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Behind The Music – The Ryan Marcus Interview

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In this episode of the Big Steppa Podcast, hosts Unc Dove and Roll Model Ty sit down with multi-talented creative Ryan Marcus for a conversation that goes far beyond music.

Ryan opens up about his journey as an independent artist, songwriter, actor, and creator while sharing the lessons he’s learned navigating the entertainment industry. From building a personal brand and staying creative to balancing relationships, purpose, and ambition, this episode is packed with real insight and honest conversation.

We discuss:
 🎵 Ryan’s music journey and creative process
 🎭 Acting, modeling, and building a multi-faceted career
 📱 Social media, branding, and staying authentic
 ❤️ Relationships, growth, and personal development
 💯 The realities of chasing your dreams as an independent creative

Whether you’re an artist, entrepreneur, creative, or simply someone pursuing a bigger vision for your life, this episode delivers gems you won’t want to miss.

Hosted by: Unc Dove & Roll Model Ty
Guest: Ryan Marcus

🎧 Available now on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, YouTube, and everywhere you get your podcasts.

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SPEAKER_01

It wasn't plural at all. It was a little yeah. Yeah.

SPEAKER_05

How we sound in time? Everything cool. We roll.

SPEAKER_01

I'm about to say let me get a little shiny.

SPEAKER_02

If you lady just leave me alone.

SPEAKER_03

She loam alone.

SPEAKER_05

That's my shit, but up, what up, what up? It's your boy on Dub. Big step of podcast. What up, though? What's the word, brother? What's going on, man? You already know I got my guy to the right of me.

SPEAKER_06

Role model Ty. And we got a very special guest.

SPEAKER_01

Sir. Ryan Marcus. I'm in here. I mean Ralph for the win.

SPEAKER_05

Yes, sir. Yes, sir. What's good, Brody?

SPEAKER_01

I'm chilling, bro. You know. Living every day life. Great. I'm great. Can't call it. How you? I'm good.

SPEAKER_05

How y'all? Shit, man. We've been in this joint bobbing for like two hours. That shit always happened though when it's a good vibe, though. That's the crazy part. I can't even complain, man. It's good to have you here, bro.

SPEAKER_01

I'm glad to be here, brother. Really? Should I move this joint closer to me or what? What are we doing?

SPEAKER_06

Depends how you like how you sound. I want it closer.

SPEAKER_01

All right. Not on duty. Alright, there we go. Yeah, we good. We good right here. Yeah, I'm straight.

SPEAKER_06

I mean, I like that too.

SPEAKER_01

Alright, say no more.

SPEAKER_05

All right, yeah, it sounds much better, man. We all sound great. Oh man. So we're in here tonight. Um, we got you in here um by way of our guy sign.

SPEAKER_01

Yes, sir. Shout out to sign. Day one, sandbox. That's sandbox for real. Like people say sandbox, but that's really kindergarten. Sandbox shit.

SPEAKER_06

So that's what's up. That's what's up. I met sign around 03, 04. Okay. Yeah, that's shout out to uh Mollory basketball camp.

SPEAKER_01

Shout out to them, man. So you you hoop?

SPEAKER_06

Yeah, yeah.

SPEAKER_01

Okay, we gotta hoop there. That hoop too.

SPEAKER_06

I ain't got nothing in me but a jump shot. I got a mean game of horse, but that's about it. Hey, sign. My floater game was mean back in the day.

SPEAKER_05

Gotta get back out there. Disclaimer, yo. So our class, right? If we put all of the guys that can hoop in our class together, we would have played throughout high school. It would have been alright. Me, you, Ty, Sean, Kath. Yeah. It would have been alright. That's just a disclaimer.

SPEAKER_01

What you play the point? Man, I play with I play whatever, bro. That's the thing. I ain't scared to play with anything. I'll I'll play whatever. I don't care. If niggas niggas be like, oh no, they they big. Like, no, nigga, we big. Fuck you talking about. I know how to use my hood to tell that story. Exactly.

SPEAKER_06

Yeah, we definitely tell that story a lot. Uh, me and Dove, we we got close because I low bridged him like one of our first days meeting at summer session. Oh shit. He was ready to take my head off. I bet I was running for my life.

SPEAKER_00

That was Chris Bob, that was Chris Bob.

SPEAKER_05

Right. Good times, dog. Good times, man. But what's up, bro? Um, we're gonna let the people know what you do, what you got going on, why we bring you here tonight. Um, I don't know if you want to consider yourself just an artist or how you want to look at it, but let you do a little bit of talking, let us know.

SPEAKER_01

Shit, I'm everything, bro. I'm an artist, I'm a producer, I'm a songwriter, I'm a hitmaker, I'm a everything, bro. I'm jack of all trades, bro. I do everything. Like it's nothing I can't do. I can't I uh shit, I edit my vids. Uh I'm a uh businessman, I post my shit, I I uh fucking distribute my shit, I do everything, bro. I got a label, I do everything, bro. Like it's nothing I can't do.

SPEAKER_06

One-stop shop.

SPEAKER_01

Yes, sir. Gotta be.

SPEAKER_06

Alright. You want me to start it off? Go ahead, bro. Do your thing. All right, so the Ryan that I know, um, for the most part, is uh manager turning artists. So I want to ask uh, how did you get into the how did you get the cross? How did you start start off with artists with managing artists?

SPEAKER_01

Oh, I ain't never I ain't never managed, so so I thought you was uh managing sign.

SPEAKER_06

I thought you were sign manager. During sign run, bro.

SPEAKER_01

You thought it was sign manager?

SPEAKER_06

Yeah, and then I thought y'all switched spots.

SPEAKER_05

Yeah, so when he said, yeah, so when he was like he your manager, I was like, oh shit.

SPEAKER_01

No, so the thing is I just been doing this for for a long time, bro. So like it probably just looked like that, but it was just a resource. Yeah, yeah. I just like I said, when I can do everything, bro, I can do everything. So it probably just looked like that, bro. Okay. Mm-hmm.

SPEAKER_05

That makes sense. So how long you been writing songs?

SPEAKER_01

Well, I've been making music my whole life, bro. Like, uh shit. So me and Sim, we started, we started make writing raps in a rap book in like maybe second, third grade. I mean, but before then, I was rapping. My god brother, Pendulum Creative Space, he owned this. Who here was his name? He had he had me rapping. Say the name rapping back in the day.

SPEAKER_06

Say the name where we at again.

SPEAKER_01

Oh, Pendulum Creative Space.

SPEAKER_06

Pendulum Creative Space. Yep. Yep, that's where we are. That's where we're at right now. Shout out for hosting us tonight.

SPEAKER_01

Yes, sir. Yes, sir. But yeah, my whole life, bro, I've been making music forever. Like started off rapping because I I always was the a lot of the time I was the youngest, like with it with my family, so they always rapping and all that, so they made me rap. I mean, it just uh it just escalated to my sound now because I always wanted to sing too. I used to be in the mirror, singing usher and shit when I was a young boy, but I can't sing.

SPEAKER_06

How would you describe your sound? Because me and Dove was talking earlier. I I said RB artists, uh-huh, and he said melodic artists.

SPEAKER_01

It's both, bro. It depends. I got I got a bunch of different bags, I ain't gonna lie. So I'm gonna I'm gonna let y'all hear some shit later, but I got a bunch of different bags, so I can go like RB, I can go melodic artists love my cologne, it's more like a melodic drone, but I got I got uh RB drones, and I got shit like rap shit, hard shit too, but that's not my favorite thing to me, though. Okay, that's too that's easy to me, I feel like that's yeah.

SPEAKER_05

Like earlier when uh we was leaving my own spot, he was like, Yeah, who y'all got tonight? I was like, Yeah, we got an RB artist. So that I never really thought about it until we just said it like, oh shit. I like that. I ain't gonna lie.

SPEAKER_01

I like that.

SPEAKER_06

Because that's that that was most of the songs that I've been listening to from a year. Okay, like I know um we're gonna we're gonna get into it later also, but I know the drawing, um, I think it's called No Feelings from uh 2024. Okay. Yeah, like that. Like that drawing, I've ran that draw back a couple times. My dog, I appreciate that.

SPEAKER_01

I appreciate that.

SPEAKER_06

Um so when did when did music stop being a hobby for you and started being a purpose?

SPEAKER_01

Um music is is to be honest, bro, it's it's my life for real for real. So like I don't even look at it as if it's a hobby or if it's a purpose. It's just something I do, bro. Like, sometimes like I get in a more where I be like, man, I'm done with this shit, bro, but it always find its way back to me. So like it's just it's just what I do. Like it's not, I never like categorized it. It's just it's just me. It's just me.

SPEAKER_06

So what was the first song that made you realize like I I got something that I can take a little further?

SPEAKER_01

That song, first song that I did?

SPEAKER_06

Yeah.

SPEAKER_01

I got so many songs, bro. I don't, I don't, to be honest, I don't know. The first song I saw.

SPEAKER_06

Like when did it hit you that that made you say like I wanted to take it to that next level and not make it just writing in a rap book with my homie in elementary school?

SPEAKER_01

When uh I don't know, probably probably hearing like hearing other people play my shit, or or or like I ain't gonna lie, hearing women like, oh this this good, this hot. Like, oh yeah, like alright, cool. I'ma I'ma keep going. If you think this shit hot, fuck it, let's go. But I I got so many songs I can't think back to just one, bro. Like, it's so many times where I thought this was it. Like, so I don't I don't know. Like I I go through waves. So how I make my songs, bro, I go through waves, like I cannot make no songs for a while, and then next thing you know, I make 10 songs. And then that's a whole new different sound and shit that I'm making. So I go through different, you know, errors.

SPEAKER_04

Do you uh create for yourself first or the audience first?

