The Brunch Hour Podcast
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Maneuvering through Adulthood and Relationships: A Candid Discussion with Barbie
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Get ready for an intimate conversation with Barbie, host of the renowned Let Me Touch You podcast. Our spirited exchange takes you deep into the world of relationships, exploring everything from modern dating to the significance of communication. We kick things off by sharing our own personal journeys of healing and self-care, emphasizing how these experiences have shaped our lives and relationships. You'll also get a taste of our latest lighthearted creation - the 'Henny Fruit Roll Up', and we discuss why expressing our needs is essential for maintaining healthy relationships.
But what happens when the complexities of adulthood collide with the fun of childhood? Join us as we ponder on what could be deemed as childish behavior in adults. We also dive into the expectations and norms of first dates, from selecting the perfect spot to the amount one should spend. Expect lively debates on modern dating dynamics like going Dutch, initiating the second date, and how the medium of payment can impact perceptions.
As we round off our engaging conversation, we delve into the significance of first date impressions and how they can make or break a relationship. We dissect different payment methods and their attached stigmas, while also stressing the importance of creating memorable experiences. Experience our candid take on balancing the desire to save money and the need for a memorable, bougie experience. This episode is a laughter-filled, thought-provoking journey on navigating love, relationships, and communication. Join us for an episode that's sure to leave you pondering long after the final sign-off.
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Speaker 2It's the only podcast I listen to.
Speaker 1With your host styles. What's goodie people we all back. It's another week. It's another week of me trying to say hello without saying hello. It's just that. It's just that I'm grateful. I'm thankful because I do have a really good guest for y'all today. I'm going to be pissed off, though. It's not my wife, and I keep saying that. You know she wasn't on the trial, she last week we joked about her having a trial period as far as, like, being a host and stuff like that. I promise you it's not that. That is not that coming to fruition. And there's a meat grinder over here. We do run through host. However, she won't be one of them. Stuck in a good way, in a good way. I hope everybody's week was good.
Speaker 1You know, if you're listening and you're driving, keep your eyes on the road. You know, if you're driving to Tesla, keep your eyes on the road, because it's not infallible. What else? If you know somebody who is just like you and a like is what we like to call them Send them the podcast. The more, the merrier. You guys will have something to talk about. It'll be great, right? So we're going to start the show. Well, I'm not even start to show off, I'm bugging once again. We're going to start off with this, okay, so listen up, listen closely, follow me.
Speaker 3I expected you have a Wow. I expected more. You should be expecting stuff so early on. I didn't lie, I didn't lie. I didn't lie about you two I'm here for a reason.
Speaker 2I didn't lie about you two. I didn't lie about you two. I didn't lie about you two. I didn't lie about you two. I didn't lie about you two. I didn't lie about you two. I'm here for a reason. This is the second day.
Speaker 3I'm here for a reason.
Speaker 2I'm here for a reason.
Speaker 3You're good Because you want to go to the capital to build? Okay, I want to go out. I want to stay in Okay, you should have told me that you should communicate.
Speaker 4I communicate with you.
Speaker 2Exactly. You guys don't want to communicate, y'all want to say it.
Speaker 3Y'all have some of the shots on. I can really pull up and take you where you got from. Why don't you go with them then? Okay, why don't you go with them? You go with them, since they are so much better than me. Y'all want to go with them.
Speaker 1So let me paint the picture for you. This gentleman actually fixed her plate they're at his house Fixed her plate of food. You know he did his thing as far as like the plate plating and stuff like that, it looked real good. She shows up she's thinking that she's going out for a meal, but instead, you know, he cooked a meal Right. So a very small thing turned into a very big thing and at that point I started counting my blessings. I am not dating anymore and this is great because you know I was an asshole.
Speaker 3No rice, no champagne. You don't eat nothing.
Speaker 1And I'm not playing, that was me all day long and I just have a little bit of another little sprinkle of disrespect.
Speaker 3Don't be acting like you fuck with me. You really don't Fuck off my line.
Speaker 1And then we can start the show.
Speaker 3I guess, I used to be in love with this bitch. They mean J the fuck with her. No more. Now I fuck with Tango Ray. Tango Ray, hey yo, what's in?
Speaker 4the. We need two shots combo Then take me away, all right.
Speaker 1So boom, listen, this week we back to them. I don't even want to say back to, because that shit is disrespectful, I'm not even back to. I got my my road dog with me, barbie from let me touch you podcast.
Speaker 4Hey guys.
Speaker 1Why do you like every female that I have to get some money?
Speaker 4I always say hey guys.
Speaker 1I understand, but with the annoying voice like that though, it's annoying, I'm sorry Now my voice is annoying, right out the gate.
Speaker 4It's already starting with me, you see right out the gate.
Speaker 1This is before we do that, though, before we put the boxing gloves on, let's tell everybody what we're drinking. So it's called a Henny fruit roll up. I did leave out an important ingredient. I guess it's important Not really so important, because it still tastes good, but it's Hennessy fruit punch and pineapple mango juice. It's supposed to have sweet and sour mix, but I totally left that out. What do you think?
Speaker 4No, I think it's good without the sweet and sour.
Speaker 1It would have been like too sour Too sour, that's a word.
Speaker 4Yeah, it's my word Shut up. It's time for you to get back to podcasting.
Speaker 1Your vocabulary is slipping.
Speaker 4It would have been too sour because it has like that little. It already has like a sour, sour taste to it.
Speaker 1Listen, everybody listening to this voice right now, you can thank me later. I dragged that out of her bed, not literally, figuratively, all right, I brought it back from the dead, resuscitated up.
Speaker 4Yes, and I appreciate you for doing that.
Speaker 1Where you been, bob, I've been home.
Speaker 4You've been home. I've been home with my children. You know, healing, your favorite word. I fucking hate that word. Yeah, I had to take some time out but I'll be back.
Speaker 1Sometimes. Well, I'm back.
Speaker 4You know what I'm here.
Speaker 1Wait, Bob, everybody Don't fuck around on my platform. With that I'm hearing I'm back.
Speaker 4Yeah, are you really back though?
Speaker 1Oh, ok, there we go.
Speaker 4This is the stepping stone to me being back.
Speaker 1I ain't no, goddamn stepping stone.
Speaker 4This is what is the beginning. What a whole bunch of greatness.
Speaker 1When can we expect? Just no.
Speaker 2I'll say that for later.
Speaker 1I'll save it for later. You will do it, but I'm saving for later. So for everybody that doesn't know, bob, she has a podcast called Let Me Touch you. It's amazing. It's a self-help podcast. I'm not big on self-help podcast, but the way that she delivers the message, I love it. You want to talk a little bit about it, or you want? To wait till later, because we wait till later, is it?
