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Parents of the Year
We were never given a manual on how to parent. It is easy to get overwhelmed to know the right thing to do. There is so much contradictory information out there and everyone has their own advice. Parenting is a rewarding but messy, confusing, infuriating, guilt-inducing, and overwhelming journey. While it's easy to get lost, Andrew Stewart, a real dad, and Dr. Caroline Buzanko, a real mom, child psychologist, and parenting expert (who also happens to be married to Andrew) will help you get back on track. In each episode, Andrew and Caroline have open and honest chats about everything parenting. Join them in honesty, laughter, and tears (Caroline is a bit of a cry baby) as they help you navigate this journey of parenting. And, every so often, you may get some gems of expert advice. Our goal is to make your parenting journey less stressful, more forgiving, and more awesome. Please join us every Wednesday for new episodes of Parenting of the Year.
Parents of the Year
216. Are Parents Giving Away Too Much Control Over Their Kids' Health?
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Somewhere along the way, a lot of parenting shifted from leading to negotiating. We talk our kids into things, trade screen time for cooperation, and let the daily battles get decided by whoever has more energy that night usually not us.
In this episode of Parents of the Year, Andrew and Dr. Caroline dig into a quieter shift happening in a lot of homes: the slow handover of parental authority. Sleep, screens, food, and movement are where it shows up most plainly but the real question underneath every “just one more video” isn't about screens at all. It's about who's in charge, and what happens to kids when the answer gets fuzzy.
Drawing on their own experience raising ADHD kids, in Part 2 of their Reclaiming
Parental Authority series, they continue to talk about why setting clear expectations and holding them through the pushback is one of the most loving things a parent can do, and why giving in to keep the peace often reinforces the very behaviour were trying to change.
In this episode, they focus on lifestyle specifically, including nutrition, physical activity, and sleep. You'll hear practical ideas for setting boundaries without becoming authoritarian, reducing power struggles around food, creating healthier sleep habits, and helping children develop routines that can serve them well into adulthood.
Listen now and discover how a few consistent decisions today can shape your child's future for years to come.
Homework Ideas to Rebuilt Authority in the Lifestyle Arena
Notice where you negotiate
For three days, jot down moments you catch yourself bargaining instead of deciding.
Just notice the pattern.
Pick one boundary and hold it through the pushback
Choose something small. Expect the escalation. Follow through anyway. The boundary
isn't the point; staying steady when they test it is.
Separate the feeling from the decision
Practice validating how your child feels ("I know you're frustrated") while keeping the decision unchanged. Both can be true.
Name your non-negotiables
Write down the three or four things in your home that simply aren't up for negotiation.
Clarity for you makes consistency possible. Choose one non-negotiable family habit to focus on for the next two weeks and follow through.
Examples:
- No devices in bedrooms
- Daily outdoor activity
- Vegetables with every dinner
- Consistent bedtime
Audit Your Home Environment
Look around your home and identify what makes healthy choices easy or difficult.
Ask yourself:
- What snacks are visible and accessible?
- Are screens available in bedrooms?
- Is physical activity encouraged daily?
Identify one small step you can make this week to promote a healthier habit in your family.
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