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The Complexity of Love: Games, Gifts and Emojis

Styles and Shadra Season 6 Episode 2

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Ready to uncover the secrets of relationship dynamics as seen through the lens of The Brunch Hour Podcast? Together, we will navigate the minefields of dating, attraction, and the art of gift-giving, all while keeping the conversation light-hearted and fun. From the importance of an attentive sexual partner, the role of emojis in modern dating, to the tricky business of bag shopping for your significant other, we're ready to share it all!

Imagine: You're texting your potential partner, your heart flutters as you pick out just the right emoji. We explore that very scenario, and debate the appropriateness of emoji use in getting-to-know-you chats. We also understand that passion isn't just a flickering flame; it's a bonfire that needs to be stoked regularly. That's why we share out a new trivial couples game that involves answering questions or taking shots - a perfect recipe for surprise and connection, if you ask us! As laughter echoes, we dive into the changing landscape of physical attraction, share thoughts on the concept of a quarantine bod, and explore the questions that really matter in understanding each other better.

The last leg of our journey takes us on a shopping spree, as styles shares his experiences in buying a bag for a S Dot. Who knew it could be such a significant relationship milestone or let down?  So, pull up a seat, grab your favorite beverage (perhaps Mrs. Headline's incredible strawberry-lemonade-hennessy-vsop-and-stellar-also-black drink?) and join us for an engaging discussion that will have you laughing, reflecting, and perhaps even rethinking a few things about your own relationships.

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Speaker 1

You are now rocking with the brunch hour podcast, the best hour of day.

Speaker 2

It's the only podcast I listen to.

Speaker 1

With your host. What's goody people? you already know this is your incredible old styles. Yeah, that should sound corny as fuck. We're not even doing that. Anyway, i'm learning how to say hello and Greet, you guys, you know. So if you're driving, if you're on your way to bed, if you're on your way to work, if you want a way to see your your side piece, whatever, salutations anyway. So we're gonna start off with something positive this week, not that we didn't start over anything positive last week, but this is where I want to go with it this week, though.

Speaker 3

I'm gonna lie and portray this ultimate poison like I've been had it figured out. No, i just didn't quit. That's the only distinguishing quality from me and probably whoever else going through this or went through this, is that I ain't quit. I went through every emotion. I went through every emotion with trying to pursue what I'm doing. You know me and I think that what, what gonna separate whoever's gonna Try to go for something is that you ain't gonna quit.

Speaker 1

And I listened to this and that shit shook my soul. The reason why I shook my souls? because it took me a year and three months to actually come out with another episode of The bunch out one other season, you know, or even just to hit the record button. But I'm glad to be back. I'm glad to have my wife as my co-host. You know so this, you know this balance, you know so. It was our first time on the mic last week. All right, i'm sorry, pause, it's not even a part. I can't even pause that, but it was a yeah, anyway, replay it in your head. Um, thank you everybody that supported the effort. Thank you everybody for your feedback. Be a good, a bad, you know, we definitely appreciate it. We're gonna grow from it. But you know, of course, in my head, I bust ass.

Speaker 1

You know when I came through and she came through. We ever called you know. I bust ass that whole thing, but I'm gonna stop fucking with y'all. Let's get to the show.

Speaker 3

Hey yo, what's in do? we need two shots.

Speaker 1

Combo all right, so let's get straight to it. Listen, first Let's talk about what we drinking, okay, people. So, first of all, drink responsibly. I Want to say that I love it when you drink with us, but I want you to drink responsibly. We are drinking. I don't even know the fuck. I haven't given it a name and I found it on the interwebs and I'm scrolling through my notes right now cuz I can't. It was called we outside it is called we out, look at you.

Speaker 2

I was paying attention.

Speaker 1

He was and unfortunately, in that moment, i wasn't. So I want to shout out, mrs Headline and that's MRS headline, for those folk out there that are looking for There's a real dope ass drink. It's a strawberry, lemonade, hennessy, vsop and stellar, also black. Now don't ask me for the fucking measurements, because I don't know. I bolded, so there might be a lot of giggling. That's because I fucked it up, but I will tell you this it's more Hennessy and Lemonade than it is stellar, also black. So it's not. It's not equal parts at all. Um, but yeah, shout out to Mrs Headline. She's like my new favorite online Instagram bartender, so let's get to you.

Speaker 2

Let's get to me, that's that.

Speaker 1

I'm ready. How are you?

Speaker 2

I'm good, that's great. How are you?

Speaker 1

I mean, you know I can't complain. I can't complain unless I want to sleep on a couch. I can't complain.

Speaker 2

Well, yeah, well, keep that to yourself then.

Speaker 1

All right, cool. Um, this is your second episode officially. Officially am I, am I an asshole? yet?

Speaker 2

Do you want the politically correct answer?

Speaker 3

No, I want to honest answer.

Speaker 2

No, you haven't been an asshole. We've actually been able to work together, which is Amazing. Yeah, definitely a shock, because I was definitely concerned. I was like, let me see where this is gonna go, but now it's, it's been all good, so no complaints from my side.

Speaker 1

I'm not gonna lie. We, we bumped heads when we try to work together. Because, I'm like don't tell me anything that you're about to do, because I'm already writing it down, trying to streamline the whole effort and trying to figure out how we gonna get it done Exactly. I'm moving like who's saying both Oh Right yeah, you're still stretching right, i'm not ready for that party.

Speaker 2

Yeah, i'm like nah don't do that. Anyway, so working out.

Speaker 1

That's cool. We got a lot of good feedback. You know, love the people's, love my people's honesty is the best policy. You know, good, bad or indifferent. You know I'm just trying to grow and I can't grow If you're not giving me feedback, right? So we have a different type of icebreaker. It's gonna be kind of like a segue into, i guess, the main topic.

Speaker 4

All right you ready?

Speaker 1

I'm ready, all right. So this the grown is sexy.

Speaker 2

Yeah, I like that.

Speaker 1

So good sex is subjective. Okay, what's good sex to?

Speaker 2

you Good sex um. It starts with a An attentive partner. Yes, no cause of applause, because I just want attentive how like well, just the partner that knows You know your body like what you like what you you know, Yeah, who knows your body and knows what you like?

Speaker 1

Okay, Okay, okay, okay, okay. Would you agree that just getting with someone, you're both learning each other. I think that dudes are not shown any type of quarter Right. I feel like women expect us to walk into the bedroom and already know. You know well.

Speaker 2

I'm speaking from like being in a 10 year relationship, a five year relationship, like not right off the bat. Yeah, i mean, you know, eventually You're gonna grow into learning your partner you know, You're learning what they like, what they don't like. You know all that so. But like I said, yeah, i mean, if you're you know further along in your relationship, i would expect you know you didn't know your partner. So that's why I say it starts from just having an attentive partner.

