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Speaker 2It's the only podcast I listen to .
Speaker 1With your host styles . What's goodie people we all back . It's another week . It's another week of me trying to say hello without saying hello . It's just that . It's just that I'm grateful . I'm thankful because I do have a really good guest for y'all today . I'm going to be pissed off , though . It's not my wife , and I keep saying that . You know she wasn't on the trial , she last week we joked about her having a trial period as far as , like , being a host and stuff like that . I promise you it's not that . That is not that coming to fruition . And there's a meat grinder over here . We do run through host . However , she won't be one of them . Stuck in a good way , in a good way . I hope everybody's week was good .
Speaker 1You know , if you're listening and you're driving , keep your eyes on the road . You know , if you're driving to Tesla , keep your eyes on the road , because it's not infallible . What else ? If you know somebody who is just like you and a like is what we like to call them Send them the podcast . The more , the merrier . You guys will have something to talk about . It'll be great , right ? So we're going to start the show . Well , I'm not even start to show off , I'm bugging once again . We're going to start off with this , okay , so listen up , listen closely , follow me .
Speaker 3I expected you have a Wow . I expected more . You should be expecting stuff so early on . I didn't lie , I didn't lie . I didn't lie about you two I'm here for a reason .
Speaker 2I didn't lie about you two . I didn't lie about you two . I didn't lie about you two . I didn't lie about you two . I didn't lie about you two . I didn't lie about you two . I'm here for a reason . This is the second day .
Speaker 3I'm here for a reason .
Speaker 2I'm here for a reason .
Speaker 3You're good Because you want to go to the capital to build ? Okay , I want to go out . I want to stay in Okay , you should have told me that you should communicate .
Speaker 4I communicate with you .
Speaker 2Exactly . You guys don't want to communicate , y'all want to say it .
Speaker 3Y'all have some of the shots on . I can really pull up and take you where you got from . Why don't you go with them then ? Okay , why don't you go with them ? You go with them , since they are so much better than me . Y'all want to go with them .
Speaker 1So let me paint the picture for you . This gentleman actually fixed her plate they're at his house Fixed her plate of food . You know he did his thing as far as like the plate plating and stuff like that , it looked real good . She shows up she's thinking that she's going out for a meal , but instead , you know , he cooked a meal Right . So a very small thing turned into a very big thing and at that point I started counting my blessings . I am not dating anymore and this is great because you know I was an asshole .
Speaker 3No rice , no champagne . You don't eat nothing .
Speaker 1And I'm not playing , that was me all day long and I just have a little bit of another little sprinkle of disrespect .
Speaker 3Don't be acting like you fuck with me . You really don't Fuck off my line .
Speaker 1And then we can start the show .
Speaker 3I guess , I used to be in love with this bitch . They mean J the fuck with her . No more . Now I fuck with Tango Ray . Tango Ray , hey yo , what's in ?
Speaker 4the . We need two shots combo Then take me away , all right .
Speaker 1So boom , listen , this week we back to them . I don't even want to say back to , because that shit is disrespectful , I'm not even back to . I got my my road dog with me , barbie from let me touch you podcast .
Speaker 4Hey guys .
Speaker 1Why do you like every female that I have to get some money ?
Speaker 4I always say hey guys .
Speaker 1I understand , but with the annoying voice like that though , it's annoying , I'm sorry Now my voice is annoying , right out the gate .
Speaker 4It's already starting with me , you see right out the gate .
Speaker 1This is before we do that , though , before we put the boxing gloves on , let's tell everybody what we're drinking . So it's called a Henny fruit roll up . I did leave out an important ingredient . I guess it's important Not really so important , because it still tastes good , but it's Hennessy fruit punch and pineapple mango juice . It's supposed to have sweet and sour mix , but I totally left that out . What do you think ?
Speaker 4No , I think it's good without the sweet and sour .
Speaker 1It would have been like too sour Too sour , that's a word .
Speaker 4Yeah , it's my word Shut up . It's time for you to get back to podcasting .
Speaker 1Your vocabulary is slipping .
Speaker 4It would have been too sour because it has like that little . It already has like a sour , sour taste to it .
Speaker 1Listen , everybody listening to this voice right now , you can thank me later . I dragged that out of her bed , not literally , figuratively , all right , I brought it back from the dead , resuscitated up .
Speaker 4Yes , and I appreciate you for doing that .
Speaker 1Where you been , bob , I've been home .
Speaker 4You've been home . I've been home with my children . You know , healing , your favorite word . I fucking hate that word . Yeah , I had to take some time out but I'll be back .
Speaker 1Sometimes . Well , I'm back .
Speaker 4You know what I'm here .
Speaker 1Wait , Bob , everybody Don't fuck around on my platform . With that I'm hearing I'm back .
Speaker 4Yeah , are you really back though ?
Speaker 1Oh , ok , there we go .
Speaker 4This is the stepping stone to me being back .
Speaker 1I ain't no , goddamn stepping stone .
Speaker 4This is what is the beginning . What a whole bunch of greatness .
Speaker 1When can we expect ? Just no .
Speaker 2I'll say that for later .
Speaker 1I'll save it for later . You will do it , but I'm saving for later . So for everybody that doesn't know , bob , she has a podcast called Let Me Touch you . It's amazing . It's a self-help podcast . I'm not big on self-help podcast , but the way that she delivers the message , I love it . You want to talk a little bit about it , or you want ? To wait till later , because we wait till later , is it ?
Speaker 4on the Orthodox yeah , you did good . That's a good way to start it off and then we'll talk about it later . I'll get into more details later .
Speaker 1There you have it . Podcast is on the podcast . This is my podcast .
Speaker 4So then , what you want me to do , I don't know .
Speaker 1All right , let's get started All right , so boom . This is different from when we've had you on in the past .
Speaker 3All right .
Speaker 1So we have an icebreaker right now so everybody can get to know you , the people that don't know you . All right , so it's quick fire . I don't like the backstory , all right .
Speaker 4So you know I love giving them to you . So I'll make it short and simple .
Speaker 1I appreciate that you ready , ready . All right Text , call or FaceTime .
Speaker 4Call Texting is . You know ? It's like I feel with texting you can just text me now , I can text you back , and you could take like three hours to write back to me and it's going to get me upset .
Speaker 1So you rather the person call you .
Speaker 4Yeah , if you FaceTime me , you're invading my space . I'm going to ignore you and call you .