SPEAKER_01

It depends on what I'm creating, it depends on the mood I'm in. See, I got songs like uh I can't even think of the name of it right now, but I got songs where I do it for just for therapy. Like I don't even want to put it out for real. Cause I I could cry through a song, like record recording some shit. And then I'm like, I ain't putting this out, but then other people hear like, oh this shit hard. So I'm like, all right, maybe I should put this out. So it it depends on uh why I'm creating at the time.

SPEAKER_05

That's real.

SPEAKER_06

And that was me with the uh, like I said, the drawing no feelings. Like I I felt it.

SPEAKER_01

I felt something. Yeah, like it just depends on the mode I'm in.

SPEAKER_05

I got you on that, man.

SPEAKER_01

Which drawing?

SPEAKER_05

No feelings, man.

SPEAKER_01

I got a drawing I just dropped last week called Go Home. That's it.

SPEAKER_05

So Apple music, right?

SPEAKER_01

Apple music, yep, called Go Home. That's it. Yeah, that's that's shit. I cried through that.

SPEAKER_03

So you got a mindset on marriage, but plus down really the only time I'm thinking carries.

SPEAKER_05

When I first heard you, it was more of a rap thing. So that's why when he said RB, I did think like, damn, the last couple johns was he was.

SPEAKER_01

I'll be in and out of the pockets. Like it just depends on how I'm feeling for real. How the beat make me feel.

SPEAKER_06

What was the story behind this drone?

SPEAKER_01

What no feelings? Yeah. Um left my phones with my last bitch. I probably was in the I probably was in the mold in the mold, like, you mean fuck these bitches type shit. Like, I mean, I'm about to that's probably why it hit me. I'm about to turn up. I mean, I don't give a fuck about none of this shit. Like, I'm turning up. I mean, I told you I felt so it's about me.

SPEAKER_06

I definitely felt it.

SPEAKER_05

I would just say your sound has changed over the years since you've been doing this.

SPEAKER_01

Um, over since the beginning.

SPEAKER_05

Yeah.

SPEAKER_01

Um, so I started off just rapping. You know, now it's like I try to I try to mix rapping and singing. I try to perfect that. So I feel like I'm at the point now where I got that down pack to where I could like merge the two. So like my singing is like it got bars in it. Okay. If that makes sense. Yeah. Yeah.

SPEAKER_06

If somebody could only hear one Ryan Marcus song for the rest of their life, which one you giving them?

SPEAKER_01

It's unreleased. They unreleased, they probably get here yet. Like just one. See I I feel like I got a song called Been Too Long that I like a whole lot. Um Yeah, yeah, I think so. That's the one.

SPEAKER_00

We waiting for it.

SPEAKER_01

I think that's the one. But I got, bro, when I tell you I got a lot of songs, like, this shit just easy to me. Like, I didn't I can I do this in my sleep. I make I make hits.

SPEAKER_05

That's amazing. So definitely. Um, you know, like people constantly say RB is dead. Do you agree with that? Hell no.

SPEAKER_01

Niggas the niggas that say that don't get no bitches.

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Don't keep it in the beginning.

SPEAKER_05

That's that's actually a good way to look at it.

SPEAKER_01

They RB niggas just want to drill and kill all day.

SPEAKER_05

Like, nigga, I vibes to my RB, bro. I ain't even just saying this because we're here right now, but I get it in on the RB show.

SPEAKER_01

Try to go home to something solved.

SPEAKER_05

Yeah, I have a nice balance, you know what I'm saying?

SPEAKER_01

Exactly, yeah.

SPEAKER_06

Can't be a gangster every day.

SPEAKER_01

Real shit, niggas be too gooned up all day long.

SPEAKER_05

When I was listening to DMX every morning, I was like, no, I gotta chill.

SPEAKER_01

Shit, DMX got songs that make you cry too, though. Oh yeah. Shit, especially slipping, that shit.

SPEAKER_05

Man, that shit is forever.

SPEAKER_01

Don't be listen, don't not be on your shit as a man when you hear that. It's like, damn, I'm fucked up. Yeah, so I feel you.

SPEAKER_06

With uh with that misconception with RB being dead, why uh why is it hard for vulnerability to um to be seen in today's music?

SPEAKER_01

It's hard for um I think it's everybody everybody wanna feel like they got it together. Everybody wanna feel like like or or make it seem like they did everything's perfect. And you mean it it it ain't. It ain't. That's that that's how I feel about it. Everybody wanna make it seem like they got it together when they don't. That's why nobody wants to be vulnerable, because nobody wanna seem like they weak.

SPEAKER_05

Yeah, that's that that's definitely true, man. Definitely, man. Everybody be doing it. I don't know why. I feel like I mean, music is where you come in and then you you show your vulnerability, especially if you got a nice, you know, listening crowd.

SPEAKER_01

No, for sure. You're supposed to be vulnerable in your music though.

SPEAKER_05

You got to for sure. That's how I I try to translate that into podcasting too, because in the beginning I was a little dry with it. I ain't really gonna share my life like that. But I'm like, damn, I got to.

SPEAKER_01

Yeah, because you never know who feels the same way as you or going through the same shit as you, you never know.

SPEAKER_05

It should be defeats the purpose in a sense, you know what I'm saying? Mm-hmm. So you had to get that right.

SPEAKER_06

What's more important to you? A great voice or a great story?

SPEAKER_01

A great voice or a great story? I think uh I think the story is definitely important. I mean, uh they definitely make a marriage though, because you gotta sometimes the voice to convey your story gotta be good, or nobody gonna hear that shit, or would be trying to hear it. So I think they make a marriage, but I feel like the story is more important. Because if you ain't got a story, you ain't got shit to talk about.

SPEAKER_05

True. Um if you could erase like one trend from music forever, what trend would that be?

SPEAKER_01

Uh turn the camera on and dancing. No cap. Like I feel like these days you gotta that's how you gotta promote a song, or I gotta turn the camera on and dance now.

SPEAKER_06

Yeah, all you need is uh 20 seconds of that.

SPEAKER_01

So I'm not a dancing ass nigga, I don't do that. So it's like I'm never gonna win in that lane because that's not me. I'm not cutting the camera on, shaking my hips, uh, none of that shit.

SPEAKER_05

Yeah, I feel you on that 100%, bro.

SPEAKER_01

I'm not doing it, but I'm 33 though, so that's for the that's for the youngest.

SPEAKER_05

That's not for us. No, yeah. I hope not. Um, just to take it back to the song that we were talking about, no feelings. Um, have you ever pretended not to care about some shit when you cared the most?

SPEAKER_01

Yeah. Hell yeah, nigga, all the time. That's how that's that's that's how you protect.

SPEAKER_05

We do, so we do that a lot.

SPEAKER_01

Yeah, you gotta protect your your masculinity like that.

SPEAKER_06

I mean another one of the uh songs that stuck out to me was uh from uh a couple years ago was Players Club. Do you uh do people want to commit today? Do you feel like people want to commit?

SPEAKER_01

Yeah, I don't know. Because everybody on the internet and they see all the options that got there. Um it could be the illusion of options, or you could be somebody that got options, but you see it out there, they I mean everybody wants a piece of it.

SPEAKER_05

I think it most I think it mostly can be the illusion because they might be accessible in some type of uh you know, sort of way, but they might not be there for you, literally, you know what I mean? Like a lot of chicks, we all know niggas been getting girls all their lives, but very seldom do we find the ones, you know what I'm saying? That's not down for it. So yeah, it is an illusion because I haven't been there, bro. Like still there sometimes. They there, but it's like you know what I'm saying.

SPEAKER_01

You ain't there for me though, you just there.

SPEAKER_05

So it's like, you know, I might people might say, Oh, you got dismount of girls or whatever that you talk to, but at the same time, only one, two of them I really can count on. Exactly. Not for like, you know, no crazy shit, but just like just be there for you mentally. Exactly. That's what we need the most, especially in these times.

SPEAKER_06

Yeah, the the rush, they just there for the time that you can provide when you can provide it. Once that time over, they gone.

SPEAKER_01

Yeah, you're done. They onto the nice. Which I ain't mad at them. Do your thing. I mean, I ain't I don't knock nobody hustle.

SPEAKER_06

So do you think social media is the relation is the reason why relationships are becoming disposable?

SPEAKER_01

Social media. Yes and no, yes and no. Because also society today, the the way like our generation came up, it was like the man wasn't in the house for real, right? So it's like, oh, the woman, they're like, Oh, I can do anything, blah blah blah. So it's like once uh a girl grow up and seeing their mom do that, they feel like they can do the same thing, so the shit get passed on where they don't feel like they don't need a man. Right. See what I'm saying? So that I feel like that played a part in in the why relationships is is so it's messed up today, but the internet too, for sure.

SPEAKER_05

I think over uh overthinking plays a part in it too.

SPEAKER_01

Overthinking, oh yeah. Because you never know, you never know what somebody's doing.

SPEAKER_05

I think that's the problem, man. People be thinking too much, man, and they start doing the wrong things, like going through phones and all that. You might not even be doing nothing at the time, but they gonna find something. Yeah, a lot of them.

SPEAKER_01

They gonna they're gonna make they gonna make something out of nothing.

SPEAKER_05

Yeah, it might be that one little thing that they seen, little little twitch somewhere, and they like, oh man, they doing such and such. It's always when I go both ways too, because niggas do it too.

SPEAKER_06

His phone upside down.

SPEAKER_01

But listen, I mean, uh they don't be wrong sometimes. I ain't gonna lie to you, they'll be wrong.

SPEAKER_05

Like, I give them 50-50. I ain't giving them too much.

SPEAKER_01

No, the 50, I'll give them 52, but they yeah, they definitely don't be wrong. They don't be crazy. Nah, they look, they look, they look crazy while they going through the motions, but when they find out, it's like they hold they like, oh yeah, I wasn't crazy, but yeah, you're right, you wasn't.

SPEAKER_06

The song that we were listening to earlier, Love My Cologne. What makes someone or what makes you truly confident?

SPEAKER_01

What makes me confident? I feel like uh, what's just about to say?

