Allies, Enemies, Frenemies & The Unbothered - Part 2
Oct 10, 2021Season 1Episode 13
beautifuljemms@outlook.com (Charmaine Thompson)
"There is everything right with you! You're not in need of fixing. You aren't broken. You are inherently good, intelligent, lovable, and worthy because that's the way the good Lord made you."
In our last episode of season 1, we will talk about enemies in the spiritual realm and how you can use your protective gear to deal with issues that saboteurs bring to you. We will discuss trusting in God, using power, where power originates from, and identifying worthy and unworthy leaders. Please tune in to listen to these topics and more as we end the season!
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"There is everything right with you! You're not in need of fixing. You aren't broken. You are inherently good, intelligent, lovable, and worthy because that's the way the good Lord made you."
In our last episode of season 1, we will talk about enemies in the spiritual realm and how you can use your protective gear to deal with issues that saboteurs bring to you. We will discuss trusting in God, using power, where power originates from, and identifying worthy and unworthy leaders. Please tune in to listen to these topics and more as we end the season!
A very special thank you to my podcast sound engineer Jay! You are phenomenal!
Please note: By using my Amazon affiliate link, you can help support my podcast and allow me to continue producing quality content. Even small profits from your clicks can make a big difference.
Interested in being you to the fullest? Subscribe to my podcast on Apple Podcast, Spotify, or Amazon for more topics around self-love, empathy, depression, mental health, intuition, and relationship with God.
Hello, I'm your host Charmaine, and welcome to Beautiful JEMMS! Next up enemies in the spiritual realm, there are angelic rogue operators and lead with some saboteurs technicians and co workers in the physical realm. Other saboteurs only operate in the physical realm as independent contractors, while still others grouped together for a common cause. The great excavator knows who they are and how they are connected. This is why your walkie talkie on intuition should be on at all times. In Episode 10, we spoke about Maslow's hierarchy of needs, and how the enemy strategically uses this information to their advantage when sabotaging the black community. Remember to picture a triangle with five levels from the bottom up, first level, physically, second level up. Safety means third level up, belonging, fourth, level up the speed, that level of self actualization. levels one and two are your basic needs. Levels three and four concern mental health level five, you fulfill your true potential. We spoke about how saboteurs attack levels one through three to prevent you from reaching levels four and five. As a side note, why would anyone want to prevent someone from reaching their full potential? Selah, pause, and calmly think of that, how do the saboteurs prevent you from reaching levels four and five, they create the conditions through right systematic racism. One downfall and recognizing the enemy is falsely believing that they move and think like you remember the law of polarity. There is someone out there that thinks the exact opposite way that you do no rose colored glasses allow. See everyone for who they are, including your enemies. The etymology behind the word enemy is one hateful toward an intent on harming someone. Refusal to see the enemy gives them the advantage while placing you at a disadvantage and in potential danger. The saboteur still attacks today, through a racially biased academic system, which falls under level two of safety and security and level three of belonging with schooling and relationships. Part of the especially hard rock of your foundational self is built here during childhood. This is why it's the perfect place for the saboteur. The experiences and perceptions develop turn into the background stories behind the adult behavior. If a distorted view of self is created and perpetuated for the life of the student's academic career, imagine the lasting effects into adulthood. Then these adults have children who now learn from the distorted views of their parents and the educational system. The problem is compounded with each generation afterwards. To take this a step further, muscle theorized that when psychological needs are not met, it can cause mental health issues such as depression. Level three of belonging and social relationships fall under psychological needs. But targeting this level, the saboteur ensures mental health issues develop early during childhood. Sometimes people don't want to look beneath the layers of the rock of their foundational self, because it's too hard to break up, examine and admit the extent of the trauma inflicted upon them, then you would have to see the enemy for who they are. When you think about depression, how many black people have it today and let it go on treated? If this is you, maybe it's a good idea to wipe your goggles and self acceptance to see yourself and the conditions surrounding you clearly. Before asking how you should treat depression. Ask why you have it. Some say that it can be passed on genetically and it can but let me ask you what if the conditions surrounding each generation remain relatively the same, creating an environment where depression thrives? Can it not appear to be genetic? It's the age