Speaker 1That's the third time that I've heard invading my space with FaceTime . Why ? Do y'all act like you can't ignore the FaceTime . You can All right then .
Speaker 4Who gave you the ? Who made you think that you had the right to FaceTime me , like only my kids can FaceTime me ?
Speaker 1Fair enough . Anyway , I'm going to move off of that angry topic . Shoot your shot of chilling the cut .
Speaker 4Shoot a shoot . I'm going to shoot my shot .
Speaker 1if I want it , I'm going to go for it , you fucking up right now because they're going to go to your Instagram page . Shoot a shoot , it won't be like oh she a gangster .
Speaker 4Yeah , cause I'm going to chill in the cut and nah , nah , shoot a shoot .
Speaker 1I'm going to go get you All right , ps , she's from the Bronx . Anyway , in your social circle , what would you say is the ratio of entrepreneurs versus nine to five die holders ?
Speaker 4I just recently changed my circle . Um , you know , when you elevate in your life , you have to leave some people behind , unfortunately . I love them , but I would say the entrepreneurs everyone is an entrepreneur in my circle right now Is that right . Yeah , they do the entrepreneur stuff and then they do the nine to five as well . So okay . Who those two done , did a real MVP's .
Speaker 1Oh shit , okay , um wasn't ready . Um , I know you grew up on alternative music . What's your song for the season of your life ?
Speaker 4This season . The song I have been listening to some of you might know it or not it's called happy by Leona Lewis . No .
Speaker 2No .
Speaker 4It's the what , like I said , I've been healing right , so it's a song that I play every morning to remind myself to be happy .
Speaker 1Yeah , cause everybody needs a reminder . They want to be happy Um , who can call you at 3am and get you out of your bed ?
My children close friends you .
Speaker 1The circle .
Speaker 4Yeah , the circle , and you're in that circle , by the way .
Speaker 1No , okay , it's funny , cause I asked my wife the same thing , right , and she didn't say me , because I guess the way that our phones are set up , like in the beginning when we started dating , I could call her at 10 minutes after four in the morning and she would roll over and answer that phone .
Speaker 4Now she I say you just go by yeah .
Speaker 1We just and it's , it's what basically is like . Vice versa now we're like both like super comfortable . So it's like you know , we know like don't call me before 8am in the morning , unless it's a yeah , crazy , crazy , crazy , crazy . All right , um , um , um , what drink do you ? What drink do you start brunch off with ?
Speaker 4Hennie and Red Bull .
Speaker 1Hennie and Red Bull . Mm-hmm , she's from the Bronx , forget her . She knows not what she says right now .
Speaker 4That's the best , that's the drink .
Speaker 1That's a fucking sledgehammer , though that's not even a . Uh , that's the best thing ever . All right , Fuck it . Um , I started drinking Hennie C because of you . I still don't like it straight . Pause . But I'm just saying I could drink a straight . I'm sure you from the fucking Bronx . If you could live in any sitcom , what would it be ?
Speaker 4Um damn , again some old school stuff .
Speaker 3Mm-hmm .
Speaker 4It would be Beverly Hills night , or two or no .
Speaker 1All right . I need to be careful because I am starting to get like advertisers and stuff like that . So I got to watch my mouth , and after the Alabama incident I really got to watch my mouth . You know , but the tiger can't change his stripes .
Speaker 4So but I will redo with my crew .
Speaker 1But you can't see is the thing . This is what throws me . You drink , hennie , but you want to be a 90210 .
Speaker 4So what happened ?
Speaker 1This shit is a contradiction . It doesn't make sense .
Speaker 4Why ? Just because I drink honey .
Speaker 1I'm going to let you do the fucking math .
Speaker 4It's easy two and two , four , no , Just because I drink honey doesn't mean anything . But what the fuck ? I can be a 90210 taking shots with Brenda and .
Speaker 1Dylan and not a Hennie .
Speaker 4Well , we can be drinking wine .
Speaker 1It's kind of like you know what I almost expected you to say . Friends , I'm not going to hold you .
Speaker 4Friends is one of my favorites .
Speaker 1It comes , friends is just basically 90210 grown up .
Speaker 4Yeah , but I don't want to be a grown up , that's a whole shit Like I want to go back to those younger years .
Speaker 1Good . This leads me into my next question what child is things you still do as an adult ?
Speaker 4Watched . I just rewatched it . By the way , guys , let me see , I don't think I do anything besides reliving those years watching those old shows .
Speaker 1That's not a challenge .
Speaker 4Some might say it is . There's some people that when they call me they be like what you doing , watching out to another , like Barbie , howl Do you ?
Speaker 1know Right , so let's take a deeper dive . What do you consider childish ?
Speaker 4People that ignore people and go from people , little shit like that .
Speaker 1That's not even child , that's petty . I'm going to really need you to buckle down on this one , you ready .
Speaker 4Yeah , go ahead , I'm focused listening .
Speaker 1What do you consider childish ?
Speaker 4Exactly what I said to you that you consider that petty , but I consider that petty and childish .
Speaker 1Oh , petty and childish . What do you consider just childish I ?
Speaker 4don't know .
Speaker 1What the fuck , yeah like .
Speaker 2I don't know .
Speaker 1Like these , still play with Barbies , like childish that's okay , no , I don't play with Barbie dolls .
Speaker 4That's yeah , that's super childish , though .
Speaker 1Listen , I guess they're very in degrees of childish , but I'm just trying to get to the generalization of childish .
Speaker 4I don't do anything childish , you don't no ?
Speaker 1You're a complete grown ass .
Speaker 4A grown ass woman from the Bronx that drinks honey and red bull and wants to be a 90210 . Yeah .
Speaker 1Get out of here All right . All right . What would you consider to be a decent amount to spend on a first date ? Give it some thought . This is a lightning rod 150 .
Speaker 1150 ? Okay , what would that 150 consist of ? How would you spend that ? Like you know , just do this court and you want to grab , because that's how the kids do it nowadays , and you agree to meet up when you meeting First of all . Yes , the whole meetup . Remember , it's a first date , right ? So you're taking this from you . You have decided I need to stop drinking . You have decided to move this offline I mean , yeah , offline from where you were . So you guys are meeting up , I'm assuming , because you're not going to go downstairs and hop into somebody's car that you haven't met before .
Speaker 4No , yeah , we're going to meet up at the spot .
Speaker 1Got you , and what spot is this ?
Speaker 4A restaurant .
Speaker 1What restaurant ?
Speaker 4is this Are we in New York ?