Speaker 1

I feel okay, just when I was trying to pick a fight. All right, so moving along, all right. do you think ill of guys approaching you on a fashionably off day, like if you're outside? you got on two different color socks, you got on your sweatpants, your lips Ain't popping cuz you mean you know, whatever you got your Um, you're bonnet on. I know you don't walk outside with your body.

Speaker 2

I hate you, but Yeah, you know what and, to be honest, like that's when I do get most men coming up to me or Trying to holler at me or whatever. You know, it's when I'm looking my words or what I feel It's my words right. So, um, i mean, no, i don't feel like, i don't feel as close as you ill towards the goddess that does that because, like most of them, tell me, you know if you look good, if you look good like in what you feel is your worst, or you know you're not, so put together moments. Then just imagine when you do get. You know, when you do you know get put together or put yourself together. You know then, yeah, it's kind of like, oh, yeah, you got it going on.

Speaker 1

Ladies and gentlemen, I am trying to pick an argument. I promise you I am why, no, it's not even that, because More often than not, the response is like yo, y'all out here, y'all bugging, i'm looking, i'm out here looking crazy, and dudes is still walking, but they're mad, it's not like they're, you know, to innate on horn.

Speaker 3

They're like I'm mad.

Speaker 1

I'm like your mom. I can't just tell you that you're beautiful in your natural state. You know, without the filter right The fuck exactly, you know. yeah, looking at your eyebrows It looks like more is cold right now, like you trying to tell me something, but I'm just saying, like you gorgeous, like that, and I think Who cares what I think? I can't what you think obviously moving right along, though right Pick up lines. Is it pick up?

Speaker 2

It is pick up line okay hey ma How you nope, absolutely not. What's your name, we don't need pick up lines, just be straight.

Speaker 1

What's your sign? No, you need pick. Up lines are absolutely fucking, that's why I'm kidding me.

Speaker 2

They are Okay.

Speaker 1

I'm gonna tell you why. I'm glad cuz I asked the question they're absolutely necessary because one, it shows you how witty and cunning your guy is. I'm not gonna bullshit you that because there's a line out there that's gonna catch you. There's a line out there's gonna hit you right up side your fucking head and give you a concussion.

Speaker 3

I promise you I.

Speaker 1

I promise you and then you're gonna, you're gonna be impressed now, unfortunately, a lot of them shits is. You know, they're cheesy preschool You know, niggas really don't give it any thought because they're resting their laurels on something else. You understand? I'm saying it's kind of like a shorty with the what is it? the Amazon on tights? Oh, fuck your Amazon leggings.

Speaker 2

I don't know nothing about that. Hey, it's.

Speaker 1

They make your ass look incredible. Okay, but um.

Speaker 2

Google those right now.

Speaker 1

It was a. It was a fat way back when okay, I got it Um, yeah, but I think that, um, i Don't fuck. I think Just fucking I need to stop pregame.

Speaker 2

I told you to stop. You already had, with three shots and Now. I had three whole drinks, oh, three whole drinks. I had three shots.

Speaker 1

Went to the botch spot tonight, ladies, gentlemen, without my life without me.

Speaker 2

Yeah, but it was when I want to call it, when a whole date without me.

Speaker 1

It was with work I was dating my co-workers with his work wife. I don't have a work life.

Speaker 4

Oh.

Speaker 1

So what you're saying basically is that um pick up lines of death for you.

Speaker 2

I'm just glad I don't have to be worried about pick up lines anymore.

Accents and Emojis in Dating

Speaker 1

That was PC, but I'm a yeah, i cool, whatever. Anyway, i'm a fan of accents.

Speaker 4

Mm-hmm.

Speaker 1

What accent get you going?

Speaker 2

Hold on.

Speaker 1

It's like relaxing to my seat, go ahead.

Speaker 2

What accent?

Speaker 1

What accent get you going?

Speaker 2

Let's see um. I'm sitting across the table from you. I was saying New York.

Speaker 1

That's fucked up. Like you just slap boxing my ego right now. What are we doing? Sorry, no, i'm not gonna New York accent.

Speaker 2

seriously, i mean, that's kind of like what got me attracted to you. I couldn't wait to hear your accent. We, you know, when we met well, pretty much when we was talking online, you know, and that was like one thing I was like excited to hear was your accent. So, I would definitely say New York.

Speaker 1

New York accent. Yeah, all right, but before that, though, before that, before you and I actually even spoke on the phone what?

Speaker 2

was your thing? I don't think. I have one Next question. Wait a minute. What about you? What about I like?

Speaker 1

I like. I like Southern accents from women. Like I can't.

Speaker 3

All right hold on.

Speaker 1

I need to fix this. Dudes with Southern accents. It throws me, it fucking throws me. But a woman with a sex, a sexy, a sexy Southern accent.

Speaker 2

Yeah, freudian slip If it exactly.

Speaker 1

I'm here for it. I'm here for it. That's, that's my thing. I'm not going to say that's what drew me to you, because that wasn't it at all, because when you like it yeah, you had like a Northeastern accent and you know trying real hard. Yeah, you were trying real hard to be country.

Speaker 2

Not a Northeastern accent. What is a Northeastern accent? New York? I did not have a new.

Speaker 1

I have Pull your Atlas out. You know what I'm talking about.

Speaker 2

Next question.

Speaker 1

All right, so we haven't been on a dating scene for a little while, right, right, but in an alternate universe. How would you navigate the landscape of emojis? Exactly Because you're communicating via emojis. They're like that's the thing. Would you be good at it? I want you to because I don't want you to show up. You know, because now they got aunties and grandmas. I want you to show up as somebody's auntie. You know they're sending you emojis and just typing out everything with the problem, grandma.

Speaker 2

Um, i mean, I think I yeah, of course I would be. Yeah, all right, i'm emoji savvy. Okay, well, let me, let me put the people in. And what happened?

Speaker 1

We actually recorded an episode last night, right, we scrapped that episode, but there was a really good question in there, right? And what's your favorite emoji to text when you text?

Speaker 2

What was that emoji? The blushing emoji, the blushing emoji.

Speaker 1

And then I was like hold the fuck up, because I don't get the blushing emoji when you text me. She was like but it's just you. I'm like fuck that, it's just me. Who the fuck are you?

Speaker 2

texting the blushing emoji to No, i'm not, It's just on Instagram, i know where to find it.

Speaker 1

Oh fuck, Oh fuck, Don't start.

Speaker 2

Okay, wait, now I'm just saying, but yeah, normally that's the emoji that I use the most, so All right, cool.

