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Why your relationships keep failing (and how to break the pattern)

Michaela Mae & Willie the Corgi

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In this raw and vulnerable episode of The Western Hippie Podcast, host Michaela shares her personal story of relationship patterns that kept repeating — even years apart. If you've ever felt like you're stuck in a “déjà vu” loop, this episode is your permission slip to finally break free.

Michaela opens up about past situationships, emotional triangles, and the moment her spiritual mentor helped her realize she had been taking herself for granted. She explains how internal belief systems and subconscious patterns — not just the people we date — shape the outcomes of our love lives.

With emotional depth, spiritual insight, and two powerful tools to rewire your subconscious, Michaela guides you toward self-worth, emotional sovereignty, and healthier relationships from the inside out.

💫 It’s not just about dating better people. It’s about treating yourself like you’re worth being chosen.


LINKS:

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Michaela's contact info: michaela@michaelamae.com or Instagram


CHAPTERS:

0:00 – Welcome + Feeling vulnerable in real time
 3:30 – Why your relationships feel like déjà vu
 6:50 – The first love triangle and choosing friendship over love
 11:45 – Cultural messaging about relationships & self-worth
 15:00 – The second triangle: A repeated pattern years later
 18:20 – Realization: “I’m the common denominator”
 21:10 – Meeting with her spiritual mentor
 23:00 – The breakthrough: Taking yourself for granted
 26:30 – The Law of Reflections explained
 29:15 – Your creator field & how people mirror your beliefs
 33:20 – Why the “honeymoon phase” isn’t the real test
 35:00 – 2 tools to rewire your worth:
 • Journaling: 10 qualities per day for 20 days
 • Nightly brain-training with the Reticular Activating System
 43:45 – The juicer metaphor: Input = Output
 45:30 – Guided Light Healing shoutout + the perfection of Source
 48:10 – Final reminder: You’re not broken — you’ve just been believing you are


KEYWORDS:

relationship patterns, emotional healing, subconscious reprogramming, spiritual self-worth, law of reflection, creator field, trauma-informed relationships, journaling for healing, rewiring your brain, reticular activating system, self-love, personal growth, self-worth in dating, Western Hippie Podcast, guided light healing

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