Speaker 1I mean you live in New York . Why would I change a geographic location ?
Speaker 4Well , my favorite restaurant is Jake's Steakhouse .
Speaker 1Okay .
Speaker 4So we'll be meeting up at Jake's Steakhouse .
Speaker 1Where's Jake's Steakhouse ?
Speaker 4It's on Broadway .
Speaker 1In the city . Oh , is it Okay .
Speaker 4I'm saying the Bronx , I give up . Got , you got you , we'll be there .
Speaker 1We'll meet up there .
Speaker 2Have dinner .
Speaker 4Some wine and for the first day . I think that would be good , Just the dinner for me .
Speaker 1Just the dinner .
Speaker 4Yeah , just in case , like I wouldn't want him to plan too much , because if I don't like the way the dinner goes , then I have to do all the other shit and I don't want to be there , got you ? So that's why I say 150 would be good .
Speaker 1What ? 150 for yourself ? No for both . Yeah but it's a Steakhouse though I'm assuming , I'm thinking like more into something like that . So if it's a Steakhouse , I'm assuming you're looking at you know , just for like the three courses , 75 per person . That's 150 , right there you drinking , or you drinking that water with the ice in it .
Speaker 4I'm drinking , but I'm not that type of person to go out to dinner and I need appetizers and to dinner and to dessert , Like you know , I'll skip the appetizers , because if I have appetizers I'm not going to eat my meal . But that's just me To fuck . I won't .
Speaker 1That is truly some hood shit . And when I say hood shit , I'm not even saying it in a derogatory manner towards you , because I feel the same way .
Speaker 4Yeah , I can , Like I can't get filled with the appetizer when the meal I'm going to end up taking it home .
Speaker 1Yeah , exactly Like , exactly , exactly . I'm with you 100% on that , because , um , the way I grew up is like appetite why the fuck are we ? I didn't . I never Understood the purpose of an appetizer . And then , the old god , I was like it's not appetizer because the other shit's gonna take extremely long and you just want to . You know , I had that thought and also had to thought yeah , motherfuckers just want to get every dime out of me .
Speaker 4Exactly you know , then the first day , honestly again , this is just me . I'm not gonna get nothing crazy to eat because I'm real . If he like an picky with eating and I don't want to eat it , certain like I get nervous and To eat a certain way . This one time I went out on a date with a guy . He was just looking at me the way I cut my steak and he thought I was just weird for cutting my steak the way I do .
Speaker 1I'm funny like that too , as far as , like the , the types of food and shit like that , like I Don't know the way my stomach is set up now with days Might be because I'm getting older , I don't fucking know . But um , yeah , it's like
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Speaker 4I'll have something simple , first thing .
Speaker 1We're like Jello , give me some Jello .
Speaker 4Something that doesn't require too much , like we ain't going to eat no crab legs . And another first thing no crab legs .
Speaker 1I mean that's like because it's they always say don't eat finger food , like on the first day . Shit pretty much on any . Don't wait till you're married to your finger food . You know we actually went to a spot in the Bronx Shit the name escapes me .
Speaker 4That's not good , but anyway that means it wasn't that good .
Speaker 1No , was it was . It was phenomenal actually . That's not actually ordered . The fried crab leg Right . And the funny thing about fried crab legs what happens is when you fry it , I'm allergic to shellfish so I don't even eat the shit . You know , not a bottom feeder , the can you not hit stuff on the fucking ? I'm just fucking with you . So when you fry it , it changes the texture of the meat in the claw so it makes it more difficult to actually take out . And the other thing is , can I ask you guys a question ? Oh , you fried crab leg eating people . Why do you fry the crab leg like and then season the thing ?
Speaker 4I've never had a fried crab legs .
Speaker 1They seasoned it , it looked amazing . But then , when Reality set in and I was sitting in logic and all of that , like you can't eat the shell , what the fuck is that like ?
Speaker 4a sad zone . Lollipop , Like you see .
Speaker 1I see some of that but that's different , though , you know , because the set , the , the boil actually goes , you know , into the shadows .
Speaker 2Yeah .
Speaker 1Thanks . You know they season the shell and fried it , so I'm sitting there .
Speaker 3I have to try it .
Speaker 1It had a crust and everything and I'm like I'm amazed . I'm looking at it like oh , this is fucking awesome . But then , initially , initially . But then she tried to . You know , of course she was trying to eat it and you know it was difficult to pull a meat out because it changes the texture of it so it kind of like binds to the shell on the inside . We're about to see full boil . What happens is when you crack it and pull it , it just slides right the fuck out . Pause .
Speaker 1I'm gonna be here just having a bunch of pause moments , but that whole thing . And then of course I'm standing here with the gestures and shit with the hands .
Speaker 4I'm glad I can't see that , waiting for him to say pause .
Speaker 1Yeah , it's crazy .
Speaker 2Main course is time to eat what's on your mind .
Speaker 1All right . So this week I feel like I lined y'all up . You started off with a monologue talking about . You know dating and Unappreciative people . You know male and female .
Speaker 2You know equal opportunity .
Speaker 1Yeah , it just happened to be a female , because that's the only clip that I could find . Um , and then sliding into the , you know the happy hour , and in a happy hour we ended off with how much you would want to spend on on the first day . You know your expectations , what your expectations . No , yeah it was an awkward pause , but you can go .
Speaker 4Okay , um . So with that , and it's not just because she's a female and I'm gonna defend her . She does have a point , though , if you tell a female I'm gonna pick you up and we're gonna go out and you bring me to your house . I'm gonna look at you like why are we in your house ?
Speaker 1See , and this is gonna be the first argument that we have tonight , Okay , I'm ready for it . All right , so boom . How did you get that out of what ? What went on there , she said , she said you told me we were going out right .
Speaker 4And they ended up at her at his house right , this was date two .
Speaker 1also , did you hear that ?
Speaker 4Yes , okay , he should have said listen for date two instead of us going out . I wanted to do something special for you and prepare something for you in my house , right ? And she would have been mentally prepared for that . What if she wasn't ready to go to his house ? Okay , what if she has some past trauma that you know ? Something happened to ?
Speaker 1her when she went to a guy's house . Let me ask you a question . You kind of the crib right . The dude actually makes your plate , puts it in front of you . You gonna spaz out like that though .
Speaker 4No , I'm not gonna she right , all right , so be lady like yeah , I got understand miscommunication .