Speaker 1

So now I'm now my really test your metal.

Speaker 2

Oh God, yeah, I'm a test. Your metal, what?

Speaker 1

So explain these emojis. What a splash. That's not.

Speaker 2

Mm-hmm, ain't that the what?

Speaker 1

No, the what.

Speaker 2

The what.

Speaker 1

I don't know, is it the?

Speaker 2

what? That's what I I'll do. The first thing I don't know.

Speaker 1

Divorce is open up the text messages and there's a splash. So what if you put a?

Speaker 2

fucking splash in water in your anyway. Yeah, let me see that phone Go ahead.

Speaker 1

Half an avocado.

Speaker 2

I don't know that one.

Speaker 1

Yeah, that one threw me to.

Speaker 2

I don't know What is it.

Speaker 1

I. You have a handy dandy phone.

Speaker 2

What you, the one, wrote out, the question.

Speaker 1

I did, i did, but I'm only doing half the work. All right, i'm the the tongue emoji.

Speaker 2

The tongue emoji I was thinking about that.

Speaker 1

That you know a couple of different ways.

Speaker 2

Yeah, licking, i don't know.

Speaker 1

Yeah, i guess, i guess. I'm going to need you to read, and, no, at the time that I wrote this out.

Speaker 2

Did you know at the time?

Speaker 1

Yeah, at the time You've just been drinking.

Speaker 2

So now it's kind of like you don't?

Speaker 1

Yeah, i had a whole physical memory. You forgot. After this Got it All right And, of course, the world famous eggplant.

Speaker 2

Oh yeah, we don't know what that is. That's that deep.

Speaker 1

All right. So, last but not least, all of the aforementioned emojis. Is it appropriate to send any of those during the get to know you process?

Speaker 2

I mean, if you send in, like the blushing emoji thing, yeah, it's not the ones that you sent. No, i mean that you that we just talked about No, like the why, why are you sending me splashes?

Speaker 1

I don't know.

Speaker 2

Are we going to a pool party or something That's different? But no, no.

Speaker 1

But it could be fall And see. That's the thing, That's the problem that I have with social media.

Speaker 1

Well, that and this generation of dating Right, and maybe just because I'm not built for it and I need physical interaction. I need to hear your voice, inflection. So, whether it's over the phone, don't send me a text Like if we're getting to know each other, fuck that tech shit, you know because one, when you do come on and I do speak to you after we've spoken, all that hot shit, if your voice turns me off, then I'm a ghost.

Speaker 2

Like what I mean she sound like what A Daffy Duck or something I'm.

Speaker 3

You know it's a channel. Don't play with me.

Speaker 1

It's not a turn.

Speaker 2

It is a turn, it's not at all.

Speaker 1

No, it's really not though.

Speaker 2

OK, so A bullshit. It's a fucking turn on, I mean but again, i mean, like said with the, with dating. Yeah, i mean, as far as I use an emojis and things like that, without me of course, i would prefer use your words. Use words, that's always good. Spell it out. I mean, even if you text in texting, you know spell it out. Let me see if you got good grammar, if you know how to spell, if you can put a sentence together.

Speaker 1

Shout outs to my man because he knows who I'm talking to. This nigga will literally pull something and there is no punctuation in it.

Speaker 2

I remember he just run on sentences.

Speaker 1

The shit made my head hurt. I don't like I was out of breath and I was reading it you know, in my head and I couldn't breathe. Nigga had a whole fucking asthma attack. You know, but shout outs to him. I ain't gonna put more blast like that. Um, there was something else that I was going to say.

Speaker 1

She forgot as per usual, yeah, oh no. But in this, in today's landscape, as far as like dating and stuff like that, i would take a serious L like a serious L. You know I'm in a ball. Yeah, like, if you give me your Instagram, that's, you're immediately dubbing me. That's how I would feel. Fuck your Instagram.

Speaker 2

You understand Like I need a number, you know I don't know, you seem like type that, but like, yeah, give me your Instagram.

Speaker 1

I need your fucking Instagram.

Speaker 2

I'm walking away Because you are already on social media, when probably why you're sitting there, like everybody's on their social media.

Speaker 1

So what's your handle? But see, the thing is though, that's that's for public consumption.

Speaker 2

Got you Yeah.

Speaker 1

I rolled up and I'm trying to get the right now. You public right now.

Speaker 2

You're for public consumption until we get to know each other a little bit better than you can get you know more information.

Speaker 1

You know the shit that used the word for me, though.

Speaker 2

What? Why are you pointing it? No, no, no, hold on, hold on.

Speaker 1

Because I? why am I pointing it? It's a drunk finger.

Speaker 2

The way you haven't moved And I was like oh, my God, they can take some shots.

Speaker 1

Finger, yeah. What used to work for me, though, was this I'd be in I don't want to say a ball, fuck a ball, like when those lounges and some shit, you know and make our contact, whatever. Whatever, it just rolled up Like, hey, how you doing? You look good, i'm a lot of sand. The third listen, i got something to do. Let me get your number and I'll call you. That She used to work like a fucking charm.

Speaker 2

So you went where you using, like those cheesy pickup lines, no, no pickup line. Oh, it was just Yeah.

Speaker 1

Just a bad excuse, but there was no pickup line. I can't aim on how you now.

Speaker 2

I think that's how you get me I did not stop it.

Speaker 1

Don't fucking do that.

Speaker 4

Main course is time to eat what's on your mind.

Speaker 1

I had to cut you off with that bullshit.

Speaker 2

Go ahead with you, that ain't even cool.

Speaker 1

Yes, i'm going to hand the mic off to you while handing the baton off to you. That's that, all right, don't bring a sand.

Speaker 2

Yeah, So tonight for the main course we're going to have a adult game night. Yeah, So tonight we're going to be playing the. What is it? It's from skin deep. It's a card game for couples. It's a couples edition, long term couples edition card game. So we're going to be doing it tonight, getting into some deep conversations deep couples conversations.

Speaker 1

So this is actually. Yeah, i'm a little nervous. I am too Fucking nervous, so I was also going to work talk about the shots, because we're going to take the shots to, so yeah, so basically all the questions will.

Speaker 2

So we have, we each have a stack of cards, right, so we'll pull. We each will pull one card. ask a question. All the questions have to be asked, but they don't have to be answered. So whoever don't answer the question has to take a shot.

Speaker 1

And there we go, As an old tabal From Let Me Touch You podcast. We're taking shots of Hennessy.

Speaker 2

So this ain't going to last long Yeah it's not.

Speaker 1

So if you're getting his full sleep on the mic, that's what it is. Pause Some full sleep on the mic.

