things align, fear decreases and confidence grows. 

Here is a simple challenge.  

Take a pen and paper, or your phone, and write down three things you can do right now to move forward. Small actions matter. Progress reduces fear. 

Maybe that means having an honest conversation with your spouse. Maybe it means increasing a retirement contribution by one percent. Maybe it means reviewing benefits at work or talking with a professional on your financial team.  

Set a deadline. By Sunday at five o’clock, take one action. 

Doing something changes everything. 

If this episode helped you, share it with someone who might be avoiding their finances right now. 

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You’ve got this.  

Face your financial fears this fall. Start today.  

Until next time, make it a great day. 

I’m Judy Copenbarger. God bless.