Speaker 1You know , and that was a complete that that fucking flag was maroon . It wasn't even right . This shit was maroon , right ? No , we don't . We don't do that . And if you , you don't do that and then bring up communication , you don't even know how to communicate .
Speaker 4Yeah , dad , I agree with you 100% the way she .
Speaker 1You don't have a choice . You gotta agree with that , yeah her delivery .
Speaker 4If she would have said it a different way , it didn't have to escalate the way did . Mm-hmm she should have just simply said you know , I appreciate you doing this , but this is not what I had in mind . If she wasn't ready to go to his house , she should have just said that too , before even coming out the car , like why are we pulling up in your house ? But it's a hour defense .
Speaker 1Who's ?
Speaker 4hour to the ladies defenses . Whenever you're gonna say something , just do that . That's it .
Speaker 1Okay , um .
Speaker 3No , there's no rice , no champagne . You don't eat nothing . I'm a star .
Speaker 1You won't stop cuz I'm yeah , none of that , none of that .
Speaker 4And he was trying to get in her pants . I'm gonna do all this for her wine and dying her .
Speaker 2Give her something to drink . We're ready , chilling in the crib .
Speaker 1She's comfortable .
Speaker 4One thing Kaleeta , another Right wham-bam , no , all right .
Speaker 1So this is the thing . The end result for every day is hopefully to get in somebody's pants . I mean , I don't .
Speaker 4I hate to .
Speaker 1I hate to break the fucking news to you , for women too . It's just that you guys listen , whether it's the first date , the tenth date or six months in your case , right , it doesn't matter . The end result is the hopes to actually do that , for that to happen , you know , um , I'm on the way . We hope to find a little emotional connection . You know shit like that , um , but we do . Ultimately , it's not like . You know why . What's your purpose when you're going out on the tape ?
Speaker 4To get to know someone to see if I do have a connection with them , to eventually sleep with them . Shut the fuck up , bob .
Speaker 1This is what I'm talking about . You don't have to agree with me in a subtle manner . Take the hand out , do what you need to do the fuck . Eventually I'm winning over here .
Speaker 4It's a W for the men over here , Not on the second date . That's all I gotta say .
Speaker 1Guys , Come on man , it could happen on the second date , mm-mm , yeah , it could .
Speaker 3Not with me .
Speaker 1Wow .
Speaker 3No ribs , no rice , no champagne . You don't eat nothing .
Speaker 1I mean , yeah , from your house , take your ass home . Mm-hmm , I will . And see , I like how you built the story around your point . She was like , and he just pulled up to her house . We don't know that that's how she got there .
Speaker 4She must have , he must have picked off . And you what ?
Speaker 1the fuck , it's all right .
Speaker 4If she , if he would have told her oh , you come into my house and we're gonna chill here , she would have started the argument off rib .
Speaker 1Oh my God , she probably would have , because she was a Tasmanian devil , yeah , mm-hmm , and she ain't looked apart either , like mine . You going , wow right now . Look like an angry fucking hamster , eat that steak and be happy it looked good , though Do these ?
Speaker 4the Fenty did a good job setting everything up . He did he did .
Speaker 1I politely put that shit in some tupperware but you know , gave him one of them fucking nine .
Speaker 4I'd have had to find a plastic bag or a paper bag , and she didn't even deserve to take it home with the way she responded .
Speaker 1The dude was a gentleman ? Yeah , he was , so he would have definitely sent it with her .
Speaker 4But there's a reason why she must have reacted that way . That's what I gotta say . I'ma leave it there . Yeah , I too , i'ma leave it there .
Speaker 1How would you feel if your date pays with cash app chime , a giffy or grubon ?
Speaker 3I wouldn't mind .
Speaker 1I'm asking a rural person Now that I'm older . Old , you're older yeah .
Speaker 4Just a Hennessy . Now that I'm older I would not mind . The younger version of me would have looked at him like he crazy . But now you know the mother of four got bills to pay . Like I'm grateful he's at least taking me out on a date . You're that bad , no but you know , not everybody got it like that . Like what I'm taking the time out to actually go look for a group . I wouldn't mind a grubon all right , that's it . I wouldn't mind a grubon , a gift card .
Speaker 1Yeah .
Speaker 4Cash app card .
Speaker 1I'm not going to hold you
. It takes a special kind of confidence to from a man's standpoint , in my standpoint , a fucking man's standpoint , because I don't think it's my , you know abandon ship once I say what I gotta say . But it takes a special type of confidence to actually show up on the first date with a grubon .
Speaker 4I was about to ask you that it's the first date . Yeah , yeah , I couldn't do it . The first date . It does take a special person to do that . Like you gotta feel extra comfortable with me in order to do that .
Speaker 1Not only that , but remember , perception is everything . And if you don't know my full story , this is the first date , the first time we've ever spent time in each other's company or whatnot . If you don't know my story , you know I don't want you to start building a story from this grubon date .
Speaker 4But a grubon is not bad .
Speaker 1No , it's not . See , there's a thing , there's nothing wrong with it . But remember , let's go back to the root of it . Perception is everything . This is the first encounter that we've had and time we spent together .
Speaker 4Yeah .
Speaker 1I don't want to dig a hole in and basically start off by trying to find my way out of that hole .
Speaker 2You get what I'm saying , yeah .
Speaker 1Because I don't want to do that . I just don't want to do it , so I couldn't . I personally , I couldn't do it .
Speaker 4The only thing like out of the three that you mentioned , that I might be a little iffy about would be the cash out card , because if you don't listen , you don't have a bank account . That means that you owe money somewhere to some bank for something , so that means you don't know how to manage your money and all you can have right now is a cash out card .
Speaker 1Bobby from the Bronx . He pulls out the cash out card . You going to question him about it .
Speaker 4I'm not going to question him , I'm going to look at him . At least he's paying the bill . We ain't got to watch no dishes or I ain't got to pull out my card , but I'm going to look at it . Like you know , I'm going to start doing my investigation and ask some other questions Fallen see what I'm talking about .
Speaker 1Perception is everything . If you ain't got no money , you know , or , pardon , if you don't have a debit card , a regular debit card , but you know what ? There's so many different debit cards that you can get . Now , with days outside of a cash out card , cash out cards , they don't . My antennas aren't raised if you pull out a cash out card .
Speaker 4But usually people with cash out and chime is people that they can't get a regular bank account because they owe other banks money or they owe child support . They owe somewhere something .
Speaker 1Well , let me put you on . I have two cash out cards one for the business and a personal one . So if a person like myself took you out on the first date and I pulled it out , that's what you automatically jump into .