Speaker 4on the Orthodox yeah, you did good. That's a good way to start it off and then we'll talk about it later. I'll get into more details later.
Speaker 1There you have it. Podcast is on the podcast. This is my podcast.
Speaker 4So then, what you want me to do, I don't know.
Speaker 1All right, let's get started All right, so boom. This is different from when we've had you on in the past.
Speaker 3All right.
Speaker 1So we have an icebreaker right now so everybody can get to know you, the people that don't know you. All right, so it's quick fire. I don't like the backstory, all right.
Speaker 4So you know I love giving them to you. So I'll make it short and simple.
Speaker 1I appreciate that you ready, ready. All right Text, call or FaceTime.
Speaker 4Call Texting is. You know? It's like I feel with texting you can just text me now, I can text you back, and you could take like three hours to write back to me and it's going to get me upset.
Speaker 1So you rather the person call you.
Speaker 4Yeah, if you FaceTime me, you're invading my space. I'm going to ignore you and call you.
Speaker 1That's the third time that I've heard invading my space with FaceTime. Why? Do y'all act like you can't ignore the FaceTime. You can All right then.
Speaker 4Who gave you the? Who made you think that you had the right to FaceTime me, like only my kids can FaceTime me?
Speaker 1Fair enough. Anyway, I'm going to move off of that angry topic. Shoot your shot of chilling the cut.
Speaker 4Shoot a shoot. I'm going to shoot my shot.
Speaker 1if I want it, I'm going to go for it, you fucking up right now because they're going to go to your Instagram page. Shoot a shoot, it won't be like oh she a gangster.
Speaker 4Yeah, cause I'm going to chill in the cut and nah, nah, shoot a shoot.
Speaker 1I'm going to go get you All right, ps, she's from the Bronx. Anyway, in your social circle, what would you say is the ratio of entrepreneurs versus nine to five die holders?
Speaker 4I just recently changed my circle. Um, you know, when you elevate in your life, you have to leave some people behind, unfortunately. I love them, but I would say the entrepreneurs everyone is an entrepreneur in my circle right now Is that right. Yeah, they do the entrepreneur stuff and then they do the nine to five as well. So okay. Who those two done, did a real MVP's.
Speaker 1Oh shit, okay, um wasn't ready. Um, I know you grew up on alternative music. What's your song for the season of your life?
Speaker 4This season. The song I have been listening to some of you might know it or not it's called happy by Leona Lewis. No.
Speaker 2No.
Speaker 4It's the what, like I said, I've been healing right, so it's a song that I play every morning to remind myself to be happy.
Speaker 1Yeah, cause everybody needs a reminder. They want to be happy Um, who can call you at 3am and get you out of your bed?
Speaker 4My children close friends you.
Speaker 1The circle.
Speaker 4Yeah, the circle, and you're in that circle, by the way.
Speaker 1No, okay, it's funny, cause I asked my wife the same thing, right, and she didn't say me, because I guess the way that our phones are set up, like in the beginning when we started dating, I could call her at 10 minutes after four in the morning and she would roll over and answer that phone.
Speaker 4Now she I say you just go by yeah.
Speaker 1We just and it's, it's what basically is like. Vice versa now we're like both like super comfortable. So it's like you know, we know like don't call me before 8am in the morning, unless it's a yeah, crazy, crazy, crazy, crazy. All right, um, um, um, what drink do you? What drink do you start brunch off with?
Speaker 4Hennie and Red Bull.
Speaker 1Hennie and Red Bull. Mm-hmm, she's from the Bronx, forget her. She knows not what she says right now.
Speaker 4That's the best, that's the drink.
Speaker 1That's a fucking sledgehammer, though that's not even a. Uh, that's the best thing ever. All right, Fuck it. Um, I started drinking Hennie C because of you. I still don't like it straight. Pause. But I'm just saying I could drink a straight. I'm sure you from the fucking Bronx. If you could live in any sitcom, what would it be?
Speaker 4Um damn, again some old school stuff.
Speaker 3Mm-hmm.
Speaker 4It would be Beverly Hills night, or two or no.
Speaker 1All right. I need to be careful because I am starting to get like advertisers and stuff like that. So I got to watch my mouth, and after the Alabama incident I really got to watch my mouth. You know, but the tiger can't change his stripes.
Speaker 4So but I will redo with my crew.
Speaker 1But you can't see is the thing. This is what throws me. You drink, hennie, but you want to be a 90210.
Speaker 4So what happened?
Speaker 1This shit is a contradiction. It doesn't make sense.
Speaker 4Why? Just because I drink honey.
Speaker 1I'm going to let you do the fucking math.
Speaker 4It's easy two and two, four, no, Just because I drink honey doesn't mean anything. But what the fuck? I can be a 90210 taking shots with Brenda and.
Speaker 1Dylan and not a Hennie.
Speaker 4Well, we can be drinking wine.
Speaker 1It's kind of like you know what I almost expected you to say. Friends, I'm not going to hold you.
Speaker 4Friends is one of my favorites.
Speaker 1It comes, friends is just basically 90210 grown up.
Speaker 4Yeah, but I don't want to be a grown up, that's a whole shit Like I want to go back to those younger years.
Speaker 1Good. This leads me into my next question what child is things you still do as an adult?
Speaker 4Watched. I just rewatched it. By the way, guys, let me see, I don't think I do anything besides reliving those years watching those old shows.
Speaker 1That's not a challenge.
Speaker 4Some might say it is. There's some people that when they call me they be like what you doing, watching out to another, like Barbie, howl Do you?
Speaker 1know Right, so let's take a deeper dive. What do you consider childish?
Speaker 4People that ignore people and go from people, little shit like that.
Speaker 1That's not even child, that's petty. I'm going to really need you to buckle down on this one, you ready.
Speaker 4Yeah, go ahead, I'm focused listening.
Speaker 1What do you consider childish?
Speaker 4Exactly what I said to you that you consider that petty, but I consider that petty and childish.
Speaker 1Oh, petty and childish. What do you consider just childish I?
Speaker 4don't know.
Speaker 1What the fuck, yeah like.
Speaker 2I don't know.
Speaker 1Like these, still play with Barbies, like childish that's okay, no, I don't play with Barbie dolls.
Speaker 4That's yeah, that's super childish, though.
Speaker 1Listen, I guess they're very in degrees of childish, but I'm just trying to get to the generalization of childish.
Speaker 4I don't do anything childish, you don't no?
Speaker 1You're a complete grown ass.
Speaker 4A grown ass woman from the Bronx that drinks honey and red bull and wants to be a 90210. Yeah.