SPEAKER_06

Because you know, uh cologne is a confident booster for a lot of people. So that's why I'm asking. Does it do something for you confident? If not, then what does it feel you're confident?

SPEAKER_01

Um, it depends sometimes. It depends, but I feel like it's what's instilled in you as a kid. So like I grew up with confident people around me. So like nobody, I ain't have a choice but to be confident. See what I'm saying? Everybody took tell you you the shit when you're a kid, you the shit. Not just your mom, though. Your mom is the one that's supposed to instill that confidence in you.

SPEAKER_06

My mom had this saying, uh, Tyree, when you cute, I'm cute every day, mommy.

SPEAKER_01

It's like it's it started as a kid, so like confidence, like it's you definitely like you said, cologne is a confidence booster, but it gotta be in you. Like it gotta be. I don't, you know what I mean? Like me and San say all the time, like with going out and shit, like, yeah, I ain't I ain't getting dressed, I gotta cut. That's all I need. I'm cool. I don't gotta get dressed. I throw some sweats on, some butters, I'm cool.

SPEAKER_06

That definitely always been fine. Give me a white tee.

SPEAKER_01

Give me a yeah, and in the cut, I'm straight.

SPEAKER_05

So sometimes it's vice versa.

SPEAKER_01

Yeah, yeah.

SPEAKER_05

You got some hats, I'm a hat. That's why I ain't gotta cut now.

SPEAKER_01

I threw the hat on. I don't even wear hats. I threw the hat on because I ain't gotta cut. I don't wear hats either. Yeah, I can do whatever.

SPEAKER_05

They don't matter, however, I mean gotta be versatile out here as much as possible.

SPEAKER_01

It gotta be in you.

SPEAKER_06

What's the difference between confidence and arrogance?

SPEAKER_01

That's a fine line. That's a fine line. I feel like arrogance is like you try to shit on other people with your with your confidence. Like I'm confident and I try to boost other motherfuckers up too. Like, I ain't just confident in like motherfuckers that's arrogant be confident and they like, yeah, fuck y'all type shit. Like, I'm confident, I want my man. We all this shit, not just me. Like, if you can exude your confidence on other people and make them, bro, that's that's the difference.

SPEAKER_06

Okay, that's what's up. Uh I know I see you brought us a couple joints. Is your top cent one of these, or if not, what's your uh top cent?

SPEAKER_01

My top scent? My top cent, I feel like, is uh Gucci Guilty is my top cent. Okay. Gucci Guilty is my top cent. That's my favorite.

SPEAKER_05

The brown one or the green drone?

SPEAKER_01

The black one.

SPEAKER_05

Black. Oh, black.

SPEAKER_01

But these are these are uh two of my favorites. The third one, the small one right there, that's one I made myself. It's called GTD.

SPEAKER_06

How you do that?

SPEAKER_01

Um fragrance lab, I think it's called. I went to with that museum. Fragrance Lab, yeah.

SPEAKER_06

That's somewhere in Philly.

SPEAKER_01

Um, it's out it's in the outskirts, it's in the county somewhere. I I can't think of the name of it right now.

SPEAKER_06

I gotta look that up.

SPEAKER_01

Yeah, it's it's a good spot though. Make your own fragrance and shit. I like that.

SPEAKER_06

Yeah, I just I just started getting into fragrance. I'm probably like a year into my collection. So that's definitely a uh a spot I definitely want to visit.

SPEAKER_01

Yeah, do that. Get that right there. That goal, that end. Amber Ooh Gold.

SPEAKER_06

Oh, I know about that one. I know about that one.

SPEAKER_01

Oh that green, that product just came out probably like last month. Product Paradigm. That shit just dropped one. That's why that's why the bottle is fresh.

SPEAKER_06

Right. Compared to this one. Yeah, no. This one's almost done.

SPEAKER_01

That's my third one. Sheesh.

SPEAKER_06

I'll be having the um You know it's a good one when it's third.

SPEAKER_01

Yeah, that's that's the ultimate compliment getter. I ain't gonna lie to you.

SPEAKER_05

I'll be having the product um ocean, but I think it's at the Zen's meat. Okay. I'll give me some more.

SPEAKER_01

Okay.

SPEAKER_05

I've been to one of those um John's The Old Factory John. I had to find this old picture. But um, yeah, that's where it was at. Old factory joints. One downtown, but I went to the joint out DC. Okay. That joint's a dope experience, though.

SPEAKER_07

Yeah.

SPEAKER_05

Tried it. Um, I can't even explain the smell that I created. That shit just so different. But for the first couple weeks, I was running down on that joint. Every day I couldn't take it. I had to stop. So yeah.

SPEAKER_01

No, that I like that a lot because then nobody's gonna smell like you. You made it.

SPEAKER_05

Yeah, exactly.

SPEAKER_01

I hate see, I was hesitant to bring my colognes. I ain't gonna lie, because motherfuckers ask me every day, what you got on? Like, I can't tell you. I don't know. If I tell you, if I tell you, I gotta kill you. That's what I said.

SPEAKER_05

I shouldn't do sort of when y'all got the same thing.

SPEAKER_01

Why you want to smell like me?

SPEAKER_05

I'm like, I mean, I get it, but I just don't want us to do it on the same day. That's all right. I sent you some kicks. Don't wear them, don't wear them with it. That's how I feel about it. That's all.

SPEAKER_06

No, I'm gonna share mine. I I ain't no gatekeeper, man.

SPEAKER_01

I am.

SPEAKER_06

I'm gonna share mine, I'm gonna talk about it, and I'm gonna describe it all that.

SPEAKER_01

I share it, I share it with the guys. That's why I bring it here. I share it with the guys. I know it's about to be worldwide, but I mean it's cool.

SPEAKER_06

That means that Gucci Guilty ain't his top joint. That's what that means. That means he got something else in the tuck.

SPEAKER_01

Oh, Gucci, Gucci Guilty, my top joint. My first, my very first call when I first got in the Calumes was 2012. It was Burberry weekend. That's my first June. And that shit, I mean, that shit got me all through college. I ain't gonna lie. TJ Max special. Right at TJ.

SPEAKER_05

I used to get some shit from there for sure when I was a beginner. I still will if I've seen something. Yeah, hell yeah. Let me not say that. You know what I'm saying?

SPEAKER_06

And now that they got the Middle Eastern uh brands in there, yeah. Oh, I ain't know they had them in there, yeah. TJ Max, Burlington, Autumn. I didn't even know, bro. The Latafas, the Al Hermanes, Autumn.

SPEAKER_01

Valentino my shit. I ain't already done. That's my top one. I ain't gonna lie, yeah.

SPEAKER_06

My little brother, uh, he's heavy on the um Valentino Born and Roma Roma Intense.

SPEAKER_05

That was my shit for a minute. I ain't gonna lie. Had a nice little Roman to Valentino.

SPEAKER_06

I think we had a we matter of fact, our guests, we had a guest on here who brought uh a Valentino born and Roma, the regular one. Yeah, a couple weeks ago. Yeah, yeah.

SPEAKER_01

Yeah, that's that's that shit right there. I ain't gonna lie to you.

SPEAKER_06

Going back to uh what y'all was talking about with overthinking and relationships, that's uh one more song that I want to talk about. Uh can you chill? That's another one that caught me.

SPEAKER_01

Alright.

SPEAKER_06

Do people ruin more relationships through overthinking than cheating?

SPEAKER_01

No.

SPEAKER_06

No?

SPEAKER_01

Nah. I no, no, no, no, no, no. Because the thing is, you might be giving like subconsciously, you might be giving them a reason to overthink. See what I'm saying? So nah, you you ruin it more through cheating. Because you can overthink and then rip be wrong and be like, alright, but if you cheat, it's like you cheated. So something really happened.

unknown

Thank you for the guy.

SPEAKER_05

Okay.

SPEAKER_01

This is my shit.

SPEAKER_05

Yeah, it is definitely got a nice flow to it for sure.

SPEAKER_01

This this this came off of this off of the me, off of time.

SPEAKER_06

And like I said, that's the shit that caught my attention. So that's why I'm saying RB sing RB artists.

SPEAKER_01

Yeah, that's that's more my vibe though. I like I like making uh RB shit, bro.

SPEAKER_05

Um what's uh something that let me see how the word that um I'm trying to figure out how to word it, Ty. What's some people think that women are attracted to that they really not?

SPEAKER_01

Some people think women are attracted to, yeah, that they really not.

SPEAKER_05

That they don't that we that we that we can come to an agreement on.

SPEAKER_01

That they not attracted to. I don't know. What y'all think? Some women that we think they're attracted to that they not attracted to. I don't know. What y'all think?

SPEAKER_05

That's tough. I had this question right now, but yeah, I don't know.

SPEAKER_06

Like women different, so I think I think the way where we should uh refrain rephrase the question is what do we think that what do we think that attracts maybe what do we think that attracts women to us that that nobody really talks about, like a sleeper drone or something like that.

SPEAKER_05

Or what's a sleeper that attracts us to women? That attracts us to women? Yeah, that somebody might not, even yourself personally, that might not think or talk about a lot.

SPEAKER_01

I'm attracted to I'm attracted to like different different vibes, so like different aesthetic. No, I'm gonna say aesthetics.

SPEAKER_06

Okay, different aesthetics, so like give me the first three things that catch your attention in a woman.

SPEAKER_01

The first three things um her smile uh her smile I I wanna say how they how they I guess her demeanor, I mean how she carries herself, her smile, how she carries herself, and how she uh talked to me, how she talked. Okay.

SPEAKER_06

Definitely smile. Gotta have nice teeth. Uh height. I like a short girl. Sorry. Sorry, ladies. Sorry, ladies. I've been there. Um and I wanna say eyes. Something in the eyes. Yeah, I gotta see something in the eyes.

SPEAKER_01

Some of them be having eyes, they be looking real mys mystical.