Speaker 4Maybe I'm not going to say here , lie , yeah , I'll be like let me explain how unfair that is Right .
Speaker 1It's unfair to the point of we sit down and you're like yo , I got four kids . It would be unfair of me to assume that they all have the same father without asking . I'm just in my head assuming like it would be unfair , right ? So it's unfair of you to suggest that I don't have a bank account because I pulled out my cash out .
Speaker 4That's why I said I'm not going to assume I'm going to investigate . You're which , I do have a cash out card , but you're investigating based off an assumption . Of course yeah .
Speaker 1You just said you're not going to assume .
Speaker 4Yeah , you're right , I am assuming I'm , going to do my private eye investigation just to make sure that my assumptions are correct , Right and see is women like you .
Speaker 1that makes me not have the confidence to show up on a group because you're going to assume something else and I don't want that . I don't need that .
Speaker 4Now I feel you , I see what you're saying , right .
Speaker 1But the group on .
Speaker 4Honestly , I'm listening , I wouldn't care about the group on , because it's like oh , he knows how to save money . Okay , he can probably show me how to save some money .
Speaker 1Okay , until y'all split in a plate .
Speaker 4No , because with the I've gone on dates with Groupon .
Speaker 1First dates .
Speaker 4No .
Speaker 1Okay , so there lies the comfort person's actually comfortable with you . I mean I would do that now , like me , and my wife will figure something out , you know , I mean just to make sure that the experience we all bougie . So we want to make sure the experience is crazy . But if we can get it for cheaper , let's do it .
Speaker 4No , of course . You know , it was a guy that put me on to Groupon . I didn't know nothing about Groupon and I wanted to go somewhere . I think I was going to Grey Wolf Lodge with the kids and he was like , oh , you know , they have it on Groupon . They have a 40% off . I was like , what is a Groupon ? And he put me on to it . So I was like , oh look . I was like , oh , thank you , you're helping me save money . So I appreciated that . It was the first day .
Speaker 1No , he was helping me save money for something that I was going to do with the kids Copy . All right , I mean again . You keep going to the lab talking about first days .
Speaker 4No , first day , like I said , we pulled out a cash out for Chime . There was one time I went out with a guy and he pulled out a Chime card . And he pulled out a card and I'm looking at his card Listen , I'm not bougie , I'm not nothing , because if it just is what it is , I'm not going to say he and Lidia . He pulled out a card and I'm trying to figure out what fucking type of card is that . And he felt uncomfortable paying with the card because he pulled out the card and he went towards the waitress . He didn't even let the waitress come to the table with the bill . Then , when I realized it was a Chime card , and then , you know , as our relationship got a little deeper and we started talking , the situation that I mentioned earlier like he owes other banks money , he can't get a bank account .
Speaker 1My man , you should have just passed up on that . You know what I mean . Anyway , because I'm just saying this is my thing From my perspective , because it's a little different . Normally , you know , men take women out on first dates , not in reverse . You know , it's kind of like that whole stigma of women proposing , but that's a whole other story . So , from my perspective , as long as nobody's doing dishes at the end of the night or the cops aren't being called , that was a good night , it was a successful night . You know , I don't think that . You know this dude pulling out a charm card or a cash app card , you know he should get strikes against him . That doesn't make any sense to me . For instance , my cash app card , direct deposit coming out of my check , that goes to my cash app card , the business cash app card .
Speaker 4Actually , you know , like I don't , I'm struggling with your , your reason behind all cash , I think Because some people people like us use it for those type of reasons .
Speaker 1Why do you keep seeing people like us Like ?
Speaker 4us that we can have regular bank accounts .
Speaker 1Yo your discrimination right now .
Speaker 4No , listen people .
Speaker 1It's palpable .
Speaker 4People that can have regular bank accounts . We do because , like I said , I have cash up , my kids have cash up and I use cash up for other reasons . I use it as one of my savings account . I transfer money there to save , so I won't see it in my regular account that I normally use .
Speaker 1But why doesn't your date get the same benefit of the doubt when he pulls out his cash app card to pay for your steak dinner ?
Speaker 3He just didn't . No ribs , no rice , no champagne . You don't eat nothing , yo .
Speaker 4I'm not going to sit here and try to figure out a way to fix it . Like when the guy pulled out the chime card , I was just like no , it wasn't it , but I was just like it was a red . It was like a red flag for me .
Speaker 1But you guys went on more days though .
Speaker 4No .
Speaker 1That was it .
Speaker 4Yeah , but it wasn't because of the chime card .
Speaker 1What was it ? I'm curious .
Speaker 4He just what had a lot of red flags .
Speaker 1He had chime characteristics . What the fuck ? What was happening ? He eventually , as we kept talking , you realized he didn't have a bank account .
Speaker 4Yeah , he didn't have a bank account .
Speaker 1What the fuck .
Speaker 4And he wasn't . And I'm not judging nobody again because I'm not in the best space in my life , like my life is all together . I don't have 800 credit score , but he was in a point in his life where he couldn't have an account . He owed money in a whole bunch of places and it was just like I can't , it was something that I couldn't . I've invested a lot of years in men trying to help men be better and I'm sorry , but I'm not doing that again .
Speaker 1Let me ask you a question as far as friends are concerned . Could you have a friend with a low credit score ? I'm just asking you could , okay , stop , I'm glad you said that . So , with that being said , you don't have to be fucking this individual , right ? Because you were romantically interested in him and he had a 400 credit score . He was like I can't fuck with you , I can't even be your friend .
Speaker 4We're friends . I'm still friends with the charm guy .
Speaker 1Oh , you are . Yeah , are you making him a better man ?
Speaker 4Yes , I'm helping him elevate , himself .
Speaker 1And he just can't get no buns .
Speaker 4Nah , I can't .
Speaker 1He was like you got to get your credit score up fam .
Speaker 4Listen , I'm the type of person , people that if I am , if I decide to be sexually intimate with you , is because I see a future with you .
Speaker 1And a high credit score .
Speaker 4And if you're at a place in your life where you can't , I'm just just out of the fuck up . Just forget it .
Speaker 1Keep going , Come on you from the Bronx , let's go .
Speaker 4If you're at a place in your life , depending on your age to age is a huge factor . If you're at a place in your life where you really can't , we can't help each other and all you're going to do is just hold me back , slow down my process , my goals . I can't .