Speaker 2

The fuck is wrong with you, you'll be the first one to fall asleep.

Speaker 4

You already had three drinks.

Speaker 2

I did You sipping now on the we outside, so So here we go, here we go.

Speaker 1

What's going first?

Speaker 2

I go first.

Speaker 1

All right cool.

Changing Dynamics in a Relationship

Speaker 2

First card Let's see How has our kissing changed over time. That's a good one.

Speaker 1

Alright, so this is TMI for y'all.

Speaker 2

Well, you can take a shot.

Speaker 1

No, no, no, no. I'm staring into the mic and I'm just imagining people stare back at me and I'm trying not to be rude by telling them to mind their fucking business, but I'm not going to do that because I'm playing the game.

Speaker 2

Yeah we're playing the game Right now.

Speaker 1

So over time, if I'm being honest, it's way more passionate now, Yeah, than it is. I've always been a kisser. You know I want to kiss and you haven't been Right Okay. See, that's me knowing my wife, but that's true.

Speaker 2

Yeah, because I yeah, go ahead.

Speaker 1

So recently, we, recently, i just I don't know what, whatever happened on your side of things, but they're insane now, like your kiss is incredible, now Like incredible. I would think that this is your thing now, yeah but, yeah, like you said, though, it's never really been my thing.

Speaker 2

I don't know. Yeah, i know, like before, you know, i used to give you like the pics here and there, the fucker pic, it wasn't a pic.

Speaker 1

Don't give that to yourself. It was a pic. It wasn't a pic. It was more than a pic. It was a little bit more than

Speaker 4

a pic.

Speaker 2

But, like you said, yeah for the past. Yeah, it's been a little bit more, more passionate now?

Speaker 1

Yeah, it wasn't how I give it up. Yeah, no, it wasn't definitely not how you give it up at all. Right, it's showtime. That was a little bit over. Watch your mouth.

Speaker 2

I'm just saying next question go ahead, i'm ready, all right.

Speaker 1

Yo, and I hope that you know. Damn, maybe you should have practiced this with us. Listen, pause this real quick. Go get your significant other And we can do this together. Okay, so I will ask the questions and the question. Basically, we're asking your significant other So the guys be on my side, the women to be on your side. We can do this together, anyway it does.

Speaker 2

So I'm gonna ask this question, ready Go ahead.

Speaker 1

What's one piece of clothing of mine you wish you could burn, and why this is stupid, oh wow.

Speaker 2

Let's see One piece of clothing of yours. Oh, um, i don't have. I can answer that for you. Don't do it. Wait, give me Hold on One piece of clothing, one piece of clothing, i don't know, um one.

Speaker 1

Take shot, okay, no because that's a simple question, Yeah but you wasting a time.

Speaker 2

I'm sorry. Okay, all right. Well, i'm gonna say your um, i don't know, i don't have a thing.

Speaker 1

I'm gonna take a shot.

Speaker 2

So that's your all the way back. Go ahead, don't step in. You know I don't take shots, though, okay, i'm gonna take it All.

Speaker 1

Right, put that down. Don't drink it all.

Speaker 2

Okay, yeah, that was terrible.

Speaker 1

It's the gray sweatpants, the ones that you stole from me, see, that's all right, you're right, my whole pants. My, my airport uniform.

Speaker 2

Okay, how has our relationship changed? my habit? What I don't know? Take a shot.

Speaker 1

Yes, no, shuffle, shuffle it.

Speaker 2

No, you're gonna take a shot.

Speaker 1

I have to answer that.

Speaker 2

Yeah, either you're gonna answer it or you're gonna take a shot.

Speaker 1

The question doesn't even make sense.

Speaker 2

You're either gonna answer the question or you're gonna take a shot. I'm taking a shot. All right, exactly Okay, holy shit, holy shit.

Speaker 1

All right, what's the one thing I could do that would improve our relationship?

Speaker 2

Move the Dallas. Oh, oh, drop the bomb. Where's the bomb?

Speaker 1

Okay, Just kick my, kick my nuts all the way to my throat.

Speaker 2

Okay, next question How has our relationship changed over time?

Speaker 1

You just read that.

Speaker 2

No, I didn't. That is not the same. That's not the same question.

Speaker 1

Is that like? so I don't know. Are these decks?

Speaker 2

gender-based No.

Speaker 4

No, okay.

Speaker 1

That's an incredibly dumb deck that you're pulling from.

Speaker 2

Okay. Well, either you're gonna answer the question or you're gonna take the shot.

Speaker 1

I'm gonna take another fucking shot.

Speaker 2

But that's not even a shot. So I got it. I got it.

Speaker 3

Yeah, fold up the right way, So it's we taking the L over here.

Speaker 2

Wing again Nothing answered. Yeah, it ain't looking good at all.

Speaker 1

Your boy over here, just I'm floundering right now. Come on, all right. Okay, you ready.

Speaker 2

I'm ready.

Speaker 1

All right, ladies, and sdot was one thing that I could do that would surprise you Um. Is it ready? I know?

Speaker 2

I was. Why are you pulling up the shot? Wait a minute, i haven't answered the question. Okay, no shit.

Speaker 1

That's what the shot is for, okay.

Speaker 2

But ask the question again What's one thing I could do? that would surprise you Move the Dallas.

Speaker 1

Yeah, pull the card. It's for the fellas. It's for the fellas.

Speaker 2

How has your love for me changed in ways that surprised you?

Exploring Changes in Physical Attraction

Speaker 1

Hmm, okay, that was a good one. All right, so Shit Um A couple of things. I'm I'm supremely closed off. I guard my feelings, like our God. You know my son, which is now our son. But now I think that I'm so free with you, like I'm I'm a lot more open. You know um a lot more honest with myself with regards to how I feel about you. You know um a lot more expressive with it as well. Uh, yeah, yo guys, it's ugly for us. How are you? I'm good, i'm good. I'm good, i'm good. I'm good, i'm good, i'm good, i'm good. Yo guys, it's ugly for us out here right now.

Speaker 2

Um, yes, You know what, but you've answered more questions than I have, so we're good, Go ahead.

Speaker 1

Was that right? All right, cool. Let me see What's the one thing I forgot about myself. Why do you, why do you think I did?

Speaker 2

I don't know Um.

Speaker 1

Well, one thing I would say, I guess, is And she snapped to that shit real quick, go ahead.

Speaker 2

No, i think, and I've told you, i think even before, it's always like having fun and being in the moment, like you know, and that was back in, you know, when we used to, when we were dating, or you know, just you know. so I think that was the thing that used to, um, that I, that I did notice about you. I'm like it's been a moment Have fun.