SPEAKER_06

And that's just and I'm just speaking on if you walking down the street, I see somebody from across the room. Like, I'm not even like you ain't even give me time to approach you yet. Because of course, I want once once we already open up our mouths, I want to make sure that you're kind. Like you said, the way that you speak to me. Exactly. Like, don't talk to me, don't talk at me. Like, I want to see if that you can handle a genuine conversation, shit like that. But just off of that, physical approach, yeah, eyes, height, and smile.

SPEAKER_01

Okay.

unknown

Let me see.

SPEAKER_05

Yeah, I gotta go with the consensus smile for sure. Yeah, that's gonna get you right, Tom. Um, humor, good one for me.

SPEAKER_01

Okay, yeah, I like humor too.

SPEAKER_05

I like a good sense of humor. Especially like just knowing who you are. If you if you can vibe with a chick and they think you're funny, that's just gonna boost it up a little bit. It's boost everything up. Third. Alright, like, you know, attentiveness also, like if you if we vibing in, you real attentive, you real interested and talking, and you know, you know, and you you really listening and you giving feedback, I like that too. So those three things for me.

SPEAKER_01

Okay.

SPEAKER_06

I think we can move on to uh Dayton in 2026. Yeah. Who makes dating harder right now? Men or women?

SPEAKER_01

Who makes it harder? Um women. Women, of course. The internet, social media make it harder. That's all I agree with social media. I can't even say is women, it's just the women that that base their life on social media. Uh one thing I hate is a woman that talking memes. Like, you know, like they just everything they say is off on offline. That shit is annoying.

SPEAKER_05

You know what their favorite line is, bro? What? That's not me talking about myself. I'm just I just post what I want. Yeah, real shit. I ain't talking about me. No, yeah, real shit. You'd be like, damn, you said, oh no, I'll just be posting that.

SPEAKER_01

I'll just be posting it. Like, okay. Okay.

SPEAKER_05

In the beginning, it'd be like, all right, but then after a while, it's like, yo. Yeah. Everything you're saying, everything line up the same. You hate niggas, it's okay.

SPEAKER_01

Just say real shit. Just say that. Like, that's okay.

SPEAKER_05

I'll get it. I'd rather you walk on it and stand on it. You know what I'm saying? Don't beat around the bush. And it's a lot of that going on. There's niggas that bash women every day, too. That shit annoying too. Yeah. We got that.

SPEAKER_01

I don't like I don't like that shit. I don't like niggas that bash women. That shit weird.

SPEAKER_05

I mean, it's good to have a peace of mind and and to say what you you know feel sometimes because people need to hear certain things, but like you be going a little hard on that.

SPEAKER_01

Yeah, yeah. They gotta chill out. They be just trying to get uh fucking views and likes and shit like that.

SPEAKER_05

Some shit I agree with though. A lot of people not everything like 50-50. So a lot of shit is. There's like a lot of niggas that been popping lately on there, like the bull, uh that shit cheap. Be having the crazy jazz beat in the in the background. That nigga been going crazy on there.

SPEAKER_01

He don't be bashing women though. He don't.

SPEAKER_05

He just be, you know, I can't even explain where his perspective is coming from.

SPEAKER_01

Yeah, it's coming from a cheating nigga mind.

SPEAKER_05

There's so many different angles and he like talking from. That's shit crazy though, bro. That's really how you putting everything into perspective when certain dudes get on there and start popping it like that. Because sometimes, you know, get to the point where the opposite sex can't even know what to say. Yeah. So I'd be like, man, I'll just stay out of it. I don't like to repost it too much. I don't feel like nobody giving me like that. That's how you feel, yeah. Sometimes you say why can't I repost too like y'all do? Yeah, right.

SPEAKER_01

It's just it's just a post, right?

SPEAKER_05

I thought it was funny.

SPEAKER_06

I feel like like to me, women definitely make it harder. Like going back to the social media, I feel like with social media, you got women chasing a lifestyle that's little a man in today's time can't can't provide off the rip. Okay. Like they want the lifestyle that they see on social media, like the condos, the yachts on the weekends, and all that.

SPEAKER_01

First date at the airport type shit.

SPEAKER_06

There you go. Exactly. And then on the opposite side, so sorry to tell y'all, ladies, but we are not chasing the BBLs. At all. At all.

SPEAKER_01

What camera in my camera? At all. That's your camera. At all. At all.

SPEAKER_06

I don't give a fuck about this shit. Like, so y'all, y'all might think that we y'all gotta do shit to please us. Nah, y'all, y'all doing that for y'all and other women.

SPEAKER_01

Yeah, we don't care about this shit at all.

SPEAKER_06

We listen, we looking for somebody that can give us some leftovers, man.

SPEAKER_01

Yeah, not even leftovers. I need mine fresh. Right. Like, can you tell me my food in the microwave something? Right.

SPEAKER_06

You do not need to go through all these extensives to get a man as we do a woman in these days.

SPEAKER_05

We'll take an occasional BBL though. So we take an occasional.

SPEAKER_01

It depends, like, so with the BBL, right? It depends on how it feels. Like, it gotta feel natural. It gotta be soft.

SPEAKER_05

It's only one way.

SPEAKER_01

It gotta be soft. It can't be, I mean.

SPEAKER_05

I don't accept nothing else.

SPEAKER_01

But no, uh, outside of that though, I'm cool off them drones. I I like I like natural.

SPEAKER_05

Yeah, I mean, at this point, like, like you said, it's always good to look at sometimes, you know. Definitely good to look at. But am I going after it because I know that's what's going on? Uh I'll probably go the other way. Yeah. Because I think that shit overrated. It is.

SPEAKER_06

Agreed. What's the biggest mistake that men make?

SPEAKER_05

In dating.

SPEAKER_01

The biggest mistake in dating or being in a relationship.

SPEAKER_05

Relationships, either way.

SPEAKER_01

Um not realizing what you got, out looking for other shit. Not realizing that you got everything you need. I mean, that's that's that's the people the biggest mistake in damn men anyway.

SPEAKER_05

I mean, yeah, we talked about that earlier, actually. A lot of us, man. I've been, like I said, I've been one of them, you know what I'm saying? Thinking the options is this and that, but it don't be like that, bro. Yeah, you know, it's it's it's a lot shit be a quick fix a lot of times. Yeah. To the race satisfaction, you know, we grown.

SPEAKER_01

That's all it be. Quick little dopamine hit. Yeah, definitely.

SPEAKER_05

Um, I'm single, so I can get away with that shit, but I'm I'm I'm I'm more along the lines, like I said, trying to fall back, man. It's a lot going on out here.

SPEAKER_01

And you don't want to be too accessible. Like, I mean, you want to have some type of some type of uh mystery to you.

SPEAKER_05

I like that shit. I like being a little bit like what he got going on. Yeah, exactly. Exactly. Like I got this because people see me on there, but outside of that, they're like, hmm.

SPEAKER_01

They add to the aura. That makes them want to know you more. When you don't know, when they don't know you, they want to know you now.

SPEAKER_05

That's the question game, yeah.

SPEAKER_06

Like, I've been um single single for like shit over 10 years now. Okay, had little situationships in between. But I can I can't um look back now, like the breakup was crazy. But I can look back now and say that a lot of the shit came from not knowing how to have them conversations that needed to be had.

SPEAKER_05

Yeah, yeah. I feel you. How was we going up?

SPEAKER_06

Too young, bro. Yeah, too young, wasn't mature enough. Cause, like, for me, and this is just trying, because of course you can blame the other person with no hesitation, but at some point you gotta, in order to move forward, you gotta try to figure out where you played. So, in order for me to do that, it was I didn't know what she needed, but I also didn't didn't provide the space for her to tell me. Yeah, and I can say, oh, she ain't tell me, yeah, but she didn't know how either. Yeah, and that just goes back to how young we were at the same time, like I said, 10 years.

SPEAKER_01

Like you're on some more mature shit now. Yeah, exactly.

SPEAKER_05

Definitely it's definitely a whole nother ball game now, brother. Compared to those days, for sure.

SPEAKER_06

So um going back to the social media shit again, uh, have standards increased or have expectations become unpro unrealistic?

SPEAKER_01

Expectations became unrealistic because with social media, they like they make women want want the man that's super established already. Like, you gotta come with that. And people like, all right, so what? I'm 33. We really just get in there for real. Like getting there and and still climbing. Like, they be wanting the nigga to just have that shit already. Like, bitch, I'm 25. You want to, I don't, you want a jet? You want a Louie? 401k already, pension coming in. I don't got that shit. Like, so I mean that that that's that's what that's what social media did.

SPEAKER_06

Uh me and Doug had a conversation uh on the pod last week. So I I kind of want to I feel like this is the good time to bring it back. Uh can men and women really be platonic friends?

SPEAKER_01

Can they? Yeah, you just gotta not want to fuck.

SPEAKER_05

I mean, that was like kind of the most simplest thing.

SPEAKER_01

You just gotta not, you just gotta not want to not want to like you can, you can. I have I have platonic friendship. Yeah, me too. That I don't that I don't want to fuck. I never tried to fuck. I don't I don't secretly like, yeah, you know what? I'm gonna try I don't I got women that's really my friend.

SPEAKER_05

I mean, so then you get those guys that like even in the comments, yeah, got some guys that was just saying little shit like uh basically saying niggas lying and you know what I'm saying, it's an ulterior motive. Yeah, but like I explained my stance last week. Like if we started on us trying to get with each other, it don't work out. If we happen to organically still become friends, then I'm not gonna still be trying to hit. Yeah, now later down the line, if that's what you decide to do.

SPEAKER_01

Then I'm gonna I ain't gonna shy away from it.

SPEAKER_05

I'm a man, yeah. You know what I'm saying? No, I feel but yeah, I ain't gonna push the issue.

SPEAKER_01

A lot of niggas do have them. It depends on the type of nigga you are, because a lot of men have them ulterior motives, like, yeah, I'm gonna act like I'm gonna play the friend rule. And it's like that's weird to me.