Speaker 1Was he ? Was he an energy sucker ? Yes , he was All right say that , so there's nothing to talk about that .
Speaker 4Yeah , it was too much . I felt like I was investing too much in him and I wasn't going to get anything in return .
Speaker 1I tried to lawyer up just now , but I can't defend that guy . It's not going to work . Yeah , it's not going to work . Okay , so we went over the economics of dating and stuff like that . Oh , I got a question , though . Here's my question .
Speaker 4I'm scared .
Speaker 1No , no , no , we good .
So you start off the relationship , your past date one and two . When is it okay ? Or when do you start entertaining the idea in your head of going Dutch or even paying for it by yourself ? After the first date oh , after the first date you go Dutch , and then you also pay for an entire meal .
Speaker 4Yeah .
Speaker 1Yeah , like , how does that work ? What does that look like ?
Speaker 4All right . So the first date is amazing , Like we hit it off great and I want to spend time with you again . I will initiate the second date and I'm the type of person if I invite you it's because I'm paying , and if you're the type of man that's not comfortable with it , then now you know I'll be like so we can go half and half , and if it's still the issue , I'll find a way to pay for it , or even the bathroom or something . But I'm not the type of girl to just let a man pay for dates .
Speaker 1Assuming he does go to the bathroom .
Speaker 4He will .
Speaker 1Why .
Speaker 4Yeah , let's go to the bathroom .
Speaker 1I never go to the bathroom . I never go to the bathroom .
Speaker 4Oh , then I'll go to the bathroom and when I'm going to the bathroom I'll go to the waitress Like here pay for the bill .
Speaker 1Yeah , but then he's going to cash out of you because he doesn't have a bank account . He's going to cash out you the bread right after you do that , because remember , you got it on deck .
Speaker 4Listen , I have nothing against people with cash up .
Speaker 1Yes , you do Stop playing , but you have to see the reason behind you . Having cash up is totally different .
Speaker 4Instead of saying it's like I'm sorry , as adults cash up shouldn't be your primary bank .
Speaker 1Oh , absolutely . You know , life is hard out here , right Bob ? I know that , and you know a lot of people don't have the discipline that you have , right , Bob ?
Speaker 4Yes , I know that , so this is what they do .
Speaker 1They separate their bread , so they keep all the important bread over there to the left , because they're right and you know it's in the right hand . The cash app card .
Speaker 4So cash app is the secondary bank .
Speaker 1I mean it most certainly is . I don't understand what you're . Your whole thing with cash app throws me a little bit .
Speaker 4It shouldn't be your primary bank . That's my thing with it .
Speaker 1It shouldn't be your primary . No , you know you can even file your taxes with cash .
Speaker 4It shouldn't be like because cash app recently came out . A couple of years ago , that means some of these years you didn't have a bank account .
Speaker 1All right . So let me ask you another question . I fucked that . Let's move off of that . Let's get to the communication part of it . And this is prior to actually going on that first day . So the dude is like yo , bob , I think you know what I mean . I want to go out , blah , blah . I want to take you to what was the name of the steakhouse Jakes ? I want to take you to Jakes , the fucking steakhouse in the Bronx called Jakes .
Speaker 4I want to take you to Jakes You're going to try it one day yeah , maybe I don't know when your wife comes to take you there .
Speaker 1I try to avoid the Bronx , except for the last time .
Speaker 4It's a nice section of the .
Speaker 1Bronx . Oh , is it so ? He's like yo , I got a cash app . I mean , yeah , cash app card . I don't know why he would bring that up . I'm just bringing it up because I just want to be stupid in a moment . But I got a cash app . Do you dub him . Then he's communicating . No , you let him take you to Jakes and pay with his cash app .
Speaker 4Yeah , because I don't know the story behind . No , I'm not dubbing . Nobody with a cash app . I don't know the story behind his cash app . Yes , you do . No , I don't . Every like this time I shop on my cash app card , depending on how my cash is flowing in my regular account If I want to touch that . If I don't , I'll touch the money I have saved in the cash app card .
Speaker 1Okay , so it depends .
Speaker 4It depends people .
Speaker 1All right , so boom , another question because I'm getting back . I'm trying to work my way back to the group huh , but I'm trying to make it in a way where you're going to go against it a little bit . So your man shows up . Y'all go to Applebee's First date , right First date Applebee's . Yo , I couldn't be single right now , because I'd be such an asshole I like .
Speaker 4Applebee's .
Speaker 1Nah , you got to challenge people's intellect when you start talking to them and I feel like that's not happening . You know , we going off of the aesthetic . And you can't tell me that we're not going off of the aesthetic because everybody's steadily taking fucking trips out of the country to get their ass done . So , yeah , we going off of the aesthetic , you know . So we go to Applebee's because you happen to like Applebee's and then you find out that that person is actually paying for it with a groupon .
Speaker 4I said earlier , I'm okay with groupons .
Speaker 1You're fine with groupon , even coupled with Applebee's .
Speaker 4Yeah .
Speaker 1So you're about to get a free , you're both about to get a free meal . He goes Applebee's on the floor slide and you fine with that .
Speaker 4Yeah , but he can't pull out the cash app card Only because he's still fucking out of here Only because , like I said with again and I'm only basing my answers on experiences that I've had and so far , the one experience with the one person that had the chime card , his story was that . So now , moving forward , I'm going to think that , damn , every guy that I meet that has a chime or cash app card has it because he has a story like that .
Speaker 1See , that's how I wipe it you was . When we get out of jail , they be like nah , like I .
Speaker 4By the way , people , I'm not white and Puerto Rican because I might think I'm white , because of the 90210 and all that crazy .
Speaker 1Nah , you're not white . You said Hennessy Before you said 90210 , they already knew what it was .
Speaker 4So , based on that situation now it's going to have , because I never thought of it that way- which way ? That people , that certain people that use cash app or chime have it because that's the only thing they can have . I thought everyone used it in the way that I used it .
Speaker 1I'm going to be honest with you .
Speaker 1The shit never dawned on me Like I've never just like you never thought about it like that because of the fact that when I got it , I got it based off of the fact that it was popular and it was convenient . Yes , it had nothing to do with not being able to get a bank account , and I believe you know , even still , that you're not able to get a bank account . I don't know your circumstances behind you not being being able to get that bank account . You might have , you know , been in a situation where you lost your job , defaulted with , you know , chase , whatever , whatever , and then they closed the account and they closed it with it being in the negative .
