The Inner Edge: Leadership, Self-Mastery, and Reinvention for a New Era

E134: Recognizing Misalignment and Letting Go with Clarity

Janet Ioli, Executive Coach & Former Fortune 100 Executive Episode 134

There comes a moment — sometimes quiet, sometimes painfully loud — when something in your life that once felt effortless begins to feel heavy. Maybe it’s the sinking feeling as Sunday night arrives, the subtle dread before opening your laptop, or the growing awareness that you no longer feel like yourself. 

In today’s episode, Janet explores these moments not as inconveniences, but as invitations, signals from within that something in your life is no longer aligned with who you are becoming.

This conversation is about the real, grounded work of letting go. Not the inspirational-quote version, but the soul-level honesty it takes to admit when a job, relationship, role, or identity no longer fits. You’ll also hear practical, compassionate guidance for navigating change when you have real responsibilities and can’t simply walk away overnight.


In this episode:

✅ How misalignment first appears in subtle emotional or physical signals

✅ The quiet internal process of letting go before any external change occurs

✅ How to create a grounded, realistic runway for change

✅ Why strengthening your financial foundation is essential for meaningful freedom

✅ The importance of boundaries, support systems, and honest self-reflection

✅ Key questions to help you uncover what your deeper self is trying to tell you


Resources:

Questions for reflection:

  • Where in my life am I misaligned, but I'm forcing myself to stay? 
  • What part of me is asking for growth?
  • What physical or emotional signals have I been ignoring? 
  • What am I afraid will happen if I leave? 
  • What am I afraid will happen if I stay? 
  • If nothing changed in the next year, how would I feel? 
  • What would I choose if fear wasn't making the decision?


About Janet Ioli:

Janet Ioli is a globally recognized executive advisor, coach, and leadership expert with over 25 years of experience developing leaders in Fortune 100 companies and global organizations.

She created The Inner Edge—a framework, a movement, and a message that flips leadership from mere success performance to presence; from ego to soul. Through her keynotes, podcast, and programs, Janet helps high-achievers find the one thing that changes everything: the mastery within.

Her approach redefines leadership presence—not as polish or tactics, but as the inner steadiness people feel from you and the positive imprint you leave on individuals and organizations.


Chapters

00:00:00 Discovering Early Misalignment

00:05:53 Understanding Workplace Disconnection 

00:11:10 Beginning Inner Letting Go

00:15:03 Creating a Grounded Path Forward

Connect with Janet Ioli:
Website: janetioli.com
Linkedin: Janet Ioli
Instagram: @leadershipcoachjanet

If you want to become more grounded, confident, and aligned with your deeper values in just 21 days, check out Janet Ioli’s book Less Ego, More Soul: A Modern Reinvention Guide for Women.

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