SPEAKER_05

That's corny. That's weird, like playing them.

SPEAKER_01

What you gotta do?

SPEAKER_05

You can't go into it like that. Like, and I understand why some dudes be like they don't want they girl to have male friends, because some niggas do like be a shoulder to cry on, you know what I'm saying? Become a dick the route on real shit. And like, I I've been in situations where niggas see me from the rip, like, no, you can't fuck with him no more. But I wasn't even on that. Now, it's been many a times of women that had a man came to me and told me some shit, or you know what I'm saying? I ain't never try to go down and and tag or nothing like that, you know what I'm saying? Now, anything that happened outside of if they was in a relationship or not, that's different. But I was going on, hell no.

SPEAKER_01

No, real shit. If if if it's a woman that that got a got a man, right, and I wanna fuck, and she comes, don't come to me with problems, which it means I don't want to talk about you nigga. Like, that's not like I'm I'm good. But a platonic friend, hell yeah. You come talk to me, chop it up, I'll give you game. Uh you mean, but you know.

SPEAKER_06

I'm big on like if if I want you, then I'm not being your platonic friend. I'm not even accepting that. Right. And I'm gonna let you know, like, if you friend zoning me, I'm out for good. Yeah, like yeah, or else I'll come back at a later date, see where your head at.

SPEAKER_05

That's why I was telling Tom, I'm the same way right now.

SPEAKER_06

But if I if if we just mutually engaging and the shit just play out, I might go that way, but I I don't mind. Then yeah, we can we can turn into a platonic, but believe me, if my eyes is on you, I'm not I'm not one of them men that's gonna sit in a friend zone up until it's hard, man, today, especially like because like I said, bro, we getting older.

SPEAKER_05

Like, I ain't I have enough friends. I'm gonna keep it real. So if I'm like reaching out to if I'm talking to you somewhere where I met you, and I actually get number, not trying to get your number so we can be buddy buddy, you know what I'm saying? It's either we fucking or we gonna deal with each other.

SPEAKER_01

But see, a lot of women though, these days, bro, women be bossed up. So like it'd be cool to be friends with someone because it's like she y'all y'all she can help you elevate just like you can help her. Yeah, everything situation is a lot of women, a lot of women bossed up these days.

SPEAKER_06

I had a um I had a one-night stand a couple years ago. Not even a couple years ago, a minute ago. I was still in the post office. But the day after she said some of the thrillest shit. Right. She said niggas will fuck up a thorough relationship chasing pussy. Like with a female, of course, but like a nigga will fuck up a thorough relationship with a female, a thorough friendship with a female because he chasing pussy. Yeah, no, real shit. And that's when I was cool with being, that's when I started being okay with being platonic.

SPEAKER_05

That's deep. Women be thorough.

SPEAKER_06

And like you said, like it's a lot of boss bitches, boss females, boss ladies. They like that boss bitches. Yeah, it's a lot of boss bitches out here. Having them as a resource is lovely.

SPEAKER_05

I know a couple, man. Shout out to y'all. Shout out to y'all but I've been the beneficiary of like having some bad friends that had bad friends.

SPEAKER_01

That that too.

SPEAKER_05

And I don't think that's ever gonna stop.

SPEAKER_01

That's that too, because they got they got their friends. It's like, what's that saying? It's like, would you rather run down and catch one or walk down and catch them all?

SPEAKER_05

Listen, man, life is life, bro.

SPEAKER_01

Yeah, life is life. Like right, run.

SPEAKER_05

He said, Love is love, right, right. You gotta keep it real out here, man. It's real. Mm-hmm.

SPEAKER_06

All right, before we get off, I got a crazy question for you. All right. What's a relationship opinion you have that will absolutely get you destroyed in the comments?

SPEAKER_01

Um that is is roles in a relationship, and women got roles, and men got roles, and and women should play their role. And men should play their role for short, but yeah. So the role, you know the rule, the woman rule, the house, the homemaker, cook, clean, all that. I know they gonna kill me in the comments for that, but yeah. That's what they that's what that's what you're here for. Traditionally, yeah. If you believe in God and Adam and Eve, then what do you think God bought Eve here for?

SPEAKER_05

Yeah.

SPEAKER_01

To help.

SPEAKER_05

I mean, that's the most plainest and basic way to explain it, like in lame terms, yeah.

SPEAKER_01

Yeah, real shit. So like that that I know they'd kill me. Oh, it's 2026, blah, blah. No, you belong in the kitchen. Yeah, you belong cooking the food. I belong out killing the food and bringing it home for sure. So everybody gotta play their role. You can't just be trying to play a role and it's a bum ass nigga on the couch playing the game. But like, you mean you gotta play your role.

SPEAKER_05

Yeah, you say you take it back to where we're all started, huh?

SPEAKER_01

Real shit.

SPEAKER_06

I and I try I definitely agree. And I say there's all like I'm a firmer believer that there's always exceptions. So you can definitely flip the rules. There can definitely be a husband and the and that's being a home, a home husband. But just know you gotta be bringing that money home. Like, don't want feminine, don't want feminine attributes and want um want masculine authority. Yeah.

SPEAKER_01

How you feel about that, home husband? Like, how you feel about that?

SPEAKER_06

I couldn't do it. Because like I said, yeah, I mean, I couldn't do it.

SPEAKER_01

I feel like a bitch. I ain't gonna lie to you. That's part of it. I feel like a bitch. Like you know, and that's why I said there's always exceptions.

SPEAKER_06

Like, I couldn't do it. But there's our what they label simps now, yeah. That's different. That can be like that, that like them dominant women. So I can I can see that, but me personally, hell no. Now we can both be outside grinding. Yeah, we can take turns in the kitchen. Yeah, you cook, I wash, I take the trash out, you put the dishes up. I'm big on teamwork.

SPEAKER_01

Yeah, but uh but not solely, not solely a false husband.

SPEAKER_05

No, like what? I definitely always harp on balance, you know what I'm saying? Yeah, like if I was to have wife and kids, I want to have a balance. Like, I don't want to have to work so much that I'm missing all the games and the shows and all that. I want to have it be able to do both, you know what I'm saying? So I mean it all depends on what kind of job you end up with, career wise and all that. It's doable because I've seen it. I don't want to just be a uh a financial dad, you know what I'm saying? I want to take my kids to the park. Yeah, I want to ask them questions and shit. I want them to come to me when they got problems. So that's why I feel like with the balance thing now. If you you can't, and also like just to I don't get into 50 50 and all that, but if you and your girl both work. 40 hours a week. And you know what I'm saying? Y'all splitting all the shit together or whatever. Yeah. I don't think that we gotta be realistic. Yeah. If you're paying all the bills, you can expect her to be cooking for you every day and shit like that. But if she's still playing a role of she gotta do just as much as you, yeah, yeah, yeah. You can't kind of expect her to like come home and it's not realistic, bro, especially in 2026. Shit, I'm we gotta pick one.

SPEAKER_01

I'm in the listen, I'm in the process of uh uh getting my girl to quit her job right now, yeah. So like I mean, I I want her on the crib. I want my girl at home. Like, I don't want her having to go work for nobody.

SPEAKER_06

And for being a man that got the mindset to be able to provide that shit, you can say that this is what I want. Like you can say, I want that traditional lifestyle of having a wife at home. And I'm gonna provide that shit too.

SPEAKER_01

They gonna they they see the see the right. Oh, I can't even say the right woman because it's whoever's right for you. But they're gonna want to take on that role, especially if y'all got kids. Me and my girl got kids. But if you got kids, you're gonna want to take on that role, or you wanna be able to pack the kids lunch and see them off on the bus in the morning and do shit like that without having to rush, and now you gotta go to work and you gotta like it, it's it ain't it's a lot.

SPEAKER_05

Sure. I think generally speaking, I think most guys would want that. You know what I'm saying? If they got it, you know what I'm saying?

SPEAKER_01

You would think, bro, but that's just because the type nigga you are. These niggas out here be weird, bro. Like they they cool with they cool with leashing off, leashing off bitches, all that. I don't I don't agree with none of that.

SPEAKER_05

Yeah, yeah. Like it took me years to start accepting gifts and shit. Yeah, it was mainly because my mom used to put it into my head, like, don't be accepting gifts from these little, you know what I'm saying? But eventually I got old and you know, I started doing my own thing, and I don't care no more. But it took me a while, bro. I was like, no, I want that. Then you know, at some point you just can't, you know what I'm saying? You can't really keep doing that. Y'all accept shit. But um, I think like generally, like I said, bro, most men would love for their wife not to have to do too much.

SPEAKER_01

Yeah, no, for real sure.

SPEAKER_05

Like, even if, like, not necessarily if you want to like not have a job where you clock in, running some type of business or something like that, that's perfect for me. Yeah, but I don't I don't want to see you every time walking the house. I'm not gonna lie. I don't every time just sitting there. I think Brown was just talking about that too. Like, yeah. But if you're productive and shit like that, I don't mind. Especially if we got kids and shit like that. It makes sense. But you just can't be no kids, we don't got no kids together. I'm working, you chilling. Yeah, it don't work like that.

SPEAKER_01

No, it don't. But the thing is, look, even if she don't got a business, my girl got a business, and we working on just her doing that, and that's it. Right. But if she was just a homemaker and and and she doing the laundry, doing the dishes and all that, that shit a lot of work too. That's right. That's it.

SPEAKER_05

Like Mog be saying like they want to do it, but they don't somebody they can't cook like that. They're different. They skills ain't like that. Like they can't. It's a skill, bro.

SPEAKER_01

Chat GPT, it's too much shit for you to not know how to learn these days.

SPEAKER_05

There's really no excuse, but man, I done seen some shit, bro.

SPEAKER_01

Yeah, that shit a lot of work too, though. So if she's just on the couch chilling, as long as like you come in there, it smells good, the crib clean, it's full cooked, or being prepared to get cooked, like that's cool too. That's a lot of work.

