Coffee House Coaching

Ep 172 Carrie Arnold - Let it go / Bracket it / Tinker your way to better coaching

Gary Nowak Season 4 Episode 172

. Best coaching advice you’ve gotten?

  • “What would it take to let it go?” – helped her shed self-limiting beliefs.
  • Learned during a Georgetown fishbowl coaching session.
  • Empowered her to define herself and step into a bigger space.

2. What are you still trying to improve?

  • Contracting with clients to avoid misalignment.
  • Daily work on presence—removing the “static.”
  • Asking, “Are we still in the right conversation?”

3. Most outrageous/courageous thing you’ve done in a session?

  • Telling a client they might need more support beyond coaching.
  • Delivering hard truths with subtlety and courage.
  • Felt “the clench” but leaned into trust and honesty.

4. What still makes you squirm?

  • Clients showing up with “I don’t know.”
  • Managing the pressure to “perform.”
  • Using honesty and redirection to stay in alignment.

5. Advice to new coaches?

  • Get into supervision—it’s essential support.
  • Coaching can be lonely without intentional community.
  • Keeps coaches anchored, self-aware, and growing.

6. Something you’ve had to conquer?

  • Transitioning from corporate to private practice.
  • Proving to herself (and her husband) she could sustain independence.
  • Leaning on referrals and relationships rather than sales.

7. Are you using AI in your practice?

  • Not directly in sessions, but useful for writing and teaching.
  • Encourages her daughter to use it for transactional challenges.
  • Sees AI as a supportive tool, not a threat.

8. What have you learned about yourself?

  • She can do hard things and thrive as a solopreneur.
  • Built a sustainable practice without business development.
  • Relationships and trust drive her long-term success.

Fun Stuff: Favorite Movie

  • Rocky IV (music, energy, inspiration).
  • Pitch Perfect 2 and The Greatest Showman.
  • Loves movies with music and strong dialogue—even if “questionable.”