How Misuse of the CTFAR Model Causes Us to Bulldoze Our Nervous Systems

If your body or nervous system isn’t on board when you’re choosing new thoughts to believe, the unconscious programming will, with time usually override those unsustainable affirmations you’re offering up. 

If we want to live that life of freedom, joy, openness, abundance, love, and peace, that comes with befriending our body, not ignoring it. 

And this is the approach we take in Relationship Trauma Certification for Coaches. We’re developing out your relationship with YOUrself, with the language of your body. Learning about your UNIQUE PATTERNS of processing, thinking, manifesting, and healing. Developing the belief that you are the final authority on YOU, and your needs. Learning the language of YOUR body that only YOU know. 

In this episode your host Lindsay Poelman talks about how the CTFAR model can be a great tool to help you in your healing journey, but is not necessarily a substitute for your body's intuition. She discusses things like:

• How it’s a common thing for us to gaslight ourselves as women, 
•  Why we question ourselves when something goes wrong, or something goes amiss.
• How many times have you found yourself questioning your “crazy” in different parts of your life? 
• The abuse culture that has been normalized in our patriarchal society has caused us to internalize the pattern of self-gaslighting self blame, and over responsibility.

Are you a life coach who is ready to become Trauma-Informed? Click here to see if Lindsay's Advanced Relationship Trauma Certification for Coaches is a fit for you.
Want to see what other programs she offers? Check out her website here: Website.
Find me on Instagram : @lindsaypoelmancoaching

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Your host, certified life coach Lindsay Poelman started her journey of intentional healing started when she learned that her husband had been lying to her about pornography use for a greater part of their marriage.  After processing and accepting her circumstance more fully, she found coaching—which propelled her into a forward focused state of empowerment. 

Over the last four years of deep dive/fundamental coaching for women in betrayal (around porn use, spouses coming out around gender identity and sexuality, c

Lindsay’s current program offerings:

• Are you a Certified Coach looking to deepen your skillset by Becoming Trauma-Informed? Click here to see if Lindsay's Advanced Relationship Trauma Certification for Coaches is a fit for you. Our next round starts February 1st!
• Looking for a Trauma-Informed Coaching Certification? It’s time to Become a Trauma-Informed Coach. Learn more about Lindsay's life coach certification here.
• Are you needing help healing from Religious Conditioning, or expanding in your Spirituality–safely? Click here.
• Are you Healing from Betrayal Trauma in your Marriage? Click here.

Check out her website here: Website.
Find me on Instagram : @lindsaypoelmancoaching

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Your host, certified life coach Lindsay Poelman started her journey of intentional healing started when she learned that her husband had been lying to her about pornography use for a greater part of their marriage. After processing a...