SPEAKER_05

Don't ask too many questions. She was cool. Don't ask too many questions.

SPEAKER_01

I don't like getting questions either, but I ain't gonna lie to you.

SPEAKER_05

But I'm really working on it, bro.

SPEAKER_01

I can't, I I try.

SPEAKER_05

I feel like it's just like a question to question my authority or some shit. Yeah, like what you mean? Like, you'd be like, yo, where you going? I'm going out to drink my friends over here. Like, yo.

SPEAKER_01

Like outside. I didn't hear.

SPEAKER_05

Like, man, like I gave you, I gave you something already. Why you gotta do more?

SPEAKER_01

I was just talking to my girl about this. I'm like, I'm like, she's told me I don't like answering her questions. I'm like, because her questions come with more questions. It's like I gave you an answer. You ask me something else. Ask me something else, like, dog, just relax. Like, just chill.

SPEAKER_05

Uh oh, I'm going to landmark. Oh, y'all going for happy hour? Like, yo, we know what time it is, right? Like, the fuck? That should be burning me out, bro. Like shit crazy, but it's it's real. Mm-hmm.

SPEAKER_06

Um, your cousin, um, your god brother. Uh, I know he getting to the uh directing and filming, and you uh participated in any of that?

SPEAKER_01

Um, hell yeah. We got a uh so we got a movie we did when I was probably like 10. I was 10, he was 14 or something. Like uh I got to it early. I forgot what it was called, but we this was back in the day. And then uh he he shot a couple Christmas movies. I was in one. Um, yeah, I'm participating, whatever. Whenever he called me, he needs me, I'll pull up.

SPEAKER_06

What comes more naturally and what requires more work for you? Acting or uh music?

SPEAKER_01

Uh music natural shit, bro. This shit is easy. I can like I said, I can do this shit asleep. Like anything. Um acting, it don't require that much work because I don't give a fuck about it. So it's like I just show up, do it, whatever. I'm not overthinking it because I really don't care. You see what I'm saying? Like, as long as I say the lines right, I mean I'm not like, damn, I'm trying to be an actor, so it's gotta be perfect. Like, I don't, I mean for sure. But music is definitely that's just second nature, bro. Like a lot of niggas ain't fuck with me. I'm gonna keep it being talking shit. A lot of niggas ain't fucking with me. In the city and out the city, it don't matter what what city, state, country, it don't matter, bro.

SPEAKER_06

Talk your shit. It don't matter. Social media versus the industry. Is social media helping artists or hurting artists?

SPEAKER_01

Helping the motherfuckers getting a bag off turning the camera on and dancing. You know what I mean? Like I said earlier. Social media helping the shell artists. Social media is the industry now these days, because the industry, the industry that we grew up watching and I wanted to be a part of, it's not the same today. It's not it now, it's like online. Everything online, you know what I mean? You get your buzz online, you it's it's it's no artist development, it's no, it's different.

SPEAKER_05

Everything's superficial.

SPEAKER_01

I used to want to be part of the rock back in the day. That shit not the same now.

SPEAKER_05

That makes sense though. I did too. I did too. As a producer, though.

SPEAKER_01

Yeah. Oh, you make beats?

SPEAKER_05

Nah. Okay.

SPEAKER_06

Daydreamed about it before. Do you uh you feel like artists spend too much new new age artists? Do you think that they spend too much time chasing versatility, trying to be different, instead of just uh trying to perfect their craft?

SPEAKER_01

Yeah, I think a lot of people, a lot of new age artists, they making music trying to uh because it's something cool to do and it look it look cool. Like they don't really give a fuck about music. Like me, that music in me, so like, and I'm already cool. So whatever I do, whether I'm fucking making a hit or shoveling shit, it's gonna look cool because I'm doing it. You see what I'm saying? So a lot of niggas they they just do it because they try to have this artist aesthetic.

SPEAKER_06

And that was a bar.

SPEAKER_01

Yeah, it was. Definitely was a bar, Birdie.

SPEAKER_06

Do we focus uh too too much more on content than actual talent? I think you're gonna say, yeah. Absolutely. You don't like that. He don't like that.

SPEAKER_01

I I'm trying to get into it more. I'm trying to figure out how to how to bridge the gap between my style and content. Is it that's that's the most challenging part of music for me, is not the music, it's figuring out content.

SPEAKER_06

How many art how many talented artists have you personally seen fail?

SPEAKER_01

Fail?

SPEAKER_06

Mm-hmm.

SPEAKER_01

Shit. Well, I mean it depends, like, cause because success is subjective, so it depends on what what you think felon is. It depends. Because I I can't say if you got a hit and you you got on, and maybe you just a one-hit wonder or whatever, like, you know, a success. Kind of you were successful at it. I ain't never seen too many talented artists fail. Unless they quit. Yeah.

SPEAKER_06

How many uh my bad. What would you rather have? One million followers or be broke? One million followers and be broke, or have 10,000 fans that support you.

SPEAKER_01

10,000, 10,000 fans for sure. I can make a million dollars with them 10,000 fans. I can sell merch, sell music, you know, stream, I can do anything. As long as I got 10,000 people that's loyal to what I got going on, you'll you're gonna have money for that. Fucking followers, I can I was cool before followers. That's the thing. Like that shit, you know.

SPEAKER_06

Bro, hit the little drone. Little drum right there. Yeah. Red, little red button.

SPEAKER_04

Voila.

SPEAKER_06

My bad. Why do so many talented people never break through in Philly? Talking about Philly now, my bad.

SPEAKER_01

Um, why do so many talented people never break through in Philly? Um, because everybody wanna be the one in Philly. Everybody wanna be that nigga and wanna have little niggas behind them. They don't nobody wanna all be the nigga. Everybody wanna be just, you know, I'm top dog and these is, you know, my young boys.

SPEAKER_05

So do you think people need to leave Philly to prosper?

SPEAKER_01

Yeah. Hell yeah. Hell yeah.

SPEAKER_05

There's a lot of that going on.

SPEAKER_01

For sure. Because like, especially being from Philly, bro, when you go to other places, they love you. Like, no matter where you go, you say you're from Philly, you're gonna get all the love in the world.

SPEAKER_05

Just was talking about that too.

SPEAKER_01

You're gonna get all the love.

SPEAKER_05

I never went nowhere where I said I was from Philly and they said something crazy. Like, I got love in Boston. I got love in Boston, bro, and I hated Boston before I went out there. You know, for obvious reasons. But I hated Boston. I went out there to see my cousin, uh my little cuz play for the uh for the football team. Went out there, like yeah, I'm from Philly. These are my family. They showed us love everywhere. Oh frick. Then we was in the hood down that journal a little bit too, so it was like crazy because I I didn't even expect that. But every time we go down there, they show love. Yeah, I like boss.

SPEAKER_01

I'm a Celtics fan, bro. So I like boss.

SPEAKER_05

That's explaining why he ain't saying. Yeah, that explains it.

SPEAKER_01

Yeah, I'm a Celtics fan, bro.

SPEAKER_06

So uh just throwing it in the universe, where your next stop at? If you need to go out of Philly to grow, as you as an artist, where you going?

SPEAKER_01

Um, I feel like I I feel like my sound of uh will will transcend in like Toronto.

SPEAKER_06

Okay.

SPEAKER_01

That's different. I wasn't expecting that. I feel like my sound to transcend out there because it's like um they they do the singing shit out there, but it's like I'm bringing a mix of both of it, so it's different to them. They're gonna be like, oh shit, what are you doing?

SPEAKER_06

Yeah, I didn't even think about Toronto. I like that sound too.

SPEAKER_01

Yeah, it's definitely it definitely don't transcend in how they say the bitty.

SPEAKER_05

Yeah, definitely um, um it's June is uh still men's mental health mom. Um let's talk about it. Uh, what pressure do men carry that don't people really talk about, in your opinion?

SPEAKER_01

All of it.

SPEAKER_05

All of it.

SPEAKER_01

All of it, especially if you a man for real. Like you got niggas that's males, but if you a man and you you you stand on business and you take care of your responsibilities, you're gonna have all the pressure, bro. Because even if like you're in a relationship like you we were saying earlier, and your girl worked too, right? If shit fell, everybody gonna look at you like, damn, why that shit ain't work. You carry all the like you gotta make sure everything's straight.

SPEAKER_07

Yeah.

SPEAKER_01

You gotta work overtime in the background. Even if y'all working together, you gotta work overtime in the background just in case this shit fell out over here, you gotta back up.

SPEAKER_05

Yeah, real shit. That's a great way to look at it, man. Um it's 2026. You feel like uh men have enough safe spaces to be vulnerable?

SPEAKER_01

No. No, no, no, no, no, no, not at all. I agree, not at all. Just because, and honestly, I can't even say no, we might, but men, we got this thing where we don't want to look be looked at as weak.

SPEAKER_05

Yeah.

SPEAKER_01

And we want to look like we got it all together, even if we don't.

SPEAKER_05

So still macho men.

SPEAKER_01

Yeah, when it's time to be vulnerable, we don't, because it's like, yo, we got it, we good. Whole time, like niggas, I'm in the car crying on the way to wherever I'm going. I'm in the car crying, but don't nobody know? I know, that's it. But everybody else thinks everything's straight.

SPEAKER_07

Crazy, yeah.

SPEAKER_06

If you don't mind being vulnerable right now, what's a struggle that you face that nobody would know if they see Ryan walking down the street?

SPEAKER_05

What's a struggle I face? Outside looking in, yeah.

SPEAKER_01

Um damn, that's a great question. Nobody never asked me no shit like that before. What's a struggle I face that nobody would know looking in? Just just hold just making sure I hold everything together. Like just the households. Like I said, I got a girl, I got kids. Just making sure they got what they need. You mean everybody straight. They don't never feel no type of nothing. If I'm going through a downtown, making sure they don't feel it at all. Like, that's something uh nobody would know that I I struggle with for sure.