Speaker 1Get out of here All right. All right. What would you consider to be a decent amount to spend on a first date? Give it some thought. This is a lightning rod 150.
Speaker 1150? Okay, what would that 150 consist of? How would you spend that? Like you know, just do this court and you want to grab, because that's how the kids do it nowadays, and you agree to meet up when you meeting First of all. Yes, the whole meetup. Remember, it's a first date, right? So you're taking this from you. You have decided I need to stop drinking. You have decided to move this offline I mean, yeah, offline from where you were. So you guys are meeting up, I'm assuming, because you're not going to go downstairs and hop into somebody's car that you haven't met before.
Speaker 4No, yeah, we're going to meet up at the spot.
Speaker 1Got you, and what spot is this?
Speaker 4A restaurant.
Speaker 1What restaurant?
Speaker 4is this Are we in New York?
Speaker 1I mean you live in New York. Why would I change a geographic location?
Speaker 4Well, my favorite restaurant is Jake's Steakhouse.
Speaker 1Okay.
Speaker 4So we'll be meeting up at Jake's Steakhouse.
Speaker 1Where's Jake's Steakhouse?
Speaker 4It's on Broadway.
Speaker 1In the city. Oh, is it Okay.
Speaker 4I'm saying the Bronx, I give up. Got, you got you, we'll be there.
Speaker 1We'll meet up there.
Speaker 2Have dinner.
Speaker 4Some wine and for the first day. I think that would be good, Just the dinner for me.
Speaker 1Just the dinner.
Speaker 4Yeah, just in case, like I wouldn't want him to plan too much, because if I don't like the way the dinner goes, then I have to do all the other shit and I don't want to be there, got you? So that's why I say 150 would be good.
Speaker 1What? 150 for yourself? No for both. Yeah but it's a Steakhouse though I'm assuming, I'm thinking like more into something like that. So if it's a Steakhouse, I'm assuming you're looking at you know, just for like the three courses, 75 per person. That's 150, right there you drinking, or you drinking that water with the ice in it.
Speaker 4I'm drinking, but I'm not that type of person to go out to dinner and I need appetizers and to dinner and to dessert, Like you know, I'll skip the appetizers, because if I have appetizers I'm not going to eat my meal. But that's just me To fuck. I won't.
Speaker 1That is truly some hood shit. And when I say hood shit, I'm not even saying it in a derogatory manner towards you, because I feel the same way.
Speaker 4Yeah, I can, Like I can't get filled with the appetizer when the meal I'm going to end up taking it home.
Speaker 1Yeah, exactly Like, exactly, exactly. I'm with you 100% on that, because, um, the way I grew up is like appetite why the fuck are we? I didn't. I never Understood the purpose of an appetizer. And then, the old god, I was like it's not appetizer because the other shit's gonna take extremely long and you just want to. You know, I had that thought and also had to thought yeah, motherfuckers just want to get every dime out of me.
Speaker 4Exactly you know, then the first day, honestly again, this is just me. I'm not gonna get nothing crazy to eat because I'm real. If he like an picky with eating and I don't want to eat it, certain like I get nervous and To eat a certain way. This one time I went out on a date with a guy. He was just looking at me the way I cut my steak and he thought I was just weird for cutting my steak the way I do.
Dating Expectations and Miscommunications
Speaker 1I'm funny like that too, as far as, like the, the types of food and shit like that, like I Don't know the way my stomach is set up now with days Might be because I'm getting older, I don't fucking know. But um, yeah, it's like.
Speaker 4I'll have something simple, first thing.
Speaker 1We're like Jello, give me some Jello.
Speaker 4Something that doesn't require too much, like we ain't going to eat no crab legs. And another first thing no crab legs.
Speaker 1I mean that's like because it's they always say don't eat finger food, like on the first day. Shit pretty much on any. Don't wait till you're married to your finger food. You know we actually went to a spot in the Bronx Shit the name escapes me.
Speaker 4That's not good, but anyway that means it wasn't that good.
Speaker 1No, was it was. It was phenomenal actually. That's not actually ordered. The fried crab leg Right. And the funny thing about fried crab legs what happens is when you fry it, I'm allergic to shellfish so I don't even eat the shit. You know, not a bottom feeder, the can you not hit stuff on the fucking? I'm just fucking with you. So when you fry it, it changes the texture of the meat in the claw so it makes it more difficult to actually take out. And the other thing is, can I ask you guys a question? Oh, you fried crab leg eating people. Why do you fry the crab leg like and then season the thing?
Speaker 4I've never had a fried crab legs.
Speaker 1They seasoned it, it looked amazing. But then, when Reality set in and I was sitting in logic and all of that, like you can't eat the shell, what the fuck is that like?
Speaker 4a sad zone. Lollipop, Like you see.
Speaker 1I see some of that but that's different, though, you know, because the set, the, the boil actually goes, you know, into the shadows.
Speaker 2Yeah.
Speaker 1Thanks. You know they season the shell and fried it, so I'm sitting there.
Speaker 3I have to try it.
Speaker 1It had a crust and everything and I'm like I'm amazed. I'm looking at it like oh, this is fucking awesome. But then, initially, initially. But then she tried to. You know, of course she was trying to eat it and you know it was difficult to pull a meat out because it changes the texture of it so it kind of like binds to the shell on the inside. We're about to see full boil. What happens is when you crack it and pull it, it just slides right the fuck out. Pause.
Speaker 1I'm gonna be here just having a bunch of pause moments, but that whole thing. And then of course I'm standing here with the gestures and shit with the hands.
Speaker 4I'm glad I can't see that, waiting for him to say pause.
Speaker 1Yeah, it's crazy.
Speaker 2Main course is time to eat what's on your mind.
Speaker 1All right. So this week I feel like I lined y'all up. You started off with a monologue talking about. You know dating and Unappreciative people. You know male and female.
Speaker 2You know equal opportunity.
Speaker 1Yeah, it just happened to be a female, because that's the only clip that I could find. Um, and then sliding into the, you know the happy hour, and in a happy hour we ended off with how much you would want to spend on on the first day. You know your expectations, what your expectations. No, yeah it was an awkward pause, but you can go.
Speaker 4Okay, um. So with that, and it's not just because she's a female and I'm gonna defend her. She does have a point, though, if you tell a female I'm gonna pick you up and we're gonna go out and you bring me to your house. I'm gonna look at you like why are we in your house?
Speaker 1See, and this is gonna be the first argument that we have tonight, Okay, I'm ready for it. All right, so boom. How did you get that out of what? What went on there, she said, she said you told me we were going out right.
Speaker 4And they ended up at her at his house right, this was date two.
Speaker 1also, did you hear that?