Speaker 4

You know, and don't be so. Wait, I was.

Speaker 2

I didn't think you were If it just felt like you were always, always serious and just you know which was cool, you know but, ladies, she's fucking this up for you.

Speaker 1

Yeah, let me read this question for you one more time.

Speaker 2

I answered the question. Well, you answered your question, not necessarily what was on the car Let me see what the cards is Was one thing I forgot about. You don't know how to have fun, that's me.

Speaker 1

Yeah, so if I've forgotten it, that means that I was that person at one point.

Speaker 2

Well, probably before, before I met you the way that you explained it was.

Speaker 1

I was a piece of shit.

Speaker 2

I did not say that.

Speaker 1

Now I'm a shiny piece of shit. No, read the question. This is not going the way I planned.

Speaker 2

Okay, how has your physical attraction to me changed over time?

Speaker 1

You were grown as woman right now. Right, that's what it is.

Speaker 2

So, yeah, yeah, if only you knew It got it, got, yeah, It's way better now. Yeah, when you hit that 40, 40 year old mark, it's like everything just settled.

Speaker 1

Yo, it's funny. Yeah, exactly Because I crossed over that fucking 40 year old border. And then that couple with the fucking COVID. you know that shit right there. Quarantine bod and dad bod. Nega, I'm going to be eating carrots the rest of my motherfucking life. I said this shit, what the fuck is going on? Say baby, like you, was an athlete where back when you were a newborn.

Speaker 4

Nega, you dreamt about that shit last night. The fucking you talking?

Speaker 2

The toddler.

Speaker 1

Oh, I get it. You live in vicariously with your kids huh.

Speaker 2

Oh man Wait a minute.

Speaker 1

What.

Speaker 2

It's a mirror You.

Speaker 1

I don't know.

Speaker 2

It's me, it is, oh, no, no no, no, that was me.

Speaker 1

I forgot about the one thing you've forgotten about yourself.

Speaker 2

No, I asked you. How has your physical attraction to me changed?

Speaker 1

Good job, my turn All right, what's? What's one thing you've forgotten about me.

Speaker 2

One thing I've forgotten about you.

Speaker 1

So either these questions are incredibly deep or incredibly fucking stupid. But go ahead, because if you, forgot it.

Speaker 3

Now you have to dig that shit up.

Speaker 1

You rediscovered it.

Speaker 2

Shout out to these cards No, never mind One thing I've gotten about you.

Speaker 1

She forgot I was a podcast because I ain't put out a fucking episode in a year and a half. I think they all forgot that. Go ahead. I'm sorry. Yeah, i'm sorry, my fault.

Speaker 2

Yes, I give it what I'm sorry See.

Speaker 1

One thing you've forgotten about me Stop touching my cards.

Speaker 2

Stop, stop. Yeah, let me answer the question.

Speaker 3

Okay.

Speaker 2

So one thing, i've forgotten about you.

Speaker 1

Oh, hold on, No rule. You have five seconds to come up with it or you got to take a shot. We're not going to sit here all night while you sit there and try to conjure an answer.

Speaker 2

Okay, that's, that's a deal.

Speaker 1

So what you want to do, either answer right now or take a shot, because you way past five seconds.

Speaker 4

Okay, let me take a shot.

Speaker 1

There we go, take a shot.

Speaker 2

I'm glad tomorrow is Saturday.

Speaker 1

I'm glad tomorrow is exactly. Oh yeah, I know that shit right there, That shit can put hair on your teeth. Go ahead, ask me the question, all right.

Speaker 2

How have I changed most since we first met?

Speaker 1

I think you don't wait for shit to happen now. You get what I'm saying. I think that and that just might be a little bit of me rubbing off on you You know, um, but me, I tend to find these little Easter eggs where it's like we're having conversations and you'll jump out of the blue and just be like yo well, blah, blah, blah, And I'm like God damn, I didn't even know you was like that, Like so yeah, I think that you're not, that you wasn't a go getter, because that was sexy as fuck to me in the beginning, but I feel like now you're really coming into your boss, dumb.

Speaker 2

Okay, i'll see you that, okay Yeah.

Speaker 4

Let me ask this question real quick. Yeah, it is.

Speaker 1

Oh, what's our greatest creation thus far? Our greatest creation thus far.

Speaker 2

This podcast.

Speaker 1

It's not our creation, This is my creation. What's our greatest creation? Hey?

Speaker 2

fine Our life together.

Speaker 1

Now was okay. That was a mic drop moment, that was good. I like that, all right.

Speaker 4

I was ready.

Speaker 1

Yeah, yeah, there have been a lot of individual feats and things Right, that we've hidden a lot of milestones that we've reached as well. Yeah, one of which this woman, ladies and gentlemen. She took this company, or this fledgling company, and she basically turned it into an LLC, some shit she's been telling me to do forever, right, and you probably hear about that on previous seasons, so I won't bore you with that over right along. Next question, please Next question.

Speaker 2

How have I changed you?

Speaker 1

Um, damn, this is, this is not fellas. We be taking all types of fucking L's over here. Um, you've, you've made me more responsible emotionally. Okay, all right, because all the other shit. You know. You could pretty much learn that emotional responsibility is something you really have to feel to navigate your way through. Unfortunately, you got to be, you know, you got to go through the bumps and bruises And I'm a lot more emotional response. Emotionally responsible now because of the fact that I'm conscious of the things that come out of my mouth with regards to how we speak to each other and how it'll affect you, because I don't like to see you in a fucked up way, and I definitely don't like to see you in a fucked up way, and I caused it. So, yeah, i know, i know, am I? I'm asking a question? Yes, all right. What's running through my mind right now?

Speaker 2

Wait a minute. Why'd you meet me? Oh, my bad Um sexy time.

Speaker 1

Sexy time is definite because as I sit here and I'm talking and she has this fucking roll roll on with nothing underneath, i had to do it My fault, you don't have to. I did.

Speaker 2

Now you have everybody looking at me different. What's next? What you?

Speaker 4

got for me.

Speaker 1

Did you just shuffle a? deck and then pull from the middle of the deck.

Speaker 2

Because all the cars were pretty much the same, asking the same question.

Speaker 1

That's a fact, this too I was like, let's switch it up a little bit. You don't have to shuffle that much. You don't have to shuffle that much.

Speaker 2

How do you know when I've truly forgiven you?

Speaker 1

Oh, that's a good one, that is a good one, that is a good one. Um, when you want to kiss me, honestly you don't. You don't like to be touched. When you're upset, you understand, and all of that. That, that fucking negative energy fucks up my funk sway.

Speaker 2

You have a funk sway.

