Hello and welcome to the Hope Unlocked podcast . I'm your host , Kristin Kurtz , and I'm also the founder of New Wings Coaching , where I empower and unlock women to soar in their calling and roar with their voices . If you're curious to learn more about how coaching can help you unlock your potential , be sure to explore the show notes for ways to connect with me further . Get ready to dive in as we uncover empowering keys and insights in this episode . So tune in and let's unlock hope together . I'm flipping the script a little bit . I had a call with a client yesterday and it was absolutely amazing . Well , I had two calls with clients yesterday and they're both like absolutely amazing . What's really incredible is to be able to what I call freestyle , to go into a coaching call with a client and not really have an agenda , and then you get to the end and you're like , wow , holy Spirit is incredible and it's so fun to go on an adventure with the Holy Spirit and with clients and to see just what he'll do . But anyways , before the call last week , I had talked about things that piss you off and things that you're passionate about , and how they can kind of converge and intersect and really become , in essence , part of your purpose . Like those two things put together , it's like an ingredient for you really walking out part of your purpose . So before I had that call , I just heard I actually got kind of a flip the script little blueprint for what that would look like when I have a call with clients and I just heard , rather than it being pissed off , it's fed up and I'm not going to share all of what he showed me because you need to be a client for me to share all the things with you , because I don't give all my secrets away , but fed up . So that's a big part of I'm very fiery . I may not seem like it on the outside . I've been called like a peaceful warrior and I'll take that . I'll take that . But one of the things that really I get really fed up about , really fed up about well , there's a lot of things I get fed up about , but I'll share today one of the things I get really fed up about and that is seeing women sitting on the sidelines .
Speaker 1I'm going to give you an example and I'm going to share a story of somebody very , very close to me who is wise beyond his age and he had something happen last week or last year . That was completely out of his control , actually , and it did actually sideline him . It kind of benched him for a season , quite literally , and even though he was benched from doing something that he's super passionate about , he showed up , he showed up , he showed up at these places and I'm going to try to keep this . Really . I mean , I could , I could share the fullness of it , but I'm not feeling led to share that right now . But he had an opportunity to just , you know , not not show up , but even though he couldn't do the thing that he was passionate about , he still showed up all the time and was cheering people on and was , in essence , coaching , which is so cool because , yeah , that's a whole other story . So this year came around and he had an opportunity to take part in getting off the bench and this particular person did not make the cut , okay . So , rather than sulking , giving up , he said well , you know , michael Jordan didn't make the freshman basketball team .
Speaker 1And without saying who this was and what this is about , what , what young teenager says that ? What teenager would say , basically , I'm not giving up . This isn't going to like sideline me forever , I'm not going to like throw in the towel . I'm not going to let this crush me . I'm not going to let it keep me from stepping out and doing more things that are that I'm passionate about , because there was a moment that I was like , wow , I wonder how I would have felt back at that age , and I don't think I would have taken it like that honestly .
Speaker 1So , yeah , what I do get fed up about is seeing women sitting on the sidelines having opportunities come your way , but you just don't step out because of fear . There's a lot of things that could to play into that . That you're , you know , just listening to what other people tell you to do . That's actually not part of your purpose . Maybe you're not even passionate about it , but yet you're doing it because it's safe and I get fed up . I get fed up seeing that because I know the fullness .
Speaker 1I can actually see beyond , like my Facebook Live yesterday . I can see beyond what is within people at times , and I think that's partly because I'm I'm an empath , I'm a seer , I'm a feeler , and to be able to , to know that we have so much more that is within us . But we're just , you know , like what ? What is keeping you from moving ? What is keeping you from getting off the sidelines ? Is there something that somebody said to you years ago and you're like oh well , you know , 25 years ago , somebody told me I wasn't good at this , get over it . Okay , I'm going to just say get over it , get over it , get over it . We got to stop looking in the rear view mirror and start moving forward . Have I had times where you know things keep me from moving forward ? Absolutely , but I think that's part of why you know I'm he's truly anointed me to be a lifeguard , and if you don't know what a lifecoach is , feel free to reach out to me .
Speaker 1I operate very differently than even the training that I received seven years ago , but there are so much more within you and I just get fed up . I get fed up when I see untapped potential in women that you know . You're just sitting on the sidelines because you're like oh , I'm not good enough . Oh , somebody told me I couldn't do this . But it's like why are you what ? What's keeping you there ? What's keeping you on the sidelines ? I want to call you up today .
Speaker 1My little ninja coaching question today is what is keeping you stuck ?
Speaker 1What is keeping you stuck ? What is keeping you stuck ? Ask the Lord what is keeping me stuck ? And then I want you to dig in with him and find out what's your next move , because the world is waiting for you . There are people waiting for you to actually step into what you're called to do . They're waiting for your voice to be unleashed . They're waiting for you to create something . They're waiting for you to write your book . They're waiting for you to write a song . Maybe you're called to write a movie , I don't know . You got something in you that you're not unleashing . So I get fed up because when I do get the beautiful opportunity to come alongside women and literally unlock them pretty quickly to do that thing one step at a time , because it's not just an overnight like okay , we're going to go write a movie and it's going to launch the next day , no , you have to actually . Anyway , that is it for now . I got to run into the chiropractor and I think my phone is trying to disconnect me , so have a blessed day , bye .