Speaker 1Now , I've been in that situation and some like off the cuff bank , like northern something or whatever , they got like one and a half branches and whatnot , but I went into the negative , I lost my job , went to the negative , they closed the account and I couldn't get it . You know , couldn't get an account , um , but I was gainfully employed . You get what I'm saying . You see , I'm going with this , so I don't think that you should . Actually , I'm holding against somebody for pulling out a child and I'm not familiar with time but pulling out a chime or a cash app card .
Speaker 4Like I said , I need background story .
Speaker 2You don't know a background story , Listen .
Speaker 4I know two people .
Speaker 1Right .
Speaker 4That is him and someone close to me that all he has is cash up , and it's because of similar reasons . So , again , I'm only speaking based on Situations I know of . Fuck your situations , guys , are you ?
Speaker 1It is what it is . Yeah , because you sound crazy right now .
Speaker 4I'm not going to try to fix it . All right .
Speaker 1So boom . Listen my advice . As far as dating is concerned , um first day is concerned and your payment method pay however you could pay .
Speaker 4You know what I mean . It's getting paid as long as it's getting paid .
Speaker 1Exactly Because , remember , if you found out through conversation that you know this dude isn't worth your time or this woman isn't worth your time , that's one thing . But to say that that person is not worth your time and then jump to assumptions because we won't say group on , because you save money and he got paid Right , but in terms of chime and cash app , you know we're not going to jump to conclusions and just be out here like yo , you know this dude is . You don't have a bank .
Speaker 4Yeah you know what it is to usually um , I associate cash up with like for hood stuff skin hood stuff . Why ? Because a lot of hood people that I know they use the cash up for hood stuff .
Speaker 1Well then , you should associate email with hood stuff too , because a lot of Nigerians was you was getting those letters talking about send me $5,000 . I'll send you $5 million .
Speaker 4Yeah , it was getting those DMs yeah .
Speaker 1So I mean , can't do that no you're right .
Speaker 4You can't do that , it's not fair for me to you know .
Speaker 1Assume 400 years of oppression has done us Over here looking over my shoulder Now , but I don't want to say everybody should , you know , get the benefit of the doubt . But at the end of the day and you notice that I didn't lean on you with the whole , you know , if he pulled out and I'm like , yeah , but then you have a whole fucking conversation with him before you went out with him . You get what I'm saying .
Speaker 1So , you should have at least that in the bank to fall back on when he does pull out that time not automatically jump to this motherfucker ain't got a bank account .
Speaker 4No , but realistically before first day , are you sitting down discussing finances with someone ?
Speaker 1No , it depends . It depends , All right . So I'll tell you this the younger generation , they may have a problem with it . The older generation , we understand the significance and importance of it , because I need to know , you know how sturdy your footing is . You know , in whatever you decide to do , you get what I'm saying . So , yeah , those are the conversations . I think somebody after like maybe 37 is having you know , but prior to 37 , we have not had life .
Speaker 4Be having a surprise people 37 .
Speaker 1Exactly so you sit down . You know , after 37 , you sitting down at the table was like yo , what are you ? What are you getting into you ?
Speaker 1understand what I'm saying . You guys are talking about 401K . You guys are talking about , you know , transitioning from one job to the next job and the reason why you did it , the price . You know , the salary bump that you got and stuff like that . You guys are talking about investment properties , or future investment properties , and what you're doing to attain certain things . So the conversation is a little bit different . You know , and you know , people about complexion have a lot of . We have problems talking about finances , like we . You know we . It's just something that's not done .
Speaker 4Would you have an issue dating ? Let's say you know it's state number six , seven . You're having deeper financial conversations with the female you're with . You guys are now in a relationship and you realize she , her credit score is shot Like she has . She's fucked up credit Right . Would that be an issue for ?
Speaker 1you . Well , see , there's the thing we , through conversation , I would already understand our spending habits , you know , and her financial responsibility , or her being financially responsible , rather , how good she is , you know , and if it's a facade , so if things aren't matching up , it may be a problem . I don't have a problem . See , life be life in oh , I know you get what I'm saying and one one risk or one false move , one bad decision , well , have you upside fucking down , you get me . So that doesn't make you , that doesn't put you in a position where you can't , you can't rebound off of that Right , and it also doesn't make you financially irresponsible that you could have had , you know , an eight hundred score your entire life . And again , that one bad decision fucked your whole shit up .
Speaker 3You get what I'm saying Been there before .
Speaker 1Yeah , you got people running around here right now to have co-signed on somebody else's lease or car or something . Right , that person fucked them and didn't pay it , and that falls on them , and now your credit score is fucking shot based off of you being a good fucking Samaritan .
Speaker 4Yeah .
Speaker 1You know . So again , it doesn't . I don't think I don't . A bad credit score isn't a deterrent for me . The reason behind the bad credit score is a deterrent for me . You running around buying , you know , louis Vuitton bags and Louis Vuitton's and shit like that , you got like a three hundred and fifty credit score . Yeah , that's , that's concerning . Yeah , you know that's concerning . Um , guess , I answer that for both of us because you know that .
Speaker 4Oh yeah , you're right . Right , that'll be the same thing for me . The reason why , the reason behind the reason your credit score is so , and honestly people I'm not going to honestly me I wouldn't sit here and just be like , all right , we're on the first date , so what's your credit score ? How much money do you make ? Do you make six figures , like ? Because I'm sure a certain response is I'm giving people part of you think that I'm that type of female . No , my thing is my people that don't know me .
Speaker 1OK , yeah .
Speaker 4Yeah , 90210 .
My thing is and it moving forward . I've been in two major relationships and one of them that guy was the guy with the low credit score . You know . He was at a point in his life where he was trying to find himself and I dedicated so many years trying to make him become a better person and at the end of the day it was . I felt like it was all for nothing . So , moving forward , I said one I do decide to be in a relationship . I need to someone . I need to meet someone that's in the same page I'm in . I don't have the energy anymore to build somebody Makes sense .
Speaker 1Yeah , you sound like you're struggling with emotion over there right now , so I'm going to just take that away from you . I'm going to mute your mic and yeah , we just go on .
Speaker 2Bay night , sexy nights and good food .
Speaker 1I don't even know how we segue into this , because I'm going to need , like , a good story . Why is there annoying ?
Speaker 4voice .
Speaker 1Yeah , because I'm trying to find solid footing at this point . You know we jumped out of . We already know how , we already know what not to pull out when we take you out on the date Right . So I need you to tell me about a good time when somebody pulled out something that wasn't a cash apple or a time card .
