Parenting Pickup
Season 4 Episode 3: 'Becoming a Behavior Detective: Emotional Co-Regulation' with Kim Hughes
Apr 27, 2026
Season 4
Episode 3
New Horizon Academy | Cara Johnson-Bader
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Kim Hughes, a Conscious Discipline certified instructor, joins us to discuss how parents, guardians and caretakers can become better "behavior detectives". Kim demonstrates how through treating tricky behavior as a form of communication, and using emotional co-regulation as a tool to get us back to square one, we can set the children in our care up for long-term success.
In this episode we discuss:
- Conscious Discipline as a practice
- The brain state model
- Moving from controlling to connecting (modeling)
- Naming feelings
- Seeing mistakes as future opportunities
- Arming children with alternative modes of expressing needs
Attached are links Kim recommends for furthering our education on emotional literacy:
The Brain State Model
https://consciousdiscipline.com/methodology/brain-state-model/
Cliffs notes for the skills of conscious discipline
https://consciousdiscipline.com/e-learning/webinars/parent-cliff-notes-for-the-skills-of-conscious-discipline/
'Easy to Love, Difficult to Discipline' (Dr. Becky Bailey, 2001)
https://www.harpercollins.com/products/easy-to-love-difficult-to-discipline-becky-a-bailey?variant=32128336232482
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Thanks for listening!