old scientific question of nature versus nurture. Why is this simple? Horton, one story tells you that there is something inherent in you that needs to change. Some may take this as something being wrong with them, versus your environment is unhealthy, created with the intention to affect you psychologically. In this last story, it's not you, but the environment that's wrong. I am not a licensed psychologist. So this is not a diagnosis or evaluation. It's an observation based on my own experiences and information collected. If you are depressed, seek professional help. However, it's still important for you to take ownership of your childhood stories to identify the effects it has had on you. Remember, your therapist is a technician who is there to help you through the process. The work is your own. So my question to you what does your foundational self look like? I encourage you to take out your rock pack Hammer of self discovery, chisels of self examination and your shovel of self assessment to get to work on the hard rock of your foundational self. Now I'm sure you'll have your protective gear on when you do this because a saboteur will target each and every piece of it. Similar to the example I gave you earlier with the frenemy in action. Remember, a frenemy is an enemy and hide. When it comes to systematic racism. The saboteur loves to put cracks in your goggles of self worth. Throw out your earplugs of self acceptance, and empty out the supplies in your first aid kit of self love. Saboteurs put cracks in your goggles of self worth, through propaganda subliminally and consciously, that there's something wrong with you inherently as a black person, that you are broken, needing to be fixed, bad, unintelligent, unlovable, and unworthy. If your goggles are cracked, take them off and replace them with new goggles of self worth to clearly see that there is everything right with you, you are not in need of fixing, you aren't broken, you are inherently good, intelligent, lovable, and worthy. Because that's the way the good Lord made you. I'm going to play two clips for you. The first is about self acceptance, excuse the background noise. But the message is more important. Sometimes, we are so eager to be accepted by others. And it's to our expense. So we want to be accepted, we want to be included. And you know, we're really eager to pick up other causes. But we turn our back on our own cause we turn our back on ourselves. We self abandon and abandon people in the black community in general, because it's just easier. It's easier to just I want to fit in. But how can you fit in if you don't truly know who you are. We want others to love us. Because we are lovable people that we have. We have big hearts as well, too. So it's more than one factor. But I think one part of it is that, you know, we make an effort to accept others into our community. My question is, do you accept yourself? And if you think that that's a guaranteed Yes. And you've never thought about that? That's not a guarantee? Yes. That's something that needs to be addressed. Because you put a lot of thought and energy into being accepted by others. Do you put any thought and energy into accepting yourself accepting being black? You feel like you don't need to do that. Why? Because it's easier to self identify with anything else. But that. Here's the second clip about self love, which is in my lovely morning voice. The message is more important once again, because it comes from the heart. We're at a delicate time right now. You know, as black people were, it's very important that you tell your own story of you have your own experiences and don't let someone change your narrative. As a as they say it was all the same words. But don't let anybody change your narrative. That's the problem. So many times in history, people have taken control of our narrative. No, tell your story on your story. Even if it's just to yourself, own it. Don't let media tell you don't let the neighbor down the block tell you don't let your institution tell you your school. You You are important to you. What you have to say how you feel what you think all of that is important. That is what I'm stressing here, you you you you you and not in a narcissistic way, in a way of pay attention to yourself, because society will steer you where I want you to go, so that I can spend your money so I can take away your power. And I'm gonna just leave it there. It's really taking ownership for yourself about yourself. And having self love. It's not. Self Love is an interesting term because it's not about just pampering yourself is not about that. It's not just about caring for your body. It's about caring for your feelings. It's about caring for your thoughts. It's about caring for your spirit. Caring for those things that are all interconnected. Whether ally, enemy or frenemy, be mindful of giving away your power. What's the saboteurs ultimate goal when targeting your self worth, self acceptance and self love, to take away your power, through setting up landmines of internal strife, so block off, you guessed it, your gems. You see, if the enemy can get you to fight yourself, the battle is won. In order for this strategy to fail, you have to know your value down to your bones that you matter. Your protective gear will help you navigate past these landmines. If you have given over your power in any way, that's the past, be here now, do the inner work necessary to take your power back and be mindful of who you