Speaker 1

I don't, but this is the thing, though, yeah now, if you did, Yeah, because you understand that physical touch is one of my love languages. Of course I speak it fluently. And when you want to be touched, that's when I've been forgiven. And I'm not even talking about sexually, I'm just talking about whatever. Yeah, and it's going to take one stroke.

Speaker 4

And.

Speaker 1

I'm not talking about a sexual stroke, but stroke of the hand, stroke of the back, stroke of the head. Pause, and I'm. I know I have arrived.

Speaker 2

But you are free to move around.

Speaker 1

The seatbelt sign is off. Anyway, let me see. What do you think is unique about our family dinners?

Speaker 2

The fact that we actually sit and eat together.

Speaker 1

That's unique. That's not unique. That is, it might be uncommon, but it's not unique. No, look at me like that.

Speaker 2

But well, that's my answer.

Speaker 1

All right, That's gonna be my answer. Can I have a question please?

Speaker 2

How do you know when you are really seeing me? Seeing, yeah, seeing me.

Speaker 1

Is a real Caucasian question.

Speaker 2

I don't want to take a shot.

Speaker 1

I want another question. Okay, that's fine, hold on, let me take a shot, because I'm not going into that bullshit, fuck. Oh my God, all right. What do you think makes me different? that you didn't realize before, because I was amazing when I showed up on your doorstep. Now, what other amazing shit did you discover?

Speaker 2

Okay, no, you were Excuse me.

Speaker 1

What the fuck is going on with you.

Speaker 2

It's the.

Speaker 1

Hennessy, You want to throw it to us and you're like it's the Hennessy.

Speaker 2

You know, i don't drink like that, but because I'm a lady, let's see. No, what more is the question again? You can make me forget.

Speaker 1

Oh, just ask me, i will read it.

Speaker 2

Okay, I'll read the question.

Speaker 1

What do you think makes me? what do you think makes me different? that you didn't realize before?

Speaker 2

See, i don't want to know, i'm just going to take a shot, take a shot.

Speaker 1

Ladies and gentlemen, there's a lot of shit about me. That's amazing.

Speaker 2

No, you are an amazing man.

Speaker 1

I know You are a very good man. Yeah, that's crazy. I like that Say again. You are very good, i'm ready to take that shot to why you are, but I realized it after.

Speaker 3

Yeah, after. the fact.

Speaker 2

It wasn't until we got married, but I'm just joking. No, okay, taking the shot, i'll have to take a shot.

Speaker 3

No, no The question.

Speaker 2

How do you think others describe our relationship It?

Speaker 1

depends.

Speaker 4

Who you as.

Speaker 1

Yeah.

Speaker 2

Right.

Speaker 1

Have we been thrown out of a group? Wow, Um. I don't know how other people describe our relationship.

Speaker 2

Yeah, I don't know either.

Speaker 1

Well, okay, no, i will say it's super well, people, that of course that I give a fuck about that. I'll speak to um think that is incredibly unorthodox because of the fact that you're in Dallas and I'm in New York, you know and I get a lot of it couldn't be me.

Speaker 2

Right.

Speaker 1

You understand what I'm saying And a younger me would be like it couldn't be me either, because I'm sticking and moving out here, you know, and I need again physical touches, my love language, you know. So, yeah, a lot of people they don't, they're puzzled as to how it's happening. You want to sit? I'm saying and be willed, or meant would be.

Speaker 2

Yeah, I'm in that group. But come on Next question. They're like how, I'm in the same group, Yeah.

Speaker 1

But see, the thing is okay so.

Speaker 1

I think maybe the difference between you and I is this I know that I have. we actually have a common goal. We know where we want to be ultimately and I don't listen to the outside voices because they're not in this relationship. So, as quick as I'm, you know quick to tell somebody else like, mind your fucking business, that's where I'm at with it. So I really don't get that. you know the side I decide. you know side I get you punching the face, um, but yeah, no, i don't get that. Let me read your next question.

Speaker 3

Yeah, i don't even know. Well, okay.

Speaker 1

So it says what do you think our current challenge is trying to teach us? I get that.

Speaker 2

I would say, of course, the distance, if it's yeah, that's the challenge. Yeah, that's definitely the challenge. Um, yeah, if it's I don't want to say if it's meant to be, but if it's, if we can sustain or not. What's the word I'm looking for? Um?

Speaker 1

sustain is a good way.

Speaker 2

Yeah, yeah The relationship you know, with the whole distance, then it will definitely work when we do come together you know, basically we can.

Speaker 2

If we can get past the challenges that we're dealing with right now as far as the long distance relationship and all that, then yeah. But it was funny because I've been heard uh, it was a, it was a whole topical uh, long distance marriages on Instagram, um, but yeah, it was something. The same feedback, like how does that even work? But, like I said, if you can, if you can get through those these challenges as far as like the distance, then yeah, it should. I don't see how I mean you know anything, what other challenges can come up once you do get together. That would cause, you know, like for it to not work.

Speaker 1

Right And again, like I, like I've explained to you like we experienced a shitload of hurt on the front end of this. You know, it's like all of the hurt. I guess that should have been experienced during the middle and if there isn't an end, but more towards the middle of any type of relationship, a lot of trials and tribulations. And for those that don't know me, i've always had long distance relationships because for me they were convenient. You know, i wasn't a serial cheater, right? Um, i've cheated, i'm not. I wasn't a serial cheater. And the law, like I said, the long distance relationships work for me because they were entirely convenient for me.

Speaker 1

And it was a. It was a really good way for me to guard my heart right. Fall in love with something You're always looking at the impossibility of you know, so it's not gonna work out anyway. Exactly So when this whole thing happened it was like wait a fucking minute, and where did you come from? You know that type of thing.

Speaker 4

Who's asking questions, me or you. Huh, I just asked you that question.

Speaker 2

You're asking me a question How do you want to see?

Speaker 1

stupid questions.

Speaker 4

It's the same.

Speaker 1

How is it? This is in black on, is it?

Speaker 2

I don't. It's called skin deep. I thought it was black.

Speaker 1

Skin deep Sounds like a fucking porno.

Speaker 2

How do you want others to describe?

Speaker 1

No, let me ask you a different question. That's the same question.

Speaker 2

Just stupid.

Speaker 1

This game is like a money grab, because it's just out here like yo.

Speaker 2

Everybody coming up with relationship card games. Just asking whatever. Okay, how has having or how has having children affected our relationship?

Speaker 1

All right, shuffle that deck. Yeah, oh, that shit.

Speaker 2

Yeah, let me just pull from the middle Fellas.

Speaker 1

I think we got a chance.

Speaker 2

Okay, how much does having money cost you?

