The Manifestation lab
Welcome to the Manifestation Lab Podcast. A space for Soul Driven investigation of everything health, wealth, business, leadership, spirituality and of course...manifestation✨
Your host, Kelly Howe is an RN, EFT(emotional freedom technique) expert, intuitive, spiritual mentor, educator and podcast host on a mission to demystify what it takes to quantum leap life and business and unlock the magic that is waiting for us all.
From the grounded science to the mystical and unseen we're taking this big experiment we call life and exploring what it really takes to manifest a life that sets your heart and soul on fire.
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The Manifestation lab
Unblocking Business Potential with Psychic Insights & Energy Healing with Master Psychic Carrie Cardozo
Ever wondered how psychic insights could revolutionize your business strategies? Join us for a fascinating conversation with Carrie Cardozo, the "psychic for psychics," where she unveils her unique approach to transforming business potential through the power of intuition. Discover how her intuitive methods help clear obstacles and unlock untapped potential, providing business owners with a new dimension of strategic thinking.
Explore the intriguing world of energy healing and the art of manifestation as we discuss practices like distance energy healing and restructuring personal energy to break free from limiting beliefs. Through Carrie's expertise, we delve into the importance of aligning one's energy across mental, emotional, physical, spiritual, and energetic levels to overcome subconscious barriers and achieve desired outcomes. Gain insights into maintaining a non-attached mindset to keep the flow of positive energy and learn how to actively participate in your own transformation journey.
Carrie also shares her personal journey of discovering psychic abilities amid life's challenges, revealing how loss and unexpected events guided her towards embracing her gifts. We delve into the phenomenon of "psychic amnesia" and discuss the differences between intuition and psychic abilities, shedding light on the significance of connecting with external energies for guidance. With a particular focus on hypothyroidism and its link to the throat chakra, Carrie emphasizes the need to address energy blocks for authentic self-expression and healing. Tune in for an enlightening episode that bridges the mystical and the practical in the quest for business and personal success.
To connect with Carrie visit www.carriecardozo.com
Instagram: @carriecardozo
00:00:05 Exploring Psychic Insights in Business
00:10:26 Shifting Energetics for Manifestation
00:15:14 Healing Past Lives and Ancestral Energy
00:26:09 Discovering Psychic Gifts After Loss
00:30:33 Navigating Business With Psychic Gifts
00:35:59 Understanding Psychic Energy and Channels
00:44:01 Releasing Blocks for Speaking Your Truth
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Welcome to the Manifestation Lab. This is your host, kelly Howe. From the grounded science to the mystical and unseen, we're investigating this big experiment we call life and finding what really works when it comes to manifesting a life that sets your heart and your soul on fire. Welcome to the lab. Hey friends, welcome back to the Manifestation Lab. It has been a little bit. I've been working on a million projects and really excited to have my guest on today. I know you guys are going to love her.
Kelly Howe:You know I love to talk to the intuitives and the psychics, and today my guest is Carrie Cardozo. She is a master psychic. She calls herself the psychic for psychics and she's incredible. We talk about so much today, but I really want you all to stick around for the end, because I hadn't been planning on doing it, but my guides were in my ear and so I went ahead and asked her about one of my biggest blocks that I'm working through right now, and she very quickly honed into it and gave me some really, really incredible, powerful information that is going to help me move through that.
Kelly Howe:Now you guys know, if you've been listening to the show, I constantly having issues with my hypothyroidism and just when you feel like you've kind of laid it to rest and you know you've done all the healing that can possibly be done, it pops up again. So here I am again. It feels like, honestly, I'm really putting my head down and working on my book and my other creative projects, and it's like the harder I try to work towards it, it feels like my soul has foot on the gas pedal and my body has a foot on the brake right now. So I've got this tug and pull going on in the inside. I've been dealing with a ton of fatigue and just feeling exhausted, feeling unmotivated. The brain fog has been on fricking real Um. But it turns out, you know. I went back and saw my doctor and, sure enough, my hypothyroidism is very, very uh much rearing its head right now. So I can't help but think that the creative process is somehow flaring that up again. I've experienced this so many times. So it's really fun to talk to Carrie and get her insight. So stick around till the end of the show.
Kelly Howe:Carrie Cardozo, you are going to love this episode. I'd love to hear from you. If you get a chance, drop a five-star review, leave me a comment, reach out in the DMs, let me know if there's someone you want to hear, if there's a topic you want me to cover. I really, really love hearing from you guys, so enjoy the show. It's lovely to meet you. I love having psychics on the show and I know that you are a master, psychic, seven-figure business mentor, podcaster probably a million other things that I don't even know about, but really a pleasure to have you on the show. So welcome, and maybe let's start with just talking about what it is that you do with business owners and how you bring the psychic factor into that. Absolutely.
Carrie Cardozo:So, as a psychic, I have many different things that I am able to do, so one of those is being able to look at the future, being able to read the energetics around things, and this is really, really beneficial in businesses, because oftentimes in businesses we do go on strategy and statistics and what we know works from time and time again, but what I have found with business is that a lot of the times, that keeps us in a steady growth, but what really allows us to make leaps and bounds is by reading the energetics.
Carrie Cardozo:So by reading the energetics of what your business can do or what's possible for it, or even reading the energetics on an interaction that you're going to have, so people that you hire, contracts that you get into, the marketing that you're doing, allows you to really understand what the result is going to be in order for you to adjust to those energetics. So I do consulting for businesses to tell them what I see for their business. Whether it is because they're partnering with somebody, because they're launching a new product or a new offer, because they're changing a whole direction on their business, they want to make a bigger impact, and so by being able to read the energetics, I can help them in order to do that. So, and it's really beneficial when we do that?
Kelly Howe:Yeah, I find that to be so true. You know, I don't have the psychic touch anywhere close to what you do, but I do tarot readings for the business owners that I work with and, um, I just I have enough of that insight when I'm doing sessions with people that I can kind of feel into timelines and help them make decisions and, um, I wish it was clearer. You know it gets clearer over time, but but I find that that's so true and so many people come to me because they have this strategy and they've been kind of like banging their head against the table like doing the same strategy, strategy, strategy. But there's just something else inside, and so I understand that you help people move energetic blocks out of the way to open up that wealth. Expansion so can you talk a little bit about that as well? Expansion so can you talk a little bit about that as well?