give your power to. You see, people in power only have it because people like you and I give them power. We placed them in a position of authority supporting them with some of our own power. The more people that come into agreement to give them authority, the more powerful they become. The bigger question is, where does that power originate from? That's right, the great excavator God has entrusted each one of us with personal power. So it is our responsibility to be a good steward of it. Before giving away power to any person in authority of leader, make sure to lead yourself first, in our work develops the leader in you to own and wield your power to your command. When you decide to support a leader, how can you tell if they are worthy of receiving some of your power? Well, here's a few things that are worthy leader looks like. They lead by example. You feel they are trustworthy. They work with you as an equal and provide a safe and open space for you to operate in your strengths and weaknesses. They promote your growth, supporting your right to exercise free will to make choices. You look forward to being around them because they build you up. They are sent as agents to lead you. Those who have experiences want to share their knowledge with you because they operate in a spirit of trust. Now, how can you tell an unworthy leader they lead by falsely perceived example until they are exposed by God publicly or privately? You may be told privately through intuition or other spiritual gifts, like you just feel it or you may actually see it physically. God can also expose them publicly because they have committed grievous sins against people. They tell you what to do, taking away your choice. They are sent as agents to mislead you. Those who have experience, hold back their knowledge or deceive with knowledge because they operate in a spirit of fear. If you notice, I did not automatically classify allies as worthy leaders. That is because people are human. They make mistakes, they change and go through their own processes. When you lead yourself first, you will better recognize leaders worthy of receiving your power. It's important to safeguard against absolute thinking, placing leaders so high up on a pedestal that when they fall, you are devastated and lose your faith. Your faith is never meant to be in them. It is meant to be in God. A powerful example of an ally who changed from a worthy to an unworthy leader is King Saul. He ruled the nation of Israel well until his successor David appeared on the scene. After David's anointing to be king. He won the hearts of the Israelites defeating their enemies like Goliath soon after Her soul began to hate David, this, among other offenses cause God to pull back his favor and punish Saul. So who do you think you can completely trust to lead you? Yes, God. He knows all roles intimately, and how they will play out. So I encourage you to take your cues from the great excavator, God before you choose to follow the leader. Do you hear that? It's our walkie talkies of intuition. This is the great excavator of vibration of fears coming your way. You need to head to safety. Archangel Michael is there with you both? Were Yes, yes. You can't see him. Trust me. Listen, follow my instructions closely. All praise glory, and thanks to the Most High. We made it. Although we didn't see Archangel Michael, we were definitely protected on the way here. Thanks be to him as well. You know, something similar happened to me on 911. I was there that day. I'll tell you about it another time. What I will say is that my intuition saved me from harm more than once. Since we had our walkie talkies of intuition tuned in, we were able to navigate through fear with trust. That's right. Not only do you have to be tuned in, you must listen and act with the spirit of trusts, like the great excavator just asked us to fear and trust our polar opposites. Remember that emotions are neither good or bad. It's how they are generated and processed. The enemy generated this vibration of fear with the intention of causing chaos. Naturally, chaos must be balanced with control. So people who are not tuned into their walkie talkie of intuition react by giving over their power to the very enemy who caused the vibration of fear to have them bring chaos under control. You see, the enemy understands universal laws well and uses them towards their advantage. To combat this, you must understand these universal laws as well. The natural order to life is balance. This is what you are trying to find when processing an emotion. Understand, safety presented by the enemy is an illusion, one use to take our power. When fear is generated, people are willing to exchange their freedom for control because they believe it provides them with safety. By giving over their freedom. They give up their power, they give over their free will. The great excavator gave each and every one of us purpose and free will to walk it out. Right? What happens though, when we do not walk in our purpose and give away our free will. We reject God's gifts and hand them over to our enemy. We hand over our power, we hand over our freedom. Instead, trust that the bed our enemies made for us may just be their own. A great story to read over to encourage yourself to trust God is the story of Esther, her uncle, Mordecai kings RCS and his chief officer Haman. Haman plotted against the Israelites which included Mordecai and Esther. He prepared the gallows for Mordecai. Because