Speaker 4Yes, okay, he should have said listen for date two instead of us going out. I wanted to do something special for you and prepare something for you in my house, right? And she would have been mentally prepared for that. What if she wasn't ready to go to his house? Okay, what if she has some past trauma that you know? Something happened to?
Speaker 1her when she went to a guy's house. Let me ask you a question. You kind of the crib right. The dude actually makes your plate, puts it in front of you. You gonna spaz out like that though.
Speaker 4No, I'm not gonna she right, all right, so be lady like yeah, I got understand miscommunication.
Speaker 1You know, and that was a complete that that fucking flag was maroon. It wasn't even right. This shit was maroon, right? No, we don't. We don't do that. And if you, you don't do that and then bring up communication, you don't even know how to communicate.
Speaker 4Yeah, dad, I agree with you 100% the way she.
Speaker 1You don't have a choice. You gotta agree with that, yeah her delivery.
Speaker 4If she would have said it a different way, it didn't have to escalate the way did. Mm-hmm she should have just simply said you know, I appreciate you doing this, but this is not what I had in mind. If she wasn't ready to go to his house, she should have just said that too, before even coming out the car, like why are we pulling up in your house? But it's a hour defense.
Speaker 1Who's?
Speaker 4hour to the ladies defenses. Whenever you're gonna say something, just do that. That's it.
Speaker 1Okay, um.
Speaker 3No, there's no rice, no champagne. You don't eat nothing. I'm a star.
Speaker 1You won't stop cuz I'm yeah, none of that, none of that.
Speaker 4And he was trying to get in her pants. I'm gonna do all this for her wine and dying her.
Speaker 2Give her something to drink. We're ready, chilling in the crib.
Speaker 1She's comfortable.
Speaker 4One thing Kaleeta, another Right wham-bam, no, all right.
Speaker 1So this is the thing. The end result for every day is hopefully to get in somebody's pants. I mean, I don't.
Speaker 4I hate to.
Speaker 1I hate to break the fucking news to you, for women too. It's just that you guys listen, whether it's the first date, the tenth date or six months in your case, right, it doesn't matter. The end result is the hopes to actually do that, for that to happen, you know, um, I'm on the way. We hope to find a little emotional connection. You know shit like that, um, but we do. Ultimately, it's not like. You know why. What's your purpose when you're going out on the tape?
Speaker 4To get to know someone to see if I do have a connection with them, to eventually sleep with them. Shut the fuck up, bob.
Speaker 1This is what I'm talking about. You don't have to agree with me in a subtle manner. Take the hand out, do what you need to do the fuck. Eventually I'm winning over here.
Speaker 4It's a W for the men over here, Not on the second date. That's all I gotta say.
Speaker 1Guys, Come on man, it could happen on the second date, mm-mm, yeah, it could.
Speaker 3Not with me.
Speaker 1Wow.
Speaker 3No ribs, no rice, no champagne. You don't eat nothing.
Speaker 1I mean, yeah, from your house, take your ass home. Mm-hmm, I will. And see, I like how you built the story around your point. She was like, and he just pulled up to her house. We don't know that that's how she got there.
Speaker 4She must have, he must have picked off. And you what?
Speaker 1the fuck, it's all right.
Speaker 4If she, if he would have told her oh, you come into my house and we're gonna chill here, she would have started the argument off rib.
Speaker 1Oh my God, she probably would have, because she was a Tasmanian devil, yeah, mm-hmm, and she ain't looked apart either, like mine. You going, wow right now. Look like an angry fucking hamster, eat that steak and be happy it looked good, though Do these?
Speaker 4the Fenty did a good job setting everything up. He did he did.
Speaker 1I politely put that shit in some tupperware but you know, gave him one of them fucking nine.
Speaker 4I'd have had to find a plastic bag or a paper bag, and she didn't even deserve to take it home with the way she responded.
Speaker 1The dude was a gentleman? Yeah, he was, so he would have definitely sent it with her.
Speaker 4But there's a reason why she must have reacted that way. That's what I gotta say. I'ma leave it there. Yeah, I too, i'ma leave it there.
Speaker 1How would you feel if your date pays with cash app chime, a giffy or grubon?
Speaker 3I wouldn't mind.
Speaker 1I'm asking a rural person Now that I'm older. Old, you're older yeah.
Speaker 4Just a Hennessy. Now that I'm older I would not mind. The younger version of me would have looked at him like he crazy. But now you know the mother of four got bills to pay. Like I'm grateful he's at least taking me out on a date. You're that bad, no but you know, not everybody got it like that. Like what I'm taking the time out to actually go look for a group. I wouldn't mind a grubon all right, that's it. I wouldn't mind a grubon, a gift card.
Speaker 1Yeah.
Speaker 4Cash app card.
The Significance of First Date Impressions
Speaker 1I'm not going to hold you. It takes a special kind of confidence to from a man's standpoint, in my standpoint, a fucking man's standpoint, because I don't think it's my, you know abandon ship once I say what I gotta say. But it takes a special type of confidence to actually show up on the first date with a grubon.
Speaker 4I was about to ask you that it's the first date. Yeah, yeah, I couldn't do it. The first date. It does take a special person to do that. Like you gotta feel extra comfortable with me in order to do that.
Speaker 1Not only that, but remember, perception is everything. And if you don't know my full story, this is the first date, the first time we've ever spent time in each other's company or whatnot. If you don't know my story, you know I don't want you to start building a story from this grubon date.
Speaker 4But a grubon is not bad.
Speaker 1No, it's not. See, there's a thing, there's nothing wrong with it. But remember, let's go back to the root of it. Perception is everything. This is the first encounter that we've had and time we spent together.
Speaker 4Yeah.
Speaker 1I don't want to dig a hole in and basically start off by trying to find my way out of that hole.
Speaker 2You get what I'm saying, yeah.
Speaker 1Because I don't want to do that. I just don't want to do it, so I couldn't. I personally, I couldn't do it.
Speaker 4The only thing like out of the three that you mentioned, that I might be a little iffy about would be the cash out card, because if you don't listen, you don't have a bank account. That means that you owe money somewhere to some bank for something, so that means you don't know how to manage your money and all you can have right now is a cash out card.
Speaker 1Bobby from the Bronx. He pulls out the cash out card. You going to question him about it.
Speaker 4I'm not going to question him, I'm going to look at him. At least he's paying the bill. We ain't got to watch no dishes or I ain't got to pull out my card, but I'm going to look at it. Like you know, I'm going to start doing my investigation and ask some other questions Fallen see what I'm talking about.