Carrie Cardozo:Yeah, absolutely so, you know, they say, which I'm not sure how much. I totally believe with this, but you know, science says that 85% of our thoughts and our beliefs and the things that we actually live our life by our programming is unconscious to us. So one of my gifts is being able to see beyond what you understand is blocking you. So someone will come to me and be like, oh, I just am not receiving money, I don't know what it is. And I'm like, no, that's not actually your issue. And so I can see what's really blocking somebody from receiving money or from putting themselves out there, from using their voice, any of those things.
Carrie Cardozo:And then what we do is we go in in order to switch the energetics. So we go beyond mindset. So instead of just saying like, let's say, somebody was having a block to receive, instead of just saying something like I'm open to receive, I'm open to receive, we actually look at why they're blocked from receiving. What is that? And we switch the energetics so everything holds energy. And if there's something with inside the body that is misaligned, if we restructure the energetics, then what happens is is that changes everything emotionally, mentally, physically and spiritually with inside their body, so that it's not just that mindset shift, but their entire energetics are supporting what they want to do.
Kelly Howe:Oh yeah, I love that you're talking about that. I find that that's the case with so many people when they come to me, they've been doing affirmations and just doing the heady mindset work and there's just been something missing on the inside. So for you, what is your specific flavor of seeing their blocks? So are you literally energetically seeing inside the body? Do you see through your third eye? I love to get into the nitty gritty of like how each psychic does that.
Carrie Cardozo:So one of the unique things about me is I have every psychic gift. So when we walk into a room we, like you know, like how do you function on this planet?
Kelly Howe:You had to learn.
Carrie Cardozo:I did have to learn. I really did and you do. But like I'll walk into a room and you see, hear, feel everything that's going on in the room with your normal human senses, I do that with my psychic senses, so I can hear, see, feel and know all at the same time. So I did have to learn how to use like one versus the other. You also have to really learn how to understand what you're being shown. So when I see somebody or I'm working with somebody, I can see the energetic blocks in their system. So I'm also a medical intuitive. There's nothing in the spiritual world or psychic world I can't do so.
Carrie Cardozo:Somebody will you know? Somebody asked me the other day they're like, how does my body look? And I was like, well, your stomach looks very acidy. It also looks like it's not, you know, collecting nutrients and this is causing this. This. She goes yep, that's what my doctor just said. So like I can see that. So when I look in somebody, I can see where there's an energetic block. I can see where the energy isn't. Energy should flow through us, okay, we should be like this vessel of, like energy cycling through our body and for each person. The hard part about that is. Each person it's different, but I can. Once I look at you, I know what your energy is supposed to be doing. It's just one of these things.
Kelly Howe:So everybody's blueprint is a little bit different. Like there's no one, yeah, okay.
Carrie Cardozo:Yeah, like some people's energy can flow in through the um, in through the right side of their body, cross through their heart, come out the left, come back up, and then other people's can just go one circuit, like not making a figure eight.
Kelly Howe:Oh, so interesting.
Carrie Cardozo:So it's really, it's really different. But I can see that. But I can also see what thoughts are going on in their head, what they're really thinking underneath, and I can also see what's happened in their childhood. And then I can hear, like if your guide steps in and says, oh, they're really struggling with this, I can hear that. So I get multiple layers of it, which helps me to understand exactly what you're going through.
Carrie Cardozo:Like I was working with a woman yesterday who all of a sudden had this immense fear of dying and she's like I do not know where this came from. Like and I said, you know one thing you do need to understand like the world is in this upheaval right now. So lots of fears are coming to the surface. This is just a prominent fear for you. What it looks like is when you were five years old, you had a major loss. I said, and it looks, I see this little girl major loss, and you didn't understand and you kind of just blocked out.
Carrie Cardozo:She's like my best friend died when I was five and I was like, oh my God, you know. Like this is why it's coming to the surface, you didn't process it correctly. Then let's process it, let's clear this energetics, so I can see those things that people either forgot about or didn't realize. And as soon as I said it, she started crying. She was like, oh my God, I never imagined this. This affected me the way that it has. She was like I never really thought I was, like I was five, it wasn't that big of a deal, but it then transpired into so many things happening in her life because of that incident that as a five-year-old she couldn't process correctly.
Kelly Howe:Yeah, we just don't have the skills and the tools at the time and the consciousness, and even when something happens to us at 30, most of the time we don't have. If it's really big, we don't have the tools to do that and wow, that's so powerful, keri. So when you're helping someone energetically clear, what does that look like for you? Do you do hands-on healing? What does that look like? So?
Carrie Cardozo:I do most of my stuff distance. The only people I ever do hands-on healing for are my children, and it's not all the time. It's like if they come in and they're like I really don't feel good, I'll be like come sit down. But it's more of I'm still doing everything through visual, through connecting with energetics from a distance. So when I do energy healing I have my own specific modality and I mix a lot of different things together. I'm not taught by anybody else but myself. I've never taken a class on psychic energetics, nothing like that. It's all. I'm all like self-taught book guides like guide. Source Sure.
Kelly Howe:Remembering probably from many other times.
Carrie Cardozo:Very, very yes, that's a great way to put it. So I will see them in my mind's eye and I'll see their energetics and I will start. I will connect with the energy and then I start moving it. So I restructure the energy from what I see by releasing the things that do not serve, and I understand why they're there. Because whenever we have energy with inside of us, we have allowed it subconsciously, by a conscious choice, whatever that is, so it can come right back if we don't understand why it's there.
Carrie Cardozo:So if we're holding this energy of I don't deserve wealth, but we don't understand why we don't deserve it, we could say all we want, I deserve wealth, I deserve wealth, I deserve wealth.
Carrie Cardozo:But if it actually led from this idea that when you were a child which is very common parents will say oh, that's not fair, you have to share that with your siblings, or everyone needs to be invited to the birthday party, or it's not fair, we start teaching ourselves that I don't deserve more than other people. So you just saying I deserve wealth, deserve wealth, doesn't change it. But by me saying to you this is what I see, this is this unconscious thought is that I can't have more than other people. You get to start aligning with. No, I get to have more than other people. It is okay for me to receive all that I desire, that I desire. So we're switching what you would actually say, but we're also switching those energetics. So we're pulling the energetics out that are aligned with I don't deserve this or I can't have this and we're bringing the energetics in of whatever it is that you want to align to. That's beautiful.
