Self.Styled.Life with Janelle Wehsack

From Overthinking To Owning It: How To Let Yourself Want What You Want In 2026

Janelle Wehsack Episode 103

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Are you able to allow yourself to want what you want without overthinking it?


Perhaps you covered all the steps to get clear on what you want only to find that you're telling yourself stories of how your desires aren't strategic enough, realistic enough, convenient enough, or approved by the people around them.


All this overthinking and self-doubt leads to confusion, yet, from all the women I've spoken to and coached over the years, it's not confusion, but rather conditioning.


In episode 103 we're exploring:

  1. How overthinking often shows up when there is something that you want but haven't yet given yourself permission to claim it. 
  2. Why so many women minimise their desires even when they've built remarkable careers and lives. 
  3. 3 gentle shifts that help you reconnect with what you actually want without shutting it down


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