Speaker 1

You put that shit on the fuck And it's in Wait y'all hold on, They're all like poorly written too. Like what the fuck are you talking about?

Speaker 2

Okay, at what moment did you realize choosing me was a great idea?

Speaker 1

That's a good one, when I realized that you were in my space and you want interrupting the flow of my space, so like other people, in other words, would be in my space and eventually, i need you out of my space, like you were here. It's borrowed time.

Speaker 2

You got to go.

Speaker 1

Yeah, exactly So when I realized that you could be in my space and I'm more of a loner type of situation where I like having company, just not all the time, and you know, i could roll over and you're still there, or roll over and I want you there because you're not there. That's when I realized that that was. That was it for me. I know What do you think our relationship teaches others?

Speaker 2

What does our relationship teach others? Um, we're still on the long distance. Um that long business relationships can work.

Speaker 1

They can, they can, but it takes a special type of person. Oh yeah, for people.

Movie Night and Bag Shopping Tips

Speaker 2

Listen, it takes trust, it takes honesty, It takes open, being open. It takes, yeah, it takes a lot, takes a whole lot. It's not, it's not for the week. Sometimes I was like am I weak? I don't know, but it's definitely Yeah, yeah, it's not for the week.

Speaker 1

All right, so it's a be your last question, my next question.

Speaker 2

Didn't I already ask you a question?

Speaker 1

No, you just answered mom.

Speaker 2

Okay, what do you know now that you wish you knew then?

Speaker 1

When is that?

Speaker 2

right, then we're, ladies and gentlemen we are not co-signing this game. And all this game is bullshit.

Speaker 1

Fuck out of here.

Speaker 2

Okay, okay, what do you miss? No, no, i'm not.

Speaker 1

Bullshit, what else? We got another one.

Speaker 2

We just go through these pictures and choose five words to describe my future that I don't dare.

Speaker 1

Wait, what else We just run into these?

Speaker 2

What are you most concerned about for my future?

Speaker 1

The bullshit, give me another one.

Speaker 2

Hold on, let me just look at it, you know if shuffling it makes any difference. What are you hesitant to ask me?

Speaker 1

Nothing Okay.

Speaker 2

Okay, so are we done.

Speaker 1

No, give me a fucking question.

Speaker 2

What are we sharing with others? I'm confused. How bullshit. What am I always caring that I should let go of?

Speaker 1

The everyday bag, but you did let the everyday bag go.

Speaker 2

I got the every Well no only because I was switching out purses like to go to events or something like that, hold on.

Speaker 1

Can I vent real quick?

Speaker 3

So, fellas, listen, if you're going to buy your girl a bag no, no, no, no, no, if you're going to buy your girl a bag, make sure it's a bag.

Speaker 2

Bag she like.

Speaker 1

Bag's a tricky, bag's tricky And bags are tricky because it's not necessarily the name, and I had to learn that the fucking hallway is not the name, it's the style and everything else right. And how it feels and shit like that There was a year I was just on a bag buying mission, Oh God, And out of maybe five bags there's only one that survived. And I'm talking like this bag doesn't have a rip in it. Shit looks like it's been through a fucking wall?

Speaker 2

No, it doesn't.

Speaker 1

It's not that bad, The Tory Burch bag yeah, it's not that bad. It's bad.

Speaker 2

It's not bad at all.

Speaker 1

Bad. It should look like you. You know, war is a bulletproof vest.

Speaker 2

Well, again it was the everyday bag, right, so I just closed every day back.

Speaker 1

But anyway, I'm talking to dudes out there. Make sure, because you're feeling going to get hurt, You out there. You spent $1,200 on a bag and then she like this is nice And you'll never see it with it. No, it doesn't make an Instagram appearance. It doesn't make a fucking appearance out there. Going to the corner store doesn't make that appearance. It just doesn't make an appearance. There's a bag that I bought you. I forget the name of it.

Speaker 2

The Dunion Bert.

Speaker 1

There we go. I have never seen that fucking bag. Did you re-gift that bag? Is somebody else out there walking around with that bag?

Speaker 2

I found the gift receding.

Speaker 1

No I didn't.

Speaker 2

No, I got it. I still have it.

Speaker 1

I still have it, i still have it, i still have it.

Speaker 2

Yeah, oh shit, whatever. But, just you know. I mean again, that's just where you know you, finding out my style and seeing what I like and what I normally wear.

Speaker 1

But I got lucky with that bag.

Speaker 2

I love that bag.

Speaker 1

I got lucky with that bag, though.

Speaker 2

And so, yeah, just continue on that path and we'll be good.

Speaker 4

Bay night, sexy nights and good food.

Speaker 1

All right, so we're going to make this quick. We're going to talk about movie night. We went out to see the blackening. The blackening was like a school. We do mystery with black people. You know it was. We didn't go in the hood, right, because the one that we did go to. We learned our lesson. We went. We ordered nachos. One time They gave us a bag of Doritos and some cheese and some cheese.

Speaker 1

Yeah, exactly Cheese dip, and in charge does close to $20 for no, actually I want to say it was 15. It was 15 bucks for that, for that Travesty, and it was all done with a straight face. So this time we got the slushies Slushies act pretty good.

Speaker 2

They're really good, so she's pretty good.

Speaker 1

Never take a woman on a date for the first time to the movies. It's not the move At all. Did I just sound old when I said the move? You did, yeah, i was about to stop Pop lock in break dancing. It's not the move, it's not the move.

Speaker 3

Somebody come get grandpa to fuck about it.

Speaker 2

With his dad, why you want to watch him out.

Speaker 1

So you can't make it with his on the shoulders up You, that's a good day.

Speaker 4

Yeah, that's a good day.

Speaker 1

No, I'm gonna have to pull the full body, because they get me out here, they get a big, a whole barrel.

Speaker 2

So that's why we only see him from the neck up, like I don't know what that nigga looks like.

Speaker 1

Past the bid, i stopped. I don't even like that shit. Oh, it hurt my feelings, oh yeah. So as far as the movie is concerned, the blackening it was, i had you spoiler alert, first of all because I might say some shit That's not my say some shit that you know. Put you in your ass where you like. Fuck, i don't want to go see it now.

Speaker 2

I mean it was cool. I mean I think we could have waited to came out. But you know, i'm always wanting to support black movies.

Speaker 1

Word you know, just give him some type of love you know, back in our day we'd have been like, nah, it's like straight to DVD.

Speaker 3

But in this age it's like nah straight to Peacock.

Speaker 2

That's just weight, Yeah but no it was. it was cool. I mean, you know, just to get out the house and go catch a flick, she said there was air on the other side of the door.

Speaker 1

Fuck the movie.