Speaker 1Perception is everything. If you ain't got no money, you know, or, pardon, if you don't have a debit card, a regular debit card, but you know what? There's so many different debit cards that you can get. Now, with days outside of a cash out card, cash out cards, they don't. My antennas aren't raised if you pull out a cash out card.
Speaker 4But usually people with cash out and chime is people that they can't get a regular bank account because they owe other banks money or they owe child support. They owe somewhere something.
Speaker 1Well, let me put you on. I have two cash out cards one for the business and a personal one. So if a person like myself took you out on the first date and I pulled it out, that's what you automatically jump into.
Speaker 4Maybe I'm not going to say here, lie, yeah, I'll be like let me explain how unfair that is Right.
Speaker 1It's unfair to the point of we sit down and you're like yo, I got four kids. It would be unfair of me to assume that they all have the same father without asking. I'm just in my head assuming like it would be unfair, right? So it's unfair of you to suggest that I don't have a bank account because I pulled out my cash out.
Speaker 4That's why I said I'm not going to assume I'm going to investigate. You're which, I do have a cash out card, but you're investigating based off an assumption. Of course yeah.
Speaker 1You just said you're not going to assume.
Speaker 4Yeah, you're right, I am assuming I'm, going to do my private eye investigation just to make sure that my assumptions are correct, Right and see is women like you.
Speaker 1that makes me not have the confidence to show up on a group because you're going to assume something else and I don't want that. I don't need that.
Speaker 4Now I feel you, I see what you're saying, right.
Speaker 1But the group on.
Speaker 4Honestly, I'm listening, I wouldn't care about the group on, because it's like oh, he knows how to save money. Okay, he can probably show me how to save some money.
Speaker 1Okay, until y'all split in a plate.
Speaker 4No, because with the I've gone on dates with Groupon.
Speaker 1First dates.
Speaker 4No.
Speaker 1Okay, so there lies the comfort person's actually comfortable with you. I mean I would do that now, like me, and my wife will figure something out, you know, I mean just to make sure that the experience we all bougie. So we want to make sure the experience is crazy. But if we can get it for cheaper, let's do it.
Speaker 4No, of course. You know, it was a guy that put me on to Groupon. I didn't know nothing about Groupon and I wanted to go somewhere. I think I was going to Grey Wolf Lodge with the kids and he was like, oh, you know, they have it on Groupon. They have a 40% off. I was like, what is a Groupon? And he put me on to it. So I was like, oh look. I was like, oh, thank you, you're helping me save money. So I appreciated that. It was the first day.
Speaker 1No, he was helping me save money for something that I was going to do with the kids Copy. All right, I mean again. You keep going to the lab talking about first days.
Speaker 4No, first day, like I said, we pulled out a cash out for Chime. There was one time I went out with a guy and he pulled out a Chime card. And he pulled out a card and I'm looking at his card Listen, I'm not bougie, I'm not nothing, because if it just is what it is, I'm not going to say he and Lidia. He pulled out a card and I'm trying to figure out what fucking type of card is that. And he felt uncomfortable paying with the card because he pulled out the card and he went towards the waitress. He didn't even let the waitress come to the table with the bill. Then, when I realized it was a Chime card, and then, you know, as our relationship got a little deeper and we started talking, the situation that I mentioned earlier like he owes other banks money, he can't get a bank account.
Speaker 1My man, you should have just passed up on that. You know what I mean. Anyway, because I'm just saying this is my thing From my perspective, because it's a little different. Normally, you know, men take women out on first dates, not in reverse. You know, it's kind of like that whole stigma of women proposing, but that's a whole other story. So, from my perspective, as long as nobody's doing dishes at the end of the night or the cops aren't being called, that was a good night, it was a successful night. You know, I don't think that. You know this dude pulling out a charm card or a cash app card, you know he should get strikes against him. That doesn't make any sense to me. For instance, my cash app card, direct deposit coming out of my check, that goes to my cash app card, the business cash app card.
Speaker 4Actually, you know, like I don't, I'm struggling with your, your reason behind all cash, I think Because some people people like us use it for those type of reasons.
Speaker 1Why do you keep seeing people like us Like?
Speaker 4us that we can have regular bank accounts.
Speaker 1Yo your discrimination right now.
Speaker 4No, listen people.
Speaker 1It's palpable.
Speaker 4People that can have regular bank accounts. We do because, like I said, I have cash up, my kids have cash up and I use cash up for other reasons. I use it as one of my savings account. I transfer money there to save, so I won't see it in my regular account that I normally use.
Speaker 1But why doesn't your date get the same benefit of the doubt when he pulls out his cash app card to pay for your steak dinner?
Speaker 3He just didn't. No ribs, no rice, no champagne. You don't eat nothing, yo.
Speaker 4I'm not going to sit here and try to figure out a way to fix it. Like when the guy pulled out the chime card, I was just like no, it wasn't it, but I was just like it was a red. It was like a red flag for me.
Speaker 1But you guys went on more days though.
Speaker 4No.
Speaker 1That was it.
Speaker 4Yeah, but it wasn't because of the chime card.
Speaker 1What was it? I'm curious.
Speaker 4He just what had a lot of red flags.
Speaker 1He had chime characteristics. What the fuck? What was happening? He eventually, as we kept talking, you realized he didn't have a bank account.
Speaker 4Yeah, he didn't have a bank account.
Speaker 1What the fuck.
Speaker 4And he wasn't. And I'm not judging nobody again because I'm not in the best space in my life, like my life is all together. I don't have 800 credit score, but he was in a point in his life where he couldn't have an account. He owed money in a whole bunch of places and it was just like I can't, it was something that I couldn't. I've invested a lot of years in men trying to help men be better and I'm sorry, but I'm not doing that again.
Speaker 1Let me ask you a question as far as friends are concerned. Could you have a friend with a low credit score? I'm just asking you could, okay, stop, I'm glad you said that. So, with that being said, you don't have to be fucking this individual, right? Because you were romantically interested in him and he had a 400 credit score. He was like I can't fuck with you, I can't even be your friend.
Speaker 4We're friends. I'm still friends with the charm guy.
Speaker 1Oh, you are. Yeah, are you making him a better man?
Speaker 4Yes, I'm helping him elevate, himself.
Speaker 1And he just can't get no buns.
Speaker 4Nah, I can't.
Speaker 1He was like you got to get your credit score up fam.
Speaker 4Listen, I'm the type of person, people that if I am, if I decide to be sexually intimate with you, is because I see a future with you.
Speaker 1And a high credit score.
Speaker 4And if you're at a place in your life where you can't, I'm just just out of the fuck up. Just forget it.
Speaker 1Keep going, Come on you from the Bronx, let's go.