Kelly Howe:Do you find that just being able to put consciousness on it and to share? Hey, I see this. This is what I see happening. Does that, just putting that consciousness on it start to move the energy all by itself? A hundred?
Carrie Cardozo:percent, a hundred percent. You know, one of the things that I see, especially with people my age I'm in my early forties and one of the things that a lot of people will come to me, and I always read the energetic. So I never just assume I'm like, oh, you're like about my age, so this is probably what happened. But if you think about it and as a parent, I was like, wow, I did this too when you're little when we punish our children, we take something they love away, and a lot of people, a lot of adults, have grown up with this idea that if I love something, a lot, it's going to be taken away. And so they have a hard time manifesting or holding something they truly desire because there's a fear around it being taken away. And so when we start to reprogram that, even mentally yes, because I do the energetics, but you as a person would have all these other things to do you would have to reprogram your mind, you would have to start tapping into new emotions, you would have to take new actions, and one of the things you would have to tell yourself is wait a second, I get to keep all the things that I love. Nobody's taking my things away from me. I get to hold these and I deserve them, so you do have to do.
Carrie Cardozo:I say we work on five levels. We work on the mental level, the emotional level, the physical, which is the body, but also in action. The spiritual level, as well as the energetic. Those are all different. We have to shift on every single level. I'm normally responsible for helping people find the information on how to do these, but I'm responsible for the energetic shifting. You're responsible for all the others. I'll tell you how to do them, but that's that practice and those habits and that implementation that people have to do on their own.
Kelly Howe:Okay, do you find that if somebody is really stuck in just doing primarily mindset work and really just beating their head over and over again with these affirmations, do you find that that can actually be counterproductive? Yes, have you noticed that at all?
Carrie Cardozo:Yeah, yes, because there is a fine line between desire and desperation for something we want to be in. This desire, just like this, feels so good, like when I manifest something, I'm just in a sense like if I don't get it, I don't get it, it's fine, I don't care, and so that has a very light energy. If we get in this place of I need this, I need this, I need this, and desire can switch very quickly, so subtle, yeah, yeah, and then we actually push it away. It takes longer to get here, no matter how bad we want it. We kind of choke the energy. So you know, when you kink a hose, we're kinking the energetic flow towards us. By desperately needing something or like, really like, holding onto it too tightly, we cut off that flow of energetics that's flowing to us.
Kelly Howe:Yes, yes, I see that too all the time and, like I said, I call myself a mindset coach, but it's really just because people it's not easy to be like. Well, really, what I'm going to do is work with the physical body and we're going to get in and reprogram things at a deep subconscious level. You know, it's just easier to be like I'm a mindset coach and then, if they keep asking questions, we'll go from there.
Carrie Cardozo:You're right, because sometimes people don't understand it, they don't understand the depths of it and they're like no, I just need to stop thinking this one thing. So you're like, yeah, I'll help you do that.
Kelly Howe:Yeah, and you know, I mean it works when it works right, like I've had times when affirmations have shifted my energy really quickly and it's almost like it happens so fast it's wild. And then there's been other times when it's literally like nothing is happening and then I find myself feeling frustrated and pissed off and it's not working, you know. So I kind of have a beef with some mindset practices in that way where it's like it is more than just shifting your thoughts. There's such a deep, energetic, subconscious aspect to it, spiritual aspect to it, that I'm glad that there's people like you out there talking about it and that I get to sit with you and talk about these things. So, carrie, how much do you see? Do you do past life work with people at all?
Carrie Cardozo:I do every yeah.
Kelly Howe:Yeah, I kind of figured you did so. How often do you see that where it didn't even come from this life, it's like many, many lifetimes of persecution or just really really ugly wealth scarcity situations. How often do you see that?
Carrie Cardozo:Yeah, I do see that pretty often and there's two parts to it. So one of the things when we're talking energetics everything that you experience in a past life you have the opportunity to hold in this life. But also, coming into with those energetics in this life, you're immediately going to reproduce the situation. So, although people are like, oh, it's a past life and I love doing past lives and we do healing in past lives and all that kind of stuff it also can be healed in this life. So one of the things that I see people say it's a past life so I can't heal it. You absolutely can heal it in this life. So I just want to make that clear.
Carrie Cardozo:But it is really interesting to go into a past life and to be able to say, oh my gosh, I made a vow of poverty in this life and you carry it into this next life that you have. Or in the past, you know five past lives that I've had. I've been struggling for money. Or I'm in this servitude energy where I just give, give, give, give, give, and it's really eye-opening for people to be like gosh. That's why I feel this way, that's why I have these thoughts, that's why they can't place it in this life, maybe because it came through. You know DNA and generational stuff, maybe because it was. You were so little when you, when your parents, were struggling that you just can't consciously remember. But when we go into a past life, oftentimes it'll feel so familiar. People will be like, oh my God, this makes so much sense, yeah, so, yeah, I do see that often.
Kelly Howe:Like the light bulb goes on, yeah, and then the shift can happen, yeah.
Carrie Cardozo:Especially because we are in a period right now, and especially moving into 2025.
Carrie Cardozo:I do like a year forecast every year. I've done it for eight years, I think, and so we're moving into a period where we are healing and rebalancing karmic energy. So that means that a lot of things that are happening in your life in this lifetime right now are connected to past lives. They're connected to where you gave your power away, because part of the place that we are at in evolution of the soul okay, so not just this life, but evolution of all the lives you've had and we're coming into more consciousness and we're putting ourselves kind of like all the pieces back together. So we're coming into more consciousness and we're putting ourself kind of like all the pieces back together. So we're bringing memories from past lives into this life to be whole and complete, not in just this life, but in almost every life that we have. So all of our consciousness that we have and experience as the soul that we are is coming all back together. So we will see more past life stuff and karmic stuff for people nowadays.
Kelly Howe:That's exciting and also it's going to be a lot, I would imagine.
Carrie Cardozo:Yes, it is, it's already.