SPEAKER_06

That's for real shit.

SPEAKER_01

Just because I want to make sure everybody, you know, straight.

SPEAKER_06

What keeps you grounded through all of that?

SPEAKER_01

Uh music. Music keeps me grounded. Like I said, I make music sometimes where it just be for me. Like I'll cry through a song, like, you know, while I'm recording it. Because I don't write anything either. I just, you know what I mean, go make the beat, turn the shit on, record, and I I cry through some shit where like after it, I feel better.

SPEAKER_05

So sometimes you gotta cry as a man.

SPEAKER_01

Nigga, all the time. Yeah, shit. Just don't do it in front of everybody, just do it to yourself. You know what I mean? But all the time, you gotta let that shit out, bro. Like, niggas, I ain't I ain't walking around acting like I'm super tough guy. No, you gotta cry some cry that shit out. Sometimes if you don't, you go insane, bro.

SPEAKER_05

Last couple years I had a couple sessions, so to myself for sure. So I understand.

SPEAKER_01

Yeah, bro. Music, shit. I got I got a whole playlist where these songs is tear jerkers. Like, yeah, you shed a thug tear to this shit for sure.

unknown

No, that's real rap.

SPEAKER_06

Uh, real talk. What's something that people would assume about you that they get completely wrong?

SPEAKER_01

Hmm, that I'm an asshole. That I'm an asshole. A lot of people, they people think I'm unapproachable. I mean, and my face sometimes, like I used to get this all even in elementary school. Like the teacher would tell my mom, like, yeah, he's he's looking at me a certain way. It's like, that's just my face. Like, I'm not my.

SPEAKER_06

I'd be mad as hell if my teacher said some shit like that.

SPEAKER_01

Real shit.

SPEAKER_06

He's looking at me.

SPEAKER_01

What? Ain't that what I'm supposed to do? That's just like they think I'm grilling them or something. Like, this is just my regular face. Like, I'm my butt, my barber used to tell me that shit. He used to be like, Yeah, I ain't know if you like the cut or not, because the wheels look at my that's just my face, it's just my face, bro. I'm sorry. Like this shit, I'm I came back, didn't I? Don't worry about that, bro.

SPEAKER_05

I go through it too, man. Well sure. You're getting better though with time.

SPEAKER_06

You gotta smile. Oh, for sure. He always looks mean.

SPEAKER_05

Yeah, you gotta smile more. They do you think I do, man. Yeah, I've done I do it as much as I can now, but this is hard to like. I'm big nigga. Let me walk around. Smile and shit. Yeah, think I don't you know what I'm saying. Yeah. Well, you know, I definitely smile for the ladies, you know. That's a good one. But just to walk around like that, no.

SPEAKER_07

Mm-hmm.

SPEAKER_05

Full time, I'm a gentle giant. You know what I'm saying? For the most part.

SPEAKER_06

For sure. What uh failure taught you your biggest lesson so far?

SPEAKER_01

What failure? Told me, I don't know. I don't feel like I fell. Like to keep it to be, I don't feel like I fell.

SPEAKER_06

That's a good way to look at life.

SPEAKER_01

I don't plan on failing at nothing. Everything, everything transit, everything going up. You know what I mean? It could be a I can take a setback and you mean I gotta readjust and get back on it, but fail? No, you only fell if you stop.

SPEAKER_06

Feel that. Feel that. So what's something that you still working on personally?

SPEAKER_01

Something I'm still working on. Shit, that's a good question, too. I'm working, I'm working on uh being vulnerable. I'm working, I'm working on letting, especially my girl and my close, my close loved ones, I'm working on letting them in. Right. I mean, because I I be real private to myself. Like I'm like the black sheep in my family for real for real, like, I mean so like I'm I'm working on like being more present.

SPEAKER_06

That's what's up.

SPEAKER_05

Um what's the truth about music relationships or life that most people aren't ready to hear?

SPEAKER_01

The truth about music, relationships, or life?

SPEAKER_05

Yeah, most people ain't ready to hear. They ain't ready to hear that shit.

SPEAKER_01

Damn. Um relationships is hard work. Uh shit. For real. It ain't all fucking trips. Peaches and cream. Yeah, peaches and cream, fucking picnics on the beach, it ain't all that. It's it's work. Um life, ain't nobody coming to save you. You got you gotta do this shit yourself. If you don't, you're not gonna make it make it at nothing that you're trying to do. Um music, it's objective. Like, I mean, you might you might not like what other this person likes, they might not like what you like, but you mean all the meeting the comic ground?

SPEAKER_05

Yeah, uh segment that I've been trying to do uh is uh weekly segment I've been trying to do. I'm sorry I said it twice. I said it wrong the first time, but uh no, I ain't even touch them, man. Oh, every time I might be sleepy, I don't know. But uh big step of the week, man. I want you to shout out a person that you feel like has been stepping, um, doing big things um in the community, whether it be personally, community, around the city, whatever. Uh just shout out one person that you want to, you know, get the flowers to.

SPEAKER_01

Big step of the week. Damn. I want, I wanna I'm gonna give my girl big step of the week. Because she actually stepping out there on faith and and putting her all into her business that she got. What's up? So, you know what I mean? Yeah, I'm I'm gonna give her, I'm gonna get that to her for sure, for sure.

SPEAKER_05

That's what's up, man. That's the first so far. Somebody shout out to the lady, so that's thorough.

SPEAKER_01

What what niggas be saying?

SPEAKER_05

What be like the main shit bar another said he shout out himself?

SPEAKER_01

I thought I thought that just now. But he is such a terrier, so I already know I was like, no, I ain't gonna shout myself up.

SPEAKER_05

Um everything else has been pretty much like people that they grew up around, or something like that, though. So that was different.

SPEAKER_06

Um got some rapid fires. Yeah. Ready?

SPEAKER_01

You're gonna look at me like you ready? Nothing crazy.

SPEAKER_06

Yeah, nothing crazy. RB or hip hop?

SPEAKER_01

Fusion. Can I fuse the two? I mean, today's time I respect it. All right, I'll pick one. If I pick one, I'm picking RB. Okay. If I gotta pick one, RB for sure.

SPEAKER_06

I ain't no gangster.

SPEAKER_05

Um Michael Jackson or Usher.

SPEAKER_01

Usher. Okay.

SPEAKER_06

Studio session or live performance?

SPEAKER_01

Studio session for sure.

SPEAKER_06

I ain't I wasn't expecting that. Uh-huh.

SPEAKER_01

What studio session? Yeah, why not?

SPEAKER_06

Can you explain? Um most people, most people say that they like the crowd.

SPEAKER_01

Um, see, like I crowd is cool, but I like making music, bro. Like, it's just a I get a different feeling when I'm in there, I'm in the studio. It's like at home. You so all right. So you know how when you're a young boy and you out somewhere, you're like, I want to go home, and home is like, get crib. Like, that shit like the studio for me. Like, I want to go home, type shit. Like, that's my home, it's a feeling now, more than just a place. And in the studio make me feel that way.

SPEAKER_05

Okay. Uh, dream collaboration.

SPEAKER_01

Mmm, dream collab. I want to work with Berg or Hitmaker. Okay. Um, yeah, that's that's I want to play him for sure. Oh, uh, I got another one though, Bow Wow. Okay. Well, Bow Wow, that's my dog.

SPEAKER_06

We were just talking about him uh last week too. He was saying uh that uh first album that'd be weird a dog.

SPEAKER_01

That was my shit with ghetto on there and all that shit. That's that's yeah, that's my dog.

SPEAKER_06

Damn near knew that whole album by heart as a young boy.

SPEAKER_01

That's my dog. That Sammy, I mean, all them joints. Hey.

SPEAKER_06

Uh most underrated artist right now.

SPEAKER_01

Most underrated me.

SPEAKER_06

There we go.

SPEAKER_05

There we go.

SPEAKER_01

Most underrated me. Not for long though.

SPEAKER_05

I mean, uh, biggest red flag out here.

SPEAKER_01

Biggest red flag in what women or what?

SPEAKER_06

Period. You you up to you.

SPEAKER_01

The biggest red flag, I'm gonna say uh a woman talking in memes. Talking to me in internet, like talk talk to me in English, not internet. If you run around saying clocking and period all day, I'm about trying to that shit.

SPEAKER_06

I'm not yo, no bullshit.

SPEAKER_01

For real, not everyday talk. Like, don't I mean tweet that shit? Don't talk that shit.

SPEAKER_06

I think uh mine is like a a walk-in attitude. Oh just some like like going back to that kindness, like somebody that's just not kind.

SPEAKER_01

Yeah, that's bad energy. Like, keep that shit away from me. Like, you upset all the time.

SPEAKER_05

Yeah, fakeness is for me. Any ounce of fakeness, I'm off you.

SPEAKER_06

Yeah, real shit. Like down to earth women, yeah. Heavy down to earth, uh, biggest green flag. A what?

SPEAKER_01

You said down to earth, earthy women. That's an aesthetic I like too. Yeah, just throwing it throwing that out there for the earthy one.

SPEAKER_06

Mm-hmm. The woman that wear copper.

SPEAKER_02

Real shit, bro.

SPEAKER_01

Oh, man.

SPEAKER_06

What's your uh biggest green flag? Don't say copper.

SPEAKER_01

No, no, no. My biggest green flag is uh somebody that know how to talk. Somebody that can hold a conversation, an intelligent conversation. I mean, and and and that could uh our conversation could be give and take. It's not one side, you just sit there looking looking at me at all. It's like we feeding off each other. Like you can actually hold the conversation in all facets.

SPEAKER_06

Um I was trying to think of something just. To not say that I agree with you, but like that's how I am. Like, I may not always know how to uh start the conversation, but I can entertain it. Yeah, so like you said, that that ping pong, as long as you can give me a ping pong, we can go all night. Like so I I that that that's that on top of being kind. Yeah, like don't give me no fucking attitude. And we can rock. So yeah, that's I don't mind.