Speaker 4If you're at a place in your life, depending on your age to age is a huge factor. If you're at a place in your life where you really can't, we can't help each other and all you're going to do is just hold me back, slow down my process, my goals. I can't.
Speaker 1Was he? Was he an energy sucker? Yes, he was All right say that, so there's nothing to talk about that.
Speaker 4Yeah, it was too much. I felt like I was investing too much in him and I wasn't going to get anything in return.
Speaker 1I tried to lawyer up just now, but I can't defend that guy. It's not going to work. Yeah, it's not going to work. Okay, so we went over the economics of dating and stuff like that. Oh, I got a question, though. Here's my question.
Speaker 4I'm scared.
Payment Methods and Dating Expectations
Speaker 1No, no, no, we good. So you start off the relationship, your past date one and two. When is it okay? Or when do you start entertaining the idea in your head of going Dutch or even paying for it by yourself? After the first date oh, after the first date you go Dutch, and then you also pay for an entire meal.
Speaker 4Yeah.
Speaker 1Yeah, like, how does that work? What does that look like?
Speaker 4All right. So the first date is amazing, Like we hit it off great and I want to spend time with you again. I will initiate the second date and I'm the type of person if I invite you it's because I'm paying, and if you're the type of man that's not comfortable with it, then now you know I'll be like so we can go half and half, and if it's still the issue, I'll find a way to pay for it, or even the bathroom or something. But I'm not the type of girl to just let a man pay for dates.
Speaker 1Assuming he does go to the bathroom.
Speaker 4He will.
Speaker 1Why.
Speaker 4Yeah, let's go to the bathroom.
Speaker 1I never go to the bathroom. I never go to the bathroom.
Speaker 4Oh, then I'll go to the bathroom and when I'm going to the bathroom I'll go to the waitress Like here pay for the bill.
Speaker 1Yeah, but then he's going to cash out of you because he doesn't have a bank account. He's going to cash out you the bread right after you do that, because remember, you got it on deck.
Speaker 4Listen, I have nothing against people with cash up.
Speaker 1Yes, you do Stop playing, but you have to see the reason behind you. Having cash up is totally different.
Speaker 4Instead of saying it's like I'm sorry, as adults cash up shouldn't be your primary bank.
Speaker 1Oh, absolutely. You know, life is hard out here, right Bob? I know that, and you know a lot of people don't have the discipline that you have, right, Bob?
Speaker 4Yes, I know that, so this is what they do.
Speaker 1They separate their bread, so they keep all the important bread over there to the left, because they're right and you know it's in the right hand. The cash app card.
Speaker 4So cash app is the secondary bank.
Speaker 1I mean it most certainly is. I don't understand what you're. Your whole thing with cash app throws me a little bit.
Speaker 4It shouldn't be your primary bank. That's my thing with it.
Speaker 1It shouldn't be your primary. No, you know you can even file your taxes with cash.
Speaker 4It shouldn't be like because cash app recently came out. A couple of years ago, that means some of these years you didn't have a bank account.
Speaker 1All right. So let me ask you another question. I fucked that. Let's move off of that. Let's get to the communication part of it. And this is prior to actually going on that first day. So the dude is like yo, bob, I think you know what I mean. I want to go out, blah, blah. I want to take you to what was the name of the steakhouse Jakes? I want to take you to Jakes, the fucking steakhouse in the Bronx called Jakes.
Speaker 4I want to take you to Jakes You're going to try it one day yeah, maybe I don't know when your wife comes to take you there.
Speaker 1I try to avoid the Bronx, except for the last time.
Speaker 4It's a nice section of the.
Speaker 1Bronx. Oh, is it so? He's like yo, I got a cash app. I mean, yeah, cash app card. I don't know why he would bring that up. I'm just bringing it up because I just want to be stupid in a moment. But I got a cash app. Do you dub him. Then he's communicating. No, you let him take you to Jakes and pay with his cash app.
Speaker 4Yeah, because I don't know the story behind. No, I'm not dubbing. Nobody with a cash app. I don't know the story behind his cash app. Yes, you do. No, I don't. Every like this time I shop on my cash app card, depending on how my cash is flowing in my regular account If I want to touch that. If I don't, I'll touch the money I have saved in the cash app card.
Speaker 1Okay, so it depends.
Speaker 4It depends people.
Speaker 1All right, so boom, another question because I'm getting back. I'm trying to work my way back to the group huh, but I'm trying to make it in a way where you're going to go against it a little bit. So your man shows up. Y'all go to Applebee's First date, right First date Applebee's. Yo, I couldn't be single right now, because I'd be such an asshole I like.
Speaker 4Applebee's.
Speaker 1Nah, you got to challenge people's intellect when you start talking to them and I feel like that's not happening. You know, we going off of the aesthetic. And you can't tell me that we're not going off of the aesthetic because everybody's steadily taking fucking trips out of the country to get their ass done. So, yeah, we going off of the aesthetic, you know. So we go to Applebee's because you happen to like Applebee's and then you find out that that person is actually paying for it with a groupon.
Speaker 4I said earlier, I'm okay with groupons.
Speaker 1You're fine with groupon, even coupled with Applebee's.
Speaker 4Yeah.
Speaker 1So you're about to get a free, you're both about to get a free meal. He goes Applebee's on the floor slide and you fine with that.
Speaker 4Yeah, but he can't pull out the cash app card Only because he's still fucking out of here Only because, like I said with again and I'm only basing my answers on experiences that I've had and so far, the one experience with the one person that had the chime card, his story was that. So now, moving forward, I'm going to think that, damn, every guy that I meet that has a chime or cash app card has it because he has a story like that.
Speaker 1See, that's how I wipe it you was. When we get out of jail, they be like nah, like I.
Speaker 4By the way, people, I'm not white and Puerto Rican because I might think I'm white, because of the 90210 and all that crazy.
Speaker 1Nah, you're not white. You said Hennessy Before you said 90210, they already knew what it was.
Speaker 4So, based on that situation now it's going to have, because I never thought of it that way- which way? That people, that certain people that use cash app or chime have it because that's the only thing they can have. I thought everyone used it in the way that I used it.
Speaker 1I'm going to be honest with you.
Speaker 1The shit never dawned on me Like I've never just like you never thought about it like that because of the fact that when I got it, I got it based off of the fact that it was popular and it was convenient. Yes, it had nothing to do with not being able to get a bank account, and I believe you know, even still, that you're not able to get a bank account. I don't know your circumstances behind you not being being able to get that bank account. You might have, you know, been in a situation where you lost your job, defaulted with, you know, chase, whatever, whatever, and then they closed the account and they closed it with it being in the negative.