Kelly Howe:It already feels like a lot. Yeah, Do you find that there's a difference between as far as like the ease of shifting energy, as far as if it's something that's ancestral, maybe something that's been in a bloodline for hundreds, thousands of years, you know, or something that just happened, maybe 10 years ago? Is there a difference in the?
Carrie Cardozo:I've always wondered if there's a difference in how that shifts for people like you that work with that, there is. So what is the like? From easiest to hardest to shift and it's more, just, more challenging, or something that happened in this lifetime. And the thing with if something happened 10 years ago, I guarantee you I can find it, something that relates to it, that happened in this lifetime. And the thing with if something happened 10 years ago, I guarantee you I can find it, something that relates to it, that happened in the first seven years of your life. Every single thing that's ever gonna happen to you happens in the first seven to eight years of your life, and then it's just on repeat.
Kelly Howe:I find that to be absolutely true, as well, we just see it differently.
Carrie Cardozo:So, but healing something that has happened to you specifically in this life, so something that has happened, you know, maybe 10 years ago, 15 years ago versus something that's been passed down from generation to generation to generation is absolutely easier to heal, absolutely, because you have a direct connection to it and most of the time you're, it's just, it's just a lesson or experience or or reframe for you, where, when we're healing something that's generational, we're healing it for everybody in the family, where it's a big energy that we're shifting the course of your family's life, of the trajectory of the family's path that it's on. It can feel very, very heavy. So, but what's rooted? It's like, yeah, it is, but there is this weird dynamic because here let me share this with you because it's very interesting so the only time you've ever been connected with your family's DNA is in this life. So your last life you were connected to a different family's DNA and the time before that you were connected to a different family's DNA.
Carrie Cardozo:So you've only been connected to this DNA for however old you are, so you can also have remnants of your old family's DNA from a past life, wow. So there's different ways to clear it. But there's also can be deeper connections to the family in a past life, especially if it was more traumatic than the actual genetics of the family in this life. So I you know I don't understand the science of it or know like the science of it, basically, but I know there have been studies done of the impact of your genetics versus your energetics and it really does depend on the person as to which one has more of a pull on them. I meet some people that they don't. They're not affected by the generational lineage of their current family, but they are drastically affected by the energetics from their past families. So it's an interesting dynamic a lot of the times when you look at that.
Kelly Howe:I always have to wonder too if it just purely comes down to what the soul is working on learning this time around. And going back to what you said, because I'm totally with you I feel like everything that's happened that needs to be healed will show up in this life. So people come to me and they're like I'm blocked, and a lot of times I'm like let's not dig for it right away. Like let's just talk about what's going on right now, like what is glitchy, what is getting? You know what's hanging you up right now, who's frustrating you? You know what relationships are difficult. Like let's talk about that first, because everything that needs to be healed is is happening right, like whatever, whatever it was it was.
Kelly Howe:But I find it so interesting because some people move through things very quickly if we identify what's happening right now. And then I always have wondered like maybe it's just older souls or souls that have already kind of learned that lesson and they're like now I want my person, now I want to know, I want to learn more about past lives. And I think for me personally, I've just always kind of wondered if I needed to see some of these past lives so that I would open to it and stopped rejecting it, stop blocking the awareness that that could be quote unquote real, because I think my very logical mind can get in the way and be like that's not real. And so if I can heal everything talking about my childhood, then I'm just going to do it and I just think that as a soul, I was like no, no, no, no, no, no, no. There's so much more, there's so much more.
Carrie Cardozo:Yeah, and it's so true and it's different for everybody. So souls definitely decide they're like I'm coming into this life to do something very specific. So I channeled this thing called soul theory. And soul theory helps you to understand the different designations, so the different purposes that your soul came into this life to be a part of. And every soul came into this life to choose a very specific purpose, and that purpose also holds challenges and lessons and healing and embodiment.
Carrie Cardozo:So for some people, making money is no big deal, no big deal at all. It's like it's effortless, it just flows in where for other people it's very challenging for them. But understanding the depths of spiritual knowledge comes very easy. So it really does depend on what your soul chose to experience in this life. For some people we can look at a situation and say, okay, this is going on right now and it's always good to look at what's going on in the moment because you have emotions around it, so we can't ignore that. But they can look at what's going on in the moment, never have to go back to when they were child, never have to go back to a past life. They can switch that energy and keep going.
Carrie Cardozo:And then there's other people that have to do multiple steps and go back to this life and where it originated, then back to a past life where it originated and then understand how it impacts their consciousness in this life. So everyone's at a different level and it really is about your soul's journey and what it wants to experience. And so often when we're remember when I explained that we're bringing everything back together. So for you, if you needed to see multiple past lives, it's because you're ready to embody who you were and what you were able to achieve and what really exists for you and what's possible all in one place in this life. And I see that a lot with people on really accelerated ascension and enlightenment paths. So lots of psychics deal with that accelerated ascension and enlightenment paths. So lots of psychics deal with that. And lots of people on a real deep spiritual journey deal with that kind of stuff, with having to go back and witness past lives.
Kelly Howe:Yeah, Thank you for sharing that. It's very validating. Everything you said just resonates so so deeply. So thank you for that, Carrie, I'm curious did you have this gift right off the bat when you were a child?
Carrie Cardozo:So I did, but I didn't realize that I had it. So I would see things or know things, or you know, there was a spirit in my mom's house. Growing up I saw it. But anytime I mentioned it my mom was like yeah, yeah, yeah, it's okay, it's okay. She was super busy running businesses. And I just think that she kind of just was like, oh yeah, no, that's fine. Or she'd be like, oh, you're just, it's just a daydream, it's just a dream, you're fine. And so I went through life just being like okay, this is normal, this is how everybody is.
Carrie Cardozo:And as a child I saw major events in my life. I'm talking divorces, cancers, deaths, pregnancies, you name it. I saw it and then, when it started to unfold, I was at this place of. I remember I was talking to my cousin at one point and I was like I was really frustrated. I was going through a divorce, I was young, I was 28 at three children and I'd had a lot of things happen to me in a short period of time. I got pregnant unexpectedly at 19, wasn't planned. I had cancer at 26, going through a divorce at 28.
