What to Remember When Loneliness Hits

Become A Trauma Informed Coach

Become A Trauma Informed Coach
What to Remember When Loneliness Hits
Apr 30, 2025
Lindsay Poelman
Have you ever felt alone—even when surrounded by others? Maybe it crept in quietly, or maybe it hit you like a wave. In this episode, I’m getting real about that feeling of aloneness—why it’s not just 'in your head,' and why your body may actually be trying to protect you. I’ll share the neuroscience behind loneliness, how to regulate your nervous system in those foggy moments, and what helped me personally during some of the hardest seasons of disconnection. If you’ve ever thought, ‘Is it just me?’—this one’s for you. 


00:00 Introduction and Personal Update

00:14 Feeling Alone: Personal Experiences

04:20 Understanding the Biology of Loneliness

10:55 Micro Moments of Connection

14:16 The Power of Naming Shame

18:32 Seeking Safe Spaces and Connection

24:20 Conclusion and Final Thoughts


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Your host, certified life coach Lindsay Poelman started her journey of intentional healing started when she learned that her husband had been lying to her about pornography use for a greater part of their marriage. After processing and accepting her circumstance more fully, she found coaching—which propelled her into a forward focused state of ...

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