Speaker 3

Yeah, no it was.

Speaker 2

It was cool. I didn't like it.

Speaker 1

I'm mad that I paid for it. Yeah like you know, I would have rather like to straight to Peacock, because you know, Peacock, I have to shit on fucking online next week, Right Oh?

Speaker 2

that's wait. wait When I don't do that. No, i'm saying I take Tyler to the movies to go see Transformers.

Speaker 4

Right.

Speaker 2

While we came home, he founded on what's I think it was on Netflix or Amazon Prime Video.

Speaker 1

The movie.

Speaker 2

Yeah, trent, yeah, the Transformers were like $24. I'm like what the hell? We could have just watched it at the house. It was it was more than $30. Well, the tips was more than 30 at the movies. And then we had you know, we ate and had drinks and things like that. Well, he didn't have drinks, but I had.

Speaker 1

You got your drink without.

Speaker 2

I had drinks and he you know. So I'm just saying like we came straight back home the same night inside the Transformer. He wanted to watch it. I'm like absolutely not.

Speaker 1

You spent at least $70.

Speaker 2

Oh yeah, it was easy Yeah definitely Don't come exactly. So yeah, these movies are, yeah, you can just catch them, you don't have to spend that money. But again, i want to support black. You know black film, so I'm glad we went.

Speaker 1

All right. So maybe I'm a little lost and a little fucking dumb. You talking about the Transformers, I'm talking about the black thing. OK, because you said the black movies. I'm like wait a minute.

Speaker 2

I mean, it was some black folk in Transformers too, but you know.

Speaker 1

I know the soundtrack is black. I don't know anything about the Yeah, we went to now if you want to go, and it's kind of like an updated version of scary movie, but not really like. I didn't even like how your man was running around killing him with crossbows, like what kind of bullshit is that A crossbow?

Speaker 2

a whole crossbow. And then there was a gun, not a knife, but a crossbow.

Speaker 1

And then there was twins. I did, ladies and gentlemen, I did say that Yeah.

Speaker 3

Um yeah spoiler alert.

Speaker 1

I'm. My intentions are to fuck the entire movie up for you, actually, because I'm mad that fucking twins and they look like like Brolich as shaggy That's what they look like, but from a comedic standpoint it was pretty fucking funny. Yeah, i will, i will say that, but just wait until it comes out on Pause. Peacock is so fucking All right, let me stop. Yeah, just wait for it to come out on Peacock. You got any more to?

Speaker 2

add to that. I was just going to say on a thing run tomatoes. It was like a 6.1 out of 10.

Speaker 1

6.1. Yeah, that was generous, it was pretty, no it wasn't that bad. It was fucking terrible.

Speaker 2

It wasn't Okay, I wouldn't say terrible.

Speaker 1

Terrible.

Speaker 2

It wasn't that good, but it wasn't terrible.

Speaker 1

Listen, let me explain something. If the popcorn was better than the fucking, movie.

Speaker 2

That popcorn was on point. It was like the best popcorn ever.

Speaker 1

So we both trying to fucking eat the popcorn at the same fucking time.

Speaker 4

Mm, hmm.

Speaker 1

Maybe because we hadn't eaten that entire day, i don't know. Um, yeah, so the blackening So rotten tomatoes gives it a 6.1. I think it's worse than that. Um, it's one of those movies you could watch when you're cleaning your house.

Speaker 2

If it all in the background.

Speaker 1

Yeah, yeah, yeah, cause you'll stop and laugh at a couple of scenes or whatever, and you'll realize as soon as that laugh is over they back to the bullshit.

Speaker 3

Right.

Speaker 1

Yeah, the schoolbie, i'll give you all right. I'm really about to fuck it up for you. So here's the thing. There was like this basement in this house. First of all, black people don't go to the woods, to nobody's lodge period Just doesn't happen. So that part already had me. Um, too, they would go down in this fucking basement and get locked into the basement. Then they, you know, the door would unlock. They'd leave the basement, find themselves back in the basement When they get locked in again.

Speaker 1

I think the third time they got locked in I was like I'm done with this. I don't want to, i don't. What are we doing?

Speaker 2

But you know, black people we don't really do good with scary movies anyway, so we didn't know how. They know how to act. That was the premise.

Speaker 1

All right, that was the running joke, but I feel like it wasn't creative enough, though I think they could have been a lot more creative with that whole shit. Any man running around killing people with crossbows It's a fucking All right, all right, yeah, um, i don't even have. No, i'm done with that.

Speaker 4

Desert. I hope you guys enjoyed your meal. Can I get you something off of our desert menu All?

Speaker 1

right. So if you are enjoying this illustrious podcast, and the dig deep for that, Spell it Stop it.

Cooking Up a New YouTube Channel

Speaker 1

Stop it. I'm too many shots and too many drinks in to spell anything. I can't spell my name. Um, please drop us a comment, you know? uh, go on to any of the DSPs, leave a uh what up Comment. No, not a comment. Oh right, you review it. Everything is moving in slow motion for me right now, pardon people, that's that. You got anything Any um church announcements? I know you over there cooking up a new vlog, anything?

Speaker 2

in the world. So I'm cooking up a new blog, cooking up a YouTube channel.

Speaker 1

All right.

Speaker 2

So hopefully you get that up and going pretty soon.

Speaker 1

We don't live on a whole principle.

Speaker 2

Okay, mm. Hmm, that'll be up soon. Coming soon.

Speaker 3

Coming soon.

Speaker 2

Yeah, youtube channel. Can't wait, i'm excited. I think coming soon is like coming soon to YouTube near you.

Speaker 1

It's like. it's like a lazy person's crutch, Like as long as I can say coming soon, motherfuckers. You don't know when it's coming. You gonna get this work, i know, but when you know. every time when somebody say coming soon, i'll be like I'm out of here.

Speaker 1

Like yo son, i got this new working on. Like nah, not at all. Why is my son calling fucking up the whole thing right now? He wow, um, anyway, and FaceTime, and me on top of that. ladies and gentlemen, that's how real and raw it is over here. Um, I want to thank you for coming through sitting down with us with all of that. Um, fellas jumping on my DM pause, nothing like that. Let me know how we did on your side of things as far as, like that whole shenanigans with the cars and shit. You know, hopefully you had better luck than I had.

Speaker 2

Um, or even if you have like a different game that you want to suggest that we play, let us know. Hit us up in the DMs.

Speaker 1

Please.

Speaker 2

A different game, for sure, yeah, a different game.

Speaker 1

I want my money back for this.

Speaker 2

As a matter of fact.

Speaker 1

I'm about to throw these shits out the window. Where do you think I'm playing? Yeah.