Carrie Cardozo:And I was just like I'm so frustrated with life. But I guess I shouldn't be, because I've seen all of this happen. We see what's going to happen in our life, so why? I don't understand. I just wish I wasn't frustrated. I knew this was going to happen, it's just. And she's like what do you mean? You knew it was going to happen. And I was like, well, I've seen these. Like I saw the exact events unfold when we were little, like we get to see that we know what's going to happen. And she was like no, we don't. What are you talking about? And I just remember the moment being like what do you mean? You don't see that stuff. Like you don't see. You weren't, you didn't know like this stuff was going to happen.
Carrie Cardozo:And she's like no so and I kind of just like, again, I was going through a divorce. I was 28 and three young kids and I kind of ignored it. And, um, I started a really impactful career, went through a divorce, met an amazing guy and we started to really build a life together and about five years later he unexpectedly passed away. Five years from the conversation I had with my cousin, my fiance passed away and in that moment my entire life changed, and not just because, like, everything I'd ever planned for my future was gone. It was gone. We were buying a house, the closing stopped, everything was gone.
Carrie Cardozo:But from that moment I was on this mission. I wasn't raised religious, so I didn't really I never even thought about what happened on the other side or when you passed, I never even gave it a thought. And I went on this journey to understand like where did he go? Where is he? Why do I, why can I still feel him?
Carrie Cardozo:And I went and had a couple sessions with, had a session with a shaman, with a medium and with, like a psychic medium a little bit different than just a standard medium. And what happened was is, every single time I had a session with them, they were like you're psychic, like he's telling us that he's telling me that he only communicates with you. You can hear him, you can see him. He will not, he won't even speak to me, he won't give me information. And it started like everything that I started to see and feel and know. I was like, oh wow, this isn't normal and I really went on this deep dive and from that moment I could see him, I could hear him, like I just started paying attention to all the things I'd been doing for years but didn't realize that I was doing Wow.
Kelly Howe:Well you've been through so much. I'm so sorry to have that kind of loss, but what a beautiful thing that you had the gift and it was sort of the key to unlocking that for you that painful initiation into that.
Carrie Cardozo:Yeah, and it really was. I was angry for a couple of years. I had to do really deep healing. I really did. I was just angry at the universe. But now, 10 years later, I absolutely can look at it and be like it was the biggest gift, like I know that people leave this world when they're supposed to. There is no accidents when people pass. It doesn't matter what it is and it's very hard for people to hear. But having experienced it and being so angry, but coming out on the other side of being like it was always supposed to be that way and it was the biggest gift I was ever given. Not his death, but in his death I was given this huge realization of what I'm supposed to be doing and what's possible and who I am, and all this access to the other side that I did have. But I was living a very different life than what I live now. So it was, it was a huge gift in his party.
Kelly Howe:Yeah, yes, what kind of, uh, what kind of work did you do before you decided to step into psychic mediumship? All the things that you do?
Carrie Cardozo:So I was a stay at home mom for 10 years and during that, during my stay at home time, I or at least nine years during that stay at home time I started a couple like MLM businesses. I had one that I had made like $80,000 in a year and then they like restructured it and I was like, screw it, I'm not doing this. But when I got divorced, I went in and started managing a pretty big company that had or corporation that had six different companies inside of it. A pretty big company that had or corporation that had six different companies inside of it. And so I helped that company grow from about $4 million a year to $16 million a year, running the whole company.
Carrie Cardozo:And so after Mike passed, very shortly after, I was kind of forced out of that company. There was a tragedy with Inside the Business. It ended up in a legal battle and so I was let go from that company. I just wouldn't cooperate illegally with what somebody had asked me to do and so I was therefore let go. And so from that moment it was about six months after Mike passed that I was let go and I was just like I will never spend my time developing and running and building someone's business, to have it all just taken away. I loved the work that I did, so I've always and growing up my mom has always run her own business and own her own business, so we worked inside of that as kids. So I've always just been in the business realm and so it just made sense to me to start using my psychic gifts in business.
Kelly Howe:So that's how I got into it. Yeah, I'm so glad you did. Was it hard at all? Did you notice that you had any fears once this opened up, or was it just like easy peasy? No, it was not easy peasy?
Carrie Cardozo:No, not at all. And it was frustrating because I'd always been so good in business, always so good in business, and then all of a sudden, I worked with a lot of like really professional men and I worked in a very male dominated industry. So lawyers, accountants, investors, realtors, you know, doctors which there were some female doctors as well and here I was. I was like, oh, now I'm psychic. You know, I just felt like God, this seems so bizarre. I'm just like my fiance dies and then all of a sudden I'm like I can see him and now I'm psychic. I was like I feel like a lunatic, like I'm crazy.
Carrie Cardozo:I really did Like, as psychic as I am and as much as I love spiritual stuff, I'm very much grounded in reality and I know what things look like and I'm very logical about that. So it was very hard for me and although my guides kept saying, call yourself a psychic, call yourself a psychic, call yourself a psychic, I was like, do you know what I think of psychics? You know, like I just was so torn between like growing up and being like psychics are crazy or they're just a woo woo, or like it's like a circus act. And now you're like you want me to be a psychic in business. So it was really hard.
Carrie Cardozo:I struggled for the first God, probably 18 months, struggled Like. I came out from making a good, hefty six figure income to making like a thousand dollars a month, and it was hard. Yeah, single mom solely responsible for my children. Um, luckily I had a big savings going into this and I had a lot of room on credit cards, but I did ruin my credit. I went into heavy debt, excuse me, and um, but I will tell you what. The minute I started openly calling myself a psychic as hard as it was I started making $10,000 a month and it has never changed. It's only gone up from there.
Kelly Howe:So, but it wasn't easy to be like I'm a psychic and this is what I do, okay, Thank you for sharing that, because I think for so many of us there's there's just so much to work through just in getting to that place where it's like I still don't really like calling myself a psychic. I have friends that call me a psychic and I'm like no, no, no, no. Like I'm intuitive, but I'm not quite there yet, you know. But just so much weird resistance.
Carrie Cardozo:You know some of it.
Kelly Howe:some of it logical because it's it's so clear that it's unacceptable in certain places and some conversations, you know, where we're not met with curiosity and love and compassion. I think when I was a kid, when I would inquire about things like ghosts and spirits and you know I was always really curious about that. But thank you for sharing that because I think that's that's such a common experience for people that it's really freaking hard in the beginning to just like own it, and so I just really appreciate you authentically sharing that and it is and I think like so part of my business.