Speaker 1Now, I've been in that situation and some like off the cuff bank, like northern something or whatever, they got like one and a half branches and whatnot, but I went into the negative, I lost my job, went to the negative, they closed the account and I couldn't get it. You know, couldn't get an account, um, but I was gainfully employed. You get what I'm saying. You see, I'm going with this, so I don't think that you should. Actually, I'm holding against somebody for pulling out a child and I'm not familiar with time but pulling out a chime or a cash app card.
Speaker 4Like I said, I need background story.
Speaker 2You don't know a background story, Listen.
Speaker 4I know two people.
Speaker 1Right.
Speaker 4That is him and someone close to me that all he has is cash up, and it's because of similar reasons. So, again, I'm only speaking based on Situations I know of. Fuck your situations, guys, are you?
Speaker 1It is what it is. Yeah, because you sound crazy right now.
Speaker 4I'm not going to try to fix it. All right.
Speaker 1So boom. Listen my advice. As far as dating is concerned, um first day is concerned and your payment method pay however you could pay.
Speaker 4You know what I mean. It's getting paid as long as it's getting paid.
Speaker 1Exactly Because, remember, if you found out through conversation that you know this dude isn't worth your time or this woman isn't worth your time, that's one thing. But to say that that person is not worth your time and then jump to assumptions because we won't say group on, because you save money and he got paid Right, but in terms of chime and cash app, you know we're not going to jump to conclusions and just be out here like yo, you know this dude is. You don't have a bank.
Speaker 4Yeah you know what it is to usually um, I associate cash up with like for hood stuff skin hood stuff. Why? Because a lot of hood people that I know they use the cash up for hood stuff.
Speaker 1Well then, you should associate email with hood stuff too, because a lot of Nigerians was you was getting those letters talking about send me $5,000. I'll send you $5 million.
Speaker 4Yeah, it was getting those DMs yeah.
Speaker 1So I mean, can't do that no you're right.
Speaker 4You can't do that, it's not fair for me to you know.
Speaker 1Assume 400 years of oppression has done us Over here looking over my shoulder Now, but I don't want to say everybody should, you know, get the benefit of the doubt. But at the end of the day and you notice that I didn't lean on you with the whole, you know, if he pulled out and I'm like, yeah, but then you have a whole fucking conversation with him before you went out with him. You get what I'm saying.
Speaker 1So, you should have at least that in the bank to fall back on when he does pull out that time not automatically jump to this motherfucker ain't got a bank account.
Speaker 4No, but realistically before first day, are you sitting down discussing finances with someone?
Speaker 1No, it depends. It depends, All right. So I'll tell you this the younger generation, they may have a problem with it. The older generation, we understand the significance and importance of it, because I need to know, you know how sturdy your footing is. You know, in whatever you decide to do, you get what I'm saying. So, yeah, those are the conversations. I think somebody after like maybe 37 is having you know, but prior to 37, we have not had life.
Speaker 4Be having a surprise people 37.
Speaker 1Exactly so you sit down. You know, after 37, you sitting down at the table was like yo, what are you? What are you getting into you?
Speaker 1understand what I'm saying. You guys are talking about 401K. You guys are talking about, you know, transitioning from one job to the next job and the reason why you did it, the price. You know, the salary bump that you got and stuff like that. You guys are talking about investment properties, or future investment properties, and what you're doing to attain certain things. So the conversation is a little bit different. You know, and you know, people about complexion have a lot of. We have problems talking about finances, like we. You know we. It's just something that's not done.
Speaker 4Would you have an issue dating? Let's say you know it's state number six, seven. You're having deeper financial conversations with the female you're with. You guys are now in a relationship and you realize she, her credit score is shot Like she has. She's fucked up credit Right. Would that be an issue for?
Speaker 1you. Well, see, there's the thing we, through conversation, I would already understand our spending habits, you know, and her financial responsibility, or her being financially responsible, rather, how good she is, you know, and if it's a facade, so if things aren't matching up, it may be a problem. I don't have a problem. See, life be life in oh, I know you get what I'm saying and one one risk or one false move, one bad decision, well, have you upside fucking down, you get me. So that doesn't make you, that doesn't put you in a position where you can't, you can't rebound off of that Right, and it also doesn't make you financially irresponsible that you could have had, you know, an eight hundred score your entire life. And again, that one bad decision fucked your whole shit up.
Speaker 3You get what I'm saying Been there before.
Speaker 1Yeah, you got people running around here right now to have co-signed on somebody else's lease or car or something. Right, that person fucked them and didn't pay it, and that falls on them, and now your credit score is fucking shot based off of you being a good fucking Samaritan.
Speaker 4Yeah.
Speaker 1You know. So again, it doesn't. I don't think I don't. A bad credit score isn't a deterrent for me. The reason behind the bad credit score is a deterrent for me. You running around buying, you know, louis Vuitton bags and Louis Vuitton's and shit like that, you got like a three hundred and fifty credit score. Yeah, that's, that's concerning. Yeah, you know that's concerning. Um, guess, I answer that for both of us because you know that.
Speaker 4Oh yeah, you're right. Right, that'll be the same thing for me. The reason why, the reason behind the reason your credit score is so, and honestly people I'm not going to honestly me I wouldn't sit here and just be like, all right, we're on the first date, so what's your credit score? How much money do you make? Do you make six figures, like? Because I'm sure a certain response is I'm giving people part of you think that I'm that type of female. No, my thing is my people that don't know me.
Speaker 1OK, yeah.
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Speaker 4Yeah, 90210. My thing is and it moving forward. I've been in two major relationships and one of them that guy was the guy with the low credit score. You know. He was at a point in his life where he was trying to find himself and I dedicated so many years trying to make him become a better person and at the end of the day it was. I felt like it was all for nothing. So, moving forward, I said one I do decide to be in a relationship. I need to someone. I need to meet someone that's in the same page I'm in. I don't have the energy anymore to build somebody Makes sense.
Speaker 1Yeah, you sound like you're struggling with emotion over there right now, so I'm going to just take that away from you. I'm going to mute your mic and yeah, we just go on.
Speaker 2Bay night, sexy nights and good food.
Speaker 1I don't even know how we segue into this, because I'm going to need, like, a good story. Why is there annoying?
Speaker 4voice.
Speaker 1Yeah, because I'm trying to find solid footing at this point. You know we jumped out of. We already know how, we already know what not to pull out when we take you out on the date Right. So I need you to tell me about a good time when somebody pulled out something that wasn't a cash apple or a time card.
Speaker 4A good time where someone pulled out something.
Speaker 1Yeah, it was a good time.
Speaker 4Keep another honey with you. The good dates, the perfect day nights that I've had is Bay nights that I planned and I did. So I'm going to tell you about a Bay night that I planned for a guy that I think was amazing.
