Shoulders Down

💍 Choosing Presence Over Weight Loss as a Plus Size Bride— with Jamie

• Leah Kern

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In this episode of Shoulders Down, Leah talks with Jamie (returning guest and close friend) about navigating wedding planning as a plus-size bride — without pursuing weight loss.

Rather than changing her body for her wedding day, Jamie shares how she made intentional accommodations to support comfort, confidence, and presence. Together, Leah and Jamie explore wedding culture pressures, how to prioritize feeling like yourself, and practical advice for planning a wedding in a larger body.

You’ll hear about:

  • Why major life events often trigger body image anxiety
  • Choosing accommodations instead of trying to change your body
  • Navigating photos, expectations, and “picture shock”
  • Letting go of appearance perfection and focusing on meaning
  • Helpful strategies for feeling more comfortable and present in your body

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