Carrie Cardozo:Half of my business is consulting for businesses and telling them what to do, but the other half is I teach people how to master their psychic skills so I can see what everyone's supposed to be doing in this life with their psychic abilities. It's one of my gifts and, because I can do everything in the spiritual world, I can teach anybody how to do anything in the psychic world anything, and I've been doing this since 2017. I have massive programs, I have a school for psychics and I will tell you what I work with some really powerful leaders, really confident women, and when they start tapping into their psychic gifts, they're like, wow, I'm not confident. And it's exactly how I felt. I was just like I'm so good at everything that I do, from sports growing up to school to playing instruments. It was like I was a top of my industry and everything. And then, when you look at opening your psychic abilities, you're like, oh, wow, okay, it's just a different thing, and part of it is because it's very hard to prove it.
Carrie Cardozo:So, as anything else we do in life, just by taking an action, we prove something, oftentimes with psychic gifts or psychic insights. It can take months to years to have something unfold that we see. Or we're telling people what happened in past life and they're like prove it. And you're like how do I prove it? You know, and especially if you're new to it, if you're new to that, your psychic gifts you don't fully understand. Like, I can prove almost anything. I prove all the time that I'm psychic, but when you're first starting it, that's a very, very challenging and especially like I remember I did a session for this one girl.
Carrie Cardozo:I don't remember what she asked me, but we were live on Facebook Live and it was probably about 2018 and she said something and I was like well, that's because of the loss of your grandmother and missing her. And she was like my grandma's still alive. And I was like she's telling me she's not. And then she died when you were very, very young. Like I'm going to say like you were a baby. And she's like no, that doesn't resonate with me, it doesn't resonate with me, whatever. And I was like okay, I just want you to sit with us because she's really telling me this, you know, she ended up messaging me the next day and she was like I am so sorry. Oh my God, I thought my mom because you were so convicted in this, and she was like yeah, she actually died a very long time ago. She's not alive. I guess she had like never met her grandma.
Kelly Howe:I don't even know.
Carrie Cardozo:And that's what happens to a lot of psychics. Is it even happened to me? The first medium I went to see. She said to me does the name Robert resonate? And I was like no, it doesn't. No, it doesn't. I was so convicted. And she's like he's laughing and he's saying she was talking to Mike, my fiance, my fiance who had passed. And she's like he's laughing and saying yes, it does, and I'm like it doesn't. Driving home, I was like, oh my God, that was his middle name. Oh my God.
Carrie Cardozo:And like my, daughter used would call him it. But we get into this space, people, when we're receiving information, we're in a session. It can be very emotional and very deep that we are positive. The psychic is wrong and the psychic has no way to prove it, other than here's some information that can be very taxing on a person. I teach my psychics how to navigate through that and deal with that and how to make sure that their information is true and then how to just let it go Because that will mess with your confidence. And people say it to me all the time. And then they always come back and they're like you were right. So you learn very quickly, but it's very uncomfortable to start, very uncomfortable.
Kelly Howe:I wonder what that is. I think that psychic amnesia is like so real and I've had that happen to me too when I've had readings. I don't know what that is. I don't know if there's some sort of like energetic thing that happens that makes my rational brain go offline, or if it's so vulnerable, something shuts down our brain so we can't access memories or things. But I've had that happen so many times where I just feel like I almost go brain dead, like but I'm gonna talk about this because we walked ourself into it.
Kelly Howe:But I've been talking to you the whole time and I noticed this when I talked to intuitives where I get sometimes it's almost hard to like hear and see you because it's almost like there's like a tunnel of energy between when I'm talking to different intuitives. I would love if you have any insight about what that is. And I actually had a gal on recently where she kind of was like going back and forth between doing a reading with me and I was like I did not do a good job podcasting with her because I didn't think about it in advance that I do that, and so if you have anything to say about that, I'd love to hear.
Carrie Cardozo:Yeah, so here's what happens, and it happens a little bit in sessions, but also when you're whether you're with a mediums, us sitting here now as psychics, energy workers, mediums, all of those, anyone who really communicates with energy. So here's my little caveat. I will tell you cause you said well, my friends call me psychic, but I'm just intuitive.
Kelly Howe:I disagree with you.
Carrie Cardozo:Here's the difference. Okay, people who are intuitive get information connected with the energetics that are inside of them. It's your intuition. It's the energy that your soul holds, that your cells hold, that experience hold. That's your intuition. If you are connecting with anything outside of yourself, that is psychic gifts, you are connected with energy outside of yourself. That's psychic.
Kelly Howe:Interesting. I've never thought about that, but that's very clear. Thank you for that's psychic Interesting.
Carrie Cardozo:I've never thought about that, but that's very clear. Thank you for that. Yeah, but and I have psychics who are like I'm intuitive because psychic is too hard for me, and I totally understand that, and I and I do, and there's even times I'll talk to them Like I'm ready to own it.
Kelly Howe:I'm ready to own it. I just feel like I'm not skilled enough to you know what I mean. I'm like I'm not there yet. Yeah, I totally understand.
Carrie Cardozo:So this is important because psychics are constantly pushing out and receiving energetics outside of themselves. So as I'm talking, I know how to hold really big energy. I have really big energy. My energy is constantly giving and receiving and it works in a very flowing way. So when you speak to a psychic who does that, you're automatically brought into the energetics because our energy will magnetize your energy, which pulls you in, and the only thing you can focus on is like what the energy is pushing towards, what the energy is showing you.
Carrie Cardozo:So for some people, it's my energy that I hold, versus maybe the words that I'm saying. For other people, it's like you can't think to ask a question because you're so focused on the words that somebody is speaking. So it really depends on the situation. So when you're in a reading, what happens is is you're pulled into that energy and you're really you're connecting with almost the same energy that the reader is connecting with and you're feeling all these things that are unknown to you. But because maybe your channels aren't open, you're feeling the energy but you can't process what you're actually feeling because the channels for receiving aren't open. That makes sense.