Speaker 1You going to be one with it? No, all right.
Speaker 4So it was his. It was his birthday weekend. He had never been to Atlantic City, so I booked the room in Atlantic City before we went out to Atlantic City. Of course, we went to my favorite spot, which is Jake's State House. Yeah, but go check it out. Um, we drove out to Atlantic City. Stop why.
Speaker 1Before you went to Atlantic City, you stopped in the Bronx to have a steak.
Speaker 4Yes, it's a nice restaurant.
Speaker 1I just wanted to be clear.
Speaker 4Yeah, we went to dinner there, and then that's where I told him we were going to Atlantic City. He only he thought that was just going to be his birthday present. We went to Atlantic City. I had rented a room at the Bugata. When we got there I had the chocolate covered strawberries there already, the bottle of wine.
Speaker 1Who's the strawberries for you or him? For both of us? He liked the strawberries. Yes, he liked them.
Speaker 4He loved, so it wasn't.
Speaker 1It wasn't one of those things that he would have ever requested. He likes chocolate covered strawberries. Keep it a buck with me. The strawberries were for you.
Speaker 4No, he loved chocolate covered strawberries. It used to be our team.
Speaker 1It's not a y'all thing, though I'm sure they all right, go ahead, I'm going to let you go.
Speaker 4He ate most of them. I had like maybe two. Anyway, when we got to the room the room, you know, was nicely decorated and then he had never gambled before I gave him money so he could go downstairs. We gambled. We went on the broad walk. I had some fun out there. We came back to the room and you know it was a wrap. I gave him the Barbie 4000.
Speaker 1The Barbie 4000.
Speaker 4I don't know what that is. One day.
Speaker 1No, never the fuck is wrong with you.
Speaker 4They had to be like Barbie 4000. What's that?
Speaker 1Yeah, for real, like the fucking Barbie for.
Speaker 4So that was what you think. You think that did a good job with that.
Speaker 2Desert. I hope you guys enjoyed your meal. Can I get you something off of our desert menu?
Speaker 1I thought it probably 4000. Barbie 4000. They know that. Yeah, I. Hacks about me. They mean, Like you were in back pages, the fuck out of here. See, this is what happens when you sip slow, because by the time you get to the end of the show, that's just start hitting different Um. All right, fuck that you drunk, let's talk about. Um. Let's talk about Let Me Touch you podcast. Let's talk about it.
Speaker 4So Let Me Touch you podcast. It's my amazing platform where you can come and listen to episodes where I speak about different situations. I've been in different situations, close friends of mine have been in and I give you the best advice I can in like a nice, positive, fun way.
Speaker 1It's not one of those podcasts where you're going to be bored and full of, she said, podcast is.
Speaker 4It's a liquor Sorry.
Speaker 1And I'm Puerto Rican. We are not our own words.
Speaker 4So now, podcast is any of the ways. It's an amazing platform where I give you guys positive feedback on any and every situation that you may come across in life and a lot of my episodes. I'm joined by your favorite guy, my favorite, leo Styles. Go check it out.
Speaker 1Yeah, um, the other thing is, now that I got that out of you, let's talk about the release date, all right, so what is it? What are we going to do? I'm going to put you on the spot. Um, she's had like a fucking 10 month layoff.
Speaker 4Has it been tough.
Speaker 1No, it's been a while. Though it's been a while, I want to say it might have been time. March was your last episode and it was an amazing season last last season. Um, the new season will be starting mid September. Um, yeah, definitely mid September.
Speaker 4I'm not making. I didn't say that he did.
Speaker 1Okay, mid September. How much more time do you need?
Speaker 4Cause I want to come back and, you know, come back full force, the way you did.
Speaker 1Yeah, but I even still, I was working behind the scenes. Needed the break right, but you're not even talking about working behind the scenes.
Speaker 4Where's? I'm gonna start working behind the scenes starting today.
Speaker 1All right, cool. So you, the midst mid-september, that today's the fucking 16th of all this September's right there. That's 30 days away. Bob, I'll try. Not cool, that's the best you can ask for. I'm not even gonna talk about the lives. You know the Friday night live and all that cuz. We definitely need to bring that back, but you know it is what it is. I'm gonna put you on the spot right now. I'm gonna let you, I'm gonna let you live. Tell me they can find you act like you've been on the podcast.
Speaker 4Cuz now, right now, guys, I'm not gonna lie. He has me thinking like that I really need to do Saturday you do, that's what I had to do that.
Speaker 1I, I literally what I did was I can't. I was like yo, bob, check it out. This is what I'm gonna do. Let me people this is how this happened. This season happened like this right, I took a layoff last year, but apparently because I took a layoff and then when everybody else takes layoff, look what's that? As you did it, I understand what I did, but I mean you, you right, I gave you more time than I took off.
Speaker 4Whatever we did now that was today.
Speaker 1So so, boom, when I did it, I was like, listen, I'm gonna record X amount of episodes. We wouldn't constant contact Right. And then I said the only way that I could really get this done is to set a date. I have to set a date and it worked towards that day. So we're setting a day. I don't even have, cuz I don't even know what days you want to come out on.
Speaker 4Friday's, that's per usual All right cool, so the I. Need a day in October. Hold on, you know I got a set of day right now.
Speaker 1We're gonna do this, listen, let's do. Second week of october, second week of September, I can cuz cuz why kids are starting school. My schedule's gonna be hectic September you know, every time you talk and you talk about this, all I hear is wham. That's it Um what I Really should be entertaining the people right October 13th October 13th yeah, that's far ball.
Speaker 4No, it's not. Bogus is almost over. I guess October 13th, it gives me enough time, I don't want to rush it. I guess.
Speaker 1Listen, if you are, if you think that she should come in before or come out before that, jumping DMs and encourage her to come out before October 13th because you don't need to come out like the second week of October. That's stupid.
Backstage Preparations and Online Presence
Speaker 4Listen, october 13th will be the day that I drop my first official episode. In the meantime, I will be working behind the scenes, I will start being on social media more, I'll start, you know, doing everything slowly but surely, and I'll be back for force October 13.
Speaker 1Ma where can they find you? Because it's bullshit.
Speaker 4Man shit, you can find me on IG. I let underscore me, underscore touch, underscore you. You can find me on twitter, which is now called what x? It's called x dumb shit um facebook, all streaming platforms.
Speaker 1Step time again and since we really don't know how to say goodbye, I'm not gonna say goodbye, but listen what I will ask. I'm not even asking if you liked it. Please don't forget to like, comment, subscribe and shit. Um, and that's homework also. There is no. Also, we'll catch you next week. We'll save a seat at the table for you.