Speaker 4A good time where someone pulled out something .
Speaker 1Yeah , it was a good time .
Speaker 4Keep another honey with you . The good dates , the perfect day nights that I've had is Bay nights that I planned and I did . So I'm going to tell you about a Bay night that I planned for a guy that I think was amazing .
Speaker 1You going to be one with it ? No , all right .
Speaker 4So it was his . It was his birthday weekend . He had never been to Atlantic City , so I booked the room in Atlantic City before we went out to Atlantic City . Of course , we went to my favorite spot , which is Jake's State House . Yeah , but go check it out . Um , we drove out to Atlantic City . Stop why .
Speaker 1Before you went to Atlantic City , you stopped in the Bronx to have a steak .
Speaker 4Yes , it's a nice restaurant .
Speaker 1I just wanted to be clear .
Speaker 4Yeah , we went to dinner there , and then that's where I told him we were going to Atlantic City . He only he thought that was just going to be his birthday present . We went to Atlantic City . I had rented a room at the Bugata . When we got there I had the chocolate covered strawberries there already , the bottle of wine .
Speaker 1Who's the strawberries for you or him ? For both of us ? He liked the strawberries . Yes , he liked them .
Speaker 4He loved , so it wasn't .
Speaker 1It wasn't one of those things that he would have ever requested . He likes chocolate covered strawberries . Keep it a buck with me . The strawberries were for you .
Speaker 4No , he loved chocolate covered strawberries . It used to be our team .
Speaker 1It's not a y'all thing , though I'm sure they all right , go ahead , I'm going to let you go .
Speaker 4He ate most of them . I had like maybe two . Anyway , when we got to the room the room , you know , was nicely decorated and then he had never gambled before I gave him money so he could go downstairs . We gambled . We went on the broad walk . I had some fun out there . We came back to the room and you know it was a wrap . I gave him the Barbie 4000 .
Speaker 1The Barbie 4000 .
Speaker 4I don't know what that is . One day .
Speaker 1No , never the fuck is wrong with you .
Speaker 4They had to be like Barbie 4000 . What's that ?
Speaker 1Yeah , for real , like the fucking Barbie for .
Speaker 4So that was what you think . You think that did a good job with that .
Speaker 2Desert . I hope you guys enjoyed your meal . Can I get you something off of our desert menu ?
Speaker 1I thought it probably 4000 . Barbie 4000 . They know that . Yeah , I . Hacks about me . They mean , Like you were in back pages , the fuck out of here . See , this is what happens when you sip slow , because by the time you get to the end of the show , that's just start hitting different Um . All right , fuck that you drunk , let's talk about . Um . Let's talk about Let Me Touch you podcast . Let's talk about it .
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Speaker 1It's not one of those podcasts where you're going to be bored and full of , she said , podcast is .
Speaker 4It's a liquor Sorry .
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Speaker 1Yeah , um , the other thing is , now that I got that out of you , let's talk about the release date , all right , so what is it ? What are we going to do ? I'm going to put you on the spot . Um , she's had like a fucking 10 month layoff .
Speaker 4Has it been tough .
Speaker 1No , it's been a while . Though it's been a while , I want to say it might have been time . March was your last episode and it was an amazing season last last season . Um , the new season will be starting mid September . Um , yeah , definitely mid September .
Speaker 4I'm not making . I didn't say that he did .
Speaker 1Okay , mid September . How much more time do you need ?
Speaker 4Cause I want to come back and , you know , come back full force , the way you did .
Speaker 1Yeah , but I even still , I was working behind the scenes . Needed the break right , but you're not even talking about working behind the scenes .
Speaker 4Where's ? I'm gonna start working behind the scenes starting today .
Speaker 1All right , cool . So you , the midst mid-september , that today's the fucking 16th of all this September's right there . That's 30 days away . Bob , I'll try . Not cool , that's the best you can ask for . I'm not even gonna talk about the lives . You know the Friday night live and all that cuz . We definitely need to bring that back , but you know it is what it is . I'm gonna put you on the spot right now . I'm gonna let you , I'm gonna let you live . Tell me they can find you act like you've been on the podcast .
Speaker 4Cuz now , right now , guys , I'm not gonna lie . He has me thinking like that I really need to do Saturday you do , that's what I had to do that .
Speaker 1I , I literally what I did was I can't . I was like yo , bob , check it out . This is what I'm gonna do . Let me people this is how this happened . This season happened like this right , I took a layoff last year , but apparently because I took a layoff and then when everybody else takes layoff , look what's that ? As you did it , I understand what I did , but I mean you , you right , I gave you more time than I took off .
Speaker 4Whatever we did now that was today .
Speaker 1So so , boom , when I did it , I was like , listen , I'm gonna record X amount of episodes . We wouldn't constant contact Right . And then I said the only way that I could really get this done is to set a date . I have to set a date and it worked towards that day . So we're setting a day . I don't even have , cuz I don't even know what days you want to come out on .
Speaker 4Friday's , that's per usual All right cool , so the I . Need a day in October . Hold on , you know I got a set of day right now .
Speaker 1We're gonna do this , listen , let's do . Second week of october , second week of September , I can cuz cuz why kids are starting school . My schedule's gonna be hectic September you know , every time you talk and you talk about this , all I hear is wham . That's it Um what I Really should be entertaining the people right October 13th October 13th yeah , that's far ball .
Speaker 4No , it's not . Bogus is almost over . I guess October 13th , it gives me enough time , I don't want to rush it . I guess .
Speaker 1Listen , if you are , if you think that she should come in before or come out before that , jumping DMs and encourage her to come out before October 13th because you don't need to come out like the second week of October . That's stupid .
Speaker 4Listen , october 13th will be the day that I drop my first official episode
. In the meantime , I will be working behind the scenes , I will start being on social media more , I'll start , you know , doing everything slowly but surely , and I'll be back for force October 13 .
Speaker 1Ma where can they find you ? Because it's bullshit .
Speaker 4Man shit , you can find me on IG . I let underscore me , underscore touch , underscore you . You can find me on twitter , which is now called what x ? It's called x dumb shit um facebook , all streaming platforms .
Speaker 1Step time again and since we really don't know how to say goodbye , I'm not gonna say goodbye , but listen what I will ask . I'm not even asking if you liked it . Please don't forget to like , comment , subscribe and shit . Um , and that's homework also . There is no . Also , we'll catch you next week . We'll save a seat at the table for you .