Esther and Mordecai trusted God and move accordingly. Kings Darcy's hyung Haman instead. You see your enemies can mean you harm. But God will turn around all things for your good. What most enemies don't realize is that the hardships they present creates conditions around new gems to be found. So whether you choose to balance fear with giving over your control, or by trusting God to navigate you through it, it's up to you. Just be aware that you will come into balance either way. We talked about enemies and allies pretty extensively because it's important to understand the difference during the mining process. Allies enemies, frenemies and the unbothered are all here to accelerate your growth and assist you with healing. If you understand who they are and how they play their roles. It's similar to the stock market. It's not about whether a stock goes up or down. It's about you having an understanding of whether the stock will go up or down. Then you can invest wisely and see return. Just like the stock market. These roles are complex. frenemies can be like sugar when you need salt that and like salt when you need sugar. Sometimes you have to experience them to know the difference. Their role requires them to be a dish See? So if something doesn't feel right, it ain't right. If what they say and do has the appearance of an ally, but you walk away wondering if they are actually a friend, they're not. Trust yourself, trust God, and pick up that walkie talkie of intuition. You'll be just fine for the unbothered. Simply let them be and they'll let you be. They can only interfere in your mining process if you involve them unnecessarily. If you have the ability to separate the person from the role that they play, you can ask yourself the following questions to support your mining process. What are they here to teach me? What are they positioning me for? How do I feel when I'm around them? If you are ever confused and not certain who to trust, this is by design. Because you are meant to constantly check in with God. There are many ways to communicate with him. There has been a focus on intuition in most episodes, because when you are tuned in, it's always on. So you receive the messages. You can take these messages to the heavy machinery of prayer and meditation for deeper understanding. Ask God to reveal the intentions of your allies enemies and frenemies. Ask for wisdom and discernment surrounding the steps you need to take whether it requires your action or inaction, listening to God and following his direction, places you in a power position. If you want to learn more about trust, try reading Iyanla Vanzant Book Trust, mastering the four Essential Trust. Trust himself. Trust in God, trust in others trust in life. She has been a longtime trusted ally in my mining process. Okay, it's been a successful day. Let's wrap it up here. Oh, wait, what's that? I think that's the great excavator. Ah sensational you completed your orientation. Before you leave. I strongly suggest that you make a decision to commit to yourself and the process of mining your gems. Then prepare before Charmaine comes back with Season Two. By the daily use of the heavy machinery of prayer, meditation, stillness and nature. The protective gear of you know what, that's a long list. Just go back to Episode Five through 10. If you decide to use the tools in Episode 11 follow all safety precautions and guidelines for refreshers on any parts of the mining process. All episodes are time stamped with references in the description. Since you've made it this far, I'm sure I'll be speaking with you soon. I've got my eye on you. Right? You're funny. Nothing like the unbothered. You're fortunate I have a sense of humor. One last thing for you both. After all of your hard work mining these beautiful gyms, make sure to rest even I rested on the seventh day. Enjoy the process. Appreciate the progress you've made, and know that you are blessed. Wow, that was a blessing to have God close out our session. Hey, you got me in trouble back there. I think how lay off that unbothered joke. Thank goodness he has a sense of humor. Just a heads up next season one of the gems we will be looking for first is called identity. We've prepared you to start mining the Hard Rock surrounding it with your orientation. Your job in the meantime is to study and practice what you've learned. Like the grid excavator said it will make your mining process easier not to mention safer. So let's both take advantage of the time between seasons to practice our practice will officially start mining come January 2022, which gives me time to gather some of my best allies to share with you in person. With that, I want to say a warm and special thanks to my podcast engineer, my voice actors and anyone who's helped me behind the scenes on the business then you have been a tremendous blessing. Thank you. To my fellow miners a huge thank you for lending me your ears. It's been my pleasure to escort you. I had fun and I hope you did too. Please share this podcast with any miners you know, and follow me on IG at beautiful gems. DM me with any questions or comments you may have before I skedaddle. This episode is dedicated and loving memory of koji Coles. You are dearly miss, and we are celebrating you. Until next season, everyone. Thank you so much for spending time with me today. I pray that you build your relationship with God. Love yourself unconditionally, and put in the work to mine refine and shine those JEMMS!