Carrie Cardozo:So like whenever I coach psychics all the time and my psychics will say I'm so much more psychic in your energy and I'm like, okay, but it's because they're my energy. Whenever we're around an energy and this is kind of how we manifest is that ideally the stronger of the two energy will alter yours. So if somebody's really angry or sad or mad, if you're in connection with them, their energy is more than likely stronger than yours. All of a sudden you start feeling very low, very down, very vulnerable, very just like frustrated. Where, if you're connecting with somebody who's open and their energy is expansive and they're a psychic and they're tuned in, then what happens is your psychic energy is elevated as well. So you start receiving very fast and I can take. One of my gifts is that I can take anybody and I can. You can become a psychic in my presence the first time we meet. What that's cool.
Carrie Cardozo:I can alter your energetics. So I take people on like shamanic journeys. I raise their vibration, open their channels so they can receive exactly what they need to receive. Then I teach them how to do it themselves. Wow, you feel that energy shift that psychics can hold. You feel that, because we're projecting energy and receiving energy all the time, you're in that flow that you're feeling and receiving it.
Kelly Howe:Yeah, okay. So I think that all resonates so deeply.
Carrie Cardozo:And you're psychic too, so you have it as well. So your channel is open. So you're receiving probably faster and at a deeper level than somebody who is more closed off to it. When I talk to somebody who's closed off to psychic stuff, I can feel it right away and I can adjust how I say things. So I can adjust the words that I use, because their energy won't be as receptive of the things I'm putting out as yours would be.
Kelly Howe:Yeah, yeah, that's so funny. I was telling somebody that the other day, actually, that I'm trying to come up with how to do a meme on this, but it's like that moment when I'm feeling someone's energy and I'm trying to figure out if I'm going to tell them a mindset coach or a manifestation coach. Yes, yes, like. I'm like are you a muggle or you're open? Okay, you're open. Yeah, let's go there. So I love that. You said that this has been so impactful, keri, how easily do you switch between being able to do a conversation like this and reading somebody's energy and seeing things?
Carrie Cardozo:Yeah, so my psychic channels are never closed. I'm always channeling and receiving information at all times and I didn't realize it until I work with guides very closely and because this is my life purpose. There's been a lot of really interesting things that have happened and one of them is my abilities were all shut off for a three-month period of time Totally add none. And that really helped. Like I would sit in on mediumship sessions with my friend and I would just be like this is so cool, and she's like you're not getting anything and I'm like no, nothing, literally my head's silent. And it allowed me to see exactly how I'm channeling and connecting 24-7 all the time.
Carrie Cardozo:So through my work and doing this for the last, doing this as work for the last 10 years, I've taught myself how to. I can see stuff, but I don't necessarily receive it Like. I don't look so like if your car door was wide open, I can walk by your car and not have to look in and see all the details, still knowing your car door is open. That's kind of how I am. I can see everybody's energy at all times. I'm just not looking because it can get overwhelming if you're constantly trying to look at everybody's energy.
Kelly Howe:Yes, oh, totally Okay. So I'm going to do something obnoxious, which I wasn't going to do, but I feel like my spirit guides are bugging me. So I've been dealing with a huge block. Are you willing to look and see if you, if you, find anything?
Carrie Cardozo:is that okay?
Kelly Howe:Yeah, yeah. Um, do you want me to tell you anything, or tell me whatever you want to?
Kelly Howe:Yeah, yeah, well, I just here's the thing I could pull up a ton of different blocks for you, but let's focus on the one you really want. Yeah, I am curious Cause I I'm obviously still have a huge energetic block because I'm still dealing with hypothyroidism. So done so much healing in my throat chakra. I wouldn't be able to do this if I hadn't. I've come a long way, but I feel like I keep getting bugged and I'm like, okay, fine, I'll ask.
Carrie Cardozo:Yeah, so what I see? So you're asking what's holding you back from stepping in bigger?
Kelly Howe:Yeah, yeah, I mean, I sense that it's related to the hypothyroidism. You know that I'm. It's like I have my soul has the gas on and my body still has the brake on.
Carrie Cardozo:Yeah, yeah, definitely. But here's what I see and it's one of those things that I can see right away. There's absolutely an aspect of you that is holding yourself back due to judgment and criticism, okay, and it's not just like, oh, I'm psychic, it's not that it goes, it goes deeper than that. So one one of the things that happens is that whenever you're speaking and, yes, thyroid absolutely has connection to the um, the throat chakra, so the words that you're speaking, but it's also associated with your truth, okay. So one of the things that I see, and this is absolutely and I don't know if you're, you know if your family listens to this, but it's absolutely connected to your mom. Okay, I see this a hundred percent connected to your mom, and the way in which you ask for things, the way in which you speak, the way in which you present yourself, and the thing that I see is like I would say, at about three or four years old and this is no judgment on your mom at all, but there was a scolding as to how you acted, what you did, how loud you were that has now caused you to be like it's almost like you censor yourself, like there's a constant program inside of your head that's like oh, is this too loud, is this too big, is this too much, is this too free? Like when I see that little girl, she wants to like laugh and joke and run around and spin and do crazy things and silly things and all of a sudden she's like nope, I have to be polite, I have to be kind, I have to be nice, and not that if you were spinning around, acting crazy, you'd be rude or anything like that. But that's that idea of like I can't be too much, I don't want to be too much, and if I'm too much, it says like it's like a bad thing. It's not that you're overshadowing other people, it's that people will be offended by you being too much. And so there's this aspect of you that is quiet, quiet, quiet and it's directly related to an incident or a connection with your mom. It can also be it's also programming that your mom had of like what is okay, and it was a direct reflection on her parenting, which is why she said it. That's what it looks like to me.
Carrie Cardozo:So, but the block actually starts with inside your base chakra. So, yeah, it's associated with your throat chakra, but what I see is like this silencing. It's not safe to do that. So it's not safe to do that. So we only when our logic says I have a thyroid issue and therefore it's hard for me to speak, that must be where the problem is. And we don't realize the other association with other organs as well as other chakras. So this actually originates in your base chakra.