SPEAKER_01

Sorry, I don't mind an attitude sometimes though, because like I mean that's a challenge. I like challenges. I'm a like a I'm a Sagittarius, I like a challenge. So like you go ahead and bring the attitude. I'm gonna try to I'm gonna try to get the attitude about you. Now you're gonna have an attitude with everybody else except me, and I'm gonna be able to say, Yeah, she got the attitude with y'all, but not me. You know what I'm saying? Yeah, I'm a sad too, but I guess I I ain't got I ain't got that patience no more. Uh listen, man. Sometimes you just gotta put it through the mattress. Attitude be all gone. It means she be have attitude with the next nigga.

SPEAKER_06

Yeah, for sure.

SPEAKER_01

Man, she over here cooking. They like, how you get her? She mean, like, she mean. I ain't know. I ain't had that experience.

SPEAKER_06

But that's what we was said. You were saying earlier with the uh the right nigga making woman soft. So that right nigga, she ain't even giving me no attitude.

SPEAKER_01

Yeah, true, true, true.

SPEAKER_05

Favorite Philly artist outside of yourself.

SPEAKER_01

Favorite Philly artists?

SPEAKER_05

Yeah.

SPEAKER_01

Damn. Um Meek. Meek, my favorite Philly artist. Yeah. Just cause I watched it, I watched it from the beginning. I watched it from the beginning. I used to be rapping, rap with this nigga raps when I was a young boy, like so. Like, I'ma say, I'ma say meek. Um Eve. Shout out Eve.

SPEAKER_05

She just did a tiny dust too. She looked amazing on that draw. Yeah, she did.

SPEAKER_06

Shout out Eve.

SPEAKER_01

My aunt used to listen to Eve. That shit, you know what I mean back in the day. She she's one of my favorite Philly artists too.

SPEAKER_06

And shout out to Eve's little brother Ferrari, too. Oh, yeah. Grew up with Ferrari.

SPEAKER_01

Right, what's up? Uh Big Lie Ferrari.

SPEAKER_06

Big Lie Ferrari. Been heavy on the uh live streams. Uh, what's your most expensive mistake this far so far as an artist?

SPEAKER_01

As an artist? Yeah. Most expensive mistake. Um shit. I ain't got one. Alright, well, and like none of this should be a mistake. Everything's expensive, easy, but none of this should be a mistake. If it's if it's for the music, if it's gonna help me move forward, it's either I'm gonna move forward or I'm gonna learn not to do that shit. So it's not a it's not a mistake, I don't feel like.

SPEAKER_06

You got a good mindset, bro. You got to.

SPEAKER_01

I'm just it's just I'm just developing this.

SPEAKER_05

Uh one thing you tell your younger self.

SPEAKER_01

One thing I'll tell my is don't rush. Don't rush. Like everything's gonna come to you. Everything's gonna come to you in due time. Like you don't gotta be on nobody else's clock but your own.

SPEAKER_05

Right. Alright, I mean, you've done a lot, bro. Your artists, um behind the scenes, a little acting, um, Mason beats.

SPEAKER_01

I I did a lot of shit, bro. I wrote a book. I got an app. I got an app.

SPEAKER_05

Y'all hear them.

SPEAKER_01

I got an app out. I got a uh medical career company, you mean called Pume Pume Logistics, Pume, PUME, pulling up made easy. That's the acronym. I got all types of shit.

SPEAKER_06

Damn, hold up. All right.

SPEAKER_01

I do everything, bro.

SPEAKER_06

Let's get into that real fast. We got enough time. You ain't too tired.

SPEAKER_01

No, ain't nobody tired, but we up. We up, we good.

SPEAKER_06

Well uh let's start with your book. What's what's the book called?

SPEAKER_01

It's called Defeat in the Darkness. So it's a uh since it's men's mental health month.

SPEAKER_06

There we go. Um I wish you would have brought that.

SPEAKER_01

It's about sh I ain't published it yet.

SPEAKER_06

Okay, okay.

SPEAKER_01

I ain't published it yet. It's sitting in my Amazon KDP. I ain't even OTW. Yeah, on the way.

SPEAKER_06

Definitely let us know when you drop an app.

SPEAKER_01

But see, I wrote it because at a time I was in a dark space and it was like, I think I was writing it for other people. I really was doing it for me. You mean subconsciously. So that's how I ended up having a book. But I got a book, yeah. I got an app called Mindfuel. It's pretty much a uh mental health app. I mean you can go in there, it got a true, it got a chat bot named true. You go in there, it's like a um therapist, AI therapist you talk to. Um got journaling. Um uh bunch of shit, bunch of shit, bro.

SPEAKER_06

Bro, that's so dope. I'm gonna uh I'm gonna download that journal as soon as we get off.

SPEAKER_01

Yeah, mindfuel. Mindfuelapp.org. Go to mindfuelapp.org.

SPEAKER_05

Gotcha.

SPEAKER_06

I'm gonna put that at the bottom of the screen too for y'all. Definitely, I got y'all.

SPEAKER_01

Um medical career company.

SPEAKER_06

How is that?

SPEAKER_01

It's going good, bro. I got two contracts right now. Okay. Um it's just driving pretty much uh specimens, lab specimens from one lab to another. So uh just yesterday I had one from uh the American Red Cross, the Spring Garden up to Times River, New Jersey. So it's like yeah, this is cool. I like I like I like driving, so I mean like I said, I got kids, bro. I gotta get it.

SPEAKER_06

For sure.

SPEAKER_01

I gotta get it. And like I said, uh working on my girl, quitting her job.

SPEAKER_06

I mean, so I need how um how difficult or expensive was it to get into that field?

SPEAKER_01

Medical career? Yeah. Um it's in it's inexpensive and shit. You just gotta uh it just costs time pretty much. You gotta um call, call around, uh apply for different um 1099 courier companies and shit like that. Um you gotta get your uh HIPAA and your BBP bloodborne pathogen certifications. That shit costs probably like 20, one was $20, one was $15 or something like that. It ain't it ain't expensive at all.

SPEAKER_06

Hey yo, be on the lookout. Ryan about to drop an e-book uh how to get started on your medical career.

SPEAKER_01

No, I ain't. He lied to y'all. He lied to y'all. It's coming out right after his mental health book. I ain't starting no, I'm good. That's just that's just for me. Bro, you said you gotta get it, man. I got good. Ain't no e-book coming though. Not on that. I mean, I'm gonna I'll do another e-book. I mean, how to make it hit. I'm gonna do that. All right. How to make it hit. How to make it hit. I like that too. I mean, that's my ebook coming.

SPEAKER_05

All right, with all that being said, when somebody hears your name, uh, what do you want them to remember?

SPEAKER_01

What don't I want them to remember? You know what I mean? I want them to remember everything. I want them to remember how I made them feel. Yeah, how I made them feel. You mean how I how I smell. I think it smelled good and shit. I remember I had I had the uh what's that, the Aha Man Amber Ud on the shit. I walked in, uh, shook my uncle hand. My uncle, like, damn, you smell like I don't want you around my bitch. You know what I mean? Like, that's that so that that's definitely what the impact how I made them feel, you mean, and just my aura, my goose, like they want to be around me again.

SPEAKER_06

I got my last question. Uh, if your future daughter brought home a man that reminded you exactly like young Ryan Marcus, are you happy?

SPEAKER_01

Like young Ryan Marcus? Like, not me now, but me young.

SPEAKER_06

However, you want to look, yeah. Um we can do 10 and 20, so 10 years, and your daughter 10 years from now. Damn, so 10 years from now, my daughter. Ryan Marcus, are you happy or are you nervous?

SPEAKER_01

I'm nervous. Uh no, no, I'm both. I'm both. I'm happy because like I always been a good guy, always been respectful, always been a stand-up guy, always been a gentleman. But I just I just was one of them type niggas. You feel what I'm saying? So I would tell, I would, I would, I would tell her to be careful. I would I would be nervous a little bit.

SPEAKER_06

Starring five, six man, a couple role players.

SPEAKER_01

Yeah, yeah, for sure. Lineup. Got to got to.

SPEAKER_06

Good show.

SPEAKER_01

Damn, 10 years, my daughter'd be 18. Damn. It's crazy.

SPEAKER_06

What was that uh song you said uh that brought tears while you was uh writing it or sent or uh recording?

SPEAKER_01

Oh, the one I dropped, it's called Go Home.

SPEAKER_06

Go home. Make sure we roll out on that draw.

SPEAKER_01

It's called Go Home. Y'all want to roll out on some sad shit? Damn, I wish I had some unreleased shit, but no, that's cool. Roll out, roll out on the on the on the go home set. Damn.

SPEAKER_05

Uh also uh we want you to get them your names and your ad names and everything too, so they can check you out on Apple Music, Instagram, all that good shit.

SPEAKER_01

Ryan Marcus, everywhere. Ryan Marcus, Apple Music, Spotify, YouTube, uh, Instagram, Ryan Marcus, FTW. That's Ryan Marcus FTW. Um, same on TikTok, same on Twitter, or what is X now? Same on X. I mean, just Ryan Marcus, type me in, you're gonna find me. Sure, bro.

SPEAKER_05

Um, we appreciate you coming through, dog. Appreciate y'all having a channel. Definitely, man. It was seamless, man. We chopped it up in two hours beforehand, made this shit happen. Shit was easy. Shout out to Sim for making it happen. Yes, sir, my dog. Same for making the call. Shout out to Ty for being here. Oh, co-hosting with me, you already know, man. And I'll be back. Oh, for sure. We're gonna make you get back, bro. For sure, man. We're gonna make it happen. We're gonna do some other shit, man. Next time you do a video shoot, I'm gonna try to slide out.

SPEAKER_06

Yeah, for sure. We're gonna do some behind the scenes work with you.