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We Can Share a Bed but Not the Truth | James 'Fish' Gill | Heart Lead Conflict Coach

Becky Felstead Season 2 Episode 8

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What if the stories you tell yourself about love, conflict, and connection are the very things holding you back?

In this episode, James “Fish” Gill gets real about the messy truths we avoid and shows how leaning into them can transform the way you love, lead, and live. You’ll be challenged to:

  • Rethink whether your relationships are genuine partnerships or just “contracts of convenience”
  • Ask if you’re more loyal to your pain than to the people you care about
  • Notice how easily we slip into victim and villain roles without realising
  • Spot when “boundaries” or “healing language” are actually used as weapons
  • Understand why conflict isn’t the end of connection but the price of admission to it

Fish’s Conflict Resolution workshop runs October 16 → https://www.leadbyheart.com/group-coaching

👋 About Becky Felstead | The Resource Podcast host
Becky launched The Resource Podcast during the FIFO Inquiry to spark real talk about culture, mental health, and the hard stuff no one wants to touch. Think truth bombs, tough convos, and healing with humour.
Now she’s back, flipping the script again.

After 40 episodes and 15,000 mining crew later, the podcast is diving deeper into money stress, mindset shifts, relationships, and the stories we tell ourselves.

Expect raw chats, zero fluff, and life-saving honesty. If you’ve ever felt stuck, broke, or burnt out, this one’s for you.

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