Carrie Cardozo:So, doing some base chakra work, recognizing that it's absolutely safe to have an opinion about things, even if people don't have the same opinion, it's absolutely important for you to share your opinion. And what it looks like to me is there's a ton of things. If I, it looks like you're like a soda bottle, like a glass one that I want to just pop the top off of, and as soon as you do, all this information will come out, because it's not so much information, it's just like ideas and desires and things you want to create and things you want to do. But there's like this I can't be too much. I can't be too much. So you censor yourself because of the instability. So if I look at your feet, it looks as if you're walking on unsteady ground. So finding that footing really getting solid and committed and creating that foundation to what it is that you, that who, who you are and what it is that you want to do, and that message you're supposed to share to the world is going to allow you to speak, but it's also going to allow you to channel differently. So part of the reason your guides are saying that is because they are giving you a lot of information that you're not always speaking, but they also have a ton of more information that will allow you to speak.
Carrie Cardozo:And what it looks like like if I was going to tell you what your soul designation was. It's what your purpose is here. You're a conscious awakener. Conscious awakeners, what we call conscious awakeners, are people who are here to spread very important messages that haven't been heard before. Okay, and the way you know how. Some people will say that everything's been shared and we're just regurgitating information Absolutely untrue and so you have ability to connect into streams of consciousness, but this fear of actually sharing the unknown or things that don't resonate with people keeps you from actually opening up to hear those things. So if you clear this, you would be that much more psychic, and I would start with your base chakra to actually clear this. Wow.
Kelly Howe:Yes, I can feel myself tearing up, so I know that there's truth to all of this. I mean 100%. I think that I've worked through so many blocks with fear of upsetting my mom or my family or whatever and I don't think she listens to the podcast but I think that she also where I'm open enough with her. I don't think it would be shocking for her to hear that at this point.
Carrie Cardozo:It was nothing malicious Like think about the things. Like, as a parent, I took my kids' toys away, my favorite toys away, and now, like now, we got to heal that we do the best that we can as a mom and whether you're perfect or you're totally imperfect, your children have things to heal, because that's why we come into this life.
Kelly Howe:Right, yeah, I think that, as you were talking, I think that a huge part of this but this feels really clear as you were talking is that a lot of that was like I don't want to be too much, because there was so much stress around me that I didn't want to add onto the stress of any of the other people in the room, and so I really have to be conscious of doing that now, because I can feel other people's stress and so it's like I don't want to do anything to make that worse. So I'm just going to back down, I'm going to get small, and that makes me so sad that I'm still doing that because I've come so far. But I really appreciate you tuning into that.
Carrie Cardozo:You're so welcome, and sometimes it's like when we're supposed to step into our purpose, everyone thinks our purpose should be easy. It's not. It's exposing the most vulnerable, deepest parts of you, and when you're ready to step into your purpose, new layers of this come forward. So you've probably healed this and worked on this a lot and this is just that deeper energetic level. That is like let's clear it for good, kind of thing, because a lot of people will say that they're like I've worked on this.
Carrie Cardozo:I'm like, yes, but it's, you weren't able to work on it at this level. You weren't ready to be like, yes, I'm like yes, but it's, you weren't able to work on it at this level. You weren't ready to be like, yes, I'm going to be a channel. Yes, I'm stepping in here. I'm going to be unapologetic without being rude, like I don't see you as a rude person, you know. So, being unapologetic, being aware of how someone's going to receive this, but also know that you know. One of the things I know for sure is that everything we experience in life we're meant to, whether it triggers us, makes us upset, whatever we're supposed to be hearing it, we're supposed to be experiencing it and it's our job to be able to navigate through it.
Kelly Howe:Yeah, oh, I so appreciate all that. The last five years with COVID there's been a lot that I wanted to talk about, but I, at the same time, was dealing with so much stress and anxiety on a on a physical level, because I think it was like literal terror, like I can't. I can't talk about these things. I had unpopular opinions. I would just I'll just put it there Um, and I was on.
Carrie Cardozo:My YouTube channel got taken down because I was like I don't, I don't, I don't do medication, I'm a healer, yeah, so I am a healer, yeah, so I don't do the mainstream stuff, right, right, my YouTube channel got taken down because of that, wow, good for you? Yeah, I'm very much like, if you're a healer, this is what you should be doing at this time. Yeah.
Kelly Howe:And I just, you know, I just know too much too about how stress creates disease in the body, and so I watched the whole world and I'm like we are doing this wrong, isolating people in their homes and having fearful commercials and billboards everywhere. It was just really it was tough, but it also it was like I wasn't quite able to overcome the inertia of the fear, unfortunately. So I don't know where I am with that now, maybe almost, you know, maybe I still need to talk about some of it, but there's a part of me that's kind of like I'm just ready to like talk about different things you know, yeah, yeah, and I hear you, and it was I even even now.
Carrie Cardozo:I think sometimes when people speak out about stuff like that, there's a lot of people still in fear who attack people for speaking out at things like that.
Kelly Howe:Yeah, it was that attack piece that really triggers the deep, the deep seated root chakra fear. I'm sure that, like I kept telling my husband, I was like this just feels really familiar, like this kind of mob mentality, like like just stay low and stay quiet, like felt very realistically wise, you know, and I hate that, oh, like every speck of my being hated it. But at the same time it was like this just things are crazy right now.
Carrie Cardozo:So, yeah, but if you think about it, a lot of psychics, a lot of women who are psychic, were also witches back in the day and there was this mob mentality of attacking the witches Right. So a lot of the times, a lot of what happened through COVID has triggered past life things for a lot of people on different levels, not just like that witch wound, but a lot of different levels, because history always repeats itself until we shift it. And clearly we have proven we didn't shift it yet.
Kelly Howe:Yeah, yeah, carrie, this has been lovely. Your energy is really wonderful to be in. I appreciate your time and hopefully we can stay in touch Um anything that you have coming up that you want to share with our listeners. Any you know courses or you know anything at all.
Carrie Cardozo:I always have courses going on, but one of the things that I have is I do have a membership, and part of it is there is a free community for people who are on psychic journeys energy journeys, soul line journeys, manifesting any of that and you can find the link to that on any of my social medias. It's called Psychic Elegance, but any of my social medias have it, so anyone who's interested in learning more can come join that free community.
Kelly Howe:Amazing, I feel like I could have a whole other hour of questions for you but this is wonderful. Yeah, wonderful for today, so thank you so much.
